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Parenting the Intensity
by Anouk Briere-Godbout
Hey, I’m Anouk Briere-Godbout, and here on "Parenting the Intensity" we’ll talk all about how we can drop the “general parenting advice” that doesn't work with our intensely emotional kids anyway and let go of the unrealistic expectations society puts on us as parents. Together we'll find solutions and ideas that work for YOU and YOUR kids. Chances are you know what they need, but you need a little inspiration to keep going and permission to do things differently and help you fully trust that you already are a wonderful parent to your exceptional, but challenging, kids. Each week on “Parenting the Intensity” you’ll get some thought provoking and comforting exchanges and reflections on mainstream parenting so you can put things into perspective, redefine what parenting means to YOU and YOUR kids and finally enjoy your family life without constant fear of the next outburst. Take a deep breath, keep going, we’re all in this together!
Episodes
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063 - Intensity in siblings: balance, guilt and the needs of each child
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" Today, we'll explore sibling relationships with one or more emotionally intense children. The Challenge of Conflicting Needs When One or More Children Demand More Parental Guilt Children's Relationships: Is It Our Fault? Less Intense Sibling Experience How Do...
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062 - Chosen vs. imposed loneliness for parents of atypical children
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" Today we will normalize the feeling of isolation and explore the reasons for this isolation: Understanding our experience (or lack thereof) Sharing our experience (once again, or lack thereof) Judgment We will also explore the fact that sometimes we need to...
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061 - Invisible traumas or repeated failures
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" Today, we'll discuss trauma. This may seem like something that doesn't apply to your situation, but you might be surprised. We'll cover: What minor trauma, major trauma, and complex trauma are? Why it's not widely recognized in official systems and the impact...
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060 - Becoming the Confident Parent Your Child Needs
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this episode we'll be talking about parental confidence—what it really means, why it matters, and how it impacts the way we respond (rather than react) to our emotionally intense kids. Rooted in my experience and findings from my Master's degree I'll cover...
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059 - Is it Guilt or Grief? The adaptation process of parenting kids who are “different”
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" Today, we are talking about grief, because yes, we are going through a grieving process of what our life is not what we expected or what society is telling us it should be. And that might make us feel some guilt. We will dive into: What is grief in general...
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Bonus - How the Nervous System Impacts our Everyday
This is a special episode from the "Parenting the Intensity Retreat - Conflict Edition" coming up February 25th-27th! (start tomorrow) It's the live kick-off call from the Facebook group that shares how the event works and explain how the nervous system works and it's impact on the emotional...
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Bonus - Staying Calm to Support Our Kids Roundtable
This roundtable is part of the Parenting the Intensity Retreat 2025 - Conflict Edition. You can register to the retreat at www.parentingtheintensity.ca/register We discussed strategies for staying calm as parents to support children effectively and why it's important. We emphasized self-care,...
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Bonus - What if it Was Not Bad Behavior Roundtable
This roundtable is part of the Parenting the Intensity Retreat 2025 - Conflict Edition. You can register to the retreat at www.parentingtheintensity.ca/register Panelists are: Afsaneh Moradian from https://www.mlccoaching.com Allison Livingston from https://www.5stepstoconnect.com Shaqueena…
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The Parenting the Intensity Retreat is Coming soon!
This is a special episode sharing all the details about the "Parenting the Intensity Retreat - Conflict Edition" coming up February 25th-27th! You can get on the waitlist over here at www.parentingtheintensity.ca/register before February 10th or register if it's after that date! You want to be on...
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058 - End of season - Holiday and Judgment
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" This is the last episode of the season (that lasted around a year and a half. The podcast will pause until after the Parenting the Intensity Retreat in February (there might be some surprise episode once in a while but I can't promise anything). To get the...
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057 - Overcoming Advocacy Fears - With Scotti Weintraub
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" 🎙️ Excited to share our latest episode of "Parenting the Intensity" featuring Scotti Weintraub of Reframe Parenting, a returned guest. With her we delve into the challenges and misconceptions about advocating for our kids in school settings. Here are three…
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056 - How Autonomy and Interests Transform Challenges - With Danika Maddocks
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" I had the pleasure of hosting Danika Maddocks again on the podcast. In this episode, we delve deep into how autonomy and kids' interests can be pivotal in overcoming challenges, especially for emotionally intense, gifted, and twice-exceptional children.…
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055 - Different Siblings Connection - With Shruti Kumar
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" 🌟 Navigating Sibling Dynamics in Emotionally Intense Families 🌟 In our latest episode of "Parenting the Intensity," we're thrilled to have Shruti Kumar, a parenting coach based in the Netherlands, share her insights on fostering healthy sibling…
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054 - We Get the Behavior we Expect - with Gillian Boudreau
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" This new episode of "Parenting the Intensity" features Gillian Boudreaux, clinical and school psychologist. We dig deep into how we can better understand and support our emotionally intense kiddos, whether you're a parent, teacher, or just someone keen on...
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053 - There's no bad Emotions - With Penny Williams
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" In today's episode, we have guest Penny Williams, a parenting coach for ADHD and autistic families. Together, we'll talk all about the myths behind "good" and "bad" emotions and behaviors, and discuss why trying to change our kids to fit societal norms is...
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052 - ADHD in Parents and Kids - With Jo Mitchelhill
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" In today's episode, we dive into the complexities of parenting ADHD kids as an ADHD parent with our guest, Jo Mitchelhill. Jo, a coach specializing in ADHD and trauma-informed care, provides valuable insights for parents dealing with this reality. Together we...
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051 - Gifted and Twice Exceptional Kids - With Danika Maddocks
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this episode of "Parenting the Intensity," we dive deep into the topic of giftedness and twice exceptionality (2e) with our special guest Danika Maddocks. We discuss the complexities of identifying giftedness and 2e in emotionally intense children. Danika...
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050 - Self-Care and Regulation Practices for Parents - With Michele Riechman
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" We all know that parenting isn't easy, especially when our kids have intense emotions. So, let's break down how we can take care of ourselves and stay calm as a parent to support our exceptional but challenging kids. And to do that with is, we're joined by...
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049 - Navigating Big Emotions - With Lacie Newton
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this episode, our host Anouk explore the concept of the Comfort Plan and its crucial role in helping parents navigate big emotions in their children with guest Lacie Newton. Lacie, a specialist in emotional regulation, shares her personal journey of...
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048 - Co-Regulation and Co-Dysregulation - With Penny Williams
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this episode, we will explore the concepts of co-regulation and co-dysregulation and how they can help us navigate the unique needs of our exceptional but challenging kids. And to do so we are welcoming Penny Williams, founder of parenting ADHD and autism,...
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047 - Stay Calm: 7 key elements
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this episode we delve into the essential keys to staying calm when parenting emotionally intense children. Anouk introduces the key points and topics that will be explored in future episodes, offering a roadmap tailored to the unique needs of both parents...
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046 - Reframing kids who struggle - With Scotti Weintraub
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this episode of "Parenting the Intensity," we delve into the challenges and rewards of raising emotionally intense children with our special guest, Scotti Weintraub, founder of Reframe Parenting and a mother of two teens. The insightful conversation with...
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045 - Helping kids calm down, why?
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this episode of Parenting the Intensity, we delve into the reasons why we want our kids to calm down. Anouk discusses the unrealistic expectations society places on children to behave in a certain way, particularly challenging for emotionally intense kids....
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044 - Being the Parent of an Emotionally Intense Child, What that's like?
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" Today we are looking at the parent side of things, what we are experiencing as parents of emotionally intense kids. In one word: challenging In another words it can be isolating, frustrating, discouraging, stretching, feeling like we are failing...but it's…
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043 - Essentials for Parenting Emotionally Intense Kids
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this episode I'm breaking down the basic principles of parenting an emotionally intense child which are: Reframe: They are not doing it on purpose Helping them be calmer Being calm ourselves (regulation and coregulation) There is also some other essentials...
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042 - Is my Child Emotionally Intense?
Quick note: the Podcast will now be released every 2 weeks, so you can dive in the archives if you want to listen and there's no new one! Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this episode of "Parenting the Intensity," host Anouk takes a deep dive into the world of emotionally intense kids....
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041 - New Focus of the Podcast: Calm, Confidence, Connection and Community
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" It's time for a quick update on the Parenting the Intensity podcast! I'm shaking things up to bring you even more valuable content focused on parenting emotionally intense kids. I will be breaking it down into five key areas, like helping kids calm down and...
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040 - Self Care adapted to your needs - Recording from the Joy Reclaimed Summit
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" Today I'm sharing with you the recording of an interview I was on as a guest for the Joy Reclaimed Summit, organized by Linda Sanderville who was also the first guest on the podcast in episode 14. I'm sharing how I realized how much self care was essential in...
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039 - Preventing Teen Substance Abuse - With Richard Capriola
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this podcast episode, Anouk addresses the fear and concern that many parents have about their children using drugs. She emphasizes the importance of starting prevention and planning early, especially for emotionally intense kids who may be more at risk for...
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038 - Seeing Your Child Behind the Behavior - With Tonya Wollum
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" In our everyday parenting life, it's easy to focus only on our children's behaviors and overlook the child behind those behaviors. But, understanding the child who's hiding under the challenging behaviors is what will make it possible to actually help them be...
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037 - Safety for Your Intense Child and Yourself with Carrie Conrad
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this episode of "Parenting the Intensity," host Anouk is joined by guest Carrie Conrad, founder of Beating Disasters, to explore the challenging topic of dealing with emotionally intense children who engage in physically dangerous behavior. The…
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036 - Advocating For Our Kids Educational Needs with Sarah Young
Welcome to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this episode, host Anouk sits down with special guest Sarah Young, a homeschooling mom and parent advocacy coach, to discuss the critical topic of advocating for children's needs, especially when faced with the complexities of obtaining special...
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035 - The Right House for Autistic Kids with Victor Antunez
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity!" In today's episode, Anouk is joined by the insightful Victor Antunez, a father and real estate agent who shares his personal journey of relocating with his autistic daughter. Together, they discuss the impact of reorganizing their daughter's play area to...
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034- Living with an Invisible Disability with Michelle Steiner
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity!" In today's episode, we are joined by Michelle Steiner, who bravely shares her experience living with invisible disabilities, including dyscalculia, limited hand dexterity, and visual perception issues. Michelle works as a paraeducator, advocating for...
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033- Embracing High Sensitivity in Parenting with Zia Hassan
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity"! In this episode, we are joined by the insightful Zia Hassan, a highly sensitive person himself and the parent of highly sensitive children. Zia brings a unique perspective, drawing from his experiences as a highly sensitive individual, a professional...
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032- Understanding and Supporting Neurodivergent Children with Amanda Riley
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity"! In this episode, our guest Amanda Riley, a passionate advocate for neurodiversity, brings her 20+ years of experience to the table as she shares her journey of understanding and supporting her neurodivergent children. From her daughter's ADHD diagnosis…
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031- Avoiding Conflict & Power Struggles with Our Emotionally Intense Kids with Afsaneh Moradian
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity"! In today's episode, we have the pleasure of hosting Afsaneh Moradian, a homeschooling coach and advocate for effective communication with children. Together, Afsaneh and host Anouk explore the intricacies of addressing power struggles and fostering open...
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030 - Improving the Relationship with our Significant Other with Michelle Purta
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this episode, Anouk is joined by Michelle Purta, a passionate marriage coach, to explore the vital importance of maintaining a united front in parenting and fostering harmonious relationships amidst the intensity. Michelle emphasizes the significance…
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029 - Executive Functioning 101 for Intense Kids with Carrie Bonnett
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity!" In today's episode, Anouk sits down with special guest Carrie Bonnett, a veteran teacher and executive function coach, to discuss the critical role of executive function in the lives of emotionally intense children. Together, they explore the challenges...
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028- Single Parenting Intense Kids with Dr Gila
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this episode we have on parenting coach and neuropsychologist, Dr. Gila, to talk with us about the unique challenges faced by single parents (but don't run if you are not a single parent, there so many things that apply to everyone). Gila shares...
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027- Compassionate Communication and Supporting Intense Kids with Allison Livingston
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this week's episode we have on Allison Livingston, she is a Parent Coach who transforms families struggling with intense anger or anxiety /hard family dynamics. Allison shares her personal journey with her intense daughter and how nonviolent...
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026 - Fast and Easy Homemade Meals - with Elizabeth Yarnell Part 2
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this week's episode we sharing PART 2 of the episode with Elizabeth Yarnell, she’s the award-winning cookbook author of "Glorious One Pot Meals", TEDx speaker, and expert in chronic inflammation. Elizabeth shares her journey of developing time-saving...
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025 - Food Sensitivities and Intense Behavior - With Elizabeth Yarnell Part 1
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this week's episode we have on Elizabeth Yarnell, she’s an award-winning cookbook author, TEDx speaker, and expert in chronic inflammation. Elizabeth shares a personal story about her son's health struggles, stemming from food sensitivities, and the...
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024 - Bullying, Differences and Deep Breathing - With Anadamayi Baker
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this special bonus episode of Parenting the Intensity, I sits down with author Anandamayi Baker to discuss her book "Bee Coming Strong." The book addresses inclusivity, bullying, and deep breathing exercises in a playful and integrated way. Anandamayi...
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023 - Navigating the Holidays with Emotionally Intense Kids - With Jami Kirkbride
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this week's episode we are welcoming Jami Kirkbride, mom of 7 and licensed professional counselor, to tackle the rollercoaster of emotions and challenges that come with raising emotionally intense kids during the holiday season, or any period of life...
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022 - Intensity and Attachement in Adoptive and Foster Families - With Angie Grandt
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity!" November is adoption month and this week on the podcast we are welcoming Angie Grandt. Angie is not only a dedicated bio and adoptive mom but also an adoption coach, speech therapist, and former foster mom who has worked in the autism field. Together…
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021 - A healthy foundation for less meltdowns - With Keri Cooper
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity!" For today's episode. We have a special guest joining us, Keri Cooper, a therapist who specializes in working with children and adolescents. In this episode, I had the pleasure of chatting with the amazing Keri Cooper, a therapist who specializes in…
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020 - Tackling Homework Challenges - With Kristin Scott
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this week episode, Kristin Scott, who was an elementary teacher for 16 years and is now a private academic tutor, is joining us to focus on bridging the gap between classroom learning and at-home learning, especially when it comes to homework support....
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019 - Sleep Solutions for Intense Kids - With Meredith Brough
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this episode, we are having an insightful conversation with sleep coach, Meredith Brough, on the latest episode of Parenting the Intensity podcast. We dive deep into the challenges of sleep for parents, especially when it comes to emotionally intense...
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018 - When you feel like giving up...
Welcome back to "Parenting the Intensity!" In this episode, we explored the concept of giving up and how it doesn't necessarily mean leaving our children behind forever. Here are three key takeaways from today's discussion: 1️⃣ It's Normal to Feel Overwhelmed: Parenting emotionally intense kids…
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Hey, I’m Anouk Briere-Godbout, and here on "Parenting the Intensity" we’ll talk all about how we can drop the “general parenting advice” that doesn't work with our intensely emotional kids anyway and let go of the unrealistic expectations society puts on us as parents. Together we'll find solutions and ideas that work for YOU and YOUR kids. Chances are you know what they need, but you need a little inspiration to keep going and permission to do things differently and help you fully trust that you already are a wonderful parent to your exceptional, but challenging, kids.
Each week on “Parenting the Intensity” you’ll get some thought provoking and comforting exchanges and reflections on mainstream parenting so you can put things into perspective, redefine what parenting means to YOU and YOUR kids and finally enjoy your family life without constant fear of the next outburst.
Take a deep breath, keep going, we’re all in this together!
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Anouk Briere-Godbout
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