Personally, I Wouldn't

In this episode of Personally, I Wouldn’t, Molly and Ethan dive into the real psychology behind “fake it till you make it.” We’re unpacking why confidence isn’t something you magically wake up with, it’s built through action, even (especially!) when you’re terrified. From starting a new career to showing up as if you’ve got a full team behind you (hello, imaginary assistant), we’ll talk about how “doing it scared” is the ultimate antidote to anxiety. Whether you’re launching a business, pivoting in your career, or just trying to be taken seriously while you’re still figuring it out, this episode will help you step into that next version of yourself, one bold move at a time.

Is your Instagram a career killer or a career booster? This week, Molly and Ethan dive into the blurry line between professionalism and personal life in the era of oversharing. They explore why work and social media should stay separate, but also how showing vulnerability online can sometimes open doors. From how creative fields often reward personal content to how expectations have shifted since the boomer generation, Molly and Ethan break down the double-edged sword of curating an online presence in your 20s.

This week on Personally, I Wouldn’t, Molly and Ethan sit down with their friend Danny, a therapist who’s now married and living his dream life, but whose path there was anything but straightforward. Danny opens up about growing up Mormon, being sent to an abusive “troubled teens” home, his time in rehab, and the years he spent ski-bumming and living out of his car. He shares what it was like to marry at 20 (and divorce shortly after), leave the church, and ultimately rebuild his own relationship with spirituality. Now, as a narrative therapist, Danny reflects on how his tumultuous past not only shaped him but also deepened the way he now shows up for his clients.This is a good one.

This week, Molly and Ethan sit down with their cousin Ciaran—fellow gay icon, literature nerd, and aspiring therapist—for a conversation that’s equal parts heartfelt and hilarious. Ciaran opens up about his coming out journey (which happened alongside Ethan’s), what it’s like growing up in a family where half the cousins are gay, and how ADHD shapes his creativity, relationships, and writing process. From his love of books and screenwriting to his dream of becoming a therapist like Molly, Ciaran brings honesty, wit, and a little chaos to the mic.If you’ve ever felt like your brain is a bit too much or your story doesn’t quite fit the mold—this one’s for you.

This week on Personally, I Wouldn’t, we’re going fungi first into the weird, brilliant world of mushrooms. From the anti-capitalist philosophy of the rhizome (shoutout to Deleuze & Guattari) to fungal networks that mimic the internet better than the internet does, we’re exploring how mushrooms defy hierarchy and logic—and somehow solve city planning better than your local council. We’ll also get into how psilocybin use can spark neurogenesis (aka grow your damn brain), and yes, we talk about the stoned ape theory—because apparently, we owe our consciousness to a mushroom trip.Spores, slime mold, and psychedelic science? Personally, we would.

This week on Personally, I Wouldn’t, we’re flipping the mic and putting our very own Ethan in the hot seat. Molly takes over interview duties to get the real story behind Ethan—like, is his hair always that perfect? Here, we learn the shocking truth: he’s been a devoted Arianator since Yours Truly, knows every word to White Chicks, and once couldn’t sleep without his beloved stuffed Winnie the Pooh. It’s vulnerability, glam, and just the right amount of chaos. You wouldn’t want to miss it.

This week on Personally, I Wouldn’t, we’re flipping the mic and putting our very own Mollywog in the hot seat. Ethan takes over interview duties to get the real story behind Molly’s therapist origin story. From her humble beginnings as a horse girl to her current life as a hot-shot therapist, this episode spills the inside scoop on all things Molly — the good, the chaotic, and the mildly unhinged.P.S. Tune in next week for Ethan Tells All! 👀

We’re back, baby! After a casual five-month hiatus, Personally, I Wouldn’t is back for Season 2 — and we’re kicking it off with a big life update: Ethan moved in with Molly. 🏠✨ In this episode, we dive into all things roommates — from setting boundaries to learning each other's quirks (yes, Ethan leaves cabinets open), plus the art of being a decent human when sharing a space. We also swap roommate horror stories, share what’s surprised us about living together, and reflect on what makes cohabiting actually work.Whether you're living with your bestie, a stranger, or your situationship… Personally, we wouldn’t miss this one.Follow us on Instagram @personallyiwouldntpodcast for updates and behind-the-scenes chaos 💅

In this feel-good episode of Personally, I Wouldn't, Molly and Ethan break down their best tips for thriving while single. From embracing the possibility that this could be your last single era to realizing your future partner wouldn’t want you hung up on your ex, they dish out practical advice for living your best life. Whether it’s filling your calendar with fun plans, traveling solo, or simply getting glammed up for yourself, they’ll inspire you to make the most of this season. Plus, a PSA: Skip the sad playlists—this is your happy, hot single era!

Molly and Ethan are back to gently (or not-so-gently) remind you that, yes, youare evolving—even if your bank account and sleep schedule say otherwise. In this episode, they break down the sneaky ways you’ve been leveling up: caring less about randos' opinions (including that weird neighbor), setting boundaries like a boss, and finally accepting that fast fashion hauls aren’t a personality trait. Plus, why beating a dead horse is out, and being alone (and actually okay with it) is in. Grab your iced coffee, text your toxic ex “actually, nvm,” and let’s get into it.

Welcome to adulthood… just kidding, you’re not ready! But Molly and Ethan are here to ease you into the chaos that is life after college. In this episode, they break down the fine art of adulting—from budgeting like you actually have money (spoiler: you don’t), to meal prepping without crying into a bag of chips. They’ll talk about routines that don't involve binge-watching Netflix at 3 AM, how to keep your friendships alive when everyone’s too tired to text back, and—yes—actually taking care of yourself (without feeling like a total fraud). Grab your coffee, or your kombucha, or whatever it is you think makes you an adult, and join Molly and Ethan as they figure out how to survive the transition from "student" to "I’m not sure, but I’m definitely not getting a refund." Trust us, it’s gonna be a wild ride. Personally, we wouldn't miss it. P.S. Please tell us how to do taxes.

On this episode of Personally, I Wouldn't, Molly and Ethan dive headfirst into the mess of body image, body dysmorphia, and why we should all stop comparing ourselves to unrealistic Instagram filters (spoiler: they’re all fake). We’re here to remind you that real bodies—like, the kind that exist outside of Photoshop—are totally normal and way cooler than we give them credit for. From dodging the trap of body negativity to embracing your quirks, we’re setting the record straight on what a “normal” body really looks like—and it doesn’t have a flawless skin and no cellulite. So if you’re tired of feeling like you’re not enough, let us help you take back the mirror with a big ol’ dose of self-love and laughs. Tune in for a fun, fresh perspective on what it means to love the skin you're in!

If you think that you've been on some bad dates, think again. Because you've probably never had someone piss in your bedroom or secretly take d*k pics on your phone, have you? One listen to this week's episode of Personally I Wouldn't and you're going to feel a lot better about your love life. So, mentally prepare yourself and tune in to hear Molly and Ethan share the worst dates they've ever been on. We promise, it will brighten your day.

Is there someone in your life you are trying to make fall in love with you but are too scared to go to a witch doctor for a love spell? Well then this episode is for you! Because, while we can't do magic, we can offer you the next best thing, psychological manipulation. In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan divulge their tried and true methods to make someone fall in love. Molly explains how to use psychological theories like the "variable-ratio reinforcement schedule" and the "red-attraction effect" to make someone absolutely addicted to you. While Ethan discusses the power of commonalities and body language in dating. Don't miss out on these expert strategies that could give you the upper hand in your romantic pursuits—no magic required, just a little science and a lot of finesse!

Happy New Year! In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan cover their ins and outs of 2025, what's hot and what's not. Criticizing ourselves and centering men in our lives is so 2024. This year, we're focusing on self-love, peace, and fulfillment. Don't miss Personally, I Wouldn't's first episode of the year!

Happy New Year's, lovelies!!! In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan reflect on what they learned in 2024 and review their New Year's resolutions for 2025. Molly also goes over her detailed New Year manifestation prep, while Ethan discusses the big life lessons he learned in his tumultuous 2024.

It can often feel as though we don't have enough: enough clothes, enough friends, enough money, enough love. But is this really true? What would happen if you challenged that mindset? They say that "like attracts like." So if you're looking to attract more, perhaps believing you already have it is the first step to attracting abundance. In this week's episode of Personally, I Wouldn't, Molly and Ethan discuss the idea of an abundance mindset and share some tips for how to achieve it. Let's start the New Year on a high note. Don't miss this week's episode of Personally, I Wouldn't.

Let us save some time for you by sharing some of the hard-earned lessons Ethan and Molly learned throughout 2024. From the importance of gratitude to whether plastic surgery is really worth it, these two are ready to share their wisdom. Ethan also shares some dramatic updates in his career and Molly recaps her birthday shenanigans. Don’t miss one of the last episodes of Personally, I Wouldn’t this year !

As Molly always says, "No is a complete sentence." In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan discuss the importance of boundaries as they review some of their non-negotiables in life, friendships, and love. In sum, just being a good person for the most part!! Don't miss this week's episode of Personally, I Wouldn't.

In this week's episode Molly and Ethan discuss the importance of de-centering men and instead focusing your energy towards becoming your highest self. Here, Molly and Ethan do an on-air highest-self exercise, asking Chat GPT to describe a day in the life of their future selves. If you are interested in becoming the main character of your life and re-centering yourself by become clear on who you want to be, this episode is for you.

In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan divulge that they too have struggled with finances and how they have managed to make it being broke into a strength. If you're looking for advice on how to bolster your wallet, become a coupon cutting queen, and, in Paris Hilton's words, just generally "Stop being poor," this one's for you. Don't miss this week's episode of Personally, I Wouldn't!

The holidays can be tough for everyone. With family reunions, gifts to buy, cuffing season, seasonal depression, and the possibility of running into your ex in your hometown, who wouldn't be stressed. In this week's episode Molly and Ethan run through some tips to surviving the holidays as we gear up to tackle "the most wonderful time of the year." Don't miss this week's episode of Personally, I Wouldn't!

In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan cover how to decide on a career in your 20s, societal expectations, and whether or not you should make a career out of your passion. It's a short one, but boy is it sweet. Don't miss this week's episode of Personally, I Wouldn't!

In this week's episode of Personally, I Wouldn't, Molly is sick and Ethan is, well Ethan. Even still, the two are here to deliver some laughs as they review things that are embarrassing for no reason, such as using an umbrella. Like, why is it so weird that we don't want to be drenched after stepping outside for 30 seconds?? Join Molly and Ethan this week while they ask the important questions!

Life has never been more connected, with ex-boyfriends, old teachers, childhood friends, and extended family all locked in the confines of a little app on your phone. Social media has many perks (money, status, and the promise of connection), but it also has many downfalls. Join Ethan and Molly this week as they delve into the ups and downs of growing up in the age of technology and how to navigate life in the digital age.

Molly and Ethan may not know everything, but getting over an ex is something they are VERY familiar with because they have several. If you are having trouble cutting ties and just can't seem to let go of that one person, then today's episode is perfect for you. Don't miss this week's episode of Personally, I Wouldn't!

This week Ethan and Molly are talking about the best way to be content in your body, as well as how to escape the toxic cycles of diet culture. Tune in as the two share their own experiences with dieting and their tips and tricks to making sure you feel and look amazing ✨

In this week's episode of Personally, I Wouldn't, Molly and Ethan discuss aging and the pitfalls of getting older. If there is one thing they want fellow 20-somethings to know, it's that aging is NOT for the weak. However, the two also give tips for how to counteract these downsides, anti-aging for the soul (if you will). Be sure to give this one a listen!

We’ve all fallen victim to the non-committal and undefined relationship known as a situationship. In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan break down their own experiences with dating in the gray area and how to know if you’re on the road to a relationship or if you’re better off taking the nearest exit. The two also share updates on their own dating lives and Molly’s experience as the the antagonist in another couple's relationship. When it comes to love we can all use a little guidance. Don’t miss this episode of PIW!

We're back!!!! After three weeks on hiatus, your two favorite travel and romance guru's are back to regale you with stories of adventures in Italy and some tips to take with you into your next vacation. From frightening one night stands, to surviving lactose tolerance in a land ruled by dairy, these two know it all. Don't miss Molly's bar brawl with an Italian man and Ethan's brief experience as a member of the homeless in Los Angeles, this one's juicy. We missed you just as much as you missed us. Personally, I Wouldn't is back!

In this week's episode of Personally, I Wouldn't, Molly and Ethan discuss things their exes did and they still stayed. From commenting on diaper jeans to affair accusations, there's a lot. Don't miss this week's episode!

L, is for the lonely feels at night, O, is for the ozempic we need, V, is very, very emotionally unstable, E is for endless yapping. Yes, its true, love is in the air... for everyone but Ethan and Molly. In this weeks episode the two discuss what it means to find true love and the struggle of moving on from heartache. Then they break down the difference between true love, toxic love and infatuation. We also find out what their ideal man looks and acts like (No its not just Henry Cavil). Don't miss this weeks episode on LOVE!

As Ms. Sabrina Carpenter once said, "My give a fucks are on vacation!" In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan discuss why you should consider offending more people and stop caring what others think. Ethan details his love of the word "No," while Molly describes how brutal honesty can lead to connection. Don't miss this week's episode of Personally, I Wouldn't!

Ethan and Molly are back and fighting for their lives as usual. This week, the two discuss the dangers of obsessive thinking and advocate for action over obsession. Molly describes the Quantum Zeno effect, while Ethan reminds listeners of the power of manifestation. So listen up if you're ready to stop obsessing and start living.

Hey upper east siders! Molly and Ethan are BACK with a new episode for you this week on Personally, I Wouldn't. In today's episode, the two cover the highs and lows of having a crush. Molly discusses the pros of having multiple crushes, while Ethan breaks down the best ways to know if your crush is interested. So, get out your notebook and JOT THIS DOWN!

In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan offer their own take on the 5 stages of grief, how to get over an ex, detachment vs. acceptance, and the art of letting go. Whether it is the loss of a loved one, a relationship, a job, a lifestyle, or a place you considered home, this episode will help you look forward and let go of all that you're still holding on to. Don't miss this week's episode!

In this week's episode of Personally, I Wouldn't, Molly and Ethan discuss the idea that traditional values might be back in style. With the recent rise of sobriety, "celibacy eras," and masculine/feminine energies, it feels as though tradition is making a come back in 2024. Here, the two decipher whether this is just another trend or something worth considering. Is tradition back in Vogue?

In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan describe the difference between porous and rigid boundaries, and the subcategories within each. What is important to note here, is that one person can have different types of boundaries with different people in their life. This is not a "one-size-fits-all" situation. If you're interested in learning more about the types of boundaries you lean toward, this episode may be for you!

In this week's episode, Personally, I Wouldn't hosts Molly and Ethan discuss codependency, "doomsday dating," addiction, and the importance of putting yourself out there. If you think you might be a codependent, seek help and then send this to the person you're codependent with. Hope this helps! Codependents Anonymous: https://coda.org/ National Suicide Hotline: 988

In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan review the things they would absolutely never do again. From high-low skirts to falling in love with a straight man, let us just say, they have many. Let's get into it.

Underlying beliefs determine our everyday behaviors. For example, if you believe you need to be perfect, then you'll be disappointed if you are anything but. This is what Albert Ellis called "musterbation," living according to "musts" and "shoulds." In this week's episode, Molly teaches Ethan about cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), which focuses on identifying the underlying beliefs in your life and replacing them with more effective thoughts. Don't miss this week's educational (and a bit unhinged) new episode!

We've all wondered it at some point in time, the age old question, "Do soulmates exist?" In today's episode, Molly and Ethan give their definition of what a soulmate is and review three common perspectives on the idea, as stated in Alexandra Solomon's book, Loving Bravely. Moreover, the two discuss whether soulmates are found or made, who qualifies as a soulmate, and whether friends and family count. Don't miss this week's deep and thought-provoking episode.

In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan discuss the dangers of staying in your comfort zone and how to escape the "window of tolerance." Whether it’s a job you’re ready to move on from, a relationship that’s reached the end of the road, or you are simply ready for a fresh start, here are some tips to moving on gracefully and finding something that truly excites you!

Are love languages a thing of the past? Or are they a timeless idea that helps us understand how to communicate love to one another? In this episode, Molly reveals that she has a new boo and Ethan recounts an interesting conversation he had with an older gentlemen. After which, the two dive into each love language: what they are, some examples, and contemplate if they are real. If you'd like to show US an act of service, don't forget to rate and subscribe!

Sure, making friends in high school and college is a piece of cake. There are sports, clubs, greek life, and sloppy love triangles to help. But what about after that? In your mid to late 20s, finding friends can start feeling like dating. You've outgrown immature relationships and are now meeting new people and asking yourself, "Do they like me?" "Are we compatible?" In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan help navigate friendships in your 20s. Covering how to make friends, can men and women be friends, and if it is okay to be friends with your ex (short answer: NO!). Let's dive right in.

First-date nerves are the worst. Especially when it's with a stranger you met on a dating app... I mean, they could be a serial killer for all you know. Or worse, show up wearing flip-flops *gag.* In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan walk you through how to navigate a first date step-by-step. From creating a hot and enticing dating profile to setting up the second date, they've thought of every detail. Let them help you ACE THE DATE ;)

In this week's informative episode, Molly and Ethan quickly cover what it's like to be an over thinker and suffer from anxiety. As you may have heard, anxiety is today's most popular accessory, but it comes at a cost. Here, the two reveal how they quiet the buzzing of anxious thoughts with some practical tips and tricks. Most importantly, how to stop being anxious and just be hot.

We've discussed red flags in detail, but what about green flags? Although it is important to look out for things you hope someone doesn't do, it is also necessary to recognize when they are doing something right. In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan cover what they look for in a man that let's them know that he could be THE ONE. Because yes, it is "not all men." So, let's dive into how to find the exceptions, shall we?

In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan tackle the VERY Gen Z topic of manifestation and being delusional (something they do well). The mind is a powerful thing, which is why it is SO important to take control of your thoughts and use them to get what you want!! From manifesting, to the red string theory, to burning letters on a full moon, this episode has several ideas for you to become your best, most delusional self. So, pour yourself a big glass of wine, grab your journal, and plug into Personally, I Wouldn't.

In today's high-achieving society full of Rory Gilmore and Hermione Granger types, it's hard not to fall victim to perfectionism. In this week's episode, Molly and Ethan cover straight men as bottoms, the root-causes of procrastination, the drama of dating older men, and how to overcome imposter syndrome. If you have ever related to perfectionist, OCD, Type A characters like Monica Geller, this episode might be just what the psychiatrist ordered...