Placed For A Purpose

In this special farewell episode, we share some heartfelt "new news" as we officially bring the Placed for a Purpose podcast to a close after two and a half years of fun and insightful conversations on neighboring. Reflecting on over 100 episodes, we celebrate the journey, from memorable interviews and book discussions to practical insights on hospitality, evangelism, and everyday friendship. We also share updates on what’s next: one of us is stepping into a new pastoral role in men’s ministry while the other continues to write, speak, and create neighboring resources. With gratitude and hope for what’s ahead, this final episode is both a goodbye and an invitation to keep neighboring with purpose.

In this bonus episode, we sit down with Dave Ferguson, author of Bless: 5 Everyday Ways to Love Your Neighbor and Change the World, to explore a practical and relational framework for neighboring based on the life of Jesus. Dave shares how each part of the BLESS acronym, Begin with Prayer, Listen, Eat, Serve, and Share Your Story, offers simple yet impactful steps to build genuine friendships with neighbors and live on mission without turning people into projects. Through stories, research, and a focus on hospitality, the episode dives into why neighboring through blessing, not converting, is not only more effective but more faithful to Jesus’ example. Whether it’s praying for neighbors, sharing meals, or simply being a friend, this conversation encourages listeners to take intentional steps toward loving those around them with authenticity and grace. Order Dave's Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1684510880/?bestFormat=true&k=bless%205%20everyday%20ways%20to%20love%20your%20neighbor&ref_=nb_sb_ss_w_scx-ent-pd-bk-d_k0_1_14_de&crid=EFJW3UXDM232&sprefix=Bless%20neighbor CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this final episode of our “Neighboring Through the Parables” series, we reflect on how Jesus’ parables have shaped our understanding of neighboring, from letting go of grudges to celebrating the overlooked, being generous with our resources, and trusting that even the smallest acts can grow into something meaningful. We revisit key lessons from parables like the unforgiving servant, the mustard seed, the prodigal son, and the rich fool, and how they’ve shown up in everyday moments with our neighbors, whether through sharing a trash can, welcoming new dog-owning neighbors, or pushing past assumptions and scarcity mindsets. As we close out the series, we challenge ourselves (and you!) to take one step of generosity toward a neighbor, trusting that these small acts reflect the upside-down values of Jesus’ kingdom. ⁠Stories with Intent: A Comprehensive Guide to the Parables of Jesus ⁠by Klyne Snodgrass ⁠Interpreting the Parables⁠ by Craig Blomburg ⁠Bible Project Podcast series on Parables⁠ in 2020 ⁠The Parables of Jesus: A 12-Week Study (Knowing the Bible) ⁠by Douglas O'Donnell CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this episode, we explore Jesus’ parable of the unforgiving servant, highlighting the vast contrast between the immeasurable debt God forgives us and the much smaller offenses we often withhold forgiveness for. Through Peter’s question about limits on forgiveness and the real-life example of Corrie ten Boom, who forgave a former Nazi guard by faith, we see that forgiveness isn't about forgetting or excusing pain, it’s about releasing resentment because we’ve been shown radical mercy. Jesus challenges us to measure our forgiveness with the same generosity God has shown us, reminding us that true mercy transforms how we treat others. ⁠Stories with Intent: A Comprehensive Guide to the Parables of Jesus ⁠by Klyne Snodgrass ⁠Interpreting the Parables⁠ by Craig Blomburg ⁠Bible Project Podcast series on Parables⁠ in 2020 ⁠The Parables of Jesus: A 12-Week Study (Knowing the Bible) ⁠by Douglas O'Donnell CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this episode of our Neighboring Through the Parables series, we explore how Jesus uses everyday stories to reframe the way we approach prayer. Drawing from three parables, the friend at midnight, the persistent widow, and the Pharisee and the tax collector, we see a picture of prayer that is raw, relentless, and radically relational. These parables show us that prayer isn’t about polished words or perfect motives, but about persistence, dependence, and humility. Whether we feel powerless like the widow, desperate like the midnight guest, or tempted to rely on our own spiritual résumé like the Pharisee, Jesus invites us to come honestly and shamelessly before God, trusting that He is far more willing to respond than we imagine. Through storytelling and personal reflection, we’re challenged to pray boldly and consistently for our neighbors, not just once, but with a kind of gritty faith that doesn’t give up. ⁠Stories with Intent: A Comprehensive Guide to the Parables of Jesus ⁠by Klyne Snodgrass ⁠Interpreting the Parables⁠ by Craig Blomburg ⁠Bible Project Podcast series on Parables⁠ in 2020 ⁠The Parables of Jesus: A 12-Week Study (Knowing the Bible) ⁠by Douglas O'Donnell CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this midpoint episode of our Neighboring Through the Parables series, we explore how Jesus’ story of the rich fool in Luke 12 challenges our assumptions about money, security, and abundance. Parables, by nature, are subversive and indirect, they stick with us and quietly reshape how we see the world, and this one pushes us to ask whether we have our possessions or our possessions have us. We wrestle with the tension between wise saving and deep dependence on God, and how easy it is to justify inaction when it comes to generosity. Through honest reflections and personal stories, we consider what it looks like to be “rich toward God” and how even small acts of generosity, especially when they cost us something, can be powerful ways of neighboring and living out the values of God’s kingdom. ⁠Stories with Intent: A Comprehensive Guide to the Parables of Jesus ⁠by Klyne Snodgrass ⁠Interpreting the Parables⁠ by Craig Blomburg ⁠Bible Project Podcast series on Parables⁠ in 2020 ⁠The Parables of Jesus: A 12-Week Study (Knowing the Bible) ⁠by Douglas O'Donnell CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this episode, we unpack the parable of the Good Samaritan, a viral story that has endured for over 2,000 years, and explore how Jesus redefines what it means to be a neighbor. When a religious scholar tries to draw boundaries around who qualifies for love, Jesus flips the script with a provocative story that places a despised outsider, a Samaritan, at the center of compassion and mercy. We dive into how this parable challenges our natural tendency to categorize people into “neighbors” and “non-neighbors,” and instead invites us into a new kind of neighboring, one that is active, sacrificial, and fueled by mercy. Whether it’s through radical generosity, simple acts of kindness, or choosing empathy over indifference, this conversation calls us to become neighbors in the truest sense: those who show mercy, even when it’s costly. For more resources see: ⁠ Stories with Intent: A Comprehensive Guide to the Parables of Jesus ⁠by Klyne Snodgrass ⁠Interpreting the Parables⁠ by Craig Blomburg ⁠Bible Project Podcast series on Parables⁠ in 2020 ⁠The Parables of Jesus: A 12-Week Study (Knowing the Bible) ⁠by Douglas O'Donnell CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this episode, we explore the parables of the mustard seed and the leaven, two small, humble images Jesus uses to describe the surprising and unstoppable nature of the kingdom of God. Unlike flashy displays of power, these stories remind us that God often works in quiet, unseen ways, through small acts of faith, kind words, and unnoticed love. We reflect on how these parables connect deeply with the neighboring journey: when progress feels slow or invisible, Jesus invites us to trust that something is growing. Whether it’s a seed planted in conversation or the slow rise of spiritual transformation, we’re called to keep going with faith, imagination, and joy, even in the underwhelming. For more resources see: Stories with Intent: A Comprehensive Guide to the Parables of Jesus by Klyne Snodgrass Interpreting the Parables by Craig Blomburg Bible Project Podcast series on Parables in 2020 The Parables of Jesus: A 12-Week Study (Knowing the Bible) by Douglas O'Donnell CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this episode, we continue our parable series by exploring the lost sheep and the lost coin in Luke 15, two short but powerful stories that reveal God’s heart for seeking the lost and the joy that comes when they're found. We reflect on how Jesus uses ordinary experiences to invite us into kingdom truths, challenging us to take initiative with our neighbors, especially those on the margins. Through personal stories, honest wrestlings, and practical takeaways, we’re reminded that neighboring isn’t just about strategy, it’s about sharing God’s joy, celebrating small wins, and joining Him in the search. For more resources see: Stories with Intent: A Comprehensive Guide to the Parables of Jesus by Klyne Snodgrass Interpreting the Parables by Craig Blomburg Bible Project Podcast series on Parables in 2020 The Parables of Jesus: A 12-Week Study (Knowing the Bible) by Douglas O'Donnell CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

This week, we explore one of Jesus’ most well-known, and deeply layered, parables: the Prodigal Son. But this isn’t just a story about rebellion and return. It's a profound look into the heart of the Father, the resentment of the older brother, and the radical joy that comes with restoration. We discuss how this parable answers the Pharisees’ grumbling over Jesus’ relationships with sinners and ask how it reshapes the way we see ourselves and our neighbors. Whether you relate most to the prodigal, the older brother, or the one watching the road, this conversation invites all of us to come closer to the heart of God and carry that same posture into our neighborhoods. CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

We’re back! After a refreshing summer break, we’re kicking off a brand new series on the parables of Jesus and how they shape us to be better neighbors. We will learn that parables are short, compelling stories that turn our expectations upside down and reveal the heart of the kingdom of God. In this episode, we reflect on the summer and the surprising ways God is putting neighbors in front of us. We also dive into what parables are (and aren’t), why Jesus used them, and how they invite us to listen deeply and live differently. Plus, look at the Parable of the Sower—a “meta-parable” that sets the stage for the weeks to come. CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

We made it—100 episodes! In this special milestone episode, we look back at where we started, what we’ve learned, and the conversations that have shaped us. From awkward beginnings and favorite interviews to creative breakthroughs and unexpected lessons, we reflect on how this podcast has helped keep neighboring on our minds. We also share why we’re pressing pause for the summer, how we’re refueling for what’s next, and what you can expect this fall in our upcoming series, Neighboring Through the Parables. Whether you’ve been with us from the beginning or just joined in, thank you for walking this journey with us. CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

What if the biggest barrier to loving our neighbors isn’t them, it’s us? In this episode, we dive into Brant Hansen’s book Unoffendable and explore how choosing humility over outrage can transform the way we live and love in our neighborhoods. From the temptation of “righteous anger” to the gift of meekness, we unpack four powerful themes from the book that challenge our assumptions and invite us into deeper grace, compassion, and Christlike love. With honest reflection, biblical insight, and practical examples, we ask: What would it look like to be the kind of neighbors who aren’t easily offended, but who reflect the patience and mercy of God in every conversation, conflict, and cul-de-sac moment? CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In a culture where Christianity is often dismissed as harmful or outdated, how can we respond with confidence, humility, and truth? In this thought-provoking episode, we’re joined by Dr. Sharon James—author, historian, and social policy analyst—to explore the incredible legacy of Christianity’s impact on the world. From human dignity to women’s rights, from education to healthcare, Sharon helps us trace how Christianity shaped society for good. We also unpack how we can live out that same “living Christianity” today in our own neighborhoods through grace, generosity, and faithfulness—especially when the Church’s witness is questioned. Whether you’re wrestling with big cultural critiques or looking for hope in small, everyday neighboring moments, this episode will leave you encouraged and grounded in the good story we have to tell. Books: How Christianity Transformed The World Is Christianity Good For The World? CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

How can we love our LGBTQ+ neighbors well—especially in a culture where conversations about sexuality and identity can feel so personal, emotional, and polarizing? In this powerful and thoughtful episode, we’re joined by Greg Koukl, founder of Stand to Reason and author of Tactics, to help us navigate this sensitive topic with clarity, grace, and humility. Greg unpacks how to move from confrontation to conversation, why asking good questions matters, and what it means to love without compromising truth. Whether you’re wrestling with how to affirm your convictions while honoring your relationships, or you just want to be a better listener and friend, this episode offers wisdom, compassion, and encouragement. Stand To Reason Website: www.str.org Book: Tactics CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In today’s episode, we have an honest and practical conversation about how to love our neighbors who are walking through seasons of pain, suffering, or difficulty. Whether it's strained marriages, financial struggles, anxiety, grief, or even something as simple as exhaustion, we explore how God invites us to enter into the hard places with compassion and presence. Drawing from personal experiences, Scripture, and the teachings of Jesus, we talk about what to do (and what not to do), how to avoid clichés, and how to serve in ways that truly meet people where they are. We’re reminded that while we can’t fix everything, we can embody God’s love and comfort in powerful ways. Walking with God through Pain and Suffering by Tim Keller Be Still, My Soul: Embracing God’s Purpose and Provision in Suffering compiled by Nancy Guthrie. Not the Way it’s Supposed to Be: A Breviary of Sin, by Cornelius Plantinga A Grace Disguised: How the Soul Grows Through Loss by Jerry Sittser What Grieving People Wish You Knew about What Really Helps (and What Really Hurts) by Nancy Guthrie Check your Local church for ministries like these: DivorceCare, GriefShare, Cancer Care, Stephen Ministry, Counseling resources, Recovery Groups, Diabetes Support, Meals ministry, Home Repairs, Lawn Care, etc. CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this episode, we’re joined by Wayne Rice — veteran youth pastor, author, and co-founder of Youth Specialties — as he shares wisdom on how we can love and serve the elderly neighbors around us. Wayne currently serves with the Legacy Coalition, a ministry dedicated to equipping grandparents for spiritual influence in their families, and brings decades of ministry experience to this meaningful conversation. We talk about what Scripture says about honoring the elderly, how culture often sidelines seniors, and how simple acts of kindness, listening, and intergenerational community can bring joy and connection to our older neighbors. Wayne also offers practical ways families can include children in serving and building relationships with seniors. Whether you have elderly neighbors nearby or want to think more biblically about this stage of life, Wayne’s wisdom will challenge and encourage you. Legacy Coalition: https://legacycoalition.com/

Today we’re joined by Mark and Molly Parsons from Truth in Love Ministry to talk about how we can better love and understand our Mormon neighbors. With years of experience in outreach and personal relationships in LDS communities, Mark and Molly offer insight into the beliefs and culture of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and how Christians can engage with kindness, clarity, and the hope of the gospel. We explore what makes Mormonism unique, how to talk about Jesus and grace in ways that resonate, and why asking curious, respectful questions matters more than winning debates. Whether you have LDS neighbors or you're just looking to build bridges across worldviews, this conversation is full of wisdom and real-life stories to guide you in loving well. www.tilm.org CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

Today we’re joined by Jon Noyes, a former atheist turned Christian apologist with Stand to Reason, who shares his powerful story of moving from skepticism to belief. Jon reflects on what it was like to be a self-proclaimed "evangelical atheist," how Christians in his life made space for hard questions without defensiveness, and the key role that honest, consistent relationships played in his journey to faith. We explore what atheists often believe (and don’t believe), how to ask better questions instead of assuming, and how many atheists are wrestling with deeper existential questions—especially in a world marked by pain and suffering. John also discusses why understanding someone’s worldview is crucial for meaningful connection, and how the Christian story speaks uniquely to our sense of brokenness, purpose, and longing for hope. Whether you’re engaging a skeptical neighbor, or just trying to better understand those with different beliefs, this conversation is packed with wisdom, empathy, and encouragement. Website: Stand To Reason CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this episode, we dive into what it looks like to love our neighbors who are immigrants, internationals, and refugees. Donna Kushner joins us to share insights from her decades of cross-cultural ministry, including time serving overseas and her current work walking alongside refugee families in the U.S. We explore what makes the refugee experience uniquely difficult—from language and housing barriers to navigating complex systems and overcoming loneliness—and why proximity, hospitality, and reciprocity are so powerful in building relationships. We also unpack misconceptions around immigration and offer practical ways to take that first step toward connection, whether it’s offering a plate of cookies, sitting on the floor instead of the couch, or simply learning someone’s name. Donna shares stories that highlight the beauty and resilience of these neighbors and the deep joy of mutual friendship. Finding Home Again: A free small group study for refugee and immigrant families https://www.familylife.com/finding-home/ Evangelical Immigration Table: In partnership with World relief this is a go to website to learn all about how to engage with refugees and immigrants: https://evangelicalimmigrationtable.com/ Women of Welcome Facebook page: a great place to connect and learn about welcoming the stranger along with other women https://www.facebook.com/WomenofWelcome CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this episode, we dive into what it looks like to love our littlest neighbors—kids! Whether they live under your roof, next door, or pop by for snacks and sidewalk chalk, we explore how our view of children shapes the way we engage them. Kristin Jeffries, mom of four and the creative arts co-director for Crossing Kids, joins us in-studio to help us push back against some of the negative cultural narratives surrounding kids—that they’re inconvenient, messy, or burdensome—and instead adopt Jesus’ view of children as valuable, curious, and deeply worthy of love. We talk about how kids aren’t just “future adults,” but full image-bearers right now, and why it matters that we slow down to see and know them. Kristin shares stories of how kids have influenced entire families through simple faith and how neighbors (like Mr. Kevin) have become like family through everyday kindness. We also get practical: what boundaries help kids navigate the neighborhood safely? How can families engage their own kids in loving others missionally? What does it look like to live out your faith in front of the kids next door without being pushy? From praying at dinner with a neighbor friend to picking up sticks after a storm, this episode offers encouragement and tangible ways to love the little ones among us in ways that honor their personhood, reflect God’s heart, and maybe even spark deeper relationships in your neighborhood. Good Pictures Bad Pictures: Porn-Proofing Today's Young Kids God Made All of Me: A Book to Help Children Protect Their Bodies (God Made Me) CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this episode of our Loving Your [Fill-in-the-Blank] Neighbor series, we’re diving into something many of us face daily but rarely talk about—how to love your neighbor with a different parenting style. From sleep training battles to snack-time politics, from screen-time boundaries to trampoline supervision, this episode is for anyone trying to raise kids in community while navigating differing values, opinions, and convictions. We reflect on our early parenting years and the pressure they felt to pick “God’s way” of parenting—only to realize that many of these decisions fall more in the realm of opinions than convictions. We'll walk through a helpful framework (convictions, persuasions, opinions) and unpack how parenting styles like authoritarian, permissive, free-range, helicopter, and gentle parenting often stir up strong feelings—but don’t need to divide us. CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this continuation of our Loving Your [Fill-in-the-Blank] Neighbor series, we sit down with pastor and author Caleb Campbell to talk about what it means to love our Christian nationalist neighbors. Caleb’s book, Disarming Leviathan: Loving Your Christian Nationalist Neighbor, invites us to move beyond fear and frustration and instead adopt the posture rooted in empathy, curiosity, and the way of Jesus. We unpack the meaning of Christian nationalism, explore how it functions as political ideology, tribal identity, and spiritual idolatry, and reflect on the cultural forces that have fueled its rise. Caleb shares deeply personal stories from his own ministry, including the painful losses, surprising encounters, and moments of conviction that led him from combativeness to compassion. Whether you’re feeling confused, angry, or just overwhelmed by what you're seeing in churches and communities, this conversation offers clarity and hope. Disarming Leviathan: Loving Your Christian Nationalist Neighbor CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this kickoff episode of our Loving Your [Fill-in-the-Blank] Neighbor series, we’re joined by Christina Martin to explore what it looks like to love our Muslim neighbors with grace, curiosity, and genuine friendship. With over 20 years of ministry experience—including time spent living and serving in the Middle East and Singapore—Christina shares what she’s learned about building gospel-centered relationships with Muslims. From practical hospitality tips to navigating cultural differences and spiritual conversations, she helps us see that engaging with our Muslim neighbors doesn’t have to be intimidating. It starts with curiosity, humility, and a willingness to open our homes. We talk about what to expect in cross-cultural friendships, how to avoid common mistakes, why asking thoughtful questions is key, and how even simple gestures can open the door to deeper connection. Christina also offers powerful encouragement to pray for and with our Muslim neighbors—and reminds us of the beauty of being a faithful, loving presence in their lives. Sharing The Gospel With A Muslim Neighbor CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

Ever found yourself stumbling in a conversation about your faith? Or unsure how to respond when a neighbor asks a tough question about Christianity? In this episode, we’re joined by Dr. Mark Farnham, author of Every Believer Confident: Apologetics for the Ordinary Christian, to help lay a solid foundation for engaging neighbors of all backgrounds—whether they’re atheist, Muslim, Mormon, or simply hold different perspectives. With over two decades of experience teaching apologetics, theology, and philosophy, Dr. Farnham invites us to shift our mindset from winning arguments to building meaningful, respectful conversations rooted in curiosity and care. Together, we unpack what apologetics really is, why it matters, and how asking thoughtful questions—rather than offering polished answers—can open the door to transformative, gospel-centered dialogue. Dr. Farnham brings practical tools, personal stories, and biblical wisdom to encourage everyday believers to speak about Jesus with confidence, clarity, and compassion. Read: Every Believer Confident CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this episode, we explore the deep ache of loneliness—what it is, how it affects our brains and bodies, and why it's become such a defining struggle in modern life. Using the film Castaway as a launching point, we dive into the biology and psychology behind our need for connection and how God designed us for meaningful relationships. We unpack the loneliness loop—how chronic isolation impacts our thinking, our health, and our ability to connect—even when we try. But there’s hope. Drawing from both research and Scripture, we look at how small, intentional steps toward others can begin to rewire our minds and renew our sense of belonging. Whether you're feeling disconnected or wondering how to love your lonely neighbor, this episode offers a compassionate, insightful look at how we can all break the cycle of loneliness and rediscover the beauty of connection, especially right where we live. Read: Loneliness: Human Nature And Our Need For Social Connection CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this episode, we explore the surprising power of social networks and how our influence extends far beyond what we can see. Inspired by the book Connected by Nicholas Christakis, we discuss the ripple effect that spreads through relationships—how our moods, generosity, and even small acts of kindness can impact not just our neighbors, but their neighbors and their neighbors’ neighbors. We also dive into the fascinating science behind social contagion, from how emotions spread to why our actions can shape a neighborhood’s culture. Just like the six degrees of Kevin Bacon, our relationships are intricately connected, and what we do in our homes can influence an entire community. Through real-life stories and practical takeaways, God might use you to change your neighborhood, one relationship at a time. CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this episode, we’re embracing the awkward! Awkwardness is something we all experience, whether it's forgetting a neighbor's name, misreading a social cue, or simply feeling out of place in a new interaction. Instead of avoiding it, what if we saw awkwardness as a superpower in building relationships? Drawing from Good Awkward by Dr. Hannah Pryor, we explore how these cringe-worthy moments can actually make us more relatable, endearing us to those around us. We unpack the psychology behind awkwardness, including the "pratfall effect," which shows that small blunders can actually make people like us more. We also look at examples from scripture—like Moses and even Jesus—who weren’t concerned with looking cool but instead focused on connecting with people authentically. Through humor, self-awareness, and a beginner’s mindset, we can push past the discomfort and lean into real connections with our neighbors. So put down the phone, embrace the cringe, and start making meaningful connections—awkwardness and all! Self-Consciousness Scale Test: https://pryoritygroup.com/goodawkward/ CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

What does it mean to go beyond regular hospitality and show unreasonable hospitality? Inspired by Unreasonable Hospitality by Will Guidara, this episode explores how simple, thoughtful acts can transform neighborhood connections. From the story of how 11 Madison Park became the number one restaurant in the world to practical ideas like snow day donuts and welcoming gifts, we discuss how to make neighbors feel truly seen, valued, and cared for. Discover how showing up with intentionality and generosity can bring color and magic to everyday interactions. And learn how these extraordinary gestures reflect the extravagant, grace-filled love of God. Unreasonable Hospitality CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In the final episode of our Emotionally Healthy Neighboring series, we explore how to navigate trauma with compassion and care, featuring special guest Eliza Huie, a licensed professional counselor and author of Trauma Aware: A Christian's Guide to Providing Help and Care. Eliza explains the difference between trauma and suffering, offering practical guidance on how to respond when neighbors share difficult experiences. She emphasizes the importance of being present over offering quick fixes and shares how to build trust and compassion while maintaining healthy emotional boundaries. We also discuss how to practice empathy and validation without overstepping, and how to safeguard our own emotional health while supporting others. Eliza’s wisdom equips us to be a compassionate presence, showing love to our neighbors even in the hardest of times. Join us for this impactful conversation on how to be there for others while maintaining emotional and spiritual grace. Trauma Aware CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

What does it really mean to be an adult? Owning a house, working a job, or paying bills? In this episode of our Emotionally Healthy Neighboring series, we explore the deeper side of adulthood—taking responsibility for our lives, exercising God-given power, and learning to show up in relationships with confidence and humility. Drawing from Changes That Heal by Dr. Henry Cloud, we discuss the importance of moving from one-up, one-down dynamics to true peer-to-peer relationships with our neighbors. How do we relate to those who seem to have it all together? Or those we quietly judge? How can we exercise agency in our neighborhoods without fear or hesitation? Join us as we unpack what it means to embrace both freedom and responsibility—taking small but meaningful steps toward healthier, stronger connections in our communities. CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this episode of our Emotionally Healthy Neighboring series, we explore the challenge of sorting out the good and bad in ourselves, our neighbors, and our communities. It’s easy to fall into black-and-white thinking—seeing our neighbors as either all good or all bad—but true growth happens when we learn to embrace the tension of both. We discuss insights from Changes That Heal by Dr. Henry Cloud that helps us navigate disappointment, frustration, and expectations while maintaining meaningful relationships with our neighbors. Plus, we reflect on the power of grace, forgiveness, and seeing both our neighbors (and ourselves) as glorious and broken. CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In week two of our Emotionally Healthy Neighboring series, we’re tackling one of the biggest challenges of building relationships with neighbors—boundaries. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, anxious, or even resentful because you don’t know how to say no, this episode is for you. We explore what healthy boundaries look like, how they help us love our neighbors well, and why setting limits doesn’t make you selfish—it makes you wise. Drawing insights from Dr. Henry Cloud’s Boundaries, we discuss real-life scenarios, from lingering neighbors who won’t leave to spontaneous pop-ins at the worst times. Plus, we’ll share practical strategies for setting limits in a way that strengthens relationships rather than strains them. Join us as we learn to be responsible to our neighbors rather than responsible for them—so we can say yes out of love, not guilt. Boundaries CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this kickoff to our new series, "Emotionally Healthy Neighboring," we dive into the foundational concept of bonding. Drawing from Dr. Henry Cloud's book Changes That Heal, we explore what it means to connect with others on a deeper level and how bonding—or the lack thereof—shapes our relationships with neighbors, family, and even God. Join us as we discuss the challenges of disconnection, the neuroscience of loneliness, and practical steps for initiating meaningful connections in our neighborhoods. Whether you're feeling stuck in the "loneliness catch-22" or ready to take small steps towards building community, this episode offers hope, encouragement, and actionable advice to strengthen both personal and neighborhood relationships. Let's rediscover the power of connection together! Changes That Heal CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this episode, we’re joined by Kendra Broekhuis, author of Here Goes Nothing: An Introvert's Reckless Attempt to Love Her Neighbor, to explore the unique strengths and challenges introverts bring to neighboring. Kendra shares her journey of embracing her God-given personality while building connections—from awkward beginnings to thriving behind the scenes. We discuss practical tips for leaning into your strengths, stepping out of your comfort zone, and balancing connection with quiet acts of love. Whether you’re introverted, extroverted, or in between, this episode offers encouragement to neighbor well. Here Goes Nothing: An Introvert's Reckless Attempt to Love Her Neighbor CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this episode, we dive into the power of habits, inspired by the book Atomic Habits by James Clear, and explore how small, consistent changes can transform the way we neighbor. As we step into 2025, we reflect on our bad habits (like pantry crumbs and "the chair") and explore how to build better habits for fostering community. We discuss Clear's Four Laws of Behavioral Change—make it obvious, make it attractive, make it easy, and make it satisfying—and apply them to neighboring, with practical examples like smiling at neighbors, hosting seasonal gatherings, or sending encouraging texts. By incorporating these small changes, we can reimagine our neighborhoods and cultivate stronger relationships. Let’s commit to neighboring well in 2025 and see how these habits, empowered by God’s grace, can transform our communities. Atomic Habits CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In this episode, we talk with Lance Ford, author of Next Door as It Is in Heaven, about living out God’s kingdom in our neighborhoods. Lance shares practical insights on what it means to have an incarnational presence—to see ourselves as sent by God into our communities—and to prioritize hospitality and inclusion. Drawing on inspiring stories, like building relationships with neighbors labeled as “difficult,” Lance highlights the transformative power of small acts of kindness, shared meals, and open-hearted living. This episode challenges us to move beyond consumerism and isolation, to embrace our role as ambassadors of God’s love in the places we live. Next Door As In Heaven CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

What do neighboring and playing catch have in common? Ethan Bryan’s simple daily commitment to playing catch for an entire year transformed not only his life but also his understanding of connection and community. From freezing winter tosses to spontaneous backyard games, Bryan discovered how something as ordinary as a game of catch fosters vulnerability, rewires our brains, and deepens relationships. Listen and learn how this simple yet intentional act opened doors to meaningful connections, encouraged him to take risks, and reminded him of the transformative power of showing up....kinda like neighboring. Read: A Year of Playing Catch: What a Simple Daily Experiment Taught Me about Life  CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

This year-end episode is a highlight reel of the most inspiring and transformative moments of 2024 on the podcast—just like your Spotify Wrapped! We're diving into listener favorites, from the surprising power of small talk and reimagining gospel conversations to the earthy beauty of neighboring through trees, bees, and community gardens. Plus, we revisit raw and meaningful discussions on grief, humility, and loving neighbors in tough circumstances. Packed with standout clips and reflections, this episode brings you practical insights and heart-stirring stories to inspire purposeful living in your neighborhood. Top 5 episodes: Neighborhoods Reimagined: Poor in Spirit (with Jane Armstrong) How To Neighbor As a Family Neighborhoods Reimagined: Mourning (with Shelly Mayer) Neighborhoods Reimagined: Meekness (with Dr. Mike Austin) Tending Your Neighborhood Series: Tending Your Neighborhood: Community Gardens (with our neighbors Kevin & Molly Heinz) Tending Your Neighborhood: Bees with Dr. Preston Pouteaux Tending Your Neighborhood: Trees with Dr. Matthew Sleeth CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

During Christmas, the longing for peace feels especially acute, reflected in the songs we sing, the decorations we hang, and the verses we read during Advent. Both believers and non-believers desire peace—in the world, in our country, in our families, and in our neighborhoods. This guided prayer walk invites us to pray for peace in our lives, our neighbors' lives, and our communities. Scripture for this guided neighborhood prayer walk: Isaiah 9:6 For to us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. John 14:27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid. Colossians 3:15 And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. Matthew 5:9 “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God. O Day of Peace - Josh Garrels O Day Of Peace - Crossing Church Version CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

Take this in: You don’t have to be the perfect neighbor; you just have to “good enough.” Today we share a concept we’re calling “Good Enough Neighboring,” inspired by the parenting philosophy, “Good Enough Parenting.” This is not a passive or apathetic approach. On the contrary; it’s transformational. Good Enough Neighboring tells us that when we reject perfectionism and embrace our limits, we’ll become neighbors who model vulnerability and repair. Get excited, because you are about to discover the joy of being a neighbor who is “good enough.” Article: Good Enough Parenting CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

This Advent, we dive into the powerful idea of incarnational living—being fully present in our neighborhoods, just as Jesus was as Emmanuel, "God with us." Reflecting on the humanity of Jesus and His presence among us, we discuss how His example calls us to dwell and engage authentically with our neighbors. From sharing meals to walking our neighborhoods with purpose, we consider practical ways to embody Christ’s love in our everyday lives. Let’s move from being invisible in our communities to being tangible expressions of God’s love, bringing light and hope to those around us this holiday season. CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In the spirit of the season, we’re launching the 12 Days of Neighboring Challenge! Inspired by the classic Christmas carol, we’re sharing fun and creative ways to connect with and love your neighbors this holiday season—from delivering Christmas cards to hosting an open house. Join us as we unpack each step of the challenge and offer practical tips to make neighboring both meaningful and manageable. Plus, we’re adding a little incentive: complete the challenge, and you could win a $100 Visa gift card (use the link below to contact us)!! Whether you try one idea or all twelve, the holidays are a perfect excuse to show your neighbors they’re seen and loved. Let’s make this season brighter, one neighbor at a time! The 12 Days of Neighboring 12 cards delivered  11 prayers a praying 10 Hands a waving 9 smiles a smiling  8 Hot Chocolate mixes (teas, bags of coffee, mulled wine) 7 Holiday jams (cheese and crackers) 6 Christmas candles 5 Plates of cookies (honorable mentions cinnamon rolls, sourdough) 4 poinsettias (christmas cactus) 3 Mailbox convos  2 bids for help (Help w/ Christmas lights) And an open house where neighbors bring pie. CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

Gobble, Gobble! Or should we say "Grumble, Grumble?" Thanksgiving is here, but sometimes we’re more grumbly than grateful. In this episode, Dustin Crowe, author of The Grumbler’s Guide to Giving Thanks, explores the difference between feeling thankful and actually expressing gratitude. We’ll discuss simple ways to build a gratitude practice in your daily life—whether it’s through Thanksgiving traditions, reframing challenges, or creating a culture of thankfulness in your neighborhood. Let’s turn our grumbles into gratitude and connect with our neighbors in a way that reflects God’s goodness. Grumbler's Guide to Giving Thanks CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

In a world that celebrates busyness, we’re often left feeling rushed and disconnected from the people around us. Today, we discuss how we can intentionally slow down and connect more deeply with our surroundings, including our neighbors. With insights inspired by John Mark Comer’s "The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry," we’ll share practical ways to shift our mindset and create time to invest in those living around us. Let's reframe our view of time—not as a scarce resource—but as a gift we can share with others, demonstrating a love that’s unhurried, patient, and grounded in God’s presence. CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

Let’s face it—most of us are horrible listeners but don't know how to change. Today, we’re diving into the hilarious, painfully relatable ways we all miss the mark and offering practical (and maybe even life-changing) tips to reset your listening default settings. Join us for laughs, real talk, and a guide to becoming the listener everyone wishes they had! CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

Today, small talk is getting a glow-up! Rather than dismissing it as a waste of time, we’ll consider how neighborly chit-chat can be a doorway to meaningful relationships and deeper conversations. We'll discuss how the challenges—social anxiety, awkward pauses, and a lack of emotional fulfillment—are real, but by viewing small talk as an essential “icebreaker” to genuine connection, we can break through these obstacles. With this small-talk rebrand, we might start seeing it as the first step in building relational bridges—and an important way to join in on what God is already doing in our neighborhood. CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

Carolyn Lacey, author of "Extraordinary Hospitality for Ordinary People: Seven Ways to Welcome Like Jesus," joins the discussion to explore the true meaning of Christian hospitality. Carolyn shares insights from her book, discussing how we often misunderstand hospitality as simply entertaining or hosting. Instead, she reveals the deeper, Christ-centered nature of hospitality—grounded in generosity, compassion, and humility, modeled after God's own welcoming heart. She challenges us to rethink what it means to practice hospitality in our everyday lives, encouraging us to extend welcome not only through grand gestures but also in small, meaningful ways that reflect God’s generous love. Extraordinary Hospitality (for Ordinary People): Seven Ways to Welcome Like Jesus CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

Are you hesitant to share your faith with your neighbors? Matt Smethurst, lead pastor at River City Baptist Church and author of "Before You Share Your Faith: Five Ways to Be Evangelism Ready," joins us to discuss the challenges and importance of evangelism. Matt shares his personal experiences and insights on how to be better prepared to share the gospel, offering practical advice for those who may feel hesitant or out of practice. He touches on the fears and spiritual battles that often keep us silent, while also emphasizing the joy and privilege of speaking about Christ. With a focus on loving engagement, Matt helps us understand how to grasp the gospel for ourselves, contextualize it for others, and seize everyday opportunities to share our faith boldly and authentically. Before You Share Your Faith CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.

Are political conversations with neighbors just too divisive to touch? Today, we’re joined by Ken Sande, founder of two conflict resolution organizations and author of The Peacemaker, to talk about how to approach these tricky discussions with emotional intelligence. Ken shares insights on how to manage your emotions—and those of others—while navigating sensitive political topics, especially in today’s polarized climate. Drawing from decades of conflict resolution experience, Ken offers practical tools to engage in respectful and meaningful dialogue with your neighbors, even on sensitive political issues. Ken Sande's Website The Peacemaker: A Biblical Guide To Resolving Personal Conflict 17 Ways To Respond To Explosive Politics CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram  TELL US WHAT YOU THINK: Follow this link to share your neighboring stories with us or tell us your thoughts on today's episode.