Placemarker 4 Perversion Podcast

Mistress AudryLu Black and Goddess Aroya Lessons examine the intersections of BDSM practice, podcasting, and personal evolution. Their discussion navigates pop culture's influence on identity and relationship dynamics within power exchange. They explore the balance between training and domination and the value of being correctable in leadership. The conversation extends to positioning in dominance and the liberation of authentic self-expression, while addressing community safety practices, and their 'Build to Serve' bootcamp integrating fitness with BDSM elements.A munch is a casual social gathering for people involved in or interested in kink, BDSM, fetishes, or alternative relationship lifestyles.Shoe cleaner, tactile brush for sensation play.Build to Serve Bootcamp is a space intentionally created to help submissives build structure, discipline, devotion, and a deeper understanding of service. It focuses on mindset, obedience, presentation, consistency, and practical tools that support personal growth within power exchange.Elevate and Dommenate podcast: Goddess Aroya Lessons and Orpheus Black dive into the captivating world of alternative dominance. From exploring intentional dom-sub relationships to helping newbies navigate the pro/lifestyle Dom(me) world, this podcast is your invitation to an empowering and unapologetically bold journey with these remarkable Doms.https://open.spotify.com/episode/5pxDCyLJiqWE24v9rYy2u9?si=77304216fbe44e47 Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger.

In this episode, Mistress AudryLu Black, Sharkey, and Zander peel back the curtain of the furry community. They trace the intimate pathways of entry, where conventions become spaces for profound connection and belonging. The conversation navigates the complex architecture of identity, where fursonas emerge not as escapism but as expressions of self. What begins as an exploration of subculture becomes something more: a masterclass in how to build a world where the self can be seen, touched, and celebrated in its most authentic form.They also discuss the vibrant world of the furry art community and how artists find commissions. Sharkey and Zander share resources and recommendations for aspiring artists and enthusiasts.Today’s resources include the written works of:Kyell Goldhttp://www.kyellgold.com/TJ Mindehttps://furrywritersguild.com/writers/tj-minde/The Echo Projecthttps://echoproject.itch.io/Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this conversation, K. Andrew Turner and Mistress Audry Lu Black dissect the intersection of queerness, identity, and disability. They talk about navigating public spaces engineered for exclusion. Access and accommodation are not generosity; they are the minimum requirements for any community that claims to be inclusive.Their dialogue encompasses love, attraction, and the dynamics of relationships. They unpack informed consent, disclosure in dating, and the ways desire shifts alongside bodies, capacity, and circumstance. Grief is given its due—not as an ending, but as a teacher—and the conversation returns to honest communication.With humor and unflinching vulnerability, this discussion supposes that genuine connection is not accidental. It is built through openness, respect, and the courage to be fully seen.Content warning: Conversation around Grief, medical information, disability and consentFeatured toy/resource: Andrew’s Book: Heart, Mind, Blood. You can find it at the link below:https://www.amazon.com/Heart-Mind-Blood-Andrew-Turner/dp/163534526X/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=heart+mind+blood+skin+turner&qid=1594525538&sr=8-1 K. Andrew Turner writes queer, literary and speculative fiction, poetry, and nonfiction in stolen weekday moments. In 2013, he founded East Jasmine Review—an electronic literary journal, with a focus on publishing diverse writers. He was a semifinalist for the 2016 Luminaire Award in poetry. His full-length poetry collection Heart, Mind, Blood, Skin is now available from Finishing Line Press. He also has a chapbook, “Gymlationship” from Arroyo Seco Press His work has also appeared in Chiron Review, LUMMOX, Carnival Literary, Sadie Girl Press, MUSE, Redshift, and other publications and anthologies. Find more at www.kandrewturner.com or follow him on X/Instagram/BlueSky @kandrewturner.Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this conversation, Mistress AudryLu Black and Sckratch delve into the nuances of bratting within the BDSM community. They explore the various styles of bratting, emphasizing the importance of respectful interaction, understanding boundaries, and the intent behind teasing. They also explore the playful nature of bratting, contrasting it with petty behavior, and the importance of negotiation in establishing dynamics. The conversation highlights the multifaceted nature of kink, where humor, vulnerability, and emotional safety intertwine to create fulfilling experiences.Toy: NiceLeatherGear Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this conversation, Mistress Audry Lu Black and Mistress Natalie delve into the complexities of power dynamics within BDSM relationships. They explore the balance between ego and submission and the human needs that underpin power exchanges. The discussion also highlights generational shifts in attitudes towards power and intimacy, advocating for a more holistic approach to self-care and emotional well-being in the context of BDSM. In this engaging conversation, Mistress Natalie and Audry Lu Black explore various aspects of BDSM, including role-switching, favorite toys, the importance of communication, and the definitions of dominance and submission. They emphasize the significance of negotiation and the ongoing nature of power exchange dynamics, highlighting the need for safety and mutual understanding in relationships.Today’s resources include:Square Peg Toys silicone bvtt plugs https://www.squarepegtoys.com/shop/Rattan switch https://amzn.to/3M1anEHIlan Lev method – gentle, hands-on bodywork and movement practice https://ilanlev.org/en/MITPISA is a form developed to make any kind of scene negotiation easier and ensure that safety issues are addressed. We recommend using this form when negotiating pick up play, or before the execution of any scene, even one that was more thoroughly negotiated at some time earlier than the actual play date. https://kinkcollective.net/Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this conversation, Mistress Audry Lu BLack sits down with Evey Winters to explore what happens inside isolationist spaces—how the promise of belonging can quietly harden into rigid, black-and-white thinking. They unpack “red pill” ideology and the way it rejects nuance, demanding absolutes where real human experience lives in the gray.Together, they also turn toward survival and truth: why believing survivors matters, how sexual assault trauma reshapes lives, and the exhausting, often brutal obstacles survivors face when they try to seek justice. This is a conversation about listening without defensiveness, holding complexity without flinching, and choosing empathy over easy answers.Content warning: sexual assault, sexual abuse and deathToday’s resources include:Have a Gay Day: https://haveagayday.org/Wanna Learn More Network: http://www.wannalearnmore.com/Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this conversation, Mistress AudryLu Black sits down with Katherine Studley—a tax consultant who works fluently in the spicy economy—to unravel the quiet complexities of filing taxes as a sex worker. They talk about the realities that rarely make it into polite financial advice: stigma, discretion, and the very real labor of keeping your livelihood protected in a world that isn’t always kind or fair.Katherine breaks down why treating your work like a business matter—how clean organization, separating personal and professional finances, and, in some cases, forming an LLC can be acts of both self-respect and self-defense. Along the way, she offers clear, practical guidance on staying compliant, avoiding common mistakes, and building financial systems that don’t rely on shame or secrecy.Most importantly, she models what so many in this industry need but rarely receive: a judgment-free space where questions are welcome, realities are acknowledged, and taking care of yourself is not only allowed but encouraged.Important links:www.IRS.govhttps://stan.store/theonlyconsultantCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this layered exchange, Mistress Audrey Lu Black and Eve Hall approach intimacy with both curiosity and command—unpacking “Big Clit Energy” as a philosophy of confidence, communication, and embodied awareness rather than a slogan. They move through sexual health with clarity and care, touching on pelvic floor wellness, fantasy, and roleplay as tools for connection, not performance. The conversation widens to include nonverbal language, the difference between sex and intimacy, and the persistent orgasm gap—examined without shame, but with precision. Kink appears here as a framework for consent, boundaries, and deeper dialogue, while trauma is acknowledged as something that deserves patience and education, not silence. What emerges is an invitation to self-care, playfulness, and honest conversation—because fulfillment, like confidence, grows where attention is paid.Some truths linger in the body long after the conversation ends.Content warning: sexual traumawww.pleaseme.onlineOn her website, you’ll find:An intimate toy store with a dedicated kink and BDSM-friendly sectionTrusted sexual wellness affiliates and product recommendationsContact information for sexual health coaching, intimacy coaching, and Physical Therapy servicesCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this conversation, Lady Sheba moves with the kind of confidence that comes from lived knowledge—speaking as a dominatrix, educator, and artist who understands both the psychology and the poetry of her world. She traces the quiet power of makeup as ritual and signal, reflects on her stewardship at the Carter/Johnson Library, and honors leather not just as material, but as memory—stitched deeply into LGBTQ history and survival. Woven through it all are reflections on representation, mentorship, and how kink relationships continue to evolve with more intention, care, and community than ever before. Lady Sheba’s photographic installation will be on view at the Carter/Johnson Library & Collection in January 2026. Some legacies don’t just ask to be seen—they invite you to look closer.https://carterjohnsonlibrary.com/https://cjlcleather.com/Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger.

This conversation, between Mistress Audry Lu Black and Maeve McBride, delves into the intricate connections between sexuality, kink, and personal empowerment. They explore how societal norms shape our understanding of worth, the intersection of birth and kink, and the importance of education in fostering acceptance and safety in vulnerable experiences. They discuss the significance of boundaries in professional settings and the emotional labor involved in client relationships. The conversation also highlights community dynamics, representation, and the transformative impact of kink on personal growth. In this engaging conversation, Audry Lu Black and Maeve explore the importance of sexual education for future generations, the intersection of kink and societal norms, and the role of fashion in self-expression. They discuss the significance of community building and education within the kink world, highlighting events like KinkFest that celebrate diversity and learning. The conversation also delves into personal kinks and boundaries, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's desires and the nuances of consent.https://www.kinkfest.org/home.phpBook: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der KolkCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this engaging conversation, Jules Brats-a-Lot and Mistress AudryLu Black explore the complexities of identity within the kink community, particularly focusing on the experiences of 'littles' and the dynamics of age play and age regression. They discuss the importance of community, representation, and the stigma surrounding these identities, while also exploring the joy and nostalgia that come with embracing one's own little space. The conversation underscores the importance of self-expression, the beauty of individuality, and the value of achieving clear goals in adult life, all while maintaining a light-hearted and authentic tone.https://lumbersnackster-designs.square.site/Content warning: electro-play, scarification, age regressionCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this episode, recorded live at DomCon NOLA, Mistress Audry Lu Black interviews Mistress Cyan, FemDom powerhouse founder of DomCon and owner of Sanctuary in Los Angeles. They discuss embracing the intersection of professional domination and lifestyle BDSM. Their conversation includes what we can learn from each other, how we all deserve community and the role of professional doms within that community.Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this conversation, Mistress AudruLu Black and Paul Faust discuss his journey in the kink community, focusing on the events produced by Faustian Society and the aesthetic of Torture Garden. The dialogue explores the cultural differences between kink in Europe and America, the legal challenges faced in the U.S., and the complex relationship Americans have with sexuality. Faust emphasizes the importance of community accountability and the need for collaboration over competition in the kink scene. The conversation also touches on the commodification of kink and the influence of corporations on kink events, highlighting the evolving nature of the community and its events.The next Torture Garden LA is on Saturday, November 15th, at the Globe Theatre at 10 pm. This is an 18+ event with a strict fantasy/fetish dress code.Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Mistress AudryLu Black and Pretty Penny the Hucow delve into the unique aspects of Hucow culture within the kink community; explore themes of body positivity and the intersection of hypnosis and kink. They also discuss the significance of costumes in providing permission for exploration and the role of community events in fostering creativity.Content warning: Feeding kink and blood playFeatured toy/resource: Anal hook cow tailhttps://tailsoffantasy.com/products/cow-tailCredits: Producers Maypop, Mimic, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger.

In this conversation, Mistress AudryLu Black and Father Nathan Monk delve into modern America’s relationship with Purity Culture. They dive into corporate motivators, greater cultural effects, and the political implications of these ideologies. Father Nathan Monk speaks about being personally raised in the Purity Culture nexus and his subsequent study of the biblical sources (or lack of sources) that led him to lead in and eventually leave the Orthodox Church. Through his individual journey, we see the importance of autonomy and open dialogues about sexuality and sexual expression. Father Nathan Monk also discusses the life-saving ability of Narcan, emphasizing its accessibility and importance in overdose situations.Visit https://www.narcan.com for more informationDomCon New Orleans 2025 information:Beyond Ritual Workshop, October 24th at 11:30 am CTLive Podcast Recording, October 25th at 11:30 am CTIf you’re a fellow speaker, teacher or attendee interested in being a guest, please contact me at https://placemarker4perversion.com/guest-requestCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this engaging conversation, Mistress AudryLu Black and Thomas explore the world of travel-friendly kinky toys, share tips on navigating airport security with sex toys, and discuss the dynamics of dating within the kink community. They reflect on learning experiences from disappointing encounters, the importance of authenticity and humor in online dating profiles, and the role of professionals in enhancing sexual experiences. The discussion is filled with insights, laughter, and practical advice for those interested in the intersection of travel, kink, and dating.Toy: We-Vibe Chorus https://www.we-vibe.com/us/chorusVibrating necklace https://www.amazon.com/Toodoumama-Necklaces-Personalized-Y-Necklaces-Rechargeable/dp/B0DLF9L3SX/ref=sr_1_3Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this fascinating conversation, AudryLu Black and Marcelo delve into the intricacies of the kink and porn industry and explore Marcelo's personal journey. They discuss the importance of health and safety, the impact of public perception, and the nuances of negotiated intimacy in relationships. The conversation also touches on creative freedom in scene work and the role of pro-doms in the industry and reflects on the future of porn.Content warning: conversations about blood and STIs testing and protection.Featured resources: Spunk Lube, 100% silicone-based lube & IG: @LuxxGear_KinkBags large kink bag.Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this engaging conversation, Mistress Audrey Lu Black and Dr. Hillary Williamson Perez delve into the rich tapestry of Mesopotamian mythology, exploring the roles of goddesses, the complexities of relationships in ancient narratives, and the intersections of power, sexuality, and creativity. They discuss the significance of figures like Inanna, Ereshkigal, and Gilgamesh, while also highlighting the contributions of Hidwana, the first known poet, and the cultural implications of their stories in the context of gender and power dynamics.Content warning: Rape, Sex addiction, sex abuse, incest, physical assault and child marriage.Dr. Hillary J Williamson Perez is a Doctor of Philosophy in Mythological Studies with an Emphasis in Depth Psychology, MA/PhD. Dissertation title is “Union & the Underworld: the Presence and Development of Female Agency in the Marriages of Inanna, Ereshkigal, and Persephone.” P4P BibliographyBlack, Jeremy A., et al (2004). The literature of ancient Sumer. 1. publ. Oxford University Press.Enheduanna, and Betty De Shong Meador (2000). Inanna, Lady of Largest Heart: Poems of the Sumerian High Priestess Enheduanna. (1st ed.). University of Texas Press.Harris, R. (2000). Gender and aging in Mesopotamia: The Gilgamesh epic and other ancient literature. University of Oklahoma Press.Leick, D.G. (1994). Sex and Eroticism in Mesopotamian Literature (1st ed.). Routledge.Meador, Betty De Shong (2001) Inanna, Lady of the Largest Heart: Poems of the Sumerian High Priestess. University of Texas Press.Mitchell, Stephen (2004). Gilgamesh: A New English Version. Free Press.Wolkstein, Diane, and Samuel Noah Kramer (1983). Inanna Queen of Heaven and Earth. Harper & Row.Additional Book Resources:Joseph Campbell’s the Hero’s Journey, Homer’s The Odyssey by Emily O. Wilson, and Intimate Lives of the Ancient Greeks by Stephanie Lynn Budin.Credits: Producers Maypop and Siren; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this engaging conversation, Mistress Audrey Lu Black and Dr. Hillary Williamson Perez delve into the rich tapestry of Mesopotamian mythology, exploring the roles of goddesses, the complexities of relationships in ancient narratives, and the intersections of power, sexuality, and creativity. They discuss the significance of figures like Inanna, Ereshkigal, and Gilgamesh, while also highlighting the contributions of Hidwana, the first known poet, and the cultural implications of their stories in the context of gender and power dynamics.Content warning: Rape, Sex addiction, sex abuse, incest, physical assault and child marriage.Dr. Hillary J Williamson Perez is a Doctor of Philosophy in Mythological Studies with an Emphasis in Depth Psychology, MA/PhD. Dissertation title is “Union & the Underworld: the Presence and Development of Female Agency in the Marriages of Inanna, Ereshkigal, and Persephone.” P4P BibliographyBlack, Jeremy A., et al (2004). The literature of ancient Sumer. 1. publ. Oxford University Press. Enheduanna, and Betty De Shong Meador (2000). Inanna, Lady of Largest Heart: Poems of the Sumerian High Priestess Enheduanna. (1st ed.). University of Texas Press.Harris, R. (2000). Gender and aging in Mesopotamia: The Gilgamesh epic and other ancient literature. University of Oklahoma Press.Leick, D.G. (1994). Sex and Eroticism in Mesopotamian Literature (1st ed.). Routledge.Meador, Betty De Shong (2001) Inanna, Lady of the Largest Heart: Poems of the Sumerian High Priestess. University of Texas Press.Mitchell, Stephen (2004). Gilgamesh: A New English Version. Free Press.Wolkstein, Diane, and Samuel Noah Kramer (1983). Inanna Queen of Heaven and Earth. Harper & Row. Additional Book Resources:Joseph Campbell’s the Hero’s Journey, Homer’s The Odyssey by Emily O. Wilson, and Intimate Lives of the Ancient Greeks by Stephanie Lynn Budin.Credits: Producers Maypop and Siren; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

The Power of Sex: cults, control, kink and red flags with Dr. SamIn this conversation, Audry Lu Black and (Dr.) Sam delve into the world of cults and high control groups and what draws individuals to them and the forms of control that are used to keep them there. They also explore the evolution of cults from good intentions to manipulative control and the gender dynamics that come into play.Content Warnings: human trafficking, sexual abuse, sexual assault, child marriage, conversations around religion, tortureFor further reading:Stephen Hassan https://freedomofmind.com/Rick Allen Ross https://www.culteducation.com/Alexandra Stein https://www.alexandrastein.com/Yanya Lalich https://www.lalichcenter.org/Unchained at Last- group working towards ending child marriages https://www.unchainedatlast.org/Rick Allan Ross- individual therapists list: https://culteducation.com/directory-of-cult-recovery-resources.htmlExJW subredditWellspring Retreat and Resource Center- Athens, Ohio https://wellspringretreat.org/Quivering Daughters by Hillary McFarland https://www.amazon.com/Quivering-Daughters-Hillary-McFarland/dp/0984468609The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Fear-Gavin-Becker/dp/0316235776Sinisterhood podcast https://www.sinisterhood.com/Credits: Producers Maypop and Siren; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Mistress AudryLu Black has a chat with Lady Delisha about her hat kink. In this engaging conversation, AudryLu Black and Lady Delisha explore the intriguing world of kinks, with a particular focus on hats in attraction and identity, the power of transformative roleplay, and the playful nature of kinks. Content warning: insertion playFeatured toy: Strap on Me, Strapless Strap onhttps://strap-on-me.us/products/vibrating-strap-on-remote-controlledCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this conversation, AudryLu Black and the Feral Gargoyle delve into monster fucking, exploring its definitions, the importance of consent, and the personal journeys that lead individuals to find attraction in monstrous figures. They discuss identity, kink, and the power dynamics involved in monster play. In this engaging conversation, the Feral Gargoyle and AudryLu delve into the unique aspects of the monster community, exploring identities, the intersection of kink and comfort, and the fascinating world of fantasy-themed sex toys. They discuss the challenges of finding like-minded individuals, the creativity of independent artisans, and the importance of understanding one's own desires and preferences in sexual wellness. They discuss the crafting of unique BDSM tools, the cultural influences on kink practices, and the importance of consent and interpretation in intimate relationships.Resources in today’s episode: Bad Dragon https://bad-dragon.com/Bunny Flogger https://www.bunnyflogger.com/Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab https://blackphoenixalchemylab.com/Newey Cobalt Designs https://nuicobaltdesigns.com/collections/nui-cobalt-fragrancesToday’s toy is Monster Maws, silicone sex toys made to look like the open jaws of a monster with the tongue sticking out, intended for insertion.Content Warning: discussions around consent and power dynamicsCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren, and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Play with Casey GarnerMistress AudryLu Black talks with Casey Garner about the importance of play and what it does for us psychologically, mentally and emotionally. They’ll also discuss transitioning play into the bedroom with a little kink. Resources in today’s episode:The Gamemaster’s Handbook of Proactive Roleplaying by Jonah Fishel, Tristan Fishel https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/65212673-the-game-master-s-handbook-of-proactive-roleplayingUnfuck Your Boundaries by Faith G. Harper https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/46231474-unfuck-your-boundariesPeter Grey definition of play – self-chosen and self-directed. Play is intrinsically motivated; the means are more valued than ends. Play is guided by mental rules, but the rules leave room for creativity. Play is imaginative. Play is conducted in an alert, active, but relatively non-stressed frame of mind.Midori definition of play unique definition of BDSM. It is childhood joyous play with adult sexual privilege, and cool toys. Content Warning: Knife play, blood play, incest, discussions around consent, and medical information "California Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #144510 and Registered Associate Professional Clinical Counselor #15609, supervised by Kelly Van Amberg, LCSW #92157." http://caseygarnertherapy.carrd.com Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Play with Casey GarnerMistress AudryLu Black talks with Casey Garner about the importance of play and what it does for us psychologically, mentally and emotionally. They’ll also discuss transitioning play into the bedroom with a little kink. Resources in today’s episode:The Gamemaster’s Handbook of Proactive Roleplaying by Jonah Fishel, Tristan Fishel https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/65212673-the-game-master-s-handbook-of-proactive-roleplayingUnfuck Your Boundaries by Faith G. Harper https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/46231474-unfuck-your-boundariesPeter Grey definition of play – self-chosen and self-directed. Play is intrinsically motivated; the means are more valued than ends. Play is guided by mental rules, but the rules leave room for creativity. Play is imaginative. Play is conducted in an alert, active, but relatively non-stressed frame of mind.Midori definition of play unique definition of BDSM. It is childhood joyous play with adult sexual privilege, and cool toys. Content Warning: Knife play, blood play, incest, discussions around consent, and medical information "California Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #144510 and Registered Associate Professional Clinical Counselor #15609, supervised by Kelly Van Amberg, LCSW #92157." http://caseygarnertherapy.carrd.com Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

How To Talk To Your Medical Advisor About Your Kink and BDSM with Nurse JessMistress AudryLu Black sits down with Nurse Jess to discuss how to talk to your medical advisor about your kink and BDSM.Content warning: blood, sexual assault, sex trafficking, and medical information.  Featured toy: OFFICIAL Hitachi Magic Wand Original Model HV260 https://hitachimagic.com/We apologize for the sound quality in the first half of the production. It does greatly improve in the second half.Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Mistress AudryLu Black sits down with author and playwright Dana Hammer to discuss all things menstruation, specifically menstrual poverty, preparedness and of course, period sex.Content warning: Child abuse, blood, physical and sexual assault, body and gender dysphoriaLinks to some of Dana Hammer’s bookshttps://www.amazon.com/Cannibals-Guide-Fasting-Dana-Hammer/dp/1953971512https://www.amazon.com/Best-Friend-Athena-Dana-Hammer-ebook/dp/B0BHH74MNM/ref=sr_1_1?crid=VNNPD8I77YNG&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.MCH_4impkKgzJVEO21YSsRsJSGtStzKexrC9PHp2ZgEvo222xxH3HA_A12vQWsMweORK0qXpJuUujGSYjBkmeVcjVOlzKfc4rfcKOHaQmqwmb4kRf-f8s51GfOS9N2F2GftE6sQ7ZFRAqder3g1wCw.DsUjeraQinUMAHeRAHzO6SAyrzvPp1Ntep1XnmDDzRs&dib_tag=se&keywords=My+best+friend+athena&qid=1744153260&s=books&sprefix=my+best+friend+athena%2Cstripbooks%2C127&sr=1-1www.danahammer.comAlways period panties: https://www.always.comClit suckler: https://www.tracysdog.com/products/og-pro2-clitoral-sucking-vibratorCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Join Mistress AudryLu Black and adjunct professor Dr. Martin Young as they discuss their favorite philosophies and how they relate to kink.For further reading recommendations by Dr. Martin Young:https://madwizard.com/recommends.htm Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Part Two: The Fat Troublemakr Mistress AudryLu Black sits down with the Fat Troublemakr to discuss the myths around fat sex and the importance of accessibility in kink. They also talk about how to make sex more accessible and fun for all body types using resources like the wedge or a liberator. https://www.liberator.com/liberator-wedge-sex-pillow.html https://womanizer.com – duo 2 submersible https://hitachimagic.com https://tracysdog.com/collections/clit-sucking-vibrator Content warning: Fat phobia, abuse, disordered eating, and feeding abuses Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Part One: The Fat TroublemakrMistress AudryLu Black sits down with the Fat Troublemakr to discuss the myths around fat sex and the importance of accessibility in kink. They also talk about how to make sex more accessible and fun for all body types using resources like the wedge or a liberator.https://www.liberator.com/liberator-wedge-sex-pillow.htmlhttps://womanizer.com – duo 2 submersiblehttps://hitachimagic.comhttps://tracysdog.com/collections/clit-sucking-vibrator Content warning: Fat phobia, abuse, disordered eating, and feeding abuses Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Mistress AudryLu Black delves into sexy talk with her guest, Stina French. Stina hosts the online monthly series Listen to Your Skin and is the editor and publisher of the Listen to Your Skin Anthology and Take the Fruit. In today’s episode, language is kink, from sexting and whispering sweet nothings to safe words. In this episode, they cover it all.Content Warning: Self-harmLinks:https://www.thegreatbritishbookshop.co.uk/products/take-the-fruithttps://www.thegreatbritishbookshop.co.uk/products/listen-to-your-skin-an-anthology-of-queer-and-self-loveListen2YourSkin live events at [email protected]