Polite As Fuck Podcast

Is there a "right" way to live life? This week, Erica and Eli talk about life expectations vs reality and how they're finding joy carving their own paths.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

For Father's Day, Erica and Eli ask their dads a few questions about childhood, career, and what they're proud of.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

Summer 2026 is almost officially here! In this episode, Erica and Eli share what their summer vision board has in store. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

In the era of AI-generated content and mass-layoffs, Erica and Eli talk about the impacts of AI on their lives and what they hope the future holds.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

This week, Erica and Eli talk mental health and whether or not to get medicated. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

Back in 2022, Eli came to visit Erica for the first time in San Diego. This week, they reminisce on living together for the last four years—including their favorite memories and evolution of friendship.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

This week, Erica and Eli scroll through r/Advice and share their responses to people's Reddit advice needs—from dating and love languages to family dynamics and boundaries. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

This week, Erica and Eli chat about their recent creative endeavors and what they're wanting to make next.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

Is there a best or worst way to break up with someone? This week, Erica and Eli talk about their past relationships breakups and how they would prefer breaking up in the future. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

With Eli out sick, Erica enters the echo chamber of her thoughts to share some career advice from the 19 different jobs she's worked.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

The travel bug is back, and this week, Erica and Eli are unpacking all the pros and cons of taking a trip by yourself. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

With summer just around the corner, Erica and Eli chat about what wellness trends they're into and which ones they think are a waste of time and money.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

Erica and Eli are now both officially in their 30s! This week, they recap the celebration, reflect on the last decade, and what's to come in this next one. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

After finding a "should do" list from Cosmopolitan in 2012, Erica and Eli share their thoughts on what matters by the time you turn 35. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

What does mercury in retrograde actually mean? And does it have anything to do with the chaos of SLOMW? Erica and Eli discuss this and more. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

While "quiet quitting" is usually referenced for work, Erica and Eli talk about how it feels when it's your life's goals—and how to reignite the passion for what you want.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

This week, Erica and Eli talk about the talking stage—what it is, why it seems to be lasting forever, and how to get out of it.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

Join Erica and Eli as they talk about when to know it's time for a change, why change is important, and what fresh starts they're going through in life right now. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

This shortest month of the year is coming to a close, but Erica and Eli have a lot of new favorites to share—from movies and shows to crafts and workouts.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

This week, Erica and Eli take a values quiz and answer some questions for why these values resonate the most with them.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

Eli is officially 30! This week, Erica and Eli recap the birthday shenanigans and the biggest takeaways from the last decade.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

Happy love month! In this episode, Erica and Eli answer some hard hitting relationship questions as they reflect on what they want in a partnership and what they bring.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

As we wrap up the first month of 2026, Erica and Eli chat about what they're manifesting for their future selves and how they plan to make it come true. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

After finally catching up on Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, Erica and Eli chat about their relationship with technology—texting, dating apps, social media—and how it impacts their relationships IRL. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

This week, Erica and Eli share what energy they're bringing into 2026—including more hosting, more grocery shopping, and more action. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

Happy New Year! This week, Erica and Eli talk about what they're leaving in 2025. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

After recapping their holidays, Erica and Eli score how the year wnt for them across various categories.

Merry Christmas! This week, Erica and Eli share their favorite holiday movies before learning more about unique xmas traditions from around the world. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

If you're a chronic people pleaser or want to help one in your life, this episode is for you! Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

Whether you’re heading home or staying put for the holidays, Erica and Eli are here to share some tips to make the most of it without overdoing it.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

This week, Erica and Eli recap their recent educational, entertaining, and inspiring girls only camping trip.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

Happy Blackout Wednesday! This week, Erica and Eli take some time to reflect on what they're grateful for in this current season of life. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

Brittney is in town! This week, Erica and Eli catch up with her on all things astrology, lessons learned in their 20's, and what advice they're giving their future selves.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

In honor of the recent Love Is Blind reunion, Eli and Erica recap their top moments from the season, what reality dating show they'd do, and why they think love may not actually be blind. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

Eli's back from her aunt's Hallowedding weekend! In honor, Erica and Eli share what they would want in their future weddings. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

In honor of Halloween, Erica and Eli share what would be the ultimate scare if they had a personalized haunted house. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

Sometimes, the hardest part of doing anything is starting. This week, Erica and Eli recap their recent costume 10k in Long Beach and share how they're keeping momentum in other parts of life. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

This week, Erica and Eli talk about some random camera roll memories before diving into random things they do that might be weird, but you probably do them too. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

This week, Erica and Eli talk about their dream halloween costumes before diving into what they're struggling with at work and how they're navigating it. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

After picking their NFL teams for the season, Erica and Eli look into passive, aggressive, and assertive problem solving traits. They share what characteristics they resonate with most and how it plays out in relationships. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

It's officially fall and Erica and Eli are diving into all the things they enjoy and want to do this season! Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

This week, Erica and Eli share what's taking up the real estate in their brain and how they want to clean up their block.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

After sharing an insane spa experience with a special guest appearance, Erica and Eli talk about whether it works to be friends with an ex, why romantic clarity matters, and if emotional maturity plays a role. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

In this episode, Erica and Eli share their favorite little life moments and chat about how telling the deep stuff can bring people closer together.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

This week, Erica and Eli take turns doing various quizzes on each other—from their true color personality to what breakfast food says their next hobby should be.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

This week, Erica and Eli debrief how their life timelines have evolved, what their current priorities are, and how they think their future is looking.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

After sharing some life updates, Erica and Eli talk about their pre-date and post-date rituals compared to the people on Reddit.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

Happy August! After sharing what they're manifesting for the month, Erica and Eli talk about all the things they copy and where they get their inspo.Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

Summer is in full swing and so are the challenges. Erica and Eli share updates on what they're going through while still finding time to enjoy their favorite summer activities. Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.

This week, Erica and Eli recap their experience at San Diego Pride 2025—Kehlani, graphic tees, porta potties, and love! Follow PAF on YouTube @politeasfckpodcast,  TikTok @politeasfuckpodcast, & Instagram @politeasfuckpodcast.