Queen Raffy's Space

For the 50th episode of Queen Raffy's Space, I sat down with Fausat Omolara Ayinla, Nigerian author, storyteller, publisher, and creator of the Storytelling Advantage Framework, to talk about the power of stories and the journey behind writing them.We explore how she discovered her love for writing, why children's literature and historical fiction have become her signature genres, and how she develops memorable characters that stay with readers long after they've finished her books. Fausat also shares her passion for audiobooks, why authentic voices matter in storytelling, and the creative process behind bringing her stories to life in audio.Beyond writing, we discuss the realities of being an author—from self-publishing and the challenges of the literary world to the ongoing conversation around book piracy and the growing influence of book influencers. She also shares the vision behind her Storytelling Advantage Framework and how storytelling can become a powerful tool for authors, professionals, entrepreneurs, and anyone looking to communicate with greater impact.Whether you're an aspiring writer, an avid reader, or simply someone who appreciates the power of a well-told story, this conversation offers thoughtful insights into the craft, business, and impact of storytelling.Connect with Fausat Omolara Ayinla:Butterfly Cre8tive (Publishing): https://butterflycre8tive.comAdventures of Bobo: https://adventuresofbobo.comThe Storytelling Advantage Newsletter (LinkedIn): https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/the-storytelling-advantage-7473641491983327232Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kweenlahrah

For this episode of Random Musings, I'm sharing a few thoughts that have been sitting in my head for a while before I took a break from recording. From the irony of scholarship applications asking for affidavits of poverty, to realizing that some people put others down to make themselves feel better, and accepting that you can't control people's perceptions or assumptions about you.I also talk about why people are so eager to claim credit for the most basic ideas and why that's something I've been thinking about lately. Listen in, and let me know which musing resonates with you the most.

Wahala by Niki May is a book i went into Wahala by Niki May with no expectations. I was simply drawn to the cover and the title. After reading it, I can confidently say... na truly wahala!The story is packed with friendship, betrayal, adultery, revenge, power plays, and plenty of drama. One thing that stood out to me was how much of the chaos could have been avoided if people had simply been honest. So many small lies and unspoken truths ended up changing everyone's lives.Overall, I really enjoyed the book, especially towards the end when the pace picked up. I also hear it's being adapted into a series, and I'm curious to see how it turns out. Wahala has definitely made me want to read more of Niki May's work.

For the 49th episode of Bants With, I spoke with Andrew Ovo Ekpiwhre aka DrewBaba, founder of Drew Marketing Innovations (DMI), a talent management and marketing agency specialising in deal negotiation, brand development, and campaign strategy.We explore the business side of content creation, what it takes to build successful brand partnerships, and why talent management is much more than just connecting creators with brands.Andrew shares practical insights from managing lifestyle influencers, negotiating deals, developing talent, and creating campaigns that keep audiences engaged while delivering value for brands. We also discuss what aspiring creators should know about building sustainable careers in today's creator economy.This is an insightful conversation for creators, marketers, and anyone curious about the work that happens behind the scenes of the influencer industry.Connect with Andrew:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drewbaba/

This year, Reflections – Take A Minute becomes more personal. I’m sharing Qur’anic verses that have carried me — especially in moments when life felt like a test I didn’t study for.In this reflection, I sit with the reality that being tested is part of the human journey. Fear. Loss. Uncertainty. Waiting. These seasons can make us feel forgotten, but this verse reminds me that tests are not abandonment. They are part of the path. And within them, there is growth, patience, and unseen reward.Qur’anic Reflection:Qur’an 2:155Take a minute today to remember: being tested does not mean being left behind.For your sadaqah this year, please support the work of The Barakah Lifestyle NG:Wema BankThe Barakah Lifestyle NG8216316498Mint Finex BankThe Barakah Lifestyle NG1102217122

This year, Reflections – Take A Minute becomes more personal. I’m sharing Qur’anic verses that have carried me — especially in moments when life felt like a test I didn’t study for.In this reflection, I sit with the reality that being tested is part of the human journey. Fear. Loss. Uncertainty. Waiting. These seasons can make us feel forgotten, but this verse reminds me that tests are not abandonment. They are part of the path. And within them, there is growth, patience, and unseen reward.Qur’anic Reflection:Qur’an 2:155Take a minute today to remember: being tested does not mean being left behind.For your sadaqah this year, please support the work of The Barakah Lifestyle NG:Wema BankThe Barakah Lifestyle NG8216316498Mint Finex BankThe Barakah Lifestyle NG1102217122

This year, Reflections – Take A Minute becomes more personal. I’m sharing Qur’anic verses that have carried me — especially in seasons where I needed reassurance more than answers.In this reflection, I sit with the promise that difficulty is never the end of the story. When things feel heavy, when clarity feels far away, this verse reminds me that ease is not separate from hardship; it exists alongside it. It may not look how we expect, and it may not arrive when we demand, but it comes.Qur’anic Reflection:Qur’an 94:5–6Take a minute today to hold on a little softer. Ease is part of the promise.For your sadaqah this year, please support the work of The Barakah Lifestyle NG:Wema BankThe Barakah Lifestyle NG8216316498Mint Finex BankThe Barakah Lifestyle NG1102217122

This year, Reflections – Take A Minute becomes more personal. I’m sharing Qur’anic verses that have carried me — especially in moments when I needed to shift my perspective.In this reflection, I sit with gratitude. Not the loud kind that only shows up when everything is perfect, but the quiet, steady gratitude that exists even in waiting, even in uncertainty. This verse reminds me that gratitude is not just a reaction; it is a posture. And in that posture, there is an increase.Qur’anic Reflection:Qur’an 14:7Take a minute today to ask yourself: What am I overlooking that is already a blessing?For your sadaqah this year, please support the work of The Barakah Lifestyle NG:Sadaqah Details — The Barakah Lifestyle NGWema BankThe Barakah Lifestyle NG8216316498Mint Finex BankThe Barakah Lifestyle NG1102217122

This year, Reflections – Take A Minute becomes more personal. I’m sharing Qur’anic verses that have carried me — especially in seasons where I had to confront worry, uncertainty, and the fear of not having enough.In this reflection, I sit with Allah as Ar-Razzaq — The Provider. Provision is not only wealth. It is timing. It is peace. It is protection. It is doors opening in ways we did not plan. When anxiety creeps in, this verse reminds me that my sustenance was written long before my fears appeared.Qur’anic Reflection:Qur’an 51:58Take a minute today to remember: what is meant for you will not miss you.For your sadaqah this year, please support the work of The Barakah Lifestyle NG:Sadaqah Details — The Barakah Lifestyle NGWema BankThe Barakah Lifestyle NG8216316498Mint Finex BankThe Barakah Lifestyle NG1102217122

This year, Reflections – Take A Minute becomes more personal. I’m sharing Qur’anic verses that have carried me — especially in moments when I needed mercy more than anything else.In this reflection, I sit with repentance. With returning. With the truth that no matter how far we feel, Allah’s mercy is always closer. There is no mistake too big, no season too messy, no distance too wide. We are invited back, again and again.Qur’anic Reflection:Qur’an 39:53Hadith (Sahih al-Bukhari & Sahih Muslim):“If he comes to Me walking, I go to him running.”Take a minute today to remember: returning is always possible.For your sadaqah this year, please support the work of The Barakah Lifestyle NG:Sadaqah Details — The Barakah Lifestyle NGWema BankThe Barakah Lifestyle NG8216316498Mint Finex BankThe Barakah Lifestyle NG1102217122

This year, Reflections – Take A Minute becomes more personal. I’ll be sharing Qur’anic verses that have carried me, strengthened me, and reminded me of Allah in moments when I needed it most.In this first reflection, I sit with the comfort and accountability of knowing that Allah sees us — in our effort, in our quiet struggles, and even in the parts of our lives no one else witnesses. A gentle reminder that we are never alone, never unseen, and never outside His awareness.Qur’anic Reflection:Qur’an 57:4Take a minute today to pause with this reminder.For your sadaqah this year, please support the work of The Barakah Lifestyle NG:Sadaqah Details — The Barakah Lifestyle NGWema BankThe Barakah Lifestyle NG8216316498Mint Finex BankThe Barakah Lifestyle NG1102217122

On this episode of Random Musings, I reflect on the importance of standing for something, having values, knowing what you believe in, and being rooted in them. I talk about taking the year to intentionally discover the values you hold dear, the ones you are not easily moved from, and how those values quietly shape your choices, boundaries, and sense of self.This is a gentle invitation to pause, reflect, and ask yourself what truly anchors you.

For the 48th episode of Bants With, I spoke with Bridget Ibuchim-Owabie, founder of Biobranding Academy, to talk about women, visibility, and career growth. We explore why so many talented women remain unnoticed, why participating online can seem challenging, and what personal branding truly should be without the pressure.Bridget shares practical insights on building professional authority, positioning yourself for growth without waiting to be noticed, and the shifts women should pay attention to as we move into 2026. This is a grounded conversation for women who are ready to own their voice and be more intentional about their careers.Connect with Bridget:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachbridget1

2025 was a year of highs and bumps, of romanticising life and learning from the stumbles, but one thing is certain: it was unforgettable. I discovered a little more about myself and started staying grounded in my ways and the work I love.For the podcast, we published 51 episodes, crossed 100k listens, and through it all, YOU were here, standing by and supporting every step. I am deeply grateful.May 2026 be a year of growth creatively, financially, and spiritually. Dear Rockstar, own this year like it’s yours, because it absolutely can be.

There’s been a lot of conversation online about insecurity in Nigeria, with some people framing it as a Christian genocide or a Muslims-versus-Christians issue. While there’s no denying that insecurity is completely out of control, I don’t think it’s honest to reduce something this complex to a religious war.On this episode of random musings, I talk about why, as a Muslim, I refuse to carry shame for so-called “Islamic” terrorists or bandits. Anyone willing to read, learn, or even lightly understand Islam will see that what’s happening has nothing to do with the religion itself.This is not Islam. And because of that, it’s not my shame — or any Muslim’s shame — to carry.

On this episode of random musings, I talk about the Danish deception story that was all over TikTok. I kept seeing people confidently say things like, “I could never be scammed” or “that would never happen to me,” and it got me thinking.The truth is, scams are not one-size-fits-all. Just because one type wouldn’t work on you doesn’t mean another one couldn’t. And most importantly, shaming victims who have to come to share their pain and experience is not exactly the way to go because it just gives the people who commit these crimes the cover to keep doing these evil things. Did you listen to the story as well? Share your thoughts with me on Twitter via @Queen_Raffy. In this episode, I talk about why that “it can never be me” mindset is unrealistic, how judgment shows up online, and why a little humility goes a long way when we’re talking about people’s experiences.

Another round trip around the sun has been completed, and my favourite day of the year is finally here. #Year32 was a season of unlearning, shedding, breaking old patterns, and quietly rebuilding myself from the inside out. It pushed me to release identities that no longer fit and return to the One who has always carried me — the Creator who writes the script long before I step into the scene.#Year32 taught me that joy is something I can reclaim, not something I have to earn. It taught me that peace is not a location — it is a decision. And it reminded me that survival is not the goal anymore… living fully is.As #Year33 begins, I am choosing softness with strength, clearer boundaries, and a deeper trust in Almighty Allah. Whatever the future holds, I walk into it with steadiness, gratitude, and the quiet confidence of someone who has gone through fire and came out whole. Ameen.In this episode, I share the truths, lessons, and little miracles that helped me rewrite myself this year. I hope something in it touches you, affirms you, or permits you to choose joy again.Thank you in advance for the prayers, the wishes, and the love. And if you feel generous… the gifts too.

Adulting can feel overwhelming sometimes, but lately I’ve been reflecting on the little joys that come with it, too. In this episode of Random Musings, I share some of the upsides I’ve noticed, such as the communities we get to build, the autonomy to make our own choices, and the freedom to spend our money the way we want.What about you? Have you discovered any good sides to adulting? I’d love to hear your thoughts. Share them with me on Twitter: @queenraffyspacepodcast

In this episode of Random Musings, I discuss how harsh people can be towards oversharers and why that judgment often overlooks the bigger picture. If you’ve ever shared a little too much and then felt regret afterwards, this one is for you. I share practical tips to help oversharers protect themselves, set healthy boundaries, and express openly without carrying the weight of embarrassment later.

In this episode of random musings, I go on a bit of a rant about negativity because some people seem hooked on it. Everything they see, they twist into something bad. That is not a healthy way to live. I share why staying stuck in that mindset does more harm than good and why it is so important to flip the script, shift your perspective, and choose a better way to see life.

Appreciate your tribe...

Pick up that project now!!!...

Not So Terrible People by Nana Sule is a book that blends everyday human struggles with the mystical. I loved how she crafted celestial creatures like the devil and jinns with such human-like features, making the stories feel both familiar and otherworldly at the same time. Do listen to my thoughts on it and why I think you should read it, too.Grab your copy here 👉🏾 https://masobebooks.com/ng/book/not-so-terrible-people/

Life is for the living...

Nobody is an overnight success...

June was a lot, and in true Random Musings fashion, I’m here to talk all about it.From starting a brand new role as a Customer Success Manager (oh yes, Raffy is a woman in tech now 👩🏾‍💻), to attending a podcast narrative storytelling workshop by Culture Custodian that filled me with new creative energy, June had me spinning, in the best way possible.But that’s not all.I also got the honour of hosting my best friend’s wedding, which was both magical and hilarious. Oh, and I squeezed in a relaxing day at the beach with my siblings, plus caught one of the best Nollywood films I’ve seen in a while.This episode is part recap, part reflection, and part me just gisting with you about how life really came at me in June. So plug in, laugh with me, and maybe even take a few lessons because sometimes a month really does the most...

Make ir exist...Before you make it perfect...

For this episode, I talk about my lifelong fascination with the art of movies. From the Nollywood movies that sparked my interest to the new ones that I still love now. Even though the joy I once felt has shifted, my admiration for the intricate artistry behind every film remains strong. From the compelling performances of actors to the genius of editors, sound designers, and lighting experts, I appreciate how their efforts come together to create magic. What about you? What is the best movie you’ve ever seen, and what made it unforgettable? Share with me in the comments or on Twitter via @queenraffysacepodcast

Don't let your emotions rule you. ..

For this episode of Random Musings, I reflect on three powerful qualities that define Nigerians—resilience, creativity, and the ability not to sweat the small stuff. These traits have helped us thrive in challenging environments, making us resourceful, adaptable, and forward-thinking. Yet, in certain moments, they can also be a double-edged sword.How does our resilience sometimes lead to unnecessary endurance? Does our creativity sometimes come at the cost of structure? And does our ability to brush off the small stuff sometimes mean ignoring bigger, systemic issues?Listen to the full episode and share your thoughts on the topic with me via the comments or on Twitter - https://x.com/QueenRaffySpace

Now is all you have...

Never doubt your place...

In this short but heartfelt episode of random musings, I marvel at the breathtaking artistry of Almighty Allah, the greatest designer. From the graceful flight of birds to the serene glow of the moon, the twinkling stars, and the lush green grass beneath our feet, every detail of nature speaks to His perfection. You can also support me to get the podcast website back up and running here

Be brave..Reinvent the Wheel

For this episode of Random Musings, I dive into the hot topic of getting married in your 20s, sharing my personal experience of saying "I do" at 23. I talk about the importance of choosing a partner who truly understands you, knowing yourself before committing, and why the right foundation matters more than the timing. Tune in for my honest 2cents and hot take  on early marriage!

Start with what you have! In this special episode of Queen Raffy's Space, I take a moment to reflect on the incredible journey of growing my podcast to 100,000 listens. From the unexpected joys to the invaluable life lessons, I share the personal and professional growth that podcasting has gifted me. Whether you're a fellow podcaster or simply someone navigating your own creative path, this episode is packed with insights, motivation, and a few heartfelt musings on what it truly means to share your voice with the world.You can also support me to get the podcast website back up and running here

Don't dwell on the negative!

In this episode of Random Musings, I discuss something deeply important: not minimising yourself. Too often, women are encouraged to shrink their ambitions, downplay their strengths, or stay silent to make others comfortable. But that’s not who we’re meant to be.I share my thoughts on my own personal failure regarding this topic and why you should show up in your life with full confidence and embrace your full potential. You deserve to take up space, own your brilliance, and walk boldly in every room you enter.Tune in now, and let’s break the cycle of self-doubt together!

We all just need that one chance...

🎉 100K LISTENS — We Did It! 🎉Wow, Rockstars, we officially hit 100,000 listens, and I couldn’t have done it without YOU!. Queen Raffy's Space podcast started as a passion project, and seeing how far we have grown to over listeners across 120+ countries is truly incredible.To celebrate, I’m giving back with a special giveaway! Listen in to the episode and make sure to be the first to grab that cash. Also, if you want to show me some love, you can support via my Selar link: https://selar.com/showlove/qrspodEvery donation will go towards getting the website back up and running. Hit play, celebrate with me, and thank you for always listening

For the twenty-seventh episode we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Musa(AS). Prophet Musa(AS) early life was characterized by trials and reliance on Almighty Allah. You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Centra to know about his life story - ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/episode/1CChNZSgh2immxApwoKgX5?si=tbWS9Wz5QB6aFtAsyzgJFQ⁠

For the twenty-Sixth episode we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Musa(AS). Prophet Musa(AS) early life was characterized by trials and reliance on Almighty Allah. You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Centra to know about his life story - ⁠⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/episode/1CChNZSgh2immxApwoKgX5?si=tbWS9Wz5QB6aFtAsyzgJFQ

For the twenty-fifth episode we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Yusuf (AS). Prophet Yusuf (AS) was known for his unwavering patience, resilience, and exceptional beauty.You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - ⁠⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/episode/0QpwzTZ5ST2Rbyz9gR0C3T?si=URkNh6inT5aeLTQTLeQkZg⁠⁠

For the twenty-fourth episode we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Yaqub (AS). Prophet Yaqub descended from a line of devout Prophets of Allah and continued to carry the message of oneness through his progeny. He was the son of Prophet Ishaq, and his grandfather was Prophet Ibrahim (AS).You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - ⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/episode/0QpwzTZ5ST2Rbyz9gR0C3T?si=URkNh6inT5aeLTQTLeQkZg⁠

For the twenty-third episode we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Yaqub (AS). Prophet Yaqub descended from a line of devout Prophets of Allah and continued to carry the message of oneness through his progeny. He was the son of Prophet Ishaq, and his grandfather was Prophet Ibrahim (AS).You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - ⁠https://open.spotify.com/episode/0QpwzTZ5ST2Rbyz9gR0C3T?si=URkNh6inT5aeLTQTLeQkZg

For the twenty-second episode we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Yaqub (AS). Prophet Yaqub descended from a line of devout Prophets of Allah and continued to carry the message of oneness through his progeny. He was the son of Prophet Ishaq, and his grandfather was Prophet Ibrahim (AS).You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - https://open.spotify.com/episode/0QpwzTZ5ST2Rbyz9gR0C3T?si=URkNh6inT5aeLTQTLeQkZg

For the twenty-first episode we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Isa (AS). Prophet Isa (As) was a very knowledgeable man and the best human of his time. You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - https://open.spotify.com/episode/7I0aZ6ZgYXZ8ce7uUO9WkU?si=nDxCEJywQ8KFYsKozpgZZw

For the twentieth episode we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Isa (AS). Prophet Isa (As) was a very knowledgeable man and the best human of his timeYou can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - https://open.spotify.com/episode/7I0aZ6ZgYXZ8ce7uUO9WkU?si=nDxCEJywQ8KFYsKozpgZZw

For the nineteenth episode, we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Nuh (AS). Prophet Nuh showed that he believed completely in the promise of Almighty Allah, and even though his human mind could not comprehend it, he followed through regardless. You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - https://open.spotify.com/episode/3YyriHJs0vnYrDJ1wUFxdy?si=EWU5oHmzT0mZlJMiIpJjvA

For the eighteenth episode this season, we will be drawing lessons from Prophet Nuh (AS). Prophet Nuh showed that he believed completely in the promise of Almighty Allah, and even though his human mind could not comprehend it, he followed through regardless. You can listen to this podcast episode from Muslim Central - https://open.spotify.com/episode/3YyriHJs0vnYrDJ1wUFxdy?si=EWU5oHmzT0mZlJMiIpJjvA