Raising Barbara Jean and Wanda

We asked ChatGPT to tell us three things about ourselves we don't know — and it read us so hard we nearly cried on mic. 🤖 Kila & Ashley take the viral "ask your AI what it really thinks of you" trend live, mid-episode, and it comes back with answers about resilience, humor, and turning pain into purpose that neither of us saw coming. (Then Chatty short-circuits because there's no Wi-Fi in the studio.) Before the AI goes off the rails: Fourth of July on the median 🎆, a week at Tybee Island and Savannah 🌴, bacon-wrapped onion burgers off the smoker 🔥, Willie's 10mg shots turning potato salad into a hand-painted gift 🎨, and an honest, unfiltered conversation about adoptive-mom guilt — the kind nobody says out loud. Plus: what a "big back" is, why your kids are describing your fat little legs to the police, and how to tell if someone in your family is an NPC. ⚠️ Mature audiences only — strong language & adult humor. 🎧 IN THIS EPISODE • Fireworks on the median (it's not a median) 🎆 • America's 250th birthday & the decorating regret 🇺🇸 • Tybee Island, Savannah & Spanish moss 🌴 • Bacon-wrapped smoked onion burgers — shoutout Jamie & George 🔥 • Willie's shots, painting instead of potato salad 🎨 • "Big back," "no cap" & what daycare is teaching our kids 😂 • The most honest thing we've said about adoption & mom guilt ❤️ • Are some people just NPCs? 🎮 • 🤖 THE MAIN EVENT: asking ChatGPT the truth about ourselves • Why AI is an ADHD woman's best friend • Chatty vs. Siri: a technical malfunction 👉 We're 100 followers away from monetizing — subscribe so we get there! 🎙️ Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda — two moms, Kila Carr & Ashley Lamar, unpacking a whole lot of crazy. New episodes weekly.

This week Kila & Ashley get into a little bit of everything — a too-close-for-comfort snake at the swimming hole 🐍, black bears moving into Tennessee 🐻, Katie graduating from Harvard (the day this episode goes live!) 🎓, and the main event: a red-white-and-blue PATRIOTIC PICKLE CHALLENGE 🥒🇺🇸 — cotton candy pickle and all. ⚠️ Mature audiences only — strong language & adult humor. ⏱️ Chapters 0:00 Intro 1:23 Catching up (work, baseball) 7:26 A snake at the swimming hole 🐍 10:54 Bears moving into Tennessee 🐻 16:56 Katie graduates Harvard 🎓 22:53 Patriotic pickle challenge 🥒🇺🇸 37:02 Support the show + stay safe out there 👉 We're 100 followers away from monetizing — subscribe so we get there! 🎙️ Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda — two moms, Kila Carr & Ashley Lamar, unpacking a whole lot of crazy. New episodes weekly.

It's a Willie Good Episode! 🌿 Kila and Ashley crack open Willie's Remedy Social Tonic — aka the "giggle juice" — and let the good times roll. We "Willie" need a brand deal with Willies. Have your people call our people. Seriously! They shout out their girl Katie crushing it at Harvard Business School, touch on the Jelly Roll & Bunnie news, and then close it out with a chaotic on-camera chamoy pickle challenge that gets messy fast. Equal parts laughs, real talk, and foolishness — just the way y'all like it. ⚠️ Intended for mature audiences. Contains adult dialogue and strong language. 🎙️ New episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda out now. Like, follow, and share — even them whores you don't like — and leave us a five-star review. Bye, bitches! 💕

Kila and Ashley finally got the mics rolling again — and this one's a whole lot of crazy. This week we get into: - Why we HATE bullies (looking at you, Murfreesboro) and why a three-on-one ain't a fight - The "anonymous" snitch app that was... not anonymous at all - Country concert chaos: Ella Langley, Miranda Lambert, Lainey Wilson, Tim McGraw & the boring suite-life rich folks - Brett Favre needs to moisturize (somebody get this man some Aquaphor) - Big Trend Energy — GoTrend, shout out to Trend - Ashley's AStock auction addiction, a beach wheelchair, and a yard-sale meltdown - Snitch stories, red lasers, and cops surrounding the house - Mom the fixer, paraffin-wax feet, and gluing dead skin in the craft room - Praying Ethan makes it off that plane (no phone, Dad circling the airport) We met on TikTok when our stories collided, and we named this podcast after the one thing we definitely have in common — raising our mamas. So buckle up. ⚠️ Warning: intended for mature audiences only. Graphic descriptions, adult dialogue, and strong language. Listener discretion is advised. We talk about traumatic shit. 👉 Please LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE — we're really close to monetizing! Even share it with them whores you don't like. And leave us a 5-star review. Everybody love everybody. 🖤 This episode is brought to you by the Spread the Positive network. Need a mortgage? Bryan Nail with Primis Bank can help you nail it — call 615-243-3976 or visit naleyourmortgage.com.

It's our 3-year anniversary, y'all — and we're celebrating the only way we know how: yappin' about the crazy. Kila rolls in fired up about a "Karen" and we get into the big question — does everybody have one, or does crazy just attract crazy? Ashley breaks down what she learned from ADHD 2.0 (turns out ADHD brains only know two times: "now" and "not now") and how it affects us all. Plus the Hibachi laugh attack that almost killed us on anniversary night, and a CBD horror story you have to hear to believe — Kristi's sweet daddy gave her 86-year-old Cherokee mama (Miss Sally) a tincture so strong she got on stage to pray for the Governor, looked at her notes, said "I don't know why I'm here or what I'm supposed to say," and walked off. She's been telling everybody he tried to kill her ever since. Homework before next week: watch "The Crash" on Netflix — Keela's got inside intel and we're getting into it. ⚠️ Mature audiences. We talk about traumatic shit.

We're back after a month off — Kila had pneumonia (three shots, a round of steroids, and still wheezing), Ashley is deep in menopause hell, and Aniston's Mother's Day Photoshop of her mama as a 250-lb trailer-park queen with a brown-filter cigarette is officially the cover of Ashley's future memoir. Then we get into the real reason we needed to record: Delta 8 and drug-induced psychosis. Kila's nephew Ethan has schizophrenia that gets triggered every single time he touches Delta 8 — selling it at gas stations with no shoes on, ending up in Clarksville, the works. Ashley's been watching her late best friend's daughter spiral the same way: Snapchat threats, gang talk, "Indian burial ground" messages, a gun nobody can account for, and four hospital stays where the family can't get a scrap of information because she won't sign the release. We talk about why the 72-hour hold system is broken, why we need real long-term mental health housing back, and why this needs to be a PSA — Delta 8 and mental health meds do not mix. (Tennessee, get on Kratom too while you're at it.) Then we lighten it up: Ashley confesses her A-Stock auction addiction — bidding $2 a pop on six wheelchairs, a walker, ramps, a catalytic converter for a '99 Grand Am, and a chandelier — and recording Hagen's face as she breaks the news. Plus a brutally honest review of her $250 Fun Delivered undelivered-mail mystery box (a hairball-relief cat med, vaginal probiotics, "Moore Mafia" hoodie, and a Starbucks glass bear that broke the next day). Also: we're making money on the podcast now, Willa is talking in full sentences, and we're taking a short summer hiatus while gas is $4.29 — but we are not quitting. Follow us on Facebook for the next drop date. Don't do Delta 8 if you've got mental health issues. Love y'all. Bye, bitches.

On this episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Ashley is holding it down without Kila — feel better, Kila! — and she's joined by her longtime friend Kay McNabb for a heartfelt, powerful conversation you do not want to miss. Ashley and Kay have known each other since grade school in Centerville, TN, and this episode goes way beyond catching up. Kay shares her deeply personal story of walking through infertility, pregnancy loss, PCOS, ectopic pregnancies, fertility treatments, and finally becoming a mom after years of heartbreak and uncertainty. In this episode, they talk about: 💛 Growing up together in a small town and reconnecting later in life ⚠️ Kay's infertility journey, including PCOS and multiple pregnancy losses 🏥 The devastating reality of ectopic pregnancies and losing a fallopian tube 📉 Being told she had only a 3% chance of getting pregnant naturally 💸 The emotional and financial weight of considering IVF and fertility treatment 🍼 The miracle of finally getting pregnant with her son Jack after nearly 10 years of marriage 😭 What it felt like to hear a baby cry in the hospital and realize, "this is really happening for us" Ashley and Kay also get real about the mental side of infertility — the fear, the waiting, the grief, and the strange feeling of not fully believing it until the baby is finally in your arms. This episode is full of: real friendship real faith real heartbreak and real hope If you or someone you love has walked through infertility, pregnancy loss, or a long journey to motherhood, this conversation will hit home in a powerful way. 🎧 Listen now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major podcast platforms. Be sure to subscribe, rate, and share this one with someone who may need a little hope today.

This week on Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Ashley and Kila are bringing the laughs, the real talk, and a brand new segment that is already giving iconic energy: HOOD THERAPIST. 💥 In this new segment, the ladies take on questions from fans, messy situations from the internet, and real-life relationship, family, and life drama — then give their own hilarious, unfiltered, and surprisingly solid advice based on real experience. It's funny, it's honest, and it's exactly the kind of chaos you'd expect from these two. Got a question? Need advice? Got a wild story? 📩 Email: [email protected] 📲 Or DM Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda on any of their social platforms to be featured in a future Hood Therapist segment. Also in this episode: 🐣 Ashley and Kila catch up on life and all the usual shenanigans 🌷 They talk about Easter traditions now versus the way things were when they were growing up 📖 Ashley shares a special excerpt from her new book, and y'all… this book is shaping up to be something really special This episode is funny, heartfelt, nostalgic, and full of the kind of real-life wisdom only Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda can deliver. If you love: funny women-led podcasts real advice with real-life experience Southern storytelling family memories and holiday traditions raw, hilarious conversations …then this is the episode for you. 🎧 Listen now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major podcast platforms. Be sure to subscribe, rate, share, and send in your stories for the next round of Hood Therapist.

We're back, y'all — and we didn't waste any time. Ashley and Kayla are fresh off a night at the Ryman catching Danae Hayes' stand-up show (meet and greet included), and they have thoughts. From tin can phones for kids to Cassie's chaotic going-away party where the whole family finally ended up in the same room, this episode is everything you didn't know you needed. The girls dive deep into Hollywood conspiracy theories — skin suits, 450-year-old actors, Cat Williams, and why wearing a dress on TV means more than you think. Plus: the Taylor Paul/Bachelorette drama, the Duggar mess, Nashville Electric getting vandalized after the storm, and how social media is giving real talent a shot without owing anyone anything. Oh, and maybe it's fluoxetine. Maybe it's Maybelline. Either way, we love y'all. See you next week.

On this episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Kila and Ashley are back doing what they do best — talking about all the usual stuff, going off on wild tangents, laughing through life, and somehow getting real in the middle of all the chaos. This one is hilarious, heartfelt, and all over the place in the best way as the ladies get into: healing childhood trauma and how those old wounds still show up in adulthood the random habits, reactions, and survival modes that make way more sense when you realize where they came from everyday life updates, side quests, and the usual Barbara Jean & Wanda-level nonsense plenty of unfiltered laughter, relatable stories, and "how did we even get on this topic?" moments It's one of those episodes where you'll laugh hard, probably nod along a few times, and maybe even feel a little seen too. If you love funny podcasts with real conversations, Southern storytelling, healing while still being a mess, and two women keeping it honest about life, family, and everything in between — this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major podcast platforms. Be sure to subscribe, rate, and share with your people!

In this special episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Kila and Ashley are celebrating something BIG — the 6-year anniversary of Kila and her sister Dixie finding each other. 🥹💛 It's their "sisterversary", and the vibes are emotional, hilarious, and very on-brand. Dixie joins the show as they look back on: 💌 How they first connected and the day Dixie found Kila 🗓️ Why it feels like it's been both a lifetime and "only three years" 💬 How quickly "strangers" became family, group chats, inside jokes, and all Of course, it wouldn't be an RBJ&W episode without some chaos and side quests: 🚐 Dixie's RV Life – moving out of the house and into the RV, adjusting with two big dogs, and figuring out what "home" looks like now 🌪️ Storm Panic & Power Outages – Kila prepping for the worst with firewood and backup plans, realizing she actually has gas heat, and talking about folks who went 11 days without power 💇‍♀️ Julie's Hair vs Todd's Chick-fil-A – the ongoing saga of poor Julie not getting her hair colored while Todd is out here living his best life eating Chick-fil-A weekly 🥴 "Do you need a kidney or something?" – when Dixie suddenly wants to come stay with them for a month, the girls jokingly question her motives in true sister fashion Underneath all the laughter and nonsense is something really beautiful: This episode is about chosen family, late-in-life siblings, and what it means when someone goes from a stranger… to "my people" in just a few years. If you love: Real-life reunion stories Sister banter Southern chaos and storytelling Tangents about weather, RVs, hair, food, and everything in between …you're gonna love this one. 🎧 Listen now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share—especially with someone who's ever dreamed of finding missing pieces of their family.

The Daniel Martin saga just keeps getting wilder. In this latest episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Kila and Ashley are joined once again by Jessica Reynolds and Jason Bennett for another jaw-dropping update on one of Middle Tennessee's most notorious con men. Jessica — who's now taken her story to the news — walks everyone through the latest developments, while Jason helps break down the legal side of this ever-growing mess. From civil judgments to criminal warrants, this episode is packed with details that sound like a movie… but sadly, it's all real. Here's what they get into: 🧾 Million-Dollar Judgment & Prior Victims They revisit one of Daniel's earlier victims — a woman who invested around $300,000 and won a $1.3 million judgment against him for fraud, theft, and emotional damage. Even though she never saw the money, that judgment proved what he was doing long before Jessica's story began. 🏕️ The Camper, the Harley & the Lies Jessica shares more about how Daniel moved her and her kids into a camper she later learned wasn't even his. On top of that, there's the Harley he swore he was making payments on — right up until someone knocked on Jessica's door looking for it. She's got ring camera footage of the guy coming to repossess it, and it's just one small piece of a much bigger scam trail. ⚖️ Warrants, Court Dates & Extradition Talk Jason breaks down: How multiple counties and states (including McMinnville, Shelbyville, and Kentucky) are now involved The difference between civil judgments, arrest warrants, and bench warrants How and why law enforcement sometimes can't find someone who keeps moving and using different addresses Why it's so important that every victim files a report, even if they don't think anything will happen They talk about how at one point, law enforcement literally couldn't find him to serve him, and how he finally got picked up coming back through customs in Miami after a Mexico trip. 💔 More Women, More States, Same Pattern Jessica shares that she is STILL getting messages from women across multiple states — Tennessee, Kentucky, and beyond — who are dealing with the same man, the same lies, and the same financial and emotional damage. They talk about: How he isolates women How he love bombs, lies, and then drains everything Why so many women feel embarrassed or ashamed and don't want to come forward And most importantly, they stress this: IT. IS. NOT. YOUR. FAULT. 💬 A Message to Anyone Affected This episode isn't just about the drama — it's about helping people: Encouraging victims to document everything File police reports, small claims, or civil suits where possible Understand that even if they never see the money, having paper trails and records can stop people like this from hurting more people As always, Kila and Ashley bring their signature mix of humor, outrage, and heart, reacting in real time to some of Jason and Jessica's latest updates and stories. If you've been following the Daniel Martin story, are into true crime meets real life, or just want to hear how women are standing up, speaking out, and trying to stop a serial conman — this episode is a must-listen. 🎧 Listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms. 👉 Please share this episode, especially if you're in Middle Tennessee or know someone who might have crossed paths with Daniel Martin. The more eyes and ears on this, the better chance there is of getting justice for everyone he's hurt.

On this episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Ashley and Kila are back with a mix of true crime chaos, personal growth, and their signature unfiltered storytelling. First up: 🕵️‍♀️ The Latest on Daniel Martin If you've been following the Daniel Martin saga, you know this dude is a full-blown con man with a trail of wreckage behind him. The ladies dig into: What they've found digging through public records How arrest warrants generally don't expire and can remain active indefinitely The absolutely ridiculous claim he made involving Jerry Jones (yes, the Dallas Cowboys' Jerry Jones) Why they're honestly surprised Jerry hasn't hit him with a defamation of character lawsuit They also talk about how Jessica is still getting messages from people all over the place who've crossed paths with Daniel, and how truly insane and disturbing the pattern is. Then the episode takes a more personal and powerful turn: 📖 Ashley Is Writing Her Memoir Ashley opens up about starting to write her own story—not just about Daniel, but about her life, everything she's been through, and the person she's become through it all. She shares: How it feels to finally put her life on paper Why her first draft felt like a "4.7 out of 10" The balance between being honest, being vulnerable, and not sugarcoating anything The healing (and heaviness) that comes with revisiting old wounds and turning them into something meaningful Throughout the episode, Kila and Ashley also touch on: The importance of sticking to facts when talking about real people and real situations Advice from their lawyer on how to protect themselves while still telling the truth Using humor, honesty, and community to work through trauma And because it wouldn't be Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda without it, you'll also get: Jail and courtroom side stories Dark humor in all the right (and wrong) places The ongoing reminder: 👉 "We can talk shit about our mammas, but nobody else can." If you're into real-life scam stories, women taking their power back, and raw, hilarious, honest conversation, this episode is absolutely for you. 🎧 Listen now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share—especially with someone who's ever said, "One day I'm gonna write a book about all this…" and meant it.

Kila and Ashley are BACK for the first Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda episode of 2026, and of course it's pure holiday-debrief chaos in the best way. 🎙️✨ This episode is a hilarious, real, and super relatable recap of: 🎄 Christmas & Holiday Madness The ladies catch up on how Christmas really went down— • One of the kids officially moved into her first apartment (hello adulting 👏) • Christmas gifts turned into crockpots, cleaning supplies, and stuff that screams: "I'm grown now" • Stockings, spending, and wondering if they're nailing it as moms or totally winging it 🧝‍♂️ Elf on the Shelf Drama They go all in on: • Why Elf on the Shelf is a personal attack on moms • How nobody warned them they needed to shove wire inside the elves to make them pose • Last-minute elf hacks like Velcro hands and pure desperation If you've ever forgotten to move the elf until 6am, this one's for you. 🏰 Disney vs Universal & The Big Trip Reveal The kids' big Christmas surprise?  A trip to Disney and/or Universal. Kila and Ashley break down: • Universal vs Disney – which is better for teens, big kids, and chaos • The pressure of giving your kids "magical memories" while your bank account is screaming • How different it feels raising kids now vs growing up on layaway and one big tree gift 💸 "Y'all Are Rich" – When Kids See Your Life Differently The funniest moment? A little cousin comes over, sees the pool, stairs, and TVs and declares: "I want to live here. Y'all are RICH." Meanwhile, Kila and Ashley are like, "We're just tired and on payment plans." They talk about: • How kids define being "rich" • The weird guilt of doing better than how you grew up • Remembering that what feels normal now would've felt like luxury back then 🧹 Officially Old & Loving It They also confess their favorite gifts this year were: • A fancy green carpet shampooer • A heat gun • And a pink mini fridge If cleaning gadgets and home stuff excite you more than jewelry at this point—you're in the right place. This episode is funny, honest, and the perfect New Year kickoff for anyone trying to juggle kids, money, expectations, and a little bit of magic (with a lot of sarcasm). 🎧 Listen now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share with a friend who's ever been called "rich" by a kid while checking their bank app in panic. 💀

On this episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Kila and Ashley are in full storytelling mode with an episode that's equal parts hilarious, nostalgic, disgusting (you'll see 👀), and downright sweet. They kick things off talking about Delilah – yes, the late-night radio legend – and how her voice was the emotional soundtrack of the 90s. That memory throws them straight back into childhood: long car rides, fireworks on bridges, "crying, loving, or leaving" on 95.5, and even remembering exactly where they were the day Tupac died. It's a deep dive into those oddly specific core memories that never leave you. From there, the conversation hits all over: • 🎙️ Delilah, radio nights & 90s nostalgia – calling in for love advice, listening to strangers air out their relationships, and wondering how in the world she just went viral on TikTok now. • 🧠 Mom guilt & judgment – talking about how quick people are to judge moms (especially online), from smoking to how they parent, while never offering real help or support. • 📱 TikTok creators vs real-life memories – unpacking the weirdness of people filming everything for content instead of just living in the moment, and the pressure it puts on "regular" moms who are just trying to survive the day. • 🤢 The most disgusting bus story ever told – featuring the greenest, longest booger and a man on the verge of throwing up. If you've got a weak stomach, consider this your warning… but also, it's absolutely hilarious. • 👑 Pageant life & little girl wins – a sweet story about helping a little girl get ready for a competition, doing her hair and makeup, nerves and all—and her priceless reaction to winning "two of them stick things and some flowers" (aka TROPHIES). • 💒 Cassie's wedding chaos – Kila's sister Cassie is officially a married woman, and the recap does not disappoint. From getting ready at the event space, doing hair and makeup, hyping Cassie up like the queen she is, to all the emotional, funny, and chaotic moments only a family wedding can bring—this segment is pure gold. They close things out with some holiday talk—being grateful, dealing with family, and of course the great debate: stuffing vs dressing (spoiler: it's dressing around here 🦃). If you love: • Southern storytelling • Real talk about motherhood & mental load • 90s nostalgia (Tupac, Delilah, radio love lines) • TikTok culture critiques • Wedding chaos & family comedy …this episode is absolutely your vibe. 🎧 Listen now on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Make sure to subscribe, rate, and share with someone who remembers Delilah and Tupac days—or someone who's planning a wedding and needs a laugh.

In this extra wild episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Kila and Ashley go LIVE for the very first time—and y'all, it's pure chaos in the best way! From Uno Card Tarot Readings that somehow get way too real to off-the-rails convos about being cat moms, this episode is packed with laughs, surprises, and a touch of psychic energy. Whether you're here for the unfiltered vibes, the unexpected Uno revelations, or just wanna hang with your favorite hilarious duo, this one's for you. Plus, Ashley might be a medium now…? 🔥 Tune in, drop a comment, and let us know what cards you're pulling! 🔮 Featuring: Live Uno Tarot Readings Spontaneous psychic discoveries Shoutouts to the listeners Hilarious hot takes and good vibes   🎧 Follow us & stay tuned for more: IG: @raisingbarbarajeanandwanda 📍Streaming on all major podcast platforms & YouTube!

This week on Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Ashley and Kila are catching up before the chaos of their first-ever live episode. They get into Ashley's big therapy revelations, why sometimes you just need a pause, and what's been going on behind the scenes. Kila's got her petty pants on, Ashley's self-reflecting like a champ, and the dynamic duo is bringing all the realness and laughs you've come to love. Plus, they spill some tea on parenting moments, TikTok rabbit holes, and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with running a podcast that's this real. 🚨 Heads up: this one sets the stage for what's to come — the LIVE shenanigans, special guests, and more unfiltered chaos. You won't want to miss it. 🎧 Tune in now, and don't forget to follow for updates on the live shows and future episodes!

In this powerful (and hilarious) episode, Kila and Ashley sit down with actress, writer, and now DNA detective Lisa Brenner, whose real-life family twist inspired her brand-new movie, One Big Happy Family. What started with a simple DNA test turned into a wild journey of identity, unexpected connections, and the ultimate "Are We Related?!" moment. Lisa spills the tea on her emotional rollercoaster, how it changed her life, and how she turned it into a feature film. 🎥 Don't miss this episode if you love: Long-lost family stories Genealogy plot twists Hollywood meets real life Kila and Ashley trying to process the madness 👉 Follow Lisa on socials at @thelisabrenner 🎞️ Check out her movie "One Big Happy Family" on all major streaming platforms!

In this catch-up episode, Kila and Ashley are bringing the realness (and the ridiculousness) as they update y'all on all the life chaos, podcast plans, and why they're about to take a short break. From chaotic schedules to hilarious stories that only these two could deliver, it's equal parts relatable and ridiculous. Whether you're here for the laughs, the therapy sessions disguised as conversations, or just love the Barbara Jean & Wanda flavor—we got you. Consider this your official check-in episode before the mini pause. ✨ Take a listen, laugh with us, and don't worry—we'll be back before you know it. 💅

This week on Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Kila and Ashley are back in their organized chaos era. They had no plan… or did they? From Kila's dad tuning in (despite vowing he wouldn't) to million dollar Chat GPT ideas from Ashley, to unexpected life lessons and some unfiltered feedback, this episode proves that sometimes the best conversations come with zero agenda. 💬 They talk childhood, therapy-worthy moments, Daniel drama (yes, again), and why women might just be sneakier scammers than men. As always, it's hilarious, heartfelt, and a whole lot of Wanda-level wisdom. ⚠️ Disclaimer: Heads up — the last 20 minutes of this episode were hit with a technical hiccup and ended abruptly. Blame it on Mercury in retrograde, or just us being us. 😉 Tune in for laughs, truth bombs, and a little bit of everything in between!

The ladies are BACK and more unfiltered than ever! In this week's episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Ashley and Kila introduce us to their new social media manager, Rachel—bless her heart—and kick things off with a Zoom call from a closet, a smoke break mid-meeting, and enough side tangents to fill a bingo card. They talk influencers who aren't what they seem, their signature brand of "keeping it all the way real," and their big plans to (maybe) get organized. With ADHD flying and filters thrown out the window, this one is pure chaos—and we wouldn't have it any other way. 🎧 Tune in for the laughs, the randomness, and a little peek behind the mess that makes this show magic.

In true Barbara Jean & Wanda fashion, Kila and Ashley are back with another wild ride—this time on the high seas (well, kind of). The ladies kick things off with crappy cruise horror stories that include poop bags, shower confessions, and Carnival chaos. 🌊 🚽 From limp mics to Titanic comparisons, you'll laugh, cringe, and maybe reconsider that next cruise vacation. They also chat about bougie cruise lines, peeing-in-the-shower debates, and whether red bags are an acceptable bathroom solution (spoiler: no). It's gross. It's hilarious. It's very on-brand. And it's exactly the kind of chaos we live for. 🎧 Buckle up, buttercups—it's another hilarious episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda you won't want to miss!

We're back, y'all—and we might be broke, but we've got stories! 💸 In this hilarious episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Kila returns from Vegas with tales of slots, chaos, and some serious "never again" vibes. Ashley shares her own gambling history (spoiler: it's mostly donations), and the crew swaps wild travel stories, including Tunica on $40, losing 8 cents in Biloxi, and winning big straight off the plane. From husbands who drink too much to knowing when to walk away from the machine, this episode is full of laughs, relatable moments, and a few lessons learned the hard way. Tune in for the Vegas recap you didn't know you needed—and stay for the ridiculousness you've come to expect. 🎙️✨

It's high noon and Kila and Ashley are back at it—recording in broad daylight and stone-cold sober (weird, right?). In this laugh-filled episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, the ladies catch up on life, celebrate Ashley's birthday (even though it rudely shared a weekend with Father's Day), and get real about single moms and the MVP dads who show up when others don't. Special guest and birthday boy Trent makes an appearance, and the crew shares some behind-the-scenes podcast chaos, upcoming Vegas adventures, and a few classic RBJ&W tangents you don't want to miss. Grab your headphones and get ready to laugh, nod along, and say "SAME" more times than you can count. This one's a daytime delight with all the usual shenanigans.

Y'ALL. The moment you've all been waiting for is here — Part 3 of the absolutely insane Daniel Martin saga on Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda! This week, Kila and Ashley are joined once again by Jessica and Janene to dive into the latest updates on the notorious scammer and conman, Daniel Martin. After wreaking havoc across the country, this dude has finally landed in jail with a $600,000 bond… but the wild stories are still rolling in. Jessica has been flooded with messages from people coast to coast who've also been scammed, lied to, or manipulated by this man. And if that wasn't enough, this episode even features a live call-in from a woman at an undisclosed location who shares her jaw-dropping experience with Daniel. This episode has it all: shocking updates, disturbing details, and the kind of raw, real talk that only Kila and Ashley can deliver. The tea is piping hot and the red flags are waving harder than ever. 🚨 LISTEN IN. SHARE WIDELY. And stay tuned — because this story is far from over. #RaisingBarbaraJeanAndWanda #DanielMartinSaga #TrueCrimePodcast #ConmanCaught #ScammerExposed #JessicaAndJanene #PodcastDrama #RealTalk #UnbelievableButTrue #JusticeForTheVictims

After a little springtime chaos and a few missed meetups, Kila and Ashley are finally back behind the mic—and it's like they never left. In this episode, the ladies catch up on everything from wild travel plans and Real ID drama (because who really has their birth certificate ready?) to summer schedules and all the real-life madness that comes with being moms, wives, and podcast queens. Expect plenty of laughs, a few rants, and that signature RBJ&W energy we all know and love. Whether you're road-trippin', folding laundry, or just trying to survive the chaos of your own life—this one's for you. 🎧 Tune in and get caught up with your favorite Southern duo. They're back, baby… and they brought the shenanigans with them. #RaisingBarbaraJeanAndWanda #PodcastLife #RealTalk #SouthernHumor #MomLife #StillPodcasting #CatchUpEpisode

Welcome back to Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda! In this heartfelt continuation, Kila and Ashley sit down once again with Julie & Joe Taylor to delve deeper into Joe's ongoing battle with ALS. J oe's resilience and Julie's unwavering support shine through as they share more about their journey, offering insights, laughter, and hope amidst the challenges. Join us for this poignant episode as we continue to raise awareness about ALS and support Joe, Julie, and their inspiring story. 🎧 #ALSawareness #RaisingBarbaraJeanAndWanda

Join Kila and Ashley on a special episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda as they highlight ALS Awareness Month with guests Julie & Joe Taylor. Joe was diagnosed with ALS last June, and alongside Julie, they've navigated a challenging year. Despite the hardships, Joe remains in great spirits and shares his story with humor and heart. Tune in to learn about their journey, raise awareness about ALS, and stay updated on upcoming fundraising efforts to support Joe, Julie, and others facing similar challenges. 🎧 #ALSawareness #RaisingBarbaraJeanAndWanda

In this follow-up episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Kila and Ashley are back with more hilarious and heartfelt stories. Bub makes his big debut in coach pitch, Ashley dives deeper into her therapy journey (and the real reason she needs it), and Kila shares all the latest chaos in her world. You already know it's going to be a wild ride—don't miss it! 🎧🔥 #RaisingBarbaraJeanAndWanda

Kila and Ashley are back, catching up on all the wild in their lives! 😆 Ashley is officially in therapy (send snacks), Kila is still roasting Daniel (because duh), and Bub is starting T-ball! ⚾️ The ladies dive into some hilarious youth sports stories, share their latest life updates, and—of course—bring the perfect mix of heart and humor. ❤️ Don't miss this funny, real, and totally relatable episode!  #RaisingBarbaraJeanAndWanda #NewEpisode #YouthSportsFails #TherapyChronicles #StillRoastingDaniel #PodcastLife

This week on Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Kila's sister Dixie joins the show for a raw and real conversation. The ladies do a quick recap of the Daniel saga (because of course there are updates), then dive into a deep discussion about mental health, therapy, and the triggers that come with it all. It's a powerful episode filled with real moments, honest reflections, and—because it wouldn't be RBJ&W without it—plenty of laughs along the way. Grab a drink, get comfy, and tune in for this one. You won't want to miss it! #RaisingBarbaraJeanAndWanda #MentalHealthMatters #TherapyTalk #SisterSesh #RealTalkAndLaughs

Just when you thought this story couldn't get any crazier… it does. Jessica Reynolds is back, and this time she's joined by her friend Janene Tavalaro to spill even more tea on this ever-evolving nightmare. Since Part 1, things have taken some wild turns, and Ashley and Kila are barely holding back their full Barbara Jean & Wanda energy on this mess. Listen in as Jessica and Janene lay out the latest updates, jaw-dropping revelations, and just how deep this con runs. You won't believe what's happened since we last left off. Don't miss this one—because trust us, it's insanity. #RaisingBarbaraJeanAndWanda #TheConContinues #JessicaReynolds #JaneneTavalaro #TrueCrimeTea #FraudExposed #JusticeForVictims

Buckle up, because this week's episode of Raising Barbara Jean and Wanda is a wild ride! Kila and Ashley are joined by Jessica Reynolds, a powerhouse Realtor and Homebuilder from Middle TN, who shares her jaw-dropping story of getting entangled with a professional conman. From fraud to theft and a web of lies, this story has it all—including a heartless scheme to steal a sweet elderly woman's life savings not once, but twice. Jessica lays out the details of this man's twisted actions, and as you can imagine, Kila and Ashley are ready to ride on this jokester. This episode is more than just a cautionary tale—it's a rallying cry for justice. Jessica shares her plans to create more content and podcasts around this story, aiming to raise funds and support for the victims left in this man's wake. Stay safe out there, folks. This could happen to anyone. Tune in for a story you won't forget and learn how you can help Jessica in her mission to stop this conman for good.

Welcome back to Raising Barbara Jean and Wanda! Kila and Ashley are catching up on everything from the holidays to their new year's shenanigans. This episode is packed with laughs, random discoveries, and all the chaos you've come to love. Kila dives deep into the hilarious world of "Are We Dating the Same Guy" Facebook groups and gets lost in a rabbit hole that leads to some truly wild finds. Meanwhile, Ashley shares her latest obsessions, including her reading marathon and ADHD fixations that have taken over her world. It's a mix of humor, real-life talk, and everything in between. But that's not all! The duo also spills the tea on all the big plans for Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda in 2025. Get ready for some exciting new changes and projects that are coming your way! Tune in for a fun-filled episode where the laughs are nonstop, and the plans for the future are bigger than ever. Don't miss out on the shenanigans—2025 is going to be a wild ride! #RaisingBarbaraJeanAndWanda #HolidayShenanigans #ADHDFixations #AreWeDatingTheSameGuy #NewYearNewPlans #PodcastFun #BigPlansFor2025

In this powerful and emotional episode of Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Kila and Ashley sit down with the incredible Emily Alaine, who recently went viral on TikTok for sharing her heartbreaking story of being abused by her young children in Canada. Emily's story has sparked a larger conversation around the controversial "gentle parenting" movement in Canada, which, while rooted in good intentions, has led to some alarming situations. Emily opens up about the challenges she's facing as a mother and the impact of this parenting style on her family. It's a raw and candid discussion about the pressures of gentle parenting and the reality of dealing with abusive behavior from her children, despite her best efforts to raise them with love and understanding. This episode is heartfelt, emotional, and thought-provoking. Kila and Ashley try to make sense of the situation, reflecting on their own experiences with parenting and offering support to Emily as she navigates this difficult path. Tune in for a deep dive into the complexities of modern parenting and the unintended consequences of a well-meaning movement. What are your thoughts on "gentle parenting"? How can we support mothers like Emily who are struggling? Listen in and share your thoughts with us. #RaisingBarbaraJeanAndWanda #GentleParenting #ParentingTalk #EmotionalStories #PodcastConversation #ViralStory #SupportMothers #RealTalk

This week on Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Kila and Ashley sit down with Brandon Hall, the talented host of Music City 911. With over 20 years of experience as a 911 dispatcher, Brandon is no stranger to the chaos and high-stakes moments that come with the job. Now, he's bringing those wild, real-life stories to the podcast world, where he's quickly gaining a massive following and taking the podcasting game by storm. Join us for an incredible conversation about Brandon's journey into podcasting, the challenges of being on the other side of an emergency call, and some jaw-dropping stories from his years in dispatch. From heart-pounding moments to behind-the-scenes insights, this episode is a must-listen for anyone fascinated by real-life action. Make sure to check out Music City 911 on your favorite podcast platform, and stay tuned for what's next from Brandon! #RaisingBarbaraJeanAndWanda #MusicCity911 #DispatchStories #PodcastingJourney #911Dispatch #RealLifeHeroes #PodcastFun

The conversation continues in Part 2 with the one and only Chanci Culp on Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda! After hearing how she went viral in Part 1, Kila and Ashley dive even deeper into Chanci's life, revealing more behind-the-scenes moments and what it's really like living with TikTok fame. From the ups and downs of social media stardom to her personal journey of growth and the wild experiences along the way, this episode is packed with more of Chanci's incredible stories. You won't want to miss her take on the challenges, rewards, and everything in between. Tune in for all the laughs, insights, and inspiration as Kila, Ashley, and Chanci continue the conversation that's sure to leave you wanting more. Make sure you're following Chanci on socials @allstylechanceculp to keep up with all of her amazing content! #RaisingBarbaraJeanAndWanda #TikTokFame #ChanciCulp #BehindTheScenes #ViralLife #PodcastFun

This week on Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda, Kila and Ashley are joined by the one and only Chanci Culp! With a massive TikTok following and a personality to match, Chanci shares her journey from going viral to building a platform that's captivated millions. Tune in as she tells her incredible story, reveals how she blew up on TikTok, and spills the tea on what she's up to these days. It's a fun-filled conversation packed with laughs, real talk, and some behind-the-scenes insight into Chanci's life in the social media spotlight. You don't want to miss this episode, so be sure to follow Chanci on socials @allstylechanceculp for more of her viral magic! #RaisingBarbaraJeanAndWanda #TikTokFame #ChanciCulp #ViralStories #PodcastGuest #SocialMediaJourney 🎥🌟

This week on the "Raising Barbara Jean and Wanda Podcast," Kila and Ashley are back at it with a fun and chaotic catch-up session! They dive into all things election-related, share some wild and hilarious cat stories (you won't believe what's been happening!), and update you on all the latest shenanigans in their lives. From the drama of Election Day to the unexpected madness of their everyday lives, this episode has a little bit of everything. Expect laughter, random tangents, and real talk about what's been going on behind the scenes. Tune in for an episode filled with humor, heart, and a whole lot of crazy – because when Kila and Ashley are together, anything can happen! #RaisingBarbaraJeanAndWanda #ElectionTalk #CatChaos #PodcastCatchUp #LifeUpdates #PodcastFun 🎙️🐱🗳️

Join Kila and Ashley for another lively episode of "Raising Barbara Jean and Wanda"! This week, they're recapping their intriguing conversation with Renee the Medium and diving into all things Halloween, Election Day, and other delightful random shenanigans. From the insights shared by Renee to the fun and frights of Halloween, Kila and Ashley cover it all with their trademark humor and charm. They also touch on the excitement and chaos of Election Day, reflecting on the events that shape their community and lives. Get ready for a whirlwind of laughs, thoughtful discussions, and a few unexpected twists as Kila and Ashley navigate through their recent experiences. Don't miss out on the fun—tune in for your dose of relatable stories and good vibes! #RaisingBarbaraJeanAndWanda #MediumsAndMayhem #HalloweenRecap #ElectionDayFun #PodcastShenanigans 🎙️🎃🗳️

Do you believe in the afterlife? Kila and Ashley sit down with a local medium hoping to connect with their Moms. Let us know what you think, and they will let you know their thoughts next week. #real #fake #believe #mediums #halloween #ghostbusters #letusknow

Get ready for a laugh-out-loud episode of "Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda"! This week, Kila and Ashley dive into a hilarious debate about whether Ashley has earned the title of "Karen." With plenty of witty banter and candid moments, they explore the finer points of this loaded label, leaving you to decide for yourself! But that's not all! The conversation takes a spooky turn as Ashley shares some wild stories about her recent home renovations and the shenanigans that came with them. As the spooky season approaches, the duo also discusses haunted places in Middle Tennessee that are sure to send chills down your spine. Join Kila and Ashley for this uproarious episode filled with humor, spooky tales, and a whole lot of fun. Tune in now and get ready to laugh, reflect, and maybe even scream a little! #RaisingBarbaraJeanAndWanda #KarenDebate #SpookySeason #HauntedTennessee #PodcastFun 🎃👻🤣

In this latest episode of "Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda," Kila and Ashley are here to set the record straight after a little mix-up in their episode releases! Originally meant to air after Cassandra's story about the adoption connections between the Dominican Republic and Connecticut, this episode dives right back into that topic. Join the ladies as they discuss the complexities of adoption and share their thoughts on the latest Diddy drama, weathering hurricanes, and the infamous Centerville Prankster that has everyone talking. With a perfect blend of humor and heartfelt moments, this episode is packed with laughs and genuine reflections on life's unexpected twists. Tune in for the shenanigans and join the fun as Kila and Ashley navigate through the chaos with their signature charm!

In this exciting episode of "Raising Barbara Jean and Wanda," Kila and Ashley continue their deep dive into the wild and emotional story of Julia and Cassandra. They explore the untold narratives surrounding adoptions from the Dominican Republic to Connecticut during the 80s and 90s—a topic that has been largely overlooked in media discussions. But that's not all! The conversation takes a fun turn as they share their latest "Hyper Focus" of the week. From the inspiring book "Piece of Cake" to Ashley's newfound desire to become a Guidance Counselor, the ladies are back at it with their signature blend of humor and heart. Join Kila and Ashley for another hilarious and thought-provoking episode packed with insights, laughter, and the kind of real talk that keeps you coming back for more. Lock in for a good one—you won't want to miss it!

Join us for an unforgettable episode of "Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda" featuring special guest Julia Tinetti (@peacebethejourney250 @peacebethejourney1)! This week, Kila and Ashley dive into Julia's wild story of reconnecting with her long-lost sister, Cassandra Raquel. In a twist straight out of a movie, Julia and Cassandra discover that they share the same mother, and what's even more astonishing? They were best friends before uncovering this life-changing secret! Tune in as they recount their incredible journey, sparked by a DNA test that unraveled years of mystery and led to a heartfelt reunion. Kila's passion for uncovering remarkable stories shines through as Ashley is left utterly blown away by the revelations. This episode is a rollercoaster of emotions—filled with surprises, laughter, and the powerful bond of sisterhood. Don't miss out on this fascinating episode that highlights the magic of family connections and the unexpected paths life can take. Listen in for all the craziness and inspiration!

Ashley and Kila are back at it on this week's episode of "Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda" with a delightfully random catch-up session! 🎙️✨ Join them as Ashley shares her recent adventure taking her newly adopted kids to Universal Studios. Trust us, the stories are as hilarious as they are chaotic! From theme park antics to family bonding moments, you won't want to miss the laughter. On a more serious note, Kila opens up about her journey to becoming a grief counselor amidst another painful loss in her friends' family. This episode strikes a balance between funny and heartfelt, showcasing the realness of life and the spectrum of emotions we all experience. Tune in for a mix of humor, sadness, and genuine conversation that reflects the beauty of everyday life. Whether you're in for the laughs or the heartfelt moments, this episode has a little bit of everything. Don't miss out on all the crazy – listen now!

🎙️🌟 This week's episode of "Raising Barbara Jean & Wanda" is truly special! Join us as Ashley's daughter, Anniston, makes her debut on the show. This episode is a powerful celebration of their incredible mother-daughter bond and a testament to the positive changes being made in their lives. Ashley and Anniston's relationship shines a light on how both Kila and Ashley are breaking generational curses and raising their children with love and care. It's a heartfelt and inspiring conversation that embodies the core of what this podcast is all about. Don't miss this touching and impactful episode. Tune in, enjoy the heartwarming moments, and share this with everyone you know. It's a celebration of family, love, and progress that you won't want to miss!

Get ready for a hilarious and unpredictable episode of "Raising Barbara Jean and Wanda"! This week, Kila and Ashley dive into a delightfully random conversation about life's quirks and the shenanigans that come with it. From a surprising confession that one of their listeners made to the ladies, to the laugh-out-loud moments surrounding kids cussing and much more, this episode is packed with offbeat humor and real talk. Kila and Ashley cover it all with their signature charm, bringing you a dose of fun and laughter that you won't want to miss. Tune in for a rollicking good time filled with funny anecdotes and spontaneous conversations. Life may be unpredictable, but one thing's for sure – with Kila and Ashley, it's always entertaining!

Strap in for Part 2 of our wild and unpredictable chat with Brandy Breeding (@brandyisloud) on the latest episode of "Raising Barbara Jean and Wanda"! If you thought Part 1 was a rollercoaster, you're in for a treat because this episode cranks up the excitement even more. Join Kila and Ashley as they dive deeper into Brandy's unforgettable stories, where things get even wilder and the tea flows freely. From outrageous escapades to jaw-dropping revelations, Brandy holds nothing back in this thrilling continuation. Don't miss out on the most outrageous and entertaining episode yet – tune in to find out just how wild things can get with Brandy and the dynamic duo of Kila and Ashley!

Get ready for a rollercoaster of laughs and jaw-dropping stories in the latest episode of "Raising Barbara Jean and Wanda"! We're thrilled to welcome special guest Brandy Breeding (@brandyisloud) for Part 1 of this sensational two-part series. Brandy's got a wild story that's bound to keep you on the edge of your seat, and Ashley and Kila are here to dig up all the juicy details. From incredible adventures to unforgettable moments, Brandy's tales are as captivating as they are entertaining. Tune in to catch the first half of Brandy's epic journey, where no topic is off-limits, and every story is served with a side of Southern charm. Don't miss this episode – it's just the beginning of the wild ride with Brandy and the dynamic duo of Kila and Ashley!