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Rated M... Cause We MF Grown!!!
by Tierra Laray
Join Tierra Laray weekly as she discusses being a single parent, relationships, navigating through the dating pool, and figuring out this adulting thing. New episodes every Friday Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tierra-washington8/support
Episodes
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Ep. 70 Praise Kinks, Sex Injuries, and No Village... OH MY!
Heeeeeey Grown Folk!! Everybody wants a village… but whose village are YOU actually showing up for? 👀 This week Tierra Laray is getting into community, praise kinks, the undeniable moment you realize YOU are officially full blown adulting now, and one listener’s sex fail that proves hydration...
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**Replay Episode: The Glow Up Got Hands!!!
**This is a replay of episode 30 published 05/15/25 *** Heeey Grown Folk. Let’s talk about starting over in your 30s… because nobody told us it might come with a plot twist, a panic attack, and a side of “wtf am I doing?” In this episode, Tierra Laray opens up about what it’s really like to go…
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Ep 68: Unwritten Survival Guide for Black Boys & First Date Crimes
Heeey Grown Folk! Is Myspace really making a comeback? What are the unwritten lessons many Black parents feel they have to teach their children before they step out into the world? And what first-date violations should automatically disqualify someone from getting a second date? In Episode 68 of...
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Ep. 67 Tig Ol Bitties & Mediocre Peeter Weeter
Heeey Grown Folk! What do lottery winners, average peeter weeters with extraordinary confidence, and people who are simply existing instead of truly living have in common? Absolutely nothing... and somehow, everything. In this hilarious, thought-provoking, and unfiltered episode of Rated M Cause…
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Ep. 66 Is It Closure or Clout? Do Not Cheat and Eat!
Heeeeeey Grown Folk!!! Is it clout... or is it closure? This week on Rated M Cause We MF Grown, Tierra Laray is diving headfirst into the conversations everybody is afraid to have—but everybody has an opinion about. In Low Vibrational Shit, she's breaking down the viral Lex P and Toya K drama.…
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Ep. 65 Dating App Profiles On Trial, Scams, and Granddaddy Purp
Swipe right…or throw the whole profile away? What Up Grown Folk…In Episode 65 of Rated M Cause We MF Grown, Tierra Laray is back for another Virtual Kickback full of hilarious dating conversations, relatable adult struggles, cannabis culture, and grown-folk wisdom. This week, Low Vibrational Sh*t...
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Ep. 64 Dating Horror Stories, Sex Fails, Advice! Listener Letters!!!
What happens when the Grown Folk take over the show? In this special listener letter episode, Tierra Laray is reading YOUR stories—from messy dating disasters and hilarious sex fails to real-life advice requests and heartfelt messages from the Rated M community. This week's Low Vibrational Shit...
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Ep. 63 Group Chat Shenanigans And Tan Lines On His Ring Finger
Heeey Grown Folk Summer is here, the kids are eating up all the snacks, and the group chats are working overtime. In Episode 63 of Rated M Cause We MF Grown, Tierra Laray dives into a group chat conversation about what happens when somebody keeps ignoring the advice their friends are giving them....
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*Replay* Gaslighting And The Apology You Will Never Get
Heeeey Grown Folk!!! This week’s episode is a replay of Episode 32, originally uploaded on 05/30/2025 — and baby, we’re talking about the games people play. On this episode of Rated M Cause We MF Grown, Tierra Laray gets real about manipulation in dating: why it happens, how people disguise it…
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Ep. 61 Hoodwinked, Bamboozled, Led Astray
Heeey Grown Folk!!! This week on Rated M Cause We MF Grown, Tierra Laray dives head first into the internet firestorm surrounding Dr. Cheyenne Bryant and the controversy over her doctorate credentials. But baby… this conversation gets WAY deeper than one person. We’re talking about how social…
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*REPLAY* Calloused Hands and Clarity.... Rub me right cause pleasure is productive!
Heey Grown Folk this week's episode is a replay of Episode 29 published May 9th 2025. It’s a Mother’s Day episode, but we grown so you know Tierra Laray had to sprinkle a lil shea butter and shade on it. First of all… moisturize y’all damn hands. Tierra Laray talks about having a man rub on her...
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* Replay* You Are A Walking Billboard... Dress Like You're Already Famous
This week's episode is a Replay of Ep.22 which aired 01/26/2024 Heeey Grown Folk!! On this episode of Rated M Cause We MF Grown, Tierra Laray, sits down and has a grown convo with the incredible Dash, mother and mastermind behind "Style Me Dash." Together, they delve into the intricacies of…
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Ep. 38 You Do Not Meet The Qualifications
Heeey Grown Folk This week Tierra Laray is joined once again by Shekiya and Savage for a chaotic, unfiltered girl talk episode that goes from “wait… WHAT?” to “yeah, we gotta talk about this for real.” We kick things off reacting to the disturbing incident involving a Chicago mother and her two...
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EP. 58 Solo, Surface Level, but still in My Bag
In this solo episode, Tierra Laray pulls up by herself and clears the air, no confusion, no speculation. She addresses why she’s recording solo again and speaks openly about the shift with her former cohost, giving listeners the clarity before they start asking questions. But don’t get it…
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Ep. 57 We MF Same Ol Negus !!!
Heeey Grown Folk! Episode 57 of Rated M Cause We MF Grown Podcast is a whole vibe 🔥 We’ve got TWO special guests in the building t ,he dynamic duo Juno Perion and Leight The Great and this episode is packed with real funny takes ,music talk, random outburst of song being sung and beatboxing ,and...
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REPLAY* Your 1st Born Is Not Your Coparent… I’m Not Above Melatonin and Mellow Moaning!!
Heeeeeey Grown Folks! This week's episode is a replay of an episode that aired on 06/13/2025. This is one of those ones that we had to run back in case you missed it. In this episode we’re digging into what it really means to raise your kids differently than you were raised — especially when you...
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EP. 55 WE MF Alchemist ..... Loose Lips For My Friends ... PAUSE!!!
Heeeey Grown Folk!!! This week on Rated M Cause We MF Grown, the conversation gets spiritual, messy, funny, and real real. Special guest Juno Perion pulls up and the Grown Folk get into everything—from being an alchemist and constantly seeing angel numbers, to decoding what those signs really…
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EP. 54 Adulting is Ghetto ... Spinning The Block Turns Into Spinning In The Mud
Heeeey Grown Folk!!! Are you really emotionally attached… or just used to them? Episode 54 gets into the real, messy, grown-folk conversations about love, boundaries, and the blurred lines of modern dating. Tierra Laray and Shekiya unpack what it means to be emotionally attached versus simply...
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EP. 53 Fuck, Marry, Kill ... Real Life Zombies
Heeey Grown Folks! Tierra Laray and Shekiya are back with a fun, unfiltered episode. Episode 53 kicks off with a horror story about real life zombies a wild round of Fuck, Kill, Marry where the choices get questionable and the answers get even crazier. Tierra Laray is breaking down dating…
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EP. 52 What Is A Hoe Anyway? People Pleasing, Low Contact and No Contact
Heeeey Grown Folk!!! This week on Rated M Cause We MF Grown, Tierra Laray and Shekiya kick back and get into a conversation that is equal parts messy, honest, and grown. The episode starts with Tierra Laray having to WoooSah from a first she experienced as a parent right before recording. Shekiya...
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Ep. 51 We MF Sisters... Daddy Issues, Sibling Dynamics, and Dating Choices!
This week on Rated M Cause We MF Grown, Tierra Laray and Shekiya sit down for an honest and unfiltered conversation about daddy issues, sibling relationships, family dynamics, dating choices, and how our upbringing shapes the partners we choose. If you enjoy podcasts about dating advice…
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Ep.50 We MF Fifty Episodes In… Pisces BDay
Heeeey Grown Folk!! Episode 50 of Rated M Cause We MF Grown is a special one!! It's Tierra Laray’s birthday episode. In this solo milestone episode, Tierra celebrates hitting 50 episodes while reflecting on what age, growth, and experience have taught her along the way. From lessons learned about...
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Ep.49 What Makes It Hard To Date You? Elitism? Folks Fart For Free Er'Day B
Heeeeey Grown Folks! This week Grown Convo Tierra Laray and Shekiya slid straight into the mess floating around the entertainment world. The drama between T.I. and 50 Cent, Tierra Laray reaction to Chrisean Rock 's Faceoff with Zenith Zion and Tierra Laray predicts that Chrisean is getting rocked...
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Replay* Yes I'm One Of Them Zodiac Biiishes... Give A Fat Nicca A Try!!!
Heeey Grown Folk!! This week's episode is a replay of an episode that aired 02/02/2024.... it's a PISCES LINK UP so it was only right to replay this episode on the first day of PIsces Season It is a must-listen! Join Tierra Laray and influencer Jenetsy Amaris in a Grown Convo about embracing...
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Ep. 47 We MF Parents Pt. 2
🎙️ Episode: We MF Parents Pt. 2 | Parenting, Co-Parenting, Discipline & Healing Childhood Trauma Heeey Grown Folk... Parenting isn’t for the weak and in this episode of Rated M Cause We MF Grown, we get real about what raising kids actually looks like behind closed doors. Joined by special…
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Ep. 46 We MF Parents Pt. 1
🎙️ Episode: We MF Parents Pt. 1 | Parenting, Co-Parenting, Discipline & Healing Childhood Trauma Heeey Grown Folk... Parenting isn’t for the weak and in this episode of Rated M Cause We MF Grown, we get real about what raising kids actually looks like behind closed doors. Joined by special…
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Ep. 45 Trauma Dumping Is So Inconsiderate... Consent Is King!!!
Heeeeey Grown Folk! In Episode 45 of Rated M Cause We MF Grown, we break down trauma dumping, why people confuse it with vulnerability, and how oversharing in relationships can push people away instead of building real connection. We also read an advice letter centered on consent and talk about…
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Ep. 44 Hangover Remedies and Luteal Phases
Heeeey Grown Folk!! This week we’re talking survival tactics… because being grown means knowing your turn up!!! We put the listeners on to our favorite hangover prevention methods (because let’s be honest — once the hangover hits, it’s already too damn late). Then we got into the phases women go...
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Ep. 43 Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Flop!!!
HEEEY GROWN FOLK!!! In this week’s episode, Tierra Laray and Shekiya break down the Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Flop response especially when it comes to dating, and relationships. They also talk about what it really feels like when your 40s are loading (because YES, Shekiya is entering her Big 4-0...
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Ep. 42 LULUU LEEMMOOON .... Doin Push Ups On Your Knees
Heeeey Grown Folk!! It’s the first episode of the new year and baby… we easing in, but we still talking our shit. In this episode, Tierra Laray and Shekiya kick off 2026 by breaking down what we left ALL THE WAY in 2025 — bad habits, weak mindsets, and men with absolutely no game. Because why are...
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Ep. 41 Teammates, Roommates and Lumberjack Sisters!!
Heeeey Grown Folk !!! This episode is officially the start of a new chapter. Shekiya officially joins the Grown convo as a cohost, and we’re taking it all the way back to where it started — our college days. We discuss being College basketball teammates, roommates, pledging the same organization,...
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Ep. 40 BIG ANNOUNCEMENT... Recapping My Favorite Episodes!!!
Heeey Grown Folk.... HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!! This one right here? Yeah… it’s special. Episode 40 is MY LAST solo episode and I had to go out the right way. In this episode, I’m taking y’all down memory lane and recapping some of my favorite moments, segments, and conversations from past episodes , the...
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Ep.39 No Judgement... Just Vibes!! Party Etiquette and Embarrassing stories!
Heeeey Grown Folk!!! This week's Grown Convo is all about No Judgement... Just Vibes and baaaaby the vibes were LOUD and unapologetic. Our host with the most Tierra Laray is joined by Shekiya and Shelly and the topics were COMING IN HOT!!! The ladies got into their most embarassing moments, broke...
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Ep. 38 You Do Not Meet The Qualifications
Heeey Grown Folk 👋🏽 For this week's Grown Convo, Tierra Laray is joined by Shekiya and Savage for a chaotic, unfiltered girl talk episode that goes from “wait… WHAT?” to “yeah, we gotta talk about this for real.” The ladies kick things off talking about pregnancy, freezing eggs, surrogacy, and...
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Ep. 38 You Do Not Meet The Qualifications
Heeey Grown Folk 👋🏽 For this week's Grown Convo, Tierra Laray is joined by Shekiya and Savage for a chaotic, unfiltered girl talk episode that goes from “wait… WHAT?” to “yeah, we gotta talk about this for real.” The ladies kick things off talking about pregnancy, freezing eggs, surrogacy, and...
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Ep.37 Lawns Chairs In The Living Room? Awkward vs Grown Convos
Heeeey Grown Folk!!! Wheew this episode right here feels like pulling up to your homegirl's house, kicking your shoes off, and just chopping it up. I had my girl Shekiya pull up again, so you already know the vibes. Our Grown Convo this week covered everything from nostalgia to nonsense. We…
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Ep. 36 Is The Cut Off Necessary: Friendship shifts
Heeey Grown Folk.... It's been a minute... This week Tierra Laray sits down for some Girl Talk with Shekiya and Savage. We start the episode off with a few ice breaker games, talk about friendship shifts, kinks we weren't into before but are into now, and Tierra Laray revisits an old dating…
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Ep.35 Flip Flops, False Accusations, & A Gun At The Movies
Heeeyyy Grown Folks! In this episode, we’re talking about grown-ass chaos: emotionally unavailable “oh damn” men, porn ruining real intimacy, the emotional fallout of your parents divorcing after you’re already grown, and a wild dating horror story involving flip flops, a false accusation, and a...
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Ep. 33 Temp Checks, Tongue Games & Tender Love Things
Heeeeeey Grown Folks! Whew. This episode is layered like a MFer. This week on Rated M Cause We MF Grown, we’re calling out the temp checkers — you know, the ones who pop up after weeks, months, or years talking ‘bout “I miss you.” It’s giving “Do Not Disturb,” because the really just want that...
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Ep. 31 Peace vs Karma & Smacking Spades On The Table
This week’s episode is extra special—my son, Sir Princeton, joins me for a Rated PG conversation that still delivers the grown vibe! We talk about generational wealth and what it means for our family, dig into the difference between peace and karma, bond over our favorite games, and even get into...
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EP. 28 What's Wrong With Nepotism and Why The Men Wearing Filters???
Heeey Grown Folk! On this week’s episode Tierra Laray taps in with the real, the raw, and the ridiculous. She kick things off with some low vibrational sh*t that grinds her gears — from weird things guys do on social media like sending weird vids via DM to using filters on their pics and videos....
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EP.27 Disputing the Coochie Charges
Episode 27 - I’mma Tell My Business Real Quick + Disputing Coochie Charges + Platonic Friendships Be Real AF Listen Grown Folk, y’all already know how we do over here at Rated M.... Cause We MF Grown! In this episode, I’m kickin’ it off by telling my business a lil bit — just a quick life…
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Ep. 26 Keep It Pushing
Heeeeey Grown Folk. Welcome back to another episode of Rated M Cause We MF Grown. This episode Tierra Laray vents about ghosting the podcast, substances enhancing the sex, and hygiene when it comes to putting groceries into your fridge. This Grown convo gets personal for Tierra Laray as she opens...
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EP. 25 First Of All I'm Not Your Man.... She Walk Like She Crazy!!!
Heeeey Grown Folk welcome to another episode of Rated M Cause We MF Grown with your host, Tierra Laray, Curator of Dope Ass Vibes! 🎙️✨ This week, Tierra Laray is joined by clothier and style expert, Lyle, for a juicy and grown convo. They dive into the trending topic (Draya Michelle pregnancy)…
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Ep. 24 Brent Faiyaz Level Toxic
Heeey Grown Folk!! In this weeks Grown Convo, Tierra Laray dives deep into some spicy topics with special guest Pat Riot Hater Sr. They tackle the controversial issue of "stealthing" and its implications, share thoughts on the ethics of keeping nudes, and explore the concept of platonic intimacy…
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Ep. 21 BITCH I'M A MOTHA
Heeey Grown Folk!! This week Tierra Laray talks with Wife, Mother, and Seamstress Brittany Graham and they have a Grown Convo about balancing motherhood and relationships, raising black boys, and sex after marriage. Brittany Graham also gives flowers to her friend who makes candles and rooms…
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EP. 20 His Penis Will Cleanse Your Soul
Heeey Grown Folk!! This week Tierra Laray has a grown convo with business consultant Cle to discuss the pressures of being in your 30s with no kids, relationships being private vs secret, and emotional intelligence while dating. Cle also talked about the travel groups that she is a consultant for...
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2023 Recap... 2 + 0 + 2 + 4 = 8 and 8 means New Beginnings!
Happy New Year Grown Folk! We Standing On Business in the year 2024 and coming for everything that is ours. But first lets recap all of the dope ass episodes Tierra dropped on us from 2023. This episode is full of great topics from the low vibrational shit, pussy power, grown convos, and of…
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EP. 18 I Liked Ya better When You Was Carrying Spit
Heeey Grown Folk! This week's episode is a family and friends episode and baby it was chaotic. Tierra Laray talks with her mom Nadine Bone the actress and a Rated M friend of the family Domiion. The convo goes from christmas memories, songs and artist that have had us in a chokehold this year,...
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EP. 17 I didn't want you anyway ... The bluetooth is connected!
Heeey Grown Folk!! This week’s grown convo is about teaching our kids how to navigate being rejected. Tierra Laray reads two viewer's dating horror stories an tells everyone to slow down and move in peace Tap in and... Follow the Podcast Page on IG @RatedM_CauseWeMFGrown Follow the host on IG...
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Join Tierra Laray weekly as she discusses being a single parent, relationships, navigating through the dating pool, and figuring out this adulting thing. New episodes every Friday Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tierra-washington8/support
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