Real Influence w/ Joey Vaillancourt

Why do some comments stay with us for years while others roll right off our backs? In this episode, Joey Vaillancourt explores the hidden reason feedback feels so personal and why criticism often triggers something much deeper than the conversation itself. Using a personal story about receiving difficult workplace feedback, Joey breaks down the beliefs, emotions, and unconscious patterns that shape how we respond when someone points out a weakness, challenge, or blind spot. You'll learn how to receive feedback with a growth mindset, separate facts from stories, and use criticism as a tool for self-leadership rather than self-judgment. If you're a high performer who struggles with criticism, overthinking, or feeling not enough, this episode will give you a practical framework for responding differently.     TheGreatLifeExperiment.ca — You built life. You hit the goals. But the pressure never actually left. The Great Life Experiment is a free 30-day challenge with one powerful question each day to help uncover the unconscious patterns driving stress and suffering. Start here → thegreatlifeexperiment.ca 🔗 Take the FREE Pressure Pattern Profile Quiz → https://joeyvaillancourt.com/pressure-pattern-quiz/   Topics Covered • Why feedback feels threatening • Constructive feedback vs personal identity • How to stop taking criticism personally • The beliefs driving emotional reactions • The Real Influence Ladder framework • Emotional regulation during difficult conversations • Receiving feedback with a growth mindset   Timestamps 00:00 The Feedback That Haunted Me for Years 01:05 Why Feedback Feels Personal 02:13 The Belief Behind Every Reaction 03:21 Feedback Is a Mirror, Not a Verdict 04:22 The "B Player" Story 06:38 Why Meaning Creates Suffering 09:02 What Feedback Meant Growing Up 10:16 Separating Facts From Stories 11:08 A Real-Life Example at Home 13:20 The Question That Changes Everything 15:03 The Real Influence Ladder 18:56 Feedback as Information, Not Identity 21:18 The Gift Hidden Inside Criticism   Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence https://joeyvaillancourt.com/the-30-day-challenge/ Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV. https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence About: Joey Vaillancourt is the host of Real Influence — a show for high performers who can't turn it off. If you've built the life, hit the goals, and still feel the pressure — this is for you. Joey helps entrepreneurs and executives rewire the unconscious patterns driving the need to force, fix, and prove, so they can achieve more by leading with presence instead of pressure.

What happens when the person teaching the tools becomes the one struggling to use them? In this episode of the Real Influence podcast, I sit down with my wife, Monika, for a raw and unfiltered live coaching session on overwhelm, anxiety, burnout, and suffering. Instead of speaking from the other side of the breakthrough, I open up in real time about feeling mentally overloaded, emotionally exhausted, disconnected from clarity, and trapped under pressure from multiple areas of life. Together, we unpack: • why high performers get stuck in overwhelm • how nervous system regulation affects the way we think • the hidden identity patterns behind burnout • why suffering comes from meaning, not circumstances • how coaching helps uncover blind spots • what it actually looks like to rewire your brain in real time If you've been carrying pressure silently while trying to hold everything together… this episode is for you. This isn't polished self-help. It's a real conversation in the middle of the struggle.   TheGreatLifeExperiment.ca — You built the life. You hit the goals. But the pressure never actually left. The Great Life Experiment is a free 30-day challenge with one powerful question each day to help uncover the unconscious patterns driving stress and suffering.   Start here → thegreatlifeexperiment.ca 🔗 Take the FREE Pressure Pattern Profile Quiz → https://joeyvaillancourt.com/pressure-pattern-quiz/   Topics Covered Live coaching through overwhelm and suffering Burnout recovery for entrepreneurs and executives Nervous system regulation and emotional states Anxiety, pressure, and mental overload Reframing failure and emotional meaning Why asking for help changes your state Neuroplasticity and subconscious rewiring   Timestamps 00:00 Joey Opens Up About His Own Suffering 01:33 Why Everyone Needs a Coach 03:04 Living in Constant Pressure as a High Performer 05:44 Starting the Coaching Session 07:21 Feeling Scattered and Mentally Overloaded 11:42 The Thoughts Behind Overwhelm 14:27 Where Stress Shows Up in the Body 16:20 Nervous System Regulation Explained 18:44 The Meaning We Attach to Suffering 21:17 Why This Chaos Might Be Necessary 24:56 Reframing Failure and Progress 29:08 Isolation vs Asking for Support 31:19 Shifting Out of a Primal State 34:43 Neuroplasticity and Rewiring Your Brain 38:56 Why Coaching Accelerates Growth 42:30 The Decision Matrix Exercise   Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence https://joeyvaillancourt.com/the-30-day-challenge/ Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV. https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence   Connect with Monika! Social: https://www.instagram.com/monikavaillancourt/ Coaching: https://joeyvaillancourt.com/coaching/      About: Joey Vaillancourt is the host of Real Influence — a show for high performers who can't turn it off. If you've built the life, hit the goals, and still feel the pressure — this is for you. Joey helps entrepreneurs and executives rewire the unconscious patterns driving the need to force, fix, and prove, so they can achieve more by leading with presence instead of pressure.  

Most high performers aren't lacking discipline. They're carrying pressure. In this episode, Joey breaks down the hidden emotional pattern behind pressure-driven discipline — and why success can quietly disconnect you from your life if you're not careful. This conversation explores how many entrepreneurs and high achievers build their identity around sacrifice, proving themselves, and delaying life for "later." The problem is… later never really comes. Joey shares five principles for creating discipline from a healthier place — one rooted in awareness, alignment, nervous system regulation, and intentional living instead of constant internal pressure. If you've achieved success but still feel heavy, restless, or unable to relax… this episode will likely feel very familiar. TheGreatLifeExperiment.ca — You built the life. You hit the goals. But the pressure never actually left. The Great Life Experiment is a free 30-day challenge that helps you see and shift the unconscious patterns keeping you stuck in that loop — one question a day. That's it. Start here → thegreatlifeexperiment.ca 🔗 Take the FREE Pressure Pattern Profile Quiz → https://joeyvaillancourt.com/pressure-pattern-quiz/ Topics covered: Pressure-driven sacrifice Discipline and identity High achiever mindset Nervous system regulation How to be disciplined without burnout Self improvement and personal growth Accountability and coaching Creating success without disconnecting from life Timestamps: 00:00 Discipline Isn't The Real Problem 00:19 The Hidden Cost Of Sacrifice 00:55 Why High Performers Feel Pressure 02:04 When Discipline Starts Feeling Heavy 03:05 Discipline Reflects Identity 04:18 Success Through Self-Deprivation 05:40 Principle 1: Act Like Someone Is Watching 08:00 Principle 2: The "I Don't Know If" Framework 10:12 Principle 3: North Star Goals 13:27 Principle 4: The 4D Version Of You 17:14 Principle 5: Accountability & Coaching 20:56 Discipline Without Pressure 21:44 The Pattern Behind Success & Sacrifice Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV.https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence   About Joey: Joey Vaillancourt, host of the Real Influence podcast, helps people overcome apathy, feeling trapped and living a life of resignation by inspiring them to challenge their assumptions and handed down beliefs so they can experience a more purposeful, fulfilled and aligned life  

Most high performers aren't overwhelmed by life itself. They're overwhelmed by what they think life means about them. In this episode of Real Influence, Joey Vaillancourt breaks down the hidden pattern that creates constant pressure—even when things are going well and why success doesn't feel the way you expected it to. You'll learn the difference between pain and suffering, how subconscious patterns shape your experience, and why your nervous system plays a bigger role than you think.     TheGreatLifeExperiment.ca — You built the life. You hit the goals. But the pressure never actually left. The Great Life Experiment is a free 30-day challenge that helps you see and shift the unconscious patterns keeping you stuck in that loop — one question a day. That's it. Start here → thegreatlifeexperiment.ca 🔗 Take the FREE Pressure Pattern Profile Quiz → https://joeyvaillancourt.com/pressure-pattern-quiz/     Topics covered: Why high achievers struggle to relax The difference between pain and identity-based suffering How resistance amplifies pressure The role of subconscious patterns Why awareness alone doesn't create change     Timestamps: 00:00 Pain vs Suffering 00:36 Why High Performers Multiply Pressure 01:35 The Pressure Pattern Explained 03:04 Why Missing Goals Feels So Heavy 04:46 Principle 1: Pain vs Identity 06:38 The Formula: Pain × Resistance 07:20 Principle 2: Resistance 09:40 The Echo Effect 12:41 Future Projection 16:47 Awareness Isn't Enough 19:42 Why Pressure Never Leaves 20:41 How to Start Rewiring It   Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV.https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence   About Joey: Joey Vaillancourt, host of the Real Influence podcast, helps people overcome apathy, feeling trapped and living a life of resignation by inspiring them to challenge their assumptions and handed down beliefs so they can experience a more purposeful, fulfilled and aligned life  

TheGreatLifeExperiment.ca — You built the life. You hit the goals. But the pressure never actually left. The Great Life Experiment is a free 30-day challenge that helps you see and shift the unconscious patterns keeping you stuck in that loop — one question a day. That's it.    Start here → thegreatlifeexperiment.ca   ---  You say you want clarity. You ask for direction. But when life actually gives you an answer… you resist it.  That's not a strategy problem. That's a pattern.  In this episode, I break down why suffering doesn't come from what happens — it comes from the belief that it shouldn't have.  And why high performers, more than anyone, get trapped in that loop.  We cover:  → Why asking is easy but receiving breaks people → The difference between the event and the story you attach to it  → Why acceptance is power, not weakness  → How to rewrite the narrative once you stop fighting reality  → What alignment actually feels like (hint: it's relief, not effort) If you've been chasing clarity, forcing outcomes, or wondering why nothing clicks even when things look fine on the outside — this one will shift something.  Drop a comment with what you're currently resisting.  That might be exactly where your answer is waiting.    ---  CHAPTERS  00:00 Why You Feel Stuck Even When You Want Clarity  00:20 Asking for Answers but Resisting Them 01:05 The Real Source of Suffering 02:06 Personal Story: Asking for a Sign 04:29 Reframing Unexpected Outcomes 09:05 Asking Is Easy — Receiving Is Hard 10:29 Events vs Stories  11:33 Acceptance, Narrative, and Alignment   Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV.https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence   About Joey: Joey Vaillancourt, host of the Real Influence podcast, helps people overcome apathy, feeling trapped and living a life of resignation by inspiring them to challenge their assumptions and handed down beliefs so they can experience a more purposeful, fulfilled and aligned life

TheGreatLifeExperiment.ca - You're chasing success or you've hit it. Either way, you're stuck in the same loop. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days that rewire the patterns keeping you running on autopilot so you can reclaim true freedom in how you live and lead. Are you building success… but slowly sacrificing your health in the process? Why do so many men feel strong in business, but tired, drained, and inconsistent in their body? And what if the real issue isn't time… but how you're prioritizing your health? In this episode, we sit down with Chris Wilson to unpack a truth most high performers avoid: most men don't have a health problem… they have a priority problem. If you've ever wondered why successful men sacrifice their health, or why men lose their health in their 30s and 40s, this conversation will hit home in a real way 🤓 As you chase success, build a business, lead a team, and provide for your family, your body often becomes the thing you sacrifice. Over time, that leads to mental burnout, low energy, lack of consistency, and declining performance. And the reality is… you can't catch up on your health later. That's a dangerous mindset many high achievers fall into. We dive into how to stay fit while building a business, how to create a healthy lifestyle that actually works for busy men, and why consistency over intensity is the real key to long-term success. Whether you're trying to break out of the dad bod phase, improve your health habits, or become a stronger, more present leader at home and at work, this episode gives you a practical and honest perspective.   Chris also shares simple but powerful strategies like short, effective workouts including the six minute cardio method, and how you can build strength, stamina, and discipline even with limited time. If you've ever thought how to stay fit while being successful, or struggled with how to stay active with a busy lifestyle, this will give you a new way to approach fitness.   We also go deeper into identity, discipline, and awareness. Because real transformation doesn't come from random workout routines… it comes from who you become in the process. This is about becoming the kind of man who prioritizes movement, values longevity, and understands that fitness is not separate from success… it fuels it 😄   Another powerful part of this conversation is awareness around habits. From mental health awareness to understanding how small daily choices impact long-term outcomes, this episode challenges you to look at what's actually controlling your behavior. Whether it's lack of movement, inconsistency, or even subtle addictions like overworking or constant stimulation, everything has a cost.   If you want to become a fit dad, improve your men's health, and build a life where success and health coexist, this episode will give you both the mindset and the strategy to move forward.   If this resonated, drop a comment below and share what you're starting to notice about your own habits. What's one thing you know you need to change but haven't yet?   Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this with someone who's chasing success… but might be forgetting to take care of their health along the way.   In this, we'll talk about: 00:00 Why Most Men Sacrifice Their Health for Success 00:18 Meet Chris Wilson + Strength Beyond the Gym 04:30 Chris Wilson's Fitness Journey and Early Influences 09:14 What Changes After 40: Health, Awareness, and Priorities 11:14 Why Movement Declines as Life Gets Busy 16:13 The Trap of "I'll Focus on Health Later" 17:11 Simple Workouts for Busy Men (6-Minute Cardio) 30:26 Habits, Discipline, and Long-Term Health Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV.https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence   Connect with Chris! https://www.criticalbench.com https://www.criticalnutritionlabs.com https://www.youtube.com/@Criticalbench/videos https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strong-by-design-podcast/id1383270948   About Joey: Joey Vaillancourt, host of the Real Influence podcast, helps people overcome apathy, feeling trapped and living a life of resignation by inspiring them to challenge their assumptions and handed down beliefs so they can experience a more purposeful, fulfilled and aligned life.

TheGreatLifeExperiment.ca - You're chasing success or you've hit it. Either way, you're stuck in the same loop. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days that rewire the patterns keeping you running on autopilot so you can reclaim true freedom in how you live and lead. Do you ever feel disrespected by the people closest to you even when you're doing everything right? Why do you give so much, overdeliver, and still feel unappreciated or taken for granted? And what if that feeling isn't actually about them… but about a hidden expectation you didn't even realize you had? In this episode, we break down one of the most common emotional triggers in relationships: feeling unappreciated in relationships despite giving your best. If you've ever wondered why I feel disrespected by people close to me, or why I feel hurt when I'm not recognized, this conversation will hit deeper than you expect 🤓 Many high achievers operate from an unconscious pattern of overdelivering and feeling unappreciated, believing that if they give more, love harder, and show up stronger, they will finally receive the respect and validation they're looking for. But underneath that pattern is something most people never see: hidden expectations in relationships and what we call an invisible contract. This episode explains the concept of invisible contract relationships, where you give with the expectation that others will respond in a certain way… even though they never agreed to that expectation. And when that doesn't happen, it creates resentment, frustration, and the feeling that you're being taken for granted. We also dive into validation seeking behavior, why you might feel like you constantly need recognition, and how that pattern leads to emotional triggers that repeat over and over again. If you've ever thought why I give so much but get nothing back, or struggled with how to stop needing validation from others, this will help you reframe everything. You'll learn how to shift into a giving without expectation mindset, how to build self respect without validation, and how to stop tying your worth to how others respond to you. This is where real freedom starts. Not when people change, but when your internal state changes. We also explore how to move from reaction to awareness using the influence ladder, and how emotional triggers in relationships are often pointing back to a belief that's been running quietly in the background for years. Once you see it, you can change it. One of the most powerful takeaways is this: the goal is not to fix people, control outcomes, or force respect. The goal is to show up grounded, present, and aligned, regardless of how others behave. That's where true influence comes from 😄 If you've been stuck in the cycle of feeling unappreciated, constantly overgiving, or wondering why success in life doesn't translate to fulfillment in relationships, this episode will give you a completely new perspective. If this resonated, share your biggest takeaway in the comments. What's one belief about respect, validation, or relationships that you're starting to question? Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this with someone who gives a lot… but secretly feels unappreciated. In this, we'll talk about: 00:00 Why You Feel Disrespected Even When You Do Everything Right 00:35 Overdelivering and Feeling Unappreciated 01:52 The Hidden Expectation Behind Relationship Triggers 03:29 The Meaning Loop: Why You React the Way You Do 05:40 Invisible Contract Relationships Explained 10:00 The Belief Behind Validation Seeking Behavior 16:50 Holding Space Instead of Trying to Fix People 22:02 How to Stop Feeling Unappreciated and Build Self Respect Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV.https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence About Joey: Joey Vaillancourt, host of the Real Influence podcast, helps people overcome apathy, feeling trapped and living a life of resignation by inspiring them to challenge their assumptions and handed down beliefs so they can experience a more purposeful, fulfilled and aligned life.

TheGreatLifeExperiment.ca - You're chasing success or you've hit it. Either way, you're stuck in the same loop. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days that rewire the patterns keeping you running on autopilot so you can reclaim true freedom in how you live and lead. Do you ever feel like you're doing everything right… but still feel stressed and on edge? Why does success still feel like pressure, even when you've achieved what you wanted? And why does peace feel uncomfortable, like you should be doing more instead of slowing down? In this episode, we dive deep into high achiever burnout, the hidden patterns behind high achiever stress, and why so many people are quietly white knuckling their way through life even while talking about work life balance. If you've ever felt like you can't turn off your brain, keep thinking about work after hours, or struggle with mental burnout, this conversation will hit close to home 🤓 Most people think the solution is better habits, more discipline, or another productivity system. But the real issue is the identity underneath the hustle. If your subconscious belief is that your worth comes from pressure, productivity, or constant achievement, you will keep recreating hustle culture burnout no matter how many tools you use. We break down the overworking mindset, the internal pressure to succeed, and why even when you slow down, you still feel stressed. If you've ever asked yourself why I feel stressed even when I slow down, or struggled with how to stop overthinking work after hours, this episode will help you understand what's actually going on beneath the surface. You'll learn how to begin an identity shift, how to rewire your brain for success, and how to move from force and pressure into a more aligned way of living. This is not about doing less. It's about removing the internal resistance that makes everything feel heavy. We also explore the difference between looking relaxed and actually being regulated. Because many high performers talk about balance, but internally still feel tension, anxiety, and work stress running in the background. That's what keeps you stuck in hustle culture pressure, even when you're trying to do things differently. If you want productivity without burnout, real work life balance, and the ability to actually be present with your family, your goals, and your life, then this episode will challenge the way you think about success. This is your invitation to stop worrying and start living, not by abandoning ambition, but by changing the belief system that drives it 😄 If this resonated, share your biggest takeaway in the comments. What's one belief about success or productivity you're starting to question? Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this with someone who looks like they have it all together but is secretly feeling the pressure. In this, we'll talk about: 00:00 Why You Still Feel Pressure Even When Doing Everything Right 00:37 Work Life Balance but Still Stressed 02:00 The White Knuckle High Achiever Explained 04:50 High Achiever Burnout and Overthinking Work After Hours 06:00 Why You Feel Stressed Even When You Slow Down 08:22 Identity Shift: The Belief Behind Hustle Culture Pressure 13:18 Productivity Without Burnout and Rewiring Success Beliefs 19:15 Stop Worrying and Start Living Without Pressure Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV.https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence About Joey: Joey Vaillancourt, host of the Real Influence podcast, helps people overcome apathy, feeling trapped and living a life of resignation by inspiring them to challenge their assumptions and handed down beliefs so they can experience a more purposeful, fulfilled and aligned life.

👉 Can't turn it off or enjoy what you've built? TheGreatLifeExperiment.ca - You're chasing success or you've hit it. Either way, you're stuck in the same loop. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days that rewire the patterns keeping you running on autopilot so you can reclaim true freedom in how you live and lead. Are you a high achiever who feels exhausted even when you're winning? Why does success sometimes feel stressful instead of fulfilling? What if the real reason you can't relax isn't your workload, but the belief system behind your success mindset? This episode unpacks a powerful truth that many high performers never question: the belief that success requires suffering. If you're experiencing high achiever burnout, constantly pushing through pressure, and wondering why productivity still feels heavy even when you're succeeding, this conversation will resonate deeply 🤓. Many people in hustle culture unknowingly wire their identity around stress, believing that hard work must always come with sacrifice, exhaustion, and burnout. We dive into the difference between effort vs identity, and how two people can take the exact same actions but experience completely different outcomes. One builds peace and fulfillment, while the other builds pressure, resentment, and hustle culture burnout. If you've ever wondered why high achievers feel exhausted, or why success still feels stressful even after reaching goals, this episode will help you uncover the unconscious programming behind it. You'll learn how identity shifting and rewiring success beliefs can transform the way you approach work, productivity, and achievement. Instead of chasing success through stress and constant pressure, Joey explains how to build productivity without burnout, operate from a healthier productivity mindset, and achieve real success and fulfillment without sacrificing your health, relationships, or peace of mind. We also explore powerful concepts like nervous system regulation, primal state vs powerful state, and the mindset shift between power vs force. Many high achievers operate from a primal state where stress equals productivity, but true high performance actually comes from alignment, clarity, and emotional regulation. Learning how to move out of hustle culture patterns and into a calmer nervous system can dramatically change the way you lead, work, and live. If you've ever struggled with work life balance, felt caught in the trap of constant productivity, or believed that achievement must come at the cost of your personal life, this episode challenges that idea. Joey shares practical insights on how to pursue achieving success without pressure, why family first values can coexist with ambitious goals, and how to redefine success without falling into the trap of self imposed suffering. We also discuss lessons inspired by The Game of Life, how changing your internal language shifts your nervous system, and why labeling challenges differently can unlock creativity and resilience. When you start reframing experiences and practicing new beliefs, you create space for success without suffering and begin building a life that integrates ambition with peace. This episode is for entrepreneurs, leaders, creators, and high performers who want to achieve big goals while protecting what matters most. If you've been chasing success but secretly feeling burned out, overwhelmed, or disconnected from fulfillment, this conversation will help you rethink the identity behind your effort and build a healthier approach to success 😄. If this episode resonated with you, share your thoughts in the comments and tell us what belief about success you're starting to question. Your insight might help someone else break free from hustle culture and rediscover a more sustainable path to achievement. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this with another high achiever who might need to hear that success does not require suffering. In this, we'll talk about: 00:00 Why High Achievers Feel Exhausted Even When Winning 00:35 Effort vs Identity: The Hidden Driver of Burnout 01:16 The Belief That Success Requires Suffering 02:40 How Hustle Culture Wires Your Nervous System for Pressure 06:20 Rewriting Success Beliefs and Identity Shifting 11:16 Seasons of Grind vs Identity of Sacrifice 17:14 The Mindset Shift That Reduces Stress and Burnout 21:04 The Trap of Earned Enjoyment and Success Without Suffering Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV.https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence About Joey: Joey Vaillancourt, host of the Real Influence podcast, helps people overcome apathy, feeling trapped and living a life of resignation by inspiring them to challenge their assumptions and handed down beliefs so they can experience a more purposeful, fulfilled and aligned life.  

👉 You've chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: http://TheGreatlLifeExperiment.ca/ Are you successful on paper but secretly exhausted inside? Do you feel trapped by responsibility at work, even though you worked hard to get here? What if you are not burned out, but carrying success the wrong way? 🤯 In this episode of Real Influence, we explore why high performer burnout is not just about working too much. It is about the identity and patterns behind how you carry responsibility. If you have ever wondered why high achievers feel empty after success, why you cannot seem to escape hustle culture, or why leadership pressure never really turns off, this conversation is for you. We unpack how to stop overthinking, how to stop overworking, and how to escape overdrive mode without quitting your job or abandoning your ambition. The truth is, you are not trapped by work. You are trapped by the patterns that define how you carry it. If you have been feeling trapped by responsibility at work, navigating corporate burnout recovery, or trying to figure out how to regulate stress while maintaining high performance, this episode will help you break the burnout success pattern and shift from force to flow. 🤓 We dive into identity rewiring, breaking stress patterns, calm leadership under pressure, and why success without suffering is possible. You will learn how to stop tying self worth to productivity, how to redefine success beyond hustle culture, and how to build inner freedom without immediately escaping corporate life. This is not about lowering your standards. It is about rewiring the high performer mindset so you can achieve more by forcing less. It is about leadership without self sacrifice. It is about realizing you are not burned out. You are misaligned. If you have ever asked yourself how to stop overworking but stay ambitious, why you feel trapped even after achieving your goals, or how to regulate stress while carrying big responsibility, you will resonate deeply with this episode. It is time to break autopilot thinking, redesign your success patterns, and step into a new way of leading rooted in clarity, vision, and sustainable performance. 😄 If this episode helped you, share it with another high achiever who may be silently carrying too much pressure. Subscribe for more conversations on escaping hustle culture, high performer burnout recovery, and building success without self sacrifice. In this, we'll talk about: 00:00 Successful but Secretly Exhausted? The Hidden Trap 02:13 Extreme Ownership: No One Is Coming to Save You 04:49 Silence Speaks Louder Than Words 07:32 Act As If the Wish Is Fulfilled 11:49 Stay the Course and Have Faith Through Adversity 15:53 Breaking the Hustle and Grind Reflex 16:47 Vision Over Tactics: Your North Star 22:55 Responsibility Without Self-Sacrifice Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV.https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence

👉 You've chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: http://TheGreatlLifeExperiment.ca/ Why do you get triggered so easily even when you tell yourself you should be more mature by now? Why does success still feel empty even after you prove yourself over and over again? And what if your emotional triggers are not random but rooted in a core belief you have never questioned? In this episode, we go deep into emotional triggers, golden child syndrome, lack of trust, and the unconscious belief systems that silently run your life. If you have ever wondered how to stop getting triggered or how to stop reacting emotionally in moments that feel small but hit hard, this conversation is for you. I share a powerful workshop exercise inspired by the book Trigger Proof and Family Constellations work that helped me uncover the core belief behind my emotional reactions. For years, I operated from a lack of trust in relationships without even realizing it. I believed I had to overachieve, prove myself, and control outcomes. But underneath it all was a deeper pattern rooted in childhood and golden child syndrome. This episode breaks down emotional triggers explained in a practical way. We explore why you overreact, how to respond instead of react, and how to rewrite limiting beliefs that were formed decades ago. If you struggle with trust issues, self authorship, mindset reprogramming, or unconscious suffering patterns, this will resonate deeply. You will learn how to identify your core program, how to heal trust issues, and how to shift from reacting emotionally to responding consciously. This is about self awareness, emotional growth, and doing the inner work required to become trigger proof. It is about understanding why you say things like I knew I could not trust them or I always have to prove myself. If you are an overachiever who feels unsettled, someone who experiences emotional triggers in relationships, or someone trying to understand why success still feels empty, this episode will give you language and tools to move forward. You will see how childhood affects adult behavior and how becoming aware of your golden child patterns can completely shift your life. The goal is not perfection. The goal is awareness. Once you see the belief, you can rewrite it. Once you identify the resistance, you can create desired results. That is the power of self authorship and conscious mindset reprogramming 😌 If this episode helped you understand your triggers, share your biggest insight in the comments. Your awareness could create a ripple effect for someone else 🤓 Subscribe for more conversations on emotional intelligence, identity awareness, belief rewiring, and living a more purposeful life. In this, we'll talk about: 00:00 Why Do You Get Triggered So Easily? 01:10 The Workshop That Changed My Perspective 03:30 Ego, Blind Spots, and Hidden Core Programs 06:20 The Letter Exercise to Reveal Your Triggers 08:30 The Lack of Trust Pattern Explained 10:15 Golden Child Syndrome and Overachieving 12:45 Nothing Left to Prove 14:30 How to Rewrite Limiting Beliefs and Become Trigger Proof   Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV.https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence

👉 You've chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: http://TheGreatlLifeExperiment.ca/ Are you successful on paper, but still feel empty inside? Have you ever wondered why hustle culture rewards suffering but postpones joy? What if the belief system driving your success is the very thing draining your happiness? In this episode, we break down the Tony Robbins and Alex Hormozi interview that quietly turned into a powerful live coaching session 🤯. What Tony Robbins exposed wasn't about tactics, productivity hacks, or how to scale a business. It was about the belief system running hustle culture and why so many high achievers feel burned out, unfulfilled, and disconnected despite massive success. If you've ever believed that success requires sacrifice, suffering, or grinding at the expense of your health, relationships, or peace, this conversation will challenge everything you think you know about achievement. We explore why the "fuck happiness" mindset is dangerous for high achievers, how productivity without alignment leads to burnout, and what success without sacrifice actually looks like in real life. This video dives deep into identity shifting, the entrepreneur mindset shift Tony Robbins invited Alex Hormozi into, and why redefining success is essential if you want to build wealth without losing joy 😌. You'll learn how hustle culture trains people to equate suffering with strength, why success can still feel empty, and how to move toward aligned success that feels fulfilling instead of exhausting. Whether you're an entrepreneur, creator, or high performer questioning the grind, this episode is about breaking free from hustle culture, becoming your future self, and designing a life rooted in purpose driven success 🌱. If you're ready to redefine who you are, reconnect with what actually matters, and build success without struggle, this message is for you. 👉 Watch until the end if you've ever felt successful but unfulfilled, productive but disconnected, or ambitious yet exhausted because you're not broken, and you don't need to suffer to succeed. In this, we'll talk about: 00:00 Tony Robbins & Alex Hormozi Coaching Session 02:05 Hustle Culture Mindset Exposed 05:00 Success Without Fulfillment 07:55 Identity Shift for High Achievers 10:20 Becoming Your Future Self 13:20  Productivity vs Alignment 16:00 Why Suffering Is Not Required for Success 19:30 Redefining Success Without Sacrifice Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV.https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence

👉 You've chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: http://TheGreatlLifeExperiment.ca/ Why do small things trigger big fights in relationships? Have you ever wondered why you keep reacting to your partner even when you don't want to? And why does it feel like the argument is never really about the thing you're arguing about? In this episode of Real Influence, Joey breaks down why small things trigger you in relationships and how those moments are often tied to old emotional patterns, inherited beliefs, and nervous system reactions you didn't consciously choose 🤓. If you've ever asked yourself "why do tiny annoyances turn into big arguments?" or "why do I overreact to my partner?", this conversation will hit home. We explore why small things cause big fights, how reacting versus responding in relationships shapes connection, and what's actually happening in your body when you feel triggered 😄. Joey explains relationship triggers, defensiveness, and emotional reactions in relationships, helping you see conflict not as a failure but as information. This episode is especially for anyone stuck in repeating relationship patterns, struggling with communication in long-term relationships, or feeling frustrated that awareness alone hasn't stopped the same arguments from happening again. You'll learn how to stop fighting over small things, how to respond instead of react, and how to interrupt the automatic reactions that damage connection. We also dive into how childhood conditioning shows up in adult relationships, why resentment builds quietly, and how emotional regulation in relationships starts with self-awareness, not control 🤍. If you're searching for how to heal relationship triggers, how to stop being defensive with your partner, or why your partner triggers you so easily, this episode gives you language and clarity. This isn't relationship advice about fixing your partner. It's about breaking emotional loops, choosing conscious response, and learning how to create healthier, calmer, more connected relationships from the inside out. 🔔 SUBSCRIBE for weekly episodes on self-mastery, relationships, emotional regulation, and living in alignment. 👍 LIKE this video if it resonated and SHARE it with someone who needs to hear it. In this, we'll talk about: 00:00 Why Small Triggers Create Big Emotional Reactions 06:10 Why Conflict Is Rarely About What You're Fighting Over 12:05 How Past Conditioning Shows Up in Present Relationships 18:40 Reaction vs Response and Why Awareness Isn't Enough 25:30 The Nervous System, Safety, and Emotional Regulation 32:10 Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns 39:15 How to Interrupt Emotional Loops in Real Time 46:20 Choosing Connection, Responsibility, and Growth   Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV.https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence   Connect with Monika! Social: https://www.instagram.com/monikavaillancourt/ Coaching: https://joeyvaillancourt.com/coaching/ 

👉 You've chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: http://TheGreatlLifeExperiment.ca/ Have you done therapy, gained awareness, and still feel stuck in the same patterns? What if the issue isn't therapy  but the level of support you're using? In this episode of Real Influence, it breaks down therapy vs coaching and explains why therapy often stops working for high achievers who already understand their patterns but can't create lasting change. This is not an anti-therapy conversation. It's an evolution conversation. Joey shares his personal post-divorce therapy experience, the ceiling of talk therapy, and the exact moment he realized awareness without action was keeping him trapped. You'll learn the different levels of personal growth, when processing is helpful, when it becomes a loop, and why coaching pairs mindset with execution to create real momentum. If you're successful on paper but feel unfulfilled, burned out, or quietly stuck, this episode will help you identify whether your current support is empowering you or enabling you. You'll also learn:  👉 Why venting without action creates dependency  👉 The difference between insight and embodiment  👉 How the state of the teacher affects results  👉 Why tools matter more than talk  👉 How to know when it's time to upgrade your growth 🎯 Ready to redesign your life from the inside out? Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV.https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence   In this, we'll talk about: 00:00 When Therapy Stops Working   02:15 Awareness Without Change   05:00 Therapy vs Coaching Explained 07:40 Why Action Creates Results  10:30 Tools That Build Self-Trust  14:00 Knowing When to Upgrade 

👉 You've chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: http://TheGreatlLifeExperiment.ca/ Are you crushing business goals but quietly feeling like life is passing you by? What if the reason success feels heavy isn't lack of discipline but lack of intentional life planning? And what if planning your life the same way you plan your business could actually give you more peace, clarity, and joy? Every year, high achievers sit down to plan revenue targets, growth goals, OKRs, and business strategy but almost never stop to intentionally plan their life. 🤯 In this episode, Joey shares the 7-step annual life planning framework he personally uses to make sure success doesn't cost his health, relationships, or inner peace. This is not another hustle mindset or productivity hack. It's a practical, reflective, and deeply intentional process that blends life planning, mindset work, spirituality, and structure so your life doesn't get left behind while you build impact 🤓✨. You'll learn how to plan your life like a business without burning out, why reflection must come before goal setting, and how to align your daily actions with the person you actually want to become. Joey breaks down why most high performers are great at planning outcomes but terrible at planning experiences and how that disconnect leads to regret, exhaustion, and autopilot living. Inside this episode, you'll discover: 00:00 Why many high achievers plan their business but forget to plan their life 01:30 How to begin life planning with reflection instead of pressure 03:39 Why having a clear life vision matters more than setting goals 05:53 The mindset shift that helps release resistance and limiting beliefs 07:30 A powerful handwriting exercise that reveals what truly matters 12:20 How to use OKRs and quarterly planning for your personal life 15:14 Daily questions that help you stay focused, present, and aligned 18:22 Why putting your life on the calendar changes everything  This episode is especially for high achievers, entrepreneurs, leaders, and growth-minded individuals who want success and presence. If you've ever thought, "I'll enjoy life later, once I hit the goal," this conversation is your wake-up call 😄. Planning your life doesn't limit you, it frees you. You're not behind. You're being invited to live with intention. 🎯 If this resonates, subscribe, share it with someone who looks successful on paper but feels disconnected inside, and check out The Great Life Experiment, a free 30-day journey designed to bring clarity, peace, and purpose into your everyday life. Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV.https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence

👉 You've chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: http://TheGreatlLifeExperiment.ca/ Why do you keep doing the "right things" but still feel stuck? Why does it feel like something inside you is blocking your goals no matter how hard you try? Why does your mind keep pulling you back into old patterns you swore you were done with? If you've ever wondered "Why am I sabotaging myself even when I want to change?", this episode is going to feel like relief. Today, I'm breaking down the five mindset frameworks that completely rewired my life, ended my daily suffering, and helped me shift out of fear, resistance, self-doubt, burnout, and survival mode. 🤓 These aren't theories. These are the exact tools I learned after privately coaching with David Bayer, going through every level of his program, and investing over six figures into understanding why our beliefs, stories, and emotional patterns silently dictate our results. If you've been feeling like you're driving with the brakes on, this will help you see exactly where that resistance is hiding. You'll learn the formula Desire + Non-Resistance = Desired Result, the real truth behind the primal vs. powerful state, and how to identify when your mind is lying to you. You'll also hear how neural sculpting, evidence-building, and the decision matrix helped me stop feeling overwhelmed, trapped, or constantly behind in life. By the end, you'll understand how beliefs create thoughts, thoughts create feelings, feelings create actions, and actions create your results and most importantly, how to rewrite that loop from the inside out. If this helped you feel even 1% more hopeful, drop a comment with the belief you're ready to release and the new belief you're choosing. Let's rewire your patterns together. And if you want to go deeper, join me inside The Great Life Experiment, a free 30-day journey where I send you one powerful question each day to help you live with more clarity, peace, alignment, and purpose. Your life doesn't change from knowing the information. It changes when you decide and take action. Let's begin. 🤓🔥 🔔 Don't forget to subscribe, like, and share to be part of the Real Influence community and keep receiving transformational insights! In this, we'll talk about: 00:00 – The Five Frameworks That Changed Everything 00:36 – How Coaching With David Rewired Me 01:25 – Why Desire Always Reveals Resistance 02:19 – Removing Blocks That Sabotage Goals 04:51 – Primal vs Powerful State Explained 08:07 – The Belief Loop That Runs Your Life 10:32 – The Power of Choosing New Decisions 15:11 – The Decision Matrix That Rewires You   Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV.https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence

👉 You've chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: http://TheGreatlLifeExperiment.ca/ 🤔 Have you ever wondered if your goals are truly possible or just wishful thinking? Do you feel stuck in life, unsure if your beliefs are holding you back? 💡 Are you chasing big dreams but struggling with limiting beliefs and self-doubt? In this episode of Real Influence, Joey Vaillancourt dives deep into the difference between wishful thinking vs. embodied belief, limiting beliefs vs. actual limits, and how to trust the process when life feels uncertain. If you've ever questioned your confidence, lost clarity in your goals, or felt like time is running out, this video is for you! We explore practical strategies for overcoming limiting beliefs, breaking free from the achievement trap, and finding clarity and direction in life. Joey shares his personal journey of chasing success, investing in personal development, and finally discovering what it really takes to live a fulfilling life without sacrificing joy, health, or relationships. 🌱 Learn how to reframe your mindset, let go of old stories, and embrace the outcomes you truly need, even when they're not what you expected. This episode also covers how to set big goals with confidence, how to identify the thinking behind your desires, and how to build evidence for what's possible in your life. If you want to start living life as a Great Life Experiment, unlock your potential, and experience more fulfillment in your personal and professional life, this is your roadmap. 🚀 In this, we'll talk about: (00:00) Feeling Stuck & Finding Direction in Life (03:01) Wishful Thinking vs. True Belief (06:01) Overcoming Limiting Beliefs & Self-Doubt (09:31) Rewriting Your Success Scripts & Letting Go of Old Narratives (12:46) Trust the Process, Chase Goals Without Burnout & Find Clarity 💬 Comment below your biggest challenge with belief, and Joey will guide you through the thought processes to help shift your mindset. 🔔 Don't forget to subscribe, like, and share to be part of the Real Influence community and keep receiving transformational insights!   Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV.https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence  

👉 You've chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: http://TheGreatlLifeExperiment.ca/ Have you ever tried manifesting — but nothing actually happened? 🤔 Do you feel like you're doing all the "right things" — vision boards, affirmations, positive thinking — but still feel stuck? 😩 What if manifestation isn't magic at all… but a real, brain-based process that you can actually train scientifically? 🧠✨ Welcome to the truth about real manifestation — not fluff, not mystical, not "think-it-and-wait." This episode breaks down how manifestation actually works using psychology, neuroscience, and high-performance habits. If you've ever searched "why isn't my manifestation working" or "how to manifest results in real life," this one's for you. 🚀 We'll uncover the science behind manifestation, how your belief system and subconscious mind literally shape your perception, and how to rewire your brain for success using alignment, action, and feedback. No magic — just mental engineering that helps you move from "hoping" to "happening." 🔥 In this episode, we'll talk about: 00:00  – Why your manifestation isn't working (and what's missing) 🤔   02:21 The Science of Manifestation – How your brain actually creates results 🧠   04:34 How to Align Your Thoughts, Emotions & Actions for Real Success 💭   06:41 Visualization & Rewiring – Train your brain like an athlete 🎯   12:36 Signs Your Manifestation Is Working (and when to realign) 🔍   Forget the Law of Attraction myths — this episode is about scientific manifestation and emotional alignment that actually leads to results. You'll see how belief + action + feedback create your outcomes, and why faith without focus = frustration. Whether you're an entrepreneur, creator, or anyone chasing a bigger life, this episode will help you align your thoughts, beliefs, emotions, and actions — the four pillars of manifestation that actually work in the real world. ✨ Stop wishing. Start wiring. ✨ Stop visualizing without acting. Start aligning with purpose. ✨ Stop waiting for the universe — train your brain to recognize what's already possible.   If you've ever thought:  🔹 "Why isn't my manifestation working?"  🔹 "How can I reprogram my beliefs for success?"  🔹 "How do I take action without fear?"  …this episode is your blueprint for manifesting with clarity, science, and confidence. ✨ If this episode hits home, comment ALIGN below 💬 — let's see how many of us are ready to rewire our minds for the life we actually want. Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV.https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence

👉 You've chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: http://TheGreatlLifeExperiment.ca/ What if your addiction isn't to alcohol or substances — but to control, perfection, or validation? 🤔 Have you ever wondered why success still feels empty, even when you've hit every goal? 🏆 Or maybe you've been chasing "growth" and "healing," but deep down, something still feels off — like you're disconnected from who you really are. 💭 In this episode of Real Influence with Joey Vaillancourt, we uncover how the 12 Steps to Recovery aren't just for addicts — they're actually one of the most powerful life transformation frameworks ever created. From learning how to let go of control to practicing radical self honesty, this conversation will help you reconnect with your true self and finally start living with purpose, peace, and alignment. 🌱 You'll discover: 0:00 – Intro: The 12 Steps that can transform your life 1:00 – Why success feels empty when your worth is built on validation 3:00 – The truth about emotional healing and how to stop numbing with busyness 5:00 – What "higher power" really means when you don't identify as religious 7:30 – How to find inner peace through surrender instead of control 10:00 – Why forgiveness and letting go are the keys to real freedom This isn't about religion — it's about reclaiming your soul from everything that's been running your life on autopilot. If you've ever asked yourself, "Who am I without my achievements?" or "How do I fix my life when I've tried everything?" — this episode will speak directly to you. Join me as I share how living the 12 steps of recovery can heal far more than addiction — it can help you heal control, perfectionism, people-pleasing, and emotional burnout. These steps are not about being broken; they're about remembering who you really are underneath the noise. 🌙 Watch until the end to learn how to:  💭 Practice radical self honesty and self-reflection daily  🕊️ Build trust in something bigger than yourself (even if you're not religious)  💫 Let go of the need to "fix" everything and finally feel at peace  💬 Apply each of the 12 steps to real life — career, relationships, and emotional freedom Because the truth is, healing isn't about control — it's about surrender. 💫 If you're ready to stop chasing more and start becoming whole again, hit play. 🎥 Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV.https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence  

👉 You've chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: https://joeyvaillancourt.com/the-30-day-challenge/ Have you ever tried manifestation, positive affirmations, or goal setting… but gave up because you thought it wasn't working? 🤔 Do you feel like you're doing everything right in your personal development journey, yet the results don't show up fast enough? ⏳ What if the reason isn't that manifestation doesn't work  but that you've been missing the hidden principle almost no one talks about? 😮 In this episode of Real Influence, we dive deep into the Echo Effect, a powerful mindset principle that explains the lag time between when you set new intentions and when they actually manifest in your life. This single shift can completely transform the way you approach the law of attraction, reprogramming the mind, and personal growth. You'll discover: 00:00 – Why affirmations don't work right away 03:17 – The 3-step framework for consistency 05:00 – Spotting old programming vs new evidence 07:01 – Trusting the process without burnout 09:57 – Why alignment matters more than success If you've ever struggled with impatience in your manifestation practice or felt discouraged in your personal development journey, this episode will help you finally understand what's really happening beneath the surface. 🌱 ✨ Imagine this: instead of feeling frustrated when old patterns show up, you'll recognize them as the "echo effect"  proof that the old program is dissolving. You'll learn to reprogram your subconscious mind, celebrate small wins, and stay consistent with your new habits until the results catch up with your vision. This is for anyone who's ready to:  ✅ Achieve big goals without sacrificing health, relationships, or joy  ✅ Stop chasing success and start actually living in alignment  ✅ Develop consistency habits that support a fulfilled, balanced life  ✅ Experience real freedom by embracing patience in success 🤓 Whether you're into manifestation, mindset shifts, or simply want a practical and refreshing perspective on self-growth, this episode will resonate deeply. Remember: your order has already been placed with the universe. Now it's time to relax, enjoy the process, and trust it's on its way.   Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence   Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV. https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence   #LawOfAttraction #PositiveAffirmations #PersonalDevelopment #GoalSetting #PositiveThinking #EchoEffect #PatienceInSuccess #Alignment #ReprogrammingTheMind #LifeAlignment #TrustTheProcess #ConsistencyHabits #Manifestation #ReprogramYourSubconsciousMind #BiggerVision #SuccessWithoutBurnout #AchieveBigGoals #MindsetShift #realinfluence #joeyvaillancourt #livingunfenced

👉 You've chased every win, hit every goal… and still feel restless and unfulfilled. The Great Life Experiment is $300K of learnings distilled into 30 days of reflection that finally show you why. Start Your 30-Day Challenge Now: https://joeyvaillancourt.com/the-30-day-challenge/ Have you ever wondered if mindset coaches are actually the real deal? 🤔 Are personal development programs like David Bayer's coaching really worth the high investment? 💸 Or is it all just another hype machine promising transformation but leaving you stuck in the same old patterns? Here's what you'll discover in this video: 00:00 – Is David Bayer a fake guru or the real deal? 🤔 02:00 – What the Powerful Living Experience event is actually like 🎤 06:30 – Does the David Bayer Mind Hacks course deliver long-term results?  08:15 – Is investing in a high-ticket coaching program worth it for entrepreneurs and leaders? 💸 15:00 – How transformational coaching helped me find clarity, courage, peak performance, and authentic living 🌱 In this honest review, I share my personal experience investing over $100,000 in David Bayer coaching, programs, and events — including his Powerful Living Experience, Legendary Program, and David Bayer Mind Hack course. This isn't just another highlight reel. It's the raw truth about whether his mindset transformation methods actually lead to life mastery, inner transformation, and authentic living. I'll take you behind the scenes into what it's really like to be coached by David Bayer, including the breakthroughs that helped me stop self-sabotage, unravel limiting beliefs, and align my life with what matters most. 🌱 This video is for anyone who's ever asked: "Should I invest in mindset coaching?" or "How do I break free from the hustle and grind and live with true fulfillment?" If you've been searching for real reviews of David Bayer coaching programs, this will give you the inside scoop. By the end, you'll know whether David Bayer's transformational coaching and Legendary Program is the best decision you'll ever make — or whether you should run the other way. Either way, you'll walk away with practical insights on mindset transformation, success mindset, and how to create life transformation without burning out. If you're ready to break patterns, stop chasing success the hard way, and finally experience inner transformation and authentic influence, this episode is for you. 🚀   Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence   Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV. https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence   #LifeMastery #BreakingPatterns #HighInvestment #DavidBayerMindHacks #LivingExperience #SuccessMindset #AlignYourLife #InnerTransformation #LegendaryProgram #MindsetTransformation #LifeTransformation #TransformationalCoaching #AuthenticLiving #RealDeal #DavidBayer #BusinessCoaching #ClarityAndCourage #PeakPerformance #LeadershipCoaching #MindsetCoach #BreakFree  #realinfluence #joeyvaillancourt #livingunfenced

👉 30-Day Challenge 🚀30 days.  30 questions. From empty wins to deep fulfillment—start your Great Life Experiment today. https://joeyvaillancourt.com/the-30-day-challenge/   🤔 Do you ever feel like you're constantly grinding, pushing, and hustling… yet deep down, you still feel unfulfilled? 😓 Have you ever asked yourself why success feels empty, even after hitting your goals? 🌱 What if slowing down, practicing self-reflection, and redefining what success means could be the secret to true happiness and freedom? In this video, we dive deep into how to escape hustle culture and finally break free from the endless grind mentality that leaves so many people burnt out, dissatisfied, and disconnected from what really matters. If you've been chasing achievement after achievement only to ask yourself, "Is this all there is?" — this conversation will resonate with you. 💡 You'll discover why doing less but living better isn't laziness, but rather one of the most powerful productivity hacks you'll ever learn. Instead of fearing that slowing down means you're falling behind, you'll see how creating space allows you to reconnect with your values, find hidden blessings in the everyday, and actually achieve more with less stress. 😄 If you've ever struggled with the pressure to do more, achieve more, or constantly "prove yourself," this is your reminder that success without fulfillment is failure. True happiness comes not from how many hours you work or how many goals you check off, but from living in alignment with who you really are. ✨ This video is for you if you're tired of hustle, ready to embrace work-life balance, and want to finally experience the freedom that comes from slowing down without falling behind. Together, we'll challenge hustle culture myths, uncover the hidden blessings of reflection, and reframe what it really means to be successful in today's world. By the end of this video, you'll walk away with:  ✅ A new perspective on why hustle culture isn't sustainable  ✅ Practical steps to break free from the grind mentality  ✅ Tools to create success and fulfillment that lasts  ✅ A mindset that values balance, gratitude, and living in the present moment   In this we'll talk about: 00:00 – Why hustle culture leaves us feeling empty 03:45 – The grind mentality: Why "more" never feels enough 09:12 – How to escape hustle culture without losing your drive 15:38 – Doing less but living better: Practical steps to slow down 18:55 – Success and fulfillment: Redefining what truly matters   Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence   Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV. https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence   #StartLiving #FamilyAndWork #GrindMentality #StopChasing #HiddenBlessings #HustleCulture #EscapeHustleCulture #WorkLifeBalance #SelfReflection #LessIsMore #BreakingFree #GrindMindset #HowToBeSuccessful #SuccessAndFulfillment #SlowingDown #OvercomingFearOfFallingBehind #ProductivityHacks #HustleMindset #ThePowerOfNow #DoingLessLivingBetter #realinfluence #joeyvaillancourt #livingunfenced  

👉 30-Day Challenge 🚀30 days.  30 questions. From empty wins to deep fulfillment—start your Great Life Experiment today. https://joeyvaillancourt.com/the-30-day-challenge/ 🤔 Have you ever achieved the goal you worked so hard for… only to feel empty inside? Have you ever thought, "If I can just make more money, build the business, or buy the house—then I'll finally be fulfilled," but found yourself right back in the chase? Why is it that no matter how much we achieve, it still feels like it's never enough? In this episode, we explore the hidden reason behind why success still feels like it's not enough—and the powerful mindset shifts you can make to finally feel fulfilled while still growing and achieving. You'll learn why achievements alone don't create inner peace, how to break free from autopilot living, and what it really takes to align your life with what matters most. He shares his own story of outward success without fulfillment—dream job, business ventures, financial wins—paired with the inner emptiness that came with constantly chasing the next milestone. From there, he unpacks 3 life-changing insights: ✨ You're too focused on outcomes – chasing the next achievement keeps you on a treadmill that never ends. ✨ You're not addressing your beliefs – limiting beliefs about money, love, rest, and success shape how you experience every win. ✨ You're not living your life – postponing joy until "someday" keeps you from fully experiencing the life you've already built. You'll discover how to reframe success through practices like gratitude, self-reflection, and intentional living. Joey introduces tools like the "decision matrix" to help you shift limiting beliefs about money and happiness, and he shows why living life as an experiment, rather than a never-ending chase, is the real path to fulfillment. This conversation is about more than motivation—it's about practical daily shifts that help you step off autopilot, break free from hustle culture, and finally experience what life can feel like when you're living in alignment. Whether you're a high achiever, a parent wanting more family time, or someone feeling "crispy" at the edges of burnout, you'll walk away with clarity and tools you can apply right now. 👉 Inside this episode, you'll learn: ✨ Why achievements won't fulfill you if you're chasing outcomes ✨ How to stop chasing and start living ✨ The truth about why success doesn't equal happiness ✨ How to reframe beliefs about money, rest, and time ✨ Practical tools for building a life of alignment and purpose ✨ Why gratitude is the key to fulfillment today—not someday If you've ever thought "I'll be happy once I get there," this episode is your reminder that your best life begins now. 💡 Ready to go deeper? Join the Great Life Experiment 30-Day Challenge—completely free. Each day, you'll get one powerful shift, reflection, or tool delivered straight to your inbox to help you stop chasing and finally enjoy the success you've already built.  ✨ Don't forget to like 👉  https://youtu.be/k9JT-i5e64c ✨ Subscribe 👉https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRyqlLDxrgpJOHi1W67tFsg and share this with a friend, and drop a comment below on what part of this message hit home for you. Together, let's normalize living fulfilled, present, and aligned lives.   In this we'll talk about: 0:00 – The Big Question: Why Success Still Feels Empty 02:35 – My Story: Outward Success Without Inner Peace 06:40 – The Trap of Chasing Outcomes 12:15 – Breaking Limiting Beliefs About Money & Success   Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/ https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence   Enhance your mental clarity, focus, and brain wellness with NeuroVizr—get 10% off with code JOEYV. https://neurovizr.com/?ref=rirxqhll Transform your meditation and boost sleep, creativity, and focus with Sens.ai—save $100 with code REALINFLUENCE. https://sens.ai/realinfluence   #TrueHappiness #InnerPeaceJourney #FulfillmentFirst #HappinessWithin #ChooseJoyDaily #LiveWithFulfillment #AlignedLiving #PeacefulMindPeacefulLife #AuthenticSuccess #AlignedSuccess #SuccessWithoutBurnout #RedefineSuccess #BeyondHustleCulture #PurposeOverHustle #SuccessWithSoul #AlignedAndThriving #realinfluence #joeyvaillancourt #livingunfenced

Have you ever felt like you're doing all the right things but still not living the life you truly want? What if the gap between where you are and where you want to be wasn't about time, but about identity? And what if you could step into your future self today and watch your reality shift instantly? In this episode, we dive into the 4D Exercise, a powerful tool that helps you design your life from the inside out. It's not about wishful thinking or waiting years for things to change. It's about aligning your desires, your current identity, your future identity, and then choosing to live as that person now. What you'll discover in this episode: Why most people stay stuck repeating the same patterns How your current identity silently shapes your reality The exact steps to create alignment between who you are and who you want to become The mindset shift that turns your goals from "someday" into today This exercise was born out of real coaching experiences and the powerful insights of David Bayer, a leader in mindset and transformational work. It challenges you to go beyond surface-level self-improvement and actually embody your future self now. When you practice this framework, you'll start to notice: Greater clarity about what you truly want More confidence in your decisions A sense of ease because you're no longer waiting for "someday" Alignment between your thoughts, actions, and desired outcomes The 4D Exercise works because it reprograms how you see yourself. Instead of being trapped in your current limitations, you begin to step into possibility. You start acting from the perspective of the person who already has the results you want. And when your actions align with that identity, reality follows. If you've ever felt like you're trapped in cycles of self-sabotage, or like your goals are always out of reach, this episode will give you a framework to shift everything. Ask yourself: Who do I need to be right now to align with my desires? The truth is, you don't have to wait years to live the life you want. You just need to choose your future identity and embody it today. Want to go deeper? Join me for The Great Life Experiment: 30 Days to Rewire Your Reality. This isn't about adding more to your to-do list, it's about living differently. Each day, you'll practice simple but powerful shifts that reconnect you with curiosity, alignment, and the person you truly want to be. Imagine where you could be in just 30 days if you stopped waiting for "someday" and started living as your future self now.   Episode breakdown: 00:00 – Big Question: Creating Your Reality 00:28 – Personal Story & Training with David Bayer 02:31 – Step 1: Creating Your Desires 04:53 – Step 2: Identifying Your Current Identity 08:07 – Step 3: Defining Your Future Identity 12:00 – Living Your Future Self Today   Connect with Joey: https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence https://www.joeyvaillancourt.com https://joeyvaillancourt.com/the-30-day-challenge/   #WhatDoIReallyWant #HowToLiveInAlignment #BecomingThePersonYouWantToBe #DesignYourLife #CreateYourReality #ChangeYourMindsetForSuccess #EmbodyYourBestSelf #BeYourFutureSelfNow #HowToStopImposterSyndrome #FutureSelfVisualization #GoalSetting #Alignment #DavidBayer #HowToChangeYourLife #YourReality #realinfluence #joeyvaillancourt #livingunfenced

Have you ever wondered why positive thinking doesn't work for you? Why the law of attraction fails even when you visualize every day? Or why manifestation feels hard no matter how many vision boards you create? If you've been asking these questions, this episode is for you. In this conversation, I break down why manifestation isn't working the way you've been told and what actually creates lasting results. For years, I was chasing outcomes, hustling harder, and trying to "think positive," but deep down I felt frustrated, stuck, and even burned out. I discovered that the missing pieces were surrender, acceptance, and learning how to feel my goals into reality, not just think them. What we'll explore together: Why positive thinking doesn't work (and the real missing link to manifestation) The hidden trap of chasing outcomes instead of building a life you actually love How to use the Decision Matrix to rewire limiting beliefs and end self-sabotage The Echo Effect and why your external reality always lags behind your inner shifts The truth about overachiever burnout and how to get results by doing less Why the subconscious mind is the real driver of success and how to reprogram it Whether you've tried affirmations, vision boards, or endless mindset coaching sessions, you'll learn why those tools sometimes fail and how to shift into an abundance mindset that feels effortless. This is where ease over hustle becomes the secret to creating not only success, but genuine fulfillment. Practical strategies you'll hear: How to stop chasing outcomes and start enjoying the process of your life How to overcome doubt in manifestation and believe in your goals How to create a life of alignment instead of living on autopilot How to attract success effortlessly by feeling into your vision How to build momentum and produce results while spending less time This isn't about quick fixes or surface-level motivation. This is about personal growth, mindset shifts, and lifestyle design that actually last. If you've ever thought "manifestation not working for me" or "why the law of attraction fails," this episode will connect the dots in a way that finally makes sense. So if you're ready to stop the cycle of self-sabotage, let go of limiting beliefs, and start living from a place of abundance mindset and surrender, hit play now.   Episode breakdown: 00:00 – Why Positive Thinking Doesn't Work 03:00 – Vision Without Surrender: Building from Ego vs. Acceptance 07:00 – Chasing Outcomes vs. Building a Life You Actually Love 12:00 – Feeling Is the Secret: How to Manifest with Emotion 16:00 – Decision Matrix & Rewiring Limiting Beliefs 20:30 – The Echo Effect: Why Results Lag and How to Stay Aligned   Connect with Joey: https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/ https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/ https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence https://www.joeyvaillancourt.com     #PositiveThinking #ThinkandGrowRich #TheSecret #ManifestYourLife #LawOfAttractionFails #SuccessMindset #LimitingBeliefs #WhyPositiveThinkingDoesntWork #SelfSabotage #AbundanceMindset #EnjoyTheProcess #DecisionMatrix #LifestyleDesign #ManifestationNotWorking #SubconsciousMind #AttractSuccessEffortlessly #OverachieverBurnout #EchoEffect #MindsetShift #PersonalGrowth #Surrender #MindsetCoaching #EaseOverHustle #VisionBoard #LawOfAttraction #Manifestation #BuildALifeYouLove #OvercomingDoubt #ManifestationFeelsHard #FeelYourGoals #LifeAlignment #StopChasingOutcomes #ProduceResultsWithLessTime

Have you ever wondered why you keep repeating the same 💸 money patterns you learned from your family? Do you and your partner struggle to talk about money without it turning into conflict or disconnection? What if the key to wealth, love, and parenting wasn't in spreadsheets but in healing your money stories and breaking generational patterns? 🤯 In this episode of Real Influence, I sit down with Hannah Chapman financial advisor for entrepreneurs, founder of Expansive CEO, and a visionary leader in conscious financial planning. Together, we unpack how to break free from negative money stories, heal the family money beliefs that are silently shaping your life, and step into true alignment with your purpose and prosperity. Hannah shares how she blends Human Design, money alignment, and spiritual financial planning to help entrepreneurs and families find freedom from scarcity, guilt, and self-sabotage. 🙌 We go deep into the financial healing journey where money isn't just numbers, it's tied to self-worth, inner peace, and generational wealth healing. We also talk about the struggles couples face when one partner doesn't believe in spirituality, how to rebuild marriage trust around money, and how to create financial intimacy in relationships without shame or blame. ❤️ If you've ever asked, "How do I align with my partner about money and spirituality?"  this conversation has the answers. And it doesn't stop at money and marriage. Hannah reveals how parenting through self-healing allowed her to create a safe emotional space for her kids especially raising children on the autism spectrum. 🧩 We explore how parents can break generational money trauma, release scarcity beliefs, and show their children what true abundance looks like. This is more than an episode about money , it's about self-reflection, transformation, and combining inner work with financial success. Whether you're navigating couples money struggles, searching for a financial advisor with spirituality, or simply wanting to heal your money mindset, this episode will inspire you to rewrite your story. ✨ Topics We Cover: Breaking free from money stories & generational trauma Human Design and money alignment Conscious financial planning for entrepreneurs Couples money struggles & financial intimacy in relationships Rebuilding marriage trust when partners disagree about money & spirituality Parenting through self-healing and creating safe emotional space for kids Healing money trauma and finding financial freedom If you're ready to change your money story, heal your relationships, and create a legacy of abundance, this conversation is for you. 🚀   In this we'll talk about: 00:00 – The Real Reason You're Still Struggling With Money 04:58 – Healing Money Trauma: From Scarcity to Soul-Aligned Wealth 11:32 – Bringing Spirituality Into Business (Without Losing Credibility) 18:22 – Marriage, MDMA, and Mindfulness: A Real Conversation About Connection 24:48 – Conscious Parenting: Holding Space for Neurodivergent Kids 31:07 – Generational Healing Through Inner Child Work 36:40 – Using Human Design & Gene Keys in Financial Coaching 41:13 – Legacy Building Through Emotional Safety & Self-Awareness   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.joeyvaillancourt.com   Connect with Hannah! https://hannahrchapman.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/hannahrchapman/ https://www.instagram.com/hannah.chapman.cfp/ Video resources/links of things mentioned https://expansiveceo.com/products_services #ExpansiveCEO #MoneyStories #HealYourMoneyMindset #GenerationalWealthHealing #ConsciousFinancialPlanning #HumanDesignAndMoney #FinancialAdvisorWithSpirituality #CouplesMoneyStruggles #RebuildMarriageTrust #FinancialIntimacy #BreakingGenerationalTrauma #ParentingThroughHealing #SafeEmotionalSpace #realinfluence #joeyvaillancourt #livingunfenced #hannahchapman    

Have you ever wondered what happens when you spend days in total darkness? Can a dark retreat really help you overcome fear, anxiety, and internal chaos? What kind of transformation happens when there's no phone, no light, and no escape but inward? In this powerful episode of Real Influence with Joey Vaillancourt, we dive deep into an unforgettable darkness retreat and what it reveals about the human mind, emotional resilience, and the power of surrender. 🎧🌑 Matthew Stafford, returns to share his second dark room experience — a journey that took him beyond fear, into presence, and toward a state of profound emotional clarity. This isn't your typical wellness trend. It's not about biohacking or chasing highs. This is about facing your shadow, peeling back internal noise, and unlocking deep breakthrough moments in total silence. From spontaneous breathwork breakthroughs to extended periods of wakefulness without exhaustion, Mathew describes the mind-bending impact of 4.5 days in complete darkness — and the surprising physiological effects that followed. Plus, he shares how a traditional Mexican Temazcal ceremony (sweat lodge) right after the retreat amplified his transformation. 🔥💨 💡 What you'll learn in this episode:  ✅ What a darkness retreat actually involves (no substances, no stimulation—just pure stillness)  ✅ How going inward builds massive emotional resilience in daily life  ✅ The role of breathwork in dark retreats and how it leads to altered states  ✅ The surprising science behind DMT production in total darkness  ✅ Why these experiences offer an alternative to psychedelics like ayahuasca  ✅ What it really means to overcome fear through silence, surrender, and presence  ✅ How the mind resets itself and creates a new story about who you are  ✅ Why so many high performers are now turning to silent retreats for mental clarity  ✅ Insights into post-retreat integration, productivity, and internal peace  ✅ The deeper spiritual impact of a true awakening journey For anyone looking for more than surface-level self-care, this conversation is your invitation to explore the real work—the kind that happens in stillness, not hustle. 🙏 🧠 Whether you're a seeker, an entrepreneur, or simply someone craving inner peace, this episode will challenge your assumptions and inspire you to ask:  What if the next breakthrough you're seeking… is on the other side of the dark? This deeply personal multi-part story follows one man's transformation through radical self-exploration—starting with a five-day darkness retreat in complete isolation and concluding with a traditional Temazcal (sweat lodge) ceremony. Along the way, he uncovers powerful lessons about fear, surrender, trauma, and spiritual healing. Inside the journey: 🌀 Darkness Retreat – A raw encounter with ego, memory, and inner stillness. 🪞 Reflections – Insights on identity, trauma, and daily triggers that linger after the dark. 🔥 Temazcal Ceremony – A sacred fire ritual of death, rebirth, and ego dissolution. 🧠 Life Lessons – Over 50 insights blending spiritual truths with grounded personal growth. If you're exploring healing, deep self-discovery, or practical ways to reclaim your power—this story takes you far beneath the surface. 👉 Ready to read the full transformation story? 👇 Ready to explore your own dark retreat or learn more? 🔗 View the Full Document Collection: http://bit.ly/419Mi2U In this we'll talk about:  00:00 – Can Darkness Really Heal You? 02:00 – What Is a Dark Retreat? 06:00 – Before the Retreat: Emotional Preparation 12:00 – Awakening in Total Silence 18:00 – The Power of Breathwork in Darkness 23:00 – DMT, Fasting & Hallucinations 32:00 – Mexican Temazcal Sweat Lodge Experience 41:00 – Post-Retreat Shifts: Focus, Calm & Productivity 49:00 – Final Thoughts on Letting Go, Clarity & Conscious Living   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.joeyvaillancourt.com Connect with Matthew! https://buildgrowscale.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewstafforddotcom/ https://www.instagram.com/build.grow.scale #DarkRetreat #DarknessRetreat #DarkRoomExperience #EmotionalResilience #BreathworkJourney #BreakthroughMoments #OvercomingFear #AwakeningJourney #realinfluence #joeyvaillancourt #livingunfenced

Breakthrough moment alert! Handing over $110K flipped my fear into empowered decisions and rewired my life on the spot. Ready to Face the Fear and Do It Anyway? I reveal my big decision framework for turning life challenges into opportunities for change without regret. This episode shows how breaking through comfort zones to level up isn't about cash—it's about choosing yourself with no safety net. We unpack the vision-first, how-second rule plus evidence building for new empowering beliefs so your next leap sticks. Contrast is your greatest teacher—discover why every obstacle is actually a growth accelerator. If you've wondered how to outwork your self doubt, you'll get the power of positive thinking tools that beat hustle every time. The ultimate gratitude mindset shift: see "failures" as stepping stones and watch opportunities multiply. Hear my daily mantra trick for iron-clad commitment—evidence building that locks in unstoppable momentum.Plus, the vision board hack that magnetized new clients and income the second I relaxed into inspired action. By the end, you'll have a playbook to smash comfort zones, level up fast, and claim the future already waiting for you. 🔥 Hit play, challenge your assumptions, and join the movement for real influence in mindset, partnerships, and life mastery. 🙌 Subscribe, drop your biggest leap in the comments, and share this with anyone still standing on the cliff edge!   In this we'll talk about: 00:00 Facing Fear: $110K Commitment Leap 03:12 Decision Moment: Transformation Begins Now 07:45 Vision First, Let the How Unfold 11:30 Turning Contrast Into Growth Lessons 15:55 Gratitude Mindset Unlocks Abundant Pathways 20:40 Big Decision Framework: Evidence-Building Blueprint   Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms!  https://joeyvaillancourt.com/  / joeyvaillancourt      / joey.vaillancourt.9     / joey-vaillancourt       / @joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence     About Joey: Joey Vaillancourt, host of the Real Influence podcast, helps people overcome apathy, feeling trapped and living a life of resignation by inspiring them to challenge their assumptions and handed down beliefs so they can experience a more purposeful, fulfilled and aligned life.   #BreakingThroughComfortZones #LevelUp #BreakthroughMoment #EmpoweredDecisions #TurnChallengesIntoOpportunities #FaceTheFearDoItAnyway #GratitudeMindsetShift #OutworkYourSelfDoubt #PowerOfPositiveThinking #EvidenceForEmpoweringBeliefs #BigDecisionFramework #realinfluence #joeyvaillancourt #livingunfenced

🔥  Overwhelmed by choices? Wondering how to create a new empowering belief and delete the old, limiting ones? 😅 You're in the right place! In this episode, I reveal my big decision framework—a simple, 5-step process that turns confusion into crystal-clear action. 1️⃣ Identify the limiting belief that's fueling your stress. 2️⃣ Create a new empowering belief that instantly upgrades your mindset. 3️⃣ Find real-life evidence to anchor that belief so it sticks. 4️⃣ Unlock fresh ideas and creative pathways you never saw before. 5️⃣ Clarify your 4D vision and move from "busy" to unstoppable. ✨ I'll share behind-the-scenes stories from coaching sessions and my own life—proof that anyone can break limiting beliefs and make big decisions with confidence. 💡 Whether you're drowning in tasks or wrestling with a career pivot, this big decision framework shows you how to decide what to keep and what to let go—fast. 🤓 Expect mindset science, practical tips, and a few aha-moments you can apply right now. Ready to move from chaos to clarity? Hit Subscribe and smash the 🔔 so you never miss these high-impact mental upgrades. 👉 Comment below: Which limiting belief are you replacing today, and what empowering belief will take its place? Let's build REAL influence—inside and out. 💪   In this we'll talk about: 00:00 Overwhelm Starts Here 02:00 Beliefs Drive Overwhelm Loop 05:00 Five Drivers Framework Explained 08:00 Decision Matrix, Evidence Stacking 12:00 Real-Life Belief Shifts 18:00 Vision, Gratitude, Next Steps   Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/  / joeyvaillancourt      / joey.vaillancourt.9     / joey-vaillancourt       / @joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence     About Joey: Joey Vaillancourt, host of the Real Influence podcast, helps people overcome apathy, feeling trapped and living a life of resignation by inspiring them to challenge their assumptions and handed down beliefs so they can experience a more purposeful, fulfilled and aligned life. #CreateEmpoweringBelief #EmpowerYourMind #LimitingBeliefs #OvercomeScarcityMindset #ClarityVsOverwhelm #ShiftFromOverwhelm #ShiftLimitingBeliefs #StopHustleGrind #BigDecisionFramework#realinfluence #joeyvaillancourt #livingunfenced      

Do gifted students in your life struggle with overcoming perfectionism and anxiety—even when they seem to "have it all"? Want to know how to break free from limiting beliefs while strengthening family communication so everyone thrives?Are you a purpose-driven parent looking for practical mindset shifts to unlock your child's full potential? In this upbeat episode we dive deep into best practices for youth empowerment and parenting emotionally sensitive children—giving you real-world strategies that work 🌟. You'll discover long-tail keys like "how to build confidence in teenagers before college," "questions every coach should ask a teenager," and "daily habits that strengthen youth resilience." We unpack the science of mindset, share purpose-driven family routines 🤝, and reveal the exact language that turns tension into trust during tough conversations. Along the way we tackle overcoming perfectionism in gifted students with evidence-based tools, explore practical mindset shifts for parents that upgrade your home environment, and lay out step-by-step frameworks to break free from limiting beliefs in both adults and kids 🚀. You'll hear stories, scripts, and simple exercises designed to boost family communication, nurture emotionally intelligent teens, and spark resilient, empowered youth ready to change the world. Whether you're searching "best parenting advice for sensitive children," "how to empower young leaders," or "family mindset hacks for purpose-driven living," this video delivers EXACTLY what you need—no fluff, just actionable insights 😄. Hit play, join the conversation, and let's build a home where every member flourishes! 🙌🏻 In this we'll talk about: 00:00 – Cracking the Ancient Brain: Why "I'm Not Enough" Is a Myth 🧠 01:26 – The Purpose-Driven Parenting Roadmap 03:02 – 24-Hour Teen Keynote Sprint—Pressure into Power 🤯 12:06 – College-Ready Confidence: Mindset Tools Teens Actually Use 22:46 – Decode Your Triggers: Fear, Belonging & the "Not Enough" Loop 24:31 – The 5 Primary Drivers: Rewire Beliefs in Real Time 32:25 – Train Your RAS: Spotting Proof You're Winning 🔍   Connect with Joey on your favourite social platforms! https://joeyvaillancourt.com/  / joeyvaillancourt      / joey.vaillancourt.9     / joey-vaillancourt       / @joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence     Connect with Monika!   / monikavaillancourt   www.realinfluencecoaching.com About Joey: Joey Vaillancourt, host of the Real Influence podcast, helps people overcome apathy, feeling trapped and living a life of resignation by inspiring them to challenge their assumptions and handed down beliefs so they can experience a more purposeful, fulfilled and aligned life.  

Ever feel like you're messing up this whole parenting thing? Wondering if homeschooling could work for your strong-willed child—without losing your mind? Curious how to raise confident, autonomous kids without bribes, punishments, or yelling? 😅 In this powerful episode, Katie Wells (aka Wellness Mama) and Joey Vaillancourt peel back the curtain on playful parenting and the beauty of parenting through imperfection. 💛 They share real-life wins, hard lessons, and sanity-saving homeschool tips that prioritize child autonomy, connection, and joy. If you're exploring how to start homeschooling your child or want to break away from outdated systems, this conversation will leave you empowered. Learn what it means to parent without control and how to build strong family values at home—without using fear, guilt, or sticker charts. 🎓✨ We go deep into empathetic parenting and challenge the myth that kids need to be "fixed" or "managed." Instead, Katie offers fresh insights rooted in bratbusters parenting alternatives that center love, trust, and emotional intelligence. ✅ Here's what you'll walk away with: • 🙌 How to embrace parenting through imperfection and model emotional resilience • 🧠 Why child autonomy is key to long-term confidence and motivation • 🎒 Sanity-saving homeschool tips for creating a low-stress, joyful learning environment • 💡 What bratbusters parenting actually looks like in real life • 🧰 Parenting strategies for strong-willed children that build connection, not conflict • 🧘‍♀️ Ways to integrate family wellness and holistic living into your daily rhythm • 🚫 Why parenting without punishments or rewards works—and how to start • 🌱 How to develop your own style of empathetic parenting that honors both you and your child • 🛠️ Tools for building strong family values at home in a way that sticks • ✨ Mindset shifts for navigating homeschool, tantrums, tech use, and more! This is your go-to guide for ditching perfectionism, rediscovering your intuition, and becoming the parent your child truly needs—especially if you're raising strong-willed children. 🧠❤️ 💬 COMMENT BELOW: What's the biggest mindset shift you've had since becoming a parent? 🎧 Watch now for honest, funny, and deeply encouraging wisdom that'll have you saying "YES—that's what I needed!" In this we'll talk about: 00:00 - What if you're parenting wrong? 03:05 – Why school might not work 07:40 – Building deeper bonds with kids 12:10 – Letting your child lead 16:22 – How to start homeschooling today 21:55 – Handling strong-willed kids with grace 27:30 – Parenting without punishments or rewards 33:47 – Real homeschool tips that work   #PlayfulParenting #ParentingThroughImperfection #HomeschoolTips #SanitySavingHomeschool #FamilyWellness #WellnessMama #BratbustersParenting #ParentingWithoutPunishment #HomeschoolingJourney #StartHomeschooling #ChildAutonomy #StrongFamilyValues #EmpatheticParenting #ParentingStrongWilledKids #ConsciousParenting #KatieWells #JoeyVaillancourt #RealInfluence #LivingUnfenced   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.joeyvaillancourt.com   Connect with Katie! https://www.wellnessmama.com https://www.instagram.com/wellnessmama/  

Still holding on to childhood trauma? Want to know how to forgive your parents without getting an apology? Have you ever wondered how your unhealed inner child is affecting your adult life? Do you want to break free from generational patterns and finally experience emotional peace?  In this powerful episode, we dive deep into healing childhood trauma, forgiving your parents, and breaking free from inherited emotional patterns that keep you stuck. Whether you've been feeling disconnected, emotionally triggered, or just plain exhausted by repeating the same cycles, this is your wake-up call. 🛎️ You'll learn how inner child healing and forgiveness work can help you let go of past pain and step into a life of self-awareness, emotional healing, and personal growth. 🤓 We'll uncover the truth behind generational healing and how your ability to heal your past impacts your future—and the legacy you leave behind. 💫 Discover long-term healing solutions, forgiveness tools, and self-awareness practices that actually work. You'll also get practical insights to help you let go of resentment, reprogram subconscious beliefs, and create the emotional space needed to build healthy relationships. 💖 🎯 Topics covered include: How to forgive your parents without denying your pain The power of healing generational trauma Inner child work that transforms your adult relationships Mind-body techniques for emotional release and nervous system regulation Tools to stop inherited self-sabotage and guilt from running your life Why forgiveness is a gift you give yourself This isn't just about letting go of the past—it's about reclaiming your peace, power, and purpose. 🙌 You deserve to heal, grow, and live without emotional baggage. 💥 👉 Watch now if you're ready to shift from pain to peace and rewrite your story from the inside out. In this we'll talk about: 00:00 – Still Waiting for an Apology? 0:36 – Why Forgiveness Matters as a Parent 01:58 – How to Honor Their Suffering 04:22 – How to Honor Their Intent 07:05 – The Actual Forgiveness Process #HealingTrauma #ChildhoodHealing #InnerPeace #SelfAwareness #EmotionalHealing #PersonalGrowth #GenerationalHealing #BreakTheCycle#ForgivenessJourney #SelfHealing #ForgiveYourParents #RadicalForgiveness #JoeyVaillancourt #RealInfluence #livingunfenced Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.joeyvaillancourt.com

Want to retire earlier and live the good life? Tired of being told the only way to build wealth is through stocks and retirement plans? What if everything you've been taught about money was designed to keep you stuck? Ready to break free from the financial system and create wealth on your own terms? In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into how to build wealth without Wall Street and explore the Financial Freedom Blueprint taught by the Personal Finance Rebel himself. This is more than just another money talk — it's a mindset shift. 🚀 Discover the Money Ripples Method 🌀, where you'll learn how to make money without traditional investments, break free from outdated financial beliefs, and create purpose-driven wealth that lasts for generations. 💰✨ We unpack real stories about losing and regaining wealth, overcoming financial trauma, and shifting into a work optional lifestyle through smarter strategies, not harder hustle. 💼➡️🌴 You'll learn about: ✅ How infinite banking works and why it's a game-changer for entrepreneurs ✅ Creating legacy wealth using tools most financial advisors won't talk about ✅ Why the stock market might not be your best bet for long-term financial security ✅ The power of alternative investments and passive income ✅ Building your own personal finance rebel strategy to break generational money patterns ✅ What it means to be a mindset money expert and how to shift your beliefs to attract abundance ✅ The difference between saving money and making your money work for you ✅ How to redefine finance by thinking like a wealth strategist, not a saver ✅ Real stories of financial resilience and how to bounce back stronger 🧠💪 Whether you're just starting out, recovering from financial loss, or already building multiple income streams — this conversation will inspire you to think differently, act boldly, and reclaim control over your money and your mindset. 💥 👋 If you're ready to ditch outdated financial advice, embrace a modern money mindset, and build a life where freedom, purpose, and wealth coexist, hit that play button — this is the episode for you. 👇 Drop a comment if you're ready to redefine what wealth means to YOU. 📌 Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this with someone who needs to hear it! In this we'll talk about: 00:00 – Breaking Generational Money Beliefs & Scarcity Mindsets 05:00 – Health, Hypnotherapy, and Healing for Financial Growth 10:20 – From Financial Advisor to Personal Finance Rebel 16:05 – Losing It All: The Financial Collapse That Changed Everything 22:30 – Creating a Work Optional Lifestyle and Legacy Wealth 28:45 – Building Wealth Without Wall Street or Traditional Investments 34:50 – How Infinite Banking Works 42:00 – Financial Freedom Blueprint: How to Redefine Finance #MoneyRipples #WorkOptionalLifestyle #WealthWithoutWallStreet #PurposeDrivenWealth #InfiniteBankingStrategist #PersonalFinanceRebel #FinancialFreedomBlueprint #MindsetMoneyExpert #LegacyWealthCoach #GenerationalWealth #BreakMoneyBeliefs #FinanceRedefined #ChrisMiles #JoeyVaillancourt #RealInfluence #LivingUnfenced Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.joeyvaillancourt.com Connect with Chris Miles! https://www.linkedin.com/in/chriscmiles/ https://www.instagram.com/moneyripples/ www.moneyripples.com https://bit.ly/4crDjPa  

😩 Ever feel like you're constantly saying yes just to avoid disappointing others? Are you stuck in the trap of people pleasing and the fear of disapproval? What if redefining personal success on your own terms could change everything? In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the disease to please—how it's quietly sabotaging your confidence, your boundaries, and your definition of success. 💥 Whether you're battling the fear of disapproval from friends, family, or even strangers, this conversation is here to remind you that you have permission to say NO. 💯 You'll hear powerful insights on: ✅ How to stop people pleasing without guilt ✅ Overcoming the fear of not being liked or accepted ✅ Why most people tie their self-worth to external validation ✅ How to redefine personal success based on YOUR values ✅ The mindset shift that helped Julien Blanc set new life standards ✅ Why chasing approval keeps you stuck and unhappy ✅ Setting boundaries without feeling selfish ✅ The psychology behind saying "no" and feeling empowered ✅ Letting go of societal pressure and defining happiness for yourself ✅ How to reclaim your time, energy, and self-respect 🙌 If you're ready to break the cycle and become unapologetically YOU, this is your sign. 🚨 🔔 Don't forget to like, subscribe, and turn on the bell for weekly episodes that challenge your mindset and help you build a life you love. #GiveYourselfPermissionToSayNo #PeoplePleasing #FearOfDisapproval #RedefineSuccess #TheDiseaseToPlease #JulienBlanc #MindsetShift #SetBoundaries #AuthenticLiving #StopPeoplePleasing #EmotionalFreedom #MentalHealthAwareness #SelfGrowth #SayNoWithoutGuilt   In this we'll talk about: 00:00 - The Disease to Please 01:45 – Understanding Fear of Disapproval 04:20 – Giving Yourself Permission to Say No 7:10 – Redefining Personal Success on Your Own Terms 9:50 – Julien Blanc's Approach to Overcoming Limiting Beliefs 12:30 – Breaking Free from People-Pleasing Behavior   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.joeyvaillancourt.com

What if working harder is actually making you poorer? 😱 Are you grinding non-stop, chasing success, but feeling exhausted, unfulfilled, and trapped? It's time to break the cycle of struggle and discover the REAL path to wealth, freedom, and happiness! 🚀 In this episode, we expose the dark side of hustle culture and reveal how you can achieve work-life balance, grow your income, and still have time for what truly matters – your family, your health, and your happiness. 🎯 🔥 What You'll Learn Today: ✅ How to build wealth without burnout (yes, it's possible!) 💡 ✅ The high-performance habits successful entrepreneurs use 💪 ✅ Why time freedom over money is the key to real success 🕰️ ✅ How business coaching can help you scale without stress 📈 ✅ The biggest mistakes entrepreneurs make (and how to avoid them) ❌ ✅ How the Legado Family system helps you create generational wealth 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 💡 Tired of sacrificing your life for success? There's a better way! Learn how to work smarter, not harder, and finally take control of your future. 🎬 Hit PLAY NOW ▶️ and unlock the secrets to financial freedom, work-life harmony, and long-term success! 🚀💯   In this we'll talk about: 00:00 - The Truth About Work-Life Balance 04:15 - Breaking the Cycle of Struggle 09:30 - Wealth Without Burnout Explained 14:45 - The Dark Side of Hustle Culture 20:10 - Time Freedom Over Money 26:25 - High-Performance Habits for Success 32:40 - How Business Coaching Helps You 38:55 - Legado Family & True Wealth   #WorkLifeBalance #BusinessCoaching #HighPerformanceHabits #WealthWithoutBurnout  #TimeFreedom #HustleCulture #WorkLifeHarmony #LegadoFamily #BreakingTheCycle   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.joeyvaillancourt.com   Connect with Rich Christiansen! www.RichChristiasnen.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/richristiansen/ https://www.instagram.com/richristiansen_/ https://legadofamily.com/

Do you ever experience imposter syndrome? 🤯 Is your inner critic stopping you from reaching your full potential—leaving you stuck in self-doubt, overthinking, and fear of failure? In this episode, we uncover the truth about imposter syndrome, hyper-masculinity, and the fear & scarcity mindset that hold so many people back from success. 🚀 Why do successful people still feel like frauds? 💭 How do limiting beliefs shape your reality? 🔑 What small mindset shifts create massive success? We'll break down the psychology of self-doubt, how to silence negative thoughts, and why incremental growth is the secret to long-term success. If fear has been controlling your decisions, this episode will help you shift from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset—so you can finally build confidence and take action. 🔥 It's time to break free from self-sabotage and step into purpose-driven success. Stop letting doubt hold you back and start making real progress today! 💬 What's one limiting belief you're ready to let go of? Drop it in the comments! 👇 🔔 Don't forget to like, subscribe & hit the bell so you never miss an episode!  In this we'll talk about: 0:00 - Overcoming Imposter Syndrome 3:15 - Silencing Your Inner Critic 7:42 - The Truth About Hyper-Masculinity 12:30 - Escaping Fear & Scarcity Mindset 18:05 - Breaking Limiting Beliefs 23:50 - Incremental Growth for Success 29:20 - Finding Purpose-Driven Success 35:10 - Unlocking Your Full Potential   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.joeyvaillancourt.com   Connect with Thomas Edwards! https://theprofessionalwingman.com http://linkedin.com/in/thomashedwardsjr https://instagram.com/theprofessionalwingman  

Want to know what 5 days in complete darkness does to a person? What happens when you completely disconnect from the world and spend DAYS in total silence? Would your mind expand or would you break? How would it transform you? 🔥 In this mind-blowing episode, we dive deep into a life-changing experience with Matt Stafford, who voluntarily spent 5 days in complete darkness—no phone, no light, no distractions. What he discovered about his mind, emotions, and past traumas will completely shift the way you see your own reality. 🎙️ In this episode, we cover: ⚠️ Why most people think they have a bad memory or poor focus—but they're actually just addicted to distraction ⚠️The mental detox that happens when you remove all sensory input ⚠️How the mind naturally produces DMT in total darkness and how that affects perception and reality ⚠️ The unexpected challenges that made Matthew question whether he could finish the full experience ⚠️ How processing deep-seated emotions without distractions leads to powerful personal transformation ⚠️ Why we unknowingly hold on to limiting beliefs from childhood and how to finally break free from them ⚠️ How removing all distractions for an extended period can unlock your potential and increase focus ✨ Whether you're interested in mindset shifts, personal development, self-influence, or extreme experiences, this episode will challenge the way you see the world. 🎥 Watch now to hear Matthew's raw, unfiltered insights on what it's like to face your mind in its purest form! In this we'll talk about: 03:15 - Real stories from a dark room retreat 10:42 – What happens when your mind is completely silent? 18:30 – The unexpected struggles of a full digital detox 27:15 – Can complete darkness unlock hidden parts of the mind? 35:50 – Facing deep emotions with no distractions 45:20 – How 5 days in isolation can change your reality #digitaldetox #darkroomretreattestimonials #silentmeditationretreat #realinfluence #joeyvaillancourt #livingunfenced Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.joeyvaillancourt.com   Connect with Matthew! https://buildgrowscale.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewstafforddotcom/ https://www.instagram.com/build.grow.scale

Feeling disconnected from your kids? 💕 Wondering how to build deeper, more meaningful family bonds? 🎙️ In this episode, we explore five conscious parenting tips to foster trust, encourage open communication, and become a positive role model. Discover how intentional parenting and mindful actions can transform your relationships and create a home rooted in connection and integrity. These actionable strategies will help you raise emotionally healthy kids and strengthen your family dynamics. Tune in and start your parenting journey today! 🚀 In this episode, we cover: ✅ The importance of being the role model your kids need 🏆  ✅ How to be truly present and eliminate distractions 📵  ✅ The game-changing book that transformed Joey's relationships 📚  ✅ Why identifying your child's love language can change everything 💕  ✅ The power of integrity—living by example every single day 🔥 Timestamps: 00:00 - Feeling guilty as a parent? You're not alone! 🤔  00:34 - Joey's personal parenting journey: fatherhood across all ages 👶👦👨  01:06 - The one question to ask yourself before making any parenting decision 🔑  02:20 - Lesson #1: Be the role model you want your kids to emulate 💡 0 5:29 - Lesson #2: The key to being fully present with your kids 🎯  08:29 - Lesson #3: Understanding your child's love language ❤️  11:14 - Lesson #4: Involve your kids in daily tasks & decision-making 🏡  15:11 - Lesson #5: The crucial role of integrity in parenting 🎭  18:02 - Why self-reflection is the most powerful parenting tool 🔄  18:47 - Joey's challenge for you + how to stay connected 📲   #BuildStrongFamilyBonds #ParentingTips #PositiveFamilyValues #ConsciousParentingAndFamilyConnection #MindfulParentingJourney #RoleModeling #ParentingJourney #NurturingYoungMinds #IntentionalParenting #RealInfluence #JoeyVaillancourt   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.partnerupprofits.com

Is failure truly a stepping stone to success? 🤔In this episode, I sit down with Seth Spears to uncover how failure can lead to transformation and growth. 🌱 We dive into the hidden blessings of setbacks 🌈, the importance of aligning personal values with professional goals 💼, and how prioritizing quality, mission, and purpose can shape a thriving business. 🎯If you're ready to see failure in a new light 💡 and learn how it can fuel your journey to success, this is the episode for you. 🎙️Tune in and get inspired! 🌟 In this episode, we'll talk about: 00:00 - Purpose Over Profit: A Conversation with Seth Spears 02:35 - From Homeschooling to Wellness Success: Seth Spears' Journey 06:56 - Rewild Gear: Connecting with Nature through Minimalistic Outdoor Tools 10:58 - Balancing Family, Business, and Personal Growth 19:28 - Discipline, Business Highs, and Relationship Lessons 28:52 - Breaking Patterns: Conflict, People-Pleasing, and Personal Growth 37:41 - Integrity, Consistency, and the Path to True Leadership 46:25 - Live a Good Life: Seth Spears' Final Words of Wisdom   #FinancialFreedom #BusinessCoaching #BusinessIdeas #OnlineBusiness #MarketingStrategies #StartUpAdvice #BusinessMindset #RealInfluence #JoeyVaillancourt #SethSpears #WorkLifeBalance   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.joeyvaillancourt.com   Connect with Seth! https://sethspears.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/sethspears/ https://www.instagram.com/spearsmarketing https://wellnesse.com https://rewildgear.com

🎙️ What if the secret to a thriving relationship isn't about changing your partner, but transforming yourself? In this heartfelt episode, we open up about our journey of self-growth and how it reshaped our connection as a couple. From navigating challenges and building deeper intimacy to aligning our life visions, we share practical tools and personal insights to inspire your own growth. 🌟 Whether you're in a relationship or on a solo path, this episode will spark reflection, healing, and hope. ❤️✨ In this episode, we'll talk about: 00:00 - How Working on Yourself Can Transform Your Relationship 07:11 - Letting Go of Shame and Finding Yourself After Divorce 14:54 - Overcoming Emotional Triggers and Finding Fulfillment 21:28 - From Judgment to Compassion: Embracing Growth 28:04 - From Self-Reflection to Shared Growth 35:07 - The Power of Intention, Forgiveness, and Self-Reflection 41:45 - The Power of Forgiveness and Reclaiming Your Time 48:17 - Inner Work for Stronger Relationships 55:25 - Bucket List Dreams & Relationship Growth   #RealInfluence #JoeyVaillancourt #ImprovingRelationships #RelationshipCoaching #BuildingIntimacy #CreatingAlignmentInRelationships #OvercomingRelationshipStruggles #ForgivenessInRelationships   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.partnerupprofits.com

Wondering if it's time to let go and create space for new opportunities? 🎙️✨ Feeling unsure about your next step and needing clarity? 🌿In this 5-minute guided meditation, you'll release doubts, embrace change, and confidently move forward. 🎧 Whether you're facing a big decision or seeking emotional balance, this session will help you calm your mind and attract abundance and growth.Listen daily to reset your mindset, let go of the old, and welcome new possibilities. 🎤 In this episode, you'll know more about:  00:00 - Meditation for Clarity and Confident Decisions 00:48 - Seeking Clarity, Inner Peace, and Purpose 01:45 - Letting Go to Embrace Growth and New Opportunities 02:27 - Finding Inner Peace, Purpose, and Guidance 03:13 - Releasing the Old to Create Space for New Beginnings 04:31 - Planting Seeds for Growth and New Opportunities   #RealInfluence #JoeyVaillancourt #MeditationForClarity #NewOpportunities #LetGoAndGrow #MindfulnessPractice #PositiveAffirmations #DecisionMakingMeditation   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.partnerupprofits.com

Feeling overwhelmed or like there's never enough time, money, or opportunities? 🌿 In this episode, I'm sharing a powerful 5-minute affirmation meditation to help you release self-doubt, reset your mindset, and embrace abundance. 🧘‍♂️✨ Listen daily for the next 7 days and discover how to stay productive while feeling more relaxed and in control. Ready to shift your energy and attract more into your life? Hit play and let's get started! 🚀 In this episode, we'll talk about: 00:00 - 5-Minute Meditation to Clear Beliefs and Self-Doubt 00:25 - Affirmations: Releasing and Renewing 01:58 - Letting Go and Trusting the Process 03:08 - Affirmations for Abundance and Trust 03:55 - Relaxed Affirmations for Abundance and Alignment   #RealInfluence #JoeyVaillancourt #PositiveAffirmations #Motivation #Success #GrowthMindset #Inspiration #ManifestationMeditation   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.partnerupprofits.com

Need a reset? 🌿 This special 5-minute meditation episode, inspired by Florence Scovel Shinn's The Game of Life, is here to help you clear limiting beliefs, self-doubt, and unhelpful habits. 🧘‍♀️✨ With powerful affirmations, this guided meditation is designed to bring clarity, peace, and empowerment. Make it part of your daily routine for the next 7 days and experience the shift. Tune in and let's transform together. 🌟🎙️ In this episode, you'll know about: 00:00 - 5-Minute Meditation to Clear Beliefs and Self-Doubt 00:25 - Affirmations: Releasing and Renewing 01:24 - Breaking Old Patterns to Create New Records 02:12 - Clearing Limiting Beliefs for Health, Wealth, and Love 03:01 - Reinforcing Positive Records for Self-Expression 03:49 - Final Affirmations: Health, Wealth, Love, and Self-Expression   #RealInfluence #JoeyVaillancourt #OvercomingNegativeThoughts #MeditationforPositiveThinking #DailyAffirmations #MindsetReset #MeditationforInnerPeace #RelaxationandMindfulness   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.partnerupprofits.com

🧠 What's holding you back? In this episode, we dive into limiting beliefs—those sneaky thought patterns that keep you stuck. 🎯 Learn how to identify triggers, shift your mindset, and rewrite your inner narrative to unlock confidence, resilience, and peace. 🌟 Packed with real-world examples and practical steps, this conversation will empower you to take control and live your most authentic life. Hit play and start transforming today! 🎙✨ In this episode, we'll talk about: 00:00 - What Triggers You and Why It Matters? 02:13 - Overcoming Self-Doubt and Shifting Limiting Beliefs 04:47 - Shifting Negative Beliefs into Empowering Ones 07:33 - Empowering Beliefs and Focus Shifts 11:02 - Five Steps to Transform Limiting Beliefs 14:05 - Daily Practices to Reinforce Empowering Beliefs and Redefine Yourself   #RealInfluence #JoeyVaillancourt #LimitingBeliefs #MindsetShift #OvercomeSelfDoubt #TransformYourLife #SelfImprovement #RewriteYourStory   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.partnerupprofits.com

In this episode, we explore the transformative power of Radical Forgiveness—a step-by-step process to release emotional pain, resentment, and past wounds. ✨ Learn how to free yourself from negativity, embrace healing, and reclaim inner peace. 🌿 Whether you're struggling to forgive others or yourself, these 5 powerful steps will help you let go, find clarity, and move forward with strength. 💪 Join us for this life-changing conversation on freedom and personal growth! 🎙️ In this episode, you'll know more about:  00:00 - The Courage to Stay Committed and Transform Your Life 02:01 - Finding Your Why and Committing to Change 03:38 - Gratitude, Vision, and Becoming Your Best Self 06:01 - Identifying What You Could Lose and Shifting to What You Truly Want 09:39 - Declaring Your Goals and Overcoming What Holds You Back 12:04 - Building a Strong Foundation for Lasting Growth   #RealInfluence #JoeyVaillancourt #RadicalForgiveness #HealingAndForgiveness #EmotionalFreedom #LettingGoOfAnger #OvercomeResentment #SelfForgivenessTips   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.partnerupprofits.com

Feeling stuck or struggling to stay committed to your goals? 🎙️ In this episode, we uncover the missing step to staying motivated and building habits that last. 💪 From redefining your "why" to overcoming setbacks, discover practical tools and insights to transform your mindset and achieve your biggest aspirations. 🌟 Whether you're starting fresh or looking for renewed inspiration, this conversation is your guide to lasting success. Tune in now! 🎧 In this episode, you'll know more about:  00:00 - The Courage to Stay Committed and Transform Your Life 02:34 - Finding Your Why and Committing to Change 06:04 - Gratitude, Vision, and Becoming Your Best Self 08:30 - Identifying What You Could Lose and Shifting to What You Truly Want 11:19 - Declaring Your Goals and Overcoming What Holds You Back 14:40 - Building a Strong Foundation for Lasting Growth   #RealInfluence #JoeyVaillancourt #GoalSetting #StayCommittedtoYourGoals #StayMotivated #AchievingGoals #Accountability #Motivation   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.partnerupprofits.com 

Discover the transformative power of Positive Thinking in this insightful episode. We delve into key questions that challenge limiting beliefs and help you shift your mindset. Learn how to break free from negativity, embrace resilience, and foster personal growth. Whether you're navigating challenges or seeking inspiration, these practical strategies will guide you toward a brighter, more empowered life. Tune in and start transforming your mindset today! In this episode, you'll know more about: 00:00 - Overcoming Victim Mentality: Finding Growth in Challenges 00:51 - Empower Your Mindset with Better Choices 02:29 - Reframe Failure as Opportunity: Shifting Your Mindset for Growth 05:06 - Turn Negative Questions Into Empowering Actions: A Step-by-Step Guide 09:16 - Transform 'Why Me?' Questions into Powerful Solutions 12:48 - Transform Challenges into Growth with Positive Thinking   #RealInfluence #JoeyVaillancourt #OvercomeNegativity #PositiveMindset #ThinkPositive #BreakingFree #SelfImprovement #EmpowerYourself #PersonalGrowth   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.partnerupprofits.com 

In this episode, we dive into the real impact of life influences and how they shape our mindset, emotions, and overall well-being. 🌱 Learn actionable steps to recognize and limit negativity, build a positive outlook, and create empowering changes. Whether it's toxic environments, unproductive habits, or negative people, we'll explore how to escape these patterns and cultivate a life filled with positive energy and authentic influence. ✨ Ready to transform? Listen in! 🚀 In this episode, you'll find about : 00:00 - Shaping Your Life: Positive Influences or Hidden Impacts? 01:42 - How 90s Country Music Lyrics Shaped My Thoughts and Emotions 03:56 - From Negative to Positive: How TV and Music Shape Our Mindset 07:26 - Breaking Free from Ads and TV Influence: Protecting Your Mind 10:02 - Cutting Out Negative Influences: Choosing What's Worth Your Time 14:54 - Challenge Accepted: Start Your Positive Influence Audit   #RealInfluence #JoeyVaillancourt #OvercomeNegativity #PositiveMindset #LifeInfluences #LimitNegativity #PositiveChange #EscapeNegativity #InspirePositivity   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.partnerupprofits.com 

Welcome to a journey of breaking boundaries and transforming mindsets! 🚀 In each episode, we dive deep into the beliefs that hold us back and explore powerful ways to challenge them. 🌟 From real-life stories to actionable insights, you'll discover practical steps to reshape your reality, spark personal growth, and align with your true values. If you're ready to think bigger, live bolder, and redefine what's possible, this podcast is for you. 🎙️ Tune in and let's get inspired! 🌱✨ In this episode, you'll know about : 00:00 - Breaking Free from 'Because I Said So': Embracing True Influence 02:48 - Breaking Free from Others' Expectations: My Journey to Redefine Success 04:29 - Embracing Change: From Corporate Cubicle to Entrepreneurial Freedom 06:53 - Thinking Time: Breaking Conditioned Beliefs and Expanding Your Mindset 10:46 - Expanding Mindset with Power Questions: The Path to Authentic Self-Influence 15:34 - Challenge Your Assumptions, Shape Your Reality: Revisit, Reflect, and Dive Deeper   #RealInfluence #JoeyVaillancourt #ChallengingAssumptions #WorkLifeBalance #OvercomingLimitingBeliefs #PersonalDevelopment #FindYourPurpose #MindsetShift #LifeTransformation   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.partnerupprofits.com 

🌟 Is success leaving you feeling unfulfilled? This episode explores the deeper connection between personal happiness, real influence, and overcoming emptiness 🌌. Through mindset shifts and radical accountability, learn how balancing work and life ⚖️ can unlock a new sense of purpose. If you're ready to embrace personal growth and let go of societal pressures, this conversation offers practical insights for building a fulfilling and authentic life. 🎯 Tune in for a transformative journey!   In this episode, you'll discover about : 00:00 - Why Real Influence Matters Beyond Success? 02:17 - How Influence Transforms Success into Fulfillment? 04:53 - When Success Isn't Enough: Finding True Happiness 07:06 - Does Success Equal Happiness? Questioning Life's Influences 10:16 - The Power of Self-Reflection: Transforming Life from the Inside Out 14:21 - Real Influence Begins Here: Shaping Your Life, One Insight at a Time   #RealInfluence #JoeyVaillancourt #HappinessOverSuccess #WorkLifeBalance #OvercomingEmptiness #PersonalDevelopment #RadicalAccountability #MindsetShift #InfluencersWithIntegrity   Connect with Joey! https://www.instagram.com/joeyvaillancourt/  https://www.facebook.com/joey.vaillancourt.9/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joey-vaillancourt/  https://www.youtube.com/@joeyvaillancourt-realinfluence  https://www.partnerupprofits.com