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we’re getting REAL about the biggest mistakes girls make when they have a crush… and the habits that might actually push your crush away 😭 if you’ve been overthinking texts, getting attached too fast, acting different around him, stalking his socials, or wondering why he suddenly feels distant, this video is for you. 🎀we’re talking about crush advice, dating mistakes, mixed signals, attachment, texting too much, overthinking, and how to stop sabotaging your chances with someone you like. if you’ve ever asked yourself “why is he pulling away?” or “am I doing too much?” — bestie, we need to talk 💌this is your safe space for honest girl talk, dating advice, confidence tips, and navigating crushes without losing yourself 💋

we’re unpacking the ultimate crush question: “how do I talk to my crush?” if you are too scared to talk to him, get awkward around your crush, or are overthinking every interaction, this girl talk is for you. we’re breaking down how to start conversations naturally with your crush, how to feel confident around him, and how to be yourself when you talk to him 🎀

one of the WORST feelings... today we are unpacking what to do "what do I do if he rejects me?" If you are going through a situationship breakup, your crush does not like you back, or you have a breakup this driving you insane, this video is for you. 💝Got rejected by a guy you really liked? In this video, I’m sharing exactly what to do when he rejects you, how to stop overthinking, rebuild your confidence, and move on without losing your self-worth. Whether he ghosted you, friend-zoned you, rejected your text, or said he’s “not ready for a relationship,” this advice will help you heal emotionally and come back stronger.If you’re dealing with heartbreak, rejection anxiety, low self-esteem, dating confusion, or wondering why men pull away, this video is for you. ✨ Topics covered: What to do after rejection, How to stop thinking about him, Why rejection hurts so much, How to rebuild confidence after heartbreak, Dating advice for women, How to move on from someone you liked, Signs he’s not interested, Self-worth and healing after rejection💖 Remember: his rejection does NOT define your value.Subscribe for more dating advice, feminine energy tips, relationship healing, confidence glow-ups, and self-love videos 💘

LET'S TALK SHY / INTROVERTED GUYS...HI BESTIE BOO 💘 say we are unpacking "how do I know if he likes me?" WHEN HE IS SHY because the signs are CONFUSING. If you've been getting mixed signals from your crush, like a shy guy, want to approach an introvert, are confused about a guy, have a crush this driving you insane, this video is for you. 🎀

we are being HONEST..HI BESTIE BOO 💘 we are unpacking the #1 question I get which is "how do I know if he likes me?" because the signs are CONFUSING. BUT ALSO how to tell if he likes you and is HIDING it / is TRYING NOT TO like you. If you've been getting mixed signals, are confused about a guy, have a crush this driving you insane, this video is for you. 🎀

we are unpacking THE crush question "how do I know if he likes me?" SPECIFICALLY at school. the signs are CONFUSING. If you've been getting mixed signals, are confused about a guy, have a crush this driving you insane, this video is for you. 🎀

if you can't tell if he LIKES you... HI BESTIE BOO 💘 say we are unpacking the #1 question I get which is "how do I know if he likes me?" because the signs are CONFUSING. If you've been getting mixed signals, are confused about a guy, have a crush this driving you insane, this video is for you. 🎀 these are NICHE signs he ACTUALLY likes you because it's probably not what you think

picture this: two best friends sitting in a room saying "we need to make a podcast together" that's basically how this happened. me and linda basically brain rotted / girl talked on a couch for 40 minutes for your entertainment. enjoy.topics: LA influencers, dating standards, relationships, friendships, coachella lore

today we are being HONEST.. HI BESTIE BOO 💘 say we are unpacking the #1 question I get which is "how do I know if he likes me?" because the signs are CONFUSING. If you've been getting mixed signals, are confused about a guy, have a crush this driving you insane, this video is for you. 🎀

GIRL TALK Q&A 💗 this is your late night girl talk, like we’re at a sleepover just talking about everything that’s been on your mind…in this video we get real about:✨ dating apps ✨ how to feel confident in your body✨ what to do when you feel “ugly”✨ self worth, comparison & insecurity✨ what to do if he has a girlfriend✨ advice i wish i had earlierif you’ve ever struggled with confidence, overthinking your looks, or navigating dating, you’re not alone. this is a safe space for REAL big sister advice 💘💌 comment something you’ve been struggling with or want advice on — i read everything💗

If you’ve ever felt insecure, doubted yourself, or struggled to feel confident in your own skin… this episode is for you.In this 15-minute podcast, I’m breaking down how to actually build real confidence — not the fake kind you see online, but the kind that changes how you carry yourself, how you think, and how you show up in your life.This is for every girl who:Overthinks everythingCompares herself to othersFeels like she’s not “enough”Wants to finally feel secure and powerfulYou don’t need to become someone else to be confident — you just need the right mindset and habits. And we’re getting into that today.✨ Your confidence glow-up starts nowALSO 'be better' my new song is out now 💐

today i looked up the different attachment styles to find out which one i am... and which one YOU are

ASKING A GUY UNCOMFORTABLE QUESTIONS GIRLS ARE AFRAID TO ASK 👀🔥 In today’s video, I asked a guy the questions girls *really* want to know but are usually too afraid to ask. Nothing was off limits… from first kisses and ghosting to period supplies and the biggest “icks” guys have.We talk about:* The weirdest text a girl has ever sent* What guys notice first about girls* How to get a guy’s attention* If it’s weird for a girl to make the first move* First kiss stories* Do guys actually know the 4 phases of the cycle?* What guys really do during “hangouts”* Why guys ghost* Signs a guy likes you* Do guys make up scenarios about their crush?* Biggest turn-offs for guysIf you’ve ever overthought a text, a hangout, or whether he likes you… this one’s for you. Comment the next uncomfortable question we should ask. 👇TAGS:asking a guy uncomfortable questions, questions girls are afraid to ask, girl talk, dating advice for girls, relationship advice, why do guys ghost, signs a guy likes you, how to get a guy’s attention, biggest ick for guys, do guys like when girls make the first move, first kiss story, what do guys notice first, dating red flags, teenage dating advice, modern dating, talking stage advice, girl advice channel, relationship questions, uncomfortable questions guys answer, what guys think about girls

Not everyone is going to match your heart — and that’s okay 💗In this episode of Real Talk Podcast, we’re having an honest conversation about what it means to feel deeply in a world that doesn’t always give that same energy back. If you’ve ever felt “too sensitive,” “too emotional,” or like you care more than other people… this episode is for you 🎀 Being soft is not weakness.Feeling deeply is not something to be ashamed of.Your heart is a gift 💝In today’s episode, we talk about:✨ Why not everyone will match your emotional depth✨ How to stop shrinking yourself to make others comfortable✨ The difference between being “too much” and being surrounded by the wrong people✨ How to embrace your sensitivity as a strength✨ Healing, self-worth, and protecting your energyThis episode is especially for girls navigating friendships, relationships, heartbreak, self love, and confidence. If you’re learning how to love yourself while still loving deeply, you are not alone. If this message resonates with you:💌 Follow for weekly real conversations💬 Comment your thoughts — I read every one!!!

why does losing someone you never even dated hurt more than an actual breakup? In this epi of Real Talk, we’re talking about how to get over a talking stage — the one that had you checking your phone 24/7, re-reading old texts, and imagining a future that never actually happened. If you’ve ever cried over someone who technically wasn’t your bf… this episode is for you. we’re getting into: why talking stages hurt so bad, the psychology behind emotional attachment, how to stop romanticizing potential, what to do when there was no closure, how to actually move on and glow up 🌟You are not dramatic or crazy, & you are definitely not alone. Healing from a situationship or talking stage is REALLL, and today we’re breaking it down step by step . If this episode helps you, send it to a friend who needs it and don’t forget to follow so you never miss a Real Talk episode 💖

i got the AMAZING opportunity to go to the grammys with  ⁨@YouTube⁩  🥹💘 this is what it was REALLY like... no gatekeeping! life feels SO unreal as a girl who's been dreaming of being a YouTuber/creator my entire life since I was in middle school with no friends and I started this channel. i just thank anyone watching for being a bestie boo in this fam. you mean the world to me. i love our community. thank you.

HI BESTIE BOO 💖 I was thinking a lot about gratitude and how much it has changed my life in the past couple of weeks. Honestly, your mindset and your outlook is everything in life, and if you've been feeling like you have bad luck, or you're in a flop era, THIS IS FOR YOU. Sometimes all it takes is trusting the process and giving it time 🌸💖✨

I WROTE A SONG?! I'm SOOOO excited to tell y'all I made my FIRST EVER song called 'caught up' 💖🥹 I recorded this a couple months ago and I'M SO HAPPY TO TELL Y'ALL it's out on 1/30! 💘 I hope you guys LOVE IT as much as I do. music and singing is something that i love so so much but has always been so scary for me. i hope you know your support has literally pushed me to face my biggest fears and you bestie boos make me more confident every day 🎀✨ I LOVE YOU AND PLEASE PRE-SAVE 'caught up' PRE SAVE LINK: https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/nikipatton/caught-up

welcome to THE glow up guide 💖💘 girl, I know sometimes all you wanna do is beat yourself up but TODAY we are talking about how to glow up TODAY... to be that girl TODAY 🌟 the last thing I want is for you guys to feel insecure or feel like you can't ever be that girl when you CAN!!!

we are EXPOSING my 2025 dating wrapped. this is scary. honestly my love life has been SOOOOO comedic but i think it makes the BEST storytimes, we can laugh together LOL

welcome to the ✨girls guide✨ on how to forget him FAST 🎀If you feel hung up on a guy, this is the place for you 💘

overthinking? insecure? welcome to the guide to dating like a HOTTIE 🎀✨ no more chasing, being insecure, or doubting yourself when dating

you guys always ask me for dating advice so today I'm delivering the big sister advice I wish I knew sooner 🤍 these are the mistakes I see SO many of my friends make in the talking stage and what to do if you are downbad over a guy 😬

HI BESTIE BOO 💖 I'M ANSWERING YOUR CALL TODAY 📞 i'm listening to YOUR voicemails and we are going to have some REALLL girl talk where I answer ALL of your TMI questions 🎀📲⭐️IF YOU WANNA BE IN THE NEXT ONE https://speakpipe.com/bestieboos

HI BESTIE BOO 💖 today we are doing a girl talk sesh... i LOVE answering your Qs, leave me a voicemail 📞 for the next advice sesh!!! https://www.speakpipe.com/bestieboos

I realized I never told you guys what my type is... SOOOO i thought this would be a cool time capsule to look back on and see if we got it right??? ALSO if yk anyone that is who I described... TAG THEM LMAO 💖

hi baddies 💘 todayy we are talking about how to get out of a RUT and step into your HOT GIRL POWER. i lowkey had a crash out last week but i feel SO much better now. this is everything i did to turn myself around in a week 💖💌

not every day is going to be your BEST. sometimes life hits you when you don't want it to... i want to show you guys the REAL sides of me, not just when things are perfect. and if you are struggling, you are NOT alone. you are NEVER alone, that's what this fam is for bestie boo 💘

hi bestie boo 💘 today i thought about EVERYTHING i would want to say to my high school self... and there is a LOT: from guys, crushes, dating, to friends, drama, and school stress. i hope this helps you feel ready & confident ⭐️ lmk if you want a part 2!!i love you so much

for my baddies in the TRENCHES 💔 i'm gonna give y'all the REALLLLLL truth on dating a guy who is NOT IT, why we fall for them, and how to get over him FAST 🎀💘

hi bestie boo 💖 today we are having a CAR CHAT hehe i love this cozy vibe, i'm gonna tell y'all my HONEST big sis advice and opinions on crushes, situationships, dating, self love, confidence, friendships, etc!!

Welcome to Real Talk Podcast by self-love creator - Niki Patton. in this weeks episode we're talking all about being the most confident version of you! I feel like we're constantly trying to change ourselves without realizing that we hold the value the way we are! 💖 if you feel like you need to change to be confident, this epi is for you ⭐️ because you can build REAL confidence by being YOU.

incoming facetime call 📞 it is time for juicy TMI girl talk from your big sis 💘 these are things I wish I knew when I was younger!!! send in your Qs for next epi and LMK what I should yap about next bestie boo🎀⭐️

HI BESTIE BOO 💖 if you are feeling lost / lonely it can SUCK 💔 this epi is for the girlies who are feeling lost or dull or lonely currently. i've been there and it is SO normal. i'm gonna tell y'all how to get out of a rut and step back into your lucky girl energy! ✨🎀 get OUT of your slump & romanticize your life!

today i'm spilling all of the real mindset switches that made me confident ✨🎀 and made me glow DIFFERENT!! these are things I wish I could scream at my younger self FR... lmk what topic we should do next epi & don't forget to follow real talk podcast 💖

hi bestie boo 💘 I'm going to Coachella this weekend so I thought I would recaps of my past experiences and the TRUTH about Coachella and also answer some girl talk qs/life updates!!!

how to have a summer glow up mentally and physically. I explained my BEST tips and advice to become THAT girl, become unrecognizable, and the best version of yourself for summer! YOU GOT THIS.

this is gonna be the most real advice epi ever HAHA hi bestie boo 💘 today I'm in my luteal phase and instead of not filming because of my energy, i thought "why not be REAL?!" so yeah. here's a VERY realistic pod epi, we talk about female friendships, moving away from home, and hot girl ✨manifestation✨ tricks

dating is TIRING if you don't have these rules in your life, my love life was a mess before I learned these things. even tho I'm still single (LOL) i know that my confidence is completely changed in relationships, and THIS is how hot girls date !!!

girl, I know sometimes all you wanna do is beat yourself up but today we are talking about my 7 secrets to LASTING confidence!! The last thing I want is for you guys to feel insecure or feel like you can't ever be that girl when you CAN!!! 💘for more confidence advice, make sure to follow the podcast on Spotify or Apple, subscribe to the YT, and send this to a friend 🎀

If your insecurities are taking over your life, if you feel like you'll never be confident, if you compare yourself to everyone you scroll by, this video is for YOU 💘 let's talk about how to get over your insecurities permanently ✨ how to realize what an amazing person you are, and feel confident every day 🎀 how to stop comparing yourself to other girls 💌

watch this if you feel lonely on valentine's day...HI BESTIE BOO 💖 today I brought linda on the pod to talk ALL THINGS girl talk questions ✨ we talk about boys, One Direction, our types, crush advice, and SOO much moreee 🎀 it's OK to be single and sometimes the time with your friends is more important than dating, I wanted to remind you guys about that on Valentine's Day 🥺💖

HI BESTIE BOO 💖 today I wanted to talk to you guys about burning out and having a little ✨menty b✨ if you feel like you're being hard on yourself lately, this episode is for you!! sometimes we put so much pressure on ourselves to get things done and to achieve everything we want to, that we forget that we need rest, we forget that we're gonna run into obstacles, ETC. I'm gonna share my tips for staying motivated without crashing out... i love yall so much

let's get real. if you're keeping the wrong friends around, you are staying insecure. i feel like we NEVER talk about this but the truth is we outgrow friends, and not EVERYONE should be your bestie... it's SO important to be picky so I wanted to dive into the HARSH TRUTH about how to be confident and WHO you should surround yourself with 💘

HI BESTIE BOO 💖 today we are breaking down everything you need to know on how to *actually* glow up in 2025 and stay consistent. I know it's easy to set goals in the beginning of the year and then forget about them pretty early on, and I feel like I was self sabotaging so much last year so I hope this helps you get out of that mindset and into your "it girl" mindset for 2025. Your dream life is so possible for you and I hope you know that 💘🎀⭐️

HI BESTIE BOO 💖 (SKIP TO 6:07 FOR THE GIFT GUIDE) in this epi, i give you 50+ christmas gift ideas to add on your wishlist or give to someone🎄🎀 ILY

HI BESTIE BOO 💖 if you're having crush problems, comparing yourself to other girls, having trouble becoming confident and standing up for yourself... THIS POD EPISODE IS FOR YOU! I'm going to be answering the juicy girl talk questions girls are too afraid to ask... LMK WHAT TOPICS YOU WANT ME TO COVER NEXT! 🥰💌💘

bestie boo. let's get real. today we are talking about being single, how to know when you're READY for a relationship, how to get into a relationship, and find your person! also, more girl talk like how to deal with your crush being stolen, third wheeling, etc 🤭

HOW TO HACK BEING HAPPILY SINGLE 🤩 BESTIE BOOS welcome back to the pod :) being single doesn't have to be sad OR lonely. I used to date all the time and now I'm really enjoying being alone and in this video, I share: ACTUAL solutions, how to change your mindset, singleness advice, how to master detachment, work on self-love, and MORE. if you feel lonely or want a relationship, let's talk about how to ENJOY being single, raise your standards, and NOT SETTLE. there is so much fun in this era of your life and let's talk about it 👀BTW i filmed this at like 11 pm so if i seem OFF LOL that is why I was so tired HAHAHA

hi bestie boooos 💘 !!!! AHHH let's chat i'm so excited to talk to y'all today about these juicy topics HEHEH make sure to sub and turn on post notifs 🤩 AND LEAVE MORE Qs FOR THE NEXT ONE!!!