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Real Time with RAI

by Real RAI

Welcome to my podcast where I generate conversations, with candor and insight, that helps you promote right relationships, to help you actualize your aspirations setting you along the path of influence and fulfillment.

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Episodes

  1. #HusbandMaterial: Focus

    What should define you, at your core, is the quality of your focus. How you direct your potential, and your emotions is going to make a significant fibre to yor becoming a husband material. In this episode, I discuss the importance of focus in the life of a man ready for marriage.…

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  2. #HusbandMaterial: Power dynamics

    There's a time to be assertive, and there's a time to defer to your wife's decision on issues. The opinions of your kids shouldn't be dismissive because you claim headship in the family. In this episode, I talk about why a man should develop a listening ear in the family, if he must succeed as a...

  3. #HusbandMaterial: Extended family

    Family should always come first for a husband material. Since family, extends beyond one's home to his parents, siblings, and even inlaws, a man should be able to regulate the relations between his extended family, especially his own mother, and his wife. In this episode, I share with you what to...

  4. #HusbandMaterial

    What does it mean to be husband material? Simply, it's a man that understands what a 'good thing' is, and appreciates that good thing. I unpack all of this in this episode and more in the rest of the series. #husbandmaterial #marriage #relationships

  5. #WifeMaterial: Trophy Wife

    In part 2 of the series, I talk about the 'Trophy wife'. What do you think, is a trophy wife the ideal wife material? Let's get right into the conversation

  6. Wife Material

    Every man's unconscious dream is to marry that perfect model of what a wife should be. Women come in various assortments and fabric, and that's wonderful. However, you need to be conscious of two basic things in your desire for a wife material, which I share in this new episode. Welcome to the…

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  7. Playing HARD to get: The christian alpha female

    In this concluding episode in the series: Play hard to get, I talk about alpha personalities and submission, what is it and what it is not, in the christian context.

  8. Playing HARD to get (Pt. 2): Is it good advice?

    Today, we get right into the meat of the matter. Is it good advice to play hard to get? In this episode, I provide insights on the question using the personalities I had talked about last episode.

  9. Playing HARD to get: Alpha Personalities and more

    Is it good advice to play hard to get? My answer to this question has sparked the new series for the month of June, beginning with this episode - Alpha Personalities and more. Your personality is a major factor in the outcome of a potential relationship, and I share insights on this.

  10. Making the BEST of things: TEEN-BONDING

    When was the last time your teenage child saw you as a relational human, and not as a demanding parent? This should be a time of bonding between parents and teenagers, who are in a very sensitive stage of maturity. I talk about this and how to improve teen-bonding later today.

  11. MAKING THE BEST OF THINGS (Pt. 4): Spiritual Growth

    If you have a strong spiritual conviction, you'll find this episode of great value.

  12. MAKING THE BEST OF THINGS: SELF-DEVELOPMENT OPTIONS (Pt 2)

    This is a continuation from last episode in the series. Here I focus on the importance of making healthy options.

  13. MAKING THE BEST OF THINGS: SELF-DEVELOPMENT OPTIONS

    By now you must have watched as much TV shows and movies this period has afforded. So what's next? There's no justification you can give to let this period in history go to waste. We continue the series: MAKING THE BEST OF THINGS, with recommendation options at self-development.

  14. MAKING THE BEST OF THINGS: MARRIAGE ARRANGEMENTS

    Life shouldn't be suspended because the world is on lock-down. You can MAKE THE BEST OF THINGS during this period. Lock-down is not hibernation! Life must go on. I start a new series with recommendations on how best to make your marriage arrangements go on as planned. #lockdown #weddingplans...

  15. REALITY CHECK (Pt 4): DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

    We conclude this series with a somber episode, but an empowering one nonetheless. There have been a spike in cases of domestic abuse during this pandemic-instigated lock-down? The sad reality is that the virus may do less harm than being cooped up with an abuser. In this episode, I share the...

  16. REALITY CHECK (Pt.3): SEXUAL DISPLEASURE

    "Will you be my 'quarantine'"? 😍🥰😆 Make the most of this #lockdown, if you are married, spice up your intimacy with your spouse - rediscover your sensuality and explore their sexual fantasies or what gives them pleasure. On this episode I address sexual displeasure...

  17. Reality Check (Pt 2): Great Communication Tips

    Communication is so important for your relationship to thrive. Communication during this lock-down should be a no-brainer,, but I get it if you don't know where to begin. Now that everyone is at home, it's time to foster bonding, on a deeper level with your spouse. It's time to fix your...

  18. Reality Check

    Let's be honest, we don't mind staying at home at our own convenience, however, when we are directed to do so, all of a sudden uneasiness sweeps away our sense of composure. Take a deep breath. Now is the time to access the quality of your relationship. There will definitely be a post-COVID19...

  19. When People Unlove (Pt. 4): When divorce is inevitable

    Are there grounds for divorce from a scriptural standpoint? Surprisingly, yes!. It's a sensitive topic, I know, come close,

  20. When People Unlove (Pt. 3): The decision to separate

    Am I all in for divorce in a marriage situation? Not exactly. But I am all in for SEPARATION. In this episode I break it all down.

  21. When People Unlove (Pt 2): What Next?

    So the relationship has gone stale, is it time to discard it or is there a way it can be salvaged? In this episode, I provide the next critical steps you should take when you unlove. Please like, share and reach out to me in the comment section or private message and let me know what your…

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  22. When People Unlove (Pt 1)

    Love is beautiful, it really is. BUT... Love is also a decision, you can choose to get into and when it seems unhealthy get the heck out of. We begin this series at the very start, why do people 'unlove'? You ready?

  23. Your Money, My Money (pt 4): Financial Red Flags In A Relationship

    We are at the final leg of the trip guys. Today, I'll show you what you should pay attention to in terms of financial red flags. Are you ready? Let's go.

  24. Take Me As I Am

    Life is a work in progress, as long as you're alive, change as a result of growth is the constant. Believing otherwise is to embrace a self-sabotaging mindset. If your relationship is to thrive, "Take Me As I Am", is not a healthy lifestyle choice.

  25. Threats To Love

    Love is a wonderful experience. However, the strength of love can be sabotaged if these threats are not addressed.

  26. Is Love Enough?

    Is love enough? Let's find out.

  27. What is Love?

    What is love? Do you know what it is, beyond just a definition? You hear people say love is noun and not a verb. Time to get into the meat of the matter, join me. Please SHARE!

  28. Your Money, My Money (pt 3): Approach To Open Financial Policy

    Last episode I talked about the benefits of having an open financial policy with your spouse in a marriage relationship or soon-to-be spouse when preparing for a lifetime relationship. It's a relief when the burden of undue expectations is taken off a partner, that's one of the benefits of having…

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  29. Your Money, My Money (pt 2): Benefits of an open policy

    What does an open policy mean in context, regarding a romantic relationship? I share this and much more in this second episode in this ongoing series.

  30. Your Money, My Money (pt 1).

    Last year we ran a poll, and we found something interesting. More people believe that finances is a greater problem in a relationship than infidelity. Can you believe it?😳 Truly insightful. This episode begins a series on finances in relationship, I'll share what you need to be aware of when it...

  31. Conversations that save your relationships.

    I often say this, concerning romantic relationships, "Talk, talk and talk!" Talk as exhaustively as possible, about everything! Intimacy isn't just about sex, it is your ability to be open and not feel constrained in expressing yourself. Today, I share with you conversations you should have to...

  32. RELATIONSHIP COST MONEY

    FACT-CHECK: Money is important in a relationship. TRUE. However, like every bad investment, learn to let a bad relationship go. Cut your losses and move, honorably

  33. Financial Implications of being in a relationship.

    Finance is one of the major stressors in a relationship, particularly in marital relationships. Money is important in relationships, as it is one way to express affection and love, as other utilities are only serviced based on one's credit balance In this podcast, I talk in detail about the...

  34. RED FLAG TO QUIT A RELATIONSHIP

    What is the goal of a relationship? Certainly, a subjective array of reasons abound, but being worse off than when you become a couple is definitely not one of those reasons.

  35. Quit or Endure

    Relationships should make us better versions of ourselves; however, if you are becoming worse off than when you were single, then you should begin to consider calling your relationship quits. I discuss on this as well as other instances where you'll have to quit a relationship, and I also provide...

  36. HOW TO AVOID FLIRTING

    How can you avoid flirting, especially if you are in a serious and secure relationship: 1. Be open with your partner. Talk as comfortably as possible about flirtatious conduct. 2. Learn to respect your partner. 3. Set boundaries with people to avoid slipping into flirtations. I provide a survey…

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  37. Is Flirting Harmless?

    Relationships these days are not as conventional as they used to be. Serious but insecure relationships abound and the question of flirting as a pleasure ride is more acceptable. Flirting is a pleasure ride, with dopamine on the driver's seat. But is the destination worth the trip at all? Some...

  38. RULES OF ENGAGEMENT (Mentorship 101)

    It's often said that, "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear". In seeking for mentors, in our pursuit to leading the lives we envision, we must embrace certain values as well. I share these values in this 30-second clip.

  39. Why You Do Need A Mentor

    In this episode, I describe who a mentor is typically, the clear difference between a mentor and a coach, the requisite tips you should consider and require before choosing a mentor, and of course how to appreciate and be gracious to awesome mentor.

  40. WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE SINGLE?

    Last week Sunday, I hailed the idea that you can be single and content. One might ask; however, "what does it mean to be single?", As secular culture has distorted and diluted even basic ideals, let me provide a clear but reductionist answer to that question in the video below Do you share a...

  41. Single & Content

    On this episode, I talk on the benefits of being single and what you can do at that time, and what to do to maximize the time.

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Welcome to my podcast where I generate conversations, with candor and insight, that helps you promote right relationships, to help you actualize your aspirations setting you along the path of influence and fulfillment.

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Real RAI

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