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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay!
by Ralf Rasmussen
Hi, I am Ralf, the host of RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! and I am also the creator of RealClearFetish! - Clear Head, Clear Fetish!, A sober alternative to fetish life, it is an online presence on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and YouTube. The podcast invites guests on for a chat about Kink, Fetish, Sober life and everything in between. So are you interest in kink, fetish and everything naughty, but want a podcast that talks about mental health, addictions issues and you want to lean something new, please do give us a listen! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Episodes
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 09 (Bonus) - @df33305 & @drdallasbragg
Surprised BONUS Episode! With the authors of “Lust, Men and Meth: A Study Guide” - David Fawcett PhD, LCSW is a psychotherapist and sex therapist who specializes in the sexualized drug use, LGBTQ issues, trauma and mental health concerns related to physical illness, especially HIV/AIDS. He is the...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 08 - @zachcelliott
Meet Zach, a finance director in the charity sector by day and a content creator and kink-positive advocate by night. He has been sober for several years, and recovery has given him the clarity, confidence and a much deeper sense of self. His kinks include leather, breath play, power exchange and...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 07 - @thefurrealist
Ed Firth is the portraitist and graphic novelist behind the Horny & High graphic novel series exploring addiction and romance in underground gay subcultures in 2010s Britain, published in a German translation by Männerschwarm in Berlin, and in the USA by NorthWest Press. His debut was shortlisted...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 06 - @FFistometer
Self-admitting drunk, slut and unfit mother (according to his best friend) who fell quite literally into fisting, discovered a natural affinity with deep, so got a depth gauge tattooed on his ‘deep arm’ (accurate to 1/32nd of an inch.) Had way more than his ‘fair share’ of fist cherries and…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 05 - @followchipper
Chipper is a Brooklyn-based Leatherman, Handler, and kink educator whose recovery journey reshaped every part of his life. A recovering crystal meth addict with 6 years and 10 months of continuous sobriety (at the time of recording), he began exploring kink privately while still using and later...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 04 - @lilsharky77
Jason, an interior architect and gallerist based in Sydney, with a career shaped by years of design work across global markets. His approach blends architectural precision with raw, emotional storytelling, a style influenced by his long-standing connection to fetish culture and the material…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 03 - @sampsonnightly
Sampson Nightly is a sober-curious/adjacent sex worker living in San Francisco, specializing in sex education and helping men work through intimacy issues. Aside from a vast career in BDSM porn, he also works extensively in queer nightlife as a sex venue owner, gogo, DJ, and bartender, giving him…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 02 - @timo-of-finland
Timo Rissanen was Sydney Mr Leather 2024 and represented Sydney at IML 47 in 2025. Professionally he is a fashion and sustainability scholar and a textile artist. Timo is a member of Sydney Leather Men Inc., MSC Finland, BLUF and Sydney Frontrunners. Queer and poly, he has been genderfucking in…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 01 - @doctorcarlton
Doctor Carlton is a gay GI doctor from San Diego, California who rose to notoriety with his queer sexual health and sex education platform on Instagram and Tik Tok. When MPOX struck our community, he used that platform to bring awareness and vaccination/ treatment help to tens of thousands of...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 08 - Nick
Meet Nick, an ex Chemsex addict who is 10 years clean and sober. The leather scene was part of his life during his using days. Today when he engage in sober sex, he no longer has the desire for leather and kink. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] If you…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 07 - @auntie_kell
Kell W Farshéa is an intersex nobinary trans femme dominant sadist. They have been an BDSMer for 40 years. In 1992 they founded the SM activist group Countdown on Spanner (1992-97) and the annual SMPride March (1992-2003). For 5 years they wrote a regular column for the pan-european tri-lingual...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 06 - @PupBeauBoop
Beau has been in the kink and fetish community for over 5 years; coming from a background where group environments felt scary or threatening, his journey into the community had been transformational. This has coincided with a reduction in drinking, and predominantly sober kink and fetish nights...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 05 - @leatherfafner
Some info about Chris - 35+ years sober leatherman and pup/handler; prostate cancer survivor and 2nd runner-up for Mr Fetish World 2025. His MFW project is a kink-inclusive healthcare program to show that we as fetishists and kinksters can have major health issues and still lead a fulfilling kink...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 04 - @leather_max2026
Meet Max, some call him boy and/or puppy, He was born in Ukraine and was adopted by his wonderful Swedish parents when he was almost 3 years old, which meant he moved to Sweden. He finished high school in 2016, then got his first apartment and started his job that same year, working with dogs…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 03 - @BLUFOfficer
BLUFOfficer is a kinkster who has been part of the kink scene since 2013. His main gear preferences are uniform and leather and is always recognisable by the khaki uniform and riding boots at events. He is also autistic, having been diagnosed with Autism when he was young and in recent years, he...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 02 - @ohmoshedidnt
For nearly a decade, Moshiel has commanded stages across the leather and drag worlds—entertaining, emceeing, and fundraising. A proud Sober Leatherman, he has also made his mark Off-Broadway as a writer and producer of the political spoof Five. He founded Punch, an inclusive fisting space, and...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 01 - @ltjishere
LTJ Reads is a leatherman, who was the first Mr. Austin Eagle in 2024 and part of IML Class 46. He is a writer/model/teacher who absolutely hates throwing shade in the LGBTQIA+ community. LTJ is a muscle stud who emphasizes good mental health and the use of brain power. He is most notable for his...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 08 - @estitties
From the Emmy award winning season of RuPaul‘s drag race season 15 Selena S titties has been hustling ever since her season, while also becoming the first drag queen to ever step foot into the American big Brother house. She has traveled the world, released an EP called homegirl and is now…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 07 - @rock_biggs
Rock (Stage name) has been sober for a year and three quarters - new year's 2023 was the rock bottom and started attending NA meetings. The same time Rock started his porn career, and Rock Biggs was born. The two are interlinked intimately and he probably wouldn't be here today if he didn't meet...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 06 - @leatheralphaskin
Mark (LeatherAlphaSkin) London born and bred kinkster previous pup and pack owner. Lived in London till 2012 went out and did lots of London and European kink scenes. Been sober from chemsex since 2013. Now living in Scotland and regularly attend kink events and like to help new kinksters...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 05 - @ginger_bear_john
John (Ginger Bear John) is a 45 year old married Leatherman in Southern California. Heavily involved in the kink community, in the role of a submissive, for many years clean and sober for almost 13 years. John is an accountant. Also an aspiring bodybuilder with his first content scheduled for…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 04 - @gear.siriuscyrus
Cyrus (he/him) is one happy and proud leatherman. Born and raised in Calcutta, India. He currently lives near Frankfurt for the last 6.5 years and works in tech. He is a dom/top (mostly) kinky fetishist with an aficionado for leathers, rubber, and skinhead gear. He discovered his fetish at the…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 03 - @hansrjwest & @mir23_rubbadamnl from @kinkytalksnl
- Hans West: Kink Aware Coach and open-minded Partner-Relationship Coach, Integrative Addiction Services for over 25 years. Both offline, and online services: information, training and therapy. Generally a nice person but allergic to BS. And.. Adalberto and me have now created over 50 online and...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 02 - @the_muckle_soater
Meet Barney, AKA The Muckle Stoater, a fetish artist, pornographer and all-round clown porn advocate based in London! For years he thought he was the weirdest person in the world for having a clown fetish. Now he get to express himself as a kink performer and escort, available to hire for all…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 01 - @gayapodcast
Steve B has been sober since May 28th, 2021, and is the host of gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show. Having isolating during his drinking, he has only begun embracing his interests in leather, fetish, and kink in sobriety- something he believes is necessary for him in order to live a full, happy…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 08 - @muttbynature
Meet Mutt (by Nature), he/him, cis-gay/queer guy. He has been clean and sober for over 12 years. He is also a sober fister and do that without poppers, although he should say chem sex was never my thing. He got sober via AA but haven’t been in a few years now, instead opting for therapy to keep…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 07 - @lawstboy77
JeFF was born and raised in Colorado. He went back to school in 2013 to earn a chemical and biological engineering degree. He works in process development for a biotech pharmaceutical company. He has been part of the leather and kink community off and on for 17 years. He is Mr. Leather Colorado...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 06 - @tytysurf
Tyler is a kinkster living on the east coast of Canada. Kink and fetish have always been a part of his life and has evolved over the years, including the decision in 2019 to take a hard look at his use of substances in relation to sex, relationships and his life in general. Outside of kink, he...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 05 - @princepunkmaster
Saba aka Princepunk has been sober since 2006. French American, born in France and became an American citizen after a career as a professional dancer and comedian. Was introduced to leather and bdsm over 30 years ago, and lives his kinky life sober and happy. Photo by @leatherrubber75 Homepage:...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 04 - @benyoudanart
Ben is born and raised and living in Liverpool. Married to Jon, who is a writer. Ben discovered kink and leather at a young age and gradually explore it over many years. He is a dom/top and into a wide variety of kinks. His main fetishes is leather and skin gear. Ben is also an artist, He…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 03 - @bull.stier
Bull is a 30 y/o piggy fucker from Atlanta, GA. He has been sober for two years, and facilitate meetings for The Satanic Temple's sober faction, where he is also a Minister. He is into damn near anything piggy, and love showing off his escapades. He has been producing events for over a decade…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 02 - @stu.fenton
Discover the journey of Stu Fenton, a seasoned Gestalt Psychotherapist and Chemsex Specialist, on our podcast. With 18+ years in addiction treatment and a deep commitment to the LGBT+ community, Stuart shares insights from global programs and ongoing advocacy efforts. As he studies Social Work in...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 01 - @mr.es86
Erik is a 37, American bred and Berlin based. Currently on his path to a PhD in educational leadership, he is also navigating a very personal journey. This weekend coincides with Berlin’s leather week, a time that’s particularly resonant for him as it marks his first anniversary of embracing a...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 06 - @mitthomoeventyr from @chemfriendly_norge
Andrés is the chairman of the board of Chemfriendly Norway. A user- and peer organisation for queers and sex workers affected by illegal drug use. He is an exhibitionist publishing amateur porn and has a positive attitude towards sex. Instagram: @mitthomoeventyr Instagram: @chemfriendly_norge...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 05 - @leather_crossfiter
Miguel was born in Madrid, Spain. He is 42 years old and is a Civil Engineer. He moved to Sweden 🇸🇪 10 years ago and work for a Fintech company. He is into sport, healthy living, cooking and travelling. You probably have seen in some cool pictures on Instagram, now it is time to meet the real...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 04 - @nonamefckrbln
Mao is 34 years old, he is happily engaged, he meet his fiancé in Berlin. He works in IT development, Mao is sport oriented, a geek and a nerd at hearth. He has been sober for 3.5 years. He is a sober pig trying to share his story, help others and continue exploring his sexual life in a city like...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 03 - @theleathercoach
Guy is a leatherman, writer, mentor and certified coach in the community. He coaches people to tap into their inner resources to find powerful ways to confront their ‘demons’, so you can stomp your boots wherever you - with clarity - and pride. RealClearFetish talks RealClearLiving Instagram:...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 02 - @thepigfarmer1609
Micheal, alt name is Orson the Pig Farmer. He is 32, living in Columbus Ohio, USA. He works in a factory, and is currently in school to become a web developer. He was always on the kinkier side of things, really leaning into the try anything a few times, and he rarely just didn’t like something....
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 01 - @marcusmonster
Marcus Barela is a Mexican Texan who’s ready for some sexin! He’s been a member of the Eagle LA staff for 18 years and preparing to be a UCLA student studying Spanish and Queer Studies. He is Eagle LA Mr. Leather 2023, and International Mister Leather 2023. Marcus is a proud sober leather man. He...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 09 - @mkb.2653
M has recently gone alcohol free, two years now. Occasional drag queen, Lover of certain fetishes and singer (definitely not Pavarotti!). He is now retired and living on the north west coast of Ireland 🇮🇪. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 17...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 08 - @leather_weho_cop_
Miles is a sober leather kink man in his 50s from San Francisco California. Currently living in Los Angeles. He has been clean and sober since 1991. He has been part of the queer sober community and Leather communities in both cities since the 80s. While growing up in San Francisco, he was…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 07 - @jcorn104
Jim is a queer leatherman, musician, and athlete living in Memphis, TN, USA. He's practices sobriety from all alcohol for 2 years, and through sobriety, he's found a more genuine expression of himself. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 24...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 06 - @rufftanktop
FJ has navigated the gay, kink, club, bar, gym, online, and hookup cultures on two continents for the last thirty years without drugs or alcohol. Known as RuffTankTop in the kink scene, he is notorious for both his voracious appetites and his direct observations, including on what chems bring to...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 05 - @fellballberlin
Hagen is a sober kink pig from Berlin, Germany. He is clean and sober from chemsex for about 5 years. After a recovery break of several years, he started his journey into clearheaded kink, fetish, and pigginess in 2022. Involvement in Berlin's queer 12-step-community, fetish socials as well as...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 04 - @musclecub.77
Lez is 12 years clean in march and he found the kink scene after he got sober. He is lucky enough to work in the treatment services and this has helped him build a strong recovery. Picture by N Z Page #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 3…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 03 - @davey_lxx
UK based Rubber and Leather Daddy, just marked his 1st anniversary clean from recreational drugs, after losing his drug sobriety back in 2021, but now back on track. Non active advocate for non consensual Image Abuse/Revenge Porn in the LGBTQ community and founder of the LGBTQ Image Abuse…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 02 - @cubseven
Chris is a UK based reformed pig, (some may call him SPAM!). He has been clean and sober over 4 years. His recovery journey has moved him further away from the fetish scene, but he still has an interest in FF and Role Play. He is an active member of Sober Gay Socials bringing the sober LGBTQ+...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 01 - @RealClearFetish
Special Q&A episode with me as the one being asked the questions, so you can lean a little bit about me. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 14 January 2023 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/SoPd_gq6wZA Hosted on...
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 08 - @BannonRace
Race Bannon has been an organizer, writer, educator, speaker, and activist in the LGBTQ, leather/kink, polyamory, and HIV/STI prevention realms since 1973. He is an author, widely published writer, active speaker, community organizer and project leader, and has received numerous national and…
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RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! - Episode 07 - @lthredge
Edge is a sober leatherman and educator with a long and storied life in both the online and offline leather communities. #RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlay Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release] Recorded on 13 August 2022 on Instagram Live, see original video on YouTube:...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Hi, I am Ralf, the host of
RealClearFetish!
Talks
RealClearPlay!
and I am also the creator of RealClearFetish! - Clear Head, Clear Fetish!,
A sober alternative to fetish life, it is an online presence on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and YouTube.
The podcast invites guests on for a chat about Kink, Fetish, Sober life and everything in between.
So are you interest in kink, fetish and everything naughty, but want a podcast that talks about mental health, addictions issues and you want to lean something new,
please do give us a listen!
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
HOSTED BY
Ralf Rasmussen
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