Recovery Culture

In this episode, Steven and Valerie talk about one of the hardest — but most freeing — parts of recovery: forgiveness. From family wounds and past resentment to self-hatred and the struggle to let go, they share personal stories about how unforgiveness can quietly shape our lives, relationships, and recovery journey. Together, they unpack the difference between forgiving others, accepting forgiveness, and learning to forgive yourself. They also discuss how resentment, anger, and unresolved pain can keep people emotionally stuck — and why true healing often begins when we finally release what we’ve been carrying for years. Honest, vulnerable, and deeply personal, this conversation is about finding freedom, peace, and the courage to move forward.

Ashley’s story doesn’t start with chaos—it starts with what felt normal. Growing up around alcohol, drinking was never questioned. But over time, what seemed manageable turned into blackouts, close calls, and moments that couldn’t be ignored. We talk about: How normalized drinking can hide a growing problem The difference between functioning and actually being okay The warning signs we ignore Why trying to quit alone often doesn’t work If you’ve ever told yourself “it’s not that bad”… this episode might hit closer to home than you expect.

Vic O.’s story is one of addiction, violence, and a life that nearly ended too soon. After a promising boxing career was cut short, Vic fell into years of drug use, gang life, and prison—until a near-death experience changed everything. In this episode, he shares how he found faith, broke free from addiction, and built a new life rooted in purpose. This is a raw conversation about pain, redemption, and what it takes to truly change.

In this episode, we dive into amends—and why they’re more than just saying “I’m sorry.” We talk about what real amends look like, how to take responsibility for the harm we’ve caused, and why action matters more than words. We also cover when to make amends, when not to, and how to handle it if they’re not received the way you hoped. If you’re working through recovery—or just trying to make things right—this episode is about owning your past, moving forward with freedom, and finding healing.

What happens after the breaking point? In Part 2 of Kevin’s story, we pick up right where we left off—at one of the most intense moments of his life. From there, Kevin opens up about the path that followed: the choices, the consequences, and the reality of where addiction and identity can lead when left unchecked. But this isn’t just a story about destruction—it’s a story about what it takes to change, and how transformation becomes possible even in the darkest places. This is Part 2 of Kevin’s story.

Kevin’s story doesn’t start with addiction—it starts with chaos, trauma, and the beliefs that were formed long before he ever picked up a substance. In Part 1, Kevin shares what it was like growing up in an environment marked by violence, instability, and shame—and how those early experiences began shaping the way he saw himself and the world around him. From childhood trauma to searching for identity, this conversation dives into the moments that quietly (and sometimes loudly) define who we become. And just when everything begins to escalate… we reach a moment that changes everything. This is Part 1 of Kevin’s story.

What if the thoughts you believe about yourself… aren’t actually true? In this episode, we explore how our beliefs are formed—from childhood experiences to the things spoken over us—and how those beliefs shape our actions, habits, and even addiction. We break down the difference between guilt and shame, why what you focus on matters, and how to start challenging negative thoughts and rewriting your internal narrative. Because real change doesn’t start with your circumstances—it starts with what you believe.

Jorge shares a powerful and honest story of addiction, relapse, and what it took for him to finally change. After years of destructive patterns and damaged relationships, Jorge opens up about the reality of his addiction — the choices he made, the people he hurt, and the moment things began to shift. This conversation dives into: The cycle of relapse and starting over Taking ownership instead of blaming others The impact addiction had on his relationships The role of sponsorship, accountability, and community What real recovery looks like in practice Jorge’s story is raw, reflective, and ultimately hopeful — a reminder that no matter how far things have gone, change is still possible.

Addiction doesn’t just affect the person going through it — it impacts every relationship around them. In this episode, Val and Steven have an honest conversation about what addiction really does to relationships — from broken trust and emotional distance to codependency and miscommunication. They share both perspectives: what it’s like to be in addiction, and what it’s like to love someone who is struggling. You’ll hear real experiences, practical tools, and hard truths about: How addiction changes behavior and thinking The role of boundaries (and why they matter) Codependency and enabling Rebuilding trust after sobriety Learning to separate the person from the addiction Whether you’re in recovery or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers insight, clarity, and hope for what healing can look like.

In this episode, we sit down with our good friend Vinni to hear the full story behind the guy we thought we already knew. From a chaotic childhood and wild party years to close calls, health scares, and the moment everything finally shifted, Vinni shares his journey with honesty, humor, and zero filters. It’s a conversation full of unbelievable stories, hard truths, and a powerful reminder that recovery can look different for everyone.

There are a lot of myths about recovery and sobriety that keep people stuck. In this episode of Recovery Culture, we talk about the biggest misconceptions about getting sober — from the idea that you have to hit rock bottom, to the belief that life becomes boring without alcohol or drugs. We share our personal experiences, challenge some common assumptions, and talk about what recovery actually looks like in real life.

Maddie's powerful story of overcoming addiction, domestic violence, and finding sobriety in Colorado. Her journey highlights the importance of support, self-awareness, and resilience in recovery.

This episode explores what to expect in recovery programs, covering types of programs, meeting experiences, early lessons, and relapse prevention strategies. Hosted by Valerie and Steven, it offers practical insights for those on or considering a recovery journey.  

In this episode of the Recovery Culture Podcast, hosts Val and Steven engage in a heartfelt conversation with their guest Jim, who shares his transformative journey of faith and recovery. Jim discusses his struggles with addiction, the importance of community in the recovery process after losing a child, and how surrendering to God has led to profound changes in his life. The conversation emphasizes the healing power of service, the significance of mentorship, and the joy found in a relationship with God. 

This episode explores the multifaceted nature of grief, its stages, and its profound impact on recovery. It features personal stories and expert insights, emphasizing the importance of community, faith, and self-compassion in healing.

In this episode, we sit down with Cesar to hear his powerful and honest story of recovery. Cesar opens up about his childhood and family struggles, the pain of losing his brother, and how grief led him into gang involvement, incarceration, and addiction. He shares what it was like navigating years of chaos — and the turning points that slowly began to change his life. Through recovery, Cesar found faith, community, and a new way of living rooted in honesty, surrender, and daily effort. His story is a reminder that sobriety isn’t about perfection, but about showing up one day at a time. This conversation highlights the importance of community, personal responsibility, and the courage it takes to choose a different path — even when it feels uncomfortable.

Recovery doesn’t happen in isolation. In this episode, we talk about why community is essential to healing and long-term sobriety. From breaking patterns of isolation to learning how to show up honestly with others, we explore how connection plays a critical role in recovery. We share personal experiences and observations about accountability, support, and the daily choice to stay engaged — even when it feels uncomfortable. This conversation isn’t about having all the answers, but about recognizing that healing is something we were never meant to do alone. Whether you’re early in recovery, supporting someone who is, or simply looking for deeper connection, this episode offers perspective, encouragement, and a reminder that community can be a powerful part of the journey.

This episode explores the transformative power of recovery, personal stories of overcoming addiction, and the importance of community and vulnerability in healing. Hosts Valerie and Steven share their journey, the purpose behind their podcast, and insights into building a supportive recovery culture.