Recovery Unfiltered

EPISODE DESCRIPTION - Ready to publishA hospital stay, a staph infection, and a brutal reminder that control is mostly an illusion. Rob returns with a raw, funny, and unexpectedly spiritual conversation about fear, surrender, and what it really means to let other people - and God - carry the weight for a while.After a sudden back infection lands him in surgery and a five-day hospital stay, Rob opens up about the shock of the diagnosis, the fear of the unknown, and the strange peace that came after the pressure was finally removed. He talks through the reality of being completely dependent on doctors, nurses, antibiotics, and a checklist just to keep the medication straight, and why that loss of control became one of the biggest lessons in his sobriety.You’ll hear:What it feels like when a “just give me antibiotics” hospital trip turns into surgery and a PICC lineHow journaling became the tool that helped Rob work through fear and uncertaintyWhy support from Katie, the guys, and the recovery community mattered more than everThe difference between worrying about your own recovery and carrying someone else’s burdenHow one painful health scare forced a deeper look at faith, patience, and surrenderThe conversation also folds in another hard-earned lesson from competition, where Larry breaks down the mindset it takes to step onto the mat, face a top seed, and accept that sometimes you get your shot - and sometimes the battle is simply showing up prepared. That thread of discipline, humility, and resilience ties the whole episode together.If you’ve ever tried to white-knuckle life, fix everything yourself, or hide fear behind a good attitude, this one hits hard. It’s honest, practical, and full of the kind of recovery wisdom that only comes from being knocked flat and getting back up anyway.Essential listening if you need a reminder that surrender is not weakness, support is not failure, and sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is let go.

What if the thing keeping you sober is not a better prayer, but a better way to think? Chris shares the recovery path that finally worked for him after years of drinking, relapse, and misery - and why his answer to God, the steps, and AA tradition sounds nothing like what you might expect.Raised between the Valley and the Bay, Chris opens up about feeling like an outsider early on, how drinking escalated from social weekends to daily use, and the relationships, family wounds, and self-destructive patterns that kept following him everywhere he went. He also explains the moment life became unmanageable - and the brutal wake-up call that forced him to stop pretending.You’ll discover:why Rule 62 became more than a slogan and how it reshaped the way he sees himselfthe difference between sobriety that looks good and sobriety that actually workswhy he values Tradition 3, Step 10, and the “do the work” side of recovery more than sloganshow stoicism, Jung, and self-inventory became practical tools in his programwhy he believes action matters more than fake it till you make itChris also gets real about secular recovery, why he doesn’t force his beliefs on anyone else, and how he thinks AA can stay inclusive without watering down the message. Along the way, the conversation explores obsession, surrender, humility, resentment, and what it means to build a life that actually fits who you are.This one is for anyone who has ever felt stuck between belief systems, struggled to connect with the program, or wondered whether there’s another way to work recovery without losing yourself. If you want a conversation that is honest, thoughtful, and completely unfiltered, hit play.Want me to turn this into show notes next?

Tradition 11 has never felt more relevant - and this conversation gets brutally honest about what it means to be public about recovery without turning sobriety into a brand. If you care about AA, anonymity, social media, or the growing "sober curious" trend, this episode will make you think twice.Rob, Larry, Bonnie, and Katie wrestle with the line between attraction and promotion, why personal anonymity still matters in a world of podcasts, TikTok, and recovery influencers, and what happens when people start monetizing the message. They also dig into the difference between being public about sobriety and being public about AA, and why that distinction matters more than ever.You'll hear the crew break down:Why Tradition 11 was written for a world of press, radio, and film - and how podcasts and social media changed the stakesHow recovery can be shared openly without making yourself the center of the storyThe difference between carrying a message and promoting yourselfWhy "sober curious" can sound harmless to some, but dangerous to people who truly cannot safely drink againHow motives shape everything from sponsorship to speaking to recovery content onlineRob shares hard-won perspective from years of service, sponsorship, and step work, while Bonnie and Katie push the conversation into the real-world impact of recovery culture, influencer status, and what actually helps families and newcomers. The result is a sharp, funny, unfiltered discussion that keeps circling back to one central question: are we trying to help, or are we trying to be seen?This episode matters because the way recovery is presented online can either point people toward life-saving honesty or blur the line until real consequences hit. If you've ever wondered where humility ends and self-promotion begins, or whether today's recovery content is helping or harming, this one belongs on your list.Essential listening for anyone in recovery, anyone supporting someone who is, and anyone trying to figure out how to speak honestly about sobriety in a very public world.

Service in recovery is not about looking useful. It is about surrendering ego, showing up when it is inconvenient, and discovering that the real blessing is in the action. If you have ever wondered whether you are giving enough, doing too much, or serving for the wrong reasons, this conversation will hit home fast.Rob , Larry, and Kurt get brutally honest about what service actually looks like in sobriety - from sponsoring men and carrying the message, to pouring coffee, giving rides, picking guys up from treatment, and knowing when to say no. They dig into the tension between sacrificial service and family responsibilities, the difference between helping and controlling, and why the heart behind the action matters more than the action itself.You will discover:Why service can become a trap for ego if you are not carefulHow to tell whether you are serving with a willing heart or out of guiltWhat step 12 really means when it says to carry the message, not just talk about itWhy simple acts like making coffee or giving someone a ride can be real recovery workHow to spot the line between being helpful and becoming overextendedKurt brings the perspective of a man who has lived the fellowship, the hard conversations, and the quiet kind of service that changes lives. Robin and Larry push the conversation into the uncomfortable places most people avoid - where pride, obedience, and humility collide.This episode is a reminder that recovery is not passive. It asks something of you. It costs you time, comfort, and sometimes your own agenda. But it also gives you something back that you cannot manufacture on your own: purpose, connection, and the chance to be part of somebody else’s rescue.Perfect for anyone in recovery, anyone sponsoring men or women, or anyone trying to figure out what genuine service looks like when life is already full. If you need a straight talk on humility, boundaries, and the kind of service that actually keeps you sober, hit play.

This episode is essential listening if you’ve ever wondered how relapse happens after long-term sobriety, or if you need a reminder that staying well is an active, daily decision. Curt’s honesty is raw, practical, and hard to ignore - especially if you’re trying to protect your own recovery before complacency gets a vote.

When facing the chaos of everyday life or the struggles of sobriety, many of us cling to control or resistance. But what if the key to peace, growth, and authentic connection isn’t pushing harder or trying to change everything—but learning how to truly accept? Emily'S heartfelt insights and a candid conversation about family, faith, and self-love reveal how embracing yourself can be the strongest step forward.In this raw and inspiring episode, Logan shares deeply personal stories about family bonds, overcoming shame, and the importance of self-acceptance in recovery. You’ll discover:How acceptance isn’t about resignation but a gateway to genuine change.Practical tools like the Serenity Prayer to navigate difficult emotions and situations.Why loving yourself first allows you to love others unconditionally—no masks required.The subtle difference between shaping character flaws and reshaping love and acceptance.How trusting God’s plan can free you from the endless cycle of control and worry.We break down the spiritual toolkit that turns acceptance into a powerful catalyst for peace, resilience, and real relationships. Logan's reflections are an invitation to stop fighting reality—and start working with it, warts and all. Whether you’re in recovery, struggling with family, or seeking a deeper understanding of self-love, this episode offers practical hope and profound spiritual insight.Perfect for anyone who’s ever felt overwhelmed by life’s chaos or trapped in self-judgment. It’s about embracing where you are today, trusting the process, and finding purpose in the journey. Don’t miss the transformative power of acceptance—because sometimes, letting go is the only way to move forward.

This weeks episode we have Rob's daughter Emily with us. She discusses her fathers trials challenges with sobriety

In this episode, Rob and Larry delve into the nuances of character flaws versus bad habits, exploring how they influence behavior and recovery. They share personal stories, biblical insights, and practical tools for growth and self-awareness.

In this episode, Rob and I sit down with James S. for an honest conversation about the road from alcoholism to recovery—and the deeper struggles that often fuel addiction. James shares his personal journey through alcoholism, but also opens up about something many people silently battle every day: insecurity.Together, we explore how fear, self-doubt, and the need for approval can shape our decisions, affect our relationships, and keep us trapped in unhealthy patterns. James candidly discusses how confronting those insecurities became just as important as putting down the drink.Whether you're in recovery, love someone who is, or simply struggle with feelings of not being enough, this episode offers hope, honesty, and practical insight. Join us for a conversation about healing, vulnerability, and discovering that lasting freedom comes from addressing not just the symptoms—but the underlying causes.Thank you for listening, and if this episode resonates with you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who could use a little hope today.

In this episode, Larry shares his recent health journey, including surgeries, recovery struggles, and spiritual growth. He discusses the importance of surrender, managing pain without relapse, and trusting God's plan amid life's challenges.

Thank You for the last few weeks. Our listners mean the world to us. We will be back next week with all new episodes.

Listen to the incredible story of Mickey and his fight to get back to Kim his wife..

Rob and I needed to take a couple weeks off. We will be back with new shows starting July 8th

This episode features a raw and powerful conversation with Jimmy K, sharing his tumultuous journey through addiction, trauma, and recovery. Discover insights into the impact of childhood experiences, the importance of community, and the transformative power of sobriety. Jimmy shares his inspiring journey of recovery from addiction, the role of faith, and the transformative power of the 12 steps. This episode offers deep insights into spiritual growth, overcoming ego, and living a grateful life.

In this compelling interview, Matt shares his transformative journey through addiction, recovery, and the importance of holistic health. He discusses the flaws in the treatment industry, the role of spirituality, and the power of community and self-awareness in overcoming addiction. This episode features heartfelt stories of recovery, spiritual awakening, and the importance of readiness in overcoming addiction. Guests share their journeys through relapse, sobriety, and the transformative power of faith and community.

This episode features a candid conversation about recovery, personal growth, and the importance of action in sobriety. The host shares personal stories, insights on spiritual unrest, and practical steps to maintain sobriety and improve character.

summaryThis episode features a heartfelt conversation with Jim and his son Logan, exploring recovery, sobriety, family dynamics, and personal growth. Logan shares his perspective on his father's journey, the impact of recovery on their family, and lessons learned along the way.

In today’s episode of Recovery Unfiltered, we delve into the compelling story of Scott B, a man whose journey through addiction and recovery provides invaluable lessons for anyone struggling with similar challenges. Scott's experiences highlight the complexities of addiction, the impact of social environments, and the profound power of community support. Whether you’re on your own recovery path or seeking to support someone else, this post will offer you insights and actionable takeaways.

Parker is a dedicated individual who has navigated the complexities of addiction and recovery. His story is not just about overcoming obstacles but also about understanding family dynamics and the role of faith in healing. With a background that includes personal experiences with addiction, Parker brings a unique perspective that is both relatable and inspiring.

Rob & I walk through the 9th step promises.

How Michelle Went From Uselessness to Leading in Mental Health—and You Can Too" — because it clearly highlights transformation, sparks inspiration, and promises a relatable journey that motivates action.

n this heartfelt episode, the host of "Recovery Unfiltered" shares a deeply personal journey through family addiction and healing. The conversation centers around Sarah, who recounts her experiences growing up with a father struggling with addiction and the impact it had on her family. She discusses the challenges of living with an addicted parent, the emotional and psychological toll it took, and the eventual path to healing and forgiveness. Sarah also shares her professional journey into the field of drug and alcohol rehabilitation, driven by her desire to help others break the cycle of addiction. The episode is a powerful testament to resilience, the importance of support systems, and the ongoing process of healing from past traumas.

Just Rob & Larry in Studion this week. Discussing life and all that happens. We live in a worl of chaos and calamity. How we navigate these things are very crucial to our sobriety.

he conversation covers the journey of faith, trust, and overcoming doubt in the context of recovery and sobriety. It delves into the significance of milestones, reflections on serenity, and the role of God in the recovery process. The discussion also explores the challenges of facing doubt and fear, and the importance of self-awareness and prayer in navigating these obstacles. The conversation delves into the themes of finding forgiveness, embracing emotional bottom, and the power of sobriety. It explores the journey of forgiveness and the emotional impact of personal struggles, as well as the transformative power of sobriety and faith. The conversation delves into the themes of support and mentorship in recovery, the role of spirituality and church in the recovery journey, the dynamics of relationships in the context of recovery, and the power of sponsorship in the recovery process.TakeawaysFaith and TrustOvercoming Doubt ForgivenessEmotional Bottom Recovery and spiritualitySupport and mentorship in recoveryChapters00:00 Setting the Stage09:23 Reflections on Serenity29:58 Facing Doubt and Fear35:17 Finding Forgiveness49:07 The Power of Sobriety01:07:17 Support and Mentorship in Recovery01:12:21 Finding God and Church01:17:39 Relationship and Recovery01:35:21 The Power of Sponsorship

# Navigating Empathy in Recovery: Insights from Real ConversationsDiscover how empathy evolves in recovery. Learn compassionate insights and practical advice from real-life experiences shared on the Recovery Unfiltered Podcast.When we talk about recovery, one question often arises: "How does empathy change as we navigate our journey?" In this post, we’ll explore insights from a recent episode of the Recovery Unfiltered Podcast, where hosts delve into the nature of empathy and its impact on recovery, sharing personal stories and practical advice for those on the same path.## Understanding Empathy in RecoveryEmpathy is a crucial component of the recovery journey. It allows individuals to connect with one another on a deeper level, fostering understanding and support. In our podcast episode, we discuss how empathy evolves as we gain experience and face various hardships.### The Role of Life Experience in Deepening Empathy- **The Conventional Thinking:** Many believe that empathy is inherent and remains static throughout life. - **What We Discovered:** However, our discussion revealed that as individuals endure life's challenges, their capacity for empathy often grows. This growth is attributed to increased emotional maturity and a better understanding of others' pain. - **Why It Matters:** Recognizing this shift can help individuals in recovery understand their feelings and reactions towards others, allowing them to provide better support.- **How to Apply It:** Reflect on your past experiences and consider how they shape your understanding of others today. ### Compassion vs. Absorbing Pain- **The Nuance of Empathy:** While empathy can manifest as compassion, it can also lead to absorbing others' pain, which can be overwhelming. - **Discussion Insights:** Our hosts highlighted the importance of recognizing the difference: compassion involves supporting someone without taking on their emotional burden. - **Why It Matters:** Understanding this distinction helps individuals maintain their well-being while supporting others in recovery. - **Actionable Tip:** Create boundaries to ensure that while you offer support, you also protect your emotional health.### Personal Stories of Empathy in Action- **Real Conversations:** Throughout the podcast, personal anecdotes illustrate the evolution of empathy in recovery. For instance, one host shared a story about witnessing a friend in pain and wanting to help but also needing to protect his own emotions. - **Key Insight:** This shared experience resonates with many in recovery, emphasizing that it’s okay to feel compassion without becoming overwhelmed. - **Takeaway:** Use your experiences to foster empathy; they can help you connect with others on a deeper level.## Key Takeaways- Empathy evolves through experiences, especially in recovery. - It’s vital to distinguish between compassion and absorbing another's pain. - Sharing personal stories can foster deeper connections and understanding in recovery.In conclusion, navigating empathy in recovery is complex yet essential. As you reflect on your journey and the experiences of others, remember to balance compassion with self-care. If you want to explore more about recovery and empathy, listen to the full episode of the Recovery Unfiltered Podcast. ---### Frequently Asked Questions**H3: How does empathy change during the recovery process?** Empathy often deepens as individuals gain life experience and understand the struggles of others more profoundly.

Brandon brings his son to the studio to talk thru the stuggles of having an alcoholic as a father and working through sobriety.

Kurt ,Rob , Katie & Larry relive the last few months of Kurts journey to the bottom. We also talk about Kurt finding sobriety with his relationship with God.

Rob & Larry are joined with Katie, We walk through the steps and break them down.. Listen to Rob and Katie dominate the show and not let Larry speak ..

We talk with Concetta about cliques in AA and do they exist. If they do how does an new person new to AA navigate them.

Come and listen to us talk about the corruption in Recovery centers. Concetta returns to discuss what she has seen in her years of working in the,

This conversation delves into the personal journeys of recovery, focusing on the struggles and triumphs faced by individuals overcoming addiction. It highlights the importance of choices, faith, and community support in the recovery process, as well as the impact of childhood experiences on adult behavior. The discussion also emphasizes the significance of sharing stories to inspire and help others on their recovery journeys. In this episode of the Recovery Unfiltered Podcast, the hosts delve into the struggles of alcoholism, the impact of trauma and loss, and the journey to sobriety. They discuss the importance of community, acceptance, and personal growth in recovery, as well as the role of family support. The conversation highlights the transformative power of faith and the necessity of embracing change to achieve lasting sobriety and happiness.

SummaryIn this conversation, the speakers delve into their personal journeys of recovery from alcoholism, discussing the importance of spirituality, the 12 steps, and the role of fear and respect in their lives. They share insights on navigating relationships during sobriety and the significance of self-reflection and personal growth. The dialogue emphasizes the need for honesty, accountability, and the willingness to confront one's fears and limitations in the pursuit of a healthier life. This conversation delves into the complexities of trust, leadership, self-love, and the impact of sobriety on relationships. The speakers share personal experiences and insights on navigating these themes, emphasizing the importance of community support and personal growth. They discuss the challenges of micromanagement, the journey of learning to love oneself, and the significance of helping others in their recovery journeys. The dialogue also touches on the necessity of breaking free from toxic relationships and the role of faith in personal development.

SummaryIn this episode of the Recovery Unfiltered Podcast, hosts Larry and Rob reflect on their journey through recovery in 2025, sharing personal stories, insights, and the importance of community support. They discuss the role of honesty in recovery, the impact of women in the recovery community, and the significance of healing relationships. The conversation highlights transformative stories from guests, the challenges faced in recovery, and the steps that guide individuals towards healing. With humor and sincerity, the hosts emphasize the power of sharing experiences and the ongoing journey of recovery.

This conversation delves into the complex journey of addiction, exploring themes of power, control, and the impact of childhood experiences on adult behavior. The speaker shares personal stories of navigating adolescence, early sexual experiences, and the challenges of relationships within the context of addiction. The discussion highlights the cyclical nature of substance abuse, the struggle for autonomy, and the difficult path toward seeking help and recovery, culminating in the unexpected challenges of pregnancy during addiction. This conversation delves into the complex journey of addiction, recovery, and personal growth. The speaker shares their experiences with pregnancy, abortion, and the emotional turmoil that accompanies addiction. They discuss the impact of relationships, the struggle for acceptance, and the importance of community support in recovery. The conversation highlights the challenges of early sobriety, the role of spirituality, and the ongoing journey of self-improvement. Ultimately, it emphasizes the beauty of recovery and the connections formed within the community.

SummaryThis conversation delves into the personal recovery journeys of the speakers, highlighting the challenges and triumphs faced along the way. From childhood experiences that shaped their relationship with alcohol to the complexities of family dynamics, the discussion emphasizes the importance of community, support, and the ongoing journey of sobriety. The speakers share their stories of resilience, the impact of addiction on their lives, and the hope found in recovery and connection with others. This conversation delves into the personal journeys of recovery from alcoholism, exploring the complexities of relationships, the importance of support systems, and the transformative power of community. The speakers share their experiences with sobriety, the challenges of mental health, and the significance of finding the right sponsors in their recovery journey. They emphasize the importance of transparency, trust, and personal growth, highlighting how their relationships have evolved through their experiences in recovery.

Dustin C shares his story of experience strength and hope. 14 years sober and he is still finding grace each day,

Rob and I go one on one for a new years Eve event. We talk about Life events and the struggles of recognizing God at work in your life.

Westside John is back. We catch up with John after his marriage to Heather ( #8 is a bitch ) and we work through a few holiday encouragements.. Reach us at [email protected]

Ashley is back with us for a Topic and a bit more of her story. we look forward to working with you more Ashley Thank You

Ashley comes in to tell her story about loss and redemption with every aspect of her heart.

In this episode of the Recovery Unfiltered Podcast, the hosts discuss the challenges of navigating sobriety during the holiday season. They share personal experiences and insights on how to cope with the pressures of family gatherings, the importance of community support, and strategies for maintaining sobriety. The conversation emphasizes the need for planning, setting boundaries, and embracing new traditions while staying connected to one's recovery journey.

SummaryIn this episode of the Recovery Unfiltered Podcast, the hosts engage in a heartfelt discussion with guest John Kay, exploring themes of recovery, forgiveness, and the lessons learned from near-death experiences. They reflect on the importance of love, joy, and presence in life, while also addressing regrets and the impact of addiction on relationships and parenting. The conversation emphasizes the role of spirituality in recovery and the significance of open communication with loved ones.

n this episode of the Recovery Unfiltered podcast, John K shares his profound journey through addiction, recovery, and the impact of relationships on his sobriety. From a life-changing incident in his youth to the gradual evolution of his drinking habits, John reflects on the pivotal moments that shaped his path. He discusses the importance of community, the role of prayer, and the struggles with resentments in his relationships. As he navigates the challenges of alcoholism, including a relapse during the COVID-19 pandemic, John emphasizes the significance of support systems and honesty in the recovery process. His story is one of resilience, healing, and the ongoing journey of sobriety. This conversation delves into a profound personal journey of addiction, recovery, and resilience. The speaker shares their harrowing experiences with alcoholism, including a dramatic descent into addiction, a life-threatening coma, and the challenges of recovery. Through faith, community support, and a commitment to sobriety, they illustrate the transformative power of acceptance and gratitude in overcoming adversity.

In this episode of the Recovery Unfiltered Podcast, the hosts engage in a heartfelt conversation about the importance of acceptance in recovery and life. They reflect on previous episodes, share personal updates, and discuss the challenges and triumphs of living a sober life. The discussion emphasizes the need for acceptance as a tool for overcoming difficulties and fostering personal growth, while also highlighting the significance of being present in the moment.

We finish Nathans story from Episode 38.. These stories are why we do this podcast..

Send us a textOne prayer. One big win. A thousand bad bets. This week we sit with a story that refuses to blink: from a first jackpot and comped rooms to forged signatures, meth-fueled investigations, DUIs, and a 400-foot plunge that somehow wasn’t the end. The chase for the next high becomes a full-time job—slots, credit kiting, Costco rug scams, fake IDs—until the truth finally breaks through in a courtroom where a judge gives one last chance and honesty becomes the only strategy left.We walk through the parts that rarely get airtime: how process addictions like gambling and bulimia got misread as “less serious” while alcohol and drugs ran cover; how shame and secrecy kept rewiring choices; and how family dynamics of control, image, and rescue poured gas on a fire that wouldn’t stop. The details are messy and human—Vegas jackpots, a bookie named Ted, rehab romances, crack paranoia in a locked garage, custody battles, and a mother’s fury in a courthouse aisle. It’s wild, but the hinge of the story is plain: accountability over victimhood, service over self, and a decision to live in sober housing long enough to become the person running it.You’ll also hear what recovery looks like after rock bottom: a sponsor who reads the Big Book line by line because comprehension is a barrier; rebaptism and a faith that feels alive, not performative; and the hard admission that process addictions can still creep in when stress peaks. We pull back the curtain on the recovery industry too—kickbacks, light-touch programs, and insurance incentives that reward churn over change—and talk about building care that’s ethical, transparent, and matched to real needs.If you’ve ever believed your past has the final word, this conversation offers a different ending. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs hope, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway—what part of this story challenged you to tell the truth about your own?Thank You for Joining Us.. Please share with friends. If you or anyone you know is struggling with alcoholism please reach out to us. We can get you help. [email protected]

Send us a textA quiet prayer sets the tone, then the truth rushes in. We sit with Concetta as she maps a childhood of tight control and big love, school years tangled by dyslexia and undiagnosed ADHD, and a relentless need to be seen that bloomed into bulimia and blackout drinking. No melodrama, just the kind of detail you only share when you’re done hiding: raisins in the lunchbox while everyone else had Ding Dongs, a first drunk that turned into a public spectacle, and the way shame can feel like destiny when approval seems tied to your body and behavior.College offered freedom without guardrails. She gamed the system, outdrank everyone, and used her eating disorder to extend the party. An arrest exposed cracks her family tried to plaster over with treatment aimed at food, not booze. A fast-track marriage checked every box on paper—older attorney, big wedding, picture-perfect home—but left her starving inside. Motherhood brought a pause, then the restlessness roared back: secret affairs, a devastating choice, and the slow collapse of boundaries that once felt unbreakable.Then came the track. A racehorse named after her. A triple that hit. A pick six that nearly did. Gambling lit up the same circuits as alcohol and bulimia—risk, reward, attention, control—without the mess, until the mess caught up. Concetta’s candor is the point: how control and shame can incubate addiction, how smart people make impossible choices, and how honesty can start to pry open a way out. We end on a cliffhanger—twenty-six arrests and four counties of probation—with part two on the way.If this story moved you, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find these conversations. What moment stayed with you the most?Thank You for Joining Us.. Please share with friends. If you or anyone you know is struggling with alcoholism please reach out to us. We can get you help. [email protected]

Send us a textWhat if the thing you’re most afraid to say is the exact key that unlocks your freedom? That’s where we start: with a prayer, an intention to be real, and the kind of honesty that makes sobriety livable at home, not just in a meeting.We trace the Big Book’s roots back to the Sermon on the Mount, 1 Corinthians 13, and the Book of James to show why action-based faith beats white-knuckling every time. Step One gets clarified—powerless and unmanageable are two different admissions—and Steps Four and Five come alive as the place where secrets lose their grip. You’ll hear why “you’re only as sick as your secrets” isn’t a slogan but a strategy, how to choose a sponsor who takes you through the work (and when to switch), and why humility shows up best as gratitude in motion.This conversation is family-deep. The wives speak openly about what changed: patience, fewer assumptions, and honest check-ins about triggers, fatigue, and trust. We lay out practical guardrails for real-life tests—travel, all-inclusive settings, old routines—and name the “Big Three” that keep sobriety stable: prayer, fellowship, and working with others. We also tackle amends with nuance—owning your part while holding firm boundaries around harm—plus a crucial warning about over-serving until home suffers. Tradition One gets personal: protect unity by protecting your capacity.What stands out most is the texture of hope: a teenage son modeling integrity, laughter breaking tension, and the reminder that vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s the doorway to relief, connection, and a marriage that actually grows. If you’re early in recovery, a spouse trying to support well, or someone stuck between dry sober and truly free, there’s something here you can use today.If this conversation helped, share it with one person who needs it, hit follow so you never miss an episode, and leave a quick review—what truth are you ready to say out loud?Thank You for Joining Us.. Please share with friends. If you or anyone you know is struggling with alcoholism please reach out to us. We can get you help. [email protected]

Send us a textA wedding speech that kept getting soaked with tears. A 911 call that saved a friend who doesn’t remember it. A sponsor who hits a wall because “please in the morning, thank you at night” turned into “I’ll get to it later.” This one is unfiltered and full-hearted. We invited our wives back to talk about what balance really costs in recovery, marriage, and work—and how gratitude becomes more than a feeling when God moves to the center of the room.We trace the arc from rehab to real life: why plans after discharge have to be about staying sober, not fixing everything at once. We unpack the Serenity Prayer as a practical blueprint—accept what you can’t control, take courageous action where you can, and ask God for the wisdom to know the difference. Steps 10 and 11 take front seat, too: daily inventory to keep ego from calcifying, and prayer and meditation to keep conscience contact current. Along the way, we get honest about burnout, boundaries, and why a weekly “no commitments” day can save a marriage. There’s laughter—a double-yolk “three-egg” omelet that wrecks a planner’s brain—and there’s real talk about grief, faith, and leading at home without becoming a martyr to the calendar.Our wives ground the conversation with what it felt like to carry the house, then slowly hand leadership back over years, not months. They ask for what matters: presence, humility, and follow-through. We share how physical practice (hello, jiu-jitsu) helps bleed off stress, how scripture and the Big Book align in surprising ways, and how faith becomes family culture when we live it instead of posting it. If you’re wrestling with work pressure, recovery service, marriage rhythms, or just trying to be spiritually fit without faking it, this conversation meets you where you are and points you toward progress, not perfection.If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs it, and leave a quick review. What small practice keeps you steady right now? Tell us—we’re listening.Thank You for Joining Us.. Please share with friends. If you or anyone you know is struggling with alcoholism please reach out to us. We can get you help. [email protected]

Send us a textThe path to genuine freedom in sobriety often runs through our most difficult relationships. In this raw and moving conversation, we explore the transformative power of making amends—not just as a step in recovery, but as a profound act of healing that ripples beyond ourselves.Our guests share deeply personal stories of reconnecting with ex-spouses after years of separation. One describes flying across the country for a five-minute conversation that changed everything, while another recounts finding the perfect moment at a funeral to finally take responsibility for past mistakes. These stories reveal that true amends aren't about seeking forgiveness or easing our conscience, but about offering peace to those we've harmed while taking full ownership of our actions.We dive into the spiritual foundation that makes such healing possible. As one guest puts it, "On the other side of obedience is peace." The discussion explores how surrendering to a higher power creates a natural flow in life—contrasted with the forced, manipulated experiences of active addiction. This spiritual awareness becomes the compass for navigating both recovery and daily challenges.The conversation shifts to innovative approaches in addiction treatment, with fascinating insights about brain mapping, genetic testing, and the importance of addressing underlying mental health issues. Yet the most powerful message emerges about treatment itself: "If you think rehab will keep you sober, don't unpack. This is about stopping the bleeding." Real recovery happens through ongoing community, spiritual growth, and daily practices.Whether you're in recovery, supporting a loved one, or simply curious about the transformative journey from addiction to freedom, this episode offers honest wisdom about how confronting our past creates space for an authentic future—one where we're no longer defined by our mistakes but by our courage to make things right.Thank You for Joining Us.. Please share with friends. If you or anyone you know is struggling with alcoholism please reach out to us. We can get you help. [email protected]