Redefining humanity

Episodes

1. 10

   The Architecture of the Unknown: On Faith, Pain, and the Space Between

   The beauty of still becoming is that you subject yourself to the process—even when you don’t know where the end lies." In this quiet, deeply intimate reflection, we step into the shadows of the questions we are often too afraid to ask. This is an invitation to the threshold—the place where…

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   May 6, 2026

   1h 55m
2. 9

   The Ping-Pong Paradox: Can Selfish People Truly Love?

   This conversation (with myself) is more of a difficult confession: the paradox of true love. We often talk about love as a feeling, but I’ve been looking at it through the lens of our design. We are a species fundamentally wired for self-gratification and validation. We want to be seen, to be...

   Mar 29, 2026

   1h 11m
3. 8

   Still Becoming...

   I wont be able to do justice in description the heart behind this episode, you just have to hear it for yourself, or maybe I'm just to lazy to do so. Make you own case when you listen.

   Dec 15, 2025

   1h 19m
4. 7

   It happens for you (happy new year)

   I know I'm late to the party, but I think this is still In time. .

   Jan 4, 2025

   1h 10m
5. 6

   I'm in loveeee!!

   I can't express it in words, I guess you'll have to listen to my attempt.

   Oct 4, 2024

   59m
6. 5

   Resumes and blueprints

   We've been talking about CVs and Resumes that we use to get jobs, let's talk about the resumes we live by.

   Jun 8, 2024

   42m
7. 4

   Osmosis

   Love bombing or not, we all want to get through to the people we seem to care about. Let's review it amongst many other things.

   May 11, 2024

   1h 05m
8. 3

   Freedom Cell.

   It doesn't make sense, but freedom can become a prison and we can all be willing and aggressively choosing a cell in the attempt to BE FREE. Here's how...

   Apr 20, 2024

   22m
9. 2

   Irrationally rational.

   We place too much premium on the worth of Rationality as though we could be truly rational. Stay with me as I attempt to make a case for irrationality, you can't guess where this is going until you get there. Enjoy.

   Apr 13, 2024

   36m
10. 1

    Consistency HACKED.

    On this episode I decided to share what I consider to be the three pillars of consistency. Enjoy!

    Apr 6, 2024

    30m
11. Failure is an ally.

    Just before you call yourself a failure, listen to this

    Mar 30, 2024

    37m
12. Maintaining the fitness lifestyle.

    We make an attempt to solve one of the deepest concerns of our time, being able to maintain a fitness culture.

    Mar 23, 2024

    1h 32m
13. 2 for 1

    It took me twice the time to get one degree, guess what? I wouldn’t change it for anything and here’s exactly why.

    Mar 16, 2024

    1h 31m
14. Loving

    I finally recorded the episode I had been craving for months. Listen and enjoy.

    Mar 9, 2024

    1h 41m
15. Vulnerability

    Demystifying the concept of vulnerability as well sharing effective ways to be vulnerable, especially at the most crucial moments

    Mar 2, 2024

    1h 32m
16. Dealing with complexities

    Listen and enjoy!

    Feb 24, 2024

    1h 06m
17. Political correctness (my spec)

    Listen and enjoy!

    Feb 17, 2024

    1h 37m
18. Midnight thoughts

    One of the popular midnight monologues, it’s been a while I did this. So I hope you find some value in it, otherwise let it go, it’s more for me 😂

    Feb 10, 2024

    35m
19. Fatherhood!

    Are broken home and lovelessness amongst people truly linked to fathers? Here’s our take.

    Feb 3, 2024

    1h 22m
20. Spirituality

    Those who worship, would worship in spirit and truth. God in in your essence!

    Jan 27, 2024

    1h 36m
21. Failing early (with Anthony)

    Failure has a very bad reputation in our stories as people, but I feel failures are the true building blocks of success. Join me and my friend Tony as we share some insight from our stories with failures, success and how all of that can be harnessed when you play to your strength.

    Jan 20, 2024

    1h 29m
22. Happy new year

    This is the best way to say Happy new year to you guys!

    Jan 11, 2024

    43m
23. WRAPPED!

    This year has been nothing short of eventful and I’m truly grateful for it. So I thought I would record a solo session talking about my lessons, and wins for this year. Enjoy!

    Dec 30, 2023

    1h 18m
24. Impasse

    Has your relationship ever hit a deadlock? Then you might be a one to relate to this conversation with Jerry.

    Dec 23, 2023

    1h 41m
25. Jesus baby.

    Unequally yoked?

    Dec 16, 2023

    1h 34m
26. The Grind

    Join me and the amazing Prince, a friend and brother as we recount our experiences with the “grind” through life and business .

    Dec 9, 2023

    1h 28m
27. Masculinity vs Femininity

    What really is masculine or feminine

    Dec 2, 2023

    1h 58m
28. The 6(internal and external) pillars of a healthy relationship

    On this episode I and my buddy Jerry attempt to articulate what it means and what it would take to have a quality relationship, how to progress with it and several other aspects of relationships that we don’t often talk enough about or perhaps that we talk too much about but never hit the nail on...

    Nov 25, 2023

    1h 38m
29. Traumas (this could be hurting your relationship)

    Let’s have this conversation about traumas already.

    Nov 23, 2023

    1h 31m
30. Adult conversations 😉😉

    I promise it’s not what you think.

    Nov 18, 2023

    1h 08m
31. Compound effect

    I know you may not believe me, but I honestly think that the work you’ve put in has not gone to a total waste simply because you are not seeing the expected results.

    Nov 13, 2023

    16m
32. Swimming against the tides

    I’m sorry but the difficulty you are experiencing is legitimate, I mean you deserve exactly that amount of difficulty and discomfort. I know that’s not what you are hoping to hear but it’s the truth, the difficulty you are experiencing is the proof of the direction you are on, it may get easier…

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    Nov 9, 2023

    11m
33. Imposter syndrome

    I like the word ‘nuance’ a lot because it’s a very accurate description of what we experience as people, almost everything we call ‘new’ is not usually that it hasn’t existed before it’s just that it hasn’t existed in this fashion before, so most times we are fighting the same battle but in a new...

    Nov 5, 2023

    20m
34. Count the cost

    What do you think it means to really count the cost? I think this is an important life skill we should have in the day and age. Let’s dive in!

    Nov 2, 2023

    17m
35. RE-evaluate

    It’s interesting how in this conversation I get to RE-evaluate the idea of reevaluation 😂 you’ll understand what I mean when you listen

    Oct 30, 2023

    22m
36. Just a glimpse.

    An episode made with once upon a chart time strangers who quickly turned into close friends.

    Oct 23, 2023

    1h 04m
37. FRIENDSHIP (with Ade and John)

    Join myself and two of my closest friends explore some depth in our relationship.

    Oct 16, 2023

    1h 50m
38. Swimming against the tide

    Talking is therapy she said, I couldn’t have agreed less. This was definitely enriching for me.

    Oct 15, 2023

    2h 13m
39. Bullying (I think you are a bully too.

    It was such an honor to be with the Rotaract club of UNN, to share a perspective on the psychological impact of bullying. I hope this new perspective will make us even more responsible as we have a society with less and less cases of bullying.

    Oct 8, 2023

    24m
40. Slow down you’re doing fine

    I know I make a lot of noise about this podcast being my own safe space, but this episode is truly for you, yes you. I’m sorry I couldn’t place the link here as promised, the title of the song is Vienna by Greta Ray. When you listen to it think of me 😂 I’m kidding. I want you to think of you and...

    Oct 6, 2023

    23m
41. Surreal

    Another disorganized rant through my mind trying to make something that makes sense to me in my head makes sense in speaking… sorry for the incoherence 😂

    Oct 4, 2023

    32m
42. HEY AIESEC!

    I’m sorry but this is a special edition with my FA people. A lot of inside jokes and references 😂

    Sep 30, 2023

    1h 00m
43. Ready or not, here we go!!

    It’s about time.

    Sep 27, 2023

    26m
44. To be VS to become

    Of late I’ve not been able to really talk about what’s happening in my head for a couple of reasons that I won’t bore you with here, but you’ll get the point in the episode I hope, except of course I’m just talking rubbish which anyways is okay with me 😂 I have heard a few people lately sound...

    Jul 28, 2023

    1h 18m
45. Talking stages

    How many talking stages have you been in this year alone? Let me show you a new perspective you probably haven’t thought about before

    May 6, 2023

    18m
46. Let go of control

    Listen and find out

    May 1, 2023

    12m
47. Let it marinate

    I realized that I spent the whole time in the episode describing “marinate” as simmer, but then again, I can’t change that now, can I? Anyway this is a very free flowing monologue and so I would not try to order or try to determine what you get out of this. So I’ll just let you flow with it and...

    Mar 5, 2023

    17m
48. To be or To become

    What do you do when you are faced with a situation that requires you grow?

    Feb 28, 2023

    23m
49. Purposefully(why?)

    For everything in existence there is a purposes, a reason for its existence that makes utility possible, it is safe to say that one of our greatest joys as humans is to find the purpose of a thing, but even more interestingly give purpose(meaning) to certain thing that we are privileged to create...

    Feb 24, 2023

    39m
50. They lied to us about leadership

    Self leadership is the heart of leadership

    Feb 24, 2023

    48m