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Redesign Yourself Beyond Betrayal

by Lorna Nakell

In the words of Bessel Van Der Kolk, “Imagination gives us the opportunity to envision new possibilities—it is an essential launchpad for making our hopes come true.”When there’s a rupture in your relationship due to your partner’s sex and porn addiction, it’s natural to question not only who your partner is but also who you are. This kind of betrayal can deeply shake your sense of self, leaving you wondering how to move forward.In relationships, we form a connection that becomes its own entity. While you are two individuals, your coupleship creates a bond of trust, intimacy, and shared dreams. When that bond is broken by sexual betrayal, it’s like being torn away from part of yourself. To heal, you must rediscover who you are, apart from that relationship, and find new ways to feel safe and whole again. And in that process, the dreams you once held may need to evolve into something different.This is where your healing journey begins—whether you choose to stay in your relationship o

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Episodes

  1. Post Traumatic Growth Beyond Betrayal with Carol (the coach) Juergensen Sheets

    In this episode of Redesigning Yourself Beyond Betrayal, I sit down with Carol Sheets (Carol the Coach), a leading expert in betrayal trauma recovery with decades of experience. We explore the often-overlooked topic of post-traumatic growth—what it looks like, how to recognize when you're ready…

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  2. Nolo 2.0: Reflections on a Coupleship Part 2

    Welcome to part two of Nolo 2.0. In this episode, I’m joined by my husband Noah for an honest conversation about our journey of healing after betrayal. We know how rare it is to find examples of both the betrayer and the betrayed sharing their story together, and we hope this episode provides...

  3. NoLo 2.0: Reflections on a Coupleship

    In this episode, I’m joined by my husband Noah for an honest conversation about our journey of healing after betrayal. We know how rare it is to find examples of both the betrayer and the betrayed sharing their story together, and we hope this episode provides encouragement and insight for others...

  4. Reclaiming the Holidays after Betrayal with Heidi Kinsella

    While the holidays can be challenging for many folks for a variety of reasons (dealing with travel, having to spend time with extended family that you might not get along with, trying to stay on track with eating and spending money, etc.) it can be especially hard for couples who are additionally...

  5. NOLO 2.0 My Betrayed Partner Story

    In the spring of 2022 I discovered that my husband of 21 years had cheated on me in a variety of ways. Before that day, I thought we were good. Even after hearing how romantic love can fade over the years and be replaced by practical love, I felt my love for Noah grow and deepen every year. I was...

  6. Introducing Redesign Yourself Beyond Betrayal with Lorna Nakell

    I don’t know if you’re aware, but some of the most fantastic things in life start with a creative mess. But, we’ll get back to that in a moment. Have you either known for a while or recently discovered that your husband or partner is a sex and porn addict? Are you on that emotional rollercoaster...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

In the words of Bessel Van Der Kolk, “Imagination gives us the opportunity to envision new possibilities—it is an essential launchpad for making our hopes come true.”When there’s a rupture in your relationship due to your partner’s sex and porn addiction, it’s natural to question not only who your partner is but also who you are. This kind of betrayal can deeply shake your sense of self, leaving you wondering how to move forward.In relationships, we form a connection that becomes its own entity. While you are two individuals, your coupleship creates a bond of trust, intimacy, and shared dreams. When that bond is broken by sexual betrayal, it’s like being torn away from part of yourself. To heal, you must rediscover who you are, apart from that relationship, and find new ways to feel safe and whole again. And in that process, the dreams you once held may need to evolve into something different.This is where your healing journey begins—whether you choose to stay in your relationship o

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Lorna Nakell

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In the words of Bessel Van Der Kolk, “Imagination gives us the opportunity to envision new possibilities—it is an essential launchpad for making our hopes come true.”When there’s a rupture in your relationship due to your partner’s sex and porn addiction, it’s natural to question not only who your...

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Redesign Yourself Beyond Betrayal is created and hosted by Lorna Nakell.
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