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REFUSED

by Mirror Orchid

The unofficial podcast of ILIASM.org. Learn about sexless marriages, how to avoid them, and what to do if you're in one.------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

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Episodes

  1. 25 - The Vow Series - Forsaking All Others-Til Death Do We Part

    It's "All Or Nothing", Not "Best Two Out of Three"

  2. 24 - The Vow Series - In Sickness, and in Health

    The insurance clause of the wedding vows.

  3. 23 - The Vow Series - For Richer, For Poorer

    Okay, we get why you'd promise to stay if you become poor. Why would becoming rich be a problem?

  4. 22 - The Vow Series - For Better, For Worse

    The fifth installment scrutinizing what we actually promised to do when we said, "I do." How much worse is still okay?

  5. 21 - The Vow Series - CHERISH

    Giving Love's Mirror Image Its Due

  6. 20 - The Vow Series - HONOR

    The most important thing a Klingon can do for their other half.

  7. 19 - The Vow Series: LOVE (Addendum)

    Let's try this again. "What is LOVE?" Baby, don't hurt me.

  8. 18 - The Vow Series: LOVE

    When we promise to love, honor, and cherish, in sickness and in health, for richer and poorer 'til death do we part, did we know what we were getting ourselves into? This episode: The "L" word.

  9. 17 - Ignore the Hypotheticals (an essay by CSL)

    by CSL - found at https://curmudgeonlylibrarian.wordpress.com/2017/05/17/ignore-the-hypotheticals/

  10. 16 - Jenga Sex

    There's "Hard to Get", and Then There's No-Win Situations

  11. 15 - Changing the Rules

    If you're honest, is it still cheating?

  12. 14 - Only So Good

    Be worthy of your spouse! Or don't. Who do you answer to? Essay by Mirror Orchid

  13. 13 - Trailer - *REFUSED* Season 2

    What's coming up? How can you help? Have we no shame?

  14. 12 - Addressing The Sexless Marriage - Part VI (an essay by CSL)

    by CSL (Addressing The Sexless Marriage, part 6 | The Curmudgeonly Librarian (wordpress.com)

  15. 11 - Sex Skeptics (an essay by CSL)

    by CSL (Sexless Marriage Series | The Curmudgeonly Librarian (wordpress.com)

  16. 10 - Addressing the Sexless Marriage - Part V (an essay by CSL)

    by CSL (Addressing The Sexless Marriage, part 5 | The Curmudgeonly Librarian (wordpress.com)

  17. 09 - Worse Than a Plucked Chicken (an essay by CSL)

    by CSL (What’s Worse Than A Plucked Chicken? | The Curmudgeonly Librarian (wordpress.com)

  18. 08 - Addressing the Sexless Marriage - Part IV (an essay by CSL)

    by CSL (Addressing The Sexless Marriage, part 4 | The Curmudgeonly Librarian (wordpress.com)

  19. 07 - Plucked Chicken, Anyone? (an essay by CSL)

    by CSL (Plucked Chicken, Anyone? | The Curmudgeonly Librarian (wordpress.com)

  20. 06 - Addressing the Sexless Marriage - Part III (an essay by CSL)

    by CSL (Addressing The Sexless Marriage, part 3 | The Curmudgeonly Librarian (wordpress.com)

  21. 05 - Truly Miserable (an essay by CSL)

    by CSL (Truly Miserable? | The Curmudgeonly Librarian (wordpress.com)

  22. 04 - Addressing the Sexless Marriage - Part II (an essay by CSL)

    by CSL (Addressing The Sexless Marriage, part 2 | The Curmudgeonly Librarian (wordpress.com)

  23. 03 - Padgemi Interview

    An interview with ILIASM member - Padgemi

  24. 02 - Addressing the Sexless Marriage - Part I (an essay by CSL)

    by CSL (Sexless Marriage Series | The Curmudgeonly Librarian (wordpress.com)

  25. 01 - Untouchable

    The depths of biological despair, by MirrorOrchid

  26. 00 - RUIASM2? (Podcast Trailer)

    Escape the frustration of sexless marriage, one way or another. *REFUSED*: The unofficial podcast of ILIASM.org.

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The unofficial podcast of ILIASM.org. Learn about sexless marriages, how to avoid them, and what to do if you're in one.------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

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Mirror Orchid

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The unofficial podcast of ILIASM.org. Learn about sexless marriages, how to avoid them, and what to do if you're in one.------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

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