Relationship Status Podcast

Host: Yusuf  Can you love someone deeply and still admit they’re not good for you? And what happens when you finally realize the “perfect partner” doesn’t exist? On this episode of the Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf in the Building, Angel, and Shannell sit down with author Terry Whitmire to unpack her book "Given" and dive into some VERY real questions about love, marriage, compatibility, trauma, accountability, emotional availability, and what it really means to be a good partner. The conversation gets real when we ask: Can you be a good person but still be a bad partner? When does supporting your partner become losing yourself? Can you love someone and recognize that your relationship is unhealthy? And would a relationship actually be better if your partner was always attentive, always available, and always knew exactly what you needed? We also get into the fascinating sci-fi side of Terry’s story, including Cass and Harmony, artificial intelligence, technology, and what happens when someone—or something—is designed to become the “perfect” partner. And of course, Yusuf, Angel, and Shannell bring the heat with the Either/Or segment: Love or compatibility? Emotional safety or physical chemistry? Being understood or being desired? Being needed or being chosen? Forgiveness or accountability? A partner who challenges you or one who always agrees? A perfect partner or a partner willing to grow? This episode asks one of the biggest relationship questions of all: Are we spending too much time looking for the right person and not enough time learning how to BE the right partner? Terry also shares how her own marriage influenced the characters and themes in the book—and why vulnerability, growth, communication, and accountability matter so much in a healthy relationship. QUESTION OF THE DAY:Would you rather have a partner who is perfect for you—or a partner who is willing to grow with you? Drop your answer in the comments. Get Terry Whitmire’s "Given": https://link.amazon/B02SAwucm ️ THE RELATIONSHIP STATUS PODCASTWhere we're making relationships better, one conversation at a time. Find us on YouTube: RELSTAT Podcast Follow us on social media: @RELSTATPodcast️ Listen to Relationship Status on your favorite podcast platform. Join the conversation: relstpodcastmail.com❤️ Join the Relationship Status community on Patreon: https://patreon.com/relationshipstatus And don't forget about Singles Game Night—coming to a city near you! Email:[email protected] Follow us on social media: @RELSTATPodcast Listen on your favorite podcast platform: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • iHeartRadio and more Special Thanks to Our Sponsors: Eat My Biscuits – 2881 Main Street, East Point, GA. Stop by and see what everyone is talking about and tell them Relationship Status sent you! ️ Crux Media Group – Need your podcast recorded, edited, or produced professionally? Visit Crux Media Group for all your podcasting needs. ⭐ Don't forget to Like, Share, Follow, Subscribe, and leave a 5-Star Review! Chapters (00:00:00) - Welcome and relationship status intros(00:00:28) - Terry's marriage story and ex talk(00:02:11) - Why Terry wrote 'Given'(00:03:20) - Designing the perfect partner game(00:10:25) - Perfection vs partnership in marriage(00:11:39) - Marrying for stability vs love(00:14:48) - Book genre and character craft discussion(00:17:20) - Marshall's emotional unavailability(00:19:08) - Upbringing and how it shapes relationships(00:21:09) - Losing yourself while supporting a partner(00:24:11) - Personal stories of self-sacrifice in marriage(00:27:08) - The five-year marriage renewal concept(00:30:18) - Trauma, compassion, and accountability(00:35:01) - Cass, Harmony, and AI relationships(00:40:39) - Would a perfect AI partner make you happy(00:42:47) - Loving someone in an unhealthy relationship(00:44:22) - Either/or relationship questions game(00:48:48) - 60-day decision hypothetical(00:50:47) - Right person vs right partner debate(00:52:05) - Book's meaning and final thoughts(00:52:38) - Terry's real-life inspiration for the book(00:55:48) - Where to find Terry and the book(00:57:25) - Closing shoutouts and dating app rant

Host: Yusuf  Can you love someone deeply and still admit they’re not good for you? And what happens when you finally realize the “perfect partner” doesn’t exist? On this episode of the Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf in the Building, Angel, and Shannell sit down with author Terry Whitmire to unpack her book "Given" and dive into some VERY real questions about love, marriage, compatibility, trauma, accountability, emotional availability, and what it really means to be a good partner. The conversation gets real when we ask: Can you be a good person but still be a bad partner? When does supporting your partner become losing yourself? Can you love someone and recognize that your relationship is unhealthy? And would a relationship actually be better if your partner was always attentive, always available, and always knew exactly what you needed? We also get into the fascinating sci-fi side of Terry’s story, including Cass and Harmony, artificial intelligence, technology, and what happens when someone—or something—is designed to become the “perfect” partner. And of course, Yusuf, Angel, and Shannell bring the heat with the Either/Or segment: Love or compatibility? Emotional safety or physical chemistry? Being understood or being desired? Being needed or being chosen? Forgiveness or accountability? A partner who challenges you or one who always agrees? A perfect partner or a partner willing to grow? This episode asks one of the biggest relationship questions of all: Are we spending too much time looking for the right person and not enough time learning how to BE the right partner? Terry also shares how her own marriage influenced the characters and themes in the book—and why vulnerability, growth, communication, and accountability matter so much in a healthy relationship. QUESTION OF THE DAY:Would you rather have a partner who is perfect for you—or a partner who is willing to grow with you? Drop your answer in the comments. Get Terry Whitmire’s "Given": https://link.amazon/B02SAwucm ️ THE RELATIONSHIP STATUS PODCASTWhere we're making relationships better, one conversation at a time. Find us on YouTube: RELSTAT Podcast Follow us on social media: @RELSTATPodcast️ Listen to Relationship Status on your favorite podcast platform. Join the conversation: relstpodcastmail.com❤️ Join the Relationship Status community on Patreon: https://patreon.com/relationshipstatus And don't forget about Singles Game Night—coming to a city near you! Email:[email protected] Follow us on social media: @RELSTATPodcast Listen on your favorite podcast platform: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • iHeartRadio and more Special Thanks to Our Sponsors: Eat My Biscuits – 2881 Main Street, East Point, GA. Stop by and see what everyone is talking about and tell them Relationship Status sent you! ️ Crux Media Group – Need your podcast recorded, edited, or produced professionally? Visit Crux Media Group for all your podcasting needs. ⭐ Don't forget to Like, Share, Follow, Subscribe, and leave a 5-Star Review! Chapters (00:00:00) - Intro: Can You Love Someone in an Unhealthy Relationship?(00:00:57) - Welcome and Guest Introduction: Terry Whitmire(00:01:20) - Relationship Status and Marriage Talk(00:03:05) - How the Book 'Given' Came to Be(00:04:14) - Searching for the Perfect Partner: Non-Negotiables and Compromises(00:05:21) - Height, Chemistry, and Dating Preferences(00:09:01) - Annoying Habits and Deal Breakers(00:11:22) - Perfection vs Partnership in Marriage(00:12:40) - Marrying for Security vs Love(00:15:10) - Character Development: Marshall and Cece(00:16:41) - Emotional Availability: Good Person vs Good Partner(00:18:28) - Upbringing and How It Shapes Relationships(00:20:31) - Losing Yourself While Supporting Your Partner(00:23:30) - Personal Stories: Sacrifice and Identity in Marriage(00:26:13) - The Five-Year Marriage Renewal Concept(00:29:38) - Trauma, Compassion, and Accountability in Relationships(00:34:17) - Cass and Harmony: AI, Desire, and Missing Needs(00:37:33) - Harmony's Voice and the Idea of the 'Perfect' Partner(00:40:02) - Would a Perfect, Always-Agreeable Partner Make You Happy?(00:42:12) - Loving Someone in an Unhealthy Relationship Revisited(00:43:41) - Either/Or Relationship Questions Game(00:48:14) - The 60-Day Decision Hypothetical(00:50:07) - Right Person vs Right Partner and Dating Culture(00:51:27) - What 'Given' Says About Love(00:51:58) - Terry's Own Marriage and Inspiration for the Book(00:53:30) - Final Thoughts and Where to Find the Book(00:55:35) - Closing Remarks, Shoutouts, and Event Plugs

Host: Yusuf In The Building What happens when someone likes you WAY more than you like them? Is it okay to keep dating someone who treats you amazingly, even when your feelings haven't caught up? Or are you secretly giving them false hope every time you accept their attention, gifts, affection, and time? In this episode of Relationship Status, we get REAL about the uncomfortable side of dating when the feelings aren't equal. Can you build a healthy relationship with someone you don't feel strongly about? Is it better to hurt someone with the truth today—or hurt them even more six months from now? Should you accept expensive gifts from someone you know likes you more than you like them? When does “just hanging out” become stringing someone along?❤️ Can attraction grow over time, or are we just trying to convince ourselves to feel something that's not there? And what happens when the person who likes you more starts seeking constant reassurance? We also get into some hilarious Either/Or questions, including whether you'd rather be loved more or love more, choose chemistry or compatibility, give someone three dates or tell them immediately you're not feeling it, and whether you'd rather be someone's safe choice or their exciting choice. But the real conversation comes down to one uncomfortable truth: You can appreciate someone without desiring them. You can respect someone without wanting a relationship with them. And you can recognize that someone is a great person without believing they're your person. The problem isn't having different feelings. The problem is knowing the feelings aren't equal and continuing to accept the benefits of someone's love anyway. If you've ever been the person who loved harder—or the person who knew you couldn't love someone the same way—this conversation is going to hit differently. QUESTION FOR YOU:Would you rather someone hurt you with the truth immediately, or give you a chance to see if their feelings eventually grow? Drop your answer in the comments. And remember: “You're a great person. I'm just not your person.” Welcome to Relationship Status—where we talk relationships, dating, love, communication, and the messy situations nobody wants to admit they're in. Subscribe for more real conversations about relationships, dating, love, and everything in between. Submit an Advice Letter: [email protected] Want to be a Guest? [email protected] Website: relationshipstatuspodcast.com ❤️ Join the Patreon: patreon.com/relationshipstatus Follow Relationship Status on social media for more relationship conversations, clips, questions, and toxic takes. #RelationshipStatus #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #Relationships #Dating #Love #ToxicRelationships #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipPodcast #DatingLife #ModernDating #Communication #Situationships Chapters (00:00:00) - In the Elevator With Intimacy(00:00:52) - Do You Arrive At A Relationship With Your Love Interest?(00:02:04) - What Did I Do In A Situation Where The Guy Knew More(00:03:40) - Like I Think I Like People More Than They Like Me(00:07:38) - What I Learned From Hanging Up On A Guy(00:09:17) - It's Not You, It's Me(00:12:06) - "Can You Hang Out With A Woman Without Being Romantic?"(00:15:02) - When You Think You Like A Person More Than You Do(00:18:42) - Is It Romantic When You Ask A Woman Out On A Date?(00:22:29) - "I Don't Consider My Friends as People"(00:23:26) - Is Being Romantic In A Wedding Romantic?(00:26:27) - "Who Pay For My Wedding?"(00:29:50) - How to Build a Healthy Relationship With Someone You Don't Love(00:32:46) - Favorite Segment of the Week(00:33:08) - 3 Traits Of Toxic People(00:35:54) - He's Perfect On Paper(00:38:32) - How To Deal With When You Think You Like Someone More Than You(00:41:49) - Should I Accept a Gift From Someone I Don't Like?(00:44:22) - Can A Complicated Relationship Create Control, Insecurity?(00:47:20) - He Got Me A Gift On The First Date(00:50:53) - "He's Leading With His Money"(00:54:03) - What's One Sign That You're Dating Someone Out Of Guilt(00:55:05) - How To respectfully Tell Someone You're Not Feeling The Same Way(00:57:14) - The Hardest Relationship Decision Ever Made

Host: Yusuf In The Building What happens when someone likes you WAY more than you like them? Is it okay to keep dating someone who treats you amazingly, even when your feelings haven't caught up? Or are you secretly giving them false hope every time you accept their attention, gifts, affection, and time? In this episode of Relationship Status, we get REAL about the uncomfortable side of dating when the feelings aren't equal. Can you build a healthy relationship with someone you don't feel strongly about? Is it better to hurt someone with the truth today—or hurt them even more six months from now? Should you accept expensive gifts from someone you know likes you more than you like them? When does “just hanging out” become stringing someone along?❤️ Can attraction grow over time, or are we just trying to convince ourselves to feel something that's not there? And what happens when the person who likes you more starts seeking constant reassurance? We also get into some hilarious Either/Or questions, including whether you'd rather be loved more or love more, choose chemistry or compatibility, give someone three dates or tell them immediately you're not feeling it, and whether you'd rather be someone's safe choice or their exciting choice. But the real conversation comes down to one uncomfortable truth: You can appreciate someone without desiring them. You can respect someone without wanting a relationship with them. And you can recognize that someone is a great person without believing they're your person. The problem isn't having different feelings. The problem is knowing the feelings aren't equal and continuing to accept the benefits of someone's love anyway. If you've ever been the person who loved harder—or the person who knew you couldn't love someone the same way—this conversation is going to hit differently. QUESTION FOR YOU:Would you rather someone hurt you with the truth immediately, or give you a chance to see if their feelings eventually grow? Drop your answer in the comments. And remember: “You're a great person. I'm just not your person.” Welcome to Relationship Status—where we talk relationships, dating, love, communication, and the messy situations nobody wants to admit they're in. Subscribe for more real conversations about relationships, dating, love, and everything in between. Submit an Advice Letter: [email protected] Want to be a Guest? [email protected] Website: relationshipstatuspodcast.com ❤️ Join the Patreon: patreon.com/relationshipstatus Follow Relationship Status on social media for more relationship conversations, clips, questions, and toxic takes. #RelationshipStatus #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #Relationships #Dating #Love #ToxicRelationships #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipPodcast #DatingLife #ModernDating #Communication #Situationships Chapters (00:05:00) - What Did I Do In A Situation Where The Guy Knew More(00:06:36) - I Like My Love More Than I Like The Person(00:10:50) - What I Learned From The Time I HAD To Hang Up On(00:12:18) - When You're Just Not Right For Someone(00:14:00) - "Can You Really Hang Out With A Woman Without Being Romantic?"(00:16:48) - How To Approach a Woman Without Getting Married(00:21:14) - "I Only Attire To Women That I See Initially"(00:21:38) - Is It Romantic To Ask Her Out On A Date?(00:24:15) - Ex-Boyfriend On His Love Life(00:26:26) - "I Don't Want A Relationship At My Wedding"(00:29:31) - On The Issues Of Sexual Imbalance(00:32:46) - How to Get Out of a Long Relationship(00:35:50) - "This is Good Stuff"(00:36:04) - Toxic Relationships 1(00:38:30) - "Slowly Distance Yourself From My Love"(00:38:50) - Perfect On Paper(00:41:28) - He Should've Never Bought Her A Car(00:45:28) - Domestic Conflicts(00:49:03) - "Not Right Now" With My Love Interest(00:50:16) - I Accepted A Gift On My First Date(00:53:51) - "He Led With His Money"(00:56:59) - Signs That I'm Dating Someone Out Of Compromise(00:58:26) - How To Respectly Tell Someone You're Not Feeling The Same Way(01:00:10) - Relationship Status: When You Don't Feel the Same Way As

What happens when the divorce is final… but emotionally, you’re still married? In this episode of Relationship Status, Yusuf, Angel, and Chanel tackle a powerful relationship advice letter from a divorced parent who is struggling to move on from her ex. At the same time, they continue to co-parent their children. The marriage is over, but the jealousy, arguments, competition, and emotional attachment haven't disappeared. So where does co-parenting end and control begin? And how do you know whether you're genuinely protecting your children or simply struggling to accept that your ex has moved on? The panel gets real about: Why some divorced couples remain emotionally married The importance of setting boundaries with an ex Co-parenting vs. trying to control your former partner Why jealousy doesn't always mean you want your ex back Missing the familiarity of a relationship vs. missing the person Why exes bring up old arguments from years ago Whether divorced couples actually need to become friends How to communicate with an ex when children are involved Why boundaries only work when you actually stand on them The bottom line? The marriage may be over, but that doesn't automatically mean the emotional relationship is over. If you're divorced, separated, co-parenting, dealing with a difficult ex, or trying to figure out how to truly move on, this conversation is for you. QUESTION FOR YOU:Can you successfully co-parent with an ex without being friends with them? And when does co-parenting cross the line into controlling each other's lives? Drop your thoughts in the comments! SUBSCRIBE to Relationship Status for more honest conversations about love, relationships, dating, marriage, divorce, sex, communication, and everything in between. ❤️ JOIN THE RELATIONSHIP STATUS COMMUNITY:Patreon: patreon.com/relationshipstatus ️ RELATIONSHIP STATUSChanging relationships one conversation at a time. Follow the show on social media: @RELSTATPodcast Chapters (00:00:01) - A Letter From The Mayor(00:02:14) - Relationship Status(00:03:00) - Women Crush On Everybody Today(00:04:37) - How To Deal With Your Ex-husband When You're Divor(00:09:56) - "They're Still Emotionally Tied To Each Other"(00:12:30) - How To Deal With An Ex Who Feels He's entitled To(00:16:31) - "I Miss The Person"(00:17:11) - Why Do We Argue About Old Stuff From Our Marriage?(00:19:03) - How To Move On From A Partner Who Has Children Together

Host: Yusuf  Unconditional love, relationship expectations, and what men really need in a relationship—peace, respect, loyalty, attraction, and sex. But are those needs actually simple? What does unconditional love really mean in a relationship? Can you love someone unconditionally while still having boundaries and standards? And when does unconditional love become an excuse to tolerate disrespect, cheating, chaos, or behavior that damages the relationship? On this episode of Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf is joined by Angel and Chanel for a hilarious, honest, and sometimes heated conversation about love, relationships, gender roles, emotional expression, and what men and women actually expect from each other. The conversation starts with a viral clip about unconditional love and quickly turns into a deeper debate about whether love should have conditions, boundaries, or both. Then the crew tackles another important question: Do men and women experience and express hurt differently? Why are men often taught not to cry or show emotion? And does a man's quiet reaction mean he isn't hurt? Things get even more interesting when the conversation shifts to the viral claim that men only need five things: peace, respect, loyalty, attraction, and consistent sex. Is it really that simple? Or are those five things only sustainable when both partners consistently bring the same energy into the relationship? Yusuf also gets personal, sharing real experiences from past relationships and explaining why some of the women in his life didn't just "bring something to the table"—they helped elevate the entire table. From supporting his clothing brand to pushing him toward becoming a teacher, earning his master's degree, and building Crux Media Group, Yusuf explains why having a partner who challenges, supports, and believes in your vision can completely change your life. And yes… the debate gets heated. This is exactly what Relationship Status is about: real conversations, different perspectives, uncomfortable questions, laughter, disagreement, and trying to understand relationships one conversation at a time. And don't forget about Singles Game Night—coming to a city near you! Email: [email protected] Follow us on social media: @RELSTATPodcast Listen on your favorite podcast platform: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • iHeartRadio and more Support the show on Patreon: https://patreon.com/relationshipstatus ❤️ Subscribe to Relationship Status and join the conversation. Comment your take, because relationships get better one conversation at a time. Special Thanks to Our Sponsors: Eat My Biscuits – 2881 Main Street, East Point, GA. Stop by and see what everyone is talking about and tell them Relationship Status sent you! ️ Crux Media Group – Need your podcast recorded, edited, or produced professionally? Visit Crux Media Group for all your podcasting needs. ⭐ Don't forget to Like, Share, Follow, Subscribe, and leave a 5-Star Review! Chapters (00:00:00) - Relationship Status(00:01:43) - Unconditional Love(00:07:19) - Unconditional Love(00:13:41) - What Is Unconditional Love In A Marriage?(00:15:23) - Women Feel Like They Hurt Different Than Men(00:18:23) - Black Women Talk About Emotions(00:22:33) - The Worst Parenting Saying Ever(00:26:14) - Why Men Don't Cry(00:28:00) - 5 Things Women Want From Men(00:30:21) - When A Man Deserves a Submissive Woman(00:33:33) - 5 Things A Man Needs In His Relationship(00:37:36) - "Men Are Not as Simple as They Think They Are"(00:40:53) - "It's A Quid Pro-Quo" In A(00:43:32) - Happy Wife: A Woman's Happiness(00:46:22) - How To Get Married With a Happy Partner(00:49:46) - "If Somebody Gives You Chaos, You Should Leave"(00:50:29) - Dion on Being a Purple Unicorn(00:55:31) - What A Supportive Woman Is For Her Husband(01:00:02) - Chrissy on Being the One for Her Man(01:03:16) - Free Relationship Status T-Shirt and Free Candle(01:03:49) - Relationship Status Candle Release & Blind Date Night

“You’re a good woman.” Sounds like a compliment, right? Not when your HUSBAND says it after you discover he’s been messaging another woman and telling her, “You’re exactly my type.” That’s the relationship dilemma at the center of today’s episode of Relationship Status. A married woman writes in after discovering that her husband appears to be attracted to women who are completely different from her. She’s private, family-oriented, and low-key. The women he follows, compliments, and messages are sexy, outgoing, confident, and public. Then she asks the question that changes everything: “If she’s your type, why did you marry me?” His answer? “Because you’re a good woman.” And THAT sparks a much bigger conversation. Does being someone’s “type” actually matter in a marriage? Should you change yourself to become the person your spouse desires? Is finding other people attractive normal—or does messaging them cross a line? Can you love someone without actually desiring them? And when trust is broken, who should make the first move toward fixing the relationship? Yusuf, Chanel, and Chrissy unpack all of it—including the difference between being needed and wanted, whether emotional cheating is still cheating, what happens when someone checks their partner’s phone, and whether couples can actually rebuild trust after something like this. One thing becomes clear: You shouldn't have to become somebody else just to feel chosen by your spouse. But that doesn't mean every marriage problem automatically means divorce. Sometimes the harder question is: “What happened to the relationship we both originally wanted?” Watch until the end and tell us: Would you rather be the “good woman” your partner depends on—or the woman your partner genuinely desires? DROP YOUR ANSWER IN THE COMMENTS. And if you've ever questioned whether your partner truly desires you, this conversation is going to hit differently. ⏱️ CHAPTERS 00:00 — Is He Married to Her… But Desires Someone Else? 02:53 — Should She Change to Become His “Type”? 03:41 — His Behavior Isn't Her Responsibility 05:59 — Would You Rather Be “Good” or Desired? 08:00 — The Difference Between Being Needed and Wanted 10:41 — “I’m Not Cheating, I’m Just Talking” 12:39 — When Trust Makes You Check the Phone 13:23 — Why Confrontations About Cheating Get So Heated 16:25 — Who Should Reach Out After the Argument? 18:37 — Should the Hurt Partner Make the First Move? 21:37 — What Happens When Anger Turns Disrespectful? 24:45 — Do People Show Their True Selves When Angry? 27:01 — Did He Marry Her for Security? 27:27 — Should She Become His Type? 29:29 — Is She Insecure—or Seeing the Truth? 30:49 — How Can They Get Their Marriage Back on Track? 31:53 — Where to Find the Hosts + Relationship Status Community THE BIG QUESTION If your spouse told another person, “You’re exactly my type,” would you feel betrayed—even if they never physically cheated? Tell us what YOU think. Comment your answer. Relationship Status — changing relationships one conversation at a time. #RelationshipStatus #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageAdvice #Cheating #Relationships Chapters (00:00:03) - Relationship Sitdown(00:01:12) - Am I His Type or Just His Wife?(00:02:43) - "Does She Need To Change What She Does?"(00:06:46) - I Wanted To Be Wanted(00:10:28) - How To Fix A Cheating Relationship(00:14:28) - How To Talk To A Guy About His Sexual Problems(00:17:01) - "How I Will Want My Wife to Talk To Me"(00:21:01) - "You Are Responsible for Your Reaction to My Actions"(00:25:37) - "Did He Marry Me Because I'm His Type?"(00:29:16) - What I Should Ask My Husband About Our Relationship

Host: Yusuf  What happens when a married man says he loves his wife, but keeps sliding into another woman’s DMs? In this episode of Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf is joined by Shannell and Angel for an unfiltered conversation about married men cheating, emotional affairs, attraction, sexual temptation, validation, fantasy, marriage problems, and why some men pursue women who look completely different from their wives. Are these men looking for love—or just an escape? Are they unhappy in their marriages, or are they using “I’m unhappy” as an excuse? And if a man cheats on his wife to get you, can you really trust him not to do the same thing to you? This conversation gets REAL. We break down why married men approach single women, the excuses they give, the difference between fantasy and reality, and whether the responsibility belongs to the wife, the husband, or both. Shannell and Angel also open up about their real experiences with married men sliding into their DMs..including some of the wildest messages and excuses they've received. And of course, we couldn't end the episode without the Either Or segment and a look inside the DMs! IN THIS EPISODE • Why do married men chase other women?• Do married men cheat because they're unhappy?• Is “my wife doesn't understand me” just an excuse?• Security vs. excitement in marriage• The fantasy effect and the “highlight reel”• Why some married men seek sexual novelty• Why validation can become addictive• Can attraction change during marriage?• What happens when couples stop dating each other?• How postpartum changes and relationship dynamics can affect intimacy• Why some men pursue women who look completely different from their wives• Does social media make temptation worse?• Why married men use dating apps and social media to find affairs• Can you trust someone who cheated on their wife with you?• Should you date a married man who says he's leaving his wife?• Why “we're only together for the kids” is one of the oldest excuses in the book• The difference between being unhappy and using unhappiness as an excuse• Can you build a marriage around a fantasy?• Should you wait for divorce papers before dating someone who's married?• Real married-men DMs and the excuses behind them• The Relationship Status Either Or segment• What married men REALLY say when they're trying to get someone's attention ️ THE BIG QUESTION If you married your wife because she was everything you wanted, why are you chasing women who represent something completely different? Maybe the problem isn't always that the wife isn't enough. Maybe the problem is that some people never figured out what “enough” actually meant. What do YOU think? Are married men cheating because they're unhappy at home—or because they're looking for an excuse to do what they already wanted to do? If you enjoyed this conversation, LIKE this video, SUBSCRIBE to Relationship Status Podcast, and TURN ON NOTIFICATIONS so you don't miss the next episode. Find us on YouTube: RELSTAT Podcast Follow us on social media: @RELSTATPodcast️ Listen to Relationship Status on your favorite podcast platform. Join the conversation: relstpodcastmail.com❤️ Join the Relationship Status community on Patreon: https://patreon.com/relationshipstatus And don't forget about Singles Game Night—coming to a city near you! Email: Chapters (00:00:00) - Return to Relationship Status(00:02:04) - Chanel and Angel(00:02:55) - "It's Always On Me"(00:04:42) - Married Men Are More Persistent(00:07:42) - "If He Married A Good-Looking Woman, Does He Still(00:09:08) - "Why Are You In My inbox?"(00:13:30) - Why Married Men Cheat On Their Wife(00:17:48) - How To Have A Real Talk With Your Wife(00:22:33) - Married Men Talk About Why They Cheated(00:26:04) - "He Had The nerve To Tell Me Why I'm Not Getting(00:26:17) - "Plain Jane"(00:31:02) - "Plain Jane" Is Not A Negative Term(00:35:13) - Married Men Talk About Their Wife's Bonnet(00:37:27) - Married People Go On Dating Sites(00:40:42) - Married Men As Sexual Prospects(00:43:32) - Married Men Talk About TATTOOES(00:46:34) - Married Man On His Kids(00:48:15) - Eevee Either Or Segment(00:49:02) - Would You Rather Have A Husband Who Cheats On You Or(00:50:35) - Would You Rather Your Husband Tell Another Woman?(00:51:25) - Would You Rather Catch Your Husband Online Or Real?(00:52:29) - Going For My Opposite On The Dating App(00:54:10) - He Asked To Be Saved(00:57:12) - When You Need To Build A Case For Someone(00:58:30) - When Does I'm Happy Stop Being a Reason or an Excuse(00:59:16) - Would You Date A Married Man?(01:02:12) - On Married Men Who Are Not Attractive To Their Women(01:03:43) - Married Men(01:04:46) - Chanel's Advice on Relationships(01:05:44) - Relationship Status: Why Married Men Cheat

Host: Yusuf  This week on Relationship Status, Yousef is back with Angel and Shannell for a conversation that goes from hilarious to uncomfortable FAST. We’re talking about dating, exes, cheating, relationship boundaries, heartbreak, communication, and the red flags people ignore—and of course, the crew goes head-to-head with some of the most toxic Either/Or questions yet. Would you rather date someone with 3 kids by 3 different people or someone who’s never been in a serious relationship? Would you rather date someone who’s friends with all their exes or someone who hates every ex they’ve ever had? Would you rather date someone who admits they’ve cheated or someone who swears they never have? And then things get REAL when the conversation turns to why people stay in relationships after they’ve already checked out, whether people actually want the truth, and why heartbreak can hurt at ANY age. Plus, we get into one of the biggest dating debates: If someone is posting on social media but hasn't texted you back… are they REALLY that busy? And don't miss the closing conversation about patterns, red flags, healthy relationships, and protecting your peace without completely closing your heart. THE QUESTION OF THE DAY: Would you rather date someone who admits they cheated in the past—or someone who claims they've NEVER cheated? Drop your answer in the comments. WATCH UNTIL THE END and tell us who you agree with: Yousef, Angel, or Chanel? ⏱️ CHAPTERS 00:00 Welcome Back to Relationship Status 02:16 Meet the Guest Hosts 03:42 Toxic Dating Either/Or Questions Begin 06:45 Should You Be Friends With Your Ex? 08:16 Can Exes REALLY Be Friends? 12:00 Why People Hate All Their Exes 14:38 Should Your Partner Post You? 15:36 Living With Parents vs. Roommates 18:43 Relationship Status Singles Game Night 19:30 Would You Rather Date a Cheater or a Liar? 20:15 How Do You Ask Someone If They've Cheated? 23:45 Do People Really Want the Truth? 24:40 “I Checked Out of the Relationship” 25:13 When Someone Cheats but Says They Were Done 26:05 A Marriage, Cheating & Keeping Your Vows 28:49 Why High School Relationships Can Be Dangerous 30:31 Heartbreak Hurts at ANY Age 31:46 “You Could’ve Just Left Me Alone” 33:15 Do People Actually Want Closure? 36:14 Why Did You Come Into My Life? 38:19 Six-Hour Text Replies vs. Talking All Day 39:31 Social Media Posting While Ignoring Your Texts 42:36 Is Expecting a 5-Minute Callback Toxic? 43:25 Final Thoughts: Red Flags vs. Healthy Relationships 44:33 Where to Find Relationship Status Email: [email protected] Follow us on social media: @RELSTATPodcast Listen on your favorite podcast platform: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • iHeartRadio and more Support the show on Patreon: https://patreon.com/relationshipstatus ❤️ Subscribe to Relationship Status and join the conversation. Comment your take, because re... Chapters (00:00:00) - Relationship Status Podcast(00:01:49) - Angel & Chanel of the King Me Pod Podcast(00:03:11) - Single People Date With Three Baby Dads(00:06:31) - Would You Rather Date Someone Who's Still Friends With All Their Ex(00:10:06) - I Should Have Sex With My Ex-Girlfriend(00:13:32) - Are All Your Ex-Buds Friends?(00:14:38) - Dating Someone Who Posts Every Day(00:15:38) - Would You Rather Date Someone Who's Living With Their Parents Or A(00:19:16) - "I Would Rather Date Someone Who Admits To Cheating..."(00:25:29) - How To Win A Cheater's Love(00:29:41) - Chanel On Her Ex-Boyfriend's Cheating Comments(00:34:46) - He Said He Wanted To Make You His Wife(00:37:43) - "I Didn't Ask Him That"(00:38:20) - Would You Rather Date Someone Who Takes 6 Hours To Text Back?(00:42:46) - Are You Ready for Your Texts?(00:43:20) - Final Thoughts On Social Media(00:43:33) - Relationship Status Podcast

Host: Yusuf  Can men and women really be just friends... or is someone secretly waiting for their chance? This week on Relationship Status Podcast, we tackle one of the most controversial relationship debates we've ever had. When your partner says, "Don't worry about them, they're just a friend," should you trust them... or trust your instincts? We dive into opposite-sex friendships, relationship boundaries, men's intuition vs. women's intuition, hidden motives, emotional cheating, and whether your partner owes you an apology when they ignored your warning—and you were right. Things get heated as the panel shares real-life stories of friendships that turned into something more, friendships that destroyed relationships, and the warning signs most people ignore until it's too late. In this episode we discuss: Can men and women really stay "just friends?" Why some "friends" are simply waiting for your relationship to end Are men's instincts about other men more accurate than women admit? Should you apologize when your partner warned you about someone... and they were right? The biggest red flags that someone wants your partner Emotional boundaries every healthy relationship needs Why respecting your partner's concerns isn't insecurity—it's protection This episode is full of honest conversations, funny moments, uncomfortable truths, and relationship advice that will have you questioning your own friendships. Special Thanks to Our Sponsors: Eat My Biscuits – 2881 Main Street, East Point, GA. Stop by and see what everyone is talking about and tell them Relationship Status sent you! ️ Crux Media Group – Need your podcast recorded, edited, or produced professionally? Visit Crux Media Group for all your podcasting needs. ⭐ Don't forget to Like, Share, Follow, Subscribe, and leave a 5-Star Review! Chapters (00:00:00) - Relationship Status(00:02:16) - Guest Hosts(00:03:03) - Back to Work: Sade's First Week Back(00:05:09) - Physical Chemistry vs Emotional Consistency(00:06:52) - Romance But Not Consistency(00:10:34) - "I'd Rather Date Someone Consistently"(00:12:20) - Either Or(00:12:41) - Would You Rather Have A Faithful, Broken Partner or A Rich(00:15:16) - Would You Rather Date Someone With A High Body Count Or Someone Who(00:16:55) - In The Elevator With The Married Woman(00:19:17) - Forgive Cheating or Forgive Financial Betrayal?(00:23:00) - "Premeditated Cheating"(00:24:43) - Can Many Friends Be Plutonic?(00:28:40) - Best Friend Reverses Friendship With His Wife(00:30:23) - "He's Just A Friend"(00:34:20) - Married in Your 20s(00:38:02) - "I Never Said I Always Wanted You"(00:39:20) - Should Women Take Accountability For Their Man's Mistakes?(00:41:55) - Women's Intuition(00:45:04) - Red Flags For Married People(00:48:18) - The Moment I Knew He Wasn't Just A Friend(00:50:12) - Should We Apologize To Our Friends If We're Wrong About(00:53:36) - Should You Check Your Friend's Friend?(00:56:23) - Relationship Status: Trust Isn't About Believing Your Partner Will(00:58:25) - Walking Out

Host: Yusuf  At the Podcast Summit 2026 in Atlanta, Georgia, Yusuf put some of the biggest relationship "Would You Rather" questions in front of podcasters from around the country—and the answers were funny, honest, unexpected, and guaranteed to spark debate. Some people chose peace over passion.Others chose great sex over a peaceful relationship.And some answers may completely change how you think about trust, love, and commitment. In this episode of the Relationship Status Podcast, we tackle questions like:• Would you rather your partner go through your phone or read your thoughts?• Would you rather be cheated on or have your partner fall out of love with you?• Would you rather be settled for or be "the best they ever had" before they leave?• Secret OnlyFans account or secret child?• Amazing sex with no peace... or peace with terrible sex? These relationship dilemmas reveal what people truly value when it comes to love, trust, intimacy, honesty, and long-term commitment. Whether you're dating, married, single, or somewhere in between, this episode will have you asking yourself...What would YOU choose? Join the conversation in the comments:Which question was the hardest?Which answer surprised you the most?Would your answers be different from the guests? If you enjoyed this episode:• Like the video• Subscribe to the channel• Share this with someone who loves relationship debates• Turn on notifications so you never miss a conversation Featured Podcasts & Creators• Making Life Mo Better Podcast• Beyond Potential Podcast• Millionaire Mentor Mindset Podcast• Owning Pleasure as a Black Woman Podcast• The MSR Pod• Ginger & Honey Podcast• Adulting with Anna• Perspective Podcast…and more amazing creators from Podcast Summit 2026. Connect with Relationship Status Subscribe for more real conversations about dating, marriage, communication, trust, intimacy, and modern relationships. Follow us everywhere:Instagram | Facebook | TikTok | X: @RELSTATPodcast Join our Patreon community for exclusive content:Patreon.com/RelationshipStatus ⏱️ Chapters00:00 Welcome from Podcast Summit 202601:45 Phone vs. Thoughts03:32 Cheating vs. Falling Out of Love06:24 Settling vs. Being the Best They Ever Had09:00 Secret OnlyFans vs. Secret Child10:29 Great Sex or Peace?13:47 Meet the Featured Podcasters16:12 Final Thoughts #RelationshipStatusPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #WouldYouRather Special Thanks to Our Sponsors: Eat My Biscuits – 2881 Main Street, East Point, GA. Stop by and see what everyone is talking about and tell them Relationship Status sent you! ️ Crux Media Group – Need your podcast recorded, edited, or produced professionally? Visit Crux Media Group for all your podcasting needs. ⭐ Don't forget to Like, Share, Follow, Subscribe, and leave a 5-Star Review! Chapters (00:00:00) - Relationship Status(00:01:02) - Either Or(00:01:36) - 7 Confessions People Have About Going Through Their Partner's Phone(00:03:32) - Would You Rather Find Out Your Partner Cheated Or Fall Out Of(00:06:24) - "I Don't Want To Be Settled For My Partner"(00:08:59) - "Only Fans" vs. Secret Child(00:10:30) - Married People Say Their Sex Is Trash But(00:13:41) - Relationship Status Podcast and Beyond Potential

Host: Yusuf  How do you know if you're showing genuine interest… or accidentally pushing someone away? In this episode of the Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf is joined by Angel and Shanell for an honest, funny, and sometimes heated conversation about modern dating, commitment, situationships, and why so many people struggle to build lasting relationships. This episode was inspired by a listener's advice letter from someone who wants a serious relationship—but worries that moving too fast scares men away. Should you wait for commitment before having sex? Is showing too much interest a turnoff? Are people falling in love with potential instead of consistency? The conversation takes unexpected turns as the hosts debate: Why some people lose interest once the chase is over ❤️ Is emotional security more important than financial security? The dating red flags people ignore—and the green flags they overlook ⏳ How long should you date before becoming exclusive? Is waiting for sex still realistic in today's dating world? Are you in love with the person…or the fantasy? Why consistency matters more than potential How to pace yourself without playing dating games Yusuf closes the episode with a powerful message for anyone tired of situationships: "Stop chasing. Stop auditioning. Stop trying to convince someone to choose you. Make them earn access to your heart the same way they earn access to your body." ⏱️ CHAPTERS 00:00 – Welcome Back to Relationship Status01:15 – Weekly Check-In & Family Reunion Stories04:54 – Either/Or: Dating, Love & Relationship Dilemmas08:20 – Does Physical Attraction Really Matter?16:35 – Would You Rather Be Needed or Wanted?20:47 – Advice Letter: "Am I Rushing Relationships?"22:50 – Why Do People Push Others Away?25:45 – Should You Wait for Commitment Before Sex?27:30 – Is Showing Too Much Interest a Turnoff?30:00 – Why Do Some People Lose Interest After the Chase?36:10 – Dating Games, Trauma & Mixed Signals44:15 – Is Waiting for Sex Still Realistic in 2026?45:10 – Personal Dating Boundaries That Matter46:20 – Why Do People Rush Relationships?48:20 – Falling for Potential vs. Consistency52:40 – How Long Before Becoming Exclusive?53:05 – Can You Know They're "The One" in a Month?55:10 – Sex Before Commitment: Mistake or Not?56:00 – Biggest Dating Red Flags & Green Flags57:30 – Final Advice for the Letter Writer59:05 – Yusuf's Toxic Take 1:00:30 – Closing Thoughts & Where to Find Us Whether you're single, dating, healing from heartbreak, or looking for a healthy relationship, this episode will challenge the way you think about love, attraction, boundaries, and commitment. Join the conversation in the comments: Have you ever rushed a relationship? Does waiting for commitment before sex help or hurt a relationship? How long should people date before becoming exclusive? If you enjoyed this episode:✅ Like the video✅ Subscribe to the channel✅ Share it with someone navigating today's dating world✅ Turn on notifications so you never miss an episode ️ Relationship Status Podcast — Changing relationships one conversation at a time. Email: [email protected] Follow us on social media: @RELSTATPodcast Listen on your favorite podcast platform: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • iHeartRadio and more Support the show on Patreon: Chapters (00:00:00) - His Money looked good to me(00:00:52) - Relationship Status(00:01:19) - "How Was Your Week?"(00:02:00) - Family Reunions: Fun(00:04:46) - Questions for the President(00:05:12) - 8 Questions You Need To Ask Yourself Before Dating(00:08:01) - Your Type Who's Available or Not Your Type?(00:11:17) - Are You Attractive To An unattractive Person?(00:11:45) - I Should've Knew Better Before Dating An Ugly Person(00:14:31) - What Happened On The First Date?(00:16:33) - Do You Want To Be Needed or Wanted?(00:20:50) - Dear Relationship Status Advice Letter(00:25:41) - When Is It Okay to Say You Want To Go On A Date(00:30:08) - "When A Man Shows Interest, Is It Seen negatively?(00:33:02) - How To Catch A Guy's Cheat(00:35:30) - "Why Is It That The Man Pursues, Pushes,(00:37:52) - Eddie Murphy on Waiting For Sex With Women(00:40:55) - Kendra On The No-Dating(00:44:11) - Is Waiting for Commitment Before Sex unrealistic in 2026?(00:46:13) - Why People Rush To Get In A Relationship(00:48:17) - Falling For Potential(00:51:24) - The #1 Thing Women Want in a Relationship(00:52:29) - How Long Before Exclusivity?(00:53:04) - When You Knew Your Person Within A Week(00:55:12) - Is Sex Before Commitment Ever a Mistake?(00:55:47) - "One Red Flag That People Ignore"(00:57:15) - "How To Stop Rushing Into Stuff"(00:59:13) - Stop Chasing Men(01:02:02) - relationship status

Host: Yusuf  What happens when dating has no destination? Should you date multiple people until you're sure? How long should someone wait before asking for exclusivity? And is saying "I don't want a relationship right now" honest communication—or false hope? In this episode of the Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf is joined by Angel and Shanell for one of the most honest conversations we've had about modern dating, relationships, communication, exclusivity, marriage, and emotional expectations. From hilarious "Either Or" questions to deep debates about boundaries, dating intentions, and whether feelings can truly be controlled, this episode challenges the way we think about finding love. Yusuf also shares his experience attending the 2026 Podcast Summit, including hearing Eric Thomas speak live and connecting with some of the biggest names in podcasting. He explains how the event reignited his passion to take the Relationship Status Podcast to the next level. In this episode, we discuss: Is it better to date one person seriously or date multiple people casually? Should you ever wait around for someone to choose you? How long should you date before becoming exclusive? Can you really keep emotions out of casual dating? Do boundaries make someone more attractive? Is "right now" giving someone hope—or wasting their time? Should divorced people take years before dating again? Are people looking for red flags instead of real connections? Can someone change their mind about marriage after meeting the right person? Why communication is the foundation of healthy relationships. This episode is packed with real opinions, funny moments, uncomfortable truths, and practical relationship advice for anyone navigating today's dating world. Join the conversation: Do you agree that saying "I don't want a relationship right now" gives people false hope? Or do you think it's honest communication? Drop your thoughts in the comments—we read them all. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to: Like this video Subscribe to the channel Turn on notifications Share this episode with someone who needs to hear this conversation Connect with Relationship Status Podcast Email: [email protected] Join our Patreon for exclusive content and the free Relationship Status Book Club: https://patreon.com/relationshipstatus Join the Relationship Status Podcast Advice Group on Facebook for relationship discussions, advice, and community. Featured Guests Angel Chanel (Nelly Pooh Speaks / Kimi Pot) Video Chapters 00:00 Welcome & Podcast Summit 2026 Experience 03:55 Introducing Today's Guests 05:18 Either Or: Dating vs. Vacations 08:18 Dating Around or Waiting? 15:30 Why Are You Dating? 20:20 Can You Control Your Feelings? 23:15 The Power of Boundaries in Dating 27:05 How Long Should You Wait Before Marriage? 30:25 Divorce, Healing & Dating Again 37:40 Are We Wasting Each Other's Time? 40:18 Settling vs. Being Chosen 42:01 Are Women Waiting to Be Chosen? 46:45 "I Don't Want a Relationship Right Now" 53:55 Final Thoughts & Closing Special Thanks to Our Sponsors: Eat My Biscuits – 2881 Main Street, East Point, GA. Stop by and see what everyone is talking about and tell them Relationship Status sent you! ️ Crux Media Group – Need your podcast recorded, edited, or produced professionally? Visit Crux Media Group for all your podcasting needs. ⭐ Don't forget to Like, Share, Follow, Subscribe, and leave a 5-Star Review! Chapters (00:00:00) - Relationship Stats(00:01:26) - The Podcast Summit: Experience The Summit(00:04:00) - Welcome Back Chanel and Angel(00:05:27) - Would You Rather Date One Man Seriously For 2 Years or Never Get(00:06:43) - Would You Rather Be the Only Woman He's Talking To Or Be(00:08:10) - Married Man: I'd Rather Have Someone Who Chooses Me(00:13:32) - Why Women Don't Ask Men To Commit To A Relationship(00:17:34) - "I don't want a relationship"(00:20:48) - I Never Wanted To Get Married(00:25:21) - Married 2 Months, 8 Weeks(00:29:28) - "If You Want to Be Single For the Rest of Your Life(00:30:25) - Married Woman on How Long Was She Married Before Getting Divor(00:35:57) - Dating Chanel(00:39:56) - Would You Rather Find Out Your Partner Settled or(00:42:02) - Are Women Waiting To Be Chosen?(00:45:09) - I Don't Want A Relationship Right Now(00:49:54) - "Your Words Matter" In Relationships(00:54:02) - Relationship Status: Chanel's People Can Find Me

Host: Yusuf  In this episode, Yusuf In The Building welcomes longtime friend Rah for one of the most entertaining—and thought-provoking—conversations yet. From sharing stories about growing up together to debating today's dating culture, nothing is off limits. The conversation kicks off with an honest discussion about life after divorce, when someone is truly "single," and whether it's ever too soon to move on. Yusuf and Rah dive into dating with intention, exclusivity, multiple dating partners, and why communication and transparency matter more than ever. Then things heat up with a hilarious round of Either Or, where Rah is forced to choose between impossible relationship scenarios involving cheating, trust, honesty, body counts, phones, exes, communication, and intimacy—with no fence riding allowed. The debate continues as they tackle real-life relationship dilemmas pulled straight from social media, including: Should you use your Hilton rewards points on someone else's trip? Was it wrong to leave a surprise picnic first date? Should a man always pump the gas and open the car door? What really counts as "tone" in an argument? Are expectations ruining modern dating? Along the way, Yusuf and Rah challenge each other's perspectives on: Dating after divorce Red flags people choose to ignore Women's intuition Standards vs. requirements in relationships Why effort matters more than perfection What it really means to date with intention The qualities that actually make someone marriage material The episode wraps with a powerful conversation about finding the person who makes you want to be married—not because you have to, but because they bring out the best version of you. If you enjoy real conversations, honest opinions, playful debates, and relationship advice that makes you think long after the episode ends, this is one you don't want to miss. Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe on YouTube for full episodes and exclusive content. Join the conversation:[email protected] ❤️ Support the show on Patreon:For just $5/month (about 17¢ a day), you'll get: Early access to episodes Exclusive behind-the-scenes content Uncut conversations Book Club discussions Bonus content you won't find anywhere else Question of the Day: Do you believe ego is the biggest obstacle to successful relationships? Why or why not? Let us know in the comments! Special Thanks to Our Sponsors: Eat My Biscuits – 2881 Main Street, East Point, GA. Stop by and see what everyone is talking about and tell them Relationship Status sent you! ️ Crux Media Group – Need your podcast recorded, edited, or produced professionally? Visit Crux Media Group for all your podcasting needs. ⭐ Don't forget to Like, Share, Follow, Subscribe, and leave a 5-Star Review!

Host: Yusuf  This week, Yusuf in the Building is joined by Dr. Nicole, host of The Secret Formula of Femininity, live from Podcast Summit 2026 for an honest, insightful, and entertaining conversation about what it really takes to build healthy, lasting relationships. Dr. Nicole opens up about her 15-year marriage, meeting her husband while serving in Senegal, and why communication, healing, and putting your ego aside are essential for creating the relationship you truly want. Yusuf and Dr. Nicole also discuss the growing conversation around masculine and feminine energy, how childhood experiences shape adult relationships, and why so many people struggle to find—and keep—love today. Plus, Dr. Nicole steps into the Relationship Status Either/Or Hot Seat, answering hilarious relationship dilemmas that reveal just how she navigates marriage in real life. In This Episode: The truth about feminine energy in modern relationships Why communication is more than just talking How childhood trauma impacts dating and marriage Can relationships survive infidelity? Why marriage is still worth fighting for Advice for women who desire marriage The importance of healing before dating The funniest Either/Or questions yet! Connect with Dr. Nicole Podcast: The Secret Formula of Femininity New Episodes: Every Tuesday at 6:00 PM (ET) on YouTube and all major podcast platforms, including Spotify and Apple Podcasts. Follow Dr. Nicole: Instagram: @IAmDrNicole YouTube: Femininity Formula TikTok: Femininity Formula If you're looking to understand relationships better, heal from unhealthy patterns, strengthen your marriage, or prepare for the relationship you deserve, be sure to subscribe to The Secret Formula of Femininity. Stay Connected with The Relationship Status Podcast Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe on YouTube for full episodes and exclusive content. Join the conversation:[email protected] ❤️ Support the show on Patreon:For just $5/month (about 17¢ a day), you'll get: Early access to episodes Exclusive behind-the-scenes content Uncut conversations Book Club discussions Bonus content you won't find anywhere else Question of the Day: Do you believe ego is the biggest obstacle to successful relationships? Why or why not? Let us know in the comments! Special Thanks to Our Sponsors: Eat My Biscuits – 2881 Main Street, East Point, GA. Stop by and see what everyone is talking about and tell them Relationship Status sent you! ️ Crux Media Group – Need your podcast recorded, edited, or produced professionally? Visit Crux Media Group for all your podcasting needs. ⭐ Don't forget to Like, Share, Follow, Subscribe, and leave a 5-Star Review! Because if you don't leave a 5-star review... well, you already know what Yusuf is going to call you. Chapters (00:00:00) - Date Night or Weekend Getaway?(00:00:34) - Relationship Status Podcast(00:01:13) - Dr. Nicole on The Secret Formula of Femininity(00:02:09) - How To Tell Your Love Interest How Long You've Been Married(00:03:01) - The Voice of Femininity(00:06:23) - What Keeps You Coming Back to the Mic(00:09:44) - Neither Or(00:12:25) - 7 Questions You'd Rather Have Your Husband Ask(00:13:09) - Questions For Your Husband(00:14:26) - How My Husband and I Met(00:15:12) - How Difficult Was It For My Husband To Convert To Islam(00:18:00) - Marriage Was Not Easy(00:22:19) - Married Men On The Issues Of Cheating(00:25:52) - Wedding in the Indian Community(00:28:07) - Married Women Don't Want to Be Married(00:28:53) - Dr. Nicole on How To Get Married(00:31:15) - PODC summit: Stand on Your Business!

Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week, Yusuf is joined by Q and Chanel from the King Me Podcast, along with special guest TJ from the Heal 2 Feel Podcast, for a hilarious, honest, and thought-provoking conversation about one of the most controversial topics in modern relationships: Can men and women really be just friends? The panel dives deep into trust, boundaries, insecurity, transparency, and the challenges that can arise when your significant other has a close friend of the opposite sex. From late-night phone calls and one-on-one dinners to vacations, emotional support, and best-friend dynamics, no topic is off limits. The crew also kicks things off with a wild round of "Either Or" questions that lead to funny stories, heated debates, and some unforgettable moments. Topics Include:• Can men and women maintain purely platonic friendships?• Is it insecurity to feel uncomfortable about your partner's best friend?• Should your partner automatically trust your friendships?• What boundaries should exist between opposite-sex friends?• Are new opposite-sex friendships acceptable in a committed relationship?• Is talking to a best friend every day a red flag?• How much should a partner's comfort level influence your friendships? Plus, the panel responds to a listener question about a girlfriend who talks to her male best friend every day and shares their unfiltered thoughts on whether that's a reasonable concern or a sign of insecurity. Guest Information: ️ King Me Podcast Instagram: @kingmepodcast Available on YouTube and Spotify ️ Heal 2 Feel Podcast Instagram: @heal2feelllc Available on YouTube, Facebook, TikTok, and all major social platforms Want to join the conversation?Email: [email protected] Join the Relationship Status Advice Group and Group Chat on Facebook for relationship discussions, advice, and debates throughout the week. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to LIKE, COMMENT, SHARE, SUBSCRIBE, and leave a 5-star review. Special Thanks to Our Sponsors: Eat My Biscuits – 2881 Main Street, East Point, GA. Stop by and see what everyone is talking about and tell them Relationship Status sent you! ️ Crux Media Group – Need your podcast recorded, edited, or produced professionally? Visit Crux Media Group for all your podcasting needs. Sound Choices Fireworks – With locations at 321 Killian Road in Columbia, SC and 281 Andover Drive in Darlington, SC, Sound Choices Fireworks has everything you need to light up the night this Fourth of July season. ⭐ Don't forget to Like, Share, Follow, Subscribe, and leave a 5-Star Review! Because if you don't leave a 5-star review... well, you already know what Yusuf is going to call you. Chapters (00:00:00) - "Did He Mean To Send That?"(00:00:37) - Relationship Status: Buy Black-Owned Fireworks(00:01:58) - King Me POD(00:02:37) - Chanel on The King Me Podcast(00:03:52) - How To Run a Podcast(00:04:32) - Heal To Feel(00:06:49) - Savannah on The Dating Chanel Segment(00:09:55) - Increased Chances Of Finding Your Forever(00:10:13) - Stalking An Ex-BF or Best Friend?(00:12:06) - Send A Nude To My Boss Or Accidentally Send A N(00:14:00) - "That was a tough one."(00:14:11) - I Wouldn't Rather Catch Feelings For My Best Friend Or Find(00:17:53) - "She Trying To Take Off My Virginity"(00:18:59) - Is Too Many Friends Bad For Dating?(00:21:57) - A Red Flag For Too Many Friends(00:22:13) - Would You Rather Find Out Your Partner Cheated Or Secretly Check(00:24:30) - I'd Rather My Partner Go on Vacation With Her Best Friend(00:27:53) - Can Men and Women Really Be Friends?(00:29:11) - Does Physical Attraction Complicate The Best Friend?(00:33:09) - Should My Partner Accept My Friend's Love?(00:38:56) - "Don't Be Concerned If I'm Making You Feel Un(00:42:43) - Best Friend/Relationship Advice(00:45:42) - Friendships Have Boundaries(00:48:37) - Is Transparency Enough For Sexual Situations?(00:52:31) - Boundaries In Dating(00:55:39) - "Going on Vacation With My Boyfriend"(00:55:58) - It Dependens On The Problem(00:57:57) - They Talk To Their Best Friend Every Day(01:01:00) - Why I Talk To My Friend Every Day(01:04:53) - "It's a Trauma"(01:07:26) - Best Friends Are For Gay People Only(01:10:26) - How To Find Your Love Interest On King Me Pod

Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on the Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf is joined by Angel and special guest Chanel from the King Me Podcast for a conversation packed with laughs, relationship debates, dating dilemmas, and plenty of unfiltered opinions. The crew kicks things off by tackling the Question of the Week: What's worse in 2026—cheating, lying, or recording a post-argument video in your car and posting it on social media? The answers spark a hilarious discussion about privacy, trust, validation, and the growing trend of turning relationships into public content. Then it's time for a spirited round of "This or That," where the hosts debate everything from overly affectionate versus overly independent partners to being friends with exes, having opposite-sex friendships, spending habits, punctuality, and what really matters in modern dating. The main conversation centers around a listener seeking advice about balancing connection and independence in a long-term relationship. The panel dives into topics including clinginess, insecurity, boundaries, personal space, bringing up old arguments, seeking advice from friends and family, and whether unresolved issues can ever truly stay in the past. Expect honest perspectives, differing viewpoints, and plenty of real-world relationship wisdom. Along the way, the conversation takes several entertaining detours, including first-date expectations, Wendy's Biggie Bags, dating apps, church dating stories, and Yusuf's latest idea for "Dating Chanel" that has everyone questioning his matchmaking skills. If you've ever struggled with trust, communication, personal boundaries, or letting go of old relationship baggage, this episode delivers thoughtful insights wrapped in humor, honesty, and authentic conversation. Guest Spotlight:Chanel from the King Me Podcast joins the show to discuss dating, relationships, and the mission behind King Me Podcast, which focuses on men's wellness, mental health, and issues affecting Black men. Check out KingMePod Submit Advice Letters:[email protected] Follow Relationship Status:Instagram, Facebook, TikTok & Threads:@RELSTATPodcast Join the Relationship Status Podcast Advice Group on Facebook and become part of the conversation. Support the Show on Patreon for bloopers, bonus content, early access to episodes and morePatreon.com/RelationshipStatus For just $5 per month (about 36 cents a day), you'll get access to exclusive content, bonus discussions, book club conversations, and more. Follow Our Guest:King Me PodcastAvailable on YouTube, Spotify, and all major podcast platforms. Special Thanks to Our Sponsors: Eat My Biscuits2881 Main StreetDecatur, Georgia Serving up delicious biscuits, breakfast, and brunch favorites. Stop by and tell them Relationship Status sent you! Crux Media Group LLC For all your podcast production needs—from concept development and recording to editing, marketing, clips, and distribution. Schedule your free consultation today:CruxMediaGroupLLC.com ⭐ Don't forget to Like, Share, Follow, Subscribe, and leave a 5-Star Review! Because if you don't leave a 5-star review... well, you already know what Yusuf is going to call you. Chapters (00:00:00) - "You're Not Ready For Me"(00:00:48) - Relationship Status(00:02:34) - The Queen of the King Me Podcast(00:03:09) - Kimi Pot on Being On King Me Pod(00:05:43) - I Slapped My Son For Sleeping Outside My Home(00:07:04) - What's Worse in 2026? Cheating, Lying,(00:10:29) - A Cheater Is Always a Liar(00:11:41) - 3 Questions For People Who Are Overly Affectionate or Over(00:13:03) - In the Elevator With Your Valentine(00:13:29) - Is It Better To Be Always On Time or Well-Dressed(00:15:16) - Would You Rather Your Partner Be Friends With All Of Their Exes(00:17:42) - Does Your Ex-Girlfriend Want You Back?(00:19:50) - Don't Get Your Head Bust by Chanel(00:20:02) - Dear Relationship Status Advice Letter(00:20:27) - How To Sit Down With Your Partner ((00:22:05) - Chanel Says She's Being Too clingy In Her Relationship(00:26:03) - What Women Tell Men About Women(00:28:54) - How To Plan A First Date(00:32:19) - Guys Think All Women Just Want Money(00:36:27) - How To Deal With A Diva On A First Date(00:39:32) - Don't Bring Up Old Problems In Your Relationship(00:44:07) - "Don't Ask Outside Advice About Your Relationships"(00:45:17) - How to Stuck Connect with Your Partner(00:45:59) - How to Talk About Old Issues in a Relationship(00:48:29) - King Me Pod On Dating Chanel(00:50:46) - King Me Me: Don't Follow Me On Social Media

This week on the Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf is joined by special guest co-host Angel while Vanetta is away, and together they welcome Shenasia from HBO Max's F-Boy Island. The conversation goes everywhere—from dating multiple people and social media relationships to loyalty, long-distance dating, and whether a little toxicity is necessary to keep love interesting. Shenasia shares her experiences dating in the spotlight, while Angel has the crew in tears with stories about wild DMs, pastors in her inbox, and why nobody wants to be listed as a "special friend" in an obituary. Plus, they answer listener questions, reveal the craziest things they've done for love, and debate exactly how much effort they're willing to put into saving an ex who's on fire. Funny, honest, and completely unfiltered—this is an episode you don't want to miss. Chapters (00:00:00) - What Is The Secret To Romantic Relationships?(00:00:49) - Relationship Status(00:02:11) - Naysha On The Guest(00:03:37) - Is It Okay To Tell People You're Single?(00:06:31) - What You Need To Tell Your Dating Partner(00:06:56) - Love At First Sight(00:10:01) - Private Relationships or Public Relations? Jay With Ink(00:12:12) - Babe Needs Access To My Phone(00:14:34) - "You Can't Fake That Chemistry"(00:15:35) - Married People Talk Long Distance(00:16:37) - Long Distance Relationships(00:16:59) - 5 Questions For Loyalty Or Honest?(00:17:47) - Toxic Passion or Peaceful Love?(00:20:36) - I Can't Do My Obituary(00:20:53) - "Oh My God, This Is So Corny!"(00:23:34) - What's The Most Difficult Part About Dating?(00:25:34) - Pastor Of The Cloth In My inbox(00:27:37) - "The People of God Are Just Human"(00:28:28) - Deaconess Says Her Online Image Helped Her Dating Life(00:31:35) - Can Social Media Habitat Destroy Intimacy?(00:36:58) - Are We Ready to Ban Social Media?(00:38:20) - What's Something That Should Be Warned Before Dating?(00:39:55) - If Your Ex Was On Fire, What Would You Use To Put(00:43:44) - The Worst Thing That You Ever Did For Love

Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status, Yusuf In The Building is joined by special guest co-host Angel, and things get interesting fast! The two debate whether good men are actually appreciated, why people keep choosing chaos over peace, and whether cheating has become way too normalized in today's dating world. Angel shares her thoughts on trust, relationships, and why some married men need to stay out of her inbox. Plus, the battle of the episode: Should couples wear matching outfits? Angel says it's cute. Yusuf says it's corny. The debate gets surprisingly heated. They also tackle money, loyalty, trust issues, shopping sprees, side pieces, sneaker culture, and why Yusuf absolutely refuses to match outfits with anybody under any circumstances. Real talk, plenty of laughs, and a few relationship gems along the way. Pull up and join the conversation! Follow Relationship Status on all social media platforms @RELSTATPodcast and join the conversation. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: [email protected] Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:25) - Return To Relationship Status(00:01:23) - Relationship Conversations Over CURLS(00:05:00) - Can A Man Take Himself Out On A Date?(00:08:18) - How To Get A Good Man(00:14:03) - A Good Man To One Person(00:15:20) - Why Do Cheaters Get Away With It?(00:19:59) - Married People Cheat On Their Wife(00:22:47) - Married People Post Their Life On Social Media(00:25:24) - Are You Matching? (EXCLUSIVE)(00:28:06) - Is It A Man's Idea To Match His Wife?(00:31:32) - "I Can't Wear The Same Thing As My Man"(00:32:47) - How To Get A Woman To Share Money With You(00:36:19) - How To Win A Relationship With A Skeptical Person(00:39:06) - "I Want To" In A Relationship(00:41:55) - "It's Cool to Get A Dog"(00:42:20) - "We're Not Special"(00:43:59) - "I've Never Had A Man Take Me on a Shopping Sp(00:48:05) - Adam Levine On His Son's $300 Sneakers(00:51:24) - My Son's Fashion Disguise(00:53:15) - Relationship Status Podcast

Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta Welcome back to another episode of Relationship Status Podcast with Yusuf and Vanetta. This week, Yusuf is joined by special guest co-host Angel for one of the most honest and unfiltered conversations the show has had yet. From dating culture and emotional availability to marriage, divorce, healing, and the realities of starting over in your 40s, nothing is off limits. Angel opens up about her journey from a fast-paced lifestyle in New Jersey to marriage, motherhood, church life, and eventually divorce after nearly two decades. She shares how past relationships shaped the way she views dating today, why she values her independence, and the challenges of letting someone in after heartbreak. Yusuf and Angel debate everything from:• Who gets attached faster — men or women• Dating multiple people while single• Why honesty in dating is harder than people admit• The pressure relationships can create• Social media relationships versus reality• Why some people fear commitment after divorce• The importance of feeling safe in relationships• Patterns, trust, communication, and emotional security• Petty behavior, jealousy, and setting boundaries The conversation also dives into the masks couples wear in public, the difference between loneliness and peace, and whether true love can make someone soften their stance on relationships again. If you’ve ever questioned modern dating, struggled with trust after heartbreak, or wondered whether marriage is still worth it, this episode is for you. Make sure you subscribe, leave a review, and follow Relationship Status Podcast on all streaming platforms for more real conversations about love, relationships, and life. Follow Relationship Status on all social media platforms @RELSTATPodcast and join the conversation. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: [email protected] Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - Married People Want To Get Married Again(00:00:49) - Relationship Status(00:02:30) - Single People(00:03:41) - Who Gets Attached Faster, Women or Men?(00:04:10) - Who Lies More In Dating? Women or Men?(00:08:05) - Is Dating Multiple People A Bad Thing?(00:11:27) - "I Don't Want To Cuddle"(00:13:47) - Married People Talk About Their Divorce(00:15:21) - I Got Married Young(00:19:39) - What Happened To The Married Woman In The Hurt(00:22:52) - Married Woman on Her Love Life(00:26:09) - He Says You Should Court Again(00:30:16) - Married Man Can't Help But Want To Be Married Again(00:34:52) - Married Woman on Being Independent(00:38:27) - "I Don't Want To Date A People Who Are Jealous(00:42:08) - What Some Men Say About Their Women(00:46:12) - "Do I Know You?"(00:46:47) - What's One Thing That You Wish You Had In A Relationship(00:51:11) - Married People Talk About Cheating On Their Partner(00:55:01) - 7 Pet Peeves of Relationships(00:56:49) - Relationship Status Podcast: Closing Out(00:59:15) - Podcast Summit 2017

Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status, Yusuf is back in the building holding it down with special guest co-host Ashley Martin from the Becoming Her Podcast for a real, unfiltered conversation about love, identity, relationships, and the boundaries people ignore in the name of “helping” an ex. The episode kicks off with the Question of the Week: “What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done for love?” From losing yourself in relationships to staying too long after the red flags started waving, Yusuf and Ashley dive deep into how people sacrifice pieces of themselves trying to become what their partners want instead of remaining authentic. The conversation expands into dating dynamics, personal freedom in relationships, why Yusuf encourages his daughters to focus on self-discovery before serious relationships, and how people often resent the very changes they made to please someone else. Ashley and Yusuf also unpack insecurity, emotional maturity, and the importance of allowing people to be exactly who they were when you met them. Later, the hosts tackle a listener advice letter about a boyfriend secretly sending money to his ex-girlfriend. Was it harmless support or emotional disrespect? Yusuf and Ashley debate secrecy, trust, accountability, emotional transparency, and whether helping an ex behind your partner’s back crosses the line. As always, the comments section brought the heat, with listeners sharing their own stories, perspectives, and relationship lessons learned the hard way. Plus:• Ashley talks about the return of Becoming Her Podcast• Yusuf shares updates about joining the My7Figure Podcast community• Petty relationship confessions and hilarious reactions• Real talk about resentment, trust, and emotional boundaries• Shoutouts to the Relationship Status community and supporters Tap in for another honest, funny, and thought-provoking episode of Relationship Status — where the conversations are real, the opinions are unapologetic, and everybody leaves with something to think about. Follow Relationship Status on all social media platforms @RELSTATPodcast and join the conversation. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: [email protected] Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - "I sent that man $20 for gas"(00:00:53) - Relationship Status(00:01:27) - When You Realize How Much You've Changed(00:02:38) - When Is Kaia Coming Back?(00:03:06) - Podcast Summit 2018(00:04:13) - "The Worst Thing I Ever Did For Love"(00:09:01) - "No Relationships in High School!" Says Dad(00:11:56) - Married People Need To Be Encouraged To Be Who They(00:15:50) - "I'm Confused About Quality Time With My Love Interest"(00:17:48) - Giving Permission To Be Who You Are(00:19:53) - The Worst Thing I Did For Love(00:22:52) - Dear Elijah, There's A Hole in the Bucket(00:23:10) - Advice Letter(00:23:53) - Should Help An Ex Be Acceptable In A Relationship?(00:29:12) - He Sent His Ex-Girlfriend Money(00:33:13) - What If He Had Seen The Notifications(00:36:40) - "I Just Ignore Your Phone Calls"(00:36:51) - Clayta Holmes: Don't Complain To People About Your(00:41:15) - Becoming Ashley With Ashley Martin(00:44:53) - Shabbos Shalom

Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status, Yusuf is back in the building holding it down with special guest co-host Ashley Martin from the Becoming Her Podcast for a real, unfiltered conversation about love, identity, relationships, and the boundaries people ignore in the name of “helping” an ex. The episode kicks off with the Question of the Week: “What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done for love?” From losing yourself in relationships to staying too long after the red flags started waving, Yusuf and Ashley dive deep into how people sacrifice pieces of themselves trying to become what their partners want instead of remaining authentic. The conversation expands into dating dynamics, personal freedom in relationships, why Yusuf encourages his daughters to focus on self-discovery before serious relationships, and how people often resent the very changes they made to please someone else. Ashley and Yusuf also unpack insecurity, emotional maturity, and the importance of allowing people to be exactly who they were when you met them. Later, the hosts tackle a listener advice letter about a boyfriend secretly sending money to his ex-girlfriend. Was it harmless support or emotional disrespect? Yusuf and Ashley debate secrecy, trust, accountability, emotional transparency, and whether helping an ex behind your partner’s back crosses the line. As always, the comments section brought the heat, with listeners sharing their own stories, perspectives, and relationship lessons learned the hard way. Plus:• Ashley talks about the return of Becoming Her Podcast• Yusuf shares updates about joining the My7Figure Podcast community• Petty relationship confessions and hilarious reactions• Real talk about resentment, trust, and emotional boundaries• Shoutouts to the Relationship Status community and supporters Tap in for another honest, funny, and thought-provoking episode of Relationship Status — where the conversations are real, the opinions are unapologetic, and everybody leaves with something to think about. Follow Relationship Status on all social media platforms @RELSTATPodcast and join the conversation. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: [email protected] Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - "You sent that man some gas money"(00:00:53) - Relationship Status(00:01:27) - Becoming Back With Will(00:03:06) - Podcast Summit 2018(00:04:13) - worst thing I ever did for love(00:08:01) - Have You Encouraged Your Daughter to Get Out Of Relationships(00:11:02) - Married People: Self-Discovery(00:15:32) - "I Don't Give Permission" To My Love Interest ((00:18:43) - What If You Forget Where You Met Her?(00:19:53) - The Worst Thing She Did For Love Was...(00:22:15) - Pouring Into An Empty Cup For Love(00:23:10) - Monique Smith On Why She Stayed While Being Hurt(00:23:43) - Should I Tell My Ex-Girlfriend I'm Sending Money To(00:29:10) - He Sent His Ex-Girlfriend Money For Gas(00:33:03) - What Would I Do If I Had Seen Her Notifications On My(00:36:36) - Oh, My God, I'm a Petty Person(00:36:52) - How To Handle a Complaint From Your Partner(00:38:14) - Sharing My Love Letter To My Ex(00:41:15) - Her with Ashley Martin

Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf & Vanetta dive headfirst into one of the internet’s hottest debates: “If a woman chooses celibacy until marriage, should a man be financially celate too?” From hilarious takes to brutally honest opinions, the conversation gets REAL about celibacy, dating expectations, sexual compatibility, modern relationships, double standards, marriage counseling, and why people sometimes choose appearances over truth. The duo also reacts to wild listener comments, debates abstinence vs. celibacy, talks relationship boundaries, and plays a spicy round of “either/or” questions that reveals a whole lot more than expected Topics include: Sex before marriage Financial expectations in dating Compatibility vs. commitment Toxic dating habits Loyalty, cheating & trust Passion vs. consistency Dating culture & social media lies As always, expect unfiltered opinions, laughter, chaos, and conversations that everybody’s thinking, but few are saying out loud. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: [email protected] Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - How To Stop Having Sex(00:00:40) - Eat My Biscuits(00:01:53) - Should a Woman Be Sexually Celibate Until Marriage?(00:03:14) - Yusuf On Single Moms Who Are Celibate(00:08:04) - Should You Give Up On Your Wife?(00:11:13) - "Is Compatibility Necessary For Marriage?"(00:13:11) - "I Can't Take This..." The Guy Who Was Intox(00:16:02) - "Don't Put Me In A Situation"(00:17:31) - Ask The Podcast Questions(00:17:50) - Fast and Slow(00:18:28) - Questions for Your Love Interest(00:19:30) - Favorite Sex Questions(00:21:52) - "Be The Side Piece or The Main Guy?"(00:22:44) - Posting A Cheater Or Hide The Least Loyal?(00:25:15) - Celibacy Until Marriage

Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf & Vanetta dive headfirst into one of the internet’s hottest debates: “If a woman chooses celibacy until marriage, should a man be financially celate too?” From hilarious takes to brutally honest opinions, the conversation gets REAL about celibacy, dating expectations, sexual compatibility, modern relationships, double standards, marriage counseling, and why people sometimes choose appearances over truth. The duo also reacts to wild listener comments, debates abstinence vs. celibacy, talks relationship boundaries, and plays a spicy round of “either/or” questions that reveals a whole lot more than expected Topics include: Sex before marriage Financial expectations in dating Compatibility vs. commitment Toxic dating habits Loyalty, cheating & trust Passion vs. consistency Dating culture & social media lies As always, expect unfiltered opinions, laughter, chaos, and conversations that everybody’s thinking, but few are saying out loud. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: [email protected] Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - How To Stop Having Sex(00:00:40) - Eat My Biscuits(00:01:53) - Celibate(00:03:14) - Celibacy Advice(00:06:02) - Were You Married Before Sex?(00:08:20) - How Many Cows Should a Woman Have In Her Marriage?(00:11:28) - "You Should Be Absorbent Until You Find Your Partner"(00:15:31) - "Don't Put Me In That Situation"(00:17:31) - Ask The Podcast Question of the Week(00:18:28) - Questions for Your Love Interest(00:19:30) - Questions People Have For Their Relationships(00:21:06) - "One Partner for Life"(00:22:31) - Posting A Cheater Or Hide The Least Loyal?(00:25:15) - Celibacy till Marriage

Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta In this powerful and transparent episode of Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf English and Vanetta shift the focus from romantic relationships to the most important one of all—the relationship you have with yourself. From hilarious food debates (Chicago vs. everywhere else ) to deeply personal reflections, the conversation evolves into an honest exploration of self-awareness, growth, and what it really means to “become” who you’re meant to be. Vanetta opens up about her journey from teenage motherhood to finally discovering herself later in life—after years of prioritizing everyone else. She shares how stepping into isolation, moving to a new city, and leaning into faith forced her to confront who she truly is outside of being a mother, wife, or provider. Yusuf reflects on his own path—breaking free from comfort zones, learning to say no, and stepping into leadership by choosing himself, even when it meant making tough decisions and losing relationships. Together, they unpack: Why growth requires discomfort The danger of being a people pleaser Learning that “no” is a complete sentence How environment impacts your evolution The challenge of choosing yourself without guilt What it looks like to redefine your identity outside of roles And the ultimate question: Do you love yourself in a way that others can see it? This episode is raw, reflective, and relatable—perfect for anyone navigating change, healing, or personal evolution. Join the conversation: What are you unlearning to grow? Who are you becoming? Do you truly love yourself? Tap in, reflect, and start becoming the version of you that you owe yourself. Follow, subscribe, and share with someone who needs this message. Send advice letters to: [email protected] Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - Relationship Status(00:01:13) - Favorite Chicago-Style Food(00:04:47) - Black Men Selling Hoodies at the Mall(00:07:41) - No Society Hoodie(00:09:21) - No Society(00:09:34) - The Relationship With Yourself(00:14:38) - Growing Up Struggling(00:19:22) - Kiki On Being Uncomfortable In College(00:21:47) - What's Something About Yourself That You Had to Unlearn in Order(00:26:09) - Ashley Martin on Becoming Her Girl(00:30:30) - Why I Chopped My Hair(00:32:28) - Choosing Who to Love(00:35:11) - Joe Clark: I'm Becoming An Hnic(00:38:22) - You Do Everything The Way You Do It(00:38:58) - Vanetta on Becoming A Real Woman(00:42:37) - Kanye West: I Don't Need No Advice From People(00:46:31) - Kanye West: I Have No Competition(00:49:45) - Do You Love Yourself As A Person?