relationSHIPS & Giggles

Heyyyy we're back!Would you date someone your friend has dated? Would you care if your friend dated your ex? Is this just part of life now? Is it inevitable to match the same guy at some point?

Let's get into the icky sticky. EWWWW

Part 2! More apologies we wanted and how the simple act of apologizing can break the cycle of poor parenting. And our apologies, this is a LONG one!

Sorry, not sorry? Today we talk about the apologies we deserve, the ones we will never get, and what happens when an apology just isn't enough.

It has been a busy summer! But we're back baby! Back with the dating drama, ghosting, swiping, spiraling, and rostering!

You loved the original episode, so here's some more case study material! Younger men: avoid? have fun with? ...DATE? Let's discuss!

It isn't always giggles, is it? Today we talk about disappointment, regret, and grieving the support you'll never experience. 

Why does it always seem like women are the default planners, emotional managers, and taskmasters in every relationship: romantic, platonic, family, or even work? In this episode, we’re diving into the mental load women often carry and the invisible labor that keeps everything running. 

3rd and final (for now) listener questions episode! We hope you enjoyed them as much as we did!

You asked and we sort of answered... when we were able to stay on topic! 

A & J answer listener questions. There are some good ones!

Too many women are holding back because of self-doubt—and it's time to stop. In this episode, we unpack where that doubt comes from, how it holds us back, and what to do about it. If you’ve ever felt like you’re not ready or not enough, this is your reminder that you are more powerful than you think. Let’s stop doubting and start doing.

Look, we’re not saying you should be on dating apps in 2025… in fact, we don’t recommend it. But let’s be real, we know you’re gonna do it anyway. So, in this episode, we’re diving into the latest (and possibly most chaotic) trends in online dating. Buckle up, because whether you’re swiping, ghosting, or deleting your account for the 10th time, you’re in for a ride!

We always spot red flags in others, but what about our own? In this episode, we get real about our toxic traits, why we do them, and what we want to change. Are we the villains, or just messy humans trying to grow? Tune in for laughs, self-reflection, and a little roasting. 

Being single in your 30s and 40s can feel like a second adolescence—crushes, awkward firsts, and figuring yourself out all over again. The difference? No curfew and better wine. In this episode, we dive into the highs, lows, and hilarious moments of dating, self-discovery, and embracing a fresh start (this time with a little more wisdom).

We all have dealbreakers, but what about the tiny ones? In this episode, we’re diving into petty dealbreakers—the little things that make us instantly say, “no thanks.” Are we being too picky, or are these red flags in disguise? Tune in for laughs, hot takes, and some shameless judgment!

In this episode, we dive into the cougar experience: embracing confidence, shifting dating dynamics, and the unexpected perks of dating younger.

Was it a parent, significant other, or...BOTH? Probably both. When did you realize? You might have some realizations after you listen to this episode!

Are you guys mad at us for doing another Anxious attachment episode? Please don't leave! You're not mad? You seem mad. If that made sense to you, have a seat and get comfy, you're with your people!

Men, ugh! We know what we don't like about men today, but how do we teach our growing boys a different way?

In this episode, we talk about what we are bringing IN and sending OUT in our relationships for 2025. What does this mean for those closest to us? Our children, families, friends, and dates will find out soon!

And it went like...

In typical fashion, we gab for 40 minutes and then get down to the topic! J got some action, ya'll!

Today's episode is an update on where we are in our "love lives", how we feel about it, and trying to take an honest look at our own mindsets.

In this episode of Relationships & Giggles, J&A take on a spicy and thought-provoking topic: the world of seggs work. From feet pics to OnlyFans, we dive into the different types of work in this industry and ask ourselves the big question—would we do it? Tune in for an honest, hilarious, and insightful conversation about boundaries, societal perceptions, and our personal takes. It's a fun and candid chat you won’t want to miss!

Mayyyyybe we're all a little anxious this week, but for today, let's focus on the girlies dealing with anxious attachment.

Death to the dating apps! We're done, you're done. Can we just nail the lid on the coffin at this point?? Today we give a breakdown on what the apps were SUPPOSED to be and what they have become.

In this episode, we dive into the complex and turbulent relationships within the Menendez family. We explore the psychological dynamics between parents and children, the pressures that shaped their family bonds, and how these connections ultimately unraveled. Through examining the Menendez brothers’ perspectives, we discuss the role of family expectations, control, and abuse, asking how strained relationships can lead to devastating outcomes. Join us as we unpack the warning signs, conflicts, and emotions at the heart of this infamous story

In this episode, we dive into life after a relationship ends and explore how to navigate the emotional and social ripple effects that follow. Whether it’s a breakup, divorce, or ending a situationship, separation often reshapes not just our romantic lives but our friendships, family dynamics, and even our relationship with ourselves. We'll discuss how to heal, set boundaries, rebuild your sense of self, and find a new normal. 

In this episode, we discuss the second worst person we’ve ever met—someone who caused harm through emotional manipulation, gaslighting, and control. We explore how abuse isn’t always physical, highlighting the hidden dangers of psychological and emotional abuse in toxic relationships. 

Today we discuss one of the Absolute Worst people we've ever met. Trigger/Activation Warning: October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. In this episode we discuss domestic violence.If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org for support. 

In this episode, we dive into the intriguing world of dating younger men. From challenging societal norms to exploring the benefits of dating someone with fresh perspectives and energy, we make "The Case for the Younger Man." We'll unpack common misconceptions, share personal stories, and examine what really matters when it comes to age and relationships. Tune in as we explore whether dating younger could lead to deeper connections or just new kinds of challenges.

 "Why We're In Therapy," we dive into the personal journeys that led us to seek therapy and the mental health challenges we've faced along the way. We'll explore the stigma around getting help, share the lessons we've learned in therapy, and discuss why prioritizing mental health is essential for growth, healing, and thriving in today's world. Whether you're in therapy, considering it, or just curious, this episode offers candid insights into the power of self-care and mental wellness.

In this episode, we dive into a pressing question: Are men facing a crisis today? We explore the societal, emotional, and psychological challenges that men encounter in the modern world, from shifting gender roles to mental health struggles and evolving expectations in relationships and careers. Is there hope for our generation? What can we, as women, do about it?Let me know if you’d like any changes!

Warning: It's a long one! Spoiler - Ross sucks

In this episode, we delve into the intricate relationships of Sex and the City's unforgettable characters—Carrie, Samantha, Charlotte, and Miranda. We'll analyze the attachment styles that shape their romantic choices and friendships, and discuss the dynamics that make their love lives so fascinating. From Carrie's on-again, off-again romances to Charlotte's quest for the perfect relationship, we break down the reality behind their stories. How true to life are their struggles and triumphs in love?

In honor of the Summer Olympics, J & A award gold, silver, and bronze medals to their top 3 worst dates!

Learn from our mistakes! In this episode, we talk about several different types of red flags and how to spot them early on.

In this episode, we dive into the murky waters of situationships. Ever wondered what exactly a situationship is? We’re here to define it, share our personal experiences, and explore how this ambiguous term has evolved over time. Join us as we discuss what situationships mean for modern dating, the emotional rollercoaster they often entail, and how to navigate these undefined relationships. Whether you're in one, recovering from one, or just curious, this episode is for you. Tune in for an insightful conversation about the highs and lows of situationships.

Are you ready to date? Are the kids ready for you to date? Do you even want to date?Let's discuss the elation, guilt, hard decisions, self-investigation and other feelings that come along with being single for the first time in a long time! 

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