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Relationsh!t Podcast
by Marko & Steve
The weekly podcast, hosted by Marko and Steve is a vibrant and insightful exploration of dating and relationships through the lens of Black queer experiences. In each episode, they dive deep into the nuances of love, attraction, and intimacy while tackling the challenges and joys unique to the queer community. Marko and Steve bring their personal stories and lived experiences to the conversation, creating a safe, open space where listeners can relate, learn, laugh, and feel seen.
Episodes
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Dating with Intention pt. 2
Got some sh!t to say? Thought we covered everything there is to say about dating with intention? Well, not so fast. Marko and Steve are revisiting the topic, and this time they're bringing in Dr. Matthew Brinkley (@dr.brinkley) to help unpack the deeper layers of what it really means to date...
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Go-Go Boyzzz
Got some sh!t to say? For a lot of gay men, gogo dancers are just… part of the scenery. They're at the bars, the clubs, Pride parties, circuit events—and we watch, we flirt, we tip, and sometimes we do a whole lot more. But when you're in a relationship, does that change the rules? And if you're...
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Rejection
Got some sh!t to say? Nobody likes being rejected. Whether it’s getting ghosted after what you thought was a great date, being told “you’re just not my type,” getting turned down for sex, or realizing the person you really like just doesn’t feel the same way — rejection can hit your ego, your...
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Superficial Much?
Got some sh!t to say? Let’s be honest… looks matter. We can all say we’re looking for someone who’s funny, kind, emotionally available, and has a good heart—but somebody still has to make you want to swipe right or approach them. Before getting fully into this week’s topic, the guys review all…
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Dating with Intention
Got some sh!t to say? What does it actually mean to date with intention? Do you need to know exactly what you want before you start dating, or is “let’s just see where it goes” a perfectly reasonable approach? Marko and Steve get into the messy middle of dating, expectations, communication, and…
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Summertime Sadness
Got some sh!t to say? After a much-needed summer break, Marko and Steve are back for Season 14 of the Relationsh!t Podcast — and, apparently, the world decided not to wait for them to return before getting messy. For the first episode of the new season, the guys aren't coming in with a carefully...
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ENCORE: Pet Names
Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the quirky world of relationship pet names, debating whether they're adorably affectionate or cringingly cliché. From "snuggle muffin" to "baby bear," they explore the emotional reactions these nicknames provoke—both positive...
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ENCORE: M@sturbation
Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the often-taboo topic of masturbation within committed relationships. They explore how self-pleasure can be a healthy, personal form of sexual expression, even when one has an available and willing partner. The conversation...
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ENCORE: Cheating
Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the complex world of cheating and explore how different people—and relationships—define it, in this ENCORE episode. Is following someone on social media a betrayal? What about innocent (or not-so-innocent) flirting at the bar? And where does kissing...
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ENCORE: Flirting
Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the flirty side of life in this ENCORE episode, exploring what flirting looks like for them and how their personal styles may come across to others. They ask the big questions: Is flirting something that comes naturally, or is it always a little...
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ENCORE: Head First
Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve talk about diving headfirst into dating — and even marriage — without knowing what lies ahead. Is it bold and freeing, or just reckless? They explore the thrill (and risk) of saying "yes" to love without all the facts. Then, they’re joined by special guest...
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ENCORE: Thr33somes
Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the topic of threesomes and explore the gay community’s fascination with group sex in this ENCORE episode. They ask the question: when did one sexual partner stop being enough? The conversation covers the rise of throuples, casual threesomes, and…
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ENCORE: Doing the Work
Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve kick off this ENCORE episode still buzzing from their Cowboy Carter Tour experience, sharing stories and reactions from seeing Beyoncé live. The excitement and emotion of the concert set the tone before they welcome back returning guest, Ted Smith...
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ENCORE: Traveling While Gay
Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve reflect on their recent trip to Spain, sharing highlights from their time in Madrid and Barcelona. They humorously question why they even came back to the U.S., clearly missing the energy and vibe of their travels. The conversation…
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ENCORE: Same Argument Over & Over Again
Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the all-too-common experience of having the same argument repeatedly with your partner. They explore how these recurring conflicts can lead to frustration and emotional fatigue, especially when the core issue remains...
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Dating is a Drag
Got some sh!t to say? To close out Pride Month and the 13th season of Relationsh!t, this week Marko and Steve are joined by the chaos demon herself, drag performer Skye Walker (@itsskyewalker), for an honest, hilarious, and heartfelt conversation about dating, drag, and self-worth. What happens...
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Stay Ready
Got some sh!t to say? Pride Month is here, and for many gay men that means parades, parties, travel, hookups, and plenty of opportunities for some unforgettable memories. But while everyone is focused on what they're wearing (or not wearing), Marko and Steve are asking a different question: Are…
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Gay While Black
Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve are joined by Jerrell Owens-Robinson to tackle a topic that doesn't get enough honest conversation in queer spaces: what it's like being Black in predominantly white gay spaces, and how race can shape dating, relationships, friendships, and a sense...
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Love Me, Love My Interests
Got some sh!t to say? Do couples need to share the same interests to have a successful relationship? In this episode of the Relationsh!t Podcast, Marko and Steve, joined by retired podcast host Tony Critelli (@thecritellis), tackle the reality that even the strongest couples won't agree on...
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No Fats, No Fems
Got some sh!t to say? This week on Relationsh!t, Marko and Steve dive into one of the most uncomfortable—and important—conversations happening in LGBTQ+ spaces today: the prejudice, judgment, and exclusion that can exist within our own community. Inspired by the release of No Fats, No Fems by Max...
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Cuddle Bug
Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve are getting cuddly as they dive into the surprisingly important role cuddling plays in our dating lives and relationships. From casual hookups to long-term partnerships, physical affection can communicate comfort, safety, attraction, and connection...
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Just Checking In pt. 2
Got some sh!t to say? This week on Relationsh!t, Marko and Steve are skipping the research, ditching the structured topic, and just sitting down for a real conversation. No deep dives. No hot takes. No agenda. Just two friends checking in with each other about life as it’s happening right now.…
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Lavender Marriages
Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve dive into the fascinating and often misunderstood world of lavender marriages — relationships historically formed to conceal someone’s sexuality in order to protect careers, reputations, family expectations, or personal safety. From Old Hollywood…
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Please and Thank You's
Got some sh!t to say? Somewhere between the first date and settling into a routine, “please” and “thank you” tend to fall off. This week, Marko and Steve dig into the quiet shift from intentional politeness to comfortable carelessness—and whether that shift is harmless… or actually harmful. They...
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Switching Up Positions
Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve are getting real about the quiet pressure many people feel in the bedroom—specifically, the idea that “good sex” means constantly switching things up. Blame it on porn, hookup culture, or just plain insecurity, but somewhere along the line, a lot…
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Value-based Dating
Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve are diving into the real foundation of modern relationships: values. Because let’s be honest—chemistry might get you through the first few dates, but alignment is what determines whether something actually lasts. The guys unpack what value-based...
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EMDR Therapy
Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve sit down with Dr. Thomas Whitfield (@drthomaswhitfield) to unpack one of the most talked-about trauma therapies right now: EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). Dr. Whitfield breaks down what EMDR actually is, how it works in real...
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Work Spouses
Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve dive into the world of work spouses—the coworker you vent to, laugh with, and probably talk to more than your actual partner during the day. They break down why these relationships feel so essential at work, and why they can make even the worst…
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Breadcrumbing
Got some sh!t to say? In this episode, Marko and Steve dive into one of the most frustrating modern dating behaviors: breadcrumbing. You know the type—just enough attention to keep you interested, but never enough to actually go anywhere. The guys break down what breadcrumbing really looks like…
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The Swipe Life pt. 2
Got some sh!t to say? Part two is here, and Marko and Steve are back with Eduardo to continue unpacking the occasionally hopeful world of dating apps. This week, the trio dives deeper into the psychology of swiping—why we make snap decisions in milliseconds, what we’re really looking for (or...
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The Swipe Life pt. 1
Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve are joined by their bestie Eduardo to dive headfirst into the wild world of dating on the apps: the good, the bad, and the deeply confusing. From matches that go nowhere to conversations that mysteriously die mid-sentence, the guys unpack the…
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Y'all Were Busy
Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve are back, baby! After a two-month winter break following the end of Season 12, your favorite hosts are dusting off the microphones and catching up on everything that’s happened while they were away. In this episode, the guys share what they’ve been up to…
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Did You Miss Us?
Got some sh!t to say? Season 13 drops on Wednesday, March 11th. See you there! Support the show Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at...
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ENCORE: Are You Annoying?
Got some sh!t to say? In this week’s ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into a painfully universal truth: we’re all annoying to someone. The guys ask the question none of us really want to answer — “Are you annoying?” — and break down the everyday habits, quirks, and patterns that might be...
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ENCORE: Or@l Sex
Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve dive mouth-first (yes, we said it) into a topic that’s as fun as it is foundational: the importance of or@l sex in your relationship or situationship. In the ENCORE episode, they unpack why good oral chemistry can make or break intimacy, how to...
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ENCORE: Exes
Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the tricky world of exes — and how they can impact your current relationship. Should you stay in touch with an ex, or is that automatically disrespectful? Does your new partner get a say in whether you keep that connection?…
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ENCORE: Making Out
Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the art of making out — why kissing can make or break a connection, and just how much a good (or bad) makeout session can tell you. They’re joined by their best friend and honorary third co-host, Eduardo (@val_u_ed), to swap...
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ENCORE: Size Queens
Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve are tackling one of gay culture’s longest-standing debates — literally. This week, it’s all about penis size and the ever-fascinating world of size queens. Why are we so obsessed with measurements, and does it actually matter when the...
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ENCORE: S3xuality
Got some sh!t to say? After catching up on new music and the latest gay news in this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve welcome Travelle Barksdale (@bigboynerd) to the show for a powerful conversation about embracing your queer identity when the world reads you as straight. Together, they explore…
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ENCORE: Moving for Love
Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the big leap of moving for love. Is love alone enough to justify packing up your life? What should your future together actually look like once you make the move? And—maybe the most important question—should you get your own...
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ENCORE: Nitpicking
Got some sh!t to say? In this week’s ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve are joined by Jerrell (@rellrome)—your Auntea and co-host of the Minoritea Report Podcast (@minoriteareport)—for a conversation about nitpicking in relationships and dating. Together, they explore whether nitpicking can be…
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ENCORE: Lvbe
Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve slip into a slippery subject: personal lubricant. From water-based to silicone, flavored to specialty blends, the guys break down the different options and brands on the market. They share their own go-to choices, the not-so-great...
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Circle Back
Got some sh!t to say? In the final (recorded) episode of Season 12, Marko and Steve close things out by revisiting some of the most memorable listener emails from Seasons 11 and 12—and finally finding out what happened after the guidance was given. From dating dilemmas to relationship crossroads,...
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Be Our Guest
Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve wrap up 2025 by looking back at some of the standout conversations from the past two seasons of Relationsh!t. This finale episode revisits memorable interviews from Season 11 with Will (@willonthemic) from the No Ma’am Podcast and Dawon (@dailydawon) from the...
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Losing My Religion
Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve sit down with Auntea Kerel (@iamkerel) of the Minoritea Report Podcast (@minoriteareport) for an honest conversation about religion, faith, and how both collide with LGBTQ+ relationships. Together, they unpack what it’s like to grow up in the church,...
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Body Count
Got some sh!t to say? In this episode, Marko and Steve dive headfirst into the messy, loud-whispered, and oh-so-queer conversation around “body count.” Does your sexual history shape how desirable you are as a partner, or is it just another outdated trope we drag into modern dating? The guys…
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ENCORE: M@sturbation
Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the often-taboo topic of masturbation within committed relationships. They explore how self-pleasure can be a healthy, personal form of sexual expression, even when one has an available and willing partner. The conversation...
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Are You Annoying?
Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve dive into a painfully universal truth: we’re all annoying to someone. The guys ask the question none of us really want to answer — “Are you annoying?” — and break down the everyday habits, quirks, and patterns that might be driving your partner (or...
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Or@l Sex
Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve dive mouth-first (yes, we said it) into a topic that’s as fun as it is foundational: the importance of or@l sex in your relationship or situationship. They unpack why good oral chemistry can make or break intimacy, how to communicate what you like,...
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Exes
Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the tricky world of exes — and how they can impact your current relationship. Should you stay in touch with an ex, or is that automatically disrespectful? Does your new partner get a say in whether you keep that connection? And what about when it’s...
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The weekly podcast, hosted by Marko and Steve is a vibrant and insightful exploration of dating and relationships through the lens of Black queer experiences. In each episode, they dive deep into the nuances of love, attraction, and intimacy while tackling the challenges and joys unique to the queer community. Marko and Steve bring their personal stories and lived experiences to the conversation, creating a safe, open space where listeners can relate, learn, laugh, and feel seen.
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The weekly podcast, hosted by Marko and Steve is a vibrant and insightful exploration of dating and relationships through the lens of Black queer experiences. In each episode, they dive deep into the nuances of love, attraction, and intimacy while tackling the challenges and joys unique to the...
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