Road To Twenty Five

Over the last few years, I have come to understand what it means to create healthy boundaries. Boundaries are not always easy, but if we want to go far in life, then we need to start letting go even when it is not easy.

It's crazy how we are rendered speechless and clueless at different points in our lives. What matters more at this point is what we do when we get to this stage. So, what do you do when it looks like you don't know what you are doing?

We are not even one month into 2026 yet, and I am already forced into a corner. The choice is, do I settle or do I trust what is not yet here and just keep holding on to what I believe? It's 2026, and I almost settled.

Help me is an emotional episode for me because I shared my struggles about how 2025 has been for me. If you've ever had a year or a season in your life where it seemed like everything was working against you or nothing was working out, then you should listen to help me. I shared my cry for help here, and I hope you can too.

What they don't tell you is that forgiveness is hard. Sometimes you look at the situation and all you want to do is get angry all over again. How has forgiveness been so far on this journey for me? Hard!!! It's so unfair that I have to suffer and yet have to let go at the same time. But baby steps, right?

Shoutout to all the amazing people in my life. I have never felt so loved as this year. Thanks to them, I had the best birthday so far in my life.

What do you do when you feel numb and you don't know what to do? What do you do when life seems to be coming at you all at once? My biggest challenge is to keep going, I refuse to back down.

Happy Birthday to Me. Let's celebrate together, guys...

Doing it afraid does not mean you have faced your fears; sometimes, all you have successfully done is sweep them under the rug.

A journey of growth, of vulnerability, of fear, of the unknown. It keeps getting clearer, but there is still a lot of work to be done. The race is not to the swift.

You don't have to figure it out all at once; the beauty of it is gaining clarity as you journey on this road. Nobody has it all figured out. Trust the process.

Sometimes the ones we care about the most are the ones who end up hurting us.

It is easy to hide who you are, how you feel and just act like all you need to do is to survive the world. However, you need to get up and go again. It is time to break loose, choose yourself, love yourself, and show yourself to the world. Do not settle for less than who you could be. Get up and go again!

Gratitude brings joy. Short gist of how my Christmas went. Happy Holidays 🎄💕

Learning to be grateful and not taking anything for granted. And loving yourself through it all.

Sometimes, people don't know which choice to make. You are as important as the next person. So, choose you first. You will thank yourself in the future. Have you ever been in this position? You can leave a comment for me.

Being in love has taught me one thing. Happiness! And in the last few weeks, I have realized that I want it more than ever. Being happy, being free, being me. The ability to not be ashamed to look at my face in the mirror. And it's because I fell in love...again.

This is another set of gist I think you'll want to hear. Anyway I'm rooting for you 😉

One of the most unserious episodes you will ever listen to. Enjoy the gists.

A special birthday episode.

Sometimes you need to set apart time and think about how far you've come and the length you're going. Maybe it will put things in a better perspective for you.

The reason why you don't have it yet might not be because you didn't try, it may be because you stopped trying.

Change can be uncomfortable especially if you have been comfortable in a particular position for a long time.

Sometimes we become very comfortable with less than the best because we think that is what we deserve. But what if you can be more?

What does a safe space mean to you? Have you ever had a safe space? Do you have a safe space? Most importantly, is the spaces you're in right now, make you feel secure?

It's gist time!!!

Denial is one of the easiest worlds to live in.

It's a special end of the year episode for you 😁

I refuse to be defined by my Weaknesses

It's that time of the year again when people get choked and put themselves under undue pressure. Sometimes you just need to let go and appreciate what you have done so far.

Gratitude starts with you. Sometimes, it is not convenient, however, it is an attitude we must cultivate if we want to keep going on this journey. I hope you can become a more grateful person, first for yourself, then for those around you.

Most times it is easier to hold on with all our might than to let go. The funny part letting go is supposed to be the easiest thing to do. Yet, ironically it is the hardest thing to do. I hope you find the strength to let go when you should.

Waiting might not be so bad after all.

Sometimes how fast you need to go is slow. And what you need might be a steady step, one foot after the other to get the results you want.

What do you do after panic mode? Panic more or re-evaluate and act?

One of the most important factors to your growth is finding yourself first. And that is a journey on its own. When you do, it makes it easier for you to do other things. Which brings me to ask, do you truly know yourself?

Is not everyone that you can go on life journeys with. Some will drag you back while you will have to drag some people. In the end, everyone gets hurt. Isn't it better to walk with someone who agrees with you?

Have you ever been in a position where you have to force yourself to like people or things or cultivate habits you don't like? Sometimes it can be so overwhelming and you feel so suffocated. Do not get choked! Your peace matters more than every other thing. Start with that first.

The new normal... There is something about doing it differently this year. If you keep waiting for what people will say or how people's perceptive of you will change, you might not make that leap. So why don't you create a new normal? The type of norms you want to see. Not what people tell you you should see. This year come out from among them and be separate... Sometimes being special isn't so bad💜💜💜

Happy new year fam 💖... I recorded this episode to say thank you just for you. I hope we can do this journey together this year. Cheers to a beautiful 2023.

I'm finally talking about my crush. Lol, I got more lessons from it than actual progress though.

Finding Balance is as important as the things you do everyday. Make it your hobby to find balance.

A lot has been said about happiness, but what really is the definition of happiness?

Sometimes the simple "how are you?" might be the only question you need to ask yourself to know the true state of your heart.

This episode is a detailed review of what Road to 25 entails.