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RSVP Thanks
by Lindsey Heatherington & Kameron Brown
RSVP Thanks is the wedding podcast for brides who’ve had it, vendors who’ve seen it all, and anyone who needs a laugh with their event planning.We’re talking real stories, real chaos, and actually helpful tips from the pros. Dress disasters? MIL meltdowns? Vendors who ghost? Yep, we’ve got receipts.New episodes drop every Wednesday.Have a story that’s too good not to share? Call our hotline: 320-558-RSVP — and maybe your drama will make the next episode.
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#25: The Ultimate Pre-Wedding Glow Up : Everything You Need To Know With Cameo Facial Aesthetics Owner Cameron Moskos
In this episode, we’re diving into all things pre-wedding beauty with aesthetic expert Cameron Moskos from Cameo Facial Aesthetics. If you’re planning your wedding (or helping clients prepare), this conversation breaks down exactly when to start treatments, who they’re right for, and how to build a realistic beauty timeline—especially if you’re new to aesthetics.We also talk about the importance of skincare consistency, daily SPF, and Cameron’s go-to product recommendations for glowing, camera-ready skin on the big day.Whether you're 12 months out or just getting started, this episode is packed with practical guidance to help you feel confident, natural, and radiant.Cameofacialaesthetics.comIG- @cameo.facial.aesthetics , cameronmosko_paGot a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#24: We Said What We Said: Wedding Hot Takes That Might Offend You
In this episode, we’re sharing some of our biggest wedding hot takes from years of working in the wedding industry. Some of these might be controversial, but they’re all based on real experiences and things we see couples stress over during the planning process.We talk about the trends we love, traditions that might be worth rethinking, and a few wedding planning opinions that might ruffle some feathers.Whether you're newly engaged or deep in the planning process, this episode is a reminder that your wedding should reflect what matters most to you — not outdated expectations or internet opinions.In this episode we discuss:• The pros and cons of destination weddings • Combined bachelor and bachelorette parties • Requiring bridesmaids to pay for hair and makeup • Skipping bridesmaids and simply getting ready together • Why your wedding shouldn’t double as a family reunion • Why B-lists can create unnecessary stress • Whether champagne toasts are worth the cost • Wedding party etiquette during the ceremony (including letting them sit!) • Brides walking down the aisle alone vs. honoring family traditions • Why a cash bar can negatively impact guest experience • Why the groom should absolutely be part of the planning process • The benefits of couples taking a private moment to eat during the reception • Brides sharing and crediting their vendors on social media • Why people outside the industry should stop telling couples what weddings “should” costAt the end of the day, wedding planning should feel exciting, intentional, and personal — not dictated by outdated rules or outside pressure.Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#23: Wedding Officiant Secrets: Ceremony Tips & Stories with Custom Vows by Casey
Wedding ceremonies may look simple, but there’s a lot that happens behind the scenes. In this episode, we’re joined by Casey from Custom Vows by Casey, a professional wedding officiant who has seen it all.From emotional aisle moments to chaotic ceremony mishaps, Casey shares real stories from weddings she’s officiated and gives couples insider advice on how to create a meaningful and smooth ceremony.We also talk about the biggest ceremony mistakes couples make, unique traditions couples are incorporating today, and what you should know before booking your officiant.If you're planning a wedding, this episode will help you understand how to make the most important part of your day feel personal, memorable, and stress-free.Instagram - Custom Vows by CaseyBranch Flower shop00:00 – Meet Casey, Wedding Officiant 01:15 – From Accounting to Weddings 02:30 – Moving to Charleston During COVID 03:40 – Importance of Wedding Ceremonies 04:40 – Starting Vendor Networking Events 05:50 – Launching Styled Shoot Showcases 07:10 – Managing Large Vendor Teams 08:20 – Why Vendor Networking Matters 09:30 – Referrals in Wedding Industry 10:45 – Social Media vs Networking 12:00 – Content Creators at Weddings 13:20 – Hiring Professional Officiants 15:00 – Wedding Ceremony Timing Tips 29:15 – Craziest Wedding Day Stories 30:40 – Charleston Heat & Outdoor Ceremonies 31:30 – Charleston Bugs & Wedding Challenges 32:10 – Ceremony Length Sweet Spot 33:10 – Guest Arrival Timing Mistakes 35:30 – Emotional Father Daughter Moments 37:40 – Unique Wedding Ceremony Traditions 39:10 – Ring Warming Ceremony Explained 40:50 – When to Book Officiant 42:10 – Most Weddings in One Day 43:45 – Charleston Marriage License Process Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#22: Why Wedding Planning Is Not for the Weak...
Planning a wedding? This episode is a must listen.We kick things off talking about New Year’s intentions, vision boards, and long-term growth, then shift into the parts of wedding planning no one sees on Instagram.From plus-ones who turn into unexpected wedding participants, to family members who believe they own venues, dates, and entire wedding months, we break down the real-life situations planners and couples are constantly navigating behind the scenes.In this episode, we cover:Guest behavior that pushes boundaries (and tests everyone’s patience)Family dynamics that complicate timelines, layouts, and decisionsDress codes, accommodations, and expectations gone wrongAnd why some things should never be left to AIIf you’re newly engaged, curious about the wedding industry, or considering wedding planning as a career, this episode offers an honest look at what the job actually requires... beyond aesthetics and timelines.00:00 - Do New Year’s resolutions actually work? 01:05 - Why vision boards feel less toxic 02:33 - Proof that manifestation actually works 03:38 - What we want for the podcast in 2026 04:28 - Being intentional with weddings & clients 05:13 - “Year of the Horse” energy explained 06:49 - Surprise second flower girl walks the aisle 08:36 - When a plus-one turns into a plus-two 09:58 - She tried to stay in the couple’s Airbnb 10:54 - And then she stole a wedding card 14:06 - Guests expecting the couple to pay 15:01 - Sister-in-law claims a wedding venue 21:32 - You don’t own an entire wedding month 28:31 - Guests & bridesmaids crossing the dress code 30:26 - Officiant uses ChatGPT (and gets the name wrong) Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#21: Wedding Magic with Camila Craft: Enchanting Brides & Vintage Finds
Planning a wedding sounds fun… until you realize it can take 450+ hours to do it right.In this episode, we’re joined by Camila of Spellbound Events, a Charleston-based wedding planner with over a decade of experience designing and executing weddings across the country. From West Coast beginnings to Lowcountry celebrations, Camilla breaks down what wedding planners actually do, why hiring one early can save you time, money, and stress + the biggest mistakes a couple can make before they even book a venue.We also talk about Camilla’s newest venture, Ritual Bridal, a vintage and pre-owned bridal dress experience focused on couture, one-of-a-kind gowns and an intimate, boutique-style try-on process. She shares why vintage bridal is having a major moment and how Ritual Bridal gives brides a more personal, meaningful way to find “the dress.” Let's dive into 2026 wedding trends, honest talk about planner pricing, destination weddings in Charleston, and why something always goes wrong (even when you never hear about it). If you’re newly engaged, planning a destination wedding, or wondering if a planner is really worth it... this episode is a must-listen.Spellbound Events InstagramRitual Bridal Instagram00:00:00 - Happy New Year & welcome 00:00:08 - Introducing Camilla (Spellbound Events) 00:00:29 - How Camilla got into weddings 00:01:11 - Winery weddings & early career 00:01:43 - West Coast vs. East Coast weddings 00:02:17 - Coastal climate differences 00:03:00 - Is a wedding planner worth it? 00:03:16 - The 450-hour planning reality 00:04:48 - Hosting vs. enjoying your wedding 00:05:40 - What planners really do on wedding days 00:06:13 - Why local planner knowledge matters 00:07:35 - Facebook wedding advice pitfalls 00:08:25 - Why consult calls matter 00:08:49 - The two vendors personality matters most 00:10:15 - Wedding planner pricing explained 00:12:22 - Budget transparency for couples 00:13:29 - Advice for newly engaged couples 00:14:15 - Budget mistakes couples make 00:14:39 - Why planners should be hired first 00:15:16 - Charleston weather & destination risks 00:16:05 - Hidden venue costs 00:17:13 - How planners save couples money 00:17:51 - Rapid Fire 00:24:41 - Final thoughtsGot a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#20: Wedding Hotline Chaos: Etiquette, Family Drama & Timeline Truths
Wedding planning is stressful enough... then you add daylight savings, family drama, etiquette confusion, and unsolicited opinions.In this episode, we’re answering real listener-submitted hotline questions and giving our unfiltered take on wedding etiquette, timelines, and boundaries. We kick things off by breaking down why fall and winter wedding timelines matter more than you think, how daylight savings can ruin your photos, and why the sun is the one thing you can’t negotiate with.Then we dive into your questions, including:Is an engagement ring a Christmas gift or do you still need to buy presents?Can (or should) your future mother-in-law give a speech at the reception?Did you break etiquette by not sending save-the-dates to everyone?Family meltdowns, wedding-weekend boundaries, and when to put your foot downVenues wasting couples’ time during bookingMother-in-law tension, dress shopping pressure, and when to let it goThe very real post-wedding blues nobody talks aboutIf you’re planning a wedding, dealing with family opinions, or just want validation that you’re not crazy… this one’s for you. Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#19: Through the Groom’s Eyes: Before, During & After ‘I Do’
This week, we are joined by the one and only Garrett Heatherington to help us flip the script and bringing you a groom's POV on wedding day. From planning roles to wedding day emotions, he shares what was fun, what was stressful, and the moments that hit him the hardest.We talk involvement, expectations, communication, and yes… the “happy wife, happy life” mindset that shows up more than most couples admit - even when choosing suits!Whether you’re a bride trying to decode your fiancé or a groom who needs to feel seen, this episode gives an honest, funny, and raw look at the wedding day from his side of the aisle.Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#18: Inside the Industry: Running a Charleston Wedding Venue with Sasha Gregory
We brought in venue owner Sasha Gregory of 108 West Main and Complete Weddings and Events Charleston to help us untangle some of the wildest wedding-day challenges we’ve seen. Together, we walk through the moments that venues catch before anyone notices, the situations that make a wedding fall apart, and the small details that matter more than couples realize. Sasha’s perspective brings a whole new layer to the vendor conversation. A view that is real, refreshing, and hilarious in some moments.108 W Main Socials:InstagramTik TokFacebookComplete Weddings & Events:InstagramFacebook00:00:09 – Intro & welcome 00:05:40 – Vendor challenges shared 00:08:12 – Favorite bride moments 00:11:09 – Planning mistakes laughed 00:13:55 – DIY wedding tips 00:17:21 – Guest experience notes 00:20:30 – Venue walkthrough stories 00:23:46 – Photography insights shared 00:26:11 – Videography tips given 00:29:08 – Social media planning 00:31:02 – Content capture challenges 00:32:18 – Timeline creation advice 00:33:21 – Feeding media team 00:34:04 – Catering challenges arise 00:35:16 – Planner coordinates meals 00:36:46 – Unprofessional caterer story 00:38:56 – Communicate vendor responsibilities 00:44:13 – Photographer timeline issues 00:45:57 – DJs bring equipment00:49:55 – Florist pickup schedules 00:51:35 – Wedding safety caution 00:54:22 – Groom overconsumption incident 00:58:11 – Favorite wedding songs Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#17: Aunt Evelyn, Sit Down - We’re Not Babysitting at Your Wedding!
Wedding season has us blessed and exhausted! We’re answering your questions about avoiding burnout, sharing the trends we’re loving, and pulling jaw-dropping stories from Reddit: last-minute guest additions, political-themed ceremonies, “extra plate” invoices, videographers parked in the aisle, and the most chaotic date-change email you’ve ever heard.If you’re planning right now, this pep talk’s for you: remember the "why", protect your energy, and lean on pros who save you time (and money). Got a spicier story? Call the hotline - you could be featured on the next episode! 00:00 - Wedding season fatigue 00:57 - Listener Q&A kickoff 01:07 - Avoiding burnout basics 02:24 - Details fuel energy 04:44 - Trend: chrome accents 05:03 - Greens with purples 06:00 - Black-and-white weddings 07:13 - Underrated planner work 08:40 - Content creator grind 10:07 - Reddit chaos begins 11:04 - Seating chart PSA 13:08 - Adult meal drama 16:32 - Videographer aisle block 18:00 - Date change mayhem 24:04 - Babysitting invite shock Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#16: Disrupting the Aisle: How We Made Our Spot in Wedding Content Creation w/ Kate Conway
What even is a wedding content creator—and how do they fit into your vendor team? Charleston's O.G. wedding content creator, Kate Conway, (Conway Everlasting) joins us to unpack how this role has evolved, what separates professionals from “a friend with an iPhone,” and how fast-turnaround BTS actually gets done. We talk creative burnout, respectful collaboration with photographers and videographers, what’s in our gear bags (FOUR IPHONES?!), and the trends we love (and loathe).Interested in hiring Kate for your wedding?!Conway Everlasting Inquiry Form 0:00 — Intro 0:46 — Meet Kate Conway 1:21 — What Is Content Creation? 3:01 — Best-Friend capture 4:04 — Authentic > Posed 5:02 — Two Sides Covered 6:00 — Not Just Reels 6:48 — Instant Dropbox 7:58 — Ceremony In Full 10:08 — Curating Clips 12:12 — 72-Hour Edits 13:21 — Vendor Self-Care 15:07 — Song Choice Chaos 16:32 — Collaborative Picks 18:06 — Shared IG Album 22:00 — Launching The Biz 23:54 — Networking Wins 25:38 — Booking 26:22 — What’s In My Bag? 28:45 — Lighting Reality 30:10 — Photography & Videography 32:36 — Double Phone Trick 34:47 — Drone & Mics 37:12 — Industry Disruptor 40:13 — No Templates! 49:19 — Read The Couple 1:12:43 — Socials, Links, & Hotline Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#15: Fire Ants, Foam Fingers & Frazzled Planners
Pack your bags and BUCKLE up! Kam and Lindsey take the show on the road this week for a wedding in the South Carolina upstate! We're recapping a weekend that had it all: a ridiculously fun couple, a surprise fire ant attack, and a reception so good we ended up crashing the after-party.We also get real about trends we're seeing in the industry, like brides booking way later than they used to. Plus, we dive into the ongoing struggle of navigating overbearing planners who sometimes do more blocking than helping, and why photographers real need to take the lead on their own timelines. And, of course, we make the case that content creators aren't just documenting the party- we ARE the party:)If you want stories, hot takes, and plenty of laughs from life behind the lens, this one's got it all. Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#14: Budget Bride Guide: DIY vs. Buy
For the Bride with a champagne taste, but a Cricut budget. In this episode, Lindsey and Kam spill the secrets every bride needs to know about saving money without sacrificing style. From crafty hacks that wow guests to the splurges actually worth it. We’re breaking down the real budget wins (and fails) we’ve seen firsthand. If you’re a bride on a budget or just want to spend smarter, this one’s for you!0:00 – Weddings are $$$0:24 – Save vs. splurge intro1:04 – Time is money1:23 – Invitations2:00 – Canva & printing2:43 – QR codes & RSVPs3:56 – Budget invites5:04 – Signage hacks7:58 – Seating chart tip9:08 – DIY details & gifts11:15 – When DIY isn’t worth it11:36 – Photo/video hours14:12 – Content creators vs. videographers15:15 – Florals on a budget19:45 – Boutonnières & groomsmen20:50 – Rentals & chairs22:54 – Lighting & candles25:02 – Food & bar29:01 – Hair & makeup32:42 – DJ vs. band36:09 – Transportation38:05 – Final budget tipsGot a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#13: Behind the Dresses: Bridal & Bridesmaid Tips with Alex from Bella Bridesmaids
This week on RSVP Thanks, we sit down with Alex from Bella Bridesmaids, who shares everything you need to know about shopping for both wedding gowns and bridesmaid dresses. From timelines and alterations to sizing realities, regrets, and trends, Alex gives practical advice to make dress shopping less stressful and way more fun.We also dive into Bella Bridesmaids’ sister store, Madison Row South, a Charleston bridal boutique where brides find their dream gowns. If you’re preparing to shop for a wedding dress or wrangling your bridal party into fittings, this episode is filled with insider tips, funny stories, and the kind of advice every bride wishes she had.Bella Bridesmaids InstagramBella Bridesmaids Charleston InstagramBella Bridesmaids Charleston Tik TokMadison Row South Instagram0:00 – Welcome + meet our guest, Alex from Bella Bridesmaids1:10 – Alex's background in the industry2:30 – When brides should shop for their gown3:45 – How the bridal gown sets the tone for bridesmaids5:00 – Staying true to your style vs. following trends6:30 – How many shops should you really visit?7:45 – Avoiding dress regret + social media pressure9:00 – Bridesmaid dress ordering timelines10:15 – Seasonal factors that affect dress delivery12:00 – Bridal sizing explained (and why it feels so different)13:30 – Alterations: budgeting + common surprises16:00 – Alex’s alteration horror stories18:30 – Finding reliable alteration shops20:00 – What to bring to your fittings (shoes, undergarments, jewelry)23:30 – Exclusive designers + how to shop smart24:00 – Discounts, trunk shows + tax-free weekend tips28:30 – Sample sales + saving on formalwear31:00 – Why tailoring can transform a dress33:00 – Wedding fashion trends36:00 – Looking ahead at what’s trending next year40:00 – Bustle tips + avoiding day-of disasters42:00 – Who should actually be in charge of your bustle?44:00 – Cleaning + preserving your dress after the wedding45:45 – Closing thoughts + where to connect with AlexGot a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#12: Let's Talk All Things Florals with Flora By Hannah
Think wedding flowers are “just bouquets”? Think again. In this episode, Lindsey sits down with florist Hannah of Flora by Hannah to spill the secrets behind stunning wedding florals. From Pinterest expectations vs. reality, to why flowers cost what they do, when you should actually book, and the trends you’ll want... and the ones to skip. This convo will save you stress, money, and headaches while giving you major inspo for your big day. Instagram: @florabyhannah00:00 – Welcome & introducing Hannah00:15 – Flora by Hannah: business beginnings00:52 – Why florals are key to a wedding vision01:19 – First steps before booking a florist02:29 – Proposals, inspo boards & mood palettes04:34 – Pinterest dreams vs. realistic budgets05:48 – How Hannah became a florist (Valentine’s Day inspo)08:07 – Starting a business & navigating Covid09:14 – Handling tariffs, contracts & rising costs10:29 – Breaking down the cost of florals13:37 – When to book a florist & cut-off timelines15:10 – Out-of-season color palettes & creative fixes18:28 – Where flowers are sourced (local & global)20:21 – Seasonal price spikes & Valentine’s Day “Super Bowl”21:12 – The joy of florals & favorite wedding moments27:29 – DIY florals vs. hiring a professional35:36 – Floral trends: love it or passGot a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#11: We Got Our First Caller… Then the Reception Caught Fire!
This week on RSVP Thanks, we kick things off with our very first hotline caller and then dive headfirst into Reddit’s wildest wedding stories. From a fake camo proposal and bouquet toss gone wrong to drunk guests, bridesmaid brawls, and even our own personal wedding experience! No story is too outrageous. We also spill on our proposal stories, share lessons learned, and remind you why some traditions (and cold sparklers) should stay far away from the big day. 00:00 – Intro00:48 – Bridesmaid’s fake camo proposal02:23 – Bouquet toss proposal gone wrong04:14 – Why bouquet/garter tosses are cursed05:04 – Camping wedding chaos & drunk fight06:19 – Runaway bride with champagne & cops08:26 – Officiant says wrong name at vows10:06 – Bachelorette party turns into a brawl12:01 – Bridesmaid drops out, wants $50 back13:41 – Lindsey’s bachelorette trip drama17:39 – Waiter ruins proposal with jazz hands20:07 – Our proposal stories26:12 – Wedding registry with $150 minimum30:36 – Couple does tasting during another wedding33:09 – The Wedding that caught on fire39:27 – Lessons learned + closing hotlineGot a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#10: Destination Wedding Planning with Ash Events
Dreaming of saying “I do” somewhere magical? This week we’re joined by Ashley Pate Newkirk of Ash Events, a destination wedding planner with experience in Pawleys Island, Charleston, Jamaica, Italy, and beyond. Ashley shares how she got started in the industry, the unique challenges of planning weddings abroad, and the tips every couple needs to know before booking their dream destination.From passports and packing lists to wild wedding stories (yes, police arrests and champagne explosions included), this episode is packed with laughs, lessons, and insider advice. Whether you’re planning a beachside ceremony, a Tuscan villa wedding, or just want to hear some juicy behind-the-scenes stories, this one’s for you. Find Ash Events on all Social Media Platforms:FacebookInstagramTik TokPinterest 00:00 – Welcome & Charleston weddings 02:00 – Meet Ashley Newkirk 06:15 – Destination clients in Pawleys 10:00 – Booking clients via TikTok 14:10 – Destination vs. local weddings 18:30 – Language & culture barriers 22:40 – Travel agents + local vendors 27:00 – Jamaica & Italy wedding stories 33:15 – First steps with destination couples 38:00 – Passports, packing & checklists 42:20 – Wildest wedding mishaps 49:00 – Avoiding destination disasters 53:30 – Save vs. Splurge game 1:01:00 – Lighting, photo booths & cars 1:09:40 – Specialty cocktails + bars 1:15:20 – Kids at weddings (hot takes) 1:22:00 – Final tips + where to find Ashley Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#9: Wedding Vendor 911: Red Flags, Reddit & Real Talk
Planning a wedding? Avoid these mistakes at all costs. We’re breaking down the biggest vendor red flags, the guest behavior that makes us cringe, and some truly chaotic Reddit wedding hot takes you have to hear to believe. This is a must Listen... trust us!00:00 – Back in the Studio00:30 – Wedding Vendor Horror Stories01:29 – The Communication Red Flag03:11 – Contracts That Protect You03:40 – Pricing & Payment Red Flags05:24 – Overpromising Vendors07:46 – How to Spot Fake Experience09:08 – Confident Vendors Only12:25 – Vendor Gossip = Red Flag15:06 – Vendor Energy on Wedding Day17:47 – Trust Your Vibe Check18:44 – When Clients Raise Red Flags20:11 – The Shady Cancellation22:03 – “Break the Bank” Couples23:03 – $1,000 Wedding Ticket Scandal25:54 – Mom in a Wedding Dress27:49 – Black Tie Without the Experience29:46 – Skipping the Ceremony33:05 – Dance Floor Rules34:31 – Reddit’s Wildest Wedding TakesGot a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#8: Wedding Week Wisdom: Stress Management, Delegating Bridesmaids Duties, and Embracing Your Unique Journey
In this episode we discuss the various aspects of wedding planning, focusing on managing stress, organization, budgeting, and the importance of delegating tasks. We share personal experiences and practical tips to help brides navigate the complexities of planning their weddings, emphasizing the need for checklists, emotional preparation, and the significance of prioritizing what truly matters on the big day.00:00Navigating Wedding Stress02:14Organization Tips for DIY Weddings03:31Budgeting and Vendor Prioritization06:51Managing Guest Lists and Outside Opinions09:16Commonly Forgotten Wedding Details11:51Writing Vows and Personal Touches13:21The Pressure of Acapella Vows14:52Planning Ahead for Wedding Week16:19The Importance of an Emergency Kit17:15Setting Boundaries in Wedding Planning18:09Delegating Tasks Effectively19:50Bachelorette Party Planning and Costs21:56Managing Expectations and Budgeting24:05Checking in on the Bride's Well-being25:27The Role of Wedding PlannersFollow us on RSVP_Thanks_Pod on IG, RSVP.thanks.pod on TikTok, and RSVP Thanks Wedding Podcast on FBFind our templates and useful tools in bio in all social media bios. Happy Planning! RSVP Thanks!Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#7: Venue Vibes: Navigating the Perfect Space, Rain Plans, and Food Faux Pas
In this episode we discuss the intricacies of wedding planning, focusing on the critical decision of selecting a venue. We explore various factors that influence this choice, including access, timing, coordination, budgeting, catering options, and logistics. The conversation emphasizes the importance of thorough planning and consideration of all aspects to ensure a smooth and enjoyable wedding experience.00:00Introduction to Wedding Planning Stress01:18Choosing the Right Venue02:53Access and Timing Considerations05:06Understanding Venue Amenities08:30The Importance of Contracts and Planners10:21Breaking Down Responsibilities14:04Catering and Kitchen Considerations14:18Planning for Venue Logistics15:55Lighting and Ambiance Considerations16:17Bathroom Facilities and Guest Comfort16:54Transportation and Parking Solutions18:50Food Service Options at Weddings22:22Catering and Rental Essentials23:10Weather Preparedness for Outdoor Events23:50Logistics of Venue Location and AccessibilityGot a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#6: Hot Takes on Hot Weddings: Warm Weather Wisdom and Our Ultimate Wedding Do’s & Don’ts
Planning or attending a summer wedding? This episode is your no-fluff guide to making it through the heat and the chaos. We’re sharing must-know tips for warm weather weddings, why your rain plan needs a serious upgrade, and how to build a wedding timeline that actually works. Plus, we’re calling out the stuff that needs to stop: guests arriving too early, yoga pants on the dance floor, and bridesmaids being used as filler. We also dive into ceremony flow, vendor etiquette, and why rehearsals aren’t optional.Get ready for real talk, good laughs, and practical advice to help your summer wedding run smooth from “I do” to the bouquet toss.00:22 Intro00:35 Summer weddings01:04 Having your guests in mind at a warm weather wedding03:58 Having a rain plan for a wedding05:07 Rain plan tip07:19 Vendor and Venue Contracts12:52 Rain on your wedding day14:32 A wedding timeline16:26 Key points to create a wedding timeline20:33 Hiring a coordinator21:28 Stop doing this at weddings...30:45 How to make your ceremony run smoothly38:31 Rehearsal must do walk throughs41:18 Ceremony music42:53 Bouquet tip & empty your pockets43:56 Family photos45:53 Episode ending - contact us!Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#5: Respond s'il vous plaît: Speaking a Little French and A Whole Lot of Wedding Etiquette
Weddings are magical, but chasing down RSVPs? Not so much. In this episode, we’re diving into the world of wedding invitations: how to get guests to actually respond (on time), who really gets a plus one, and what makes a wedding website actually useful. We’re also spilling a few invitation hacks and tips on creating stress-free seating charts.Whether you're planning your big day or just love the drama of guest list etiquette, this 25-minute episode is packed with helpful info and a few laughs along the way. Hit play, and let’s make RSVPs less of a mystery!00:00 intro00:26 when to send invitations 2:19 venue requirements on final numbers 3:36 wedding websites and why you need them 5:39 QR code RSVP6:36 what to put in your wedding website 9:03 RSVP etiquette 9:57 paper invitation layouts 12:27 wording on no kids/plus ones 12:54 invitation hacks 13:45 envelope hacks to avoid handwriting each one 14:56 how to save on stamps 16:12 do not lick your envelopes 17:32 RSVP yes but no showing 19:15 RSVP no then coming 20:46 not giving a gift as a guest 22:02 seating charts are a must 24:53 episode endingGot a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#4: Picture Perfect: Choosing the Right Wedding Photographer with Brittany Chavez
Say cheese—and cue the unfiltered opinions—because this week we’re getting real about all things wedding photography with Charleston-based photographer and creative pro, Brittany Chavez.In this episode, we dive into what really matters when it comes to booking a photographer you actually vibe with. From understanding photo styles and red flags to the vetting process, Brittany shares her approach to building trust, delivering both raw and refined images, and why honesty and communication matter just as much as the photo presets.We also unpack:Why not every photographer is the right fit (and how to tell the difference)What couples often miss when hiring their media teamThe planner vs. photographer debate (who owns what?)Wedding day chaos—from tech issues to surprise no-showsAnd how to stand out in a saturated sea of content creatorsWhether you’re newly engaged or deep in the Pinterest scroll, this one’s for you.00:00 Introduction and Wine Wedding Wednesday 01:14 Meet the Expert: Brittany Chavez 02:24 Finding the Right Photographer for You 03:31 Understanding Styles, Techniques & Editing 05:20 Transparency, Boundaries & Red Flags 12:10 Engagement Sessions & Getting Comfortable 13:27 Top-Tier Service & Personal Recommendations 13:44 What It's Like Navigating a Saturated Market 13:58 Wild Wedding Stories & Unexpected Challenges 17:33 Who Owns the Photos? The Planner vs. Photographer Debate 23:31 Choosing the Right Media Team for Your Day 24:30 Where to Find Brittany 25:09 Follow Us and Stay ConnectedConnect with Brittany Chavez Photography: 📸 https://www.instagram.com/brittanychavezphotography/Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#3: From the Aisle to the Afterparty: Wedding DJ Tips with DJ Jillybeatz
Pour a drink and cue the playlist, because this week we’re talking all things wedding entertainment with the one and only DJ Jilly Beatz — a Charleston-based DJ with over a decade of experience turning receptions into unforgettable parties.In this episode, we dive into how to actually create a wedding vibe that reflects you — from picking a DJ who knows how to read the room to navigating the DJ vs. live band debate, understanding pricing, booking timelines, and handling last-minute chaos (looking at you, rogue MOBs 👀).Jilly shares what it’s like to be a woman behind the booth in a male-dominated industry, how she keeps dance floors packed, and what she wishes every bride knew before handing over the playlist.Whether you're planning your wedding or just love a good behind-the-scenes moment, this one’s packed with insight, energy, and a few jaw-dropping stories.00:00 Introduction and Wine Wedding Wednesday 00:27 Importance of Wedding Entertainment 00:45 Special Guest DJ Introduction 01:35 Jilly joins the convo 01:54 What a DJ actually does for your wedding 03:25 Personal stories + why vibes matter 07:37 The power of female DJs 09:33 How Jilly got started in the industry 11:09 How to book your DJ (and when) 11:43 DJ responsibilities throughout the day 13:06 Wild wedding stories: the MOB incident 👀 17:16 Positive moments: bride surprise performance 19:58 Tips for choosing the right DJ for your day 21:06 Understanding DJ pricing + what to expect 23:09 Final thoughts and where to find usConnect with DJ Jilly Beatz: 🎧 https://www.instagram.com/dj_jillybeatz/Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#2: Not Just White: Using Color Analysis to Elevate Your Wedding Style with Katie Heatherington, House of Color
Pour a glass and pull up your Pinterest board because this week, we’re talking all things color analysis with the fabulous Katie Heatherington of House of Color.In this episode, we dive into how finding your wow colors can totally transform your bridal style—from picking the perfect shade of white for your dress to choosing bridesmaid colors that don’t make your girls look like they’re auditioning for a pastel horror movie. Katie walks us through what really happens during a color analysis (spoiler: it’s not as scary as it sounds), shares her fave makeup tips by season, and spills the tea on spray tans, color “mistakes,” and why you might want to ditch that go-to bronzer.Whether you're newly engaged, deep into wedding planning, or just love a good glow-up moment, this one’s for you.00:00 Introduction and Wine Wedding Wednesday00:28 Importance of Color Analysis in Weddings00:52 Guest Introduction: Katie Heatherington02:04 Understanding Your Best White for Wedding Dresses04:11 Color Analysis Process Explained07:30 Color Analysis for Bridesmaids and Wedding Parties09:08 Seasonal Color Tips and Universal Colors14:45 The Experience of Professional Color Analysis15:24 Spray Tans and Wedding Day Tips17:31 Conclusion and Contact InformationConnect with Katie: https://www.instagram.com/houseofcolour_southmtpleasant/Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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#1: Let’s Be Real: Wedding Budget Tips, Hot Takes & Vendor Truths
Welcome to the very first episode of RSVP Thanks! Lindsey and Kam kick things off with real-talk advice for anyone just starting their wedding planning journey — including timeline tips, budget breakdowns, and the truth about why vendors don’t always list their pricing.They also answer some of your hotline questions (like whether you should do a first look) and wrap up with some rapid-fire hot takes — from bouquet toss debates to garter removal, videographer vs. content creator, and more. Got a story, rant, or planning question? Call or text the hotline at 320-558-RSVP (320-558-7787) and dish it ALL - all calls and texts are anonymous!Follow us on our socials:Instagram - rsvp_thanks_podTik Tok - rsvp.thanks.pod
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
RSVP Thanks is the wedding podcast for brides who’ve had it, vendors who’ve seen it all, and anyone who needs a laugh with their event planning.We’re talking real stories, real chaos, and actually helpful tips from the pros. Dress disasters? MIL meltdowns? Vendors who ghost? Yep, we’ve got receipts.New episodes drop every Wednesday.Have a story that’s too good not to share? Call our hotline: 320-558-RSVP — and maybe your drama will make the next episode.
HOSTED BY
Lindsey Heatherington & Kameron Brown
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