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RU STRONG
by Jeff Durr
Welcome to RU Strong, hosted by Jeff Durr! This podcast is a platform for current and former college athletes to share their stories of resilience, perseverance, and strength. Join us as we delve into the mental and physical challenges athletes encounter both on and off the field. From the intense pressures of competition to the transition out of sports, we'll explore how these experiences shape their lives.
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Who Coaches The Coaches - Tracy Slusser - Episode 160
Welcome back to another episode of the RU Strong Podcast.Today’s guest is Tracy Slusser, whose journey proves that some of life’s greatest challenges can become the foundation for extraordinary success.Growing up with a learning disability, Tracy struggled in the classroom but found confidence, belonging, and purpose through sports.At Purdue University, she became a three-time NCAA Championship qualifier, an honorable mention All-American, and the first swimmer in school history to break 23 seconds in the 50-yard freestyle.Just as meaningful, she earned Academic All-Big Ten honors three times and graduated with honors, accomplishing something she once thought might be impossible.Her coaching career took her to Texas A&M, the University of Arizona, and Stanford, where she served as associate head coach and helped build one of the most dominant programs in collegiate swimming.At Stanford, Tracy contributed to three consecutive NCAA national championships, seven Pac-12 championships, and the development of 30 individual national champions and 18 national championship relay teams. She also helped recruit some of the biggest names in swimming, including Katie Ledecky.But after reaching the highest levels of her profession, Tracy found herself asking an important question: Who is coaching the coaches?That question inspired her next chapter as an executive leadership coach, helping coaches and high-performing leaders build confidence, strengthen team culture, prevent burnout, and lead with greater purpose.In this episode, we discuss overcoming learning challenges, the power of coaches who believe in you, what it takes to build a championship culture, and why investing in yourself can change the direction of your life.Please join me in welcoming Tracy Slusser to the RU Strong Podcast.
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I Said No - Dr. Jen Fry - Episode 159
Welcome back to another episode of the RU Strong Podcast.Today’s guest is Dr. Jen Fry, a former college volleyball player and coach whose journey proves that sometimes the most meaningful opportunities come from paths you never expected to take.Jen began her education at a junior college before earning her bachelor’s degree, two master’s degrees, and ultimately her PhD.Her coaching career included stops at Norfolk State, Washington State, and the University of Illinois, where she helped coach a team that reached the national championship match.But her story extends far beyond volleyball.After experiencing the uncertainty and challenges of college coaching, Jen reinvented herself as an entrepreneur, speaker, author, and founder of multiple companies, including Jen Fry Talks and Cordel, a sports travel logistics platform.Today, she helps athletes, coaches, and organizations navigate difficult conversations, strengthen relationships, and find the confidence to advocate for themselves.In this episode, we discuss the risks she took throughout her coaching career, the power of asking better questions, why conflict can create opportunities for growth, and how athletes can build meaningful connections that prepare them for life beyond sports.Jen also shares an important reminder that applies to all of us: You do not need every opportunity. You just need one.Please welcome to the RU Strong Podcast, Dr. Jen Fry.
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Beyond The Mound - Charlie Ruiz - Episode 158
Welcome back to another episode of the RU Strong Podcast.Today’s guest is Charlie Ruiz, whose journey proves that where you begin does not determine where you can go.Charlie played only one healthy season of varsity baseball and received little attention from college recruiters. He began at Chabot College, earned a scholarship to Long Beach State, became an honorable mention All-Big West Conference closer, and was selected by the Colorado Rockies in the 10th round of the 2009 Major League Baseball Draft.After two years in professional baseball, Charlie faced one of the toughest challenges many athletes experience: figuring out who he was when the game was over.That transition helped him discover that his greatest strengths were building relationships, connecting with people, and helping others recognize the value of their own stories.Today, Charlie is the founder of CLR Connection, where he helps executives and organizations strengthen their leadership, communication, and identity.In this episode, we discuss Charlie’s rise from an overlooked high school athlete to professional baseball, the challenges of transitioning out of sports, and why understanding your identity is essential for success in the next chapter of life.Welcome to the RU Strong Podcast, Charlie Ruiz.
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Beyond The Game - Erin Sarles Bowers & Thomas Roe - Episode 157
Welcome back to the RU Strong Podcast. Today, I’m joined by two remarkable leaders who are changing the way athletes, parents, and coaches think about success.Erin Sarles Bowers is an executive and leadership coach, a former corporate leader, and the co-founder and CEO of Blueprint to Blue Chip. Drawing on her professional experience and her journey as the mother of two young athletes, Erin helps people develop the character, confidence, and identity needed to thrive far beyond the playing field.Joining her is Thomas Roe, a former University of Arizona football player whose career-ending neck injury forced him to rebuild his identity at just 19 years old. Today, Thomas brings more than 25 years of experience in sports performance and rehabilitation to his work as co-creator and CEO of Blueprint to Blue Chip. He’s also an Ironman, a Route 66 endurance cyclist, and the author of Swim, Bike, Run, Date and F-Bombs: From Average to Asset.Together, Erin and Thomas co-host The Standard Podcast and help athletes become not only bigger, faster, and stronger, but people of character, integrity, and discipline, with every step.Today, we’ll talk about adversity, identity, parenting young athletes, and why preparing for life beyond sports may be the most important training of all.Please welcome Thomas Roe and Erin Sarles Bowers to the RU Strong Podcast.
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The Intentional Edge - Jeff Jones - Episode 156
Welcome back to the RU Strong Podcast. I’m your host, Jeff Durr, and today we’re talking about what it means to develop the intentional edge.My guest is Jeff Jones, the Head Football Athletic Performance Coach at the University of Northern Iowa and the author of The Intentional Edge: 10 Reps to Mental Toughness. Across more than 20 years in athletic performance, Jeff has coached at programs including Boise State, Arkansas State, Auburn, Appalachian State, Luther College, and Fairfield High School. Along the way, he has contributed to conference championships, Fiesta Bowl victories, and a BCS National Championship appearance.But Jeff is much more than his résumé. He is a husband, father, mentor, and lifelong learner who cares deeply about continuous improvement and making a difference in the lives of others. His philosophy is simple but powerful: mental toughness isn’t something we merely talk about—it’s something we train through intentional reps.In this conversation, Jeff shares how transformational coaches shaped his life, why relationships must come before results, and how gratitude, discipline, confidence, identity, and purpose help us respond to adversity. We also explore why training the mind matters far beyond sports—and how small, intentional choices can change the way we perform, lead, and live.This episode is about building resilient people, not just stronger athletes. It is my honor to welcome Jeff Jones.
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Bet On Yourself - Kennedy Muff Episode 155
What happens when you're willing to bet on yourself?This week on the RU Strong Podcast, I'm joined by former collegiate volleyball standout Kennedy Muff, and her journey is one every athlete, coach, parent, and leader needs to hear.Kennedy went from being a four-time conference champion and All-American setter at Flagler College to taking one of the biggest risks of her career,walking on at the University of Florida. No guarantees. No promises. Just belief in herself. That leap of faith earned her a scholarship and a starting role on one of the nation's premier volleyball programs.But this episode goes far beyond volleyball.We dive into the mental and physical challenges of recovering from devastating injuries, the discipline it takes to rehab while everyone else is living life, and the emotional reality of having your athletic identity taken away sooner than expected. Kennedy shares what it's really like to battle through ACL, MCL, and meniscus injuries, the sacrifices required to return to competition, and the transition every athlete eventually faces when the game comes to an end.We also discuss:🏐 Why the setter is the "quarterback" of a volleyball team.🏐 The recruiting process and how she found the right college fit.🏐 Leadership, communication, and building trust with teammates.🏐 Why investing in yourself is never a sacrifice.🏐 How the lessons learned through athletics continue to shape success in business and life.Kennedy's story is one of courage, resilience, humility, and relentless perseverance. If you've ever faced adversity, questioned your next step, or wondered who you are beyond your sport, this conversation will leave you inspired.
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BUILDING CHAMPIONSHIP CULTURE - Joe Adam - Episode 154
What does it really take to build a championship culture in today's ever-changing world of college football?This week on the RU Strong Podcast, I sit down with Joe Adam, the all-time winningest head football coach in the history of Saint Anselm College. Coach Adam's journey is one of grit, perseverance, and leadership, from fighting for an opportunity as an overlooked player, to helping win two NCAA Division II National Championships at Grand Valley State, to learning under legendary coach Brian Kelly, and ultimately building a winning culture of his own.In this powerful conversation, Joe shares:• How being overlooked fueled his success.• The lessons he learned from championship teams.• The leadership principles that create winning cultures.• His perspective on NIL, the transfer portal, and the future of college football.• Why serving others and developing young people has become his life's mission.Whether you're an athlete, coach, business leader, parent, or simply someone chasing excellence, this episode is packed with timeless lessons on resilience, leadership, and staying true to your values.This isn't just a football conversation, it's a masterclass on building people, building teams, and building a legacy.
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Beyond the Game: Building Your Brand - Sabrina Oostburg - Episode 153
Every once in a while, I have a guest who completely changes the way I think about a topic. Sabrina Oostburg did exactly that.When most people hear "NIL," they think about big contracts, endorsements, and college athletes making money. Sabrina sees something much bigger. She sees opportunities, personal branding, and preparing athletes for success long after their playing days are over.Sabrina's story is incredible. She started as a Division I track and field athlete, earned her degree in Sports Administration from Belmont University, built a social media following of more than 150,000 people, founded NIL Roadmap, and has become one of the brightest young voices helping student athletes navigate the ever-changing world of NIL.What I loved most about our conversation wasn't just her knowledge, it was her passion. She genuinely wants to help athletes avoid the mistakes she had to figure out on her own. We talked about building a personal brand, protecting your reputation, creating opportunities, preparing for life after sports, and why your name may be the most valuable asset you'll ever own.Whether you're a student-athlete, coach, parent, athletic administrator, or just someone who wants to understand where college athletics is headed, this episode is full of practical advice and fresh perspectives.I really enjoyed this conversation, and I think you will too.If you enjoy the conversation, please like, subscribe, and share it with someone who could benefit from Sabrina's story.#RUStrong #NIL #StudentAthletes #PersonalBrand #Leadership #CollegeAthletics #SportsBusiness #AthleteDevelopment #Podcast
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Building Champions On And Off The Field - Stephen Bienko - Episode 152
You know, occasionally, you meet someone whose story reminds you that success isn't built by taking the easy road, it's built by choosing challenges that most people would run from.Today's guest is one of those people.Stephen Bienko has spent his entire life pushing himself beyond what most people think is possible. As a young athlete, he earned the opportunity to attend the United States Air Force Academy, where he competed in Division I football, track and field, and even boxing, all while balancing one of the toughest academic and military environments in the country. Later, he transferred to Villanova, where he continued competing as a Division I athlete.But athletics were just the beginning.Stephen went on to build the Institute of Athletic Performance, where he's helped develop NFL, MLB, NBA, Olympic-level, and hundreds of collegiate athletes. Today, as the co-founder of 42U, he's helping student-athletes navigate the ever-changing world of NIL, personal branding, career development, and life beyond sports.What I enjoyed most about this conversation wasn't just his accomplishments, it was his honesty.We talk about what it feels like to be overwhelmed, leaving home at 18, struggling mentally at the Air Force Academy, making one of the toughest decisions of his life, and the lessons that shaped the man he is today. We also dive into leadership, fatherhood, resilience, and why he believes today's athletes have opportunities that previous generations never imagined.So, sit back, enjoy the conversation, and as alwaysBe encouraged. Be inspired. And most importantly, Be RU Strong.Please help me welcome my guest, Stephen Bienko.
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From Running at Rutgers to Running for Congress - Walter Kirkland Episode 151
Today's guest is someone I've been looking forward to talking with.Walter Kirkland has lived an incredible life. He came to Rutgers on a full scholarship and went on to become a four-time All-American, an NCAA National Champion, and a member of the Rutgers Athletic Hall of Fame. But what really impressed me is that he didn't stop competing when his track career ended.He took that same work ethic, discipline, and competitive drive into the business world, where he built an outstanding career with companies like Xerox, Honeywell, Samsung, and GE Healthcare. Everywhere he went, he found success because he approached business the same way he approached competition with preparation, consistency, and an attitude that said, I'm going to outwork everyone else.But here's what I appreciate most about Walter,He believes success isn't just about what you accomplish, it's about what you give back.Today he's mentoring hundreds of young people, helping them build confidence, leadership skills, and hope for their future. And now, he's taken on one of the biggest challenges of his life by stepping into the political arena and running for Congress.In this conversation, we talk about his journey from Rutgers to corporate America, why athletes have such an advantage in business, the importance of mentorship, the lessons he's learned through success and adversity, and what it really takes to lead when the stakes are high.Whether you're an athlete, a coach, a business professional, or someone chasing a big dream, I think you're going to take something away from Walter's story.So let's get after it.Here's my conversation with Walter Kirkland.
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THE CHAMPION & THE COACH - ROB KOLL- Episode 150
I got to sit down with someone I've been looking forward to talking with for a long time.When people think about the greatest coaches in college wrestling, today's guest is always part of that conversation. But what makes him so impressive isn't just the championships he's won or the All-Americans he's coached, it's the impact he's had on thousands of athletes over the course of his career.As a wrestler, he was a National Champion at North Carolina, a four-time All-American, and one of the best to ever wear a Tar Heel singlet.Then he took over at Cornell and completely transformed that program into a national powerhouse. Along the way, he won 20 conference championships, coached dozens of All-Americans and NCAA finalists, developed multiple National Champions, and built a culture that became the standard for college wrestling.After helping rebuild Stanford Wrestling, he returned home to North Carolina, where he's once again building something special.But here's what I really wanted to talk to him about...How do you stay motivated after you've already accomplished so much?How do you build a championship culture year after year?How do you lead young people through adversity, through change, and now through an era of NIL and the transfer portal?Those are the conversations that matter.Whether you're a coach, an athlete, a business leader, or someone who's simply trying to become the best version of yourself, I think you're going to take something away from this episode.So sit back, enjoy the conversation, and help me welcome one of the most respected coaches in the history of college wrestling.Coach Rob Koll.
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Why She Walked Away from a Full Scholarship- Ava Caravela- Episode 149 148
I'm really excited about today's guest because I finally got to complete the Caravela family trifecta. I've had the privilege of interviewing both her father, Tom, and her brother, Dean, and after those conversations, they both told me the same thing: "You've got to have Ava on the show."And they were right.Ava's story is about so much more than gymnastics. It's about sacrifice, resilience, and having the courage to keep moving forward when life throws unexpected challenges your way. She dedicated her childhood to one of the toughest sports in the world, earned the opportunity to compete at the University of Pennsylvania, battled through serious injuries, and then successfully transitioned into the demanding world of investment banking in New York City.In today's conversation, we'll talk about the discipline it takes to pursue excellence, how she handled adversity throughout her athletic career, what she learned as an Ivy League student-athlete, and how those same lessons continue to drive her success in business today. If you're an athlete, a coach, a parent, or someone striving to be your best, I think you'll take something away from Ava's journey.Please join me in welcoming gymnast, Ivy League graduate, investment banker, and an outstanding young professional, Ava Caravela.
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Reasons To Believe - Superbowl Champion - Gary Reasons- Episode 148
Welcome back to the RU Strong Podcast, where we share the stories of athletes who have overcome challenges, achieved greatness, and are now making an impact far beyond the game.Today's guest is someone who truly defines what it means to live with relentless pursuit.Gary Reasons grew up in Texas and earned a football scholarship to Northwestern State University, where he became a three-time First Team Division I-AA All-American and was later inducted into the College Football Hall of Fame, the Louisiana Sports Hall of Fame, and the Northwestern State Hall of Fame.He was selected by the New York Giants in the fourth round of the 1984 NFL Draft and went on to become a two-time Super Bowl Champion, an NFL All-Rookie Team selection, and one of the Top 100 Players in New York Giants history. He played alongside legends like Lawrence Taylor and Harry Carson during one of the greatest eras in NFL history.After football, Gary built an incredible second career with more than 30 years as a broadcaster for FOX, ESPN, and ABC Sports, while also spending over 20 years in business leadership and technology sales. Today, he continues to inspire leaders and teams through his platform, Reasons to Believe, where he teaches the principles of leadership, culture, preparation, accountability, and relentless effort.In this episode, Gary shares what it was like growing up as the first athlete from his hometown to earn a Division I football scholarship, the lessons he learned from Bill Parcells and Bill Belichick, what made those New York Giants championship teams so special, and why preparation and effort remain the foundation of success in sports, business, and life.Whether you're an athlete, coach, business leader, or simply someone striving to become the best version of yourself, this conversation is filled with timeless lessons you won't want to miss.Please help me welcome two-time Super Bowl Champion, College Football Hall of Famer, leadership expert, and my friend, Gary Reasons.
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Overlooked to MLB - Scott Schebler - Episode 147
Today's guest is someone whose journey proves that being overlooked doesn't determine your future.Scott Schebler went from receiving very little recruiting attention out of high school in Iowa to playing one season of junior college baseball before being selected by the Los Angeles Dodgers in the 26th round of the MLB Draft. Most people would have seen the odds against him. Scott saw an opportunity.Over the next 13 years, he built an incredible professional career, spending seven seasons in Major League Baseball with the Los Angeles Dodgers, Cincinnati Reds, Los Angeles Angels, Atlanta Braves, and Colorado Rockies. Along the way, he earned multiple Minor League All-Star selections, was named Minor League Player of the Year, and developed into one of the game's most respected competitors.But this episode isn't just about baseball. It's about perseverance, resilience, being overlooked, trusting the right mentors, handling adversity, and what it really takes to turn potential into performance. Today, Scott is helping athletes navigate the transition into their next careers, giving back by sharing the lessons he learned throughout his own journey.If you're an athlete, coach, parent, or anyone chasing a dream that others may not see yet, this conversation is for you.Please join me in welcoming former Major League Baseball player, Scott Schebler, to the RU Strong Podcast.
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Wendy Boglioli - From a 17-Yard Pool to Olympic Gold - Episode 146
Welcome back to another episode of the RU Strong Podcast.Today, I’m excited to bring you the story of an athlete whose journey embodies everything this show stands for, resilience, perseverance, discipline, and the courage to pursue a dream when others doubt it can be done.My guest is Wendy Boglioli, an Olympic Gold Medalist, Olympic Bronze Medalist, Hall of Famer, former American record holder, and one of the most accomplished swimmers in American history. From her beginnings in a small town of Wisconsin to competing on the world’s biggest stage, Wendy’s path to Olympic success was anything but ordinary.A standout swimmer at Monmouth University, Wendy went on to capture Olympic Gold in the 4x100-meter freestyle relay and Olympic Bronze in the 100-meter butterfly at the 1976 Olympic Games in Montreal. She is also a member of the United States Olympic & Paralympic Hall of Fame and the International Swimming Hall of Fame.In this episode, Wendy shares the powerful influence of her parents, the lessons she learned through years of training and competition, the sacrifices required to chase an Olympic dream, and the mindset that helped her overcome obstacles both in and out of the pool. We also discuss the historic 1976 Olympics, the challenges faced by Team USA, and how one conversation with a coach changed the trajectory of her life forever.Whether you're an athlete, coach, parent, business professional, or someone pursuing a dream of your own, Wendy’s story will remind you of the impact that belief, hard work, and the right people can have on your journey.Please help me welcome Olympic Gold Medalist, Hall of Famer, motivational speaker, and healthy aging advocate, Wendy Boglioli, to the RU Strong Podcast.
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How Jack Betts Rewrote the NIL Playbook - Episode 145
Welcome to another episode of the RU Strong Podcast. Today, I have a guest whose story is a powerful example of what can happen when preparation meets opportunity.Growing up in Dallas, Texas, Jack Betts developed a passion for football at an early age. While many athletes dream of playing Division I football, Jack chose a different path, traveling nearly 1,800 miles from home to attend Amherst College, one of the most academically prestigious institutions in the country. There, he became a two-way football player, competing as both a wide receiver and defensive back while earning degrees in English and Native American Studies.Like many athletes, Jack faced adversity throughout his journey. Injuries challenged his playing career, COVID disrupted his college experience, and he was forced to navigate uncertainty at a time when many athletes were simply trying to survive. But instead of viewing those challenges as setbacks, Jack used them as springboards.When NIL launched in 2021, Jack saw an opportunity that most Division III athletes believed didn't exist. Through relentless networking, self-advocacy, creativity, and professionalism, he built relationships with more than 40 brands and became one of the most successful NIL pioneers in Division III athletics. His success wasn't built on fame, follower counts, or playing at a Power Four school, it was built on relationships, consistency, and the willingness to bet on himself.His passion for helping other athletes led him to found the Make Your Own Legacy Academy, where he helped athletes from Division II, Division III, NAIA, and JUCO programs learn how to build their personal brands and maximize their NIL opportunities.Today, Jack has come full circle. After earning his master’s degree in Sport Management from SMU, he now serves as the NIL Partnership Solutions Coordinator for SMU Athletics, helping hundreds of student-athletes navigate one of the most rapidly changing landscapes in college sports.In this episode, we'll discuss leadership, adversity, athlete identity, the realities of NIL, building a personal brand, and why some of life's greatest opportunities often come disguised as challenges.If you're an athlete, coach, parent, or someone navigating change in your own life, I think you'll find a lot of value in Jack's journey.Please join me in welcoming Jack Betts to the RU Strong Podcast.
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Matt Simms From The Field To Purpose - Episode 144
Welcome back to another episode of the RU Strong Podcast. I'm your host, Jeff Durr, and today I’m excited to be joined by former Don Bosco Prep standout, college quarterback, NFL veteran, media personality, coach, and entrepreneur, Matt Simms.Growing up in Northern New Jersey as the son of New York Giants legend and Super Bowl champion Phil Simms, Matt was surrounded by football from an early age. But as you'll hear in this conversation, his journey was never about following someone else's path, it was about creating his own.A star quarterback at Don Bosco Prep, Matt led one of the nation's premier high school football programs before continuing his football journey through Louisville, El Camino College, and Tennessee. His hard work and perseverance eventually earned him opportunities in the NFL with the New York Jets, Buffalo Bills, and Atlanta Falcons.In this episode, Matt shares the realities of growing up in a football family, the lessons learned from legendary coaches and mentors, the challenges he faced during his college career, and how adversity became one of his greatest teachers. He opens up about accountability, resilience, personal growth, and the importance of learning from mistakes rather than being defined by them.We also discuss the changing landscape of youth sports, recruiting, quarterback development, leadership, confidence, and why some of the most important lessons athletes learn happen long after the final whistle.Today, Matt is the founder of Simms Complete, where he helps develop the next generation of quarterbacks by teaching not only the physical side of the game, but also the mental, emotional, and leadership skills required for success both on and off the field.This is a powerful conversation about identity, perseverance, growth, and finding purpose through life's challenges.Please welcome former NFL quarterback, coach, mentor, and one of New Jersey's most respected football minds, Matt Simms, to the RU Strong Podcast.
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Kayla Bock: Athlete To Impact Leader- Episode 143
Welcome back to another episode of the RU Strong Podcast. I’m your host, Jeff Durr, and today I’m excited to welcome former Rutgers University softball player, athlete leader, and rising star in collegiate athletic development, Kayla Bock.Kayla’s story is all about leadership, resilience, identity, and finding purpose beyond the game.Growing up in Coatesville, Pennsylvania, Kayla was a two-sport standout athlete who excelled in both softball and swimming. She was the 2020 Female Athlete of the Year, a varsity captain in both sports, a two-time All-Area First Team selection, and an All-State honorable mention swimmer before taking her talents to Rutgers University to compete in Big Ten softball.But what makes Kayla’s journey so powerful is that her impact extended far beyond the field.While balancing the demands of Division I athletics during the challenges of the COVID era, Kayla became heavily involved in student-athlete leadership and mental health advocacy. She served as President of Rutgers’ Student-Athlete Advisory Committee, Vice President of Mental Health and Wellness, helped launch Rutgers Athletics’ first-ever “Life After Sports” panel, created a freshman student-athlete mentorship program, and organized mental health and suicide prevention initiatives for athletes.After graduation, Kayla continued her mission of helping athletes succeed beyond sports by working for the Big Ten Conference in athletic development and community engagement before serving as Chief Operating Officer for Scottfield Project, helping lead youth athletic redevelopment initiatives.Today, at just 24 years old, Kayla is the Assistant Athletic Director for Student-Athlete Success at La Salle University, where she focuses on athlete development, leadership, career readiness, mental wellness, and helping nearly 600 student-athletes prepare for life after the game.In this episode, Kayla shares her journey through leadership, recruiting, COVID, athletic identity struggles, mental health challenges, career development, and what it truly means to help athletes transition successfully beyond sports.This is an inspiring conversation about perseverance, growth, leadership, and using your platform to positively impact others.
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Building Championship Mindsets with Joel Honigford - Episode 142
Former University of Michigan football player and former NFL athlete Joel Honigford joins me on this episode of the RU Strong Podcast for a powerful conversation about leadership, mental toughness, adversity, discipline, and the mindset required to compete at the highest levels of college football and the NFL.Joel shares his incredible journey from a small-town Ohio athlete growing up in Amish country to becoming a five-time letter winner at Michigan, earning a degree in mechanical engineering, competing in the College Football Playoff, and eventually playing in the NFL with the Arizona Cardinals and other organizations.We dive deep into:🏈 The recruiting process and choosing Michigan over Ohio State🏈 The pressure and mental challenges of competing at an elite level🏈 Transitioning from offensive lineman to tight end under Coach Jim Harbaugh🏈 How leadership and mindset transformed Michigan football🏈 The reality of the NFL and the mental side of professional sports🏈 Building resilience, accountability, and confidence through adversity🏈 Why mental strength is just as important as physical strengthJoel also discusses how his experiences shaped his mission today as a mental strength and conditioning coach, helping athletes, teams, and business professionals improve performance under pressure and develop championship-level mindsets.This episode is packed with lessons on perseverance, adaptability, leadership, and personal growth that apply far beyond sports.
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Beyond The Finish Line: The Real Story - Dave Emeott - Episode 141
Today’s guest is Dave Emeott, Co-Athletic Director and legendary Head Track & Field Coach at East Kentwood High School in Michigan. Since taking over the program in 1998, Dave has built one of the most dominant high school track programs in America, winning 8 State Championships, a National Championship, and developing countless collegiate athletes and leaders along the way.But this episode is about far more than championships and trophies.This is a story about transformation.Dave openly shares the difficult realities of his childhood, growing up in poverty, dealing with abuse and alcoholism inside his home, spending time in jail at 17 years old, and facing moments that could have completely changed the direction of his life forever.Instead of allowing his pain to define him, Dave used it to fuel a mission bigger than himself:to save kids, build leaders, and become the type of mentor he desperately needed when he was younger.We dive deep into:🏆 Building a championship culture💥 Why greatness often comes from adversity🧠 The mental side of coaching and leadership🙏 The power of vulnerability and honesty👨👩👧👦 Family, redemption, and second chances📖 His powerful new book, Beyond the Finish Line: The Art of Transformational Coaching🔥 What true winning really means in lifeDave’s perspective on coaching, leadership, resilience, and personal growth is one every athlete, coach, parent, educator, and leader needs to hear.This is not just a conversation about sports.It’s a conversation about life.
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Beyond The Redzone: BJ Daniels’ Story - Episode 140
🏈 The RU Strong Podcast Episode with BJ Daniels is NOW LIVE! 🎙️🔥From growing up in a dorm room on Florida State’s campus dreaming of one day playing college football to becoming a four-year starting quarterback at University of South Florida to competing in three Super Bowls and winning a championship in the NFL. BJ Daniels’ journey is filled with resilience, pressure, adversity, leadership, and purpose.In this powerful episode, BJ takes us deep inside the mental and emotional side of being an elite athlete. He shares what it was like stepping into his very first college start as an 18-year-old freshman in front of 90,000 fans at Florida State, the pressure of leading a Division I football program, and the mindset required to compete at the highest levels of football.BJ also opens up about:🏈 The recruiting process and overcoming doubt as an undersized quarterback🏈 The discipline and preparation required to lead a college football team🏈 The emotional highs and lows of being a starting quarterback under constant scrutiny🏈 The transition from college football to the NFL🏈 Dealing with criticism, expectations, injuries, and setbacks🏈 The mental toughness required to survive and thrive in professional sports🏈 Leadership lessons learned from football that apply directly to life🏈 Why mental health awareness and athlete identity matter so much after sportsWe also dive into the inspiration behind his book, Beyond the Redzone, and his mission to help athletes and others understand that there is purpose, growth, and life beyond the game.This conversation is raw, honest, inspiring, and packed with lessons for athletes, coaches, parents, leaders, and anyone facing adversity in life.
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From TV Anchor to NIL Leader | Steph Grady’s Powerful Journey
🎙️ New Episode of the RU Strong Podcast!I had an awesome conversation with Steph Grady, former television news anchor, internationally competitive figure skater, founder of The NIL School, and CEO of Influential Athlete, one of the leading NIL education companies focused on helping female athletes build confidence, personal brands, and opportunities beyond sports.Steph shared her incredible journey from elite athletics to a 17-year broadcasting career and ultimately taking a leap of faith into entrepreneurship and the rapidly changing NIL world. I really enjoyed hearing her perspective on confidence, mindset, communication, leadership, and helping young athletes discover their value both on and off the field.In this episode, we discuss:🏒 Transitioning from elite athletics into life after sports📺 Leaving a successful television career to pursue entrepreneurship💡 The evolving NIL landscape and athlete branding🧠 Confidence, mindset, and overcoming self-doubt🎯 The Four Levels of Skill Development👨👩👧👦 The important role parents play in NIL opportunities🔥 Why athletes struggle with putting themselves out there💼 Helping athletes discover their value beyond sports🚀 Developing proactive confidence through repetition and action🏆 Building communication, leadership, and personal branding skillsSteph brings incredible energy, authenticity, and leadership to this conversation. This episode is packed with valuable lessons for athletes, parents, coaches, entrepreneurs, and anyone navigating growth and transition in life.#RUStrong #Podcast #NIL #StudentAthletes #FemaleAthletes #AthleteDevelopment #Leadership #Mindset #PersonalBranding #Entrepreneurship #MentalStrength #Confidence #SportsBusiness #CollegeAthletes #AthleteMindset #JeffDurr #InfluentialAthlete #TheNILSchool #GrowthMindset #SportsLeadership
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Hanging Up The Jersey: The Mental Transition with Caitlin Broadwell - Episode 138
🎙️ I’m excited to share another powerful episode of the RU Strong Podcast featuring former college indoor and beach volleyball player, sports psychology professional, therapist, and founder of the Hanging Up The Jersey Podcast, Caitlin Broadwell.Caitlin’s story is one that so many athletes will connect with. From being a highly recruited volleyball player to battling Graves’ Disease at just 14 years old, she opens up about the emotional and psychological challenges that came with having the game she loved almost taken away from her.In this episode, we dive deep into:🏐 The pressure and stress of the college recruiting process🏐 Transitioning from Division II volleyball to LSU beach volleyball🏐 The emotional toll of injuries, illness, and identity struggles🏐 The loneliness many athletes feel after their playing days end🏐 Why athlete identity can become difficult to separate from real life🏐 The mental side of competing at elite collegiate levels🏐 How Caitlin now helps athletes navigate life after sports through therapy, speaking, podcasts, and her workbook Hanging Up The JerseyOne of the most powerful parts of this conversation was hearing Caitlin talk about the transition out of athletics and how difficult it can be when the structure, teammates, support systems, and identity tied to sports suddenly disappear.This episode is filled with valuable lessons for athletes, parents, coaches, and anyone navigating adversity, pressure, mental health, and life after the game.#RUStrong #MentalHealth #StudentAthletes #Volleyball #BeachVolleyball #SportsPsychology #AthleteTransition #Leadership #Mindset #CollegeAthletes #FormerAthletes #MentalPerformance #Podcast
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Raymont Harris " Control The Controllables" Episode 137
On this episode of the RU Strong Podcast, I sit down with a true competitor, leader, and mindset expert Raymont Harris.From starring at Ohio State Buckeyes football, where he was an All-Big Ten selection, Team MVP, and one of the program’s all-time leading rushers, to competing in the NFL with the Chicago Bears, Green Bay Packers, and New England Patriots, Raymont’s journey is built on resilience, perseverance, and relentless growth.But his story goes far beyond football.After his playing career, Raymont returned to Ohio State as the Director of Player Development for over 14 years, helping shape the lives of countless student-athletes. Today, he’s the Founder & CEO of Elite Mindset and Performance, a professional speaker, and the author of Control the Controllables, impacting athletes, teams, and organizations across the country.In this powerful conversation, Raymont shares:• The mindset shift that changed his career and life • What it really takes to succeed at the highest level • The truth about transitioning out of the game • Why resilience and self-awareness are the ultimate competitive advantages • How today’s athletes can navigate pressure, NIL, and life after sports This episode is packed with lessons for athletes, coaches, and anyone striving to become the best version of themselves.
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Aanya Trivedi “Future Doctor. Athlete. Author.”
🎙️ RU Strong Podcast – Featuring Aanya TrivediOn this episode of the RU Strong Podcast, I sit down with an incredibly inspiring young leader, Aanya Trivedi and trust me, this is one you don’t want to miss.At just 17 years old, Aanya is already redefining what it means to be driven, resilient, and purpose-driven. A junior at a top academic magnet school, a competitive track athlete with over 100 medals, an executive board member of a nonprofit focused on financial literacy, and the author of the powerful book Finding Her Stride, Aanya is living proof that age is just a number when it comes to impact.But what makes this conversation truly special isn’t just her résumé, it’s her mindset.Aanya opens up about:• Battling adversity and performance setbacks in her athletic journey • The mental toughness required to push through when results aren’t showing • The power of journaling, reflection, and reconnecting with your “why” • The influence of family, mentorship, and unwavering support • Turning pain into purpose—from personal loss to serving others • And how she’s already thinking about making an impact in the medical field Her story is raw, emotional, and incredibly real, highlighting that true strength isn’t about always winning, it’s about continuing to show up, even when it’s hard.This episode is a must-listen for:• Student-athletes • Parents • Coaches • And anyone navigating pressure, adversity, and growth
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Dean Caravela From The Mat To Leading Marines Episode 135
This is one of those episodes that truly defines what RU Strong is all about resilience, discipline, and doing things the right way when no one is watching.Today’s guest, Dean Caravela, is a name that represents excellence, both on and off the mat.A standout wrestler out of Caldwell High School, Dean was a four-year varsity athlete, two-time New Jersey state medalist, and an All-State performer, all while being a member of the National Honor Society.But his journey didn’t stop there.Dean took his talents to the prestigious United States Naval Academy, where he competed at the Division I level, balancing elite athletics, rigorous academics, and military training at one of the most demanding institutions in the country.After graduating, he went on to serve our country as an officer in the United States Marine Corps, taking on high-level leadership responsibilities overseas in Okinawa, Japan.Now transitioning into the next chapter of his life, back home, building a career with his family, Dean brings with him lessons in accountability, sacrifice, mental toughness, and leadership that only a journey like his can provide.In this episode, we cover:• Turning adversity into a breakthrough moment • The discipline required to compete at the highest level • Life at the Naval Academy and serving in the Marines • Leadership, accountability, and brotherhood • Transitioning from military life to the next chapter This is a powerful conversation about what it really means to stay committed, embrace the grind, and come full circle.
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“Beyond Football: The Blueprint for Life After the Game”- Tobruk Blaine
On this episode of the RU Strong Podcast, we’re joined by one of the most impactful voices in college athletics today, Tobruk “TB” Blaine.From her early days as a multi-sport athlete and collegiate cheerleader to becoming a championship-winning coach and now the Director of Player Development at the University of Arizona, TB has built her career on resilience, grit, and an unwavering commitment to helping athletes succeed beyond the game.With advanced degrees in health education and educational leadership, and leadership roles at Boise State and San Jose State, she has been at the forefront of redefining what athlete development truly means. She is also the founder of The Athlete Career Lab (TACL), a platform dedicated to preparing athletes for life after sports.In this powerful conversation, TB dives into:• Developing a mindset fueled by adversity and a relentless drive to prove yourself • Navigating confidence, doubt, and imposter syndrome in high-performance environments • Building the groundbreaking “Beyond Football” program from the ground up • Why so many athletes struggle with identity and direction after their playing days • The importance of explore, inspire, and cultivate in creating success beyond the field Her mission is simple but powerful: to ensure every athlete leaves their experience saying, “I’m so glad I did,” instead of “I wish I would have.”This is a must-listen episode for athletes, coaches, and anyone looking to build a winning mindset for life after the game.
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“FROM DOUBT TO DOMINANCE - Larry Long Jr.”
🔥 Just Dropped: RU Strong Podcast with Larry Long Jr. 🔥Get ready for one of the most electrifying, high-energy episodes we’ve ever had on the RU Strong Podcast.This week, I sit down with Larry Long Jr. a former University of Maryland baseball standout turned “Chief Energy Officer” who is now impacting lives across the globe through speaking, leadership, and service.From the very first minute, Larry brings a level of energy and authenticity that you don’t just hear, you feel it.🎙️ In this episode, we dive into:• His journey from Division I athlete to global speaker • The mindset shift from self-doubt to self-belief • The power of daily discipline vs. motivation • Why “We > Me” is the ultimate game-changer • How setbacks, failure, and adversity shaped his success Larry’s story is built on grit, perspective, and relentless positivity, from getting told he “talked too much” as a kid, to now getting paid to speak on stages around the world. 💥 One of the biggest takeaways:“Control what you can control, your attitude, your effort, and how you treat people.”This is more than a conversation,It’s a jolt of energy, leadership, and perspective that every athlete, coach, and professional needs to hear.🎧 This is a MUST LISTEN episode.
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“He Was the #1 QB… Then Everything Changed” Max Browne USC QB- ESPN
This is a MUST LISTEN episode.I had the opportunity to sit down with former USC & Pitt quarterback,Max Browne a two-time team captain, former #1 QB recruit in the country,ESPN college football analyst, and host of The Max Browne Show.And I’ll tell you, this one goes way deeper than football.Max opens up about:🔥 The pressure of being the top recruit in the nation🧠 The mental grind of competing at the highest level💥 What it really felt like getting benched and how he handled it🎯 Leading TWO programs as a voted team captain🔄 The identity shift every athlete faces when the game endsOne of the most powerful parts of this episode is how Max shares theturning point in his journey and how it shaped who he is today.This is exactly what the RU Strong Podcast is all about.👉 The real stories behind the uniform👉 The struggles no one sees👉 And the mindset it takes to win in life after sportsTrust me… you don’t want to miss this one.#RUStrong #Podcast #Leadership #MentalHealth #CollegeFootball#AthleteMindset #ESPN #Quarterback #LifeAfterSports
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THE TRUTH ABOUT OVERSEAS BASKETBALL- Guest Kevin Owens
On this episode of the RU Strong Podcast, I’m excited to welcome a fellow South Jersey native whose journey through the game of basketball has taken him from local courts to the global stage, Kevin Owens.Kevin was a standout at Monmouth University, where he was a four-year starter, team captain, and part of a team that made a run to the NCAA Tournament. After earning both his bachelor’s and master’s degrees, he went on to play professionally in the NBA G League and then overseas from 2006 to 2010, experiencing the game on a global level.But what really makes Kevin’s story powerful is what the game taught him along the way.From battling through adversity, injuries, and uncertainty, to learning how to adapt in completely different countries and cultures, Kevin shares how basketball shaped his mindset, teaching him resilience, patience, and the ability to bet on himself even when no one else did. He talks about the discipline it takes to stay ready, the humility to keep growing, and the mental toughness required to navigate the highs and lows of a professional career.He also opens up about the importance of identity beyond the game, how so many athletes struggle with transition, and why building something bigger than basketball became his mission.Today, he’s the founder of Overseas Famous and Overseas X, an ecosystem built to support and connect athletes playing internationally. He’s also an author, podcast host, and a strong advocate for athlete mental health, bringing awareness to the challenges that come with playing overseas and transitioning into life after sports.In this conversation, we dive into the realities of international basketball, the evolution of college sports in the NIL era, and the life lessons the game teaches that go far beyond the court.This one is all about resilience, perspective, identity, and building a life beyond the game.
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Episode 130 Nancy LaRocque Pederson College Rowing Coach/ US Rowing
On this episode of the RU Strong Podcast, I sit down with one of the most respected minds in collegiate rowing and athlete development, Nancy LaRocque Pederson.Nancy’s journey is anything but conventional. A former rower at UMass Amherst who didn’t even pick up the sport until college, turned a late start into a lifelong passion that shaped an elite coaching career. From her early days at Vassar College, where she quickly stepped into a head coaching role, to transforming the women’s rowing program at West Virginia University from a club team into a Division I program, Nancy has consistently built and elevated teams at the highest level.Her coaching journey continued at the University of Wisconsin, where she became one of the top recruiters in the country, developing talent from both elite prospects and walk-on athletes. She later took on the challenge of leading an Ivy League program at Dartmouth College, where success required not only athletic excellence, but also the ability to recruit and develop high-character, academically elite student-athletes.Now serving with U.S. Rowing as a Development and Athlete Success Associate, Nancy is helping Olympic and Paralympic hopefuls navigate life beyond sport, aligning career opportunities with the demands of elite training.In this powerful conversation, Nancy shares her insights on leadership, recruiting, resilience, and what it truly takes to build a winning culture. She also reflects on the importance of mentorship, the evolving landscape of college athletics, and the life lessons that sports continue to teach long after competition ends.This is an episode about growth, grit, and making an impact on and off the water.
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Episode 129 Roosevelt Boone U-Maine Football/ Player Development/ Dean of Students
Welcome back to the RU Strong Podcast, where I spotlight the mindset, mission, and momentum behind athletes and leaders who turn adversity into strength.Today’s episode features a true embodiment of resilience, discipline, and purpose, Roosevelt Boone.A native of Washington, D.C., Roosevelt’s journey is one defined by grit and growth. As a four-time letter winner and scholar-athlete at the University of Maine, he proved early on that success isn’t just about performance on the field, but excellence in the classroom and in life.But his story didn’t stop there.Roosevelt went on to:• Earn his graduate degree while continuing to lead and grow • Transition into Division I coaching, including time at Rutgers University • Step into higher education leadership as a Dean • And build impact beyond the game through his nonprofit, Strong Mind, Strong Body, focused on youth wellness, nutrition, and development From overcoming injuries and navigating life far from home.To embracing the grind of coaching, recruiting, and leadership.To now shaping lives through education, mentorship, and service.Roosevelt Boone represents what it truly means to embrace the grind, build resilience, and turn your journey into purpose.In this episode, we dive into:• The transition from high school to Division I football • Lessons learned through adversity and mental challenges • The behind-the-scenes world of recruiting and player development • And how to prepare for life beyond the game This is a powerful conversation about growth, identity, and impact.Click on the links below to hear the full episode.
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Episode 128 Missy Mitchell-McBeth College Volleyball Player/ Coach/ Director of Performace
On this episode of the RU Strong Podcast, I sit down with a coach who has spent over two decades in the trenches of athletic performance, developing athletes, building systems, and shaping mindsets that extend far beyond the court.Missy Mitchell McBeth brings a powerful blend of experience and perspective. From her days as a collegiate volleyball player to earning her Master’s in Exercise Physiology, and coaching at the highest levels, including her time at TCU working with multiple Division I programs, Missy has seen the game from every angle.Today, as the Director of Sports Performance at Fieldhouse Volleyball Club and an author dedicated to developing volleyball athletes, Missy is on a mission to simplify strength and conditioning, making it practical, effective, and impactful for both coaches and athletes.In this episode, Missy pulls back the curtain on what it really takes to compete at the collegiate level, where being an athlete isn’t a hobby, it’s a job. She shares real insights on the mental and physical demands of the game, the evolution of coaching, and why adaptability, not perfection, is the key to long-term success.We dive into:• The recruiting journey and why finding the right fit matters more than chasing labels • How coaching has evolved from control to connection and the importance of athlete buy-in • The role of discipline, accountability, and adversity in shaping strong individuals • Injury reduction, performance development, and building resilient athletes • Why great coaching is less about systems and more about understanding the athlete in front of you Missy’s story is one of growth, grit, and continuous evolution, learning when to push, when to adapt, and how to meet athletes where they are while still holding them to a high standard.This episode goes beyond sports.It’s about leadership. It’s about resilience. And it’s about preparing athletes not just for the game but for life.
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Episode 127 Nick Kosko Former Rutgers Wrestling/ESPN/ Behind the Scenes of Broadcasting
On this episode of the RU Strong Podcast, I sit down with a rising voice in the world of sports media, Nick Kosko.A true Jersey product and proud Rutgers alum, Nick’s journey is a powerful example of passion, persistence, and carving your own lane. From his days competing on the Rutgers club wrestling team to becoming the play-by-play voice of Rutgers Wrestling, Nick has built a standout career in broadcasting and journalism.Nick has made his mark across multiple platforms, working with SiriusXM, ESPN Radio, 247Sports, and now covering college football nationally with On3. His story isn’t just about sports, it’s about embracing the grind, staying disciplined, and pursuing excellence in a highly competitive industry.In this episode, Nick shares:• His journey from a multi-sport athlete in South Jersey to national sports media • The lessons learned from wrestling, leadership, and team culture • How he built his career through consistency, mentorship, and resilience • The realities behind the scenes of broadcasting and sports journalism • And how staying committed to your craft can open doors you never expected From the mat to the mic, to a national platform, this is a story of betting on yourself and building your voice.
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Episode 126 Emma Misal Former Rutgers Soccer/The Mindset to Keep Pushing Forward!!
Welcome back to another episode of the RU Strong Podcast, where we share powerful stories from athletes who have pushed themselves to the highest levels of competition while navigating the challenges that come with elite performance.Today’s guest is Emma Misal, an outstanding soccer player whose journey is a true example of resilience, sacrifice, and perseverance.Emma grew up in Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania, where she quickly established herself as one of the top players in the region, earning Mid-Penn Commonwealth Division First Team and All-Centennial Girls Soccer First Team honors, while also being selected to the U.S. Women’s National Team Under-18 pool.She went on to play for Rutgers University in the Big Ten Conference, where she was named to the All-Big Ten Freshman Team, earned Third Team All-Big Ten honors as a defender, and was recognized as Academic All-Big Ten. During her time with the Scarlet Knights, Emma helped lead the program to a Big Ten Championship and a Final Four appearance.After graduating from Rutgers with a degree in psychology, Emma continued her academic and athletic career at the University of South Carolina, completing her master’s degree before taking her talents overseas to play professional soccer in Sweden.In this episode, we dive into Emma’s journey through elite college athletics, the mental challenges that come with injuries and high-level competition, and the mindset required to keep pushing forward.Emma Misal, welcome to the RU Strong Podcast.
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Episode 125 Lauren Sisler Former Rutgers Gymnast / ESPN Sportscaster/ Author of Shatter Proof
On this episode of the RU Strong Podcast, host Jeff Durr welcomes an extraordinary guest whose story is the definition of resilience and strength, Lauren Sisler.Lauren is a Rutgers University graduate and former Scarlet Knights gymnast, where she was a four-time letter winner and team captain. After graduating, she went on to build an incredible career in sports media as an Emmy Award-winning sports broadcaster and reporter for ESPN and the SEC Network, covering college football and gymnastics across the country. She has also been honored as Alabama Sportscaster of the Year and recognized as one of the top sports anchors in the industry.But Lauren’s journey goes far beyond athletics and broadcasting.As a freshman at Rutgers, Lauren faced an unimaginable tragedy when she lost both of her parents within hours of each other. That life-altering experience forced her to confront grief, shame, and adversity at a young age, ultimately shaping the person and professional she would become. She later shared that powerful story in her book “Shatter Proof.”Today, Lauren uses her platform not only as a broadcaster but also as a speaker and advocate for mental health, addiction awareness, and resilience. She also serves on the Addiction Prevention Coalition in Birmingham and recently joined the Rutgers Foundation Board of Directors, continuing to give back to the university that helped support her during one of the most difficult seasons of her life.In this episode, Lauren shares her journey from Rutgers gymnastics to ESPN, the lessons she learned about perseverance and identity, and how adversity can shape purpose.This is a powerful conversation about resilience, leadership, and finding strength through life’s toughest challenges.💪 Welcome to the RU Strong Podcast, Lauren Sisler.
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Episode 124 Scott Roussell Former Univ of Virginia Soccer Player/ Founder of After We Play
🎙️ RU Strong Podcast Intro – Scott RoussellWelcome back to another episode of the RU Strong Podcast, where we bring you powerful stories of resilience, identity, and life after the game.Today’s guest is Scott Roussell, a former Division I soccer player from one of the most dominant programs in college soccer history, the University of Virginia. During his time there, Virginia was a powerhouse, winning four NCAA national championships in five years, building what many would call a true dynasty in collegiate soccer. Scott was surrounded by elite talent, teammates who went on to play in the World Cup, coached by legendary coach Bruce Arena, and competing at the highest level of college soccer. But like many athletes, Scott’s journey took an unexpected turn when injuries cut his playing career short just as he was coming into his prime. That moment, when the game you love suddenly ends, can leave athletes asking one powerful question:“Who am I without the game?”Scott didn’t just ask that question; he built a mission around answering it.Today, Scott is the founder of After We Play, an organization dedicated to helping athletes navigate the mental and emotional transition from sports to life beyond competition. His work focuses on what he calls “The Invisible Game” the mental and emotional challenges athletes face that no one sees but every competitor experiences. Through his programs, Scott is helping athletes develop the tools to handle pressure, identity shifts, mental health challenges, and life after sport, before that transition ever arrives.In this conversation, we talk about:• The brotherhood and intensity of competing at the highest level of college athletics• The emotional toll when injuries end a career prematurely• Why so many athletes struggle when the locker room disappears• The concept of “The Invisible Game” happening inside every athlete’s mind• And how Scott is now helping athletes prepare for life after they playIf you’re a current or former athlete, coach, or someone who understands the identity that comes with competition, this episode is going to resonate deeply.So, sit back and enjoy this powerful conversation with former Virginia Cavalier soccer player and founder of After We Play, Scott Roussell.
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Episode 123 Matthew Downing Former College Football QBs Athletic Journey of Resilience
🎙️ RU Strong Podcast – Featuring Matthew DowningOn this episode of the RU Strong Podcast, we sit down with one of the most resilient quarterbacks in college football, a man whose journey defines what it truly means to bet on yourself.From the state of Georgia to becoming a 4.06 GPA scholar-athlete and two-time team captain, Matthew’s story is about far more than football.He began as a preferred walk-on at the powerhouse program at University of Georgia, competing alongside elite talent like Jake Fromm and Justin Fields. With no scholarship guaranteed, he chose opportunity over comfort and earned respect the only way he knew how, through relentless work.His journey then took him to Texas Christian University, where he battled injuries, COVID uncertainty, and depth chart competition, yet continued to grow as both a leader and a man.Next stop: Louisiana Tech University. He earned the starting role, only to suffer a devastating knee injury in the middle of the season.Many would have walked away. Matthew didn’t.He transferred to Elon University, earned his master’s degree, rebuilt his confidence, led with vulnerability and toughness, and ultimately played in the Hula Bowl.This episode is about:🔥 Betting on yourself when no one guarantees you anything💪 Earning respect in four different locker rooms🙏 Growing in faith and leaning into community❤️ The power of family, mentors, and a supportive wife who walked every step of the journey🧠 Becoming “the calm in the storm” when your team needs you mostMatthew opens up about self-belief, leadership, authenticity, and what it truly takes to command trust as a quarterback, especially when you're the new guy every time.For every athlete navigating transfers, injuries, NIL, or uncertainty.For every leader trying to earn respect.For anyone chasing a dream without guarantees.This episode will move you.🎧 Tune in to the latest episode of the RU Strong Podcast and hear why Matthew Downing’s journey is proof that resilience builds leaders.
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Episode 122 Rachel Maeng Former Rutgers Rower/ Entrepreneur
On this episode of the RU Strong Podcast, we welcome an extraordinary former Rutgers student-athlete whose story goes far beyond the water.Our guest is Rachel Maeng, former Rutgers Women’s Varsity Rowing coxswain, student leader, entrepreneur, and fearless advocate.While competing at the Division I level in the inaugural Big Ten era, Rachel wasn’t just steering an eight-person boat, she was leading across campus. From serving on the Rutgers University Student Assembly executive board, to representing student-athletes on the Athletics Affairs Committee and SAC, to volunteering with Embrace Kids and the R Fund, Rachel was building impact long before she built companies But her journey wasn’t easy.She faced team conflict, battled years of undiagnosed back pain that eventually required surgery, navigated identity as a Korean Filipina adoptee growing up in a predominantly white community, and openly shares her experience with OCD, anxiety, and depression.And yet, through adversity came clarity.Rachel transitioned from athlete to advocate. From biomedical engineering to economics. From working with Rutgers Football and the New York Mets to launching and selling her own influencer agency. Today, she works at the intersection of sports, strategy, and entrepreneurship, advising brands, working with athletes, and continuing to serve Rutgers as an Alumni Affairs Senator.This conversation is about:• Losing confidence and rebuilding it• When your sport “dies” before you do• The physical toll of stress and leadership• Mental health in athletes and entrepreneurs• Betting on yourself and building something that mattersRachel’s story is one of resilience, reinvention, and rediscovering purpose when the original dream changes.If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, out of place, injured, anxious, or called to something bigger, this episode is for you.This is RU Strong!
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Episode 121 Danny Lokko Former Cornell University Soccer Player from England
Welcome back to the RU Strong Podcast!Today’s guest is the definition of global grit, discipline, and belief.All the way from England, this young man crossed the Atlantic to chase two dreams at once, elite soccer and elite academics.Danny Lokko.A product of the English academy system, discovered at just six years old by Everton, trained in the professional ranks, and faced with an 18-year-old decision most adults wouldn’t be ready for go pro or bet on education.He chose Cornell University.Ivy League. Economics & Management. Dean’s List every single semester. 3.7 GPA.All while waking up at 4:30 AM for lifts, grinding through snow-covered slopes in Ithaca winters, battling injuries, navigating identity beyond sport, and helping lead one of Cornell Soccer’s most successful runs in program history.But this conversation isn’t just about goals scored or GPAs earned.It’s about:⚽ Making the hard choice when the pro contract is on the table📚 Managing two full-time jobs, Ivy League academics and Division I athletics🧠 Confronting self-doubt and redefining identity beyond the game🙏 Faith, vulnerability, and mental toughness💪 Sacrifice, sweat, and courageDanny opens up about the pressure of high expectations, the moment he had to confront fear head-on, and how becoming “Big Unk” the veteran leader, meant serving others before himself.This episode is about resilience.It’s about maturity.It’s about choosing growth over comfort.And it’s a reminder that greatness isn’t handed to you, it’s built at 4:30 in the morning when nobody’s watching.Welcome to the RU Strong Podcast. Danny Lokko
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Episode 120 Ned Bolcar Notre Dame Football Two Time Captain/ NFL Linebacker
Welcome back to another episode of the RU Strong Podcast.Today, we’re joined by a New Jersey homegrown legend, Ned Bolcar.Out of Phillipsburg High School, Ned was a USA Today High School All-American, the 1985 National High School Player of the Year, and one of the most heavily recruited athletes in the country He took his talents to the University of Notre Dame, where he became:🏆 A National Champion🏆 A Two-Time All-American🏆 A Two-Time Team Captain🏆 Maxwell Spirit of Notre Dame Award Winner🏆 CBS Defensive Player of the Year🏆 Fiesta Bowl All-AmericanThen came the NFL, drafted in 1990, playing for the Seattle Seahawks and Miami Dolphins But what makes this episode powerful isn’t just the accolades.It’s the mindset.Ned talks about:• The difference between recruiting “back then” and today’s NIL era• The emotional high of competition, a feeling he says can’t be replicated anywhere else• The humility that comes from playing against great players and great teams• The moment his father told him it was time to walk away from the game• Transitioning from the NFL to Wall Street• Reinventing himself again as an entrepreneur• And what it truly means to compete, lead, and stay groundedHe shares something profound in this episode:“I feared losing more than I enjoyed winning.” This conversation is about:🔥 The high of the game🔥 The pain of transition🔥 The discipline of reinvention🔥 And the lifelong impact of great parents, great coaches, and great teammatesFrom Phillipsburg to Notre Dame.From Lou Holtz to Don Shula.From NFL locker rooms to Wall Street trading floors.Ned Bolcar’s journey defines what it means to be RU Strong.
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Episode 119 Eli Fisher Former Wagner College/ Ohio State Lacrosse
Today on the RU Strong Podcast, we welcome an incredible guest whose journey is a masterclass in resilience, leadership, and betting on yourself, Eli Fisher.Eli’s story begins at Wagner College, where he carved out an outstanding lacrosse career as a First Team All-MAAC selection, two-time team captain, and member of the SAC Executive Board. Being voted captain once is rare, being voted twice tells you everything you need to know about the respect he earned in that locker room.But Eli didn’t stop there.After honoring his commitment to Wagner, he made the bold decision to enter the transfer portal and landed at one of the biggest stages in college athletics, Ohio State University. Competing in the Big Ten, Eli elevated his game once again, earning Second Team All-Big Ten and Third Team All-American honors, all while excelling academically. That’s where preparation meets opportunity.Eli would go on to play professionally in the Premier Lacrosse League, capturing a championship with the Utah Archers, living out a dream that very few ever reach.And then came another powerful pivot.Instead of chasing the next contract, Eli chose purpose, dedicating his life to serving student-athletes. Today, he’s giving back to the game and the next generation as an Assistant Athletic Director at Monmouth University.In this episode, we dive deep into:• Being unrecruited and finding belief when no one’s watching• Leading through adversity and earning the trust of teammates• Navigating the transfer portal with integrity• Mental toughness, injuries, burnout, and staying present• Why success off the field matters just as much as success on itThis is a conversation about earning everything, staying grounded, and becoming the leader you once needed.🔥 RU Strong Nation, you’re going to want to hear this one.
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Episode 118 Britt Hunter Former Duke/UConn Basketball Player/ Storyteller
Welcome back to the RU Strong Podcast, where we share powerful stories of resilience, identity, and life after the game.Today’s guest is someone whose journey will stop you in your tracks.She’s a former #1 player in the country, recruited to two powerhouse programs, Duke University and University of Connecticut, and coached by legendary figures like Geno Auriemma.But this story isn’t just about accolades. It’s about identity. It’s about pressure.It’s about what happens when the game you love is taken from you.Three games into her freshman season at Duke, Britt blew out her knee on national television. What followed were multiple surgeries, a cadaver meniscus transplant, constant pain, mental exhaustion, and a battle with depression that led to a suicide attempt in her freshman year.And yet that is not where her story ends.After transferring to UConn, battling back through injury, and redefining what it meant to compete, Britt eventually transitioned beyond the court, earning her MBA from Vanderbilt, stepping into leadership at Microsoft, and now becoming a dynamic keynote speaker, executive coach, and candid storyteller.As she says best, she’s a “candid storyteller, period, full stop.” In this episode, we talk about:• What it’s really like to be the #1 recruit at 17 years old• The pressure of elite programs and managing identity beyond basketball• Navigating catastrophic injury and the mental toll that follows• Leadership, maturity, and owning your voice• Why entrepreneurship feels easier than surviving five years of knee surgeries• And how unlocking your strengths starts with radical honestyBritt’s story embodies what RU Strong is all about, not just surviving adversity, but redefining success on your own terms.Get ready for a raw, honest, and incredibly powerful conversation.This is one you don’t want to miss.Welcome to the show, Britt Hunter.
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Episode 117 Kevin Malast Rutgers Football/NFL Player/ VP Legend Agency
🎙 RU STRONG PODCASTWelcome back to the RU Strong Podcast!Today, we’ve got another Rutgers warrior joining us, a guy who helped build Rutgers Football during one of its most electric eras.From 2005 to 2008, when Rutgers was climbing into the Top 10 in the country.Team Captain in 2008, selected by his coaches and teammates.Winner of the Iron Knight Award for strength, speed, and performance.Recipient of the Frank Burns Award for extraordinary mental and physical toughness.Over 200 career tackles.Four bowl games, Texas Bowl, International Bowl, Papa John’s Bowl, St. Petersburg Bowl.And then, undrafted.But that didn’t stop him.He carved out a four-year NFL career with the Chicago Bears, Tennessee Titans, and Jacksonville Jaguars proving once again that heart, toughness, and preparation beat labels every time.But Kevin Malast’s story goes deeper than tackles and trophies.He battled adversity off the field during his freshman year when his brother suffered a life-changing accident. He learned resilience at a level most of us will never understand. He embraced special teams when others chased the spotlight. He lived “Keep Chopping” before it became a brand.Today, he brings that same locker-room leadership mindset to the business world as Vice President of Talent at Legend Agency, representing NFL players, coaches, and broadcasters, paying forward the mentorship he once received.This episode is about:• Joint suffering and brotherhood• Leadership earned, not given• Undrafted mentality• Perspective through adversity• And what it truly means to maximize your momentFrom Manchester Township to Rutgers captain.From 1–5 to seven straight wins.From undrafted to the NFL.From player to mentor.This one is powerful.Let’s chop it up with former Rutgers linebacker, NFL veteran, and leader in life after the gameKevin Malast.
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Episode 116 JJ Birden Former NFL Standout- Motivational Speaker
Welcome back to the RU Strong Podcast, where we explore the mindset, resilience, and real stories behind elite performers on the field and in life.Today’s episode is one I’ve been fired up about.Our guest is JJ Birden, a former NFL wide receiver who played nine seasons in the league, at a time when the average career was less than three years. A two-sport athlete at the University of Oregon, JJ ran track on scholarship while also earning his way onto the football field, proving early on that discipline, belief, and preparation can beat labels and limitations.Despite being told he was “too small,” JJ carved out a career with the Cleveland Browns, Dallas Cowboys, Kansas City Chiefs, and Atlanta Falcons, lining up against some of the greatest defensive players of all time and earning respect through relentless preparation, speed, and mental toughness.But what makes JJ’s story truly powerful is what came after the game.Today, he’s the founder of Team X88, a sought-after keynote speaker, and a leader focused on helping others navigate transition, redefine success, and build confidence beyond their comfort zone. His journey from being labeled an underdog, to thriving in the NFL, to walking away on his own terms, is a masterclass in identity, purpose, and life after sport.In this episode, we talk about:• What it really takes to survive in the NFL• The mental edge that separates talent from longevity• Preparing for life after the game while you’re still playing• Why underdogs often have the biggest advantageThis is a conversation every athlete, current or former needs to hear.
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Episode 115 Kaitlyn Hall Former Rutgers University Gymnast
Welcome back to the RU Strong Podcast.Today’s episode is a powerful one, especially for anyone who’s ever competed at a high level, battled injury, questioned their identity, or wondered what life looks like after the uniform comes off.I’m excited to welcome Kaitlyn Hall, a former Rutgers University gymnast whose journey is filled with resilience, perspective, and grit.Kaitlyn grew up in Raytown, Missouri, dedicating her life to gymnastics from a young age, including being homeschooled in seventh grade, so she could train twice a day. That commitment led her to compete at the highest levels of the sport, earning a full scholarship to Rutgers, competing in the Big Ten, and achieving 9.8+ scores across four different events, an elite accomplishment in collegiate gymnastics.But her story isn’t just about scores and accolades.Kaitlyn was a multiple-time Academic All–Big Ten honoree, a Most Improved Gymnast, recipient of the Coach’s Appreciation Award, and winner of the team’s Pom-Pom Award, an honor voted on by teammates for leadership, effort, and support. She also navigated multiple surgeries, including ACL injuries, the mental battle of “the twisties,” and the emotional toll of having her senior season and final meet unexpectedly end due to COVID.In this conversation, Kaitlyn opens up about:• The reality of being recruited at 15 years old• Having a scholarship pulled and finding purpose in the setback• The mental side of injuries and rehabilitation• Body image and weight pressures in gymnastics• The challenge of transitioning out of sport• And how athletics truly prepares you for life beyond competitionThis is an honest, real, and deeply meaningful conversation about what goes on behind the uniform, the sacrifices, the discipline, the pain, and ultimately, the growth.If you’re a current or former athlete or someone supporting one, you won’t want to miss this episode.🎧 Welcome to the RU Strong Podcast with Kaitlyn Hall.
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Episode 114 David Tyree -NCAA, NFL, The Helmet Catch, Super Bowl Champion
Welcome back to the RU Strong Podcast.Today’s guest is a true Jersey original, born and raised in Montclair, New Jersey, who carved out one of the most iconic moments in Super Bowl history, but whose story goes far beyond one unforgettable play.He starred at Syracuse University, ranking among the program’s all-time leaders in receiving yards, blocking an incredible six punts, an achievement few players accomplish even once and earning recognition not just on the field, but in the classroom as a member of the Athletic Director’s Honor Roll. Drafted in the sixth round by the New York Giants, he went on to become a Pro Bowler, First-Team All-Pro, Giants Rookie of the Year, Super Bowl Champio and the man behind what the world knows as The Helmet Catch.But this episode isn’t just about football.Today we go deep into the real journey, identity, purpose, struggle, faith, fatherhood, and the transformation that took place when success on the field didn’t match fulfillment in life. We talk about the pressures athletes carry in silence, the cost of unaddressed pain, and what it truly means to rebuild your life with intention, humility, and service.This is a conversation about resilience, redemption, and becoming more than what the world applauds you for in your biggest moment.RU Strong family, this one is special.Please welcome Super Bowl Champion, Jersey native, and one of the most authentic voices in the athlete-transition space today… David Tyree
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Episode 113 Troy Conquest Former College Football Player, Marine, Lupus Conqueror
Welcome back to the RU Strong Podcast.Today’s episode is deeply personal.I’m joined by one of my former teammates, brothers, and lifelong friends from the University of Maine football program — a man whose life story defines resilience, faith, and the true meaning of strength.From battling through brutal preseason camps in Orono…to serving our country as a United States Marine…to playing professional football overseas…Troy Conquest has never backed down from adversity.But at just 29 years old, Troy’s life changed forever.Diagnosed with lupus, later paralyzed from the waist down, and told he would never walk again. Troy refused to accept that ending. Instead, he chose purpose over pity, faith over fear, and resilience over resentment.Now a 30-year lupus survivor, cancer survivor, and Paralympic gold medalist, Troy lives by one powerful mantra that was written on a hospital whiteboard years ago and tattooed on his arm ever since:“Never say never.”In this episode, Troy opens up about:• Growing up and being recruited to the University of Maine• The bonds forged through adversity and brotherhood• Lessons learned through football, the Marines, and life• Facing paralysis, illness, loss, and grief with unwavering faith• Why vulnerability is strength, especially for men• And how his transparency may save someone else’s lifeThis is not just a football story.This is not just a comeback story.This is a human story about identity, purpose, pain, and choosing to keep going when everything tells you to stop.If you’ve ever faced adversity…If you’ve ever questioned your strength…If you’ve ever wondered why me…This episode is for you.Let’s get into it.🎧 RU Strong — where resilience, mindset, and life after sports collide.
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Episode 112 Anthony Pecorella, Super Hero, U- Maine Football Player
Welcome back to the RU Strong Podcast.Today’s episode is one of the most powerful, emotional, and inspiring conversations we’ve ever shared.My guest is Anthony Pecorella a Division I football player, scholar, leader, and true embodiment of resilience.Anthony’s journey has taken him from competing on the biggest stages in college football to facing a battle far greater than anything he ever encountered on the field. A former Big Ten punter at the University of Maryland, a graduate of the Robert H. Smith School of Business, and a multi-time Academic All–Big Ten honoree, Anthony did everything the “right way.” He earned his spot, earned his scholarship, and earned the respect of everyone around him.Then, at just 22 years old, everything changed.What started as a routine medical check turned into a diagnosis of Burkitt lymphoma, a rare form of cancer. Overnight, football took a back seat to survival. Training camp became chemotherapy. Stadium lights were replaced by hospital rooms. And the future he had planned was suddenly uncertain.But Anthony didn’t just fight, he led.Throughout his cancer journey, he became a voice for resilience, vulnerability, and mental health. He deepened his commitment to service through Team IMPACT, helping connect college teams with children battling life-threatening illnesses. He founded and expanded initiatives focused on student-athlete mental health. And even in the hardest moments, he found purpose in lifting others.Against all odds, Anthony returned to the field, suiting up once again as a University of Maine Black Bear, more than a thousand days after his last snap. Not just as an athlete, but as a changed man, grounded, grateful, and driven by something bigger than football.This episode isn’t just about sports.It’s about perspective.It’s about family.It’s about faith.It’s about finding meaning through adversity.And it’s about becoming a better human being through the toughest chapters of life.This is a story that every athlete, parent, coach, and leader needs to hear.RU Strong family, welcome to an unforgettable conversation with Anthony Pecorella.
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Episode 111 Tyler Claiborne Iowa State Univ. Football Player
Welcome back to the RU Strong Podcast.Today’s episode features an outstanding example of what it truly means to be a student-athlete. Joining us from Ames, Iowa is Tyler Claiborne, a wide receiver for the Iowa State Cyclones who represents excellence on and off the field.Tyler isn’t just competing at the highest level of college football in the Big 12, he’s also setting the standard academically. A multiple-time Big 12 Commissioner’s Honor Roll selection and recipient of Iowa State’s Cyclone Football Academic Award, Tyler has earned a perfect 4.0 GPA while double-majoring in finance and accounting and minoring in business analytics. That level of discipline, focus, and preparation is rare and it’s exactly what RU Strong is all about.In this conversation, we go far beyond X’s and O’s. Tyler opens up about his journey from Kansas to Iowa State, how the COVID years helped him discover his true potential as a football player, and the mindset shift that allowed him to excel at a Power Five program. We dive into the realities of college football today, recruiting, NIL, the transfer portal, roster changes and how he’s navigating it all with maturity, clarity, and purpose.Most importantly, Tyler shares how football has helped shape him as a person, developing habits of preparation, accountability, resilience, and leadership that will carry him well beyond the game. Whether you’re a current athlete, a parent, a coach, or someone preparing for life after sports, this episode delivers powerful lessons on balance, pressure, and using your platform the right way.This is a conversation about precision, effort, integrity, and preparation and how those traits translate from the field to the classroom and into a future career.You’re going to want to listen closely.This is RU Strong and this is Tyler Claiborne.
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Welcome to RU Strong, hosted by Jeff Durr! This podcast is a platform for current and former college athletes to share their stories of resilience, perseverance, and strength. Join us as we delve into the mental and physical challenges athletes encounter both on and off the field. From the intense pressures of competition to the transition out of sports, we'll explore how these experiences shape their lives.
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