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Rude Advice Podcast
by Rudy A
With over 320K followers on TikTok, Rudy A is a Breakup and Relationship Coach and host of the Rude Advice Podcast. He’s helped thousands move on from heartbreak with raw, real-world advice. Married at 21 and divorced after 16 years, Rudy shares hard lessons and honest insights to help you heal, rebuild, and move forward. No fluff—just straight talk to get your love life back on track.
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The Horror of Love: Lessons Learned from Failure, Heartbreak and Divorce
Episode-123 In this episode, Rudy A, Cody Leach, and Chuck the Movie Guy explore the world of horror movies, relationships, and the challenges of modern dating. They share personal stories, analyze iconic films, and offer insights into human behavior and self-awareness. In this episode, Cody…
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Being a Creator Is Brutal | AI, Online Hate, Mental Health & Relationships
EP- 122- In this engaging conversation, content creator Jared Buckendahl shares insights on the challenges and rewards of content creation, managing negativity, and navigating personal relationships in the digital age. Discover practical tips for mental health, authenticity, and building a...
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How to Handle a Breakup Like a PRO (No Begging, No Regret)
EP 123 - Recorded LIVE: What does it actually look like to handle a breakup the RIGHT way? In this clip, a caller jumped on live and shared his breakup story—and honestly… he handled it like a pro. No begging. No chasing. No losing himself trying to hold on to someone who has already let go. This...
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You Know Your Marriage Is Over… Do THIS Before You Say a Word
EP- 121 Realizing your marriage is over is one of the heaviest moments a person can face. You haven’t said anything yet. No one knows. But deep down, you know the truth.What you do in this silent moment will determine whether you walk away prepared… or devastated.In this video, I break down 5...
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Marriage, Social Media, and the Lie of Modern Happiness
EP- 120 In this engaging podcast episode, the host along with @AdamDoesMovies and @CodyLeachYT discuss various themes surrounding relationships, video game adaptations, and personal growth. They delve into the complexities of marriage, the impact of social media on perceptions of happiness, and…
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Woman Regrets Leaving Her Husband
EP- 119 In this conversation, Racquel shares her unexpected journey to viral fame, reflecting on her marriage, divorce, and the lessons learned along the way. She discusses the importance of accountability in relationships, the impact of social media on perceptions of love, and the challenges of...
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10 Hard Truths About Modern Dating
EP 118 - In this episode, Rudy discusses the challenges of modern dating, especially for those re-entering the dating scene after a divorce or long-term relationship. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce…
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10 Signs You're In A Toxic Relationship
EP 116- If you keep excusing bad behavior, walking on eggshells, or feeling drained instead of supported, this video is for you. I break down 10 clear signs you’re in a toxic relationship—from control and manipulation to emotional neglect—so you can stop second-guessing your reality. Recognizing...
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10 Reasons Why Your EX Stalks Your Social Media
EP 115 - In this video, I break down 10 real reasons your ex keeps checking your social media. If you’re stuck wondering “Why won’t they leave me alone?” or “Does this mean they want me back?”—this video will give you clarity without feeding false hope. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get…
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Why Young Marriages Often Fail
EP 114 - In this episode of the Rood Advice Podcast, Rudy A discusses the complexities of marriage, particularly focusing on the disconnect that can occur when individuals marry young. He emphasizes the importance of self-discovery and personal growth before committing to a lifelong partnership....
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10 Conversations Every Couple Must Have Before Getting Married
EP 113 - This video breaks down the 10 most important conversations every couple must have before getting married, the ones most people avoid until it’s too late. We cover expectations around money, boundaries, conflict, kids, and emotional needs, so there are no surprises after the wedding. If…
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Ghosts, Break Ups and EXs
Ep 112 - TikTok star Tatiana from tatiscreepystories joins me for an unforgettable Halloween episode. With over 1.6 million followers, Tatiana has built a following by sharing her personal paranormal experiences. And today, Tatiana and I dive into ghosts, relationships, breakups, getting back…
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Freedom, Fantasies & Friendship: The Taboo Topics We’re All Thinking About
Ep 110- In this episode, Rudy, Cody, and Charles dive into community, friendship, and how sexuality and free speech are evolving in today’s digital age. With humor and honesty, they tackle racism, cancel culture, and shifting cultural norms. We also explore modern dating—hygiene, apps, incels,...
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From Porn to Passion: How Honest Talk Can Save Your Relationship
Ep109 - In this episode, Heather Nielsen from Fight the Beast dives deep into helping men break free from porn addiction and heal sexual intimacy struggles. We unpack the “intimacy deadlock” couples get stuck in—where emotional walls and past resentments kill connection. Heather breaks down why...
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5 Reasons Why You Keep Going Back To Your EX
Ep108- Still stuck on your ex and wondering why you can’t move on? In this video, I break down the 5 real reasons you're emotionally stuck—and spoiler alert, it's not just because you "miss them." From unhealthy patterns to false hope, we’re cutting through the BS. Hit play if you’re ready to…
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10 Signs You’re Ready to Date Again
Ep107— After a breakup or divorce, it’s important to heal before jumping back into the dating scene. This episode explores 10 key signs that indicate you’re emotionally, mentally, and practically ready to start dating again, from self-confidence to letting go of past baggage. Whether you’re…
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How to Approach A Woman with Confidence
Ep106— Kayle The Dating Collective Kayle is a dating coach on TikTok that I have been following for some time and we discuss common dating struggles for men and women. Practical tips on confidence, body language, and conversation starters to help men approach women effectively. COACHING SESSIONS...
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Hate Goes Viral: How Social Media is Fueling Division
Ep105— Hate Goes Viral: How Social Media is Fueling Division Since 2015, I have noticed a shift in how people communicate and behave. Meaningful conversations seem to be fading, and genuine listening has become rare. We are more divided than ever. Social media plays a significant role in…
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"I’m Never Dating and Will Die Alone."
Ep102— K-Ann The Travel Chick Kristiann, a 36-year-old model and self-employed designer, recently shared a viral TikTok video expressing her frustration with the dating world. In today’s episode, she reveals how an online dating scam cost her $90,000. She also talks about the qualities she…
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10 Reasons Why Your Ex Is Contacting You
Ep100— 10 Reasons Why Your Ex Is Contacting You In this episode, I dive into the surprising and often confusing reasons why your ex keeps reaching out. From unresolved emotions and lingering guilt to seeking validation or even boredom, we uncover the psychology behind their behavior. Tune in to...
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Why Your Ex Moved On So Fast & How You Heal
Ep99— Why Your Ex Moved On So Fast Why did your ex move on so quickly? In this video, we explore the psychology behind fast rebounds, what it really means, and how it’s not a reflection of your worth. Stick around for actionable tips to heal, rebuild your confidence, and thrive after heartbreak....
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5 Tips For Men Dealing with a Break-Up
Ep96—Breakups are tough, but handling them the right way can lead to growth and healing. In this video, we share 5 essential tips for men to navigate the heartbreak, rebuild confidence, and come out stronger on the other side. Whether you're struggling with emotions, looking for ways to move on…
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Huge Dating Mistakes Men Should Avoid
Ep95—Three local women from San Antonio share their honest and unfiltered takes on what men are getting wrong in the dating world. From cringe-worthy first dates to deal breakers, they dive deep into the most common mistakes and missed opportunities. If you’ve ever wondered why your love life…
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12 Signs Your Marriage Is Over
Ep94 - The end of a marriage can be a painful realization, but there are certain signs that indicate the relationship might be beyond repair. Recognizing these signs can help you decide what steps to take next. Here are 12 signs that your marriage is over. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get...
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Why You Can't Get Over Your Ex
Ep93 - Why is it so hard to move on after a breakup? In today’s episode, I explain why. You’ll learn how fear of the unknown and a disrupted sense of identity play a role, along with the impact of unresolved emotions like regret and guilt. Finally, I share practical tips to help you understand...
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20 Things You Shouldn't Do After a Breakup
Ep91- In this episode of the podcast, "20 Things You Shouldn't Do After a Breakup,"** we dive into common post-breakup pitfalls and how to avoid them. After a breakup, emotions run high, and it's easy to make choices that can set back your healing process. Whether you're fresh out of a...
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I Knew My Marriage was Over w/Scott Erickson
Ep89- Scott Erickson, a TikTok vlogger with 140k followers, shares his recent divorce journey, discussing the signs that his marriage was ending and his experiences with modern dating post-divorce. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn...
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Is It OK for Your Wife to Dress Like an Escort?
Ep88- Is it ok for your wife to dress like an escort for a girl's night out? I'll also talk about the power of temptation and how many of us will falter in its presence. ***Recorded LIVE on TIKTOK.*** COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and...
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I Had a Mini Stroke
Ep89- On July 1st, after leaving the gym I had a mini-stroke, a Transient ischemic attack (TIA). I am telling my story and sharing what I felt to spread awareness. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and...
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Dealing with Loneliness After Your Divorce
Ep87- Life after divorce, especially the first few months after it is final can be a heartbreaking and lonely experience. I've been there and I know what you are going through. Today I share some tips on how to break out of that loneliness and begin your journey to your new normal. ***Recorded…
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Nothing Lasts Forever and That's OK
Ep86- Nothing lasts forever, not even your current relationship. In today's discussion, I explore the concept of releasing this notion and embracing the reality that life is all about change. Living for yourself and focusing on the present moment is the most fulfilling way to approach life....
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Signs You're In a Toxic Relationship
Ep85- Are you in a Toxic Relationship? At one point we've all been in one. I'll talk about the specific behaviors and patterns of a toxic relationship. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the…
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Advice from a Divorced Man: 20 Essential Topics to Discuss Before Marriage
Ep84- Having gone through a divorce, I've learned some tough lessons. Today, I want to share 20 crucial topics you should discuss with your fiancé before saying "I do." Each of these issues has been a factor in ending marriages. It's essential to have these difficult conversations now, before…
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How My Marriage Ended: A Divorce Story
Ep83- In this episode we welcome my good friend Flor, who recently went through a divorce after an 8-year marriage. Flor shares her personal journey, hoping that her experience will offer support and insight to others facing the possibility of divorce. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific...
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Can You Afford a Tradwife in Today's Economy?
EP 81- In this episode, we explore the financial reality of supporting a traditional housewife lifestyle. What annual income does a man need to sustain this arrangement, especially with two kids in the mix? Tune in as we break down the numbers and reveal what it really takes to make this dream a...
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A Conversation with an EX
EP80 - In this pilot episode recorded back in March 2019, I sit down with one of my ex-girlfriends, Veronica, for a candid conversation. This laid the groundwork for what would later evolve into Rude Advice. Our discussion delves into the trials and tribulations of dating in your 40s, offering...
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Why I Filed For Divorce | My Divorce Story
EP79 - I received an email from a young man going through a divorce and it reminded me of what I experienced 8 years ago. Also, Self Magazine reached out to me and wanted to hear about my divorce story. So, I felt it was appropriate to sit down and finally share my complete divorce story with...
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How To Divorce and Parallel Parent with a Narcissist | Dr. Courtney
Ep78- Dr Courtney specializes in helping others navigate through the difficult process of high-conflict divorces. She also provides steps on how to heal after a divorce and strategies on how to co-parent with a narcissist. Social Media links Rudy A - https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official Dr. Courtney…
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Women Don't Listen...Here's Proof
Ep77- In this episode, I discuss a TikTok video of mine that has garnered 2 million views, unveiling an intriguing revelation from the comments: it seems that women often overlook the actual words being spoken. Let's dive into the evidence. Social Media links Rudy A -...
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10 Questions to Ask Before Marriage
Ep76 - After years of swearing it off, here I am, diving back into marriage. Whether you're a first-time bride or groom, or contemplating round two, this episode is tailored just for you. Plus, I'll delve into a viral TikTok video where a wife requests to peek into her husband's phone before he...
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Tripp Advice | Why Men Have Given Up with Dating
Ep75- Max “Tripp” Kramer is the founder of the #1 Men’s Dating Coaching Program with 12 years of teaching men how to attract women and host of the How to Talk to Girls podcast. Today we discuss why men have given up on date. Why are men so unsuccessful with dating apps? What is the best way to...
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Single Mothers are🗑️ | Steps-Dads are SIMPS
Ep74- I'm diving into a recent viral moment on TikTok where a single mother stirred up controversy by expressing her belief that a good man would help her raise her child. However, her statement quickly attracted the ire of incels, sparking a heated debate online. Why do incels harbor such...
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Top 5 Dating 🚩 For Men and Women
Ep73- Sally Kathryn is a dating coach with over 10 years of experience. Today we’ll discuss the top 5 dating red flags for men and women. My vasectomy procedure from hell and how TikTok has become a platform that fuels the hate between men and women. Coaching Sessions are now Available! Get...
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Movies and Sex Part 2
EP72 - My good friends Cody Leach and Charles the Comedian join me for another discussion of random topics. Such as transgenders, why Hollywood movies suck, and are you allowed to have privacy in a marriage? Also, the pressures of social media, being an influencer, and selling out. Social Media...
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The Long-Term Dangers of Porn Addiction
Ep71- Porn addiction is a silent problem that millions of men and women suffer from. It’s destroying marriages and relationships. It’s leading many into depression and lifelong negative neurological changes. Heather Nielsen, founder of Conquering the Beast has reached millions of viewers and…
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Hooters: Harmless Fun or Disrespectful to Your Wife?
Ep70- Is dining at Hooters disrespectful to your wife or girlfriend? I’ll also talk about a father who is working two jobs and is having trouble paying child support. I’ll share a woman’s horrible take on why this is punishment for him. And last, I’ll discuss the disturbing trend with men and...
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Can You Trust Your Friends Around Your Girl?
Ep69- Do men prefer BBLs or natural booties? Can you trust your friends around your girl? And why you shouldn't get married in your 20s. Social Media links Rudy A - https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #cheating #datingadvice #datingapps #brocode #marriage #marraigeadvice #cheaters
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Sean Chandler | Conquering Addiction and YouTube
Ep68- Sean Chandler is a movie critic and YouTube superstar with over 280K subscribers. But before YouTube, Sean secretly battled his addiction to alcohol that nearly destroyed his life. Sean shares his story during this time and how he conquered his demons and eventually conquered YouTube....
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Are You Entitled to Privacy in a Relationship?
Ep67- If you are married or in a relationship, are you entitled to privacy? Is it healthy to share your passwords or is it a sign of no trust? Is there a difference between secrecy and privacy? Coaching Sessions are now Available! Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and…
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How to Create the Perfect Dating Profile
Ep65- If you want to improve your dating life, this is the episode you need to listen to. Dating Apps are a great tool for meeting women. But you need to be using them correctly. Today, I share my dating profile and my inbox with messages from women proving my tips work. I also share tips for…
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With over 320K followers on TikTok, Rudy A is a Breakup and Relationship Coach and host of the Rude Advice Podcast. He’s helped thousands move on from heartbreak with raw, real-world advice. Married at 21 and divorced after 16 years, Rudy shares hard lessons and honest insights to help you heal, rebuild, and move forward. No fluff—just straight talk to get your love life back on track.
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With over 320K followers on TikTok, Rudy A is a Breakup and Relationship Coach and host of the Rude Advice Podcast. He’s helped thousands move on from heartbreak with raw, real-world advice. Married at 21 and divorced after 16 years, Rudy shares hard lessons and honest insights to help you heal,...
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