Episodes
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Don’t Get Butthurt?
In this episode, Ashton discusses why communication and respect are two of the most important things in the lifestyle and why people’s boundaries should always be respected; IE... Don’t get butthurt if someone has different boundaries than you. Move on. And don’t have expectations of anyone.
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Tequila Thief’s?
In the first episode of Season 2, Ashton discusses why being aggressive in the lifestyle is never a good move and tells a recent story of when a couple got mad because we wouldn’t play with them, they stole our tequila. Also not a good move. Also featured in today’s episode, why being aggressive…
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Tale Of Two Different Personalities?
In this weeks episode, Ashton discusses why getting to know some couples better can be a turn off and tells the story of what some would say was a disastrous dinner date with a couple. In reality, it was just a tale of two different personalities not matching up and that’s a-okay!
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Gangbangs Are Like Dessert?
In this episode, Ashton answers your questions and will tell you why having a gangbang is kind of like eating dessert. She also addresses why the lifestyle can be “cliquey” and her hopes on how to combat this behavior to be more open and approachable to everyone you meet.
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The Lifestyle Spectrum?
In this episode, Ashton discusses the “the lifestyle spectrum” of meeting couples who are all different in what they are looking for but similar in many aspects. Some people will get with anything with a pulse, others just show up and dress up, and the rest of us? We are somewhere in the middle!
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Suitcase Full Of Cash & Dildos?
In this episode, Ashton reviews the latest trip to the lifestyle friendly resort Temptation in Cancun, Mexico! Sharing all of her secrets on what the “playground for adults” is really like and hilarious stories of meeting other swinging couples while on vacation.
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Taking One For The Team?
In this episode, Ashton talks about a phrase you hear often in the lifestyle, “taking one for the team” - And why for her, it goes so much deeper than being just physically attracted to someone. She shares the one and only time she “took one” for the team and the hilarity that ensued. Send us…
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Young, Dumb, And Full Of C**?
In this episode, Ashton shares her go to cocktail (or lack thereof), her thoughts on why some couples only let the male half play and answers #TeamAwesome’s questions from this week! Send us yours at @secrets_pod on Twitter & Instagram!
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Google Translate Is Important?
In this episode, Ashton shares an embarrassing but funny story of a recent encounter when she tried to ask a guy in Spanish if he had a big d**k but ended up asking him something FAR more personal. Stories from weird run-ins in a post pandemic (sort of) swinging world and answers #TeamAwesome’s...
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It’s Not A No, It’s A Maybe?
In this episode, Ashton answers #TeamAwesome’s questions of the week from her awesome listeners about why playing with soft swap couples is great but not always our cup of tea, how bisexual couples are viewed and her opinion on how they should be viewed in the lifestyle, and how to get past those...
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Sex Parties Are Like Normal Parties But Better?
In this episode, Ashton gives the audience some insight on what a swingers party is really like. Sometimes there are orgies, and sometimes there are chicken nuggets. Fun? Pretty much guaranteed.
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The Artists Formerly Known As Narf & Panda?
Ashton gets a voicemail from one of her favorite couples and great friends, Narf and Panda! In this episode, she discusses why consent is so important in the lifestyle no matter the situation and explains why the lifestyle will always remain a part of her life. Follow our show on Instagram &...
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If You’re Hot & An Asshole - You’re Still An Asshole?
In this special episode, Ashton takes your “Get To Know Me” questions that range from silly, sexy and fun! And the verdict is out.. Even if you’re extremely hot and an asshole.. You’re still an asshole! No if, ands, or butts!
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Choke Me, But Just Don’t Hurt Me?
In this episode; Ashton discusses age differences in the lifestyle and in her relationship, her opinions on drinking/drug use at swinger events, and answers questions about fetishes and BDSM!
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Swinging During A Pandemic Isn’t The Best?
In this episode, Ashton details the struggles of trying to keep engaged in the lifestyle during a global pandemic and the hilarious adventures trying to keep things afloat. We would like to say that it is best to just stay home and stay safe, but after hearing her stories - We will let you be the...
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You Wanna Feel A Little Somethin’ Somethin’, Ya Know?
In this episode, Ashton explains how she deals with jealously in the lifestyle and how to overcome it if you start feeling uncomfortable in a situation. She also discusses why she isn’t worried about getting an STD/STI with her lifestyle and encourages others to take their sexual health seriously...
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I’m Like The Simon Cowell Of Porn?
Ashton answers ALL of the questions she received this week from her listeners; from silly to sexy to back to silly again.. You guys didn’t hold back - And neither does she!
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I Think This Guy Is Obsessed With His C**k?
In this episode Ashton explores creating and having a successful lifestyle dating page as well as sharing a recent “horror story” from a single guy who was, yes, totally obsessed with his.... Well. You know.
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Bi-sexual, Bi-curious, Bi-necessary?
In this episode, Ashton gives her thoughts on sexuality in the lifestyle, explores where she fits in on the sexuality spectrum and shares her first experience with a bisexual woman.
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Sequins, Sex Clubs, and Single Guys?
A look into how single men are treated in the lifestyle, tips and tricks to be successful as a single male, how to find couples to swing with and how to make a great impression with couples. And then it’s Q&A time! Tune in to hear if your question got answered.
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How Much Longer Are You Gonna Do That For?
Ashton details her first experience at a lifestyle/sex club and yes, that episode title? A girl literally asked her that while she was giving a blowjob the first night there. You just can’t make that kinda stuff up; a sexy and memorable night for sure. Tune in for all of the secrets!
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Wait, So You’re Swingers?
In this first introduction episode, Ashton explores with you all a quick history on her sexuality, her introduction to the lifestyle and how it changed her life for the better.
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The sex positive podcast about sex, open love, and the lifestyle.
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