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Self-F*ckery 101

by Margarita and Darren

Margarita and Darren discuss the inside out of all the beliefs, habits, and actions which can slow you down and keep you from becoming the person you need to be.Margarita is a fitness trainer (amongst other things) with a special connection to the Universe. Utilising her gift framed with Darren’s journey of ongoing self-growth, join these two in unravelling the murky depths of self-f*ckery!If you want to learn more, don't hesitate to reach out:Email: [email protected]: https://nowraaruma.com.au/Instagram: @margi_adventures

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Episodes

  1. Episode 53 - Identity

    Our actions and beliefs are often connected to what we do, rather than who we are, which can cloud our thinking. Margarita talks about ways to separate this distinction. Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠i⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://nowraaruma.com.au/⁠⁠⁠⁠

  2. Episode 52 - Liking and Loving Yourself

    It's easy to love someone else, but do you love yourself? Do you even LIKE yourself? Margarita talks about the value of learning to embrace who you are before giving love to others. Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠i⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://nowraaruma.com.au/⁠⁠⁠

  3. Episode 51 - Anger

    We all get angry sometimes, but many of us become angry way too often. How do we know what is appropriate anger, and what is toxic? Margarita and Darren go in-depth on anger and its repercussions. Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠i⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://nowraaruma.com.au/⁠⁠⁠

  4. Episode 50 - Meaningful Conversations

    It's easy for us to lapse into generic banter with family and friends, and not address aspects within these relationships which need attention. Margarita discusses how we can be mindful of keeping our conversations relevant and true. Email: ⁠⁠⁠i⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠ Website:...

  5. Episode 49 - Who You Are Is What You Think You Are

    Knowing yourself and believing what you can be will determine where you want to go with your life. But how do we find ourselves and develop belief from zero? Margarita talks about ways to improve your perception and adapt your thinking. Email: ⁠⁠i⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠ Website:...

  6. Episode 48 - Keeping Promises to Yourself

    Promises are easy to make, but harder to keep. Margarita discusses the importance of promises and how keeping them to yourself first is of paramount importance. Email: ⁠⁠i⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠https://nowraaruma.com.au/⁠⁠

  7. Episode 47 - Finding Your Greatness

    Greatness doesn't necessarily mean being recognised for your character and achievements, but it can be. However, greatness starts within, and bringing that to fruition is one aspect of fulfilling your purpose in life. Margarita talks about how your greatness is uniquely yours, and how you can…

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  8. Episode 46 - Living in Your Head

    We often get stuck in beliefs and patterns which hold us back, a recurring cycle which many of us never break. Margarita discusses how to get out your head and into the present. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/

  9. Episode 45 - Learning

    Margarita talks about our lifelong process of learning, how it starts from the moment we're born. But for many of us, un-learning all the negative influences and patterns we've accumulated is part of that process - one we tend to overlook. Email: [email protected] Website:...

  10. Episode 44 - Grief

    People often get swept up in the process of grief, sometimes letting it consume a lifetime. Margarita discusses the importance of letting go and moving forward from grief. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/

  11. Episode 43 - Overthinking

    Overthinking often stops us from taking immediate action, leading to missed opportunities and regret. Margarita talks about ways to overcome this inhibiting pattern of thought. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/

  12. Episode 42 - Fear

    Fear comes in many forms, overarching many reasons why we fail to take positive action in our lives. Margarita discusses fear's long arm and how to shake its grip. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/

  13. Episode 41 - What You've Learned: Interview with Darren

    Margarita interviews Darren and sees what elements of self-development he has uncovered. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/

  14. Episode 40 - Emotions

    We all have emotions, often which exert more control than we like. Controlling your emotions is critical in directing the positive actions you need to achieve a healthy lifestyle. Margarita breaks down the scope of emotions and how to apply them effectively. Email: [email protected]…

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  15. Episode 39 - Divine Love

    Love is a big word, often used without really grasping its meaning. And just to complicate things, there's Divine Love; a more spiritual concept of how we connect with love and the Universe. Margarita fleshes out the concept of Divine Love, and how we can reframe our thinking to embrace it.…

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  16. Episode 38 - Communication

    We all know how important communication is. Then why is it so many of us suck at it? Margarita talks about aspects of communication we tend to overlook. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/

  17. Episode 37 - Forgiveness

    Margarita defines forgiveness in a broader sense and helps Darren apply this to his own perceptions and experiences. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/

  18. Episode 36 - Awareness

    What is awareness? Is it simply being "aware" of you, your actions, your thoughts, or your surroundings? Or is it a bit more... (hint: it's a bit more). Margarita talks about how your actions connect to your awareness. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/

  19. Episode 35 - Self Vibrations

    Vibrations can come from more than just sound and movement, they can come from energy as well. This energy - the energy we hold within ourselves - can be positive or negative, and everything in-between. We absorb and give out our energy through the people we interact with, and the way we choose…

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  20. Episode 34 - Stuck on Action

    Margarita discusses ways to unblock the obstacles which stop us from taking action. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/

  21. Episode 33 - Tackling Weakness

    Margarita discusses with Darren some of the ways he can approach challenges to build resilience and character. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/

  22. Episode 32 - The Space You Occupy

    Margarita discusses how we all fit into the spaces surrounding us, and how to balance that against the spaces of other people, movements, and ideals. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/

  23. Episode 31 - Thinking Outside The Box

    Often our thoughts and actions are guided by the patterns we see around us. For most of us, this means repeating habits which aren't necessarily good for us. Margarita invites you to take a step back, and examine the patterns you take for granted, and rearrange to think outside the box. Email:...

  24. Episode 30 - The Ultimate Goal

    At any moment, we might be working towards one or several goals at a time. Or perhaps even no goals. But everything we do leads to our purpose, that one goal which is the overarching goal ahead of all the others. Margarita and Darren discuss the path to identifying and pursuing your ultimate…

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  25. Episode 29 - Addiction

    Inspired after watching the documentary "Donut King", Darren raises the topic of addiction with Margarita and discusses how it's impacted his life, and ways we can minimise being drawn to such destructive habits. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/

  26. Episode 28 - Finding Your Purpose

    We all know what we'd like to do with our lives. But often, we allow things to get in the way; parents wanting us to be lawyers instead of artists, unplanned pregancies, complacency, fear - you name it, we can find an excuse to hold back chasing what you really want to do. Margarita discusses how...

  27. Episode 27 - Giving Away Your Power

    The confidence and self-belief which are core to our personal foundation can be undermined when we are intimidated or threatened by another person or group. We act out of fear or intimidation, responding in ways that neglect our self-belief, and in turn which compromise our self-worth. This is...

  28. Episode 26 - Neglect

    Margarita discusses the adult repercussions of abandonment experienced as a child through neglectful parenting, and how it shapes our character and actions. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/

  29. Episode 25 - The A-ha Moment

    Margarita interviews Chukwudi, a Nigerian ex-pat living in Australia for over 10 years. Chuk recounts his journey throughout his time in Australia, how experiences and lessons learned have helped develop his mindset, and the a-ha moment where things became clear. Email: [email protected]...

  30. Episode 24 - Being Ready

    Often without us being aware, opportunities come our way. But how can latch onto these if we're unaware, let alone unprepared? Margarita discusses how being ready can help you maximise opportunities. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/ Instagram: @margi_adventures

  31. Episode 23 - Find Your Passion

    Working a job or having commitments you don't like can be tiring and lead to other emotional and communication issues with those around you. Being passionate about what you do is ideal, but how do you find that? Margarita discusses how finding your passion can clear your mental clutter and…

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  32. Episode 22 - Pure Love

    We all have demons to face, but they can be hard to overcome. And without a foundation of loving yourself, near impossible to beat. Margarita discusses why pure love is critical towards tackling roadblocks in your life, and becoming all you can be. Email: [email protected] Website:...

  33. Episode 21 - Stressing

    Margarita goes in-depth on how to manage and minimise stress, and examines how we unwittingly create our own stress. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/ Instagram: @margi_adventures

  34. Episode 20 - Why Exercise Matters

    Exercise. Love or hate it, we need to do it. But why? How does exercise improve your quality life? Join mind and fitness guru Margarita as she challenges Darren's less than enthusiastic approach to fitness, and how it impacts his mental wellbeing. Email: [email protected] Website:...

  35. Episode 19 - Self-parenting

    The voices of our parents can stay with us long after their physical presence has diminished. Those childhood scoldings and reprimands become our own inner-voice, silently sabotaging our efforts to grow and achieving a fulfilling life. Margarita confronts Darren about his own beliefs and…

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  36. Episode 18 - The Power of Believing

    Many of us have limiting beliefs about ourselves and what we're capable of. These subconscious limits inhibit our perceptions not only towards ourselves, but to others, and actions. Lifting the veil of limiting beliefs can be difficult when you've never known an alternative. Margarita grills…

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  37. Episode 17 - The Quietness of Life

    Sound surrounds us wherever we go - whether communicating, relaxing, or travelling, technology and machinery pervasively creates constant noise. Margarita talks about the importance of cultivating an inner-peace and how you can achieve it. Email: [email protected] Website:...

  38. Episode 16 - Exercising Your Mind

    Most people accept we need to exercise our bodies, but little consideration is given to exercising our minds. So where do we start? And why is it important? Margarita reveals some simple techniques for developing a healthy mind. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/...

  39. Episode 15 - You Are Not Your Experiences

    Memories of past experiences are attached to emotions, which are often triggered when encountering similar experiences in the present. Margarita explains how separating your emotional experiences will help you forge a more complete self. Email: [email protected] Website:...

  40. Episode 14 - The DNA of Emotions

    Our emotional responses are often rooted in the past and repeat through triggers in the present, usually without our awareness. Margarita goes deep into these emotional cycles and pushes Darren to face some of his own triggers. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/...

  41. Episode 13 - Reaching Your Creativity

    Creativity is the artful application of the actions which drive our passion. But a lot of us never reach that capacity. Margarita discusses with Darren how to unblock the barriers to creativity. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/ Instagram: @margi_adventures

  42. Episode 12 - Marriage and Relationships

    Margarita explains the dangers of committing to relationships when we haven't found our inner-self first, and then proceeds to back Darren into a corner with his own relationship choices. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/ Instagram: @margi_adventures

  43. Episode 11 - Time

    Many people allow time to control them, engaging in patterns and behaviours which waste time and relegate it as a meaningless concept. Margarita and Darren broaden the definition of time and offer a fresh perspective on how to make it work for you Email: [email protected] Website:...

  44. Episode 10 - The Height of Belief

    Our beliefs are built upon years of programming and influences from our childhood and therefore limit us when trying to break free of habits and the way we see ourselves. Margarita and Darren talk about lifting your beliefs beyond your current limitations. Email: [email protected] Website:...

  45. Episode 9 - Luck

    Many of us believe luck is a random occurrence, but it is something we can control through our actions. Learn from Margarita as she discusses luck with Darren and how to manifest it to become a part of your daily life. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/ Instagram:...

  46. Episode 8 - Breathing

    Our breath is more than just a biological function of the lungs; it's connected to our emotions and other experiences we feel in our bodies. Margarita and Darren discuss how to become aware of your breathing and maximise its potential to help you move forward every day Email:...

  47. Episode 7 - Automatic Love

    How can you make your self-love the foundation behind your actions? Join Margarita and Darren as they get comfortable with the concept of automatic love. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/ Instagram: @margi_adventures

  48. Episode 6 - Self-Respect

    Confidence, loving ourselves, and self-respect combine to form a powerful core of our identities. Become aware of your own self-respect as we discuss some of the things you may overlook. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/ Instagram: @margi_adventures

  49. Episode 5 - Gratitude

    Margarita and Darren get in-depth about the meaning of gratitude and how it connects through every aspect of your life. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/ Instagram: @margi_adventures

  50. Episode 4 - Taking Action + Liking Yourself

    Margarita and Darren discuss ways you can adapt your thinking towards taking more action in life, and how liking yourself is the foundation for personal growth. Email: [email protected] Website: https://nowraaruma.com.au/ Instagram: @margi_adventures

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Margarita and Darren discuss the inside out of all the beliefs, habits, and actions which can slow you down and keep you from becoming the person you need to be.Margarita is a fitness trainer (amongst other things) with a special connection to the Universe. Utilising her gift framed with Darren’s journey of ongoing self-growth, join these two in unravelling the murky depths of self-f*ckery!If you want to learn more, don't hesitate to reach out:Email: [email protected]: https://nowraaruma.com.au/Instagram: @margi_adventures

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Margarita and Darren

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Margarita and Darren discuss the inside out of all the beliefs, habits, and actions which can slow you down and keep you from becoming the person you need to be.Margarita is a fitness trainer (amongst other things) with a special connection to the Universe. Utilising her gift framed with Darren’s...

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