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We're diving deep into our final discussion on spiritual warfare, and let me tell you, the key player in this whole saga is none other than Jesus. We unpack the reality that our battles are not against flesh and blood, but against the deeper spiritual forces at work. It’s so tempting to channel our frustrations onto the people around us, but we’ve got to remember that it’s the principalities and powers behind the scenes we’re really up against. This episode is all about understanding how Jesus, as the ultimate victor, has absorbed the curse and reclaimed the keys of death, hell, and the grave, empowering us to walk in freedom and victory. So, grab your favorite beverage, settle in, and let’s explore how to truly occupy our true selves in Christ and embrace the contentment that comes from surrendering to Him.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:In our final discussion on spiritual warfare, we emphasize the importance of understanding the person of Jesus as our ultimate victor and source of freedom.We discussed how spiritual warfare is not about fighting against flesh and blood, but rather recognizing the principalities and powers that influence human behavior.The keys to victory in spiritual warfare lie in surrendering to Jesus, who has already conquered death and darkness on our behalf.True contentment comes from accepting our reality and understanding that God is always present with us, no matter the circumstances we face.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

This episode dives deep into the intriguing topic of spiritual warfare, specifically focusing on the power that God imparts to us through the Holy Spirit. We explore how this power can sometimes feel paradoxical, especially when it comes to the idea that victory in spiritual battles often comes through surrender rather than striving. We also reflect on our personal experiences in Pentecostal environments, discussing the profound and sometimes chaotic encounters with the Holy Spirit that shaped our understanding of divine power. Throughout our conversation, we emphasize the importance of resting in God's presence as a way to access that power, highlighting how being seated in faith can transform our approach to life's challenges. Join us as we unpack what it truly means to be empowered by the Spirit while embracing a posture of rest and trust.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:Spiritual warfare involves the paradox of power and surrender, where true victory comes from letting go.Our 10-week course is designed to help individuals hear God in the moment and connect with their true self.The experience of the Holy Spirit is essential in spiritual battles and is often misunderstood as strange or chaotic.Seatedness in Christ signifies trust and power, allowing us to face adversities with confidence and rest.Mentioned in this episode:Settled Design Course"Settled Design" is a 10-week groups course to experience deeper wholeness, identity, and union with God—without pressure, over-preparation, or forced vulnerability. Settled Design CourseReclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

We're diving deep into the often intimidating world of spiritual warfare this week, focusing on the crucial concept of perspective and how it shapes our reality. It's easy to feel overwhelmed when faced with life's challenges, but we're here to remind you that how we view these struggles can make all the difference. Our conversation highlights the powerful truth that we fight our battles through surrender, flipping the narrative from being victims to realizing we're actually beneficiaries of God's goodness. We'll explore a transformative story from 2 Kings, illustrating how the servant of Elisha gained a new perspective, revealing a heavenly army that far outnumbered the earthly one threatening him. Join us as we uncover how shifting our view not only empowers us in our daily lives but also aligns us with the truth that the world is rigged for good.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:Understanding spiritual warfare requires us to shift our perspective on reality; how we see things changes everything.The story of Elisha shows that even when we feel surrounded by difficulties, there is a divine army ready to support us.Our perspective shapes our reality, and believing that the world is rigged for good can empower us in challenging situations.We don’t need to focus on naming our struggles but rather on seeing the support that surrounds us in our battles.

We’re kicking off a new series on spiritual warfare, and today, we’re diving deep into the intriguing paradox that to win in this spiritual battle, we actually need to surrender. It’s a concept that flips our usual understanding of conflict on its head. We’ve all been taught that fighting back is the way to victory, but what if the true path lies in yielding to Jesus and embracing the humility that comes with it? Throughout our conversation, we explore how surrendering can lead to profound victory, and how this practice can transform our perspective on the challenges we face. Join us as we unravel the complexities of spiritual warfare and discover how agreeing quickly with our adversaries—whether they’re external or internal—can be a powerful strategy in the fight for our true selves.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:In spiritual warfare, the core paradox is that to win, we must surrender to Jesus.Understanding spiritual warfare requires recognizing the power of our agreements and disagreements.Surrendering to Jesus is fundamentally about trusting in His victory and resting in His presence.The battles we face are often rooted in our identities; knowing who we are in Christ is key.Mentioned in this episode:Settled Design Course"Settled Design" is a 10-week groups course to experience deeper wholeness, identity, and union with God—without pressure, over-preparation, or forced vulnerability. Settled Design CourseReclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

We’re diving into the final episode of our childlikeness series, where we unwrap the powerful connection between imagination and a flourishing marriage. We explore how imagination isn’t just a whimsical fantasy; it’s a vital tool we can use to envision healthier relationships and a deeper connection with God. We discuss the distinction between healthy imagination and destructive fantasies, emphasizing how the latter can lead us away from genuine intimacy. Drawing on personal anecdotes and biblical insights, we invite you to reconsider how you use your imaginative faculties to partner with God in creating a life filled with hope and possibility. So, grab a comfy chair, and let’s journey together into the wonderful world of childlike imagination!Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:In our final episode of the childlikeness series, we explore the importance of imagination in a thriving marriage rather than indulging in fantasy, which can lead to harmful illusions.Jesus emphasized that to enter the kingdom of heaven, we must embrace a childlike heart, which invites us to perceive the world through the innocent lens of a child.Our imaginations serve as a powerful tool for engaging with God, allowing us to experience deeper spiritual realities rather than falling into the trap of fantasies or illusions.Imagination isn't just for children; it's a divine gift that can help us envision a hopeful future with God, transforming how we perceive our relationships and lives.By partnering with God in our imagination, we can create a vision for our lives and relationships that leads to healing and fulfillment, as opposed to relying on self-sourced fantasies.As we cultivate our imaginative faculties, we discover that they can be redeemed and used for good, enabling us to see beyond our current realities and into the possibilities God has for us.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

We dive deep into the concept of being childlike, emphasizing that Jesus said we must adopt this mindset to enter the kingdom of God. As we explore what it truly means to be inquisitive, we reflect on how children perceive the world with wonder and awe, often seeing things adults overlook. We share personal anecdotes that highlight our own experiences of curiosity and the joy that comes from embracing the simple marvels of life—like the fascinating design of a grapefruit! We also tackle the challenges of maintaining that childlike wonder as we grow older, often succumbing to indifference or apathy. Through this conversation, we encourage ourselves and our listeners to open up to the magnificence of God and rediscover the joy and curiosity that comes with engaging fully in life.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/"Gazing" by Godfrey Birtill: https://youtu.be/ZLFl3aPAb8gTakeaways:Inquisitiveness and childlikeness are essential to engaging with God's kingdom, as Jesus emphasized in his teachings.Wonder and awe are fundamental aspects of a child's perspective that many adults lose over time, but they are crucial for spiritual growth.Embracing our feelings of apathy can lead to a deeper understanding of God's magnanimous nature and foster a renewed sense of curiosity.The journey of integrating both good and bad experiences allows us to maintain our childlike wonder while navigating the complexities of adulthood.Mentioned in this episode:Settled Design Course"Settled Design" is a 10-week groups course to experience deeper wholeness, identity, and union with God—without pressure, over-preparation, or forced vulnerability. Settled Design CourseReclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

We dive deep into the essence of childlikeness, focusing on innocence and what it truly means to live with that quality in our lives. We explore how Jesus emphasizes the importance of becoming like children to engage with the kingdom of God, highlighting the genuine curiosity and openness that children embody. As we unpack the complexities of guilt versus innocence, we discuss how societal judgments can distort our self-perception, making us feel inherently guilty rather than recognizing our innate purity in Christ. Join us as we reflect on the journey of reconciling our humanity with our divine identity, ultimately embracing the truth that we are seen as innocent and whole in the eyes of God. It’s a conversation filled with humor, insights, and a call to reclaim the innocence that is rightfully ours.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:Childlikeness is essential for engaging with the kingdom of God, emphasizing curiosity and playfulness.We often lose our sense of innocence as we grow up, but it's important to reclaim it.Feeling guilty is different from being guilty; our identity in Christ is that we are innocent.Jesus teaches us that true greatness is found in childlike qualities, flipping societal norms on their head.The cross represents an exchange where we trade our guilt for innocence, reaffirming our true identity.Understanding our humanity and divinity helps reconcile our growth into maturity while maintaining a childlike heart.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

This week, we dive deep into the concept of interdependence versus independence, particularly in the context of childlikeness. We explore what it truly means to have community and the importance of recognizing who’s around us and why that matters. It’s all about understanding our needs and how they connect us to others, as we reflect on the beauty of being able to express those needs like children do. We unpack the idea that while independence is often celebrated, it can lead to isolation, whereas interdependence fosters genuine connections and healing. Join us as we navigate these themes, drawing on personal experiences and scripture, to highlight the power of community in our lives.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:In this episode, we explored the essential concept of interdependence and how it contrasts with independence, highlighting the need for community support.We discussed the importance of maintaining childlikeness in our relationships, understanding that it's not about being childish, but rather embracing our needs.It's crucial to recognize our own needs, as adults often struggle to express them due to societal pressures or past experiences.The podcast emphasized that vulnerability in asking for help is a strength, allowing us to grow in our relationships and deepen our community connections.We reflected on the biblical perspective of bearing one another's burdens, which reminds us that we need each other to navigate life’s challenges.Finally, we touched on how emotional awareness can guide us in understanding our needs, leading to healthier connections with others.Townsend's Relational Nutrients - https://drtownsend.com/relational-nutrients/From the book People Fuel by Dr. John Townsend - https://drtownsend.com/books/Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design Course"Settled Design" is a 10-week groups course to experience deeper wholeness, identity, and union with God—without pressure, over-preparation, or forced vulnerability. Settled Design Course

We dive into the compelling invitation from Jesus to embrace a childlike spirit as a pathway to the kingdom of heaven. The conversation gets real as we explore what it truly means to be childlike—not childish—in our faith journey. We unpack the significance of dependence, joy, and the raw honesty that children embody. Through relatable anecdotes, we illustrate how societal pressures often stifle our innate ability to connect with God and others authentically. Join us as we challenge the norms of adulthood and rediscover the beauty of being a child of God, fully alive and engaged with the kingdom right here around us.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:Entering the kingdom of heaven requires a childlike heart and perspective, not mere rules.Childlikeness is about dependence on God, recognizing our need for Him in all things.Jesus emphasized that being childlike is essential for entering the kingdom, highlighting the importance of humility.True childlikeness allows us to engage with the kingdom around us and perceive its presence.As adults, we often lose touch with our inner child, but embracing that can lead to deeper spiritual truths.Mistakes are part of being childlike; it's the willingness to learn and grow that truly matters.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

This week, we’re diving deep into the heart of family dynamics as we explore the significance of gathering around the table. We share our personal journey of how we created a weekly family dinner tradition, which we affectionately dubbed our Shabbat meal. The table became a sacred space where we not only shared meals but also engaged in meaningful conversations about our lives and emotions, encouraging everyone to express their feelings openly. We discuss the importance of creating an atmosphere that allows for vulnerability and connection, even amidst discomfort, and how this practice has fostered deeper relationships within our family. Join us as we reflect on the memories made and the growth experienced through our table rituals, reminding us all that there’s room for every feeling at our family table.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:Family dinners create a space where we can share our feelings and experiences openly.Establishing a weekly family meal can strengthen connections and provide a rhythm for communication.Using a feelings chart helped our family articulate emotions, making sharing feelings more common.Creating a safe atmosphere at the dinner table allows for deeper conversations and vulnerability among family members.Practicing vulnerability as parents encourages our kids to express their emotions without fear of judgment.Over the years, consistency at the family table helped our children feel comfortable sharing their lives with us.Mentioned in this episode:Settled Design Course"Settled Design" is a 10-week groups course to experience deeper wholeness, identity, and union with God—without pressure, over-preparation, or forced vulnerability. Settled Design CourseReclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

This episode dives deep into the roles we adopt within our families and how these roles shape our identities. We explore the idea that family dynamics can often feel like a framework into which we are poured as children, with each of us taking on specific roles—whether we were asked to or not. From the silent absorber to the family punchline, we share our personal experiences and humorous anecdotes about the roles we played growing up. We open up about how these family patterns can carry over into adulthood, affecting our relationships and self-perception. Ultimately, we encourage you to reflect on your own family roles and consider how they might still influence your life today, as we seek to shed those costumes and embrace our true selves in Christ.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:In this episode, we explored how childhood roles in our families shape our adult lives, often unconsciously.We discussed the importance of recognizing and shedding the emotional costumes we wore as children to live authentically.Understanding our family of origin can help us identify patterns that no longer serve us in our current relationships and workplaces.We emphasized that our identities should not be defined by roles imposed on us in childhood, but rather by our true selves in Christ.It's vital to notice the dynamics in our families, as they can inform our emotional responses and coping mechanisms today.The conversation highlighted how healing involves disentangling from unhealthy roles and stepping into our true identities.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Exploring the concept of God as Mother may just be the most liberating conversation we've had yet. In this episode, we dive into the often overlooked feminine attributes of God, challenging conventional views of the divine as strictly paternal. Through personal stories and scripture, we reveal how embracing God’s maternal qualities can bring healing and a deeper understanding of our relationship with Him. We share our own experiences of how our perceptions of God are shaped by our families of origin, illustrating the importance of seeing God as both a nurturing figure and a source of comfort. This episode is not just a theological discussion; it's an invitation to reconsider how we relate to the divine and to explore the warmth and nurturing that God offers to each of us.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:This episode dives into the unconventional idea of viewing God as a mother, challenging traditional notions and encouraging healing through this perspective.The hosts share personal stories about their family backgrounds and how they influence their understanding of God, emphasizing the need for guidance in spiritual journeys.We explore the nurturing aspects of God as a mother, illustrating how this maternal imagery can provide comfort and security in our faith.The discussion unpacks how attachment theory relates to our relationship with God, highlighting the importance of receiving love and nourishment from both our earthly and divine parents.Mentioned in this episode:Settled Design Course"Settled Design" is a 10-week groups course to experience deeper wholeness, identity, and union with God—without pressure, over-preparation, or forced vulnerability. Settled Design CourseReclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

We're diving deep into how we perceive God as Father in this episode, and it’s a pretty crucial topic. The way we view God is often shaped by our experiences with our earthly fathers, whether those relationships are filled with love or carry deep wounds. We share our personal stories to explore how these dynamics affect our view of God and ourselves. Together, we’ll process those feelings and invite God into the healing process, aiming to reshape our understanding of divine fatherhood. So, grab a seat, and let’s create some space for God to speak into our hearts and bring forth a clearer picture of who He is as our perfect Father.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:Our understanding of God as Father is deeply connected to our earthly father experiences, which can shape our identity and beliefs.Healing from past wounds with our fathers can transform how we see God, fostering a healthier relationship with Him.A father’s voice has a profound impact on a child's identity; it's crucial for affirmation and acceptance.Forgiveness is essential for moving forward and can lead to a deeper understanding of our identity as children of God.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

We dive deep into our concept of God today, focusing specifically on how our understanding of Jesus shapes our identity and our relationships. This conversation is not just enlightening; it's liberating. We explore how our early family experiences and the dynamics of sibling relationships heavily influence our perceptions of God and ourselves. With humor and vulnerability, we reflect on our personal journeys towards seeing God as a friend and a brother, breaking down the barriers of misconceptions that may have held us back from experiencing true connection. Join us as we share stories of transformation and invite you to consider how you view Jesus, and how that view impacts your life and relationships.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:Our concept of God is significantly influenced by our family of origin, shaping our beliefs about Him.It's essential to recognize and address the misconceptions we hold about God stemming from childhood experiences.Seeing Jesus as a friend or sibling can transform our understanding of His love and companionship.Transformation happens when we allow God to reveal the truth about our lives and relationships.The process of healing often requires vulnerability and a willingness to confront past hurts.We can hold both the reality of our current relationships and the pain of our past experiences simultaneously.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneyReclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

We're diving into the transformative concept of God in this new series, exploring how our perception of Him shapes our entire experience of life. I mean, how we see God isn't just an abstract idea; it profoundly impacts how we view ourselves and the people around us. We're all carrying around some form of concept of God, often shaped by our upbringing, which can lead to some serious misunderstandings about His nature. As we kick off this series, we're not just scratching the surface; we're laying down a framework that will guide us into deeper conversations and revelations about who God really is. So, buckle up, because this journey is going to be liberating as we shatter those old, unhelpful images and embrace the fullness of His love and goodness!Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:Understanding our concept of God is crucial as it shapes how we see ourselves and others in our lives.The way we perceive God is often influenced by our familial experiences, which can lead to misconceptions about His nature.Dysfunctional family dynamics can distort our understanding of God's love and care, highlighting the need for a redefined perspective.Our journey toward a healthier concept of God requires us to confront and surrender our preconceived notions, allowing for transformation.Recognizing the difference between iniquity and sin helps us understand how generational patterns can influence our view of God.Embracing the truth of who God is can lead to profound liberation and a deeper connection with our true selves.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

We dive into our marriage journey, sharing how we met and the unique dynamic that keeps our relationship vibrant and authentic. In this episode, we tackle the stereotypes that often shape marital expectations, emphasizing the importance of being true to ourselves rather than conforming to societal norms. We explore the playful differences in our communication styles—like my tendency to chat about every detail while my partner offers brief, succinct responses. Through humor and heart, we discuss how we navigate these contrasts, learning to appreciate each other's perspectives while fostering a deeper connection. Ultimately, we invite you to embrace your own authenticity in relationships, shedding any roles that don't fit and celebrating the beautiful complexity of who you are.Takeaways:Our marriage story highlights the importance of authenticity and finding your true self.We challenge stereotypes about men and women, emphasizing that everyone is unique and nuanced.The Settled Conference is designed to create a space for healing and personal growth.We share our journey of accepting ourselves and each other through the challenges of marriage.Communication styles can vary greatly, but understanding and acceptance can bridge those gaps.Unity in marriage means embracing our differences while still supporting each other's individuality.Mentioned in this episode:Settled Design Course"Settled Design" is a 10-week groups course to experience deeper wholeness, identity, and union with God—without pressure, over-preparation, or forced vulnerability. Settled Design CourseReclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Join us as we dive into the intriguing world of prophecy, a subject that sparks a variety of opinions and conversations. We're unpacking our personal journeys with the prophetic, shedding light on how it can be a powerful tool for encouragement and reconciliation rather than something to fear. We believe that everyone can engage with the prophetic—not just a select few—and through this episode, we aim to demystify what it really means to hear God and share His heart for others. Plus, we’re excited to announce our upcoming conference in Grapevine, Texas, where we’ll create a space for healing and connection, helping you to occupy your true self and hear God in the moment. So grab your headphones, and let's explore how prophecy can transform our lives and relationships!Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Book Mentioned: A Beckoning To Wonder by Jen WeaverTakeaways:In this episode, we explore the topic of prophecy and its significance in our spiritual journeys, emphasizing how it can empower us to hear God more clearly.We believe that prophecy should not be seen as a tool for judgment or shame, but rather as a means to encourage and uplift one another in our true identities.The upcoming Settled Conference aims to provide a healing space for individuals to connect with God, explore their identities, and experience community support.A key takeaway is that prophecy is about recognizing and affirming the truth of who we are in Christ rather than merely predicting the future or flattering one another.Our conversation highlights the importance of community in the prophetic process, as gathering together enhances our ability to hear from God more clearly.Ultimately, we want to remind everyone that we need each other in our spiritual journeys, as we often have blind spots that others can help us see clearly.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

We're diving deep into who we are at SettledCo, and let me tell you, it's been quite the journey! We're not just a counseling company; we're a community passionate about helping others occupy their true selves in Christ. From our humble beginnings—when I, Jason, launched the company solo after leaving a decade-long church staff role—to now, where Elizabeth has officially joined the adventure, we've been busy creating a space where people can experience healing and growth. We're excited to share the evolution of our offerings, from biblical counseling to consulting and courses, all underpinned by our core message of settled identity. So grab a cocktail—yes, we might just talk about those—and join us for this revealing behind-the-scenes look at SettledCo!Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:We started SettledCo after leaving long-term church staff, aiming to help others find their true selves in Christ.Our journey has taken us through various office spaces, but we finally settled into a permanent location.SettledCo focuses on biblical counseling, coaching, and consulting, with a passion for serving individuals and churches alike.We believe that settled identity empowers individuals, couples, and organizations to thrive in their true purpose.Our upcoming conference will be a unique opportunity for community and growth, so mark your calendars for February!We aim to help churches move from creating dependents to developing disciples with emotional and spiritual maturity.Mentioned in this episode:Settled Design Course"Settled Design" is a 10-week groups course to experience deeper wholeness, identity, and union with God—without pressure, over-preparation, or forced vulnerability. Settled Design CourseReclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Today, we dive into the transformative practice of meditation and contemplation, exploring how these moments of silence can help us truly hear God. This episode wraps up our series on connecting with God not through words, but through stillness and presence. We’ll discuss how stepping away from the noise of daily life allows us to be present with ourselves and with God, and help dispel the pressures we feel to constantly be productive. From personal anecdotes about our kids to sharing our favorite contemplation techniques, we aim to make this practice accessible and inviting. So grab a candle or find a quiet spot, and let’s explore how simply being can be an act of worship and a path to deeper connection.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:Meditation and contemplation allow us to hear God by embracing silence and stillness.Practicing presence with both God and ourselves is essential for spiritual growth.Our identity shouldn't be tied solely to productivity; being is just as important as doing.Creating intentional quiet moments can lead to profound experiences of God's presence and love.We often confuse maturity with productivity, missing the value of simply being present.Engaging in practices like lighting a candle can help cultivate a quiet, reflective space for prayer.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Today, we're diving into the profound topic of being known as a friend of God. It’s not just about knowing Him; it’s about the incredible reality that He knows us deeply and intimately. We explore different dimensions of knowing God—cognitive, emotional, and even that profound intimacy likened to a marriage. Along the way, we share personal stories about our struggles with anxiety and how vulnerability opened the door to experiencing God’s presence in those moments. Join us as we unpack what it truly means to invite God into our lives and be seen by Him in our rawest, most honest states.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:We discussed the importance of being known by God, which goes beyond mere cognitive understanding.The episode explored the idea that vulnerability allows us to experience God's presence intimately.We shared personal stories about panic attacks and how surrendering brought peace and connection with God.The conversation highlighted how knowing God involves emotional and intimate dimensions, not just intellectual knowledge.Friendship with God means engaging in curiosity and asking fun questions about our relationship with Him.We emphasized that God's invitation to be known is essential for experiencing true peace and hope.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design Course"Settled Design" is a 10-week groups course to experience deeper wholeness, identity, and union with God—without pressure, over-preparation, or forced vulnerability. Settled Design Course

Today, we're diving into a conversation about finding a safe place with God, a concept that can transform how we hear Him. We explore the idea that feeling safe is a core human need, and when we don’t feel safe, we tend to hide or put on facades instead of bringing our true selves to the table. With insights drawn from Scripture, we highlight that God serves as our strong tower, providing refuge and safety in His presence. We also discuss how to use the eyes of our heart to discover new truths about ourselves through contemplation and reflection, fostering a more intimate connection with God. Join us as we guide you through exercises to visualize your safe place and invite you to see yourself through the lens of divine love and safety.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:In this episode, we explore the profound concept of finding a safe place with God, emphasizing that safety is a fundamental human need that influences how we engage in relationships and with ourselves.We discuss how our internal judgments can hinder our ability to sit comfortably with ourselves, which is crucial when seeking to hear God more clearly.The idea of practicing the presence of both God and ourselves is highlighted, helping us to feel safe enough to explore our thoughts and emotions without judgment.We encourage listeners to visualize their 'safe place' during meditation, understanding that God knows what we need to feel secure and will guide us there.Throughout the podcast, we share personal anecdotes about how engaging with our imagination in safe spaces can lead to deeper revelations about our identity in Christ.Finally, we emphasize that our ability to hear God can be enhanced when we feel safe, allowing us to present our true selves and receive His guidance more freely.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

We're diving deep into the art of asking, seeking, and knocking—yes, it's not just a catchy phrase; it's a lifeline for hearing God in our lives! In this episode, we explore how persistence in our prayers and desires not only aligns us with God but also reflects our inner longings and truths. We'll unpack the importance of using our words, our eyes, and our bodies in this process, illustrating how each action plays a vital role in our relationship with God. Together, we’ll reaffirm that this journey is about discovering ourselves in Christ, recognizing that the knocking isn't just about us inviting Him in; it’s about Him inviting us to see who we truly are. So grab your metaphorical door knocker, and let’s get ready to explore how to engage more fully with the One who is always knocking at our hearts!Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:Hearing God involves asking, seeking, and knocking persistently, not just once.Our approach to God should be about relationship, not obligation or striving to earn favor.Understanding our true identity in Christ is crucial for effective communication with God.Persistence in prayer reflects our genuine desire for connection with God and self-discovery.We can hear God through various senses; it's not limited to just what we hear.Asking God about our identity can transform our understanding of what we truly need.Mentioned in this episode:Settled Design Course"Settled Design" is a 10-week groups course to experience deeper wholeness, identity, and union with God—without pressure, over-preparation, or forced vulnerability. Settled Design CourseReclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Today, we’re diving deep into the concept of attunement and how it relates to hearing God. We’re exploring the idea that genuine connection with others—and with God—hinges on being seen, heard, and understood. Through some relatable stories, like a mom's response to her daughter’s mishap with a new pair of jeans, we’ll illustrate how attunement can transform our relationships and interactions. We’ll also unpack how God is perpetually attuned to us, inviting us to mirror that same understanding and connection in our own lives. So whether you’re feeling frustrated, joyful, or anything in between, this episode is about recognizing that you are not alone in your emotions, and that there’s a loving presence ready to meet you right where you are.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:We learned that humor can be a powerful tool in communication and connection.It's essential to embrace vulnerability in our conversations to foster deeper relationships.Our experiences shape our perspectives, and sharing those can help others feel less alone.We discussed the importance of active listening and how it can transform dialogues.Finding common ground can lead to more meaningful discussions, even in disagreement.We emphasized that laughter is a universal language that can bridge gaps between people.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Today, we're diving into a thought-provoking discussion about how you don't actually need faith to hear God. I know, it sounds a bit wild, right? But it’s true! This episode really unpacks the idea that as children of God, we are inherently designed to hear Him without the pressure of mustering up faith first. We’re here to help you settle into the reality that you’re perfectly made to tune into His voice. Join us as we explore what it means to rest in that truth and stop striving, because hearing God is about relationship, not performance. Plus, we’ll share some personal insights and practical coaching tips to help you engage in this beautiful connection with the divine.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:You don't need to have faith to hear God; hearing is inherent to being His child.Resting in our ability to hear God allows us to stop striving for faith.The act of listening is not about producing faith, but rather relaxing into God's presence.We are designed to hear God without needing to muster up faith ourselves.Faith comes from hearing, and by simply listening, we receive the faith we need.The metaphor of sheep and shepherd illustrates our natural ability to recognize God's voice.Mentioned in this episode:Settled Design Course"Settled Design" is a 10-week groups course to experience deeper wholeness, identity, and union with God—without pressure, over-preparation, or forced vulnerability. Settled Design CourseReclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Today, we dive into the profound topic of hearing God, a conversation that challenges the notion that only the spiritual elite can tap into divine communication. We explore the idea that the language of God is not just a set of words but the very fabric of reality itself. In our discussion, we share personal experiences that illustrate how God speaks to us through peace, intuition, and even our emotions, emphasizing that hearing Him can take many forms beyond the traditional understanding. We reflect on how our upbringing and societal influences shape our perceptions of God and reality, inviting listeners to consider surrendering their limited views for a broader, divine perspective. Join us as we embrace the journey of discovering how God communicates in our lives, offering tools to help us tune into His voice in a way that feels personal and tangible.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:In this episode, we discuss the importance of hearing God and how our perception can shape our reality, emphasizing that God speaks in the language of reality.We explore the concept that hearing God is not just about words, but also involves intuition, emotions, and the embodied experience of our relationship with Him.Understanding that God is love, hope, and peace means recognizing that these virtues are not merely gifts, but are intrinsically part of His nature and reality.The podcast encourages listeners to surrender their perceived realities to God's ultimate reality, which is essential for personal transformation and growth.We highlight the significance of perspective in understanding our lives and the people around us, suggesting that God often invites us to see things differently.Lastly, we emphasize that our experiences, emotions, and even our imaginations can be valid ways to hear God, challenging the notion that divine communication is strictly verbal.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Today, we’re unpacking the profound topic of original design and what it means to be found in Christ before the very foundations of the earth were laid. It's a refreshing perspective that shifts the narrative away from original sin and towards the beautiful truth of our original innocence in Him. We dive deep into how our identity isn’t defined by our mistakes but rather by our inherent value as individuals chosen by God. With humor and heartfelt honesty, we explore the idea of seeing ourselves through the lens of grace rather than guilt, inviting a transformative perspective that can change how we live and interact with the world. Join us as we navigate these themes and encourage each other to embrace the reality of being found in Christ, discovering the impact of this truth on our everyday lives.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:The discussion centers around our origin in Christ, emphasizing that we were chosen in Him before the foundation of the world, not defined by sin.C.S. Lewis's view on time is highlighted, explaining how God transcends our linear understanding, seeing all time as one continuous moment.The podcast encourages listeners to embrace their original innocence, moving beyond the narrative of original sin to understand their identity in Christ.A significant focus is placed on the idea of partnership with God, exploring the concept of 'usness' in our relationship with Him and how we can interact with His will in our lives.Listeners are reminded that God is never far from us, confronting the lie of separation and inviting us to recognize His closeness in every aspect of our lives.Ultimately, the conversation invites a perspective shift, encouraging us to see ourselves as reconciled beings in Christ, moving towards spiritual maturity and the true essence of our identity.Mentioned in this episode:Settled Design Course"Settled Design" is a 10-week groups course to experience deeper wholeness, identity, and union with God—without pressure, over-preparation, or forced vulnerability. Settled Design CourseReclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

We're diving into a pivotal discussion about our original design, focusing on the theme of being "naked and unashamed." This episode tackles the concept of shame and how it impacts our lives, encouraging us to identify the areas where we feel exposed and the voices that have influenced our self-perception. We reflect on the Genesis narrative, emphasizing that before the fall, humanity was created to live in openness and vulnerability, fully embraced by God's presence. Through personal stories and insights, we explore the transformative journey of relinquishing shame and occupying our true identities in Christ. Ultimately, we aim to illuminate the path toward healing and authenticity, inviting listeners to engage with their own narratives and discover the freedom that comes from living without shame.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:In this episode, we explore the concept of being naked and unashamed, which dives deep into our original design as humans created in the image of God.We discuss how shame can manifest in our lives, often leading us to cover up our true selves with metaphorical fig leaves, and the importance of identifying these areas.The conversation highlights the significance of asking ourselves 'who told you that?' to understand the lies we believe and where they come from.We emphasize that God invites us into a safe space where we can explore our shame and find healing through His truth and love.As we reflect on the Genesis narrative, we recognize that our identity in Christ is rooted in being unashamed, reminding us of our worth and value.The episode encourages us to live out our true selves without fear of judgment, embracing vulnerability as a pathway to authentic community and connection.Links referenced in this episode:bibleproject.comMentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Today, we’re diving into a fascinating exploration of our original design as we unpack the significance of the two trees in the Garden of Eden. The central theme revolves around understanding the choice between the Tree of Life and the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil, and how this choice impacts our spiritual journey. We’ll help you discern which tree you might be drawing from in your own life, and share insights from years of personal and ministry experiences that have transformed countless lives. Our goal is to empower you to live from the Tree of Life, embracing a source of life that leads to true fulfillment rather than the confusion of self-sourcing that often leads to insecurity and striving. Join us as we navigate these profound concepts and invite you to reflect on where you’re finding your sustenance in life.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:In today's episode, we explored the profound narrative of the two trees in the Garden of Eden, emphasizing how they symbolize our choices between life and death.We discussed the importance of discerning whether we are sourcing our lives from the Tree of Life or the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil.After years of ministry and personal growth, we've witnessed countless transformations by encouraging individuals to choose life over knowledge that leads to insecurity.It's essential to understand that while knowledge can be good, it should never become our primary source of identity or fulfillment, as it can lead us away from true life.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design Course"Settled Design" is a 10-week groups course to experience deeper wholeness, identity, and union with God—without pressure, over-preparation, or forced vulnerability. Settled Design Course

Today, we're diving into the profound topic of living from the image of God and how the impressions we allow from people and situations can distort our true identity. We explore the idea that many of us carry images shaped by past experiences, whether they be traumatic or simply misleading, which can leave us feeling devalued. Using the playful metaphor of Silly Putty, we discuss how these impressions can stick to our hearts and influence our perceptions of self-worth. Together, we reflect on the importance of recognizing these false images and returning to the truth of who we are as image bearers of God. Join us as we unpack this journey of peeling away the misleading layers and embracing our true selves in Christ.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:We need to be cautious of the images we allow others to impress upon us, as they can distort our true identity in God.Our childhood experiences shape our beliefs about ourselves, often leading to feelings of inadequacy and unworthiness that aren't rooted in truth.Understanding our worth as bearers of God's image allows us to reject lies and reclaim our identity in Christ, reminding us of our inherent value.As we navigate life, it's essential to discern the voices that shape our perceptions, seeking God's truth to redefine our self-image and purpose.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Today, we're diving deep into the idea of occupying our true selves in Christ and understanding ourselves as a territory, a land filled with dreams, disappointments, and hopes. We explore how every person is like a universe of experiences, and how the kingdom of God resides within us, waiting to be discovered. Yep, that’s right—just like the tasty meatballs we enjoyed at IKEA, there's a richness inside us that’s both profound and deliciously complex! We'll get into how our internal world can sometimes feel chaotic, and how we often give external forces too much power over our identity. Ultimately, we’re inviting you to engage with God and explore the beautiful reality of who you really are—because the journey of self-discovery is not just about understanding ourselves, but about realizing the treasure that God sees within us. So, grab that cup of coffee, settle in, and let’s uncover the truth together!Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Show Notes:In this engaging episode, we tackle the intricate relationship between our identities and our faith in Christ. After a light-hearted introduction featuring our family's IKEA trip, we find ourselves contemplating the profound nature of the human experience while enjoying those famous meatballs. This seemingly mundane moment sparks a discussion about the deep stories and complexities that each individual embodies. We draw on biblical metaphors, particularly the idea of being a promised land, to illustrate how each of us is called to occupy our true selves. The conversation highlights the importance of the internal kingdom that resides within us, as emphasized by Jesus in Luke 17:21. We explore the concept of dominion, referencing the creation narrative where humanity is given authority over the earth, and how this pertains to our personal lives. Through humor and heartfelt discussion, we address the challenges of maintaining our identities amidst societal pressures and the metaphorical 'squatters' that may inhabit our inner territories. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own journeys, inviting them to engage with God in revealing their true selves, and to embrace the invitation to occupy the beautiful land of who they are in Christ. As we conclude, we leave our audience with a challenge to actively participate in this internal exploration and to reclaim the dominion that God has given them.Takeaways:We discussed how our identities are like territories that we need to occupy fully and embrace.The metaphor of being a promised land helps us understand our spiritual journey of self-discovery and growth in Christ.There’s power in understanding that we are bigger on the inside than we appear externally; our inner reality holds treasures.We have the ability to choose what we agree with, whether it’s truth or lies, impacting our identity and dominion over ourselves.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design Course"Settled Design" is a 10-week groups course to experience deeper wholeness, identity, and union with God—without pressure, over-preparation, or forced vulnerability. Settled Design Course

We're kicking off our Original Design Series. In this episode, we’re diving deep into what it truly means to sit down inside ourselves and operate from our original design in Christ. We’ll unpack how so many of us have been conditioned to focus on what we do rather than who we are, often letting the narrative of humanity's fall overshadow God’s original intent for us. It’s a refreshing perspective that invites us to embrace rest as our starting point, rather than a reward for our efforts. We’ll explore the garden language that illustrates our identity as image bearers and how that plays into our daily lives and relationships. Join us as we challenge the hustle mentality and encourage a posture of trust and rest, allowing ourselves to be filled and overflow into the lives of those around us.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Show NotesIn this engaging episode, we are led through a reflective journey about our original design and the significance of resting in our identity as creations of God. Elizabeth and Jason Settle articulate the often-overlooked truth that humanity was created in a state of rest, drawing from the creation narrative in Genesis. They emphasize that our first day as humans was not spent in toil but in enjoying the fullness of what God had created. This foundational understanding invites us to reconsider how we approach our lives, particularly in a culture that prizes busyness and productivity over stillness and being.The discussion transitions into the implications of viewing ourselves through the lens of our original design versus the narrative of original sin. Elizabeth and Jason share personal stories that illustrate how easily we fall into the trap of equating our worth with our performance. By recognizing that we are designed for relationship and rest, we can shift our mindset from one of striving to one of receiving God's grace. They encourage listeners to cultivate a posture of surrender, which allows us to experience true rest and trust in God’s provision.As the episode unfolds, the hosts engage listeners in a guided reflection, inviting them to 'sit down' in their inner selves and connect with God on a deeper level. This practice serves as a powerful reminder that rest is not merely the absence of work but a state of being where we can engage in the fullness of life God intends for us. The conversation beautifully weaves together scriptural insights, personal anecdotes, and practical applications, leaving the audience with a renewed sense of purpose and the understanding that they are invited to live from a place of rest, reflecting the heart of God in their daily lives.Takeaways:In our journey with the Lord, we often focus on original sin rather than our original design in Christ.Living from a place of rest requires us to relinquish control and trust God's plan for us.Our first day as humanity was a day of rest, emphasizing that we were created for relationship, not just work.To truly occupy our true selves, we must learn to sit down inside ourselves and trust in God's presence.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

This podcast episode elucidates the notion that incessant striving to improve oneself often proves fruitless, as evidenced by our discussion surrounding the concept of the "try harder solution." We delve into the detrimental effects of relying on sheer effort without addressing the underlying issues of the heart, ultimately revealing that true transformation stems from a profound connection with God rather than mere self-discipline. Through personal anecdotes, we illustrate the futility of attempting to rectify life’s challenges through superficial means, drawing parallels to a childhood experience with improper cleaning solutions. Our conversation underscores the importance of embracing a new identity as children of God, which liberates us from the burdens of performance and invites us to rest in divine love. We invite listeners to reflect on their own experiences and consider what it means to live authentically, guided by the heart rather than relentless effort.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Design CourseSettled CommunityFree 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/In an engaging dialogue, Jason and Elizabeth Settle delve into the complexities of human striving, particularly the pervasive notion that one must 'try harder' to effect change in their lives. They introduce a personal narrative that encapsulates this struggle, recounting a childhood incident involving a cleaning mishap that serves as an allegory for the futility of applying effort without the right understanding. This story illustrates how misguided attempts to address problems can lead to exacerbated difficulties, prompting listeners to reflect on their own experiences with ineffective solutions.The conversation evolves to underscore the significance of approaching life's challenges from a heart-centered perspective rather than a strength-driven one. Drawing from biblical scripture, the speakers emphasize the foundational commandment of loving God with one's heart, soul, mind, and strength. They argue that genuine transformation stems from a heart aligned with divine love, rather than from relentless effort. This shift in focus invites listeners to reconsider their self-perceptions and the ways in which they engage with God and themselves, fostering a deeper understanding of their worth as children of God.As the episode concludes, the speakers impart a vital message of liberation from the burdensome cycle of striving. They advocate for a life characterized by rest and acceptance, encouraging listeners to embrace their identities as beloved children of God. By relinquishing the pressure to perform and instead receiving love, individuals can cultivate a more authentic and fulfilling spiritual journey, marked by trust and peace rather than anxiety and striving. This enlightening discussion serves as a powerful reminder of the transformative power of grace in the pursuit of a meaningful life.Takeaways:The podcast emphasizes the importance of recognizing our identity as children of God, which offers a profound sense of freedom and acceptance.Listeners are encouraged to explore the idea that striving and effort alone often lead to frustration, and that true transformation comes from a heart-centered approach.Jason and Elizabeth share personal anecdotes to illustrate how the common tendency to 'try harder' can be counterproductive in achieving personal growth and spiritual fulfillment.A key theme of the episode is the necessity of engaging with God to understand the true nature of our hearts and to embrace our new identity in Christ.The hosts discuss how many individuals mistakenly reach for ineffective solutions in their lives, believing that increased effort will yield better outcomes.The podcast concludes with an invitation for listeners to reflect on their own lives and to seek God's guidance in identifying the true solutions to their struggles.Mentioned in this episode:Settled Design Course"Settled Design" is a 10-week groups course to experience deeper wholeness, identity, and union with God—without pressure, over-preparation, or forced vulnerability. Settled Design CourseReclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

You’re trying hard to do all the right things, but deep down you’re still exhausted, disconnected, and wondering if closeness with God is always going to feel just out of reach. In each episode, Jason & Elizabeth have raw, story-driven conversations to help you rest in the reconciled person you already are in Christ. We’ll include space to slow down, listen, and encounter God right where you are. Are you ready to stop striving, start hearing God in the moment, and occupy your true self? This show is for anyone craving freedom, wholeness, and a settled identity. Connect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/