Sex Upgraded

My entire perspective on women’s sexuality recently shifted — especially around the idea of containment. In this episode I share a personal realization that changed how I understand arousal, dominance, submission, deep pleasure, and the layers of shame many of us carry around sexuality.This is NOT meant to be a teaching episode.It’s more of a reflection on my own personal revelations and new practices that have changed how I relate to women and sex.I’m still actively learning and integrating these ideas, so take this as a window into my process - rather than a polished explanation of everything.If you're a man who loves women, what I share here could be one of the most important things you learn about sex.I would genuinely love to hear your thoughts and reactions - please let me know what you're thinking in the comments section of this episode on youtube, so we can explore this and learn together.Thank you.— TaylorTOPICS DISCUSSED: Containment in relationships, women's arousal, masculine leadership in intimacy, sexual polarity, dominance and submission, shame around sexuality, and how to get your wildest fantasies met as a man. **NOTE: You can expect more videos from me about the concept of containment, because I believe it's one of the most important ideas when it comes to sex and relationships.Upcoming topics may include:• how to contain a woman sexually• how to contain yourself• why YOU need containment• why offering containment matters as a man• and much more.CONNECT:https://www.taylorjohnson.life/https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson🔸 UPCOMING SEXUAL LEADERSHIP TRAINING:Applications for The Embodied Sexual Leadership Training will open mid-march. The retreat will be held in Asheville, NC, on the days of July 8-12. Learn more and get on the waiting list to apply here.Support the show

I just completed the “Tantra Meets BDSM” 7-day training with Om Rupani and Laurie Handlers. And wow... This episode is a personal integration — what I experienced, what blew me away, and what I’m still unpacking.If you listened to my previous episode before attending, this is the follow-up. And if you’re new here, this is a candid look into my own personal growth as a sexual human. Welcome.*NOTE: The background noise is the ocean. I recorded this with the intention of publishing the video to youtube. You can watch it here.TOPICS:0:00 A Turning Point in My Life 2:30 Containment7:56 BDSM Scene Creation10:40 Problematic Man/Woman Archetypes15:29 I LOVE Being a Dom18:51 Your Attention is Your Most Valuable ResourceCONNECT:🔸 2026 Men's Retreat (July 2026) 🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course🔸 Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnson-----RETREAT INFO:*Tantra Meets BDSM is a 7-day, in-person retreat - taught by Om Rupani and Laurie Handlers. It's primarily a BDSM training, taught through a lens of tantric/energetic understanding. The program is intense, challenging, and it has been one of the best retreats I've attended (this last round was taught at a beautiful retreat center on the coast of the Dominican Republic). You can check out the program here.Support the show

This is my personal update just before diving into 7-day BDSM retreat taught by Laurie Handlers & Om Rupani. It’s called “Tantra Meets BDSM” - and I’m 90% excited and 10% feeling edgy. Seems like the perfect ratio. Let me know your thoughts & questions if you have any. CONNECT WITH ME:🔸 Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life🔸 Insta: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonSupport the show

The Orgasmic Mastery Course is now open for self-study enrollment.This short episode is a clear, grounded overview of the course - what it actually is, who it’s for, and how it works - so you can feel into whether this is the right next step for you.This is a 10-week sexual self-mastery training for men who want:Deeply embodied sexual confidenceThe ability to last as long as they want during sexStronger, longer-lasting erectionsFull-body orgasms and a grounded pathway toward non-ejaculatory orgasmic statesThe skills to generate, circulate, and harness sexual energyThe joy of shamelessly owning their desiresThis course is not about tips, tricks, or hacks.It’s about training your nervous system and sexual response system through consistent, embodied practices—so real change happens in your body, not just in your mind.The self-study version includes:Full access to all 10 weeks of the courseLong-term access to the materialMonthly live group callsAccess to a private community of men who’ve gone through the workThe option to join a future live group round at a discounted rateIf you’d like to learn more or enroll, visit the course page here.**And - the self-study version is available at a discounted rate from the typical large group price.There’s no rush.Take your time.Trust your yes.- TaylorSupport the show

This episode is for any man who is interested in learning about my upcoming Orgasmic Mastery Course that starts on October 16th. It's a recording of a live Q&A call I led on October 8th - for anyone to ask me anything about the course. We got into some great conversation, and if you're considering joining the course, this should be a helpful listen.If you have any questions about the course after listening to this episode and checking out the course page, please either shoot me a DM on instagram (it's easy to reply with a voice message there) or send me an email.Thank you!-TaylorSupport the show

Get my free guided practice here: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/embodiment - and know this: Most men trying to improve their sex lives are missing one crucial ingredient: embodiment. And this is one of the main reasons why so many men have "tried all the techniques" but still struggle with premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and sexual performance anxiety...To overcome these challenges, you HAVE TO do some kind of embodiment practice - in addition to learning the direct sexual techniques that address the sexual "dysfunctions." The techniques alone won't cut it...*NOTE: This episode was originally filmed for Youtube, but I decided to put it here as a podcast episode as an experiment. You can watch the video on youtube here. FREE RESOURCES🔸 Ejaculation Control Training🔸 17-Minute Sexual Embodiment Guided Practice🔸 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeUPCOMING TRAINING FOR MEN:🔱 Consider joining my upcoming 10-week sexual self-mastery training for men called the Orgasmic Mastery Course. It starts October 16th, 2025.-------NOTE 2: The free practice I've linked to above combines elements of Qigong, breath work, Yoga, mobility training, Taoist sexual practice, and somatic awareness exercises too. This kind of practice is what I do for my main regular/personal practice. It's not entirely qigong, so I don't call it that. And it's not entirely yoga either...  It is what it is. :)-------CONNECT & LEARN MORE:Sex Upgraded PodcastWebsiteInstagram#embodimentpractice #embodiment #menshealth Support the show

This episode is a very personal story from a workshop I attended 6 weeks ago... During the workshop, I had an experience that broke me open in profound ways that have changed my life for the better. *(Important note below)* And I'm definitely still integrating what happened, but at this point I've spent enough time in integration to feel excited to share the story with you.**IMPORTANT NOTE: What I forgot to mention in the episode was that the experience was so strong for me, I had to spend the rest of that evening back at my AirB&B, going back and forth between laying down on the bed crying with emotional opening/release - and getting up to do intentional movement practice to feel everything fully and integrate. I didn't eat, I didn't distract myself with social media or tech... I just spent the evening & night solo - feeling, integrating and then went to sleep. It felt like the comedown of a profound psychedelic medicine journey... that's the best analogy I can come up with.If you're someone who's interested in personal transformation, and different ways that can happen, I think you'll really enjoy this episode.🔴 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube here.HAVE A QUESTION?I'm open to any questions about anything I shared in this episode (please ask me in a comment on this video). This work is absolutely fascinating to me... and I'm into discussing it with people who are also interested in the world of somatics & transformation.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:00:00 Somatics Explained02:53 The Strozzi institute (Where I'm Studying)04:39 Somatic Bodywork Explained06:45 The Story: My Heart-Opening Transformation23:45 Advanced Somatics Retreat Update (Rescheduled)27:40 Sex & Heart (My Biggest Challenge & Growth Areas)30:00 The Potential of Somatics & Movement in Men’s WorkWORK WITH ME:🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025): 🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (September, 2025):🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeTHE STROZZI INSTITUTEIf you want to check them out, here are the courses I've taken with the Strozzi Institute:🔸 Embodied Transformation (April 2023)🔸 Embodied Leadership Pathway (Weekend 1 Only) (September 2024)🔸 Somatic Bodywork (April 2025)🔸 Somatics, Trauma & Resilience (June 2025)The upcoming training I'm taking with Strozzi:🔸 Somatic Coaching Training (October, 2025)*NOTE: Sadly I dropped out of the Embodied Leadership Pathway program because hurricane Helene hit my home in Asheville during the first weekend of the training, and the recovery effort was too intense and all-consuming to do the needed coursework. It's a great program, and I'd like to re-enroll in the future when schedule permits!#somatics #mensworkSupport the show

What if the reason you keep choosing the wrong partner… is a belief you picked up at five years old? Much of our adult life we're actually acting from unconscious patterns that shape who we’re drawn to, how we show up in relationship, and why many men feel stuck chasing chemistry instead of building conscious connection... THIS is a moment when the boy or the prince within us has to grow up into a man. 🔴 - You can also watch the video interview here on Youtube.This is a rich episode, and I truly hope you get a lot out of it.TIMES & TOPICS:00:00 Intro01:08 Max's Story of Transformation  02:47 What Is a Core Wound?  04:02 Personal Story of a Wound 07:10 How Childhood Shapes Love  08:36 Dating from Your Wounds  10:57 Visualize Your Ideal Partner  13:46 Why We Choose the Wrong People  17:16 Chemistry Isn’t Connection  18:58 Discernment in Dating  25:23 Own Your Truth & Lead  27:04 From Prince to King  34:37 Purpose, Love & Fatherhood  39:23 Leading Your Family as a Man  45:12 Intimacy After Kids & Keeping Desire Alive50:18 Creating Real Chemistry  56:04 Reclaiming Joy  01:00:02 Why Men Need In-Person Work  Thank you Max for taking the time for this chat, and thank YOU for reading this and listening to the episode. If it touched you in some way, or if you got something useful, please let me know - and pass it along to another man who might need this conversation.-------------WORK WITH MAX:🔸 Max's Instagram🔸 Max's WebsiteWORK WITH TAYLOR:🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025):  🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (September, 2025): 🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge#menswork #menshealth #growthjourneySupport the show

Dave Asprey is controversial figure who says semen retention helped him make hundreds of millions of dollars... and I'm inclined to believe him. It's not a black and white situation though, and I'd like to explore that with you today...🔴 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.In this unique episode, WE are going to listen to an interview between Dave & Caitlin V - together for the first time (about semen retention, sexual energy and money) and I'm going to react to their interview and share my thoughts with you in real time.TIMES & TOPICS:0:00 Intro3:30 The Power of Sex & Sexual Energy Transmutation9:55 Ejaculation Frequency (How Often Men Should Ejaculate)11:30 Ejaculation Hangover14:36 Semen Retention Lifestyle18:40 Technique to Stop Premature Ejaculation26:20 Semen Retention & Money32:20 Your Feedback? (Should I do more videos like these?)QUESTION FOR YOU:Do you like this kind of episode? It's a first for me (doing a reaction video), and I enjoyed it a lot - but I wonder - was it useful for you? I'd love to hear your thoughts.---------------WORK WITH ME:🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025)🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (September, 2025)🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025):🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeCONNECT WITH CAITLIN :🔸 Caitlin's Youtube Channel🔸 Caitlin's New Music-Responsive Sex Toy🔸 Caitlin's WebsiteCONNECT WITH DAVE:🔸 Dave's Website🔸 Dave's Instagram🔸 Dave's New Book: Heavily MeditatedSupport the show

Why are so many men feeling lost when it comes to sex & dating? From porn, performance pressure, social isolation, fear of rejection, lack of good role models, a hyper-sexualized society and the lingering impacts of MeToo - modern men are facing a perfect storm of challenges that are very difficult to navigate - and are rarely talked about...🔴 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.Today I'm joined by Caitlin V (a renowned sexologist and men’s coach) for a deeper look at what’s actually going on beneath the surface.IN THIS EPISODE:0:00 Welcome & Intro6:26 The State of Modern Men (in Sex & Dating)8:33 Impact of MeToo and Porn on Men’s Intimacy11:35 Pornhub Searches Reveal a Deeper Longing for Connection15:19 The Hard Truth About Dating18:03 What Happens When Women Start Initiating?20:30 The Fantasy of Dominance: Why Simple Gender Roles Seduce Us22:54 The Male Confidence Crisis24:27 Dating as a Life-Transforming Journey28:13 Better Sex Is a Skill: (Why You SHOULD Practice)29:04 Where Most Men Get Stuck32:03 The Truth About Erections & Emotions34:01 The Antidote to Anxiety in Bed39:16 Semen Retention & Sexual Discipline42:03 Can Semen Retention Hurt You? (Research Discussion)47:04 The Power & Importance of Ejaculation55:02 Squirting: What's the Deal With This?01:01:11 Squirting, Shame, and the Trap of Goal-Oriented Sex01:07:15 Caitlin’s New Music-Responsive Sex Toy: Pleasure Beyond VibrationCONNECT WITH CAITLIN :🔸 Caitlin's Youtube Channel🔸 Caitlin's New Music-Responsive Sex Toy🔸 Caitlin's WebsiteWORK WITH TAYLOR:🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025)🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (September, 2025)🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025):🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeSupport the show

What if the sexual polarity practices meant to ignite your sex life are actually killing your connection? In today's episode we explore the shadow side of polarity work - and how you can move beyond it to build incredible charge in your relationship.🔴 - You can also watch this episode in Youtube.You'll hear about how Londin and her partner almost ruined their relationship by practicing masculine/feminine polarity... and you'll hear how they bring polarity in now - in new and healthy ways that help their relationship and sex lives truly thrive.Also - if you're a man who likes women - we dive into what you can realistically expect from a women in conscious relationship, and why sacred sex starts with structure. It's a great episode, and I hope you thoroughly enjoy it. If you do, please share it with a friend. Let's spread the good word of relational intentionality! :)-TaylorWORK WITH LONDIN :🔸 Londin's Website🔸 Londin's Next In-Person Couples Workshop🔸 Londin's InstagramWORK WITH TAYLOR:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025)🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025): 🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeEPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:00:00 Welcome to the Sex Upgraded Podcast!  01:40 Londin Winters' Background  06:37 The Dangers of Polarity Work  14:32 Alpha/Omega VS Masculine/Feminine Polaritry16:36 The Woman’s Role: Leading With Love & Color25:49 How to Become a Woman Worthy of Sexual Worship31:24 Sex as a Living Prayer  36:15 Energetic Agility for Women39:38 Why Scheduled Intimacy Unlocks Deeper Trust 51:55 EXERCISE: The Seer and Feeler Dynamic That Melts Walls56:50 Why Men Shut Down Emotionally—and What Helps 1:02:19 Why Women Don’t Trust "Providing Alone"1:06:22 EXERCISE: The "I Want" Practice That Revives Erotic Fire1:10:04 Reclaiming Desire & Consent After #MeToo 1:14:12 Embodied Transmission VS Online LearningSupport the show

In this episode: ✅ Why embodiment is the real key to sexual mastery, deep love, and trustworthy leadership. There's a reason most men aren't having the sex, impact, or depth of connection they truly want in life — and it's probably not what you think.In this episode with John Wineland, we'll explore something far more powerful than any mainstream sex technique — something that's usually missing from most men’s lives: embodiment.🔴🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.WE EXPLORE:✅ Why embodiment is the real key to sexual mastery, deep love, and trustworthy leadership✅ How most men unconsciously sabotage their efforts at this✅ The link between your nervous system's capacity and your ability to hold real power (emotional, sexual, and energetic)✅ How to powerfully lead as a man — in life, in sex, and in service to the world (embodied leadership)✅ Why in-person men's groups can be so transformationalLet's get into it!-TaylorWORK WITH JOHN :🔸 John's Podcast🔸 John's Teacher Training🔸 John's InstagramWORK WITH TAYLOR:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025)🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025): 🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeEPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:00:00 Introduction 02:00 What Is Embodiment?08:36 Sticking Points for Men in Embodiment15:33 The Deeper Mission: Love17:20 The Transformational Power of Group Men’s Work21:51 Embodiment vs. Strategy and Physiological Transformation28:05 Polarity and Sacred Intimacy Explained33:33 Intimacy as a Missing Ingredient in Modern Life37:11 Should You Do Polarity Work, Therapy, or Workshops?39:07 Relationships as a Conscious Choice and Required Skills44:36 Childhood Wounds and Relationship Dynamics50:09 The Power of an Open Heart in Masculinity52:46 Bringing the Heart into Sex55:57 Energetic Penetration Explained59:29 Final Reflections and Overview of John’s Programs#menswork #embodiedleadership #leadershipdevelopmentSupport the show

Most men don’t realize what porn is actually costing them… until it’s already showing up in their sex life, motivation, or relationships. *(And, you're not alone, I struggled with this too). I highly recommend listening if you've EVER questioned your use of or relationship with porn...🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube here.In today's episode, Jeremy (who is a full time Porn Addiction Recovery Coach for men) and I dive into:✅ - How watching porn (even when it seems “normal”) can quietly drain your vitality, confidence, sexual performance and your connection to what really matters... ✅ - How to help you identify whether or not you have a problematic and/or addictive relationship with porn...✅ - What to do about it - how to stop watching porn (if you want to)✅ - How to create a healthy and thriving life & sex life without porn--------You'll hear personal stories from both of us... (we were both addicted), you'll get new ways to think about sex and arousal, and you'll get practical tools you can start using today - to transform any behavior you want INTO a healthy choice that supports the life you want to live.To be very clear: this conversation is NOT going to shame you or guilt trip you - it's here to help us men navigate one of the most alluring and destructive forces on the planet (porn). For that, we need awareness, compassion, discernment and strength.Thanks for being here. Let's get into it!-Taylor-----WORK WITH JEREMY :🔸 Unhooked Academy (90-Day Porn Reboot)🔸 Youtube🔸 InstagramWORK WITH TAYLOR:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (September 2025)🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025) 🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025)🔸 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeEPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:00:00 Welcome to the Sex Upgraded Podcast01:12 Jeremy’s Story: From Porn Addiction to Mindful Manhood  03:39 How Porn Warps Sex, Intimacy & Motivation  07:27 Waking Up: Recognizing the Addiction Pattern  11:27 Lust vs. Desire: One Drains You, One Fuels You  14:58 The Subtle Costs of Porn You’re Not Noticing  24:33 Why Willpower Alone Doesn’t Work  28:49 Addiction is a Coping Mechanism, Not a Moral Failing  33:30 Build Strength Through Mindfulness & Equanimity  39:30 Jeremy’s Meditation Practice That Changed Everything  47:02 A Simple, Daily Mindfulness Practice for Recovery  53:47 The Porn Test: Are you Addicted?59:57 Porn, Objectification & Reclaiming Conscious Eros  1:06:01 Why Men Need Brotherhood (Now More Than Ever)  1:12:30 The Antidote to Numbness is... Connection1:17:57 Final Reflections & Resources to Go Deeper  Support the show

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still not getting the sex, connection, or fulfillment you want ⚠️ - this conversation might blow something wide open for you.🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this interview on Youtube.In today’s episode, I interview Traver Boehm about the Nice Guy archetype — where it comes from, how it messes with your sex life, and what it really takes to reclaim your confidence, power, and desire as a man (and why WOMEN WANT THIS).Traver doesn’t hold back. You'll hear raw personal stories, practical mindset shifts, and deep truths about what makes a man truly attractive — to women, to the world, and most importantly, to himself.This is one of those episodes that might sting a little, especially if you see yourself in the patterns we’re talking about. But it’s also packed with insight, clarity, and actionable guidance that can help you start showing up with more honesty, sexual confidence, and grounded presence — starting now.CONNECT WITH TRAVER:🔸 Instagram🔸 Kill the Nice Guy Course🔸 Uncivilized PodcastWORK WITH TAYLOR:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course 🔸 Liberate Your Lifeforce Retreat (August, 2025)🔸 Advanced Somatics & Leadership Training for Men (October, 2025)EPISODE TOPICS:0:00 Intro01:28 What the “Nice Guy” Archetype Actually Means  04:00 Why Being ‘Nice’ Doesn’t Get Your Needs Met  06:04 Traver’s Origin Story: Where Nice Guys Come From  11:59 Attachment VS Authenticity: The Conflict16:14 Covert Contracts: The Hidden Deals That Sabotage Sex & Connection  20:26 The “No Women in the World” Thought Experiment  24:58 Story: Not Needing Anything Makes You Magnetic  32:50 Real vs. Fake Intimacy: What Happens When You Self-Source First  35:45 ACTION STEP: How to Make Your Life Amazing40:54 Wants vs. Needs vs. Longings – A Reframe for Men  51:20 The Role of Brotherhood and Men’s Groups in Healing  01:06:57 Why Porn Hooks Nice Guys – And What It’s Really Doing to You#menswork #mensmentalhealth #mensgroupSupport the show

So many men get it wrong in the bedroom... Trying to be nice... Unsure of how to take the lead... And even ashamed of their own desire... If you've ever felt these ways, you’re not alone (and I have to regularly work on this too). In this episode, Layla Martin and I dive deep into how you can sexually unleash your primal masculine energy - in a way that’s bold, conscious, attuned, and deeply sexy.🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.In this episode you'll discover why women crave a man’s powerful presence - one that combines focus, strength, desire, the ability to ravish with care... And you'll discover how to embody it in a way that transforms your sexual relationships and ignites desire.You'll also learn a transformative practice Layla calls “fuck and kill to consciousness,” which will probably be really confronting for you - in a good way... It's an exercise to help you integrate your raw, primal instincts and channel them into connection, confidence, sexual pleasure and leadership in the bedroom.This episode is your invitation to stop holding back, to own your power unapologetically, and show up as the man you’re truly capable of being — magnetic, present, powerful and unforgettable. Join us!❤️‍🔥 CONNECT WITH LAYLA:🔸 The Tantric Mastermind for Couples (Upcoming in 2025)🔸 Layla’s Youtube Channel🔸 Layla’s Podcast "This Tantric Life"🔸 Layla’s Instagram🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:🔸 The Orgasmic Mastery Course (February 2025)🔸 Taylor’s Youtube Channel🔸 Taylor’s Podcast "Sex Upgraded"🔸 Taylor’s Website#sexualleadership #menshealth #personalgrowthSupport the show

Ever felt stuck in your sexual self-mastery journey? Have you tried all kinds of techniques but feel like you’re still missing something? If so, this episode is for you. You'll learn the #1 reason most men struggle to see real progress in their sexual growth - and how you can overcome it.HINT: techniques alone won’t get you there. You've got to dive into the deeper emotional and psychological layers under the techniques - to create a strong foundation for the techniques to rest on top of - and by doing so, you’ll unlock the true sexual growth, confidence, pleasure, and connection you desire.🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.❤️‍🔥 CONNECT WITH LAYLA:🔸 The Tantric Mastermind for Couples (Upcoming in 2025) 🔸 Layla’s Youtube Channel🔸 Layla’s Podcast "This Tantric Life"🔸 Layla’s Instagram🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:🔸 The Orgasmic Mastery Course (February 2025)🔸 Taylor’s Youtube Channel🔸 Taylor’s Podcast "Sex Upgraded"🔸 Taylor’s Website#personalgrowth #menshealth #sexualhealthformenSupport the show

As a man, if you want incredible sexual experiences, you MUST learn how to embody alpha consciousness - so you can sexually lead from that place. In this episode you'll learn practical ways to do that - in sex, in dating, and in solo-cultivation practices too.🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.❤️‍🔥 This episode is part 2 of the Sexual Polarity episodes with Justin Patrick Pierce. You can listen to the first interview here: https://youtu.be/aTwQST3CMc0 👉 I recommend listening to part one BEFORE you listen to this episode, because you'll learn lots of fundamental sexual polarity concepts that will help you to get the most out and apply the techniques of this second interview.EPISODE TOPICS:00:00 Intro & Welcome04:08 Alpha Consciousness Fundamentals10:40 Authentic Confidence VS "Mainstream" Confidence19:10 Embodying Alpha & Omega Consciousness27:23 Posture, Refinement, Service & Impact34:40 Intro to Sexual Yoga36:20 Alpha Practices with Your Partner53:24 Three Practical Techniques to Create Sexual Polarity01:03:11 Completing the Energetic Circuit in Sex🔱 JUSTIN'S LINKS:🔸 Yoga of Intimacy: https://yogaofintimacy.co/🔸 Website: https://www.justinpatrickpierce.com/🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinpatrickpierce/🔸 Monthly Live Group Calls: https://www.patreon.com/c/yogaofintimacy📖 BOOK: Playing with Fire: https://a.co/d/0g8ovHdB📖 BOOK: Awakened Woman's Guide to Everlasting Love: https://a.co/d/0fGmJZAA🔱 TAYLOR'S LINKS:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLijj64iRfquV67jfmCuQoDHHA8T52Vhp5#longtermrelationships #relationshipadvice #menssexualhealth Support the show

If you want to have amazing sex in a long-term relationship (consistently), you've got to understand HOW TO BUILD SEXUAL POLARITY. ❤️‍🔥 This interview is part 1 of a 2-part series to teach you a new model of sexual polarity, that you can start using today to build sexual charge in your relationship. Part 2 will come out in a couple of weeks. 🔴 🎥 You can watch the video version of this episode here on Youtube.EPISODE CHAPTER LIST:00:00 Intro & Welcome02:46 Justin's Backstory (in the Pick Up Artist World)08:26 Justin's Long-Term Relationship Success with Londin Winters11:05 The THREE Ways of Relating with our Partners11:41 Navigating Relationship Dynamics for Thriving Intimacy20:21 The PROBLEM with "Masculine" and "Feminine" Terminology34:27 Exploring Consciousness and Self-Integration46:31 Developing Emotional Resilience in Relationships53:01 What IS Sexual Practice?56:55 How to Build Sexual Polarity in Relationship01:04:58 PRACTICE: How to Build Sexual Energy With Your Partner🔱 JUSTIN'S LINKS:🔸 Yoga of Intimacy: https://yogaofintimacy.co/🔸 Website: https://www.justinpatrickpierce.com/🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinpatrickpierce/🔸 Monthly Live Group Calls: https://www.patreon.com/c/yogaofintimacy📖 BOOK: Playing with Fire: https://a.co/d/0g8ovHdB📖 BOOK: Awakened Woman's Guide to Everlasting Love: https://a.co/d/0fGmJZAA🔱 TAYLOR'S LINKS:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLijj64iRfquV67jfmCuQoDHHA8T52Vhp5#longtermrelationships #relationshipadvice #monogamy Support the show

Have you ever felt a primal stirring within - a draw to the wild that seems at odds with our digital, modern world? If so, this episode is for you. The wild man archetype is important, and together we'll explore HOW TO INTEGRATE THE WILD MAN into our every day life. Including sex, business, relationship, community, etc...🔴 🎥 You can watch the youtube version here.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS****(Add 2 minutes to each of these times because of the added intro clip describing my upcoming workshop).0:00 Intro2:32 The Wild Man Archetype Defined9:20 What is an Archetype?13:17 Wild Man & Work: Practical Example 15:53 Wild Man & Sex: Personal Story from Taylor21:36 There's a Rising Anxiety in Society...25:58 Healthy VS Unhealthy Wild Man34:27 Integrating the Wild Man into Sex & Relationship38:35 Integrating the Wild Man into Work39:53 Embodying the Wild Man AND King Archetype41:07 Importance of Council in Personal Growth48:38 The Importance of IN-PERSON Men's Work51:59 The Importance of FUN in Men's Work53:15 European Shamanic Traditions (Jeremy's New Book) ---------------🔶 CONNECT WITH JEREMY:2024 Wild Man RetreatJeremy's WebsiteJeremy's New Book🔶 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Taylor's Upcoming Retreat (July 2024)Taylor's WebsiteTaylor's InstagramSupport the show

This episode is a deep journey into the PRACTICE of sexual integrity. It's one of the most important episodes on this podcast so far, so please take your time with it - and note the chapters below too. Also, please read the important note below before you finish the episode. ⚠️ IMPORTANT NOTE: While this conversation is in-depth and provides great options for moving forward in healthy ways, it does not cover all the nuances of sexual harm, integrity and accountability. There will always be scenarios that do not fit into what has been discussed here (for example, we did not talk about when people weaponize the idea/accusation that someone has caused harm to them when they haven't. Those instances are rare, but they're very real when they do happen). 🔴 You can also watch this episode on Youtube. ✅ IMPORTANT TOPICS:0:00 Intro/Welcome2:17 Introducing Mischa (Work & Harm)10:22 We Can ALL Cause Harm...15:31 What is Power? (How to Lead More Effectively)25:41 Reevaluating Consent Violations and Sexual Harm32:34 Harm Reduction in Sex-Positive Communities36:23 Ecstatic Dance, Consent & Community Impact41:34 How to Dance Wild & Crazy with Positive Impact43:08 How Our "Energy" Impacts Others (In Ecstatic Dance and Life)45:55 The Art of Attunement48:13 Sexual Integrity VS Subjective Harm55:04 Sexual Liberation REQUIRES a Deeper Look at Justice & Accountability1:03:52 Navigating Feedback, Cancel Culture & Public Call Outs1:13:55 The TEST of Men's Sexual Integrity & Accountability1:17:59 Men's Responsibility in Leadership Roles1:24:21 The Power of DIGNITY vs Shame & Self-Victimization1:33:48 The Art of Apologizing1:45:52 Men are GoodIf you have any questions or feedback about this episode, please feel free to get in touch with Mischa and I. You can find our contact info below.Thank you for being part of this conversation!-Taylor------------🔶 CONNECT WITH MISCHA:Mischa's Website: www.evolve.menMischa's Instagram: @mischabyruck🔶  CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Taylor's Website: www.taylorjohnson.lifeTaylor's Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnsonSupport the show

Most of us (as men) aren't living at our full potential. And breaking free of this - of being shut down - takes work... So most men stay stuck... In this episode you'll learn tools to work through your blocks, and you'll hear personal stories (from Thomas and I (Taylor) about how we both worked through MAJOR blockages in our lives.🔴🎥  You can watch the Youtube version here.And if you resonate with this episode...Check out our upcoming hybrid online & in-person training & retreat in Asheville, NC - specifically designed to help men overcome the most common blocks we face, so you can thrive in life, sex, relationships AND your WHY for being alive. The program is called Liberate Your Life(Force), and you'll find all the info below. 👇🔱 RETREAT INFO & APPLICATION 🔱 https://heartofmen.community/liberate-your-lifeforce🔸 Enrollment is by application only🔸 Space is limited to 18 men🔸 Enrollment is open, on a first come first serve basisCOURSE & RETREAT DATES:🔸 In-Person Retreat: July 11th-14th🔸 9-Week Training: Starts June 17th, with weekly exercises for you to complete on your own time, AND live group calls every Monday evening from 6-8pm EST.More info here:  https://heartofmen.community/liberate-your-lifeforceQUESTIONS?If you have any questions, feel free to shoot me a voice message on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson-----------------------EPISODE CHAPTERS:00:00 Intro 02:58 Thomas's Background in Men's Work04:06 How We Met & What We're Doing Together10:36 Our Personal Blocks...18:18 We Need the Right Conditions to Heal & Grow22:12 Life Wants us to Heal and Feel Pleasure25:12 From Hyper-Mentality to Feeling Alive33:16 From Numbness to Consciously Choosing Feeling42:32 Integration of the Heart and Vitality48:31 Integration of Sex and Heart57:45 True Power Goes to Men on a Mission1:03:52 What Makes a Powerful Man?1:05:16 In-Person Retreat: Liberate Your Life(Force)1:09:37 Closing Thoughts-----------------------#menswork #menshealth #mensmentalhealthSupport the show

These could use some refinement:00:00 - Intro01:29 - Opening02:08 - Ricky’s Background02:29 - Relationship Issues Mistaken for Hormonal Issues05:10 - The Correlation Between Long-Term Healthy Relationships and Happiness 09:58 - Prioritising Sex As A Parent & The Importance of Intimacy17:10 - Biggest Struggles in Raising Children Today22:19 - Comparing Today’s Parenting to Previous Generations27:00 - Social Media and It’s Negative Effect on Relationships31:12 - The Illusion of Social Media and How It Divides Us As A Society35:45 - The Importance of Resolving Relationship Issues as A Team38:08 - Shifting The Focus From The Individual to The Partnership’s Needs 41:44 - Identifying What You Need & Deciding If You Should Stay in A Relationship48:10 - What Makes Us Happy54:58 - The Consequences of Being Too Comfortable57:59 - Final Words01:00:34 - How to Find and Connect With Dr Ricky ArensonSupport the show

My partner Naema and I recorded this episode to teach you how to SKILLFULLY penetrate a woman in a truly pleasure-filled & connective way - informed by Naema's profession as a pelvic bodyworker & sex coach for Women, and from our own personal sexual practices too.In this episode you'll learn juicy & HIGHLY pleasurable sexual penetration techniques, you'll learn important female sexual anatomy (with visual diagrams in the video episode on Youtube), AND you'll learn how to avoid common penetration mistakes men make that can ruin sex for everyone involved.*NOTE: I've made these sex mistakes too. Please remember that I'm human just like you, and I've come a loooong way on my journey to get to where I am now. Ideally you can learn from my mistakes so you can have better sex today - without having to stumble as much as I did when I was younger.ABOUT NAEMANaema is a pelvic specialist for women, who combines powerful hands-on work with transformational ritual & coaching experiences too - proving a truly full-body, mind & spirit approach to healing sexual blocks and unlocking orgasmic, pain-free & fully confident sexual aliveness in the women she works with.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:00:00 - Intro01:45 - Opening06:15 - Theme’s Naema has learned about penetration working with women08:15 - How rushing sex hurts women (and you too)15:45 - What makes a bad penetrative sex experience19:20 - What to do before sex23:15 - Technique to help her open24:30 - At what point should her pussy be touched?26:25 - How to warm up a vulva/should you touch her clit?32:05 - Diagram of Clitoris34:00 - Waiting for the ask36:40 - How to help your partner not feel rushed in penetration40:20 - *IMPORTANT* Technique for helping women to move through pain45:00 - How to help your woman heal her sexual trauma47:00 - 2 things that guys should do differently during sex50:00 - Playing with different types of pleasure with your partner54:35 - Cervical orgasms and what the cervix likes56:30 - How to stop penetration in a good way1:01:30 - Outro---------------------🔱  CONNECT WITH NAEMA🔸 Instagram🔸 Naema’s YouTube🔸Naema’s Links & Pussy Workshop ---------------------🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/ 🔸 Semen Retention Mastery: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/semen-retention-mastery/ 🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/free-7-day-semen-retention-challenge 🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/Free-Ejaculation-Control-Training 🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast 🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson 🔸 Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/ ---------------------#penetration #lovemaking #sextips #sexSupport the show

Discover the unexpected ways pleasure and kink intertwine with human psychology as we navigate the often-misunderstood waters of BDSM, consent, and sexual liberation. Joined by the insightful Ashley and the experienced Kyle, we tackle the fallacy that kink is strictly a trauma response and instead reveal its potential for healing and empowerment. Through candid conversations, we explore the fluid dynamics of dominance and submission, the role of 'brat energy' in BDSM, and how these practices can lead to personal growth and deeper self-understanding.As we peel away societal taboos, our guests share their transformative journeys from mere participants to passionate educators within the kink community. They illuminate the joys of helping others safely unearth their desires, pushing past conventional boundaries to a place of profound erotic expression. We also dissect the critical role of consent and the Wheel of Consent, emphasizing how these frameworks can foster a safe and fulfilling exploration of one's sexual landscape.Join us for this thought-provoking session where we embrace our primal instincts and redefine what it means to engage in role-playing, objectification, and the pursuit of pleasure. With practical advice and shared vulnerabilities, this episode promises a welcoming space for the curious, the seasoned, and everyone in between who seeks to understand the profound impact of kink on personal transformation and sexual empowerment. Ashley and Kyle guide us through this rich tapestry, leaving us with a deeper appreciation for the nuanced world of kink and the liberation that comes with embracing our true desires.Support the show

Sex transmutation is one of the most important skills men can learn. Napoleon Hill, author of Think and Grow Rich - dedicated a full chapter of his book to "The Mystery of Sexual Transmutation" as a step to greater riches in life - but he failed to explain the real techniques for how he and other successful men have used sexual transmutation in their lives... In this episode, I'll show you how.🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.MICROCOSMIC ORBIT VIDEOS:💫 Microcosmic Orbit Diagram 💫 Microcosmic Orbit Partner Practice*(I forgot to add these graphics in the Youtube version of this interview, so I'm adding them here).EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:0:00 Sex Transmutation Intro2:44 What is Sex Transmutation?3:40 Practical Examples5:24 Transmutation of Ejaculation During Sex7:08 Porn: Transmuting the Desire9:15 Sex Transmutation at Work12:13 Sexual Desire is Healthy (Don't Ignore It)12:54 Somatics & Transmutation Example16:52 When Someone Is NOT Attracted to You17:45 The REACTIVE Model of Sex Transmutation29:01 Taylor's Personal Sex Example33:44 The PROACTIVE Model of Sex Transmutation37:39 Intro to Sexual Energy Integration Exercise38:36 Exercise: Sexual Energy Integration43:41 How to End Sex Without Ejaculation45:25 Sexual Energy Conservation VS Cultivation49:28 The Most Important Technique of All...---------------------ORGASMIC MASTERY COURSE:🔱 Master this practice in the bedroom, learn to last as long as you want, have strong erections, and experience full body orgasmic pleasure with my upcoming Orgasmic Mastery Course that begins on February 8th.Support the show

Want to boost your testosterone naturally? This episode of the Sex Upgraded Podcast will tell you how. Join Taylor & male hormone expert Dr. Tracy Gapin for a practical & motivating conversation about how YOU can be the best version of yourself by optimizing all of your male hormone levels.Hormone optimization is key to overall vitality, with insights into libido, peak performance, mental clarity, and conquering life's challenges. Check out my personal testosterone journey in this video. And...🔴 Get Your Testosterone Levels Tested HereAnd use this code: TAYLORNEWYEAR for a big discountIn this episode, you'll:• Learn about the science behind lab tests, stress's impact on hormones, and strategies to combat age-related changes. • Gain wisdom on decoding your body's signals through advanced diagnostics and lifestyle adjustments. • Discover tools for a revolutionized existence, including mastering metabolism with continuous glucose monitoring and employing heart rate variability in stress management. • Better understand how you can have longevity, energy, strength, and enduring zest for life.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:00:00 - Intro01:27 - Opening02:15 - Dr. Tracy Gapin's Background05:44 - Common Underlying Causes of Hormonal Problems 07:09 - What Is Low Testosterone 11:04 - Stress and The Link Between Testosterone and Cortisol 16:13 - The Effects of Low Testosterone on the Mind & Body18:52 - Ways to Improve Testosterone Levels20:08 - Impact of Low Testosterone on Society 21:52 - Minimizing Exposure to the Toxins in Our Environment 25:19 - Lifestyle & Time Frame To Improve Hormonal Levels34:22 - Living With Suboptimal Levels of Testosterone Without Realizing35:56 - The Natural Process of Aging and Finding Balance with Performance39:30 - The Feeling and Experience of Optimal Hormonal Levels41:47 - Healthy, Normal Sex Drive After 40 Years44:38 - Advances in Men's Medicine Space 51:14 - Living With Intention, Sleep & Diet56:35 - Final Advice 58:19 - How To Find and Connect With Dr. Tracy Gapin---------------------🔱  CONNECT WITH DR. GAPIN:🔸  Gapin Institute🔸 Dr. Gapin's Website🔸 High Performance Handbook---------------------🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast🔸 Instagram🔸 Website---------------------#testosterone #menshealth #lifeoptimization #hormonesSupport the show

This episode is a look into my personal life - because I want to be transparent with you around my professional & life development as a teacher. You'll hear about the 3 big trainings I'm personally enrolled in for 2024 (and why)... and you'll also hear my 3 main personal growth areas I want to work on too.🔴🎥 You can watch this episode on Youtube here. The best way to ask me anything about this episode would be to comment on the youtube version I linked to above. And if you have BDSM recommendations, please feel free to DM me on Instagram. I'm all ears.MY 2024 PERSONAL/PROFESSIONAL EDUCATION PLANSomatic Experiencing Practitioner TrainingEmbodied Men's Leadership Training (with John Wineland)Somatic Coach Training Program (with Strozzi Institute)RESOURCES MENTIONED:My Testosterone Video (On Youtube)Sex Upgraded Podcast (On Youtube)🔱 UPCOMING TRAINING FOR MEN:🔸 The Orgasmic Mastery Course begins on February 8th, 2024. This is a 10-week training for any man who wants to become the best lover they can be - the kind of lover who blows his partner's mind - AND feels 100% confident and sexually alive in the process. Check out the course page for more info.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:0:00 Why I Made This Episode2:30 The 3 Big Trainings I'm Taking in 20243:01 1 - Somatic Experiencing Practitioner Training5:52 2 - Embodied Men's Leadership Training8:28 3 - Strozzi Somatic Coaching Training10:23 BDSM Training? (I Need Your Advice...)11:21 Male Hormone Optimization13:17 ADHD & Sex16:16 Living a Balanced Life...18:11 Request: I Need Your Help...Support the show

Have you ever thought about becoming a sex coach for men? What does it take? Are there any requirements or certifications? Perhaps more importantly, what's it actually like to be a sex coach for men?In this episode you'll hear some behind the scenes stories and experiences from both Cam Fraser and I (we're both certified sexologists and full time sex coaches for men), and you'll hear how we both got to be where we are today.You'll also learn about his new sex coach certification training (with tons of great guest instructors) for people who want to become professional sex coaches that specifically work with men.I've looked through the syllabus, and it looks pretty awesome. I'm going to actually take one part of the training too: the SAR (described in the episode).If you're interested, check out the links below:🔱 MEN'S SEX COACH TRAINING:🔸 Check out the sex coaching certification program here.🔸 And join here: https://bit.ly/Mens-Sex-Coaching-Program*If you join through this link, I'll receive a small commission as a thank you for connecting you to this program. That commission will help me continue to create this podcast. Thank you! :)EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:00:00 Intro & Welcome08:53 Cam's Journey to Becoming a Sex Coach for Men20:26 Benefits of Working With a Sex Coach33:02 Understanding Masculinity and Sexological Approaches47:12 Importance of Anti-Racism Education in Coaching53:39 Exploring Tantra Communities and Sexuality59:49 Sexual Attitudes Reassessment (SAR) and Training Program-----------------🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023)🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonWebsite: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show

If you're a Christian, or if you've ever been impacted by Christianity in any way, this episode should be next on your list. Dr. Kevin Jenson believes that it's possible for Christians to have amazing, sacred sex - and that these experiences are also supported by the bible. Kind of mind blowing stuff...🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.Some topics we cover:Is sex sinful?Is masturbation sinful?What about sex before marriage? Is that a sin?Can sex be sacred as a Christian?What does sacred sex mean from a Christian perspective?What does the bible say about masturbation?What does the bible say about sex before marriage?What does the bible say about sex in general?Join Dr. Kevin Jenson and I to explore the cultural divide between sex and spirituality, while examining Christianity, epistemology, and ancient texts, to create an entirely new perspective of healthy sexuality that's possible for Christians - without losing their faith.Kevin Jenson is a distinguished author and scholar, who shares insights from his life path, bridging the gap between his Christian faith and sexual desires. And for the record, I don't see myself as a Christian... though as I write this on Christmas Eve, I'm about to head into a church service with my family. I grew up in a Christian household, and was heavily influenced by this faith. That's why I thought it'd be interesting to do this episode.I've also worked with a LOT of Christian men, who want to have great sex and NOT let go of their faith. I want to support them in their desires for that, and so whatever positive content I can create to help these men and their partners, the better.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:00:00 - Intro01:28 - Opening03:34 - Kevin's Background09:17 - The Conflict Between Sexuality and Spirituality12:22 - Epistemology & the Ways of Knowing19:20 - Christian Views on Sex & Masturbation23:17 - Sex Positive View within Christianity31:45 - The Original Intent about Sexuality in the Bible36:59 - The Church & The Dichotomy of Healthy Sexuality41:48 - The Myth of Onan & Is Masturbation Sinful48:07 - The Christian View of Male/Female Dynamic in Society53:24 - "Porneia"  59:17 - Prayerful Sex1:05:41 - Kevin's Journey of Sharing His Work in The (Christian) World1:12:02 - In & Out Group in the Christian Community1:15:31 - How to Connect with Kevin1:16:46 - Christian Trauma---------------------🔱  CONNECT WITH KEVIN:🔸 Special page for Sex Upgraded podcast listeners🔸 Kevin’s Website🔸 Kevin's Instagram: @drkevinjenson---------------------🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast🔸 Instagram🔸 Website---------------------#christianity #sexuality #masturbation #Support the show

This is a serious and sensitive episode... for any man who has ever hurt a woman - accidentally or otherwise. Specifically, for any man who has caused harm (myself included), and who wants to do better... Who wants to heal, offer repair, get humble, grow and become a better version of themselves.There's no shaming in this episode... Papillon and I wanted to create this for all of the men who want to improve themselves, but don't know where to go or what resources to turn to.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:00:00 Intro01:28 Opening03:02 Papillon's Professional Background03:58 Sexual Assault & Crossing Boundaries 09:35 Self-Reflection on Causing Sexual Harm 14:47 Finding a Therapist to Talk with17:40 Other Options to Help with Self-Reflection21:28 Healing Without Contacting the Person You've Sexually Assaulted29:21 Recognizing When We Have Harmed Another Person35:56 Finding Space to Share And Reflect 38:25 What to Do If You Realize You Have Assaulted Someone47:40 Centering The Survivor's Needs 52:56 Facing the Pain of the Realization54:55 Can a Changed Person Be Seen in a New Light57:02 Restorative Justice58:54 Accountability and Developing Self-Awareness1:05:33 Resources and Materials to Look UpGENERATED EPISODE DESCRIPTION:In this episode, Taylor explores how we can prioritize survivors' needs in sexual assault cases, with insights from returning guest, Papillon, a licensed clinical mental health counselor specializing in sexual trauma. Discover scenarios where boundaries are crossed, emphasizing humility, growth, and understanding survivors' needs before personal desires. Delve into the challenges survivors face, the impact of public disclosure, and the potential for restorative justice processes. Listen now, as Taylor and Papillon reflect on their past actions, and discuss learning from mistakes with empathy and accountability. The conversation touches on sociopathic tendencies, self-reflection, and finding support in affinity groups, offering condensed insights into the complexities of addressing sexual harm and promoting healing.🔱  PAPILLON’S WEBSITE & RECOMMENDATIONS🔸 Papillon's Website🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon 🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon for Kids 🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon (Clean Version) 🔸 Feel free to send us more resources on this that you recommend.---------------------🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast🔸 Instagram🔸 WebsiteSupport the show

What is the difference between Neo Tantra and Classical Tantra? What do they have in common, and what can we learn from them both, to implement into our own lives?  In this episode, Taylor explores tantric wisdom and history with Hema; a gifted mentor and teacher offering unique perspective from her upbringing and life full of experience with tantric traditions. Press play to learn about the historical complexities of Tantra, its cultural branches, the way it challenges societal norms, and can guide you beyond better sexual experiences and into deeper spiritual growth.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:00:00 Intro & Welcome02:36 Hema’s Story05:03 Neo Tantra & Classical Tantra Explained10:21 What is the history of Tantra?19:10 Why Tantra is considered the “left hand path” in India21:46 Tantra as a practice of deconstructing the ego28:47 Sexuality as the primordial force where we get our power33:53 Tantra for Common Householders37:13 How we can be overly attached to sex39:14 Meditation practices for deep states of bliss43:00 How Taylor first found deep presence & bliss45:25 Enlightenment through Tantra50:11 “Spiritual Psychopaths” in Tantra57:48 Practices Hema Recommends1:01:42 Closing🔱  CONNECT WITH HEMA:🔸 Work with Hema: https://talk2hema.youcanbook.me/ 🔸 Hema’s Website: https://hemaholisticmystic.com/ ---------------------🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/🔸 Semen Retention Mastery: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/semen-retention-mastery/🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/free-7-day-semen-retention-challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/Free-Ejaculation-Control-Training🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson🔸 Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/---------------------#neotantra #tantra #tantricsexualitySupport the show

Tantra is a spiritual system that invites you to experience sex and life in a more powerful way. Your sexual energy can be rocket fuel for your entire life, but most men waste it - and waste their lives away in the process. In this episode you'll learn how to harness it so you can truly thrive in sex AND life.Shawn Roop is an expert on both classical and modern Tantra (Neo Tantra), and he focuses on helping men thrive in both sex and life. In this episode you'll learn about Tantric sex, ejaculation mastery and semen retention from the Tantric perspective, non-ejaculatory orgasms (Kria Vati), how to increase your capacity to hold more sexual pleasure and much more...🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:00:00 Intro & Welcome02:13 Why Tantra is Important for Men08:37 Common Questions (What is a Tantra Chair? Is Tantra Dangerous?)10:22 Tantric Sex Positions & Kamasutra13:56 Ejaculation Mastery16:09 Alternatives to Ejaculatory Orgasm19:16 Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms (Kriya Vati - Multiple Orgasms for Men)30:35 Shawn's Experiences with Ejaculation Growing Up33:05 Taylor's Most Amazing Sexual Experiences36:15 Want to Last Longer in Bed? (Most Women Won't Like It)41:50 Is Tantra Dangerous?44:00 Redefining the Concept of Sex 53:37 Emotional Intelligence is KEY to Sexual Mastery1:00:15 Build Your Capacity for Sexual Energy ---------------------🔱  CONNECT WITH SHAWN:🔸 Shawn's Upcoming Workshop (Discount Code: "Taylor"): 🔸 Shawn's Website "Tantra Quest"---------------------🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins February 8th, 2024)🔸 Semen Retention Mastery (Self-Study Enrollment is Open Now)🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:🔸 Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnson🔸 Taylor's WebsiteSupport the show

Have you ever watched porn on psychedelics? Tyson has, and he has some VERY interesting things to say about it. This is one of my favorite episodes so far, and I think you'll get a lot out of it IF you've ever watched porn or if you're in relationship with someone who has watched porn.Check out the episode topics below, and please share this episode with a friend if you get something useful from it!🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:00:00 Intro03:31 Working With Porn Addiction 06:57 The Formation of Addictive Pattern with Porn08:43 The Reality of the Porn Industry12:57 Porn Stays in Our Energetic Field Some Time After Watching15:35 Psychedelics & Porn, and Porn in Virtual Reality 21:27 Alternatives to Watching Porn23:46 Is There Healthy Masturbation While Watching Porn?26:52 The 11 Porn Users Archetypes44:47 How You Masturbate is Important55:16 How to Treat Your Penis1:00:54 Circumcision 🔱  CONNECT WITH TYSON:🔸 Tyson's Facebook🔸 Tyson's Website🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonWebsite: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show

If you're a man who likes women, the online dating world NOT easy. The odds are heavily stacked against you. You have to stand out. You have to market yourself. And this episode will show you how.⚠️ The GOOD NEWS is that so few men actually put effort into their dating profiles, that IF you do, you will almost certainly stand out. Join Koen Goren and I as we dive into how you can optimize your dating profile, AND how to excel once you've matched with someone.🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS00:00 Welcome03:01 Why Would Someone Hire a Dating Coach09:57 The Difficulties in Online Dating12:53 How to Optimize Your Dating Profile19:32 Authenticity vs Marketing Yourself24:01 Profile Photo Optimization29:20 Improve Your Life BEFORE Online Dating  34:29 Profile Description Optimization43:26 Clarify Your Desires51:24 Online Dating vs Real Life Meeting People54:19 Thoughts on Pick-up Artistry 1:02:59 How to Start Conversations After Matching🔱  CONNECT WITH KOEN:🔸 Koen's Website🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonWebsite: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show

Is sexual polarity bullshit? Masculine VS Feminine conversations are huge these days, but in the context of sexual polarity, is it actually helpful to use these terms? Is there a better option? That's what we'll talk about today🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.IN THIS EPISODE00:00 Welcome02:07 Yuval Introduced04:04 Traditional Sexual Polarity Questioned07:46 Embracing Authenticity09:11 Living a Life of Authenticity11:30 Societal Myths & Masculinity / Femininity19:53 The Human Experience is Complex23:38 Sexual Polarity, Fluidity and Tension in Sexual Dynamics37:35 Sexual Polarity IS Valuable44:59 How to Create Sexual Polarity51:41 Embrace Newness and Mystery⚠️ IF YOU'RE LACKING SEXUAL CHARGE...Yuval suggests looking at your own inner experience and figuring out if YOU are excited about life. There is a strong correlation between overall lust for life and sexual experiences... There's also a need for mystery, newness, and distance in long-term relationships to maintain erotic aliveness. Yuval encourages playfulness as a way to connect with life and explore different aspects of sexuality too⚠️ ABOUT POLARITY...Yuval challenges the concept of feminine and masculine energy. He believes that relying on these binary definitions limits people's potential for authentic expression. Yuval encourages people to explore their own qualities and desires rather than conforming to societal expectations. ----------------------🔱  CONNECT WITH YUVAL:🔸 Yuval's TikTok🔸 Yuval's Instagram🔸 Yuval's Website🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonWebsite: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show

"There aren't enough good men!" said the woman after ecstatic dance... She couldn't find any at the cacao ceremony or didgeridoo sound healing either... why?What makes a man actually DESIRABLE? That's  the real question here... And in this episode you'll hear some of the steps both Jasper and I took to change our lives from being sensitive, and ultimately undesirable new age guys, to being men who have happy and thriving lives and relationships.🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.  EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:0:00 Intro2:25 "Conscious Men" as F*ckboys6:29 Do Women Like New Age Guys?14:10 Balancing Spirituality with Practical Living23:10 Developing the Inner Feminine as a Man27:40 The Inner Masculine & Feminine...33:12 We Need to Talk About Healthy Masculinity38:48 Victim Mindset Problems...42:28 Restoring Trust & Safety with Women48:41 Understanding Conflict & Communication56:30 Learn How to Deal with our Urges/Addictions-------------🔱  CONNECT WITH JASPER:🔸 Jasper's Instagram🔸 Jasper's Youtube🔸 Jasper's Legendary Lover Program🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course 🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonWebsite: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show

What is the healthy masculine? What is a healthy sexual man? How can men thrive sexually in a way that improves the lives of ALL people?These are the kinds of questions we'll dive into in season 3 of this podcast. Why? Because it's both important AND it will help you become a better lover, partner, friend and overall human.We can't become our best selves just by learning techniques... we also have to look at the systems and contexts we're part of, and how we relate to and interact with those systems. It's rich content, and it can be confronting... but it's work we need to do, and I'm excited to do this work WITH you.In addition to the episodes in season 3, I also recommend checking out the podcast and article below, because they dive into this topic beautifully. You may not agree with everything, but it will certainly inspire some deep & critical thinking, which I believe is necessary for where we are today."Understanding Men & Their Trauma"- with Gabor Mate on the Man Enough Podcast"Men are lost. Here's a map out of the wilderness." - article by Christine Emba------------------------🔗 SUGGEST A TOPIC OR GUEST HERE------------------------🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course 🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonWebsite: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show

Is Semen Retention legit or fake? In this episode you'll hear Dr. Jonathan Brajtbord's perspectives on the crossover of western medicine and esoteric wisdom (semen retention from a western medical perspective). In the second half of this interview (around the 30-minute mark), we get into an really inspiring conversation about conscious monogamy too. It's definitely worth your time if you ever want to have a monogamous relationship. 🔸 You can also watch this episode on youtube.One of my favorite parts of this episode is hearing Jonathan talk about the difference between what he learned in medical school and what is actually useful for helping patients live healthy thriving lives. It's thought-provoking to say the least.Hope you enjoy!And if you have any requests for future episodes, please let me know!*NOTE: In this episode we mentioned Jonathan's interview on the Sacred Sons Podcast. (Click the link in this note to listen to that episode).🔱  CONNECT WITH JONATHAN🔸 Dr. Brajtbord's Fortitude Retreat🔸 Dr. Brajtbord's Instagram🔸 Dr. Brajtbord's Website--------------🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 27th, 2023)🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonWebsite: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show

Few men have realized the true power of masturbation, and this episode will help you become one of those men. If you DO want to learn the best masturbation techniques possible, and how to masturbate in a way that will blow your mind, improve your sex life AND improve your entire life, this episode is for you. 🔸 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.When most guys masturbate, they just sit still, without breathing deeply, with their hand moving up and down, usually staring at porn on a screen... That's a disembodied recipe for disaster - at least in terms of how that will impact your entire sex life.And PLEASE realize that the way you masturbate will have a massive impact on the overall quality of your sex life AND entire life.So... if you want to avoid a mediocre sex life...You need to first listen to this episode...And then practice.--------------🔱 CONNECT WITH SIMON:🔸 Simon's Website🔸 Simon's Instagram🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023)🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonWebsite: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show

Words are powerful, and the right words during SEX can massively improve the experience. In this episode you'll hear how YOU can use the power of words during sex to exponentially increase pleasure and connection for all.We also talk about porn, and whether or not friends should watch each other have sex (instead of watching porn). IF YOU HAVE EVER WATCHED PORN, you should listen to this episode!*The youtube version of this episode will be released this week.---------------🔱 CONNECT WITH RAMBO:🔸 Rambo's Instagram 🔱  TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023)🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonWebsite: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show

After 3.5 years of NoFap, without porn, masturbation, sex or ejaculation, a man reached out to me last week after he realized NoFap was hurting him. He had been experiencing what is called the NoFap Flatline for years... 🔶 You can also watch this episode on Youtube here.Nofap flatline is a term used to describe when a man is feeling low, dull, lackluster, lethargic, bored and unmotivated - INSTEAD of experiencing all of the benefits that are supposed to happen while practicing NoFap. In this episode you'll hear a couple of my theories about what causes NoFap flatline, and what I suggest instead of NoFap.  🔱 RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔸 The Complete Semen Retention Guide (How to have a restorative ejaculatory orgasm).🔸 My First Tantric Orgasm (Podcast Episode) 🔱  SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023)🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonWebsite: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show

Most men limit their sex lives without knowing it... I've done this too... But the good news is that it IS possible to change, and if you change the 5 things mentioned in today's episode, your sex life will improve in massive ways. 🔱  SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023)🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 FREE GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonWebsite: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show

Andre recently taught a BDSM 101 class in Asheville (where I live), and I wanted to attend but couldn't because I was out of town. Some of my friends went though, and their feedback was great, so bringing Andre on the podcast seemed like the next best thing.🔸 You can watch this episode on Youtube too.IN THIS EPISODE:An introduction to BDSM (Bondage, Dominance & Discipline, Submission & Sadism, and Masochism) How to practice BDSM in a safe and highly pleasurable wayHow to create a BDSM scene The importance of safe words How to communicate effectivelyPersonal stories of exploring BDSM from both Andre and I (Taylor)To read more about the different aspects of BDSM, check out the more in-depth BDSM intro page.---------------------🔱 CONNECT WITH ANDRE:🔸 Andre's Website🔸 Andre's Instagram---------------------🔱 GET TAYLOR'S FREE SEXUAL MASTERY GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 WORK WITH TAYLOR:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonWebsite: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show

In this episode you'll hear Juno's personal story of going from monogamy into polyamory.  We talk about the very real struggles of doing this (jealousy and lack of societal support), AND the benefits of this kind of relationship structure too.This episode is unique because Juno isn't a sex or relationship coach. She's not trying to "sell" you a concept or lifestyle. She just wants to share her authentic experience so others can benefit. THANK YOU Juno! You'll even hear some personal stories from my own life in this episode too.🔸 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:1:15 - Episode Begins3:21 - Juno's Polyamorous Lifestyle7:38 - Why Polyamory?11:55 - Research on Marriage Statistics22:27 - "Polyfuckery" PROBLEMS30:38 - Does Juno Get Jealous? (And how she deals with this)35:08 - The Impact of Having Sex with Other People41:12 - Expect Challenge When Opening Your Relationship44:03 - TIP: Be Careful How You Talk About This54:26 - Boundaries in Polyamorous Relationships-----------RESOURCES:🔸 The Better Sex Conversation (Guide on how to talk about sex & relationships - including your desires, fears, needs and boundaries).🔱 GET MY FREE SEXUAL MASTERY GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 WORK WITH ME:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 CONNECT WITH ME:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonWebsite: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show

Sexual trauma happens to men too, and it's important to talk about it. In this episode we're joined by licensed therapist Papillon DeBoer, who specializes in helping men work with and heal sexual trauma.You'll learn how trauma affects men, how women are a common cause of trauma in men, what trauma actually is, how generational trauma works, plus techniques and resources to help heal trauma too. We even talk about circumcision trauma. You can find the topics & times below:🔸 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:04:25 - Trauma Defined06:53 - Trauma happens on a spectrum.09:10 - My Personal Trauma Stories16:56 - Does Trauma Ever Go Away?23:58 - How Trauma Affects Men...30:29 - Healing Trauma While in Relationship35:01 - Working With Trauma in Sexual Contexts41:25 - Healing Trauma By Ourselves47:04 - Why Trauma Exists...48:44 - Suffering is Inevitable51:07 - What is Generational Trauma?52:53 - Circumcision Trauma57:52 - Resources for Healing Sexual trauma-----------CONNECT WITH PAPILLON:🔸 Papillon's Website🔸 Papillon's Survivor Stories Podcast 🔱 GET MY FREE SEXUAL MASTERY GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 WORK WITH ME:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 CONNECT WITH ME:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonWebsite: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show

This episode is about the SECOND time I went to a sex party. I actually participated here, and it changed my life in a big way. We all took a micro dose of MDMA, and what happened might surprise you...🔸 Watch this episode on Youtube here.🔸 Watch the FIRST Sex Party episode here.🎙️ View All Podcast Episodes Here👇 (Free guides & resources below)THOUGHTS ON MDMA:Just to be clear - I'm not saying that everyone should go out and take MDMA to have a therapeutic experience. There are lots of risks to consider. One of the biggest dangers of MDMA is the fact that the vast majority of "MDMA" being sold is cut or laced with another substance. This can be dangerous, and in many cases deadly when laced with fentanyl. IF you are going to try MDMA in a recreational way, please please please at least get a fentanyl test kit and test whatever you get before you take it. Also remember that I'm not a doctor or health care provider of any kind. This episode is just about me sharing my own personal experience.Also, MDMA is being used in therapeutic contexts around the country, and there is lots of academic research happening around it right now too. The potential of this substance - when used with intention - is massive.Personally, I don't like to take any substance to the point where I feel unable to function. I am open to OCCASIONALLY exploring micro amounts of substances in very specific experiences, but drugs & alcohol taken in the stereotypical party context are not interesting to me.🔱 GET MY FREE SEXUAL MASTERY GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge 🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide 🔱 WORK WITH ME:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 CONNECT WITH ME:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonWebsite: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show

This episode is about the first time I went to a sex party. It happened over 10 years ago in Asheville, NC, USA, and it blew my mind - in ways I wasn't prepared for.🔺 Watch the episode on Youtube here.People often ask me to share personal stories from the past, and this is one I've thought about sharing for a while. It's more of an edutainment episode, because there's not a big lesson or takeaway from this episode other than pure fascination and entertainment... which is definitely a worthy reason to listen to a podcast. And... I was actually paid to go! And that makes for a good story. :) 🎙️ VIEW ALL PODCAST EPISODES:https://www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast/📝 GET MY FREE GUIDES 📝🔺 FREE Ejaculation Control Guide 🔺 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔱 SEXUAL MASTERY TRAININGS & COURSES 🔱🔺 Orgasmic Mastery Course🔺 Semen Retention Mastery Course🔺 New Anal CourseCONNECT WITH ME:Instagram My WebsiteSupport the show

This episode is a MUST LISTEN for anyone who wants to have a thriving long-term relationship. Why? Because creating this kind of relationship takes a certain set of skills that 99.7% of people didn't learn growing up. I certainly didn't...I've studied with Steve Torma for years, and practicing what I've learned from him has fundamentally changed EVERYTHING about my romantic and sexual relationships  (and even my business, friendship and family relationships too).Almost all of my close friends have studied with him, and some of my family has too. These tools are invaluable, and I'm excited for you to learn them.IN THIS EPISODE:The 3 important levels of intimacyHow to translate judgements into empathyHow to overcome the negativity biasHow to understand you and your partners needs on a deeper levelHow to compassionately create boundariesPractical tools to create deeper relationshipsAn intro to Nonviolent Communication (NVC)Critiques of Nonviolent CommunicationAnd some of the most valuable communication advice out there🔱 LEARN WITH STEVE:REALationship 101 (Steve's Intro Class)Steve's Full Schedule of Classes (Online & In-Person)*Steve has an older website, but the practices are up to date and invaluable. 🔱 LEARN WITH TAYLOR:Orgasmic Mastery CourseFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelTaylor’s WebsiteSupport the show

I didn't expect this episode to go the direction it did, but it ended up being perfect. Thank you Jeddy for getting real with me, and for having the awareness and intuition to pivot the conversation when something juicy came up.Jeddy is the host of the Rising Man Podcast, and he regularly leads in-person workshops for men too around rights of passage and vision quests in the desert. You can find links to his work below.And on the note of pivoting the conversation, if you're part of the organization I named in this episode, please know that I chose not to edit your name out because part of what your organization talks about is bringing light to shadow... and owning the more challenging aspects that require growth. I see you doing the work, and I'm happy about it.---------------🔱 CONNECT WITH JEDDY:The Rising Man PodcastIn-Person Self Mastery Program (Sept. 7th-10th, 2023)In-Person Vision Quest ProgramJeddy's Instagram🔱  CONNECT WITH TAYLOROrgasmic Mastery CourseTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelTaylor’s WebsiteFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideSupport the show

I just got back from an awesome workshop that changed my perspective on how to practice semen retention as a lifestyle. And in this video I'll first share some important key points about semen retention, and then you'll hear my own personal transformation story from the workshop.*My personal story begins at 13:12 in this episode.The workshop I went to was called Embodied Transformation, and it was put on by the Strozzi Institute - out in Petaluma, California, USA. The workshop itself was not sexual in nature at all. Most people there were business executives and/or professional coaches in some capacity. It was specifically geared towards personal transformation through working with somatic awareness and somatic practices.And yes this relates to sex, because all of our sexual choices impact how we inhabit our bodies, and how we intentionally (or not) inhabit our bodies impacts how we have sex.You can watch the video for this episode here on Youtube.And you can go deeper with the resources below:🔱 SEMEN RETENTION MASTERY COURSE BEGINS APRIL 16https://www.taylorjohnson.life/semen-retention-mastery/🔱 Or take my Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge:https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/free-7-day-semen-retention-challenge🎙️ VIEW ALL PODCAST EPISODES HERE:https://www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast/📱CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonSupport the show