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Sextoast

Ian Kerner and Deren Jones host a lively discussion with sexpert guests ranging from porn stars to celebrity therapists as well as fascinating "every day" people whose sex lives are evolved, fulfilling and sexy! Come explore with Sex 2.0 the evolution of sexuality in and outside the bedroom.

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    What is kink? Good shame vs. bad shame with Dr. Kink aka therapist Dulcinea Pitagora

    Kink Doctor aka therapist Dulcinea Pitagora shares her personal take on kink and how having an interest in kink is different than identifying with it culturally or as a lifestyle.  

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    Mini Blow Jobs, Male Orgasmic Disorders, Decline in libido

    Lorrae Bradbury, founder of Sluttygirlproblems.com joins Ian and Deren to field listeners questions on concerns such as: What can you do if your partner has trouble ejaculating?  How can a woman who was coerced into giving a blow job by a previous partner get beyond the negative experience with new partner What to do when your previously horny boyfriend doesn't want to fool around as much anymore  

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    Episode 21: Palagia - Queen of the NY Erotic Event Scene

    We sit down with the one and only, Palagia of One Leg Up, where we discuss the ins and outs that come with the daily operations of organizing the hottest erotic events in New York City. 

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    Episode 20: How Much Is Too Much?

    Featuring Slutty Girl Problem's Larrae Bradbury, we answer a listener's letter about how many partners is too many. Spoiler alert: get freaky! Listen to find out why.         

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    Episode 19: Erotica - On Fire with Rachel Kramer Bussel

    We chat with acclaimed author and curator of erotica, Rachel Kramer Bussel. She's written about sex and sexuality for pretty much all the major publications. Listen as she schools us on this overlooked art form.

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    Episode 18: Racism In The Gay Porn Industry feat. LeNair Xavier

    We chat with former gay porn star, LeNair Xavier, and talk about racism in the agy adult film industry as well as other challenges that performers of color face daily. 

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    Episode 17: Slow Road to Sexy Threesomes

    Featuring Slutty Girl Problem's Larrae Bradbury, we answer a listener's letter with about why communication is key before embarking on threesome with your partner.         

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    Episode 16: Gender Dysphoria and Sexual Shyness

    Model, stylist, and photographer, Mica, sits down and talks to us about her experiences with love and dating as a trans woman. We talk about topics such as gender dysphoria, the fashion industry, sexual shyness, and how one navigates traditional gender roles as a trans woman.

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    Episode 15: Kiss Me Deadly Doll - Rope Bondage For Feminist Women

    Shibari, aka the Japanese art of rope binding. What's it all about? The lovely Kiss Me Deadly Doll, who teaches and photographs this strangely beautiful kink, sits down and offers us her insights into this world.

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    Episode 14: David Ley, author of Ethical Porn For Dicks

    We sit down with clinical psychologist and author, David Ley, to discuss how men can be more conscientious consumers of porn. #EthicalPorn #HealthyConsumption 

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    Episode 13: Art-porn publisher MacKenzie Peck of Math Magazine

    Budding porn entrepreneur, MacKenzie Peck, gives us a behind the scenes look at what goes into creating real erotic art. #PornAsArt #ProgressiveInclusivity #EthicalPorn #Aesthetics

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    Q&A: Sex with Robots

    Sluttygirlproblem listener asks , " What is the future of sex with robots?  Ian and company explore the positive potential of sex with robots. 

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    Sex with Robots

    Sluttygirlproblem listener asks , " What is the future of sex with robots?  Ian and company explore this question  and look at  the positive potential of sex with robots and their positive potential.

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    Episode 12: Larrae Bradbury: Founder Slutty Girl Problems

    What is a slut? : A slut is a woman who is confident and sexually empowered. She is in control of her sexuality and her choices. She doesn't let anyone define her or her sexuality. She define's herself.  Also listen to letter of week about Sex Robots

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    Episode 11: Emily Witt: Adventures in Erotic Wonderland

    The author of Future Sex discusses going outside her comfort zone, her odyssey of sexual exploration, and its cathartic effect. 

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    Episode 10: Shibari: The Art of Erotic Rope Bondage with Lord Morpheus

    Shibari: The Art of Erotic Rope Bondage with Lord Morpheus

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    Episode 9: BDSM for Beginners Part 2

    With lifestyle coach Bo Blaze. Learn why role playing helps you grow and why pathologizing a fetish keeps you stuck in shame when you could be having fun.

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    Episode 8: The Missing "O"

    Laura hasn't had an orgasm for 10 years, Ian helps her set an action plan.

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    Episode 7: BDSM for Beginners Part 1

    Alternative Lifestyle coach Bo Blaze talks dungeons, polyamory, and why you shouldn't experiment with BDSM on a tinder date.

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    Episode 6: Untangled Intimacy

    Writer, Michael Ellsberg lays out the steps to sexually untangled intimacy.

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    Episode 5: Porn Positive

    Adult Video News publisher, Paul Fishbein talks about evolution of pornography over two decades.

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    Episode 4: Open Relationship: Does it create more intimacy or a gap?

    Listen to guest "Kate" explore with Ian and Deren how she is navigating the pros and cons of her relationship

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    Episode 3: Genevieve LeJeune "Ladies Only Sex Party Promoter"

    Take a tour inside ladies only Skirt Club and learn why going to a women's only sex party can make you more confident in all areas of your life.

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    Episode 2: Kelly Lee Dekay "Find out why kink is romantic"

    Whip-toting and whip-smart, Kelly Lee Dekay talks about why kink is fun and romantic, why she likes female-led relationships, and the difficulty of getting a good male dom.

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    Episode 1: Jacky St. James "The Woman Who Conquered Porn"

    Jacky St. James about directing and writing porn, why submission can be empowering for women and why it's a fallacy that adult performers are "damaged goods." With Ian Kerner and Deren Jones.

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Ian Kerner and Deren Jones host a lively discussion with sexpert guests ranging from porn stars to celebrity therapists as well as fascinating "every day" people whose sex lives are evolved, fulfilling and sexy! Come explore with Sex 2.0 the evolution of sexuality in and outside the bedroom.

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Ian Kerner and Deren Jones host a lively discussion with sexpert guests ranging from porn stars to celebrity therapists as well as fascinating "every day" people whose sex lives are evolved, fulfilling and sexy! Come explore with Sex 2.0 the evolution of sexuality in and outside the bedroom.

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