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Bumble Just Broke Up With Bumble: How Will It Affect Your Dating Life? With Billionaires’ Matchmaker Gina Hendrix In this episode of Shot at Love, Kerry Brett sits down with dating coach, author, former Hollywood celebrity stylist, and matchmaker Gina Hendrix to discuss a more intentional way to approach modern dating. Together, they unpack Bumble’s changed messaging rules, why a dating profile should be treated like a personal marketing campaign, and how to stop investing energy in low-effort matches. Gina shares her “Swipe Like a Guy” philosophy, which is not about chasing more attention—it is about using feedback wisely, keeping standards high, and choosing people who demonstrate real interest. Kerry and Gina discuss the role of authentic, current photographs; the importance of looking beyond the “hottest” option; and why confidence, mindset, and proactive behavior can make a meaningful difference both online and in person.   In This Episode Why Bumble’s updated messaging structure changes the way daters can filter for genuine effort. How to stop confusing a match or a first message with a meaningful connection. Why your photographs and profile are your dating “marketing campaign.” The difference between attracting attention and choosing a compatible, invested partner. Gina’s two-part “Swipe Like a Guy” strategy for using profile feedback and swiping with intention. How to recognize low-effort openers and hold out for messages that show real interest. Why dating-app mindset matters—and how to stay patient during a slow stretch. How to create more opportunities offline by being friendly, visible, and open to conversation.   Key Takeaways:   Stop chasing validation and start choosing alignment. The right dating strategy is not about collecting matches; it is about presenting your best authentic self, filtering for effort, and giving your energy to the people who are genuinely showing up.   Timestamps   Time Topic 02:00 Why photos are the starting point of an effective dating profile 04:00 Attraction, substance, and avoiding the “hottest guy” trap 07:00 Managing expectations and dating-app mindset 09:00 Gina explains her “Swipe Like a Guy” philosophy 13:00 How to market yourself honestly without misrepresenting yourself 20:00 Meeting people in real life and making the first opening easier 22:00 Pre-qualifying for effort and filtering dating-app messages 24:00 What Bumble’s changed rules mean for daters 29:00 Why maintaining a dating-app footprint still matters 31:00 Gina’s podcast, coaching program, and forthcoming app, Pretty People About Gina Hendrix Gina Hendrix is a dating coach, author, former Hollywood celebrity stylist, and matchmaker. She is the host of Secrets They Only Tell a Matchmaker and the creator of The One in a Million Woman Advantage. She is also developing a dating app called Pretty People.   Connect with Gina   Instagram: @matchmakerginahendrix Email: [email protected] If you enjoyed this episode, follow Shot at Love, share it with a friend who is ready to date with more intention, and leave a five-star review. In this episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett talks with dating coach and matchmaker Gina Hendrix about how Bumble’s changing rules are reshaping modern dating—and why it is time to stop chasing and start choosing. Gina shares her “Swipe Like a Guy” philosophy, explaining how to use an intentional profile, authentic photos, clear standards, and real effort as filters for better matches. Together, Kerry and Gina discuss how to avoid getting distracted by surface-level attraction, recognize low-effort communication, stay grounded when dating apps feel discouraging, and focus your energy on people who genuinely show up. The message is simple: dating success is not about collecting attention; it is about presenting your best authentic self and choosing alignment, consistency, and substance. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

August Astrology: Eclipse Season, Lion's Gate, and Your Best Days for Love with Jill Jardine. What if the month you're about to step into could completely change your life? August 2026 isn't just another month on the calendar—it's a massive cosmic turning point. We are standing on the edge between two timelines: the life we've outgrown and the one we are about to step into. In this episode, our resident astrologer Jill Jardine returns to break down the intense cosmic energy heading our way. From the Lion's Gate Portal on 8/8 to two game-changing eclipses, the universe is moving the chess pieces, and we need to be ready. Jill explains why relationship endings might actually be divine intervention, how the shift of the lunar nodes is changing what we seek in partners, and why this is truly the "summer of love." Whether you are navigating a breakup, looking for new love, or just trying to survive the cosmic chaos, this episode is packed with the guidance you need. We discuss why August is one of the most pivotal months of the year, the significance of the Lion's Gate Portal, and how the upcoming solar and lunar eclipses will force hidden truths to the surface. Jill also shares her powerful visualization technique for manifesting a partner and explains the "love fest effect" that is making it easier than ever to connect with new people. Be sure to stay tuned until the end, where Jill shares a personalized zodiac forecast revealing the best dating windows and lucky days for every sign! For this week's dating tips, remember to throw out a wide net, be seen, and try something new and different. Ride the fast, magnetic energy of Leo season and close out the summer of love strong! Connect with Jill Jardine You can hear more from Jill by listening to her podcast, Cosmic Scene with Jill Jardine, or subscribing to her YouTube channel at @jilljardine2186. To book a personal reading and see what the stars have in store for your love life and career, visit jilljardine.com. Connect with Kerry Brett & Shot at Love Explore our brand new home on the web at shotatloveshow.com for more episodes, dating advice, and resources. While you're there, be sure to sign up for our newsletter to get exclusive dating tips and show updates delivered straight to your inbox. Keep up with me and get behind-the-scenes content by following me on Instagram @kerry_brett. And if you're ready to take control of your dating life, grab a copy of my new book, Shot At Love, available now on Amazon. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave us a five-star review! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Given Up on Love? This Story Will Change Your Mind—with Tina Eliana: On her 40th birthday, Tina Eliana was sleeping in a RAV4 at a truck stop—broke, broken, and wondering if her life had any meaning left. Two failed marriages. An adoption dissolved after nine years. A nervous breakdown so severe her body mimicked MS symptoms. She couldn't dream anymore. Then her husband JD said seven words that changed everything: "I'll dream for you until you can dream again." He meant it. And he proved it — for years. Today, Tina is down 100 pounds, holds four degrees, runs her own company serving clients around the world, and has a memoir on the way. In this episode, she shares the exact moment she knew JD was different (from his very first dating app message), how she rebuilt her life one impossibly small step at a time, and what she'd say to anyone who feels too broken to be loved. If you've ever wondered whether it's too late, whether you're too much, or whether the right person could really stay through the worst of it — press play. In This Episode, You'll Learn •How Tina spotted the green flags in JD's very first message on Plenty of Fish — and what set him apart from every other match •Why JD expanded his search radius one final time before deleting the app (and how Tina appeared 200 miles outside that radius) •The impossible decision Tina faced as a mother — and how it led to a complete nervous breakdown •What "I'll dream for you until you can dream again" looked like in practice, day after day, for years •The one small daily action that started Tina's climb out of rock bottom •How unconditional love — without conditions on staying — rewired a lifetime of expecting men to leave •Tina's message to anyone who feels stuck, unworthy, or ready to give up Timestamps Time Topic 00:00 Introduction — Tina Eliana's story and what's ahead 01:00 January 21, 2012 at 3:02 PM — the first message on Plenty of Fish 02:00 The green flags: humor, sincerity, and no "creep factor" 03:00 He was about to delete the app — expanded his radius one last time 04:00 Behind the scenes: two divorces, life threats, and unaddressed trauma 05:00 Adopting two brothers through foster care — what they weren't told 06:00 When safety became the crisis: voices, threats, and sleepless nights 07:00 The hardest decision: dissolving the adoption after nine years 08:00 The nervous breakdown — trauma presenting as MS symptoms 09:00 Why JD stayed when anyone else would have walked away 10:00 Hiding knives and taking turns sleeping — the reality of early marriage 11:00 Fleeing the town where all the trauma lived 12:00 Living in the vehicle — sleeping in a RAV4 at a truck stop on her 40th birthday 14:00 The turning point: crossing the state line and everything shifting 15:00 A year of wondering if she'd still be alive when he got home 16:00 "I love you enough to not put conditions on me staying" 17:00 Finding purpose through pain — developing empathy you can only earn by living it 19:00 Losing 100 pounds, earning four degrees, and building a new life 20:00 JD's gift: "Your jobs are your health and your education. I have us." 22:00 From not being able to dream — to not being able to dream enough 23:00 Living with nearly 50 health diagnoses and refusing to let them define her 25:00 Tina's message to anyone who feels stuck or is considering giving up 27:00 "I am a testament — you can. It's not easy, but it's so worth it." 28:00 Where to find Tina and what's coming next Key Quotes "I'll dream for you until you can dream again." "His love healed wounds inflicted on me by other people and other circumstances." "I love you enough to not put conditions on me staying. Even if you haven't had the strength to take a shower today, I'm gonna love you and I'm gonna kiss you anyway." "I spent my whole life expecting men to leave me. And he's like, 'No, I'm here and I'm staying.'" "I was put on this earth to do something besides hurt and go through trauma." "I've gone from not being able to dream — to not being able to dream enough." About Tina Eliana Tina Eliana is a leadership and learning systems advisor, author, speaker, and podcaster. She holds a bachelor's degree plus three master's degrees, has lost 100 pounds, and now works with clients around the world through her company, Tina Presents. Her memoir, Even the Sweetest Jam, is forthcoming. Connect with Tina •Podcast: Jam Sessions with Tina Eliana — jamsessionswithtinaeliana.com •Company: Tina Presents •Social: LinkedIn (Tina Presents) Connect with Shot At Love •Host: Kerry Brett •Subscribe on Apple Podcasts so you never miss an episode •Leave a review if this story moved you — it helps others find the show Resources Mentioned •Plenty of Fish (dating app) •Western Governors University (online degree program) •If you or someone you know is in crisis: Call or text the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988 (U.S.) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Saving Grace: Sex, Drugs & Second Chances. What happens when someone who seemingly has everything loses control of everything? Matt Grace's story begins with privilege, success, and opportunity—but quickly spirals into a 13-year battle with addiction that nearly cost him his life. As a television news reporter, Matt hid a dangerous dependence on alcohol, prescription drugs, and crystal meth while continuing to report on-air. Behind the scenes, his life was unraveling. In this deeply honest conversation, Matt opens up about surviving overdoses, destructive family patterns, enabling, hitting rock bottom, and the spiritual transformation that changed everything. Today, with more than two decades of sobriety, he's dedicated his life to helping individuals and families understand addiction and discover hope through service, accountability, and faith. In this episode you'll learn: Why addiction is often far more than a lack of willpower The role genetics and family history can play in substance abuse How enabling can unintentionally fuel addiction What rock bottom actually looked like for Matt The dangers of high-functioning addiction Why service became the foundation of Matt's recovery How helping others can improve mental health and self-esteem The importance of accountability, boundaries, and family healing Matt's powerful message for anyone who feels beyond hope Details about his upcoming book God Doesn't Relapse Memorable Takeaways Recovery is about becoming someone new—not simply getting sober. Families heal when they stop enabling and start setting healthy boundaries. Service creates purpose, confidence, and lasting change. No matter how far you've fallen, your story isn't over. Your greatest pain can become someone else's greatest hope. Resources Matt Grace Book: God Doesn't Relapse: Sex, Drugs, and the Life That Almost Killed Me Website: www.mattgrace.com If you enjoyed this episode... Please subscribe to Shot at Love, leave a five-star review, and share this episode with someone who may need hope today. Your support helps us continue bringing conversations that inspire healing, personal growth, and meaningful relationships. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Former nun. Survivor. Teacher. Author. Truth-teller. Tune into From the Convent to Coming Out: Breaking the Silence with Barb Rebon. In this deeply moving episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with Barb Rebon, author of The Heartbeat of My Silence, to discuss a life shaped by childhood trauma, faith, secrecy, and ultimately, self-acceptance. After enduring sexual abuse as a child, Barb found refuge in the Catholic Church and entered a convent at just sixteen years old. What followed was a decades-long journey of navigating forbidden relationships, struggling with her sexuality, and wrestling with the belief that who she was could never coexist with her faith. For nearly forty-five years, Barb lived with overwhelming guilt, shame, and silence. Yet through resilience, therapy, friendship, and an unwavering commitment to healing, she eventually found the courage to embrace her true self and share her story with the world. This conversation explores the lasting effects of trauma, the human need for belonging, the power of unconditional acceptance, and why healing begins the moment we stop hiding. In This Episode You'll Learn: How childhood abuse shaped Barb's search for safety and belonging Why she entered a convent at sixteen years old The complicated relationships that challenged her faith and identity What it was like living with shame and secrecy for nearly four decades The Oprah interview that helped change everything How she finally reconciled her faith with her sexuality Why silence can become its own form of suffering The importance of finding even one person who accepts you unconditionally How resilience, therapy, and community helped her heal What inspired her memoir, The Heartbeat of My Silence Memorable Quote "My silence had a heartbeat. It was living inside of me. I could hear it every day, and it tormented me until I finally allowed that silence to shatter." — Barb Rebon About Barb Rebon Barb Rebon is an educator, advocate, and author of The Heartbeat of My Silence. Through her memoir, she shares her journey from childhood trauma and religious life to self-discovery, healing, and authenticity. Her mission is to help others find the courage to speak their truth and know they are worthy of love exactly as they are. Connect with Barb Website: BarbaraRebonAuthor.com This Week's Shot At Love Takeaways Find one person who accepts you without judgment and supports you unconditionally. f someone helped you through your darkest moments, never forget it. Show up for others the way someone once showed up for you. Keywords Barb Rebon, The Heartbeat of My Silence, former nun, Catholic Church, faith and sexuality, coming out story, LGBTQ journey, childhood trauma, healing from abuse, resilience, self-acceptance, personal growth, memoir, forgiveness, identity, emotional healing, Shot At Love Podcast. Purchase Shot At Love, A Celebrity Photographer's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love at shotatlovebook.com. To apply to be a guest on Shot At Love, go to shotatloveguest.com. Follow on Instagram @kerry_brett or on Facebook www.facebook.com/kerrybrettphotography/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Love, The Lion's Gate Portal & The Magic Triangle: Astrologer Jill Jardine, have you ever felt like you're standing on the edge of a breakthrough? According to astrologers, the summer of 2026 may be one of the most powerful periods of transformation we've experienced in years. A rare planetary alignment known as the Magic Triangle is creating what many are calling a Portal of Possibility—a unique window for personal growth, reinvention, unexpected opportunities, and major life changes. In this fascinating episode of Shot At Love, resident astrologer, psychic healer, and spiritual teacher Jill Jardine returns to break down why July and August 2026 could become a turning point for millions of people. Jill explains how Neptune, Uranus, Pluto, and Jupiter are working together to create a rare cosmic pattern that supports innovation, spiritual awakening, creativity, freedom, and quantum leaps in consciousness. From career shifts and unexpected opportunities to new relationships and life-changing decisions, this summer's energy is all about embracing change and stepping into new possibilities. Together, Kerry and Jill discuss the exact dates to watch, the impact of Jupiter entering Leo, the significance of the Lion's Gate Portal on 8/8, and why eclipse season in August could accelerate destiny and course-correct our lives in surprising ways. Whether you're looking for love, considering a career change, pursuing a creative dream, or simply wondering why life suddenly feels like it's moving at lightning speed, this episode offers insight into how to work with the energy instead of resisting it. In this episode you'll discover: • What the Magic Triangle is and why astrologers are calling it one of the most important cosmic events of the decade • Why July 18–25 may be one of the most powerful energetic windows of 2026 • How Jupiter entering Leo brings expansion, confidence, creativity, romance, and fun • The meaning behind the Lion's Gate Portal and why August 8 is considered a powerful manifestation date • How eclipse season may trigger endings, beginnings, revelations, and unexpected opportunities • Which zodiac signs are most impacted by the summer's planetary alignments • What these cosmic shifts could mean for dating, relationships, career, finances, and purpose • Why flexibility, optimism, and trying something new may be your greatest advantage this summer If you've been waiting for a sign to make a change, take a chance, or open your heart to new possibilities, this episode may be exactly what you've been waiting for. Because sometimes the universe opens a door—and this summer, it might just open all of them. What if the summer of 2026 becomes the moment everything changes? In this episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett welcomes resident astrologer and psychic healer Jill Jardine to discuss a rare planetary alignment known as the Magic Triangle, a cosmic event that astrologers believe could bring powerful opportunities for growth, reinvention, love, and transformation. Jill explains how the alignment of Neptune, Uranus, Pluto, and Jupiter is creating a unique "Portal of Possibility" that may accelerate personal breakthroughs, unexpected opportunities, career shifts, and new relationships. Together, Kerry and Jill explore why July and August are expected to be some of the most significant months of the year, highlighting key astrological events including Jupiter's move into Leo, the Lion's Gate Portal on August 8, and a powerful eclipse season that could trigger major life changes. The conversation also dives into how these energies may impact dating, relationships, creativity, purpose, and personal freedom. Jill shares why staying flexible, embracing change, and saying yes to new experiences could open doors that previously seemed impossible. Whether you're looking for love, considering a fresh start, or simply curious about the powerful cosmic forces shaping the months ahead, this episode offers insight, inspiration, and practical guidance for navigating one of the most exciting astrological periods of the decade. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What if losing everything was the beginning of finding yourself? In this inspiring episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with Judith Colletti, a woman whose life story proves that your age is not your cage. Judith's journey is one of extraordinary resilience. She ran away and married her first husband at just 19 years old, became a single mother of two, discovered while nine months pregnant that the man she planned to marry had given her fake divorce papers and was still married, uncovered a shocking family secret after her father's death, lost her business, lost her home, and found herself rebuilding her life from the ground up. But this isn't a story about what Judith lost. It's a story about what she gained. Today, Judith is in her 60s, thriving, dating, building a successful transportation company, and inspiring others to believe that no matter how difficult life becomes, there is always a way forward. Together, Kerry and Judith discuss: • Why self-love is the foundation for rebuilding your life • How unresolved trauma can impact relationships and decision-making • What it takes to recover after losing a business, a home, and financial security • The mindset shifts that helped Judith reinvent herself time and time again • Why she started driving Uber to rebuild her life from scratch • How gratitude became her secret weapon during life's darkest moments • What dating looks like in your 60s and why Judith believes it's her best decade yet • Why living in the present moment creates more happiness than chasing perfection • The importance of embracing your story instead of hiding from it Judith's message is simple but powerful: your circumstances do not define you. No matter where you are today, you can choose to move forward, reinvent yourself, and create a future that excites you. If you've ever wondered whether it's too late to start over, this episode is your reminder that some of life's greatest chapters begin after the hardest setbacks. Connect with Judith Colletti: Facebook: Judith Colletti TikTok: @judineversleeps QR Code to connect with Judith Colletti on Speaker Hub https://speakerhub.com/cta/bjvwt4 Connect with Kerry Brett @kerry_brett @shotatlovepodcast www.kerrybrettlifestyleportraits.com Purchase her new book Shot@Love, A Celebrity Photographer's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love www.shotatlovebook.com. or be a guest on Shot At Love www.shotatloveguest.com Remember: The story you tell yourself matters. Keep moving forward, keep believing, and keep taking your shot at love. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The Secret Life of a Sapiosexual and Son of a Preacher with G.A. Pimpleton This episode dives into why authenticity is the attractor and why being yourself is your greatest advantage. What happens when a self-proclaimed "walking red flag" sits down to talk about love? In this unforgettable episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett welcomes financial guru, entrepreneur, storyteller, and larger-than-life personality G.A. Pimpleton for a conversation that's equal parts hilarious, provocative, and surprisingly profound. G.A. is the kind of man your mother warned you about—yet somehow you end up talking to him for hours and can't tear yourself away. A self-described dream maker, son of two preachers, father of four daughters, and unapologetic individualist, he's built a life on his own terms and isn't interested in being anyone but himself. Together, Kerry and G.A. explore what it really means to be authentic in relationships, why so many people fall in love with someone's "representative" instead of the real person, and how embracing your flaws can actually become your greatest superpower. From his famous five dating questions and his obsession with ambition, intelligence, and personal growth, to his thoughts on loyalty, vulnerability, trust, and why love requires a daily choice, G.A. delivers one unforgettable story after another. The conversation dives into everything from childhood influences and dating standards to the challenges of finding a true partner when you know exactly who you are and what you want. Love him or hate him, one thing is certain: you won't forget him. In This Episode: Why authenticity is more attractive than perfection • The dangers of falling in love with someone's "representative" • G.A.'s famous five questions for determining relationship compatibility • Why ambition and curiosity are non-negotiable qualities • The role loyalty plays in building lasting relationships • How childhood experiences shape adult dating patterns • Why embracing your quirks makes you more memorable • The daily choice required to sustain love and commitment • Why the right people will always appreciate what makes you different Shot At Love Takeaways: Embrace Your Flaws Your imperfections aren't something to hide—they're often the most relatable and attractive parts of who you are. Stop Trying to Blend In The people who are meant for you won't be attracted to a watered-down version of you. Be memorable, not average. Love Requires Courage There are no guarantees in relationships. Every day requires trust, vulnerability, and the willingness to choose someone again. Curiosity Creates Connection The most meaningful relationships aren't built on appearances. They're built on conversation, growth, and genuine interest in one another. Be Unapologetically Yourself The right person won't tolerate your authenticity—they'll celebrate it. Whether you're dating, married, rebuilding after heartbreak, or simply trying to understand yourself better, this episode is packed with wisdom, laughter, and a powerful reminder that being fully yourself is the greatest relationship strategy of all. To find out more about Kerry’s new book Shot@Love, A Celebrity Photographer’s Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love, check out shotatlovebook.com, and purchase on Amazon. If you’d like to be a guest on Shot At Love go to shotatloveguest.com. Follow on Instagram at @kerry_brett and @shotatlovepodcast. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

On this episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with Anne Gollert Hill for a powerful conversation about manipulation, identity, resilience, and what it takes to rebuild your life after walking away from a controlling environment. Anne opens up about surviving divorce before joining Scientology, spending 20 years inside the Sea Org, and the emotional toll of losing herself inside an organization that promised freedom but operated through control, fear, and isolation. Anne shares the moment she finally escaped with nothing but her purse and the clothes on her back, leaving behind the only world she had known for two decades. Kerry and Anne discuss love bombing, grooming, narcissistic abuse tactics, future faking, and why so many intelligent people can become trapped in toxic systems and relationships. But this episode is ultimately about hope, healing, and reinvention. Despite losing years of her life, Anne proves it is never too late to reclaim your voice, rebuild your confidence, and find love again. Her story is raw, inspiring, and deeply human. In this episode: How narcissistic abuse tactics operate inside organizations and relationships Why love bombing and future faking are so dangerous The psychological impact of losing your identity over time What finally pushed Anne to leave Scientology Rebuilding confidence after emotional control and isolation Why it’s never too late to start over and find love again The power of resilience, self-trust, and personal freedom If you’ve ever questioned a toxic relationship, ignored red flags, or wondered how people get trapped in controlling dynamics, this episode will stay with you long after it ends. Follow Kerry Brett: Instagram: @kerry_brett Instagram: @shotatlovepodcast Website: Shot At Love #ShotAtLove #Scientology #NarcissisticAbuse #DatingAndRelationships #HealingJourney #LoveBombing #EmotionalAbuse #PersonalGrowth   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Shot At Love — Episode: How Your Thoughts Create Your Reality with Positivity Expert Lori Rogers In this uplifting episode, Kerry Brett sits down with Lori Rogers—positivity expert, entrepreneur, and mindset mentor—whose journey from overwhelm to empowerment transformed every area of her life. When Lori’s world became filled with uncertainty, family challenges, and fear, she discovered a life-changing truth: your thoughts, words, and emotions shape your reality. Lori shares how joy, gratitude, and simple daily mindset practices can shift your energy, strengthen your relationships, improve your business, and open new doors. From raising a neurodiverse child to reprogramming generational “scarcity” thinking, Lori explains how she built a life rooted in abundance, self-love, and trust. What You’ll Learn Why happiness is the foundation—not the reward—of success Lori explains why waiting for accomplishments to feel good keeps us stuck. How the words you hear (and speak) shape your future A childhood label of “worrywart” became a belief Lori carried for years—until she learned to rewrite her story. The power of visualization and “I am” statements Inspired by Abraham-Hicks, Lori shares how shifting from “I want” to “I am” changes everything. How to access the emotion of what you desire—now Learn why your brain can’t distinguish between imagination and reality, and how tapping into the feeling accelerates manifestation. Why you can’t manifest for others—but you can support them Lori discusses helping her children, especially her son Craig, through intention, faith, and aligned emotional energy. Letting go of scarcity thinking From her husband Neil’s easygoing nature to reconditioning old beliefs, Lori reveals how changing mindset changes outcomes. Authenticity over perfection Lori opens up about parenting, vulnerability, and embracing the real (not curated) version of life. Simple, free practices that change your life From morning affirmations to mindset tools, Lori shares the routines that anchor her day. Mentioned in the Episode Lori Rogers – Positivity expert and founder of Positive Activity Neil Rogers – Lori’s husband and author of Bar Tips Cam Rogers – Lori’s son and part of the Believe network Abraham-Hicks – Source of Lori’s transformational “I am” practices Positive Activity Website: positiveactivity.net Instagram: @LaurieARogersPositiveActivity This Week’s Dating Tips (Inspired by Lori Rogers) Network intentionally You never know who someone else knows. Your next connection could come from their circle. Feel the relationship before it arrives Visualize the joy, the partnership, and the fun—your emotions are magnetic. Declutter your life and your energy Create space for what you want. Vision boards, crystals, and journaling can help you get clear and align your energy. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Shot At Love — Episode: How Your Thoughts Create Your Reality with Positivity Expert Lori Rogers In this uplifting episode, Kerry Brett sits down with Lori Rogers—positivity expert, entrepreneur, and mindset mentor—whose journey from overwhelm to empowerment transformed every area of her life. When Lori’s world became filled with uncertainty, family challenges, and fear, she discovered a life-changing truth: your thoughts, words, and emotions shape your reality. Lori shares how joy, gratitude, and simple daily mindset practices can shift your energy, strengthen your relationships, improve your business, and open new doors. From raising a neurodiverse child to reprogramming generational “scarcity” thinking, Lori explains how she built a life rooted in abundance, self-love, and trust. What You’ll Learn Why happiness is the foundation—not the reward—of success Lori explains why waiting for accomplishments to feel good keeps us stuck. How the words you hear (and speak) shape your future A childhood label of “worrywart” became a belief Lori carried for years—until she learned to rewrite her story. The power of visualization and “I am” statements Inspired by Abraham-Hicks, Lori shares how shifting from “I want” to “I am” changes everything. How to access the emotion of what you desire—now Learn why your brain can’t distinguish between imagination and reality, and how tapping into the feeling accelerates manifestation. Why you can’t manifest for others—but you can support them Lori discusses helping her children, especially her son Craig, through intention, faith, and aligned emotional energy. Letting go of scarcity thinking From her husband Neil’s easygoing nature to reconditioning old beliefs, Lori reveals how changing mindset changes outcomes. Authenticity over perfection Lori opens up about parenting, vulnerability, and embracing the real (not curated) version of life. Simple, free practices that change your life From morning affirmations to mindset tools, Lori shares the routines that anchor her day. Mentioned in the Episode Lori Rogers – Positivity expert and founder of Positive Activity Neil Rogers – Lori’s husband and author of Bar Tips Cam Rogers – Lori’s son and part of the Believe network Abraham-Hicks – Source of Lori’s transformational “I am” practices Positive Activity Website: positiveactivity.net Instagram: @LaurieARogersPositiveActivity This Week’s Dating Tips (Inspired by Lori Rogers) Network intentionally You never know who someone else knows. Your next connection could come from their circle. Feel the relationship before it arrives Visualize the joy, the partnership, and the fun—your emotions are magnetic. Declutter your life and your energy Create space for what you want. Vision boards, crystals, and journaling can help you get clear and align your energy. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode, Love Is Not Luck: Divorce, Grief & Relational Literacy with Real Love Ready Author Robin Ducharme, this week on Shot At Love, Kerry Brett welcomes Robin Ducharme, founder of Real Love Ready, creator of the In Bloom relationship summit, and author of her new book Real Love Ready: A Guide to Relational Literacy. This conversation is not about fairy tales or finding “the one.” It’s about learning how to love better, communicate deeper, forgive harder, and stop calling every relationship that ends a failure. Robin opens up about the loss of her twin brother, her spiritual relationship with love, her Catholic upbringing, and how grief taught her that love does not disappear — it simply changes form. Kerry and Robin also discuss divorce, friendship breakups, relational literacy, faith, self-abandonment, and why love is not just a feeling — it is a skill, a discipline, and a practice. In this episode, we talk about: Why Robin considers herself a lifelong student of love How losing her twin brother transformed her understanding of connection Why love continues even after death How divorce can be an act of self-rescue, not failure The grief carried by the person who chooses to leave Why some relationships complete their purpose instead of “failing” The pain of friendship breakups and why we need to grieve them too How fear-based thoughts block love Why relational literacy should be taught like a life skill Robin’s In Bloom summit and the world-renowned relationship experts she has worked with Her new publishing company, Soul Print The mission behind Real Love Ready Episode Theme: Love is not luck. Love is readiness. Love is literacy. Love is a practice.   About Robin Ducharme: Robin Ducharme is the founder of Real Love Ready, a platform dedicated to helping people build healthier relationships through education, community, and honest conversations about love. She is also the creator of In Bloom, an annual relationship summit in Vancouver featuring some of the world’s leading voices in love, healing, and relational growth. Her book, Real Love Ready: A Guide to Relational Literacy, offers a roadmap for learning how to love ourselves and others with more awareness, courage, and compassion. Where to find Robin: Visit: realloveready.com Book: Real Love Ready: A Guide to Relational Literacy Event: In Bloom — held every April in Vancouver and online Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Survivor Season 49 Winner on Love, Trust & Winning at Relationships with Savannah Louie What does it really take to win—in love, life, and on one of the toughest shows on television? This week on Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with Survivor Season 49 winner Savannah Louie for a powerful conversation about confidence, resilience, vulnerability, relationships, and trusting your instincts when everything is on the line. Savannah shares how she manifested her Survivor journey from childhood, applying for the show for years before finally stepping onto the island—and winning. She opens up about the power of visualization, mental preparation, and why believing in yourself is often the first step toward success. Kerry and Savannah explore how Savannah’s background as a journalist helped her dominate the game. From reading body language and building trust quickly to staying calm under pressure, Savannah explains why people skills matter just as much in dating as they do in Survivor. The conversation also takes a deeper look at Savannah’s real-life relationship, including how competing on Survivor tested her partnership, what anxious attachment taught them both, and how communication helped them grow stronger together. They also discuss: Why confidence starts with asking “Why not me?” How vulnerability builds deeper connection Why observation is power in dating and life The danger of being physically present but emotionally distracted What reality TV fame taught Savannah about relationships Why timing matters more than forcing outcomes How to know when the right opportunity is finally yours Savannah Louie is sharp, inspiring, strategic, and refreshingly honest. Whether you're navigating dating, rebuilding confidence, or chasing a dream that feels impossible, this episode will leave you thinking bigger. This is one conversation you don’t want to miss. 3 Dating Takeaways from Savannah Louie Believe You’re the Prize Confidence changes everything. Stop asking “Why would they choose me?” and start asking “Why not me?” Vulnerability Creates Intimacy People connect with what’s real—not perfection. Let people see the truth of who you are. Observe Before You Invest: Not every opportunity is meant for you. Watch actions, trust patterns, and choose wisely. What does winning Survivor and finding love have in common? Everything. This week, Survivor winner Savannah Louie joins me to talk confidence, trust, vulnerability, relationships, and why believing in yourself is the real game-changer. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Keep Swinging: What Beep Baseball, Blind Athletes & Fearless Living Teach Us About Love, Confidence & Possibility Episode Overview What if the only thing standing between you and a completely different life… is one swing? This episode doesn’t just land—it hits. Recorded after an unforgettable moment at Fenway Park, Kerry sits down with Wynter Pingle and Johnny Coe—two people who redefine what it means to show up, trust the process, and go after something before you feel ready. Wynter is a blind musician, runner, athlete, and chef. Johnny is her teammate, guide, and creative counterpart. Together, they pull you into the world of beep baseball—a sport built on trust, instinct, and courage. But this conversation goes way beyond the field. It’s about identity. It’s about fear. It’s about the moments where you decide—I’m doing this anyway. What You’ll Hear in This Episode • The powerful story behind playing beep baseball at Fenway Park • Why “being a little scared” might actually mean you’re living right • How Wynter redefined what she thought she was capable of—at every stage of life • The surprising connection between movement, confidence, and finding love • What trust really looks like (on the field and in relationships) • Why community is the missing piece for so many people feeling stuck • The truth: you don’t fail by trying—you fail by never stepping up to the plate Standout Moments • “Until you’re dead, you can always discover new parts of yourself.” • “People living their lives right are always just a little bit scared.” • “It doesn’t matter if I beat someone else. What matters is if I beat what I thought I could do.” • “You miss every shot you don’t take—so keep swinging.” What is Beep Baseball? A fully adaptive version of baseball designed for blind and visually impaired athletes—where sound replaces sight, trust replaces hesitation, and courage drives every play. • Players hit a beeping ball • Bases buzz to guide runners • Teammates rely on rhythm, communication, and instinct Learn more: • National Beep Baseball Association (NBBA) • Achilles International (adaptive running community) • Adaptive Sports New England The Takeaway This episode is your wake-up call. You don’t need more confidence. You don’t need more time. You don’t need permission. You need one move. One risk. One moment where you decide: I’m getting in the game. Because love, opportunity, and everything you’re looking for? They’re not waiting for you to be ready. They’re waiting for you to show up. Connect with Kerry Follow, connect, and stay in the loop for live events, new episodes, and Shot@Love Societydrops: • Instagram: @kerrybrett • Podcast: @shotatlovepodcast • Website: shotatlovebook.com Grab the Book Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Lens on Dating and Finding Love Available now on Amazon Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What Love on the Spectrum Teaches Us About Finding Love, Confidence, and Authentic Connection with Pari Kim and Tina Zhu Xi Caruso If you’ve been searching for love—and wondering why it feels so hard—this episode will change how you see connection. With the growing popularity of Love on the Spectrum Season 4, this powerful conversation revisits one of the most authentic love stories from the series: Tina Zhu Xi Caruso and Pari Kim. When Tina and Pari met on Love on the Spectrum, audiences around the world were drawn to their honesty, vulnerability, and genuine connection. But their story goes deeper than reality TV—it reveals what it truly takes to find love in today’s dating world. In this episode of Shot At Love, host Kerry Brett explores how Tina and Pari’s relationship highlights the keys to meaningful connection: radical self-acceptance, emotional honesty, and the courage to show up exactly as you are. From Pari’s fearless self-expression—living life unapologetically—to Tina’s strength as a photographer and disability advocate, their connection is built on something many people struggle to achieve in modern dating: authenticity. Their shared experience of loss creates a deeper emotional bond, proving that empathy, resilience, and understanding are often the foundation of lasting love. This episode is for anyone navigating dating, feeling discouraged, or searching for a more meaningful connection. Because finding love isn’t about perfection—it’s about being real, being seen, and being accepted. If you’re a fan of Love on the Spectrum or looking for real dating advice that actually works, this episode will leave you inspired—and thinking differently about love. Love on the Spectrum Season 4, Love on the Spectrum cast, Tina Zhu Xi Caruso, Pari Kim, finding love, dating advice, how to find love, authentic relationships, neurodivergent dating, dating with autism, self-confidence in dating, real love stories, modern dating struggles #LoveOnTheSpectrum #FindingLove #DatingAdvice Website: www.shotatlovebook.com Podcast: Shot At Love on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and BLEAV Instagram: @kerry_brett @shotatlovepodcast Facebook: Shot At Love Podcast TikTok: @shotatlove LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com YouTube: Shot At Love Podcast with Kerry Brett Book: Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Lens on Dating and Finding Love (Available on Amazon) Instagram: @shotatlovepodcast @kerry_brett Website: www.shotatlovethebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Astrology and Love: Aries Season, and How to Find Love in 2026 with Jill Jardine. Your Astrology Dating Guide for Spring 2026 What does astrology say about love right now—and how can you use this moment to finally find love, take action in dating, and stop repeating old patterns? In this powerful episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with astrologer and psychic healer Jill Jardine to break down the astrology of love, dating, and relationships during one of the most pivotal seasons of 2026. If you’ve been feeling stuck in modern dating, questioning your path to finding love, or wondering when things will finally shift—this is your moment. Because, according to this astrology love forecast, everything is changing. After months of emotional heaviness, retrogrades, and reflection, the energy has officially turned. As Jill explains, all planets are now moving direct, creating a rare window for movement, clarity, and momentum—especially when it comes to love and relationships. This isn’t a “wait for love” season. This is a take action, find love, and change your dating life season. April’s Aries energy brings bold, fast-moving momentum into modern dating, pushing you to confront what’s not working and take real action toward finding love. This is the kind of astrology that sparks first dates, bold decisions, and new beginnings—but it also requires awareness. Because in this phase of astrology and love, people are moving fast. Which means: Connections ignite quickly Attraction builds instantly But people can also dismiss potential love just as fast That’s why this episode breaks down how to navigate dating during Aries season without sabotaging your chances of finding real love. One of the biggest themes in this astrology dating forecast? A complete shift in tolerance. People are no longer settling in relationships that don’t align. In today’s dating world, emotional unavailability, mixed signals, and red flags are no longer being ignored—they’re dealbreakers. This is a season of: Choosing yourself Raising your standards Letting go of misaligned relationships Creating space to find real, aligned love And that’s exactly why so many people are either breaking up—or finally breaking through—in their love lives right now. But timing matters. This episode walks you through how to work with the astrology of love from April through June so you can actually succeed in dating and relationships: April is about action and exploration in dating May brings grounding, stability, and deeper connection June reveals clarity—showing you who is right for you and who is not If you’ve been trying to find love, this timeline is everything. Another major shift in this astrology love forecast is how we communicate and connect. With Uranus entering Gemini, there’s a rapid evolution in dating, communication, and connection. This impacts: Dating apps and online dating Texting and communication patterns How quickly people form connections The desire to find aligned, like-minded partners But there’s a catch in dating. While people want deeper connection and real love, they’re also becoming more selective—sometimes overly focused on surface-level traits instead of true compatibility. The key to finding love in this astrology cycle? Stay open, but stay aligned. Kerry brings it back to what matters most in dating and relationships: You have to put yourself in the right rooms to find love. Because finding love isn’t about luck—it’s about action, energy, and environment. This episode is your roadmap to navigating modern dating through astrology, understanding the energy of this moment, and finally taking aligned action toward real love. The biggest takeaway from this astrology and love conversation: Don’t sit this one out. Say yes to the date. Say yes to new opportunities. Say yes to meeting new people. Because the energy right now is designed to support finding love, creating connection, and building something real. And as Kerry always says— Take your shot. Because love isn’t about perfect timing. It’s about showing up when the energy is finally aligned. #FindingLove #AstrologyLove #DatingAdvice Website: www.shotatlovebook.com www.kerrybrett.com Podcast: Shot At Love on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and BLEAV Instagram: @kerry_brett @shotatlovepodcast Facebook: Shot At Love Podcast TikTok: @shotatlove LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com YouTube: Shot At Love Podcast with Kerry Brett Book: Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Lens on Dating and Finding Love (Available on Amazon)   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Love Story takes us inside one of the most iconic and misunderstood relationships of our time—Carolyn Bessette Kennedy and John F. Kennedy Jr., through the lens of someone who knew her personally. This episode offers a rare and intimate look beyond the headlines and into the truth of who Carolyn really was. Kerry Brett sits down with celebrity writer Jonathan Soroff, who shared a real friendship with Carolyn before and during her rise into the global spotlight. Together, they revisit the 1990s, a time before social media, when mystery still existed—and how that intrigue became part of Carolyn’s allure. This conversation explores the tension between love and fame, the pressure of constant media attention, and the emotional cost of being in a relationship that the world is obsessed with. Jonathan shares behind-the-scenes stories that reveal Carolyn’s character, her boundaries, and the quiet strength that made her unforgettable. They also discuss the current cultural fascination with their relationship and what gets lost when real lives are turned into entertainment. It raises important questions about privacy, perception, and the way society projects meaning onto couples we don’t truly know. At its core, this episode is about more than a famous love story—it’s about understanding the power of boundaries, the importance of self-worth, and why the most compelling relationships aren’t always the most visible. Kerry Brett closes the episode with dating insights inspired by Carolyn’s approach to love, reminding listeners that attraction grows over time, boundaries set the tone, and the right person will rise to meet you when you hold your value. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today’s guest is Evan Marc Katz, a trailblazing dating coach who has spent more than two decades helping women understand men and create lasting relationships. Often described as the world’s first dating coach, Evan built his career on one central mission: helping women stop repeating painful dating patterns and start attracting the kind of partner who wants commitment. Evan shares how his own experiences as a serial dater led him to study relationship dynamics and eventually build a coaching practice devoted to helping women navigate the modern dating landscape. His insights have been featured in major media outlets including CNN, The New York Times, and The Wall Street Journal. During the episode, Kerry and Evan talk about why chemistry alone is not enough to sustain a relationship, how to identify the difference between attraction and compatibility, and why many successful women unknowingly choose partners who are emotionally unavailable. Evan also discusses the mindset shifts that can transform someone’s dating life, including learning to recognize red flags early, focusing on consistency over intensity, and understanding the qualities that lead to long-term partnership. If you feel like you’ve done everything right in life but still haven’t found the right relationship, this conversation offers powerful insight into why—and what you can do differently moving forward. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode of Shot@Love, Kerry Brett sits down with author of the popular book Bar Tips by Neil Rogers for a powerful conversation about human connection, dating, and what the hospitality industry can teach us about finding love. Neil shares how decades behind the bar shaped his understanding of people, respect, and first impressions—and why dating, like bartending, is ultimately a people business. From the importance of a proper greeting to the power of listening more than you speak, this episode explores how small, intentional actions can completely change the way we connect with others. The conversation dives into transferable skills from hospitality that apply directly to dating, including preparation, punctuality, reading the room, and meeting people where they are. Neil explains why being “right” is overrated, how kindness builds trust, and why showing up without an agenda creates deeper, more authentic connections. Kerry and Neil also discuss loneliness, modern dating challenges like ghosting, and how technology has made it easier to hide instead of engage. They explore why respect, compassion, and presence are more attractive than perfection—and how confidence grows when we focus less on impressing and more on genuinely connecting. This episode is a reminder that love doesn’t come from performance or pressure. It comes from listening, kindness, and the courage to be yourself. Whether you’re dating, rebuilding confidence, or simply wanting better connections in your love life or in business, this conversation offers timeless lessons that can change how you show up—for dates, relationships, and life itself. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

How to Rebuild Confidence and Find Love Again: The Connection Between Self-Worth, Healing, and Attraction with Dr. Ann Doggett Struggling with confidence, healing after heartbreak, or wondering why love hasn’t worked out yet? This episode connects the dots. In this powerful episode of Shot At Love, celebrity photographer, author, and dating expert Kerry Brett sits down with Dr. Ann Doggett of Whole Body Solutions to explore how self-worth, healing, and confidence directly impact your ability to attract and sustain love. If you’ve ever felt stuck in dating, disconnected from yourself, or like you’ve lost your spark after a breakup, divorce, or major life change—this conversation offers a new path forward. Dr. Ann shares how true transformation starts from within, combining science-backed treatments like non-invasive cold fiber laser technology with holistic healing practices including nutrition, acupuncture, and energy work. The result? Not just physical renewal—but emotional confidence, clarity, and a stronger sense of self. Because finding love isn’t just about meeting the right person—it’s about becoming the version of yourself who’s ready to receive it. This episode will show you how to rebuild confidence, reconnect with your worth, and step back into dating with a completely different energy. If you're ready to feel like yourself again—and finally attract the love you deserve—this is where it starts. finding love, how to find love, rebuild confidence after heartbreak, dating after divorce, self-worth and relationships, how to attract love, healing after breakup, confidence in dating, emotional healing, self-love journey #FindingLove #DatingConfidence #SelfWorth Follow Kerry Brett for more dating and relationship advice: Instagram: @shotatlovepodcast @kerry_brett Website: www.shotatlovethebook.com   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The start of a new year isn’t just about resolutions. It’s about acceleration. In 2026, the heaviness of the last few years begins to lift. The exhaustion, the repeating patterns, and the familiar question of why we keep ending up in the same place are finally giving way to movement and possibility. Astrologically and energetically, we are entering a rare window that supports forward momentum, emotional openness, and new beginnings. In this episode of Shot@Love, Kerry Brett is joined by astrologer and psychic healer Jill Jardine for a deep look at what the planetary shifts of 2026 mean for love, connection, creativity, and personal growth. Jill explains why this year marks the official transition into Aquarian age energy and how the collective move from heavy earth and water influences into lighter air and fire elements creates space for inspiration, innovation, and emotional renewal. Together, Kerry and Jill explore why 2026 is a year of acceleration rather than hesitation. The Year of the Horse arrives with momentum, encouraging people to stop dragging the past into the future and instead align with what is meant for them now. This episode breaks down why January sets the tone for the entire year, why intention-setting early matters more than ever, and how grounding practices help navigate a faster, more dynamic energetic landscape. Jill offers a detailed snapshot of the first quarter of 2026, including the powerful Aquarius activations in January, the intensity of eclipse season and retrogrades in February, and the integration and forward motion that begins to take shape in March. She explains how these shifts may impact relationships, dating, creativity, and emotional readiness, while also offering guidance on how to stay centered during periods of rapid change. This conversation is especially meaningful for anyone who has felt stuck, cautious, or emotionally weighed down in recent years. It offers clarity on how to work with the energy of 2026 rather than resist it, and why love becomes more accessible when timing and readiness finally align. As Kerry and Jill discuss, love is not about perfect circumstances. It is about being prepared when opportunity meets intention. Listeners will walk away with a clearer understanding of why 2026 represents a collective reset, how to approach love and connection with optimism instead of fear, and what it means to move forward without carrying old emotional baggage. This episode is an invitation to trust the momentum, stay grounded, and allow the year ahead to unfold with purpose. Guest Bio:Jill Jardine is a professional Western and Vedic astrologer with more than 35 years of experience. She holds a master’s degree in counseling psychology, is a Sanskrit mantra instructor and yoga teacher, and is the host of the internationally acclaimed podcast Cosmic Scene with Jill Jardine. Jill blends psychology, spiritual insight, and ancient wisdom to help individuals navigate life transitions with clarity and empowerment. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The holidays can feel like a perfect storm — emotionally, mentally, and physically. In this timely and deep conversation, Surviving the Holiday Bermuda Triangle: Dry January & the 12 Steps—Kerry Brett is joined once again by comedian, mom, and nearly nine-year-sober Laurie Hurd Ferreira for part two of their series on the 12 Steps — and why they’re not just for recovery, but for anyone craving peace, and real change. Together, they unpack what Laurie calls the Holiday Bermuda Triangle—Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s — a season that amplifies loneliness, temptation, comparison, and emotional overwhelm. With humor, honesty, and hard-earned wisdom, Laurie explains how the 12 Steps offer a practical framework for sobriety, self-trust, and community support — especially during the holidays or as Dry January is upon us. Or in moments when willpower alone isn’t enough. This episode isn’t about perfection or labels. It’s about transformation — the desire to change, to slow down, to stop repeating patterns, and to choose a different way forward, one day at a time. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

n today’s powerful episode, Kerry welcomes back one of Shot@Love’s most loved guests, Laurie Hurd Ferreira—comic, mother, and nearly nine years sober. As we move through one of the most emotionally intense months of the year, Laurie shares the tools, truths, and transformational wisdom she’s learned in Alcoholics Anonymous, and how those same principles can help anyone find balance, clarity, and strength—whether they’re in recovery or simply overwhelmed by life. Together, Kerry and Laurie unpack why the holidays make people feel unhinged, the pressure of perfection, the pull toward unhealthy habits, and the myth that you’re supposed to keep it all together. Laurie opens up about the moment her life changed, how AA saved her, and why the 12 Steps provide a blueprint for becoming the person you’re meant to be. They discuss:• Why so many people feel lost, anxious, or out of control in December• How slowing down, pausing, and “one day at a time” thinking can ground you• What the 12 Steps really teach—and why everyone can benefit from them• How to rebuild confidence, self-worth, and trust in yourself• The power of community, connection, and sharing your story• Why doing the next right thing—however small—can change your entire life• Letting go, finding a higher power, and learning to live life with intention• How helping someone else can become the beginning of your own healing This episode is raw, honest, funny, and deeply inspiring. If you’re navigating holiday stress, overwhelm, heartbreak, addiction, codependency, or simply want a healthier start to the new year, this conversation offers tools you can use today. Takeaways: Slow it down: Take life one day—or one hour—at a time. Pause before reacting: Clarity comes when you stop rushing. Help someone else: Small acts of service shift everything. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Some love stories don’t end with heartbreak — they end with unanswered questions. Ana Walshe was 39. A devoted mother of three. Brilliant, driven, and building a life between Boston and Washington, D.C. But behind closed doors, her marriage concealed a chilling imbalance of power, control, and deception. In this powerful and deeply personal episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with her daughter, Morgan Hurley — an interim court reporter who has been inside the courtroom covering the Brian and Ana Walshe murder trial. Together, they unpack what really happened, what the jury is hearing, and the warning signs that were tragically missed. This episode is not about gossip.It’s about truth.It’s about red flags.And it’s about the dangerous cost of ignoring them. Inside This Episode: The early warning signs that surfaced years before Ana disappearedBrian Walshe’s long history of fraud, manipulation, and financial deceptionThe rise of Ana’s independence and why it became dangerousThe affair, the unraveling marriage, and December 2022’s final daysThe disappearance and the disturbing timeline that followedThe chilling Google searches prosecutors call the biggest smoking gunSurveillance footage, erratic alibis, and evidence from dumpsters across multiple townsThe eerie voicemail left for Ana’s boyfriendThe financial motive, including a $2.7 million life insurance policyThe courtroom dynamics and the challenge of proving murder without a body Morgan also shares what it’s like to report on a case that happened in their own backyard and why this story deserves far more attention than it has received. The Shot At Love Perspective Ana was rising.Her career was thriving.Her independence was growing. And for a narcissistic partner who depended on her financially, that became the greatest threat. When your success threatens someone, they were never your partner — they were your prison. This Week’s Shot At Love Dating and Relationship Takeaways: Red Flags Are Not DecorationsIf someone’s past requires detective work to understand, don’t investigate. Leave. Charm Is Easy. Consistency Is RareGrand gestures without steady behavior are manipulation, not romance. Your Body Knows Before Your Brain DoesIntuition isn’t overreacting; it’s forecasting. Don’t mute the message. About Today’s Guest: Morgan Hurley is an interim court reporter covering the Brian Walshe trial firsthand. In this episode, she brings clarity, credibility, and a journalist’s lens to a case filled with unanswered questions and troubling patterns. Follow and Connect: Host: Kerry BrettInstagram: @kerrybrettphotographyPodcast: Shot At Love Guest: Morgan HurleyInstagram: @morganhurleyyy Final Thought: This episode is a reminder that love should never require fear, confusion, or survival mode. If something feels off, it probably is. And ignoring the preview can cost you everything. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Why We Chase the Wrong Relationships (And How to Finally Break the Cycle) What happens when love becomes the thing that breaks you… instead of builds you? In this raw and powerful episode of Shot At Love, I sit down with Ben Currier—host of the top-ranked podcast Failure Guy—to unpack a story that starts with one impulsive decision… and spirals into complete collapse. At the height of his career, Ben moved across the country for a woman he barely knew. Within weeks, he lost everything—his stability, his belongings, his sense of self. But this isn’t just a story about losing it all.It’s about why we ignore red flags, chase intensity over intimacy, and stay in situations that slowly break us. Together, we unpack the deeper patterns behind modern dating—emotional addiction, trauma bonding, and the dangerous pull of relationships that feel like passion… but are really chaos. If you’ve ever: Thought a relationship would save youStayed longer than you should haveConfused emotional highs with real connectionOr rushed into something just to avoid being alone This episode will hit home. Because what Ben ultimately discovered is this:Rock bottom isn’t the end—it’s the beginning of rebuilding your life the right way. This conversation is about resilience, self-worth, and what it actually takes to break the cycles that keep you stuck—and finally create a healthy, grounded relationship. If you’re ready to stop repeating the same patterns in love… this episode is for you. #ToxicRelationships#LoveAddiction#DatingAdvice Follow Kerry Brett for more dating and relationship advice: Instagram: @shotatlovepodcast @kerry_brett Website: www.shotatlovethebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Getting Clear for 2026 with Manifestation Mentor Lizzie Moore Shot At Love is all about clarity, energy, and creating a fresh start for 2026. Manifestation mentor Lizzie Moore returns to the show to walk us through how to identify what we really want, why most people stay stuck, and how to shift our mindset so we can finally receive the opportunities, relationships, and breakthroughs we’ve been waiting for. Lizzie explains why vague goals confuse the universe, how our energy influences what we attract, and why accountability changes everything. We talk about writing things down, showing up as the person who’s ready to receive, and how to stay committed even when life gets messy. Lizzie also shares why the last days of the year matter, how visualization activates the brain, and the science behind using vision boards to align your emotions with your goals. If you're tired, burned out, or unsure of where to start, this conversation gives you simple practices to reconnect with hope, rebuild your belief in what’s possible, and create a plan for 2026 that you can actually follow through on. We also talk candidly about fear, doubt, initiating connections, and how clarity makes every area of life—including dating—feel easier and more aligned. Whether you're manifesting a new career, a move, more joy, or the love you’ve been waiting for, this episode will help you get grounded, get intentional, and get ready for what's next. What We Discuss Why clarity is the foundation of manifestation • How fear, doubt, and imposter syndrome block your goals • The role accountability plays in staying consistent • How emotions carry frequency and shape what you attract • Using visualization to shift your mindset • Why writing things down strengthens belief • How vision boards activate the brain and create momentum • Resetting your mindset when the year doesn’t start perfectly • The science behind the reticular activating system • The difference between resolutions and manifestation • How to pick goals that you can sustain • Why small goals matter for beginners • When to aim bigger and how to overcome fear • Using signs, symbols, and daily rituals to stay aligned • Why connecting with images each morning makes a difference • How to get more comfortable initiating opportunities and connections • How to bring love into your manifestation practice • Building a realistic plan to stay hopeful and consistent in 2026 Connect with Lizzie Moore Website: www.vibeandshine.online Manifestation Membership and Vision Board Calendar available on her site. Follow Kerry Brett Instagram: @kerry_brett Instagram: @shotatlovepodcast Facebook: Kerry Brett LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com/p/shot-at-love-the-edit Website: www.shotatlovebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In today’s episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with manifest mentor Lizzie Moore for an honest, energetic, and unexpectedly hilarious conversation about manifesting love, trusting the universe, and the mantra that changed everything: I only want what’s for me. Lizzie shares how she transformed her life through visualization, neuroscience-based mindset shifts, and vision boards that quite literally manifested a new home, a new lifestyle, and a new chapter on the South Shore. She breaks down how the Reticular Activating System filters our thoughts, why emotions carry vibrational frequency, and how shifting your energy can change what—and who—you attract. This episode covers: • Why “I only want what’s for me” is the ultimate dating mantra • How gaslighting, rejection, and heartbreak feel different when you trust alignment • The role of the Reticular Activating System (RAS) in manifesting love • How to rewire your brain and create new neural pathways • Vision boards, visualization, and the power of accountability groups • How emotions vibrate at different frequencies and influence attraction • Lizzie’s incredible chicken-coop meet-cute and cross-country connection • The difference between clinging and surrendering • How Lizzie manifested a home identical to her vision board • Moving two teenagers, rebuilding a life, and finding joy again • How to know when a relationship is aligned—or when it’s simply not your person • Letting go, gratitude, and the courage to trust the universe’s plan • Why timelines choke manifestation and how to release them • How to call your energy back and stop living in the in-between • What Lizzie teaches clients about love, alignment, and emotional frequency If you need hope, humor, and a reminder that the universe delivers what’s meant for you—sometimes in the form of a man building a chicken coop resulting in a little luck and a lot of lumber—this episode is for you. Find Kerry Brett on Instagram @kerry_brett and @shotatlovepodcast Facebook and LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com/p/shot-at-love-the-edit?r=20nzan&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action Website: www.shotatlovebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Your Last First Date: Author & Hollywood Matchmaker Jaydi Samuels Kuba This week’s episode of Shot At Love pulls back the curtain on Hollywood’s most fascinating matchmaking secrets with Jaydi Samuels Kuba. Inspired by her soon-to-be-released book Your Last First Date, Jaydi shares the patterns, mindsets, blind spots, and tiny shifts that help singles finally find their own Hollywood ending. Jaydi began her career as a television writer with credits ranging from Family Guy to Salem. But after watching talented, successful women in the entertainment industry struggle to form meaningful relationships, she built a couples-curation service that grew into LJ Matchmaking. Today she is a certified dating and relationship coach, a co-host of the podcast Match Made in Hollywood, and one of the industry’s most respected matchmakers. Kerry and Jaydi explore the truth behind finding love in Hollywood or anywhere else: why people stay stuck, how they repeat emotional patterns, and what finally creates lasting change. Jaydi opens up about the early days of her company, the unlikely way she met her husband while setting him up with other women, and the inner shifts that helped her leave a long-term relationship that no longer aligned with her life. Together, they break down why matchmaking matters, why being “findable” is non-negotiable, and how small mindset adjustments can make all the difference. Jaydi shares how she vets clients, screens for compatibility, and guides people toward clarity before chemistry. She explains why great daters still end up in the wrong relationships, how date coaching transforms confidence, and why trusting your own intuition is ultimately your most powerful tool. Jaydi also gives listeners a behind-the-scenes look at writing Your Last First Date: how her Hollywood storytelling background shaped the narrative, why she chose to teach through character journeys and real client case studies, and what she hopes readers will take away after they close the final page. If you’ve ever wondered how matchmaking really works, what goes on behind the scenes, or how to stop repeating the same dating patterns, this conversation will shift the way you see yourself, your choices, and your path to love. Where to Find Jaydi Samuels KubaInstagram and social: @matchmadeinhollywoodMatchmaking and date coaching: www.ljmatchmaking.com Connect with Kerry BrettInstagram: @kerry_brett and @shotatlovepodcastFacebook: Kerry BrettLinkedIn: Kerry BrettSubstack: https://shotatlove.substack.com/p/shot-at-love-the-edit?r=20nzan&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-actionWebsite: www.shotatlovebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week’s episode of Shot At Love centers on the powerful story and mission of Deborah Griffiths, founder of Bent Not Broken, a platform dedicated to resilience, recovery, and reclaiming personal strength after adversity. Instead of talking about my journey, we shift the focus to Deborah’s—her path, her purpose, and the incredible movement she’s built. In our conversation, Deborah opens up about the moment her life changed, the challenges that tested her spirit, and the transformative mindset that allowed her not only to survive but to build a community for others who are navigating their own storms. Bent Not Broken offers tools, hope, and a safe landing place for anyone rebuilding their life piece by piece—physically, emotionally, or spiritually. Deborah shares: • The origin story behind Bent Not Broken• What resilience really looks like when no one is watching• The healing practices that helped her rebuild• How to choose strength—even when it feels impossible• Why community is essential for recovery and growth• The message she wants every listener facing hardship to hear This episode is a testament to turning pain into purpose, and Deborah’s energy is a reminder that healing is not linear—but it is possible. If you’ve ever struggled, felt alone, or needed a voice reminding you that you can rise again, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  Dating Decoded: How to Find Real Love, and Succeed on Dating Apps with Julie Lokun What does modern dating really look like right now—and how do you actually find real love in a world dominated by dating apps, ghosting, and mixed signals? In this powerful episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett steps into the guest seat as she’s interviewed by Julie Lokun, host of the Get Obsessed podcast, for a candid, unfiltered conversation about dating, finding love, and building real connection. If you’ve ever questioned whether real love still exists, struggled with dating apps, or felt overwhelmed by modern dating challenges, this episode delivers the clarity, strategy, and mindset shifts you’ve been searching for. Together, Kerry and Julie break down the truth about modern dating—what’s working, what’s not, and how to find love without losing yourself in the process. This episode answers the questions every single person is asking: Does real love exist in modern dating? Do dating apps actually work, or are they keeping you stuck? How do you identify red flags early before wasting time? What creates a successful first date and real connection? How do you stay open to finding love without lowering your standards? You’ll learn how to navigate modern dating with confidence, clarity, and intention, including: How to shift your mindset to actually attract real love Why belief in finding love is essential at every stage of life How to use dating apps strategically instead of emotionally The difference between chemistry vs compatibility in modern dating How to recognize red flags and green flags instantly The truth about ghosting, texting, and first date dynamics How your dating profile and photograps directly impact your success in finding love Kerry also shares how her career as a celebrity photographer shaped her unique approach to dating—especially when it comes to creating an authentic presence that attracts the right partner, not just attention. If you’re navigating dating after heartbreak, re-entering the world of dating apps, or simply want to finally find real love, this episode gives you practical tools and a new perspective on dating that actually works. Because finding love isn’t about luck—it’s about clarity, strategy, and showing up as your most authentic self. ABOUT TODAY’S GUEST Julie Lokun is the host of the Get Obsessed podcast, focused on personal growth, transformation, and helping people elevate their lives and relationships. Through her work, she empowers listeners to take action, think bigger, and create meaningful connection—including in modern dating and finding love. WHERE TO FIND KERRY Website: www.shotatlovebook.com www.kerrybrett.com Podcast: Shot At Love on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and BLEAV Instagram: @kerry_brett @shotatlovepodcast Facebook: Shot At Love Podcast TikTok: @shotatlove LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com YouTube: Shot At Love with Kerry Brett Book: Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Lens on Dating and Finding Love (Available on Amazon) HASHTAGS (Search-Focused): #FindingLove #ModernDating #DatingAdvice Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Great Scott! A Hero’s Journey to Love In the final chapter of Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love, we wrap up the story with heart, humor, and hope. Kerry Brett reflects on her own Hero’s Journey—one that mirrors Marty McFly’s in Back to the Future—filled with setbacks, mentors, lessons, and ultimately transformation through love. This episode is about believing in divine timing, trusting the bigger picture, and having faith that the right person shows up when you’ve done the inner work. Kerry shares how her “Great Scott” moment came when she found love on Tinder, and how every heartbreak, misstep, and “Biff” along the way shaped her into someone ready for a healthy, lasting relationship. Through pop culture parallels, wisdom from her mentor Jeff Lubin, and her signature storytelling style, Kerry ties it all together—reminding listeners that everyone’s path to love is their own version of the Hero’s Journey. It’s about choosing courage over comfort, learning to love yourself first, and understanding that each swipe, each setback, and each lesson gets you closer to your own “Great Scott” moment. If you’ve ever doubted that love is possible after heartbreak, this episode will inspire you to believe again. Because when you trust in the bigger picture and take your shot, you just might find the one who was meant for you all along. Listen now at www.shotatlovebook.com and follow Kerry Brett on Instagram @kerry_brett, @shotatlovepodcast, Facebook, LinkedIn, and on Substack at https://shotatlove.substack.com/p/shot-at-love-the-edit?r=20nzan&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode of Shot At Love, host Kerry Brett shares her unforgettable story of finding love on the commuter rail. This journey starts with a swipe and turns into a cinematic night worthy of Risky Business and Dirty Dancing. What begins as a spontaneous Tinder date with a man named Scott evolves into a hilarious and heartfelt adventure about courage, connection, and the power of showing up even when it’s uncomfortable. From lip gloss disasters and “walks of shame” to lessons in faith, mindset, and perseverance, Kerry reminds listeners that taking chances in love — and life — often comes with a few unexpected detours. But when you stay open, trust yourself, and keep believing, miracles can happen… even on the rails. By the end, Kerry reveals how this once “risky” date led to her real-life love story and how her journey on Tinder became proof that manifestation works — if you’re willing to believe, take action, and never quit. Follow on Instagram @kerry_brett and @shotatlovepodcastFind Kerry on Facebook and LinkedInSubscribe to her Substack: Shot At Love: The EditVisit www.shotatlovebook.com to learn more about her book Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

My Dating Breakthrough — Chapter 15 In this heartfelt and full-circle episode titled My Dating Breakthrough, Kerry Brett shares the transformative story behind her biggest dating and personal turning point—one that began with a mantra and led to meeting her boyfriend, Scott. This chapter is about mentorship, mindset, and the courage to change the pattern. Kerry reflects on her 25-year mentorship with renowned portrait artist Jeff Lubin, a silver-haired visionary who taught her everything about confidence, value, and human connection—lessons that eventually translated into her dating life. Through humor and honesty, she reveals how Jeff’s tough love, wisdom, and one unforgettable lecture helped her rebuild self-worth and learn to believe in love again. From heartbreak in Florida to a life-changing “aha” moment back in Boston, Kerry explains how her mentor’s voice became the inner compass that guided her out of self-doubt and back into alignment. Because sometimes, the greatest leap of faith isn’t swiping right—it’s believing in yourself again. Key themes• The Kubera Gayatri mantra and the power of asking for what you want• How mentorship mirrors love and self-belief• Lessons from Jeff Lubin on value, confidence, and resilience• Overcoming heartbreak and reclaiming self-worth• The “Quasimodo rule”—breaking patterns and choosing better• Finding faith, trust, and home in Boston once again Listen, learn, and love betterThis episode reminds us that breakthroughs happen when you stop playing small, take the leap, and believe that the best is yet to come. Connect with Kerry BrettInstagram: @kerry_brett, @shotatlovepodcastFacebook and LinkedIn: Kerry BrettSubstack: https://shotatlove.substack.com/p/shot-at-love-the-editWebsite: www.shotatlovebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Finding Your Match Made in Heaven, Chapter 14 of Shot@Love, A Celebrity Photograph's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love This episode explores how faith, vibration, and belief play a powerful role in attracting love. Kerry shares her experiences learning about the Law of Attraction from Michael Losier—author of Law of Attraction—and how his teachings on deliberate creation helped her shift from doubt to trust. When heartbreak and online dating fatigue set in, Kerry turned to spiritual practices and divine connections for guidance—from chanting the Lakshmi Gayatri mantra for love and abundance to conversations with her intuitive friends Maureen Hancock and Jill Jardine. Through humor and honesty, Kerry reveals how psychic predictions, astrology, and even a few matchmaking misfires ultimately led to powerful lessons about faith, karma, and timing. You’ll also hear the inspiring story of Rosie Dalton, Maureen’s sister, who found her “match made in heaven” after years of loss—proof that love can bloom again, even after heartbreak. This chapter reminds us that believing love is possible is the first step to receiving it. Follow along as Kerry learns to let go of control, trust divine timing, and keep her vibration high—because your match made in heaven might just be closer than you think. Find Kerry on Instagram @kerry_brett and @shotatlovepodcast, on Facebook and LinkedIn, and join the community at www.shotatlovebook.com. You can also read Shot@Love: The Edit on Substack at shotatlove.substack.com. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Breaking Up with Mr. Better Than Nothing – Why You Need This Episode If you’ve ever dated someone who felt promising enough to stick around even when the red flags were waving… this episode is for you. We break down a real relationship timeline so you can recognize the exact moments things shift from exciting to exhausting — and learn how to pivot sooner next time. Cupid showed up, the texts sparkled, and the chemistry felt easy—until the small tells started stacking up. We share a true dating story that begins with a glittering reconnection and veers into a tour of red flags: venue choices that miss the mark, a harsh snap at strangers that reveals character, grand declarations too early, then silence when it matters. The ride is funny, messy, and painfully familiar to anyone who’s been love-bombed, breadcrumbed, or nudged into the caretaker role before the relationship ever had roots. As we walk through the timeline—from an “epic” wedding meet-cute to an OKCupid rematch, from a chaotic holiday bar scene to a broken arm that flips romance into housework—we unpack how social proof can lower your guard and how mixed signals can chip away at self-worth. You’ll hear the golden rule that never fails in dating: watch how they treat service staff and unexpected guests. You’ll also hear the moment the power shifts back: no more waiting by the phone, a night out that rekindles confidence, and the clarity to name what’s actually happening—a situationship with one driver and no room for your voice. This conversation blends story and strategy so you leave with a practical toolkit: how to spot unintentional daters, how to separate charm from character, and how to protect your time with clean boundaries. We keep it real, we keep it human, and yes, we laugh at the clown car along the way. If you’re tired of “better than nothing,” press play, reclaim your standards, and choose the quieter path of self-respect over the noisy comfort of chaos. You’ll learn: • Why chemistry shouldn’t be confused with compatibility• How social proof and love-bombing can make you ignore your intuition• The subtle behavior clues that reveal character• What breadcrumbing and caretaker-dynamics look like in real time• How to reclaim your power when communication becomes one-way• Boundary scripts to protect your time, energy, and self-worth Connect + Join the CommunityInstagram@kerry_bretthttps://www.instagram.com/kerry_brett@shotatlovepodcasthttps://www.instagram.com/shotatlovepodcast Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/kerrybrett LinkedInhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-brett Substack – Shot at Love: The Edithttps://shotatlove.substack.com Get the bookShot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Lovehttps://www.shotatlovebook.com If this episode resonates with you, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs a reminder of her standards, and leave a review with your top red-flag rule. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This episode follows a winding road from mantras and angel numbers to a surprising Tinder reunion that reopens old memories and reveals hard truths about trust, red flags, and values. Trust—not trying harder—becomes the real compass in dating, and 222 serves as a reminder to slow down and practice patient awareness. Nostalgia collides with present-day realities as Boston’s social energy masks a poor fit, and Jonathan’s candid warning becomes a pivotal values check. A serendipitous moment with Fishman’s mom reassures me that when we’re paying attention, the universe delivers the clarity we need. Through caregiving challenges, ghosting, and even street harassment, resilience rises — leading to a powerful promise: Listen sooner. Set boundaries. Choose self-respect. If you’re rebuilding after heartbreak, this chapter reminds you that every sign points you forward. Connect with Kerry Brett Instagram:@kerry_brett — https://www.instagram.com/kerry_brett @shotatlovepodcast — https://www.instagram.com/shotatlovepodcast                                    Facebook: Kerry Brett — https://www.facebook.com/kerrybrettphotography.                             LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerrybrett                                                                                Substack – Shot@Love Newsletter: https://shotatlove.substack.com Website:https://www.shotatlovethebook.com If this episode resonated with you — please subscribe, rate, and leave a review. It helps more people find their Shot@Love (Shot at Love)! And share this episode with a friend who needs hope and a little nudge forward.   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Tune into Chapter 11, I Surrender; Finding a Path Forward to Love, a favorite for those having a hard time. Heartbreak can feel like quicksand, but there’s a way to stop sinking. I share how surrender—real acceptance, not resignation—becomes a daily practice that steadies the mind, restores self-respect, and turns pain into a teacher. From the serenity prayer to the mantra sarvesham svastir bhavatu, I unpack simple rituals that anchor your nervous system when grief and rumination try to take over. I walk through the five stages of grief in the context of narcissistic dynamics, making space for the messy parts—denial that kept you safe, anger that needs clean outlets, bargaining that blurs reality, depression that asks for gentle structure, and acceptance that finally loosens the knot. With insights from Kute Blackson’s The Magic of Surrender, I flip the script: a relationship can end and still be a success if it helped you grow into a truer version of yourself. That reframe moves you from searching with scarcity to meeting love with grounded presence. Stories power change, so we spotlight courage in action. Tina Turner’s night of escape and reinvention shows how one decisive step can reset a life. Dolly Parton’s publishing stand models boundaries, patience, and long-view faith. These examples prove that small steps compound—blocking a number, archiving old photos, taking a quiet walk instead of doom-scrolling—until momentum returns. We close with practical guidance to drop the bag of bricks, set clear boundaries, and trust that peace is possible when you stop pushing and start showing up as yourself. If this conversation helped you breathe a little easier, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs strength today, and leave a quick review so others can find it. Your story might be the spark someone else is waiting for. Start with this Description Instagram: @kerry_brett | @shotatlovepodcastFacebook: Shot@Love PodcastLinkedIn: Kerry Brett️Join the mailing list: www.shotatlovethebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Tune into "No One is Coming" and "No Days Off": Chapter 10. Sometimes the hardest truth can be the start of real momentum: no one is coming, and there are no days off. We open with mantras that sharpen courage and then walk straight into the messy middle—an on-again, off-again relationship, a high-stakes photography assignment with Bill Belichick on Nantucket, and a gutting discovery left open in an email. What follows isn’t a collapse; it’s a choice. With a deadline looming and another shoot with Julian Edelman on deck, we turn heartbreak into horsepower, swap rumination for execution, and let anger refine our focus instead of wrecking it. You’ll hear how patterns take root, why sunk-cost thinking keeps the wrong door open, and how to close it with conviction. We unpack “no days off” as more than a sports slogan—it’s a personal operating system for resilience, discipline, and self-respect. Edelman’s legendary catch becomes a playbook for staying locked in when you’re inches from the ground: eyes on the ball, hands steady, outcome earned. The story moves from betrayal to boundary-setting, from tolerating less to choosing more, and from being benched by pain to calling your own plays. There’s a twist of joy at the end—a right swipe and a match with former Patriots lineman Max Lane—arriving not as a rescue, but as the natural result of raising your standards. Along the way, we share the practical habits that keep you in motion: clear self-talk, tight routines, creative flow under pressure, and the courage to shut a door that keeps hurting you. If you’re navigating dating, rebuilding after a breakup, or pushing for excellence in your craft, this chapter offers tools and a real story to anchor them. If this resonates, tap follow, share it with a friend who needs the reminder, and leave a review with your favorite takeaway. Your support helps more people find the mindset and momentum to win the inches between head and heart. For more details, go to www.shotatlovebook.com Start with this Description Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Tune into Chapter 9 Love's Lunacy: A Journey of Crazy and Stupid Devotion from my book Shot At Love, A Celebrity Photographer's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love. What if the moment that saves you starts with a mantra and a punchline? We open on a small-town shoot with Steve Carell and land in the center of a bruising love story—one built on mixed signals, breadcrumbing, and the slow erosion of self. Along the way, a pinwheel, a dance number, and a stubborn fight to keep a scene in a film become unlikely teachers about boundaries, authorship, and choosing what matters when the pressure is on. From there, the curtain lifts on commitment-phobia and the anxious–avoidant dance: the push–pull of intimacy that keeps one partner chasing and the other fleeing. We dig into Mr. Unavailable’s patterns, attachment science, and why intermittent reinforcement is so addictive. The stakes spike when family drama explodes into gaslighting and an uninvited wedding, forcing a reckoning with reality, proof, and the heavy cost of keeping the peace. In the wreckage, a manifesto takes shape—part evidence, part prayer—marking the pivot from explaining to exiting. What follows is a clear, compassionate path out: consequences over speeches, boundaries that hold, and the No Contact Rule as a lifeline back to self-trust. We talk practical recovery—retraining your nervous system, rebuilding routines, and finding meaning in art, music, and community. If you’ve ever felt “crazy” for wanting love to feel safe, this story offers language, tools, and a way through. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a review to tell us the one boundary you won’t bend again. We trace a wild arc from a Steve Carell photoshoot and an Aquarius mantra to the hard end of a toxic relationship, unpacking commitment-phobia, gaslighting, and the cost of staying. Boundaries, no-contact, and self-respect turn chaos into clarity. Join the mailing list and find out more about Shot At Love Live events at www.shotatlovebook.com. Follow, rate, and subscribe. Please follow me on social media – Instagram, @Kerry_Brett, and on Facebook under Kerry Brett. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Tune into Homeless on a Harley, Chapter 8, one of my favorite chapters from Shot At Love, A Celebrity Photographer's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love. Dating shouldn’t feel like a jailbreak, but sometimes the heart clings to a locked door. We open with a grounding mantra to the divine feminine and roll straight into Randy “Moose” Gomez’s field notes—thirty years as a PI and bail bondsman distilled into one essential truth: listen like a detective and love like a leader. From pandemic-era scams to everyday mixed signals, we unpack how small details reveal big realities, and why your questions are not drama—they’re data. The story winds through a raw Thanksgiving heartbreak, a copper-topped bar in South Boston, and a high school spark named Coyote Cameron who skates in hot and exits even hotter. It’s romantic, funny, and a little brutal: the secret workplace, the “lost phone,” the slow fade that says more than words. Along the way, we map practical checkpoints for modern dating—consistency over charm, transparency over mystery, alignment over adrenaline. You’ll hear how nostalgia can blur judgment, how self-talk can free or trap you, and how to spot the moment when grace becomes self-abandonment. We don’t shame the chemistry; we translate it. When behavior and words don’t match, confusion wins. When someone guards context, believe them. And when your standards rise, your peace follows. If you’ve stayed too long, waited on a text that never came, or ignored a red flag because the weekend felt perfect, this conversation will hand you a steadier compass—rooted in self-respect, active listening, and a PI’s calm eye for patterns. Press play, take what helps, and set your own checkpoints. If this episode gave you clarity or courage, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs the nudge, and leave a quick review so more people can raise their standards with us. We explore how a cowboy PI’s listening skills and a hard left turn in South Boston taught us to trust patterns over promises and choose self-respect over heat. The heart goes fast, but the truth arrives on time when you ask better questions and believe what you hear. When people tell you who they are believe them. Please subscribe, rate, and review. Keep up to date with Shot At Love Live events and join the mailing list at www.shotatlovebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Not All Those Who Wander Are Lost, Chapter 7 of Shot At Love, A Celebrity Photographer's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love. A breakup can make even bright rooms feel dim, and mine turned everything gray—right down to the paint on my walls. I gave 50 shades of gray new meaning. I tried to muscle through with grit and lonely heart playlists, but it took an unexpected intervention from Red Sox legend Tim Wakefield to cut through the noise. Tim’s straight talk about self-respect, resilience, and moving on landed like a perfectly thrown knuckleball: unpredictable, undeniable, and exactly what I needed to hear. The over-under was that this was a very loud wake-up call from Wake, and I had to find self-love at bat. From there, the path bent toward a different kind of ballgame—one of mantras, lineage, and sacred sound. I share how a puja led by a guru's wife reopened the door to Sanskrit practice, and how a medium delivered a message I couldn’t ignore: aham prema doesn’t just invite romantic love; it insists on self-love first. That reminder connected me back to my teacher, Namadeva, and to a daily practice of the —Gayatri before the mic, breath before reaction, compassion before compromise—that steadied the ground beneath my feet. Daily practice of chanting and the discipline of rebuilding standards after heartbreak. Along the way, we honor two legacies that shaped this story—Tim Wakefield’s generosity and caring, and Namadeva’s mastery of mantras—whose dates now echo in my calendar like a quiet blessing. If you’ve ever felt stuck between surrender and survival, this chapter offers tools and testimony: boundaries that hold, mantras that heal, and a practical path to liking yourself enough to choose better. Listen, reflect, and if it resonates, share it with someone who could use a sign. Subscribe, leave a review, and tell me: what’s the one line you needed to hear today? If you want to find out more about the Shot At Love movement and community, join the mailing list to learn about upcoming Shot At Love Live events at www.shotatlovebook.com Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What happens when you swipe right on a contractor who builds homes and hearts with the same dedication? Built to Last: When Love Meets Construction, that's what! Meet Rory Remington, a 47-year-old professional builder from Scituate, Massachusetts—a man as solid as the foundations he lays.During the harshest winter Massachusetts had seen in a century, with record-breaking snowfall burying my world both literally and figuratively, Rory appeared like a beacon of warmth. After plowing Scituate's streets all day, he'd show up at my driveway, engine running, ready to shovel my roof without ever asking to come inside—because he wanted to meet my daughter "when we were official." Here was a man who had given his dream home to his ex-wife so his children wouldn't suffer, while he lived in homes he was rebuilding. A man who, when my card was declined buying painting supplies, arrived early the next morning with everything I needed and painted my entire first floor in a day.Rory checked every box on my "top ten list" of qualities I wanted in a partner. He remembered I disliked roses on my birthday because it fell near Valentine's Day, sending unique flowers with a card saying, "You're all seven on my list." Yet I made the devastating mistake of leaving him when my ex returned, begging for reconciliation—only to discover more lies and deception waiting for me.The painful irony? When pipes burst in my studio and I had nowhere to turn, Rory still showed up, created detailed documentation overnight, secured me exactly the insurance money I needed, and disappeared without even saying goodbye. He didn't need to help, but that's who he was—a man of honor who never let people down.Through heartbreak and regret, I learned that relationships, like houses, require solid foundations. Sometimes the best partners aren't the flashiest or most familiar—they're the ones who show up consistently, tools in hand, ready to build something lasting. Don't wait to recognize quality when you see it; great men don't stay available for long.Ready to transform your perspective on love? Grab my new book "Shot at Love" on Amazon and join the community at ShopLoveBook.com for exclusive updates on upcoming events.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

When Oscar-winner Chris Cooper and his wife Marianne Leone called asking me to photograph him for Cowboys and Indians Magazine, I never imagined this assignment would become my emotional salvation. With a broken foot and an even more broken heart, I dragged myself to Plymouth Plantation, determined to deliver exceptional work despite my personal life crumbling around me.The contrast couldn't have been starker – professionally capturing one of Hollywood's most respected actors while privately enduring the discovery of my boyfriend's infidelity. As I lay on the ground, boot-clad broken foot raised awkwardly in the air, shooting Chris in various Western-inspired poses, I was simultaneously living two realities. One where I was a sought-after photographer whose work would grace newsstands nationwide, and another where I questioned my fundamental worth after betrayal.It was Chris himself who offered unexpected wisdom that day. When I confessed my relationship troubles, lamenting that perhaps I was "too much" – too creative, too successful – for my boyfriend, Chris responded with words that would become my mantra: "Did you ever think the things that make you too much are the things that make you great? Smart men like smart women." This simple truth from a man whose 40-year marriage to brilliant writer Marianne Leone Cooper showed he practiced what he preached became my north star during the darkest period of my life.The universe has a poetic way of delivering messages when we need them most. Standing in an Arizona airport, sobbing after learning my boyfriend at the time had emptied our home while I was away, I looked up to see my Cowboys and Indians cover prominently displayed. It was as if the universe whispered: your work matters, you matter, regardless of who fails to see it. A decade later, Chris, Marianne, and I would collaborate again, winning a 2023 Communicator Award for a podcast episode aptly titled "Staying Together" – proof that sometimes we must endure disappointments to find our way to the collaborations and connections that truly honor our worth.Ready to transform your perspective on love and relationships? Grab a copy of my new book "Shot at Love" on Amazon today and join our community at shotatlovebook.com for exclusive updates on live events and more insights into finding love that celebrates rather than diminishes you. Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What happens when your world crumbles beneath you? When a broken foot, a broken relationship, and a broken bank account converge at the worst possible moment? This raw, unflinching episode explores the pivotal moment when crisis became a catalyst for profound transformation. After discovering troubling messages on Kerry's boyfriend, Giovanny's phone, a confrontation led to a painful accident—breaking her foot in three places. Rather than support, Giovanny cruelly accused her of deliberately injuring herself to manipulate him, revealing the narcissistic dynamic that had been present all along. Left immobilized during her busiest photography season, with no health insurance and dwindling finances, she reached a devastating crossroads. Drawing strength from unexpected sources—Tina Turner's resilient spirit and financial advisor John Spooner's contrarian wisdom—she discovered that the principles governing smart investing apply equally to recovery from toxic relationships. "In crucial decisions, use your brain first, heart second," became her mantra as she dragged herself on crutches to convert saved coins to cash when her debit card declined for a simple pizza order. This episode beautifully illustrates how rock bottom became the foundation for rebuilding. By approaching her personal crisis with the same strategic thinking Spooner applied to market crashes, she transformed her circumstances—booking $4,000 in photography sessions despite her injury, finding her voice, and eventually creating the award-winning "Shot At Love" podcast to help others escape unhealthy relationships. The most valuable lesson? No matter how broke you are financially or emotionally, you can always bank on yourself. This powerful story reminds us that sometimes the best investment we can make is in our own healing and growth. Have you experienced a moment when hitting bottom became the catalyst for your greatest comeback? Join our community and share your story of resilience and renewal. Find out more at www.shotatlovebook.com Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

A camera captures moments, but sometimes it captures more than you bargained for. When Giovanny Gonzalez strutted into my photography studio in his wing-tip boots and form-fitting t-shirt, I had no idea this headshot session would launch an eight-year romance that mirrored the tumultuous relationship between Johnny Cash and June Carter.The chemistry was immediate and electric. After breaking my own professional rules by agreeing to review his photographs at his place, I found myself mesmerized as Giovanny picked up his guitar and serenaded me with Damien Rice's "The Blower's Daughter, from the movie Closer, where Julia Roberts played a photographer and Jude Law was her subject turned love interest." From that moment, we became inseparable – a creative force feeding off each other's talents and energy. We took Boston by storm, becoming fixtures at upscale restaurants like Stella and The Beehive, training together, and critiquing cuisine like unpaid food critics with insatiable appetites for culture and creativity.When Giovanny confessed he'd given up on his musical dreams, I transformed into his biggest supporter. I became the ringmaster behind the Giovanny Gonzalez Band's branding, handled publicity, arranged photography shoots, and documented every performance. We achieved incredible things together – he sang the national anthem at Fenway Park, performed with the Dropkick Murphys, and accompanied me as I photographed Hollywood's biggest names. But like Jennifer Aniston's character in "Rockstar," I watched as the music industry's temptations began pulling him away. Despite many wonderful years together, I learned firsthand why Johnny Cash's "Walk the Line" resonates with so many – not everyone can maintain that balance when fame, groupies, and late nights beckon. Sometimes love isn't enough, and sometimes the final notes must fade.Have you ever loved someone who couldn't walk the line? Share your story of loving a creative spirit and the bittersweet melody it left behind. Purchase Shot At Love on Amazon and find out more about Shot At Love Live events at www.shotatlovebook.comSend us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What does it truly mean to find your worth in the midst of life's most challenging moments? Two divorced women with young children—one a Harvard graduate with a penchant for designer clothes, the other a photographer with a dry wit—forge an unlikely friendship that becomes their lifeline while navigating the treacherous waters of rebuilding and dating.Kelley Doyle bursts into Kerry Brett's life like a fashion-forward hurricane, armed with persistent optimism and dating wisdom that initially makes Kerry's "blood boil." With phrases like "enjoy the dance" and "be easy breezy," Kelley teaches her friend that confidence and self-worth matter more than perfect photographs or clever bios when looking for love. Through Sunday ritual dinners at their favorite Mexican restaurant and late-night adventures in Boston's dating scene, they create their own version of family while supporting each other's journey to find love again.The story reveals Kelley's courageous escape from a deteriorating marriage—arriving at her parents' doorstep with three children, a dog, and only forty-two dollars in her checking account. Her father's advice to "make a decision not to make a decision" gives her space to breathe before crafting a new life. Meanwhile, Kerry struggles with her own divorce, feeling like "the aftermath of a failed art project." Together, they discover that fashion can be armor, friendship can be salvation, and sometimes the most powerful act is remembering your own value. From Kelley's battery-operated blinking earrings to bracelets engraved with "If your ship doesn't come in, swim out to it," they find ways to become their own heroines. When Kelley finally reconnects with Walter Whalen at a local bar, her methodical approach to dating pays off in a beautiful wedding and blended family, proving that sometimes, after the storm, you really can see clearly.Ready to transform your approach to finding love? Grab your copy of "Shot At Love" on Amazon today and join our community at shotatlovebook.com for exclusive updates and information about upcoming live events.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The path from devastation to rebirth rarely follows a straight line. When my world exploded seventeen years ago, I found myself in the basement of Rock Bottom – fighting a three-year custody battle for my daughter Morgan after a traumatic pregnancy and birth that nearly claimed both our lives. What followed was a financial nightmare of $130,000 in debt, sleeping with the lights on, and making the classic mistake of jumping from one toxic relationship straight into another.With raw vulnerability and unexpected humor, I share how I transformed from a woman with zero self-worth into someone who refused to settle for anything less than authentic love. My journey led me to spiritual practices that became my lifeline – chanting Sanskrit mantras 108 times with a desperation that "gave new meaning to squeezing the beads." When my astrologer taught me "aham prema" (divine love), I finally began finding my way back to myself.As a professional photographer with impaired eyesight, the irony isn't lost on me that my biggest challenge wasn't my vision – it was my inability to see red flags in relationships. I've learned to trust my gut, refuse to stress over inconsistent people, and embrace the Ted Lasso philosophy of believing even when the odds seem impossible. The most powerful revelation? How you perceive yourself directly influences how others treat you.Whether you're struggling through divorce, dating disasters, or simply searching for connection, remember that beauty is an inside job. You don't have to be perfect to be amazing. When someone tells you that you can't do something, do it twice and take pictures! Join me in putting yourself out there with courage and watch how the universe responds. Your shot at love begins with believing you deserve it.Ready to transform your own love story? Visit shotatlovebook.com and take the first step toward writing your happy ending.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Have you ever wondered what happens when your greatest pain becomes your deepest purpose? As a professional photographer who's spent decades making others look their best, I've lived a life that many find fascinating—capturing celebrities for magazine covers, attending red carpet events, and building a dream studio in a picturesque town. But behind my lens and successes lay a story of heartbreak so profound that I never imagined sharing it publicly.My journey from heartbreak to healing wasn't straightforward. There were nights spent crying at my computer, trying to find the courage to document experiences I'd hidden for nearly twenty years. Writing this memoir pushed me to my limits, forcing me to confront memories that felt impossible to face. Yet something powerful emerged from this process—a mission larger than myself. What began as personal catharsis evolved into Shot At Love, a podcast and now book dedicated to helping others navigate their own paths to love.The transformation from being a "damsel in distress" to becoming "someone who doesn't need saving" changed everything. I learned that "desperation paves a path to the devil," while self-compassion and small daily steps forward can completely transform your life. Through my darkest moments, I discovered that asking for help is often the hardest part of healing, not the overcoming itself. Now I'm passionate about sharing this message: you're not prey, you need to get "preyed up" so you don't get played. The world remains full of opportunities and love, waiting for you to shift your perspective and embrace them. My book "Shot At Love" is available now on Amazon—don't miss your chance to see love and yourself differently. Join our community at shotatlovebook.com for exclusive updates and information about upcoming live events.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Have you ever wondered if everything you thought about finding love might be wrong? Kerry Brett's new book "Shot At Love" challenges conventional dating wisdom and offers a fresh perspective based on years of hard-won experience. From growing up in a working-class Boston family where the Brady Bunch and Mr. Rogers shaped her worldview to becoming a dating expert who's made every mistake so you don't have to, Kerry's journey is both entertaining and enlightening.What started as a desperate search for connection through books, movies, and music evolved into something much more powerful. In 2018, amid social upheaval and personal darkness, Kerry found her calling - helping others avoid the heartbreak she'd experienced. This led to her creating the "Swiping Soiree," a unique blend of education and entertainment she jokingly called her "Tinder Tour." Complete with interpretive dance to Christina Perri's "Jar of Hearts" and entering rooms to the sounds of Aretha Franklin while banging a cowbell, these seminars transformed how middle-aged women approached online dating.When the pandemic hit in 2020, what many had dismissed as "career suicide" - a podcast about online dating - became Kerry's greatest achievement. Through trial, error, and relentless effort, she emerged as a respected dating coach committed to dismantling the stigma around digital connections. The book reveals how fear becomes our biggest enemy in finding love, causing self-sabotage and missed opportunities. But Kerry's message remains hopeful: love can be found anywhere, from Whole Foods to Tinder, and every misstep offers profound lessons that are part of the journey toward meaningful connection.This isn't just Kerry's story - it's an invitation to rewrite your own. Whether you're struggling with online dating, recovering from heartbreak, or simply ready for a new approach to finding love, "Shot At Love" offers both practical guidance and emotional support. Grab your copy today on Amazon and join the mailing list at shotatlovebook.com for exclusive updates and information about live singles events. Your next chapter will be amazing - just remember to bring a helmet and enjoy the ride.Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

When Tina Zhu Xi Caruso and Pari Kim met on Love on the Spectrum Season 3, viewers worldwide fell in love with their authentic connection. Their story isn't just about finding romance on reality TV—it's about embracing who you truly are, regardless of what others might think. The magic of Tina and Pari's relationship stems from their fearless self-expression. As Pari puts it, "I literally go on the train in a ball gown. I don't care. People could stare and say whatever they want, but it makes me happy." This unapologetic authenticity—Pari with her passion for trains and Tina with her photography and disability advocacy—creates a foundation for genuine connection that many neurotypical daters struggle to achieve. What makes their bond particularly special is their shared understanding of profound loss. Both having experienced the death of a parent, they connect through empathy that might not have existed with other cast members. This shared grief, combined with their neurodivergent perspectives, allows them to relate on a deeper level. As Tina explains, "I feel like, for me at least, and Pari were a perfect match because we understood parent loss." Their remarkable optimism stands out as a defining characteristic. Rather than letting disabilities or challenges define them, they embrace life with enthusiasm and determination. "If we are constantly negative, we'll never get anything done," Pari explains. "I gotta get out there and live my life and do what makes me happy." This resilience—whether it's Pari singing at Harvard Square or Tina advocating for the disability community—teaches us all about finding joy despite obstacles. Want to find your shot at love? Take inspiration from Tina and Pari: be fearless about putting yourself out there, prioritize kindness in all interactions, and focus on the little, meaningful moments that build connection. As Pari wisely notes, "If you spend your whole life worrying about others, you're never going to be happy." This episode was recorded at Kimpton Marlowe Hotel in Cambridge, MA. To find out more about Shot At Love or purchase Kerry Brett's new book Shot@Love, A Celebrity Photographer's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love, go to www.shotatlovebook.com Send us a text Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.