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Signed & Ready
by Mental Sweet Spot
Signed & Ready is the go-to podcast for college-bound athletes and their families navigating the recruiting process—and preparing to thrive once they get there.Hosted by Alicia Smith, head coach, recruiting mentor, and mental performance expert, this show pulls back the curtain on what really moves the needle in college recruiting: leadership, composure, and confidence under pressure.If you're a parent wondering how to support your athlete without overstepping—or an athlete who wants to feel ready, not just look ready—you're in the right place.Each episode delivers practical strategies, real talk, and coach-level insights on:Standing out in the recruiting process (beyond the stats)Building confidence that actually shows up on game dayLeading yourself through high-pressure momentsThriving in college athletics with a strong mental gameThis isn’t just about getting signed.It’s about becoming the kind of athlete coaches can’t ignore—and the kind of leader who’s ready for the next
Episodes
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5 Fears That Can Keep Talented Athletes From Getting Recruited
Fear of failure. Pressure to be perfect. The weight of not letting anyone down. College-bound athletes are under more pressure than ever — and most of it is happening silently, behind the scenes. In this episode, we break down the real mental blocks sabotaging recruiting success — and how to…
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How to WIN Recruiting (Even When Coaches Suck at Responding)
You’ve emailed, posted, showed up, and stayed visible — but still, it’s crickets. If your athlete is putting in the work and getting nothing but silence in return, this episode is for you. We’re pulling back the curtain on: Why coaches actually go quiet How to stay motivated when the inbox is…
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What Families Get Wrong About College Recruiting - with Jay Paterno
In this episode, we're joined by Jay Paterno — former D1 coach, author, and advocate for the future of college athletics. Son of coaching legend Joe Paterno and author of BLITZED!, Jay brings a rare perspective that bridges tradition and transformation in the world of recruiting. Together, we...
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Why the Way We “Do” Recruiting Is All Wrong
Most families approach recruiting like they’re walking up to Lake Michigan with a busted rod, random bait, and zero idea what they’re trying to catch. That ends now. In this episode, we break down the metaphor that’s changing the way families think about recruiting — and explain what it really...
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Recruitment Advice from Former D1 Athletes | Your Player Needs to Hear This!
What do former Division 1 players really want younger athletes to know? In this episode, we’re passing the mic to the ones who’ve lived it — the workouts, the visits, the pressure, and the growth that comes with being a college athlete. They share what they wish they knew during the recruiting...
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The Investment No One Talks About — But Every Recruit Needs
We didn’t start this podcast to talk about recruiting. We started it to talk about the real work — the leadership, mindset, and self-trust it takes to show up when the pressure’s on. But recruiting kept coming up. And we realized… It’s not a separate conversation. It’s the same conversation....
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How Well-Meaning Parents Sabotage Recruiting (Without Even Knowing It)
Most parents think they’re helping. But too often, they’re creating pressure, confusion, and chaos — and it’s costing their daughter opportunities. In this real-talk episode, Mel (current college coach) breaks down what’s really going through a coach’s mind when they watch players... and their...
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Why They Choke When Coaches Are Watching — and How to Fix It
They crush it in practice. Light it up at local events. But the moment a college coach pulls up to watch? It’s like they forget how to compete completely. In this episode, we’re breaking down exactly why that happens — and what to do about it. You’ll learn: – The real reason athletes “choke” when...
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Strategic From the Stands (Pt. 2): Real Talk on What Actually Wins the Recruiting Game
The recruiting world can feel like total chaos — and too often, parents are left guessing: Are we doing enough? Are we doing it right? In this episode, we cut through the noise and get real about what actually moves the needle. You’ll hear: ✅ The most common traps families fall into (and how to...
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Strategic From the Stands (Pt. 1) | How to Be A Better Leader for Your Athlete
Wondering what you can do to help her in this recruiting journey? Worried you won't have the answers? Stressed about her finding the right fit? We've got you. Ready to go all in? Book a WINNERGAME Recruiting Strategy Call → mentalsweetspot.com/winnergame
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From Exposure to Offers (Pt. 3): The #1 Thing That Gets Her Recruited
Everyone talks about exposure. But if that were the secret, every player with a highlight reel would be signing letters of intent. In Part 3 of our Exposure to Offers series, we reveal the real game-changer: self-leadership. Because coaches aren’t just watching your stats — they’re watching how…
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From Exposure to Offers (Pt.2) | Why Resilience Matters More Than Stats
Here’s the truth: coaches don’t recruit highlight reels — they recruit how she carries herself when things get hard. In this episode of Signed & Ready, Coach Mel Rushing and Coach Alicia Smith break down the invisible side of recruiting — the part stats can’t show and exposure can’t guarantee....
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From Exposure to Offers (Pt.1) | Focus On This to Reduce Recruiting Stress
Thousands of softball players spend time, money, and energy trying to get seen — but exposure alone doesn’t get offers. In this episode, we break down why the “spray-and-pray” approach to recruiting is leaving talented athletes stressed, stuck, and overlooked. You’ll learn: Why being seen ≠…
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Welcome to Signed & Ready: Where Confidence Meets College Recruiting
If you're a softball parent, coach or athlete navigating the college recruiting process, you're in the right place. Welcome to Signed & Ready — the podcast where we coach the mental game of recruiting so athletes can lead themselves, play with confidence, and finally get seen for what they’re...
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Get Them Mentally Ready for the Day - Rewire App Introduction
Imagine being able to screen your girls before practice to get a true idea of what you're going to get out of them that day? Instead of HOPING you notice the signs. Hoping you don't miss one player among 12-30 players. All so you can get the most out of your limited time with them. And what if…
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Get Your Team to Bring the ENERGY - w/ David Lindsay
Ever look at your team mid-practice (or mid GAME) and think... Are they ALIVE? There are so many things that drain their energy, then before you know it the energy is gone and you might as well call it a day. And if we're honest, we have those days too! Today's guest not only speaks to this topic…
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Case Study: Bootcamp alum & Professional HC Candace Fenton-Brockbader
In today's episode, we chat with Bootcamp OG Candace Fenton-Brockbader! You're going to find so many moments in this episode you can relate to. She is a GEM!
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How Culture Kept Us In Coaching
Coaching is hard. You know what I mean. Not the on-field stuff. It's the attitudes... The lack of competitiveness... The people talking smack about how you're doing things. It can be draining. Honestly, that kind of stuff can make you want to quit. Alicia and I have certainly both considered it....
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The Top 3 Culture Killers (And How to Deal with Them)
Culture can be complicated. You have to get 12-20+ players on the same page, understanding what it takes to achieve the goals they want. As vital as any coach like you knows culture is... it can be difficult to maintain a positive one with so many culture killers out there. But maintaining a...
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Advice from the TOP softball coaches
We coaches are contantly looking forward. What's next. Where is there room to improve. What can we do better as a coach? But sometimes the answers are already there for us - if we just take a peek into our recent past. With Alicia on a trip with her daughter's soccer team this week, I was...
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Sometimes You Have to Loosen Your Grip- Mattawan Season Finale
As much as we as coaches want to control the situation and do everything in our power to help our girls succeed... T here are some times when we have to realize - it's not about us. Sometimes we have to let go a bit in order to let the TEAM take the reins. And if you've done your job leading up…
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When They Don't Seem to Give A [shhh] - Mattawan Part 2
Have you ever felt at a loss? Scratching your head... maybe even pulling-your-hair-out level... No clue what to do to get them to CARE? You're certainly not alone. Every coach has been in this spot where you can't seem to figure out what to do to fix what's going on. We have a remedy for getting...
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Getting Them To Focus on the Positive - Mattawan's 2023 Season Part 1
We've said it before and we'll say it again: just telling them this game is a game of failure DOESN'T make them stop obsessing on their fails. I know you've experienced this! So what is the magic answer? Of course there isn't only one way... but Alicia shares a few great strategies and activities...
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How to Feel Proud Even When You Lose - LC Finale
Coaching is NOT easy. You of all people know that. There are ups and downs - in both on-field performance AND the emotions - that are easy to get wrapped up in. The best seasons are ones where we as coaches can stay out of that trap and use every lesson to build TRUE belief. That's what we talk...
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Learning Lessons Every Day (Win or Fail) - LC Part 5
I think we all can agree - it's MUCH easier to see what's going wrong than it is to notice what's going right. Honestly- that's our job as coaches! But we also know how distracting and harmful it can be to performance when we're focusing only on the mistakes. In today's episode, we talk about how...
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What to Do When the Energy Isn't There - LC part 4
We've all experienced those games when the team we KNOW they're capable of just didn't show up. The energy was off. They were more quiet than usual... maybe tired? Maybe upset about their performance... Just off. But we can't just chock it up to an off day. So what can we do about it? That's what...
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Creating A Culture System w/ JP Nerbun
There's no doubt about it: Culture is the key to a great season. Even if performance isn't quite there, a strong culture makes it worthwhile. Put the two together? You've helped create an unforgettable few months in your athletes' lives. It can feel like a daunting task sometimes though. There…
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Stronger Relationships, Faster Adjustments - LaGrange 2023 Season Part 3
If you're listening to this episode, you've likely listened to Alicia's past seasons and learned the same thing I have: strong relationships are the secret weapon. We've all had that moment where we realized we missed a KEY piece of information about a player that would have changed the course of...
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Getting Them to Believe in Themselves - LaGrange 2023 Season Part 2
The ultimate goal for coaches like us... The coaches who care most about developing the person THROUGH the sport of softball... Is getting our girls to truly BELIEVE they're capable. That they're capable of of improvement. They're capable of executing what they've practiced. They're capable of...
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Less is More - LaGrange College 2023 Season Wk 1
It's that time of year for spring softball! Since us covering Alicia's season has gotten so much great feedback, we've decided to follow my team this year as well! For those who don't know, I'm in year two at LaGrange College. We're a small liberal arts school in Georgia. We're a part of NCAA…
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From Their Biggest Critic to Their Best Coach - Ray Santiago
Have you even wondered why your girls are so hard on themselves? Why can't they let things go, even when you're doing everything to convince them they're fine? You don't yell... You tell them you believe in them... Most times nobody else is nearly as upset with the failure as they are. So what's...
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Developing Confident Young Women - w/ Harvard HC Jenny Rohn
Most coaches WANT to develop strong young women, but not all of them actually know HOW to build those people skills into their training plans. Today's guest does so with everything from challenge drills to leadership council to "softball school." You're definitely going to take some great ideas...
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Being the Coach They'd Choose Again - w/ Jessica Bracamonte
We get into coaching because we want to help. But you don't get to stay there unless athletes CHOOSE to play for you year in and year out. There will of course be some turnover for various reasons, but on the whole... How many of your girls would choose you again if given the chance? There are a...
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Where to start with the mental game - w/ Lindsey Wilson
We're in the middle of an amazing era of sport where performers are starting to tap into the power of their minds and COACHES get to be a part of that process! And that can sometimes be overwhelming - there are a million topics we could cover. Where do we start & how do we implement it? Today's...
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Redefining Success - w/ Mike Candrea
I don't brag often, but I think we're going to win BEST GIFT this season. Because today we're joined by one of the most influential coaches in our game - and one of the best humans we've been so fortunate to meet. Coach Candrea is about to share some absolute GOLDEN nuggets of advice that WILL…
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What Today's Athlete Really Needs - w/ Lauren Ammon
We're definitely coaching a different breed of athlete these days - but that shouldn't come as a surprise. Every generation has their own version of the "kids these days" gripe - it's simply evolution! And that means we need to evolve as coaches too. Actually, let me clarify - we GET to evolve.…
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Our Role In Building Their Confidence - w/ Shay Haddow
Most of our girls could use an extra dose of confidence. Some seem do be on empty. Which means we as coaches have the amazing opportunity to build them up. And who better to get tips on that a mental game consultant who's primary focus is confidence! Ready for some knowledge bombs? Let's go!
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How Elite Level Coaches Get There - w/ Roberto Arroyo
You don't know what you don't know. Which is why coaches who reach the elite levels KEEP seeking out opportunities to learn & grow. And that's how we got to meet today's guest! He has already developed strong programs & sent girls off to play at their dream schools. He was clearly successful…
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We Eat Pressure for Breakfast - Mattawan's 2022 Season (Part 3)
It's not magic. But it sure does feel like it when everything clicks and your girls play FEARLESSLY. If you've followed this podcast for a while, you know alicia has a knack for getting her girls to compete hard and not give up. AND. Her girls still clench up when the pressure is on. They're…
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There's LOTS of Crying in Softball - Mattawan's 2022 Season (Part 2)
You know the line (and if you don't, you're on the bench until you watch A League of Their Own!). But as funny as that scene was, we do NOT live in that world anymore. Not only IS there crying in softball - there's a lot of it. And not just the sensitive athletes or the "mentally weak" ones. Even...
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When the Girls Buy In Right Away - Mattawan's 2022 Season (Part 1)
Every coach goes into a season with a vision of what they want this team to do this year. Now imagine if your girls could buy into that vision immediately AND perform hot out of the gate? Sound like a long shot? Not for this culture veteran! In today's episode, Alicia shares the first part of her...
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Lessons from my favorite (& least successful) season - LaGrange College 2022 Season
Have you ever had every intention of pushing something off for just a little bit... and then a million things happened and before long it seems like FOREVER has passed? Of course you have... You're a coach! Well... All we can say is thank you for your patience in this almost year hiatus. We were...
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It Takes An Army -- w/ Alabama's Montana Fouts
Have you ever watched the World Series (college softball of course) and thought, “That player is super-human” Like there’s no way the rest of us or my girls could ever do that. We put players like today’s guest on a pedestal for good reason, because they are amazing competitors! But really? They...
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First Round of Playoffs -- Alicia's HS Postseason
Was this the last weekend Alicia had with her team? Or did they pull it out and make it to the next round of playoffs??? Listen in to today's episode to find out!
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What to Do When They're Not Competing -- Alicia's HS Season 3/3
But wait, there's more! Listen in for some tips on connecting with your athletes & one of the most popular drills Alicia has shared to date!
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What to Do When They're Not Competing -- Alicia's HS Season 2/3
Part 2/3 here! Find out if that Figure-It-Out moment actually worked.
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What to Do When They're Not Competing -- Alicia's HS Season 1/3
It's been a hot minute, but we're back & have a treat in store for you! Listen in to today's episode (and then two more!) as we get caught up on how Alicia's team has been doing over the past several weeks. It's a roller-coaster, Coach. Buckle up!
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Advice From A True Difference-Maker -- w/ Sue Enquist
In honor of our fast-approaching Difference-Makers Bootcamp, we wanted to re-share this GEM of an episode with Sue Enquist. Listen in, get inspired, then come learn more from this rockstar in Bootcamp! We kick off this Sunday, April 18th and go all week! Learn more at...
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How to Be A Difference-Maker -- Audio sales page for our upcoming (4/18) Bootcamp
Are you a passionate softball coach who believes in developing the whole person? Do you like making a difference? Then what are you up to next week?! Today's bonus episode is an audio version of our sales page all about the Difference-Maker's Bootcamp (which is quickly approaching & kicks off…
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Mattawan High School 2021 Season -- Week 1
Alicia's been at this for a while, so you'd think she's experienced it all by now. Not the case! This season brings new challenges: Covid protocols and the need for flexibility An almost brand new team Young leadership with little experience in the well-known culture Listen in to hear how Alicia…
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Signed & Ready is the go-to podcast for college-bound athletes and their families navigating the recruiting process—and preparing to thrive once they get there.Hosted by Alicia Smith, head coach, recruiting mentor, and mental performance expert, this show pulls back the curtain on what really moves the needle in college recruiting: leadership, composure, and confidence under pressure.If you're a parent wondering how to support your athlete without overstepping—or an athlete who wants to feel ready, not just look ready—you're in the right place.Each episode delivers practical strategies, real talk, and coach-level insights on:Standing out in the recruiting process (beyond the stats)Building confidence that actually shows up on game dayLeading yourself through high-pressure momentsThriving in college athletics with a strong mental gameThis isn’t just about getting signed.It’s about becoming the kind of athlete coaches can’t ignore—and the kind of leader who’s ready for the next
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Mental Sweet Spot
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