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Singled Out

by Zahava

Open discussions on single life in the Jewish community.

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Episodes

  1. 26. Dating by the Numbers: A Rational Approach Towards Romance

    Many people do some type of reflection about their dating process - myself included - but I can pretty confidently say it’s not usually to this extent. In this episode my husband Jesse, ever the reflective software engineer, takes us through what a deep dive into your dating history can look…

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  2. 25. Moving Out (or Back?)

    If you've been living in the same place as a single for a while, you're likely craving a change. And chances are, you've fantasized about getting out of where you currently live and moving somewhere new. But as exciting as moving can be, it definitely comes with some challenges - even when it’s...

  3. 24. The Only Way Through, is Through

    I know that the Jewish community around the world is struggling tremendously to process what is happening in our homeland. This episode was not an easy one to record, but I found it extremely comforting to make. Connecting and speaking to others has been whats allowed me to process and deal with...

  4. 23. The Jewish Matchmaker

    Tune in as I interview Netflix famed matchmaker, Aleeza Ben Shalom! In this episode we get to hear about her experience on the show, being in the matchmaking bizz and what we can learn from secular dating. Feel free to reach out with thoughts and feedback on instragram: singledout613 by email:...

  5. 22. Why Isn't It Happening for Me?

    In this episode we have a deep conversation with Rebbetzin Dina Schoonmacher, surrounding some of the harder emotions that come up in singlehood when we feel like we're just waitng around hopelessly. Notes The Tools - https://www.amazon.com/Tools-Courage-Creativity-Willpower-Inspire/dp/0812983041...

  6. 21. Shomer Negiah - an intellectually and emotionally honest conversation

    This episode aims to openly address a sensitive topic that dating couples think about a lot but can have a hard time discussing with others. In this open conversation, Shayna Goldberg and I directly address the relevant halachot while also not shying away from real life challenges that couples…

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  7. 20. A Matchmaker's Perspective

    Most singles in the Jewish circuit have some experience with matchmakers. The resumes, the meetings - and in somecases - dealing with them as the moderator between the dates as well. Ever wonder what it's like from their perspective? What actually goes into setting up a couple? Or even just being...

  8. 19. Negotiations in the Workplace

    The workplace is just one of many areas singles (and anyone new to the workforce!) appreciate guidance on. Knowledge about naviagting our work environment and negotiations with our employers (both pre and post job acceptance) is key to our long term success. Tune in as Michelle Greenberg-Kobrin,...

  9. 18. Self Sabotage in Dating

    If you are a more anxious person by nature, you'll appreciate this one. In this 'sode guest Shayna Goldberg and I discuss the role our fears and thoughts play in dating. How they can help protect us - but if left unchecked can also sabotage us and the relationship we are in as well. Follow Shayna...

  10. 17. The Truth About Health

    In this episode Rachel Tuchman (LMHC) and I discuss the weighty topic (see what I did there?) on body image. Throughout our discussions, Rachel and I tackle navigating the intense food culture that accompanies Jewish holidays, setting boundaries with friends and matchmakers on what we...

  11. 16. The Truth About Soulmates

    How do you ever know you've met "the one"? Does Judaism even believe in "the one"? In this episode, well known Torah educator Esther Wein explains how we've been misunderstanding the very famous Gemara (Sota, 2a) on soul mates in Judaism. Get ready for a whole new outlook on pre-determined love,...

  12. 15. Dating Stigmas - Broken Engagements (pt. 2)

    This is part 2 of our episode with Noah Marlowe on Dating Stigmas. In this episode Noah shares practical and meaningful Do's and Don'ts to show support for those we know who have had a broken engagement. Notes: 1. Noah's Article on Being Single in Smicha:...

  13. 14. Dating Stigmas- Single in Smicha (pt. 1)

    In this episode we discuss another dating stigma from 'behind the Bima'. In part 1, guest Noah Marlowe shares his experience being single in his Smicha (Rabbinical ordination) program. This episode provides an inside look glimpse into how we approach educating our future leaders before they are...

  14. 13. Evolving Religiously During Singlehood

    As we age, we evolve (hopefully for the better). But evolving in our religious observance and identity is something almost every Jewish single contends with. How we navigate that change, judgement from others (and even ourselves) is something which David Bashevkin and I discuss in this episode....

  15. 12. Trusting Your Gut

    In a world where we have access to so many voices (both wanted and unwanted), it can become hard to get in touch with ourselves. Tune in as Ariella Azaraf LCSW, helps us become more in tune with what we truly want and teaches us how to quiet those outside voices in order to hear our own. Follow...

  16. 11. Dating Stigmas - Age Differences (part 2)

    We're back with Part 2 of dating stigmas highlighting age differences, interviewing our second couple on this topic. Enjoy!

  17. 10. Dating Stigmas - Age Differences (part 1)

    The unfortunate reality is that there are stigmas with everything, dating included. The first one I'd like to explore is age differences. Why is there a stigma when it comes to dating someone older/younger? How much of it actually bothers us, vs. the pressure we feel from outside influences that…

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  18. 9. Being A Wounded Healer - Discussing Emunah

    We don't all struggle to with the same things, but we all struggle. In this weeks episode Ruchi Koval, co founder of the kiruv organization The Jewish Family Experience, mother of seven and motivational speaker, opens up about the challenging paths she's encountered much later on in life. We also...

  19. 8. Surviving The Challahdays

    Holidays can be a time of family bonding and celebration, but it can also be a time of wanting to pull your hair out. It’s hard enough struggling with not getting on nerves when we’re all packed into one house, now add in a two/three day Yom Tov as the cherry on top. In this episode, I go through…

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  20. 7. Egg Freezing

    In singlehood we can sometimes feel a race against a biological clock. But we're not always sure what our options are, or even what options we should be considering. In this episode, Dr. Bat-Sheva Maslow and I discuss fertility preservation. The why's, how's, how much and everything in between....

  21. 6. Younger Siblings Getting Married First

    This episode addresses: how to deal when younger siblings get married first. A topic which even if you haven't experienced personally, is known to be a sensitive and difficult one. To cover the main issues and hardships surrounding this topic, we highlighted Miriam Borenstein White. Miriam shares...

  22. 5. Thirty & Thankful

    There are certain birthday's that even if you literally feel no difference on, you know are milestones (18, 21, 25). For a lot of us, the 30 mark feels different. Somehow the idea of turning another year where we are more settled, more experienced, more in touch with who we are becomes quickly...

  23. 4. Smart Spending & Financial Planning

    A benefit to being single is that there are more areas of our life we can afford to spend/splurge on ourselves in the moment. The downside, however, is we might not be thinking about ways which our financial habits will impact us in the future. Figuring out the best way to spend, save and invest...

  24. 3. Shoutout To My Ex

    "You just never know"...."Maybe this will be the one"..."I'm one step closer"...any of these lines ringing an annoying bell? Dating can be really exhausting and tiring. And more than that, it's hard to stay positive after many having multiple experiences that didn't work out. But - what if we…

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  25. 2. Gaining Perspective

    Warning: this episode contains awesome and deep content! In this episode, Ariella Aharon LCSW, gives a firsthand look at the challenges and important life lessons working in oncology has taught her. How its attributed to her unique perspectives on self care, single hood, the importance of letting...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Open discussions on single life in the Jewish community.

HOSTED BY

Zahava

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Open discussions on single life in the Jewish community.

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