Sisters Declassified Life Survival Guide: Two sisters with four daughters; dishing drama, trauma and survival tips for the everyday.

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Sisters Declassified Life Survival Guide: Two sisters with four daughters; dishing drama, trauma and survival tips for the everyday.

Two sisters with four daughters. Dishing drama, trauma and survival tips for the everyday. [email protected] Art by Grace Humble https://instagram.com/gracehumbleok?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

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    Subscribe, Part Deux, Mohan is garbage

    Hi.  Can you please share with anyone and everyone you know and grovel for their support as we do in this video.  We are not fans of barriers for entry, however, in the spirit of keeping it real raw, we want to do YouTube LIVE.  In order to do this, YouTube/Alphabet/Google requires we have 50 subscribers to our channel.  Switching platforms was intentional, but poorly planned.  With the advent of AI, we want to remain as authentically terrible as possible, so we are offering all 6 of our die hard subscribers the opportunity to watch us fabulously face plant in real time.  In our own graceful rhetoric, FUCK AI and the fake diarrheal BS that it is unendingly, yet vehemently spewing out.  Help us keep it real by subscribing so we can come to you live and show you our authentic glorious selves!  Pretty please... See below if you need something to get angry about today.  It's not each other that we should be fighting... It's these greedy, clown scamming asshats.  You're welcome.  Thanks for coming to our sped talk... Additionally, please, begging on our knees, can you share our YT channel with anyone and everyone you know?  We need your support to make this work live, thus we are resorting to groveling.  YUP, we DO NOT CARE... It's a club and we are loud and proud members... Google it, or Alphabet, or LLM/ChatGBT it... It's a monopoly and should be penalized.  BTW - Google's tax rate is 16.9%.  That is extremely low and they are pillaging many hard working folks whilst skating on this massive tax break... Hit up Neal and spread the word.  You are helping the folks at the bottom to get a word out.  Additional information if you wanted to know it... While YT and it's parent co pay only the 16.9% above, anyone who makes money on YT gets to pay the following rates: We are letting them get away with this! 24-30%.  They are making at minimum 7% profit for every advertising dollar/coin/shitcoin/trashy ad that they still have yet to ask us to run... ps, I won't read for Quince... Tried their sheets and they are trash... advertising dollars just means that the company is absolute garbage.  Make your own, you'll be happier.  ANYHOO, now that I'm off my soapbox, please share with all your folks... If my entire family - and extended family by proxy has not subscribed, just know that I do know where you live.  Since you asked, you are welcome to email this turbo and ask him to split the Alphabet monopoly so folks can actually make a living (btw, not us, we just have friends who all do a great job and are monitored and we believe they deserve better), and that they make enough profit off of the backs of people like us who are just doing our best.  Neal Mohan, CEO YouTubeLinkedinLove ya'll.  Spread and help the sisters out!  Love, peace and hair grease! L&RHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Epic Fail: Subscribe!

    Subscribe!#survivorseries    #women #religion #patriarchy #speak #mothers #daughters #granddaughters #grandmothers #money #men #writing #publishing #live #honesty #real #power #victimvalue #bodilyautonomy #femalepower #femaletalkHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Disappointing Finale, Cuss and Discuss Introduction

    We are bummed that after several active calls and requests on our part, there were very few people we know weren't interested in participation.  That sucks, so we are moving to a larger audience.  A live one.  Even though we feel that our story doesn't matter, we will still try to fight and support anyone else who needs or wants one.  Hope you can join us.  Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    S2, E9 Sarah

    Interview with our cousin Sarah-  Sarah shared her perspective of us growing up and how our relationships with her are nowHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    S2, E8 Eric. Is there such a thing as bad cheese?

    Interview with Eric, our book's first professional editor. Eric D. Howerton Info: My band's spotify:https://open.spotify.com/artist/0MmYo1dIk0fPxoGIsYWRkgFB:https://www.facebook.com/p/Lake-Mare-100070705425305/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lake_mar.e/"Go Down, Diller"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xc1pDseBUF4A magazine I write for that we may talk about:https://www.oklahomatoday.com/A graphic short story I wrote (illustrated by a buddy)https://www.hobartpulp.com/web_features/the-decreeHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Call yo Congress, Hide yo Wives, Hide yo Kids

    https://www.congress.gov/members/find-your-memberhttps://www.courthousenews.com/in-dissent-justice-jackson-steals-the-spotlight/https://www.epi.org/blog/the-value-of-the-federal-minimum-wage-is-at-its-lowest-point-in-66-years/https://kristenhadley.comhttps://linktr.ee/justbeingmelaniHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    S2, E7 Brad

    Interview with Liz's client, Brad, who grew up in similar circumstancesHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    S2, E6 Morgan

    Interview with Roomate 2, MorganHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    S2, Bonus 2

    Rants and Raves with Rachel's rageHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Bonus Episode 3, S2

    Liz and Rachel catch up with each other and discuss recent events and life changes...chaos ensues...Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    S2, E5 Randy

    An interview with Liz's husband, RandyHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    S2, E4 Mom

    An interview with our Mother. Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    S2, E 3 Amber Interview

    We speak with Amber Fladie- I met Amber about 5 or 6 years ago at work and never chatted about our pasts until recently when i discovered Amber grew up Jehovah’s Witness and didn’t leave until years into adulthood.  Amber shares her story of her journey both in and outside of this controlled group.Amber has a podcast as well with some of her girlfriends called Shenanigans on YouTube https://youtube.com/@shenaniganstalks?si=XgjqnXu4T1SVM4C4Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    S2 Bonus 1, What Would Jeremy Do?

    Bonus content with some rants and raves about all the things we have to accept, but not without rage.  Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    S 2 E3 Rachel Interview

    We interview Rachel and get to know her a little better!Link for the Balanced:https://www.shala.com/shala/affiliate/landing/page?RFRID=ZNK18444SKYHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Liz’s Interview

    In this episode Rachel interviews Liz. Listen to learn more about her. Remember to follow us on social media or watch on YouTube @SistersDeclassified #cult #cultsurvivors #religion #fundamentalists #feminism #sisters #baptists #church #extremism #escapingcults #cultism #deprogramming #sexism #misogyny #lifeaftercult #bible #jesus #hope #recoveryHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Season 2 Opener

    We’re back for Season 2! Did you miss us? After a six month break we are back and in this episode we are just giving our listeners an inside sneak peak on what’s to come this season of our podcast. Hope you enjoy. Make sure to like, follow, and subscribe on our social media platforms Facebook, Instagram and TikTok. You can also listen to this episode wherever you listen to your podcasts. @SistersDeclassifiedHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Women in power …. season 1 Finale

    We discuss women and positions of power and leadership…. How we were affected by the non existent powerful women in positions of leadership growing up.   This is the ending to our first seasonHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Book Writing Process

    We discuss our book writing process and express our struggles and challenges along the way…..Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Mom/ daughter relationships

    In this episode, we chat about the relationship between moms and daughters. We share some of our advice on raising gutters are learned advice and chat about the relationship between.Our mom and us…… EnjoyHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Private Education: Public Funding: Follow the Money?

    Listen in on our discussion of public education vs private.   Funding for school and political campaigns.   We chat about how we feel and what we personally experienced in our lives and the lives of our “roommates”.   Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Bad Client Good Podcast

    sisters [email protected]: Sisters DeclassifiedSocials: Sisters DeclassifiedHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Traumageddon

    Managing thick hair is no small feat, and we've got some hilarious stories to prove it! Join us for a lively chat that starts with some humor around Pride Month and quirky profile pictures, but swiftly transitions into relatable hair woes and amusing anecdotes. However, the episode takes a serious turn as we tackle the overuse of the term "trauma," its impact on genuine experiences, and the importance of trauma-informed teaching.The conversation deepens as we explore the evolving understanding of trauma and autism diagnoses over the past two decades. We share personal stories and insights into how these diagnoses have been validated and the changes in terminology, such as the removal of Asperger's. The discussion also reflects on the stigma surrounding autism and learning disabilities and the improvements in diagnostic tools and awareness today. Along the way, we delve into the emotional and complex family situations involving accusations of abuse, addressing immediate reactions, justice, and societal views on punishing sexual predators.Online negativity versus real-world kindness—there’s a stark difference, and we have the anecdotes to prove it. This episode wraps up with a thoughtful discussion on repeated traumatic experiences, exposure therapy, and the ever-growing toxicity of online environments. We share a hopeful outlook on younger generations distancing themselves from these toxic spaces and end with exciting plans to enhance listener engagement through social media and email. Don't miss out on our unique sign-off and the chance to connect with us directly!Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Education vs. Butker

    Controversy erupted at Benedictine College's graduation, and we pull no punches dissecting the speech that sparked heated debates. The address, which seemed to diminish women's roles to domesticity, despite their academic achievements, gets a critical analysis from us. We respect personal choices in homemaking, but we won't shy away from challenging views that threaten to undermine women's broader aspirations. Plus, we don't hold back on discussing the delicate interplay between Catholic doctrine on birth control and the responsibility of public speech.Turning our gaze to the many cracks in the public education system, we expose the urgent need for literacy and self-education. Stories of individuals who've taken their learning into their own hands despite systemic failures underscore our conversation. We confront the stark realities of special education tracks, the weight of parental expectations, and the debilitating pressure of standardized tests—like the dreaded STAR tests in Texas. Ending on a personal note, I recount the disappointment of a lackluster university commencement, which left families like mine feeling undervalued after our investment in education. Join us for a candid exploration of how learning should truly prepare us for the journey ahead.Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Indoctrination Podcast with Rachel Bernstein, Part 2

    Stepping out of the shadows of a cult's influence is a journey fraught with challenges and triumphs; Rachel and Liz are testaments to this arduous path toward freedom. Our latest episode is a riveting exploration of their escape and the myths and stereotypes about women that often underpin such oppressive environments. These sisters, one a mother and movement specialist from Southern California, the other a grandmother and entrepreneur from Oklahoma, lay bare their hearts, detailing the critical moments that propelled them to seek a life beyond the cult's confines. Their stories are not just about breaking free but also the healing that follows, illustrating the potent blend of vulnerability and strength that has shaped their new beginnings.The complexities of leaving a cult do not end at the decision to walk away; the aftermath is a labyrinth of emotional and legal challenges that many survivors face. In this episode, Rachel and Liz lead us through the dark corridors of fear and intimidation that loom over those who dare to leave. From confronting developmental delays to facing the backlash of a community that once promised safety, they share their personal experiences with a candor that is as enlightening as it is heart-wrenching. Their insights offer a deeper understanding of the psychological barriers that cult survivors must overcome and the resilience required to rebuild a life grounded in autonomy and self-discovery.This conversation is not just about the shadows but also the light at the end of the tunnel—the reclaiming of body positivity, personal identity, and the simple yet revolutionary act of donning a bikini for the first time. Rachel and Liz's empowering narratives underscore the transformative power of questioning norms and forging an individual path. As they articulate the value of ongoing healing and the freedom to choose one's beliefs, their stories are a powerful reminder of the courage it takes to step into the unknown and the profound personal growth that awaits on the other side. Join us for an episode that celebrates the indomitable human spirit and the boundless possibilities that can emerge from the depths of adversity.Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    IndoctriNation with Rachel Bernstein, Liz and Rachel Part 1

    Embarking on a path to freedom demands courage, a truth Rachel Holt and Liz Humble know all too well. As survivor sisters, they share their gripping tales of escaping the IFB cult, navigating the aftershocks of a controlled upbringing, and the liberating struggle towards healing. Their book, "The King James Virgins," serves as a backdrop to a candid conversation that also spills into their podcast, "Sisters Declassified Life Survival Guide," where they fuse life lessons with actionable advice for those walking similar paths to recovery. Parenting after cult life presents an intricate dance between providing structure and fostering independence. The sisters delve into their personal experiences, discussing the critical role of supportive partners and the importance of family in reassembling a life once dictated by oppressive control. Their stories of raising children in the shadow of their past resonate deeply, offering a beacon to others striving to break free from generational cycles of restriction.In an atmosphere where trust is often a casualty of betrayal, Rachel and Liz courageously confront the darker chapters of their past. They engage in a raw reflection on abuse, the complexities of finding trustworthy therapeutic support, and the power of owning one's narrative. Their journey is a testament to resilience, a guidepost for navigating the murky waters of trauma, and an invitation to listeners to embark on their own journey of healing, bolstered by the strength found in honesty, humility, and sisterhood.Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Mailbag

    Every morning holds the promise of a fresh start, and today we're embracing that with open hearts as we chat about the delicate balance of caring for our loved ones, both human and animal. We love the morningsTurning the page, we discuss a recent email.  We confront the vexing question of youth representation in politics head-on. My roommate's 26th birthday becomes a launchpad to dissect the hurdles young individuals face in this arena. We peel back the layers of political engagement and mental health, wrestling with the conundrum of choosing the least worrisome option during elections. Our dialogue stretches from the deeply personal to the broadly political, as we recount our own awakenings and advocate for an active role in the process, no matter how flawed it may seem.In the home stretch, we spotlight the significance of making an informed vote and the transformative potential of local politics. From organizations like Run for Something that champion the rise of young, diverse voices, to the unavoidable influence of wealth in political races, we're unpacking it all. We don't shy away from heated topics, diving into the evolving landscape of education legislation and women's rights debates. And to cap it all off, we share a slice of our personal lives—the triumphs and challenges—as we invite you to join our community of listeners navigating the intricate web of life, family, and the society we're all a part of.Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Upcoming Events with Expert Rachel Bernstein

    Ever wonder how individuals heal and regain control after leaving a cult? Join us, Rachel and Liz, as we engage in a thought-provoking series with Rachel Bernstein, the esteemed therapist and cult recovery expert. In the course of our candid conversation, we illuminate the paths to recovery for those who've been trapped in coercive systems. Our discussion, inspired by our forthcoming book, interweaves personal insights with professional strategies that Bernstein has honed throughout her career. It's an encounter brimming with empathy and understanding, tailored for anyone eager to comprehend the complexities of cult indoctrination and the resilience of the human spirit.Get set for a riveting exploration into the realms of psychological liberation and personal growth. We're ecstatic to share our collaboration with the Indoctrination podcast, as Bernstein, an authority on cult dynamics, lends her voice to our narrative. Delve into the episodes airing on April 24th and May 1st, where we dissect the intricate aspects of cult influence and the tools necessary for protection and healing. Featuring resources from Bernstein's wealth of knowledge, these shows are not just a complement to our book but a treasure trove for survivors, therapists, and anyone intrigued by the human capacity to overcome manipulation and reclaim freedom.Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Sexual Abuse Awareness and Introducing 'Wins and Fails'

    We talk briefly about the eclipse and go into Sexual abuse awareness month.   We discuss versions and try to help start a conversation about Sexual Abuse and wrap our how to and Define this around this topicNewest portion begins with wins and losses from the weekHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Principles in Practice Balancing Beliefs and Civic Duty

    As a child, I never imagined that the values instilled in me would one day be the compass guiding my every decision. Today, we embark on a profound exploration of those very principles, diving into the evolution of personal values from the innocence of youth to the complexity of adulthood. Together, we navigate the delicate balance between being true to ourselves and exercising kindness, and I'll share my anecdotes on how the values we cherish unfold in our everyday actions.Join me as we confront the civic responsibilities tied intrinsically to our values, where the act of voting isn't just a right, but a reflection of our beliefs in motion. I'll recount tales from the polling booth that highlight the weight of local elections and the power inherent in every vote cast. Through discussions on loyalty, knowledge, and access to information, we uncover how these elements shape our political landscape and why engaging in the electoral process is a commitment to our principles. Listen closely as we dissect the influence of personal values on voting behavior and their broader implications in our lives.Real talk: life is fleeting, and how we manage our time is the truest indicator of what we value. In this foray into the practical applications of our principles, we tackle the discipline of time management and the ethics of consumption choices. From considering the meaningful allocation of resources to assessing the media we consume, our conversation traverses the importance of direct communication as we age. We also face the tough issues, including the complex relationship many have with food, and the challenges posed by corporate practices, supply chain woes, and the call for fair wages. This episode isn't just about reflection; it's a call to action for living a life aligned with what's truly important to us.Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Episode 19: Through the Looking Glass of Careers

    Ever felt overwhelmed by the never-ending to-do list of home renovations, or pondered the luxury of hiring out tedious tasks like painting? We've been there too, and in our latest chat, we spill the beans—literally—on the trials of DIY, the allure of outsourcing, and the hefty price tag of local coffee roasts. Pour yourself a cup and join us as we debate the merits of home-brewed java against the café scene.  Careers aren't just jobs; they're the rich tapestry woven from each chapter of our lives. In this heart-to-heart, we walk through the corridors of our pasts—from sales to motherhood to the sharp world of barbery—and how these experiences shape our very identities. Get ready to feel the support of our collective journey as we dissect societal expectations and gender roles. Plus, we travel back to the dreams of our younger selves, igniting passion for music and hairstyling, and take a candid look at the hospitality industry's trials, toying with the idea of investing in a cherished local venue.Then, we pull back the curtain on the academic hustle with a part-time professor, laughing and wincing at the flood of emails and the surprise of virtual observations by the dean. As we explore the legal maze of after-hours work communication, we stand in solidarity with adjunct faculty fighting for fair treatment. And what's a reunion without friends? Joe and Kelly drop by to share their mental health journeys and tease Joe's upcoming podcast, ensuring that our conversation on life, laughter, and everything in between keeps you hooked until the last laugh.Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Episode 18: Rain Falls Life Lessons and Literary Escapes

    As the skies opened up, unleashing a deluge upon San Diego, our little community found itself grappling with unexpected floodwaters.  It's these moments of chaos, intermingled with the warmth of a support group forged in the fires of COVID, that we unpack in our latest conversation.  Reading books, critical thinking and influential reads that shaped our lives are the focus of this episode.   Join us as we navigate the labyrinth of health treatments, from the costly medicines that barely make a dent in our ailments to the quest for compassionate care amidst the prickly process of allergy testing. And, as we turn the pages on our educational journeys, with insights into special education, and shine a light on the profound impact of self-directed learning and nurturing innate curiosity in students.Lastly, pour yourself a drink (hold the Diet Coke), and settle in as we explore the transformative power of reading. From the courageous tale of Charlotte Doyle to the motivational words of Jen Sincero, we highlight books that stir the soul and provoke thought far beyond the fleeting scrolls of TikTok feeds. As we share baking triumphs and the creative release found in the kitchen, we also unpack the controversies and complexities surrounding that ubiquitous fizzy beverage. It's a blend of heartfelt stories, laughter, and a dash of skepticism that invites you to reconsider, reflect, and perhaps even reshape your perspectives.Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    From Cult Romance to Marital Bliss A Journey in Relationships

    Roller skating nights have a way of sending you spiraling back to the good old days, don't they? Let's rewind together as we chat about the pure thrill of the rink, the inadvertent comedy of menopause-induced memory gaffes, and the sometimes harsh realities of aging. But it's not all wistful nostalgia; we're also tackling the grit it takes to bounce back from injuries and how an activity jar can shake up your routine in the most delightful ways. Relationships are a labyrinth, and we're walking it with you, from the oddities of rapid-fire romance within a cult, to how a couple keeps the spark alive 26 years in. We get raw and real about evolving communication, how we've ditched authoritarian shadows for autonomy, and the courage it takes to address parenting regrets. Plus, a young mom's leap from adversity to entrepreneurship offers an inspiring testament to the power of determination.Finally, we'll broach the intricacies of personal growth post-religious life, the importance of balancing individuality with togetherness in relationships, and the risks that come with newfound freedom. We'll wrap it up with a conversation about how these experiences shape us, without letting them define us, and an invitation — join us, contribute to the conversation, and find a bit of yourself in these shared human experiences.Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    The True Grit of Growing Older and the Beauty of Not Knowing

    As the chill of Oklahoma's winter nipped at my heels, I couldn't help but reflect on the unspoken trials of life's latter chapters. There's a certain rawness to this discussion, as we peel back the curtain on the physical and societal challenges faced by those of us cresting over the 40-year mark. We’re not just talking lack of sleep here, friends; we're delving into the stark realities of healthcare disparities, gender biases in pain management, and the ever-looming anxiety of retirement security. Ever feel like the pressure to succeed is crushing the spirit of our youth? That's the very heart of our conversation, where we expose the pervasive fear of failure amplified by the picture-perfect illusions cast by social media. I share a slice of my life, my hesitations about flaunting successes, and the deeper implications of chasing those 'likes.' Together, we celebrate the art of stumbling, the elegance of the phrase "I don't know," and the hidden strength in vulnerability – all through a tapestry woven from our personal stories and earnest admissions.Amidst heartfelt narratives and empathic exchanges, we tackle the conundrum of external validation, dissecting the psychological tug-of-war between online interactions and our intrinsic self-worth. There's a treasure trove of insight on fostering support networks, the anchoring power of family, and the transformative moments that can arise from our darkest mistakes. So, join us as we navigate these waters, sharing laughter and the profound realizations that come with embracing our own humanity.Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Navigating the Tightrope of Trust: From Morning Greetings to the Depths of Faith

    Can we truly know when to trust someone, or is it a leap of faith every time? Join us, Liz and Rachel, on a heartfelt journey dissecting the delicate fabric of trust in our latest episode. We kick things off with a reflection on the innocent utterance "good morning" and how even this simple phrase hinges on an unspoken trust that the day will unfold positively for us all. From there, we unfurl stories close to our hearts, like the one about a friend navigating the choppy waters of bureaucracy as a new dance teacher and the undervaluation of educators in today's world, to drive home the complexities of trust in professional realms.This candid conversation wades through the sometimes murky waters of religious trust, with a special focus on the dynamics within Independent Fundamental Baptist culture. Here, we unpack the innocence of youth group fundraising escapades alongside the bigger questions of financial transparency. The stark contrast between our naive trust in the system versus the underlying reality provides a poignant backdrop to our broader exploration of how trust shapes our interactions, beliefs, and the decisions we make.To wrap up, we reflect on the significance of trust as an actionable attribute, sharing our own lessons learned from broken promises and career frustrations. This episode isn't just about sharing our tales; it's about inviting you to consider how the presence or absence of trust has sculpted your life's narrative, the friendships you cherish, and your approach to the world at large. Tune in for an episode that promises to stir reflection and maybe even inspire a change in how you navigate the tightrope of trust in your own life.Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Mapping the Maze of Mental Well-being During the Festive Fog

    Navigating the peculiar stretch of time between Christmas and New Year's can feel like wandering through a maze without a clear exit. Join us as we explore this holiday haze, dissecting the dissonance of disrupted routines and family dynamics that can often teeter on a tightrope. Amidst these candid discussions, my personal journey with ADHD comes to light, providing an honest backdrop to the technical hiccups that recently peppered our podcast. We recount that our guest last week  Kathy, brought her own poignant perspectives on religious communities, drawing from her experiences with figures like Jack Hyles and sparking reflection on the influence of faith and leadership in our lives.Relationships, especially the bonds between siblings, come under the microscope in this episode, as we peel back the layers of their complex influence on mental health. I don't shy away from sharing the raw edges of my battles with PTSD and panic attacks. We probe the potential roots of sibling strife and its amplified emotional weight during the holidays, revealing an intimate look at how these connections can evolve, or unravel, far from what we once envisioned in childhood. The role of therapists becomes even more critical in these moments, and we discuss the heightened demand for their support as they help steer us through these emotional whirlpools.Access to mental health care stands as a daunting tower many struggle to scale, and in this episode, we confront the harsh realities of systemic and financial barriers that loom large. I recount the alarming quest to secure assistance for roommate one  in crisis, a tale that unearths the chilling inadequacies within our healthcare framework. We also consider the lingering scars left by PTSD and past traumas, underscoring the significance of support systems in the healing process. This dialogue extends a hand to anyone grappling with similar challenges, hoping to foster a greater understanding and shared compassion for those navigating the tumultuous seas of mental health.Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Healing Journeys and Solidarity in Overcoming IFB Trauma with Kathy Durbin

    Kathy Durbin joins us from the poignant docuseries "Let Us Pray: Ministry of Scandals" to share her experience within the independent fundamental Baptist movement, a journey marked by courage and the quest for justice. As we unravel Kathy's narrative, we reveal the complexities of growing up under the weight of heavy expectations and the chilling repercussions of challenging those norms. Together, we explore the intricate tapestry of personal stories that, while uniquely harrowing, forge a bond of unity among survivors, compelling us to address the urgent need for change within such insular communities.The heart of our discussion lies in the raw, emotional tales that traverse the spectrum from childhood traumas to the search for love and belonging amidst family turmoil. Each guest's contribution, whether revealing the pain of maternal neglect or the travails of redefining one's identity after leaving a constrictive religious environment, offers a powerful testament to the resilience of the human spirit. Through their candidness, we see the strength in vulnerability and how the journey towards healing and self-discovery is a sacred path that many walk with an unwavering resolve.Our episode culminates with an inspiring look at the transformative power of solidarity and storytelling in the healing process. We examine the emotional challenges faced in courtrooms, the complexities of family dynamics in the aftermath of abuse, and the importance of specialized support in nurturing the seeds of recovery. Celebrating steps towards empowerment, from the work of the Haven Retreat to one nurse's transition into mental health advocacy, we underscore the undeniable impact of giving voice to those once silenced and the collective effort to foster healing and hope for survivors everywhere.Happy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Episode 12, IFB

    Rachel and Liz briefly describe their current weeks, happenings and such and the get into the meat of the podcast which is the:“define this”. Where Rachel and Liz define IFB, what means by definition and  what it meant to them in the cult.  Independent Fundamental Baptist is the cult we were raised in and we define what it means. Rachel and Liz also discuss “How Too” Christian or how to not Christian.  The work Christian is used so loosely these days and how most proclaimed Christians act .  Liz tells a specific story of a incident that happened to her daughter by so called Christians#cult #cultsurvivors #religion #fundamentalists #feminism #sisters #baptists #church #extremism #escapingcults #cultism #deprogramming #sexism #misogyny #lifeaftercult #bible #jesus #hope #recoveryHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Episode 11, Holidays

    Sisters Declassified, Life Survival Guide.  Two Sisters, with four daughters, dishing drama, trauma and survival tips for the everyday.  #cult #cultsurvivors #religion #fundamentalists #feminism #sisters #baptists #church #extremism #escapingcults #cultism #deprogramming #sexism #misogyny #lifeaftercult #bible #jesus #hope #recoveryHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Episode 10 mother and healing

    Join us for our first YouTube live / podcast as we discuss the meaning of mom or being a mother and discuss how we healed, are healing and will continue to heal after childhood and outlet traumasHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Bonus Episode

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    Back Next Week

    #cult #cultsurvivors #religion #fundamentalists #feminism #sisters #baptists #church #extremism #escapingcults #cultism #deprogramming #sexism #misogyny #lifeaftercult #bible #jesus #hope #recoveryHappy to help. Please let us. Support the show

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    Episode 9, Double Standards

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    Book Editing and Proposal In Progress

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    Episode 8, Submissiveness and Trust

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    Episode 7, the bible and forgiveness

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    Episode 6, Purity

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    Episode 5, Modesty

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    Episode 4, Musical Chairs

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    Episode 3, Barbie Summer

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