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So, how's that working out for ya?
by deeandmiles
We are married and a hot mess! Join us for conversations all about relationships!
Episodes
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S4 Ep.52 I thought I did a good job: When adult children confront their parents.
In this episode, we explore the emotional terrain ofadult children confronting their parents about how they were raised. What happens when the child’s lived experience clashes with the parent’s intentions? We dive into the discomfort, the revelations, and the potential for healing when families...
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S4 Ep.51 Love on the move-Unpacking boxes AND emotions
Relocating to a new state can feel like a fresh start—but for couples, it’s often a test of emotional endurance. In this episode, we unpack the complex dynamics that arise when love meets logistics. From the thrill of new beginnings to the strain of uprooting routines, we explore how moving...
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S3 Ep.50 The grays out here F'n up the holidays! (Gray divorce)
"Gray divorce" is on the rise and Dee and Miles are on the case! Tune in to for a discussion on the cause and effect of this booming situation and leave with a few tools to help combat this thing! Dee's, "Who's mans is this!" is a doosie! For questions and comments, email Dee and Miles at...
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S3 Ep.49 30 for 30- The Finale! #21-30(30 things learned in 30 years of marriage)
Dee and Miles wrap up the 30 for 30 series with part 3 of 30 things they've learned in 30+ years of marriage! Tune in for insightful tips and of course, some laughs and shenanigans! Dee and Miles would love to hear your feedback! Contact them at [email protected] or leave a voice message at...
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S3 Ep48. 30 for 30! (11-20) 30 things learned in 30 years of marriage!
Dee and Miles have had quite a few eye-opening experiences in their 30 plus years of marriage! Tune in for numbers 11-20! Intro (00:30) Listener Letter (06:48) Who's mans is this (09:24) 30 for 30! (10:16) Mr. Miles' tool of the day (22:22) Wrapup/Contact Info (26:25)
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S3 Ep47. 30 for 30! 30things we've learned in 30 years of marriage!
Dee and Miles have had quite a few eye-opening experiences in their 30 plus years of marriage! Tune is as they share the 1st 10 in this episode! * Intro (01:03) *Paradise (02:45) * Listener Letter (06:28) * Who's Mans is this? (09:08) * 30 for 30! (11:15) * Mr. Miles' tool of the day (18:04) *...
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S3-Ep.46 Listen up! (and gain some of this wisdom)
Want that old school love? Well here is some solid, old school advice! (Well, sort of). But it will definitely help get your relationship going in the right direction or give you a good laugh! Dee and Miles discuss quotes and scenarios from the internet and give their perspectives. Dee comes thru...
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S3-Ep.45 I Love My Life!
Happy New Year! Join Dee and Miles as they reflect on how tough it was ringing in the new year. * Mr. Miles discusses how he was broken over the holidays, but he persevered! *Who's Mans is This? Dee rants about how a spouse should not beat your loved one at games on a date! (04:29) *The Book of...
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EP. 44 The Effects of Gadgets and Electronics on a Relationship
That phone can be both a blessing and a curse! Listen in as Dee and Miles discuss the impact that phones, gaming systems, etc., can have on your relationship. Have you heard of "phubbing?" Maybe you're doing it! Have a question or a comment about today's episode? Contact Dee and Miles at...
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Ep. 43 Battle of the Sexes and the Sassy Man Apocalypse!
Join Dee and Miles in the discussion on how some of these men are being called out for displaying sassy behavior and the battle between the sexes on expectations! Also, Dee has a 'Getcha Girl" moment! Have questions or comments? Contact Dee and Miles at [email protected] or leave a voice...
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Ep. 42 Fellas, Dee has a special "Who's Mans is This," just for you in this Shoot The Sh!t episode!
Fellas, Dee has a special " Who's Mans is This" just for you! Join Dee and Miles in this "Shoot The Sh!t" episode! Tune in now! Have questions or comments about this episode? Email Dee and Miles at [email protected] or leave a voice message at 1-872-304-5683(LOVE). Instagram…
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Ep. 41 Letters from the listeners!
Dee and Miles dedicate this episode to unanswered questions from the listeners! Have a burning question or something you would like to share? Reach out to Dee and Miles via email at [email protected] or leave a voice message at 1-872-304-5683(LOVE) Wanna see the faces behind the voices?…
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Ep. 40 The importance of setting boundaries. (Teaching people how to treat YOU).
Dee and Miles discuss the importance of setting personal boundaries. It's hard but it's never too late! Questions or comments? Share them with Dee and Miles at: [email protected] or leave a voice message at 1-872-304-5683(LOVE). Socials: deeandmilespodcast on Instagram, TikTok and Facebook....
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Ep. 39 RECAP: Break A Brotha Day! Just in case you missed it the 1st time!
Recap: Dee and Miles discuss why he feels Valentine's is Break-A-Brotha day and give their funny take on what happens to the brain when we're in love. They also talk about some of the old and odd traditions formed around Valentine's day! Send your questions and comments to [email protected]…
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Ep. 38 Bodies on bodies!
Join Dee and Miles as they discuss: *The Best Man: The Final Chapters *Would you date yourself? *Body count-is having multiple partners a bad thing? Questions or comments? Contact Dee and Miles at [email protected] or leave a voice message at 1-(872) 304-5683(LOVE) #love #relationshiptalk...
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Ep. 37 The love hormone and 8 things men do when in love!
Dee and Miles are back with the shenanigans! In this episode, the discussion is about oxytocin, the "love hormone." You know Miles had a field day with that! Dee runs down the list of 8 things men do when in love! Tune in and share some insight and laughs! Questions or comments? Contact Dee and...
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Ep. 36 Can we be less judgy in 2023? Please and thank you! Regaining trust after infidelity.
Dee and Miles work on being non-judgmental and share their opinions on whether it's possible to regain trust after infidelity in a marriage/union. Reach out to Dee and Miles with your questions and comments at [email protected] or leave a voice message at 1-872-304-5683 (LOVE)
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Ep. 35 Do you Listen to Talk or Talk to Listen? (Get ya E.Q. up dawg)!!!!
Dee and Miles are back with a discussion on Internal vs. External Processing. Do you or your partner need to immediately talk things out or do either of you need alone time to gather your thoughts before discussing an issue? How does your E.Q. (Emotional Quotient) tie into your communication…
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Ep. 34 I choose peace! (But don't test me)
Some people want that smoke, but in this episode, Dee is choosing peace. But don't push her! Join Dee and Miles on their nature walk while they discuss the importance of picking your battles. Have a question or comment you'd like to share? Contact Dee and Miles at [email protected] or leave a...
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Ep. 33 Growing [old] Together!
Listen in as Dee and Miles respond to a wild letter from a listener! Tune in for some insight and laughs with Dee and Miles as they share some of the advantages and perks of not only growing old but growing old TOGETHER! Have a question or comment you'd like to share? Contact Dee and Miles at...
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Ep. 32 Beef Part 2???
Do Dee and Miles have beef again? Did Dee have to drop another diss track? Are Dee and Miles set trippin'??? Listen to find out what's going on with these two! For questions and comments send an email to [email protected] or leave a voice message at (872) 304-5683(LOVE). #love #relationships...
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Ep. 31 Is withholding sex a form of infidelity?
Is withholding sex from your partner a form of infidelity? Does marriage equate to lifelong consent? Is withholding sex from your partner a violation of monogamy? Tune in to hear Dee and Miles give their opinions on this controversial topic! Dee and Miles would love to hear your questions and...
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Ep. 30 Shared Meaning-A tool used to grow your friendship and bring back that spark!
Most couples have fun in the beginning of the relationship, but it tends to fade away over the years. Adding Shared Meaning helps create a deeper an more meaningful connection with your partner. Dr. Gottman did the research, now its time to create that Shared Meaning and have a happy and…
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Ep. 29 Where y'all been?? On Tik Tok perhaps???
Listeners wrote in asking where in the heck have Dee and Miles been! Tune in for an update and find out what the duo has up their sleeve for the next episode! Keep the questions and comments coming at [email protected] or leave a voice message at (872) 304-LOVE (5683)
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Ep. 28 A Father's Day Special!
Why does Father's Day get the short end of the stick? Tune in to find out what Miles is taking off the table for Father's Day! It's a doozy! Dee and Miles would love to hear your comments, thoughts and experiences at [email protected] or leave a voice message at (872) 304-LOVE (5683) #love...
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Ep. 27 Want answers? Ask the right questions!
Outside is open y'all and Dee is out here finessing these questions to get better answers from Miles! Dee and Miles discuss the benefits of asking Open Ended Questions along with their Weekly State of The Relationship meeting. Find out how that's working out for them! Wanna comment or share? Dee...
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Ep. 26 The Good Enough Relationship (Social Media be cappin')
Dee and Miles say 'Stop comparing yourselves to The Johnsons'! What works for them may not work for you! They answer a fun listener letter! Send your questions, thoughts and suggestions to [email protected] or leave a voice message at (872) 304-LOVE (5683) IG: @deeandmiles #love…
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Bonus Ep. 5 Hanging with Miles in the morning
"Don't call it a comeback...!" He's back! Miles weighs in on mental health awareness and discusses the business of Cognitive Behavior Therapy and couple's coaching with Dee and Miles. To share your thoughts and feedback, email Miles at [email protected] or leave a message at (872)...
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Ep. 25 Miles uses animal mating calls to initiate sex!
Tune in for the shenanigans and hear Miles' suggestions on creating rituals for initiating sex! Email comments, questions and your stories to [email protected] or leave a voice message at (872) 304-5683(LOVE) #love #relationships #couples #marriage #podcast #sex #animalsounds #deeandmiles...
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Ep. 24 Outside Friendships (Friends! How many of us have them!)
Dee and Miles took a trip to New Orleans, 'ya' heard me!' Is your partner just as important as your friends? Are you treating your partner like you would treat your friend? Tune in and let's talk about it! For questions, comments and suggestions, email Dee and Miles at [email protected] Or...
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Ep.23 The Blame Game
Dee and Miles discuss their issues with blaming your partner, why we do it and how to curb this blaming behavior! Don't know why Miles mentions Monkey Grease??? Miles has new Instagram followers! Send questions, insights and comments to [email protected] or leave a message at (872)...
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Ep. 22 'Tell me what you want without really telling me what you want. I'll go 1st.'
Miles wants to establish nonverbal cues in the bedroom and of course he mentions booty an insane amount of times! Tune in and let Dee and Miles know your verbal vs. nonverbal cues! Email at [email protected] or leave a voice message at (872) 304-5683(LOVE)
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Ep. 21 Don't GASLIGHT me bro!
Dee and Miles discuss the buzzword, GASLIGHTING and it's effects. Miles is triggered into unleashing his PIMP TALK shenanigans! To comment or share your thoughts on the topic, email Dee and Miles at [email protected] or leave a voice message at (872) 304-5683(LOVE) #love #relationships...
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Questions from the listeners!
Miles gets a little shook when a listener wants Dee to reveal a secret about him! Tune in for some interesting and fun questions from the listeners! Dee and Miles would love to hear from you! Email at [email protected] or leave a message at (872) 304-5683 (LOVE).
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Ep. 19 We watched Malcolm and Marie! whew! Master Relationship or Disaster Relationship?
Dee and Miles discuss the film Malcolm and Marie and explore how they went from a Disaster Relationship to working towards trying to Master this thing! Email comments to [email protected] #love #marriage #relationships #talk #emptynesters #relationshiptalk #blacklove #over40 #fun...
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Ep.18 Valentine's Day vs. 'Break-A-Brotha' Day!
Dee and Miles discuss why he feels Valentine's is Break-A-Brotha day and give their funny take on what happens to the brain when we're in love. They also talk about some of the old and odd traditions formed around Valentine's day! #love #marriage #relationships #talk...
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Ep. 17 Marriage journey part 2
Here is part 2 of the Marriage journey! #love #marriage #emptynesters #relationships #talk
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Trailer/Intro
Hey there! Are you ready for real open and honest conversations with Dee and Miles? Need to vent? Do you need a man's/woman's point of view? You've come to the right place! Looking forward to you tuning in weekly! #love #relationshiptalk #marriage #talk #emptynesters
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Ep. 16- 2020 Recap Prt.2 Ep. 9-14
Dee and Miles reflect back on episodes 9-14 of 2020. Stay tuned for more insight and couples interviews for the new year! And yes, Miles is still talking about booty! [email protected], 872-304-5683 (LOVE) #relationshiptalk, #blacklove, #genx, #emptynesters,
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Ep.15 2020 Recap part 1 (Episodes 1-8)
Happy New Year! Dee and Miles ring in the new year with a recap of their first 8 episodes of the podcast! They share a lot of laughter, tools and stories that helped to keep their relationship moving forward. Email Dee and Miles at [email protected] or leave a message at (872) 304-5683 to…
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Bonus Ep.4 Hanging with Miles in the morning- Keeping that relationship train on its tracks!
In this episode, Miles talks about Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and how it helps us deal with our relationships. Miles also opens up about tools that can help keep your relationship train on its tracks! Wanna add your thoughts and comments to this discussion? Email Miles at [email protected]…
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Ep. 14 How to 'F' up a holiday! (Turkey day shenanigans)
Miles felt some kind of way when he came home from golfing and the turkey dinner wasn't ready! Dee and Miles discuss how using their tools saved 2020 turkey day!
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Ep. 13 That Rona Love!
2020 has been a very interesting year! This pandemic has been a real eye opener for a lot of couples. For some, it's been positive and they've learned to work as a team. For other's, not so much. Listen in on how Dee and Miles are handling the pandemic on top of all the major changes they've...
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Hanging with Miles in the morning- 3
Miles sheds more insight into Cognitive Behavior and shares an intimate and traumatic story about how and why his past has definitely affected his present! Share your stories at [email protected] or leave a message at 1-872-304-5683(LOVE) Looking forward to hearing from you!
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SUBMISSION. Does being submissive in the relationship benefit or hurt you? Tune in for our perspective!
Dee and Miles discuss their views vs. @thejeanniemai on the woman taking on a submissive role in the relationship. Who does it benefit? Is Dee willing to submit? We hear from a few of Dee's friends on this topic!
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Sexual Brakes and Accelerators (Gas, Brake, Dip!)
Dee and Miles discuss what they wish they'd know in the beginning of their relationship about the expectation of sex. Science suggests it gets better after the age of 55!
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WAP!!! (YES, we go there)
Insecurities and ego can get in the way of that WAP! #dontwasteyourwap
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So all of a sudden you want a divorce????/ I'm not crazy, its just my Anxiety/Depression...
Why do couples split after being together for so long?/ Dee and Miles share their battles with Anxiety and Depression.
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Hanging with Miles in the morning-2
Miles is talking about core values in regards to relationships with our families, friends and significant others and how we deal with the past, present and future in our relationships.
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80/20 Rule, The 5 Love Languages, 101 ways to earn points (Points system from Dee's POV)!
Dee and Miles discuss the 80/20 rule, how learning the 5 Love Languages works for us and touch on some of the 101 ways to earn points!
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