'Soft-ish Podcast

Episodes

1. 10

   I Lied, I Have One More Thing To Say...

   Short Episode - I haven't recorded since April, life has been moving, bountiful and I have been BUSY! Thank you all for listening to my personal journal for these past 2 1/2 years. I may come back, I may not. I am present. - With Love, Dee :)

   Sep 25, 2026

   7m
2. 9

   I Do Not Care

   That's it, that's the episode! 4 simple words that feel like FREEDOM! Tap in.

   Apr 15, 2026

   10m
3. 8

   It's Time To Spring Clean!

   It's my favorite time of the year, it's Spring! The time where we get to shed layers, clean up a bit, and get rid of things we no longer need. But...are we doing the same internally? Let's discuss.

   Mar 30, 2026

   10m
4. 7

   The Space Between — Why I Went Quiet

   It’s been a minute. (2 months to be exact!) And not just a little minute… like… a real pause. A real step back. And I’ve gone back and forth so many times about how I wanted to come back on this mic… what I wanted to say… how much I wanted to share. But if I am being honest....I only had silence…

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   Mar 23, 2026

   15m
5. 6

   Revisiting the Beginning: Why I Started Softish? (Super Short Episode)

   Hope you all are off to a GREAT 2026! I wanted to revisit why I am here and why you are listening to my voice. To my loyal followers who listen regularly and always give me feedback. THANK YOU AND I LOVE YOU!! Please stay with me and keep listening.

   Jan 26, 2026

   6m
6. 5

   Am I being played with? Spotting Manipulation Early.

   Something been feeling off lately? Does this person seem to have a "representative" that doesn't seem genuine? Sis, he's probably a master manipulator! Listen, it can be hard to spot in the beginning but if you lived through it, you know! Don't fall for the banana in the tailpipe. LOL. You've…

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   Dec 8, 2025

   11m
7. 4

   How To Recognize When Your Friendship Is Unbalanced With a Friend

   This episode touches on how to recognize when your friendship has become unbalanced or you have simply outgrown a friend. There are always signs. Pay attention babes! Drop a comment if you have experienced this before!

   Dec 8, 2025

   15m
8. 3

   Hello December! Please be kind.

   I have a love/hate relationship with the month of December. It has always felt so fake and forced. It is supposed to be a time for joy but for the longest time it has been a time of grief and reminders of those who are no longer here. My birthday is 12/20 so be sure to give a shoutout in the...

   Dec 3, 2025

   15m
9. 2

   Things I Wish People Would've Said To Me During My Grief Journey

   I have come to understand that people say the STRANGEST things when it comes to grief. It's actually pretty odd. They either do not know how to show up or just make the conversation extremely awkward. Here are a few things I compiled of what I wished friends/family would've said to me at the...

   Nov 17, 2025

   12m
10. 1

    When Love Wasn't Love - A Review!

    I don't know about ya'll but I have dated some CHARACTERS in my lifetime. LOL. But each character has taught me something....it taught me to love myself more! This is a review of (3) significant characters (exes) in my life but they all provided insight on what I needed and I helped transform me...

    Nov 10, 2025

    17m
11. Mini Bonus Episode - Why Are You So Damn Resilient?

    What does resilient mean? Resilient: A person/animal able to withstand or recover quickly from difficult conditions. (2) Able to recoil or spring back into shape after bending, stretching or being compressed. OR are we just numb?

    Nov 6, 2025

    13m
12. Ways to Tell People You Are Not Compatible With Them

    It really shouldn't be hard to communicate this, but honestly it can be. I have complied a list of "politically correct" ways to tell someone you are not compatible without being mean. LOL. Sigh.

    Nov 6, 2025

    18m
13. Microaggressions at Work - When Tone Becomes The Topic

    How many of us have dealt with this being black/brown in the workplace? I guarantee we all have a story or a time we can remember it happening. I want to talk about how that played out in my workplace. Let's talk about it! Microaggression - are those small, everyday slights — verbal or nonverbal…

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    Oct 22, 2025

    14m
14. Mini Episode - The Return: Unapologetic Growth After the Storm

    Guess who's back? I know its been literally a little over a year, but I am still here! Transforming a little bit. I want to check in!

    Oct 22, 2025

    10m
15. Gatekeepers

    What is a "gatekeeper?" It's a person or group that controls access to something. Gatekeepers are those individuals or groups who decide who gets access to resources, opportunities and information. I wanted to to talk about gatekeepers and how they harm or can try to hold you back in your career…

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    May 31, 2024

    30m
16. Stop Oversharing! (Part II)

    This topic is so huge so I had to make this episode in two parts! Sheesh. Part II discusses oversharing on social media, work and with friends and how it can actually hurt you. Let me know your thoughts or anything I should've added!

    May 6, 2024

    16m
17. Stop Oversharing!

    Did you know that oversharing is actually a trauma response? Yeah, neither did I. Let's talk about it. I might even make this episode in to two parts because it is SO much to unpack here!

    Apr 30, 2024

    29m
18. It's Time to Spring Clean!

    It's my favorite time of year again, Spring! I have a habit of cleaning ALL the time but this time it hits different. It's time to spring clean...get in there and get rid of the things you don't have use for anymore. That is the essence of spring time. Have you cleaned your "home" yet?

    Apr 22, 2024

    27m
19. There Is Good in Goodbye!

    Goodbye doesn't always have to be associated with bad. The word "goodbye" was used in the 16th century to bid a person farewell and meant "God be with ye." Finding that saying "goodbye" is actually a positive thing when prioritizing your life and learning invaluable lessons.

    Feb 26, 2024

    24m
20. Bonus Episode - People Pleasers

    People Pleaser: a person who consistently strives to please others, often sacrificing their own wants or needs in the process. Are you or were you a people pleaser? I definitely was my entire childhood and adult life. I was shy, timid and afraid of disappointing others if they could not depend on...

    Feb 2, 2024

    10m
21. Blocking Out Distractions

    How many distractions do you have? TONS! We are discussing helpful ways to block out those distractions to continue on your successful journey of personal growth and healing.

    Jan 31, 2024

    21m
22. Finding Balance

    How do you find balance in life? Our lives are already hectic, messy, crazy and busy but it is a must that you learn ways to find time and balance for you. I discuss a few ways to challenge and handle the road to balance according to Psychology Today. Let's chat! If you liked this episode, please...

    Jan 22, 2024

    23m
23. Toxic AF - Family/Friends

    Let's face it, we all have toxic family and friends. It's disappointing when their toxic behaviors can show up at the most inappropriate and hard times in your life. I found some helpful tips while reading a self- help journal from Psychology Today. Let's talk about it.

    Jan 10, 2024

    26m
24. What is Soft-ish?

    Episode #1 - Honest AF + Grieving I have finally arrived with my first published episode. I am being 100% transparent on what my life has been like in the past month. I hope you enjoy listening to this episode and let me know what you think. Be gentle. I am new here! :)

    Jan 3, 2024

    21m