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Someone had to say it....
by Julia Bendis
Julia Bendis is one funny matchmaker, an author, a mother who was tired of doing videos and podcasts about matchmaking. I mean, how many matchmakers and dating coaches can one interview, right? Nothing is off limits, new guests every week and everything is real and funny. Visit matchbyjulia.com for more information on matchmaking, dating and intimacy education. Subscribe on Youtube @matchbyjulia. We will bring you great guests and topics, subscribe so you never miss an episode! Linktree.com/juliabendis for all the links.
Episodes
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78. USA Today bestselling author Meredith Schorr
Heidi spoke with bestselling author Meredith Schorr about her novel RoomMating, Someone Just Like You and so many others. Did you know she is also a paralegal! Her books are known to have sexy, steamy scenes which they were happy to talk about. You'll also hear a little about Heidi's light…
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77. Anthropologist turned Matchmaker Angelika Morris
Princeton-educated (pre-med at Harvard) Angelika Morris describes how she sold her possessions and traveled the world after the untimely death of her father. While in search of life's meaning, she discovered a passion for connecting people, and fueled that drive into a successful matchmaking...
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76. Being LGBTQ+ in the Orthodox world-author Lynne Golodner
Lynn Golodner, the author of many books including Cave of Secrets, and I love you Charlie Brown coming out in two weeks. We aske dher about the history and background inspiration of all her books including the research she does for each one. How she traveled to Scottland to live among the locals...
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75. Authors of novel Life Derailed - AI, writing & publishing
Welcome back to Someone Had to Say it! On today’s episode, we interviewed Authors of novel Life Derailed - Beth Merlin and Danielle Modaferi. We discussed Artificial Intelligence, how they decided to include it in their recent book Life Derailed, all about the publishing world, how to sell a...
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74. Friendship Breakups with author Annie Cathryn
On today's episode, Heidi and Julia spoke with author Annie Cathryn about her new book, The Friendship Breakup, and the real-life story that inspired it, as well as talking about how friends are often closer to us than spouses, the querying process to get a literary agent, and disappointing DNA...
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73. Relationship & Dating Coach Andrea LaRosa
On today’s episode, Julia interviewed a colleague, matchmaker and relationship educator Andrea LaRosa. This is Andrea’s second time on the podcast. She is the force behind Date Smarter Matchmaking, where love meets innovation. Her matchmaking business goes beyond traditional dating services,...
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72. Author Jennifer Wilck of Harlequin books
Welcome back to 8th season of Someone Had to Say it! On this episode, Julia and Heidi spoke with author Jennifer Wilck about her many Harlequin books, why it sucks getting old, representation in films and books, how to combat antisemitism and so much more! To learn more about Jennifer Wilck and...
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71. Christians celebrating Passover, world run by women & arguing w/morons
Welcome back to 8th season of Someone Had to Say it! Heidi and Julia are back with your most scandalous topics: why do Christians celebrate Passover and do Seder? How we love arguing with morons on social media, California torturous winters, women running the world and more! Don't forget to...
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70. Cleaning dead people, Zionists & dating your own kind
On today’s episode Julia and Heidi talked about cleaning dead people before burial, which is something Heidi does through her synagogue, Zionists and why gentile women want to date Jewish men and other stereotypes about the Jewish community. Thank you for listening, subscribe if you haven’t and...
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69. Author Sara Goodman Confino
On today’s episode Julia and Heidi spoke to a best-selling women’s fiction author Sara Goodman Confino. Sara is an English teacher who started writing romance novels and they are a huge success. They talked about writing historical fiction, about life in the 60s, how her stories come to be, why…
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68. Only Fans, selling organs to pay bills, dreams
On today’s episode Julia and Heidi talked about paying their bills with Only Fans account, selling organs on the black market to pay for kid's college, how they both have crazy, vivid dreams, solving problems with violence, the cure to all of our problems - can you guess what it is? S-E-X Heidi...
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67. Polygamy, sex, older men with young women
On today’s episode Julia and Heidi had a fun time talking about what it would be like to have sister wives to help with the everyday life, why Polygamy was eventually outlawed, matchmakers promoting older men dating young women and why all of Eastern Europe leaves babies outside while parents…
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66. Bestselling author Rochelle B. Weinstein
On today’s episode we interview a best-selling author and one of our favorite authors, Rochelle B. Weinstein. Her new book just came out this week called 'We Are Made of Stars'. Her other works include: What you do to me, When we let go, This is not how it ends, What we leave behind, and more. We...
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65. Amidst chaos comes a place for Jewish stories
Please welcome Heidi Shertok back! Julia and Heidi Shertok interviewed Zach Silverman aka Z.E. Silver. Zach is creating content on TikTok and Substack since October 7th educating people on Israeli history, politics, and Jewish peoplehood. They talked about his platform where Jewish writers and...
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64. Kardashian Tesla robots, manifesting, therapy
On this Thanksgiving week episode, we followed up on Julia’s homework of meditating and taking time off to quiet the mind. We talked about ADHD, manifesting and #robots from #Tesla that Kim #Kardashian owns. We even talked about a new cologne that guarantees women will be attracted to you and...
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63. Dr. Gallup - behind the walls of psychiatric hospitals
We talked to Dr. Sara Gallup, psychologist and host of 'Behind the walls of the world's psychiatric hospitals' podcast. Dr. Gallup talked about why she chose her profession, her interest with now defunct and abandoned mental health hospitals as well as the history of those facilities. You can...
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62. Clairvoyant Ishita Bhama - mediumship, spirit world and more
Julia spoke with Ishita Bhama - who is a clairvoyant, healer and medium. She started feeling and seeing auras when she was just a child. We talked about what she does, her courses and workshops for those who want to improve their intuition and clairvoyant abilities, and we dove right into an…
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61. Car racing weekend recap & therapy session attempt
On this episode, we discussed Julia's weekend at the Willow Springs race track where her son competed. Scott attempted to do a therapy session on Julia - find out how that went and much more! We hope you enjoy this episode and as always, please share, rate this podcast and subscribe. Happy...
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60. Therapy & generational trauma with Reesa Morala LMFT
On this episode we spoke with a family and marriage therapist Reesa Morala. Reesa is the owner of Embrace Renewal Therapy & Wellness Collective and host of The Real Family Eats. She is dedicated to being a parenting ally, helping parents create thriving families by prioritizing their…
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59. Cleveland sports & marriage vows, gambling & California...
On today's episode Julia and J had an unexpected guest, Julia's husband Scott... They decided to bring him on to talk about sports which is completely out of Julia's realm, and how being a Cleveland native affects every aspect of their marriage. Cleveland Browns suck and why people continue to...
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58. Election day in America, abortion & women's rights
Today is elecetion day in America! We discussed everything you need to know about this election including abortion, what we believe and who we support and much more! We hope you enjoy this episode and as always, please share, rate this podcast and subscribe. Happy listening. If you have an...
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57. Religion, CA prisoner early release program & World Series games
On this episode Julia and J discussed how messed up the state of California is, their prisoner early release program, religion, fasting on Yom Kippur and World Series games of baseball. We hope you enjoy this episode and as always, please share, rate this podcast and subscribe. Happy listening.…
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56. Manifestation Mentor Nurhan Ora explains how it works
Nurhan Ora, who was a guest in episode 45, is a manifestation mentor helping people unlock their true potential and create a more meaningful life. Nurhan's expertise is in holistic and spiritual approach to personal growth. She guides people to shift their mindset, clear limiting beliefs, and…
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55. Talking over people, mansplaining & American nicknames
We were joined by Heidi Shertok, a novelist and author of Unorthodox Love to talk all about our collective anxiety and the need to take Ativan in order to get through a Shabbat dinner. Julia and J discussed how Americans seem to always have the need to yell and talk over each other, strange...
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54. What is going on with Real Estate in America?
Seriously, what the hell is going on with real estate? New rules, prices and interest rates in real estate? I interviewed my friend and real estate extraordinaire, rated the Top 40 under 40 agents - Bryan Suarez. I wanted to get an understanding of what is going on with real estate in America and...
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53. P. Diddy freak-offs, CVS locking up merchandise, sports
On this episode we talked about how technologically inept we still are, Cleveland sports, Walgreens and CVS locking up all their products and P. Diddy, aka Puff Daddy, aka Sean Combs who is finally in prison. We hope you enjoy this episode and as always, please share and subscribe. For all the...
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52. Addiction alter structure of brain?
On this episode which we should call part 2 of the previous episode (51) - Julia and Jay discussed his addiction and recovery, whether it’s hard for former addicts to talk about it or watch films that depict drug use or alcohol abuse. They talked about rehab facilities and how some are corrupt....
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51. Hailey Welch, influencers, weird sayings
In their 6th season - Part 1 - On this episode Julia is joined by her long time co-host Scott Jacobson, aka Jay. They caught up on what’s been going on in their lives, death, being technologically inept, getting old, Hailey Welch and how easy it is to become an influencer if you’re young and hot....
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50. Astrologer Suzanne Gerber
On this episode Julia interviewed a long time Astrologer (over 40 years in practice) - Suzanne Gerber. Suzanne offers insightful, supportive astrology readings that blend classical astrology, modern psychology, Buddhist teachings, quantum physics plus decades of personal experience (including...
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49. Author Lynda Cohen Loigman
On today’s episode Julia interviewed an acclaimed writer and author of The Matchmaker's Gift, Wartime Sisters, The Two Family House and her brand new book called The Love Elixir of Augusta Stern. Lynda Cohen Loigman goes to great length to research her novels, making sure they're historically...
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48. Unrealistic expectations
On this episode Julia talked about her matchmaking clients, unrealistic criteria, shallow requests and overall how her matchmaking service operates. For more information about matchmaking, to be added to her database or more on numerology, visit matchbyjulia.com
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47. Heidi Shertok, author of Unorthodox Love
Julia interviewed author Heidi Shertok about her novel Unorthodox Love, and her book in the works about a matchmaker. They talked about what her faith means to her, writing books about Orthodox Jewish characters and her battle with breast cancer. Of course they went off topic and ended up…
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46. Numerology & your life path w/ Tom Eckert
Julia Bendis and her husband interviewed @TomEckert about his Numerology teachings, his podcast Numerology GPS for the soul, what the numbers in your birthdate and name say about you, your life path, personality and what you are meant to be in this life! Tom is a Numerology and Dharma expert and...
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45. Mediumship, passed souls & energy healing
On this episode, Julia spoke with a very special mother and daughter duo, Layla and Nurhan from laylaorahealing.com After Julia's father passed away she was searching for a medium to see if she can connect with him. Because his death was so sudden and completely unexpected - she was trying to…
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44. Dating & Autism
On this episode, Julia spoke with Jeremy and Ilana Hamburgh, who are friendship and dating coaches teaching strategies and skills that empower autistic and neurodivergent adults to find community, make friends, start dating, and build relationships. Ilana has over 16 years of experience as a...
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43. Israel being held to a different standard, losing friends after October 7th
On this episode Julia spoke with her old co host and friend Scott Jacobson. They talked about how Israel is always held to a different standard, the friends they lost because of what’s going on there, Julia shared messages she has received from people she thought were friends and where all the...
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42. Tarot reading, good sex & relationship expectations
Julia Bendis talks to Andrea LaRosa about managing expectations in relationships, creating challenges where there shouldn't be any and what good sex for women truly means! Julia also does a Tarot card reading for Andrea. Just in time for Valentine's Day get some insights from these two…
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41. Israel & our mental health w/Dr. Amy Lappen
Israel, PTSD & our collective mental health. Julia speaks with psychotherapist Dr. Lappen about the events of October 7th, the massacre in Israel and how the Jewish people globally are struggling. You can get more info on Dr. Lappen at amylappenphd.com - Don't forget to subscribe so you never…
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40. Are you insecure?
Julia talks about the crazy dating stories and client's criteria. Do you have a crazy dating story you'd like to share? Email it to [email protected] or message on Instagram @matchbyjulia
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39. Men intimidated by accomplished women?
What is it about accomplished and established women that sends men packing? Why are them intimidated by success? And what does it say about you when you refuse to work with a matchmaker, even if it's free... Listener feedback is encouraged. Send your comments and questions to [email protected]
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38. All text, no talk anymore - how dating has changed!
Julia and Lori talk about the lack of communication in life and dating these days, how dating has changed and how young people only text! They discussed what we pass down to our kids through our genes, doing online dating while not fully present, negativity and being jaded. And so much more......
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37. From famous fashion designer to matchmaker w/Lori Mendelsohn
How does one go from being a famous fashion designer appearing on magazine covers to matchmaking? Julia talks to Lori about her intuition, matchmaking, needing to know yourself first prior to looking for a relationship as well as our honest opinion about therapy. They talk about their own…
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36. Matchmaking industry BTS w/expert Andrea LaRosa
Julia and her guest Andrea LaRosa dive into the matchmaking industry, how to date like a PRO, what not to put on your profile and the shallow world of dating today. Andrea is a relationship and dating coach as well an author of a book for men called Get the Girl: Dating the high-value woman...
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35. Empty Nester Dilemma...
It's been a year since the last episode, welcome back. We talk about kids going off to college, new chapter of life, therapy and how does one find their purpose in life?
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34. Amy Marcs - actor, breast cancer survivor, the inspiration behind 'Nice T!ts' show
Society and women themselves put so much pressure on having perfect bodies, so what do you do when you lose your perfect tits to breast cancer? You turn it into an acclaimed comedic theatre production of course! I chatted with Amy Marcs, a voiceover artist, actor and educator who turned a tragedy...
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33. Leeza Steindorf - past trauma, how it affects our lives & why women in power doesn't always equate peace
Leeza Steindorf shares her 20+ year experience, practice & how she heals one person at a time. Leeza is a Forbes Coaches Council executive coach, a Canfield Success Trainer, former Tony Robbins Results Coach and host of the public TV show “Live With Leeza”. Generational trauma, healing, gender...
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32. Sharmin Smith, Presidential hopeful, women's struggle within politics & revenge porn
Sharmin Smith - Presidential candidate, author describes what it's really like for women who decide to run for government office. Her story of overcoming abuse, harassment and what she continues to endure because of her campaign and being a woman. They discussed the Royal Blood theory and its...
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31. Valentine's Day on Clubhouse app: the pressure, the stress is unnecessary!
Replay of Julia's talk on Valentine's Day with Matthew Solomon, Sequoia Stafford and Sharmin Smith on #clubhouse #app Why most of us do not like #ValentinesDay, the pressure to perform, when no means no and why men are still programmed to force #sex on their partner. They discussed everything…
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30. Older women-younger men, marrying the family not just the person - a talk w/ Dr. Jai Kambach
Julia spoke with Dr. Jai about her thoughts on older women dating younger men, international dating scene, and how you marry the entire family and not just the person. What do you think? Listen and let us know your thoughts! To learn more about Dr. Jai, follow her on Instagram @askdrjai and on…
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29. Dating in the #metoo era with coach, author, filmmaker Matthew Solomon
Julia and Scott spoke to Matthew Solomon about his best-selling book 'Man School: Relating with Women in the #metoo era', mansplaining, coaching and his new film 'Sex in Cars' that's out in the film festivals now. For more on his work visit: matthewsolomonconsulting.com
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Julia Bendis is one funny matchmaker, an author, a mother who was tired of doing videos and podcasts about matchmaking. I mean, how many matchmakers and dating coaches can one interview, right? Nothing is off limits, new guests every week and everything is real and funny. Visit matchbyjulia.com for more information on matchmaking, dating and intimacy education. Subscribe on Youtube @matchbyjulia. We will bring you great guests and topics, subscribe so you never miss an episode! Linktree.com/juliabendis for all the links.
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