Spiritually Kinky: Creating the Path to Being Fully Seen, Deeply Felt & Wildly Free

Send us Fan MailMost people think they struggle with trust because they've been hurt by other people.But what if the relationship that's hurting the most is the one you have with yourself?In this episode of Spiritually Kinky, I'm exploring Brené Brown's BRAVING framework through a different lens—not as a tool for deciding whether someone else is trustworthy, but as a roadmap for rebuilding trust with ourselves.Because self-trust isn't usually lost in one dramatic moment.It's lost in the small moments.The boundaries we don't hold.The intuition we ignore.The promises we make to ourselves and never keep.The dreams we continue postponing for "someday."Drawing from my own journey of leaving Corporate America and learning how to consciously create a life that felt good on the inside—not just successful on the outside—I share why so many women struggle to trust themselves and what it actually takes to rebuild that relationship.In this episode we explore:• Why self-trust is more important than confidence• The hidden cost of self-abandonment• Brené Brown's BRAVING framework and how it applies to your relationship with yourself• Why boundaries, integrity, accountability, and self-compassion matter• How trust is rebuilt one choice at a timeIf you've been second-guessing yourself, overthinking every decision, or feeling disconnected from your own inner knowing, this conversation is for you.Because confidence isn't the foundation.Self-trust is.✨ Ready to stop living from survival and start consciously creating a life you love?Join the Spiritually Kinky Community: Click Here! If this episode resonates with you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs the reminder that trust isn't something you find—it's something you build.Until next time...Keep choosing.Keep creating.Keep becoming.Support the show ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call 🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

Send us Fan MailWhat if the thing you've spent your entire life trying to fix... was never broken?In this deeply honest episode, Dustin Wheeler explores one of the most painful and universal fears many people carry in silence:The fear that something is fundamentally wrong with them.The fear that everyone else somehow got the instruction manual for life.The fear that no matter how much healing, growth, achievement, success, or self-improvement they pursue...it never quite feels like enough.Through personal stories, powerful insights, and the lens of conscious creation, Dustin unpacks the hidden identity underneath anxiety, perfectionism, overachievement, loneliness, burnout, and the endless search for "someday."Inside this conversation: Why personal development can accidentally reinforce feelings of inadequacyThe hidden "Not-It Identity" driving many people's livesThe dangerous myth that happiness exists somewhere in the futureWhy money is often a smoke screen for deeper fears around freedom, authority, choice, and visibilityHow survival adaptations become mistaken for personal defectsWhy your creations don't create your worthWhat it means to stop fixing yourself and start remembering yourselfThis episode is for anyone who has ever quietly wondered:"What if I'm the problem?"Because maybe there was never anything wrong with you.Maybe there was only a structure convincing you there was.🎙️ If this episode spoke to you, make sure you follow the podcast, share it with someone you love, and come join us inside the Spiritually Kinky community on Skool where we help high-performing women stop living from survival and start creating from true choice, focus, and flow.Join Here! Support the show ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call 🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

Send us Fan MailWhat if the reason you feel exhausted…is because you keep trying to become one thing?Only healed.Only certain.Only powerful.Only “aligned.”But life doesn’t move in straight lines.Life moves through contradiction.Through longing.Through heartbreak.Through pleasure.Through grief.Through expansion.Through becoming.And maybe the real kink…is learning how to stay open to life without hardening your heart.In this deeply emotional and existential episode of the Spiritually Kinky Podcast, Dustin Wheeler explores The Erotic Tension of Becoming — and the beautiful contradiction of being both the creative force AND the human experience.This is a conversation about what happens when we stop trying to purify ourselves into perfection…and start learning how to stay open to life again.Together, we explore conscious creation, nervous system healing, emotional healing, self-worth, identity transformation, fulfillment, spirituality, heartbreak, pleasure, play, power, and the deeper meaning behind what Spiritually Kinky truly represents.Because maybe the goal was never to become emotionally untouchable.Maybe the goal is becoming available to life again.To love deeply.To create deeply.To laugh deeply.To feel deeply.To risk deeply.To stay connected to yourself while becoming.If you’ve been feeling emotionally exhausted…disconnected from joy…lost somewhere between healing and becoming…or overwhelmed trying to “fix” yourself into worthiness…this episode will meet you there.Because you are not a machine trying to optimize your humanity.You are a living, breathing human being learning how to dance with life again.Because becoming was never meant to feel sterile.It was meant to feel alive.✨ Join the Spiritually Kinky Community on SkoolSupport the show ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call 🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

Send us Fan MailWhat if the reason you feel stuck… isn’t because you’re broken — but because you’ve been taught to worship your emotions as truth?In this deep and emotionally raw episode, Dustin Wheeler explores the dangerous lie behind “feeling aligned” and why so many conscious creators, high achievers, and spiritually-minded people end up trapped waiting to feel ready before taking action.This conversation dives into:nervous system conditioningemotional regulationsurvival mode psychologymanifestation mythsemotional addictionidentity loopspower, choice, focus & flowburnout cyclessuccess vs fulfillmentconscious creationembracing contradiction without abandoning yourselfYou’ll learn why:feelings are real but not always truthemotional familiarity becomes identitythe nervous system mistakes survival for safetypower is the speed between idea and fruitionregulation is not suppressiontrue creation requires both the creator AND the humanThis is one of the deepest Spiritually Kinky episodes yet.If you’ve been feeling exhausted, emotionally overwhelmed, stuck in self-development loops, or waiting to “feel aligned” before moving toward your future… this episode will hit differently.Because maybe the goal isn’t becoming less emotional.Maybe the goal is learning how to stay connected to yourself while emotions move through you.✨ Join the Spiritually Kinky Community for Creators on Skool: Support the show ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call 🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when life hurts… and you still have to choose whether you’re going to stay open?In this episode, Dustin Wheeler shares a deeply honest conversation about grief, emotional resilience, nervous system regulation, and the part of conscious creation nobody really talks about: the lonely part of becoming.Three weeks after saying goodbye to Simba, Dustin explores what it means to continue creating, loving, and moving forward without bypassing pain or collapsing into survival.Inside this conversation: — why difficult emotions are not proof you’re failing — how the comfort cave slowly removes aliveness — the difference between grief and collapse — why the nervous system retreats during painful seasons — how to hold creative tension without abandoning yourself — why emotional mastery is about staying connected to yourself while life hurtsThis episode is for the person who feels emotionally exhausted… the person trying not to shut down… and the person learning how to carry both grief and vision at the same time.You are not broken.Difficult seasons do not disqualify you. They deepen you.🎙️ If this episode spoke to you, make sure you follow the podcast, share it with someone you love, and come join us inside the Spiritually Kinky community for creators where we help people retrain their nervous system for conscious creation instead of survival.Support the show ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call 🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

Send us Fan MailWhy do so many people stay stuck waiting for the “right” decision?Why do high achievers overthink themselves into exhaustion… even when they deeply want more from life?Because most people unconsciously believe there’s a perfect path. A path with all reward and no grief. A life where they never make the wrong choice. A version of expansion that somehow feels completely safe.But that path doesn’t exist.In this episode, Dustin Wheeler dives into the nervous system’s addiction to certainty, why overthinking is often emotional buffering, and how survival identities keep people trapped waiting for guarantees before they move.Inside this conversation: — why uncertainty feels dangerous to the nervous system — how overthinking becomes a form of self-protection — why familiar pain feels safer than unfamiliar possibility — the difference between certainty and self-trust — why creators must learn to move before they feel fully readyThis episode is for the person who feels stuck between safety and expansion… the person waiting for clarity before they fully live… and the person secretly terrified of making the wrong choice.You are not broken.Your nervous system simply learned that predictable felt survivable.But conscious creation begins the moment you stop waiting for guarantees… and start participating in your life.🎙️ If this episode spoke to you, make sure you follow the podcast, share it with someone you love, and come join us inside the Spiritually Kinky Community for Creators on Skool where we help you stop creating from survival… and start creating from true choice.Join here! Support the show ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call 🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com

Send us Fan MailYou didn’t fail.You didn’t lose your progress.And nothing is wrong with you.So why does it feel like you keep going back?In this episode, we explore one of the most misunderstood parts of personal growth:Why change doesn’t always stick — even when it feels real in the moment.You see the pattern.You understand it.You even shift for a moment…and then something pulls you back.Not because you’re weak.Not because you lack discipline.But because your system is still calibrated to what’s familiar.This conversation dives into the deeper layers of:nervous system conditioningemotional patterningidentity reinforcementand why your body resists unfamiliar statesYou’ll begin to understand why going back is part of the process — not a failure of it.And how real change happens when your body, not just your mind, catches up.Join our Spiritually Kinky Community for Creators on Skool here.Ready to go deeper into Conscious Creation? Check out the Spiritually Kinky Academy here: https://spirituallykinky.com/academySupport the show ✨ Book a Conscious Creation Call with me: https://calendly.com/spirituallykinky/conscious-creation-call 🍓 Explore all the Spiritually Kinky magic on the website: www.spirituallykinky.com