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Stop Parenting & Start Coaching

by Nate Crandall and Steve Galley

Parenting is the hardest job and there's not a close second! And, parenting children and teens who are athletes and performers provides a unique set of challenges. It requires parents to approach their relationships and interactions from a new perspective. Join Certified High Performance Coaches™ Nate Crandall & Steve Galley, who with their nearly 60 years of coaching, teaching, and parenting experience, guide you on a fun and enlightening journey in the challenging and exciting world of parenting uh, coaching your teen athlete or performer! The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast will provide you with impactful insights and practical tips to help you to transform your parenting. Thank you for watching and/or listening on YouTube (The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast), Apple Podcasts,

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  1. SURPRISE! Where Are We Going Next?

    If you're a longtime, loyal listener of the show, we wish to thank you for tuning in regularly to learn the what, why, and how to connect better with your teen athlete and performer. After 140+ episodes, most of which consisted of us bantering back and forth about all things parenting, coaching,...

  2. "Stop Parenting & Start Coaching?" What in the World Does That Mean?!

    "Stop Parenting & Start Coaching." Yeah, we know it's a bit provocative. Yes, we know it turns some people away. But for the high achieving parents and their teens that we work with, it makes perfect sense. Give us a few minutes and we'll tell you exactly what it means to us and why it could just...

  3. Blueprint to Bluechip: A Conversation with Erin Sarles & Thomas Roe

    Character architects. Decision makers. Putting the fun and joy back back into playing sports. Yeah, let's do this. In today's special guest episode we talk with Erin Sarles and Thomas Roe, the dynamic duo and cofounders of Bluechip to Blueprint. You're gonna love this one moms and dads! Erin…

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  4. Steve's Big Confession!

    Parents, this episode is personal. Steve makes a big confession that gets right to the heart of coaching, parenting, pride, and the mindset shifts that can either help your teen grow or quietly hold them back. So...let's get right to the truth. Are you helping your teen think for themselves, or…

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  5. PARENTS: How Much is TOO Much?

    What if your teen does not need more pressure, more reminders, or more to-do’s, but better clarity? In this conversation, we fire some easy fastballs down the middle and then unleash a curveball that's gonna make your knees wobble a bit! Let's face what your teen is facing if their schedule is...

  6. ROB GEERTSEN: His Son's High School Transfer Story

    If you’ve ever contemplated a school transfer for your high school son or daughter and asked “Should we stay… or should we go?” you’re not alone! In this episode, we interview Rob Geertsen, a proud and present father and an experienced coach. Rob tells his son Zack's high school transfer…

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  7. PARENTS: Are You Sleeping on This?!

    Here’s the truth: sleep is a system, not a character issue. So if your plan is “hope they choose better,” you’ll keep getting the same results. In this episode, we ask the questions you need to build a practical sleep system with mutual agreements. Using our Question Only Conversation approach…

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  8. PARENTS: Are They Getting Enough?!

    Teen sleep isn’t just “discipline”—it’s biology. We unpack the teen brain, circadian shifts, recovery, and why inconsistent schedules sabotage energy and focus. We also talk school start times and the ripple effects on mental health and performance. Then we translate it into practical routines…

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  9. Are You in the Market for Relationship Insurance?

    In this episode--the third in a series about playing time--we get blunt and right to the truth about the fact that parents struggle to stay neutral. Confirmation bias creeps in and rescuing becomes a habit. What follows is pressure and tension in every conversation or or coach bashing ensues. You...

  10. Duct Tape, Yeah-Buts, & Anchors!!

    Playing time is a pressure cooker because it pokes at every parent trigger: fairness, status, control, fear, and helplessness. And if we’re honest, it can feel personal—even when it isn’t. In today's conversation, we deliver a fantastic "reframe" to help you model a healthy response to...

  11. Are You a "Mild Manager" or "Perturbed Prosecutor?!"

    Newsflash! Life isn’t fair. Yep, we all know it! And high school sports and competition are no exception. "It's not fair!" -- the common refrain heard among parents and players and yes, even coaches! And guess what? You are probably right when you're screaming "that is NOT fair!" But your teen...

  12. Should I Just Do Nothing?!

    Here’s the hard truth: the moment your teen feels evaluated, the conversation gets worse—and so does your influence. In this episode, we help you build emotional safety without lowering standards, and teach you how to stay calm when your teen isn’t. You’ll get simple, real-life ways to respond…

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  13. PARENTS: Are You "The Fixer?"

    Here’s the hard truth: your teen athlete/performer might be hiding struggles because they don’t want your common reaction. You tend to activate full-blown Fixer Mode! This doesn't make you a "bad parent" but there is a better way to approach this situation and the opportunity for growth and...

  14. Are You Making this Same Mistake Other Parents are Making?!

    Wanna know how to pause, find the “why” behind your reaction, and respond like a calm, high-performance coach—not a panicked or crazed bleacher creature?! Stick with us in this episode because we have some burning questions for you along with a few simple preemptive strikes you can launch before...

  15. You Think You Know--BLIND SPOTS!!

    If you’ve ever thought, “Why isn’t what worked in business working at home?” you’re not alone. Today we unpack how successful parents can accidentally bring the wrong playbook into parenting their high achieving teen athletes and performers. You’ll leave with simple, introspective coaching...

  16. PARENTS: Can SPECIALIZATION Be a GOOD Thing?! (Part 4 of 4)

    PARENTS: In Part 4 of 4 of our "specialization series" we tackle the hard questions and attempt to get you thinking about your thinking on WHEN is the time right, if it's right! Exclusive grind with no guardrails? Mmmm, not the way to go. BUT, and this is a big BUT...specialization isn’t...

  17. PARENTS: Take Your Teen's STRENGTHS SNAPSHOT! (Part 3 of 4)

    NOTE: This is Part 3 of 4 in a series on Specialization! You want your teen to succeed—and love the journey while they do it. In this episode, we uncover the secrets behind self-driven performance, fewer injuries, and the joy of playing sports for fun. It all starts with seeing your teen in a…

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  18. 3 Super Dangerous Sport Specialization Myths Parents Believe! Part 2 of 4)

    If you’re like most driven parents of teen athletes, you’ve been told you’ll “miss the boat” if your kid doesn’t specialize early, that early success proves their long-term trajectory, and that more hours always mean more results. In this episode, we unpack and debunk those dangerous myths, show...

  19. Should Your Teen Athlete Specialize or Sample? (Part 1 of 4)

    If you’re like most high-achieving parents, you’ve probably heard, “If your teen doesn’t choose one sport now, they’ll fall behind.” In this episode, we slow that conversation way down and begin a walk through what specialization actually is, where it helps and where it hurts. We know this is a…

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  20. Is the (High Performance) Machine Raging Against You?

    Ever felt trapped in the "machine" of high performance?! Is that machine raging against you?! Today we explore the complexities of high performance in family dynamics, particularly in the context of youth sports with our ambitious, high achieving teen athletes and performers. We will discuss the...

  21. Dr. Andrea D. Mata, PhD is Back for Part 2!

    NOTE: This is Part 2 of our conversation with Andrea. Check out Episode 121 for Part 1! In this episode with Dr. Andrea Mata we knock out gentle parenting and expose it's major flaws while exploring and defining how to parent well in this Gen Z world. Andrea ("Dr. Dre") spells out the simple ways...

  22. "MY BAD" is NOT GOOD--There's a Better Way!

    "Our bad!" We should've recorded this episode years ago! All kidding aside, "my bad" stinks and we'll tell you why in today's episode where we explore the concept of apologies! Particularly focusing on the phrase "my bad" and its implications. We'll discuss the sincerity behind admitting fault…

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  23. PARENTS--Dr. Dre is in the House! (Part 1 of 2)

    NOTE: This is Part 1 of 2 with Andrea. What does it take to break cycles, beat the odds, and build something better—for yourself and your family? In this episode, we sit down with "Dr. Dre" a.k.a. Andrea D. Mata, PhD—clinical psychologist, founder of BrightSpot Families, and unapologetic straight...

  24. PARENTS -- Take Them Down a Notch? Let's NOT!

    If you’ve ever said, “My teen needs to be taken down a notch,” this episode is your wake-up call. We break down why that mindset crushes confidence and how a coaching approach actually develops humility, strength, and real independence. You’ll learn how to use love, challenge, and questions—not...

  25. PARENTS--Is Your Family a Playoff Team?

    Think your teen’s success starts with better training or coaching? Think again. It starts at home. The strongest teen athletes and performers come from families that operate like teams, playoff teams centered around clear communication, shared accountability, and mutual respect. Today we explore...

  26. PARENTS--You CAN Handle the Truth!

    Parents, here’s the hard truth: growth doesn’t happen where honesty is avoided. In Episode 118, we dive deep into why facing the truth—especially the uncomfortable kind—creates the breakthrough moments your teen athlete or performer needs. You’ll quickly learn how to apply our “3 Reframing...

  27. PARENTS--What in the World is Linguistic Intentionality?!

    PARENTS—your words carry weight. If you're coaching a high-achieving teen, "linguistic intentionality" isn't optional—it's essential. In this episode, we break down why how you say something matters just as much as what you say. The way you communicate can build confidence, resilience, and…

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  28. EP 116: Get Radically Honest! LinkedIn Live Replay

    Steve goes on the hot seat!! Sizzle! This week's episode is a replay of a LinkedIn LIVE session where Nate plays himself (a high performance coach) and Steve plays a high achieving parent of a teen athlete or performer. It's time for Steve to "get radically honest!" Hey there Most Valuable…

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  29. EP 115: NICOLE RUNYON: Parenting Teens through the Tech Storm!

    High-achieving parents! You’ve got the ambition, the goals, and the work ethic. But tech doesn’t care. Tech and social media is working against you and your best efforts, pulling your high performing teen away from purpose into danger, anxiety, and crippling identity issues. Nicole Runyon, a...

  30. EP 114: What Differeniates Nate & Steve from Parent Coaches?!

    PARENTS: Please join us at a special LINKEDIN Live event just for you. "RADICALLY HONEST" are the words we'll be wrestling with! 30 minutes, short and sweet, 100% complimentary, and you, a Most Valuable Parent will be one of the stars! Click the link below to register! RADICALLY HONEST, September...

  31. EP 113: PARENTS--Let's Get RADICALLY HONEST!

    PARENTS--Let’s get radical! Let's get honest! We might as well get RADICALLY HONEST!! Traditional parenting often breaks down when your teen starts to compete or perform at a higher level. What they need isn't more control, it's a shift from your best parenting to skilled coaching. We dive into...

  32. EP 112: PARENTS: We'll Fight You Over THIS!

    "Nobody needs coaching" (say it in a bit of a whiny voice for added effect). While that is a common "hot take" out there in the coaching space, we 100% go against the grain on that statement. Those are fightin' words to us! After 55ish combined years of coaching, parenting, and marital (mostly)...

  33. EP 111: PARENTS--We Want You to Get M.A.D.!

    Parenting is the hardest job and there's not a close second. So what if you just decided to focus on getting "M.A.D.?!" We do what we do because we want to be M.A.D. 24/7/365 if at all possible. Tune in to find out why being a M.A.D. parent will help you to help your high performing teen to soar!...

  34. EP 110: PARENTS -- Are You In Alignment?

    Raising high-achieving teens is not about pushing harder—it’s about aligning better. We reveal how you can use coaching strategies that keep your teen motivated, connected, and resilient—even when the inevitable, emotional potholes appear. And teens face dozens of emotional potholes in an average...

  35. EP 109: PARENTS--Are You Confident Enough to Help Your Teens?

    If you’ve ever felt your heart race while watching your teen compete or perform, you’re not alone. We’ve been there—sitting in the stands, palms sweaty, wondering if I’ve done enough to prepare them for this moment. We've also been a little shaky at times before an crucial conversation or...

  36. EP 108: PARENTAL INFLUENCE -- A High Stakes Job!

    What is the most important relationship? We've got our answer. Do you have your answer? We won't really fight you over this, but we absolutely, positively believe it is the parent-teen relationship. And...parenting a teen athlete or performer isn’t just another stage of life—it’s a high-stakes…

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  37. EP 107: PARENTS: Talk Less, Smile More!

    When your high achieving teen starts tuning you out, it’s a warning sign—not a "drive off the cliff" moment. It’s a chance to upgrade your approach. A welcome chance to shift from parenting to coaching. In this commuter-friendly--"I'm too busy to listen to long form podcasts"--conversation, we...

  38. PARENTS: Ditch the Old Playbook!

    PARENTS: Is your playbook outdated? Discover how questions—not commands—empower your teen athlete. You’ve worked hard to give your teen every opportunity for success—but is your parenting actually helping them thrive or holding them back? In today’s episode, we dive into why shifting from...

  39. "Organization on the Go" with Zoya Lehrer of ORGO

    Parents! CHAOS alert! Ever feel like you're drowning in the chaotic shuffling of schedules, calendars, practices, carpools, uniforms, and GPS instructions?! Well, you probably are! Let's throw you a rescue donut (and maybe a chocolate one, too) and help you create some clarity and control. Want…

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  40. Parenting Gold Nuggets: SIMON TIMMS of All In Counseling

    Hey there high achieving moms and dads! Are you ready to fill your parenting and coaching pan with some gold nuggets?! Simon Timms is in the house and he's got 30 years of parenting wisdom to share. As an experienced father, husband, and licensed therapist Simon knows the ins, outs, ups, and…

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  41. RECRUITING made SIMPLE! DAVID HITZ of Athlete Narrative

    Whooa parents! Here's a must listen if you want to simplify the complexities of the recruiting process for your young athlete! David Hitz and Athlete Narrative to your rescue!! Let's get real and learn the importance and best practices of personal branding, your role as a Most Valuable Parent…

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  42. PARENTS: What is YOUR WHY?!

    We’re asking a powerful question: Is "it" optional or essential? What is "it?" Tune it to find out as we explore how the concept of "NECESSITY" can help you lead your teen more effectively, especially if they’re navigating high-stakes performance in sports or the performing arts. You’ll leave…

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  43. PARENTS: How Do You GENERATE Energy?

    If you're serious about high performance—not just for your teen, but for yourself as a parent, this conversation may be your wake-up call. We dive head first into the real reason our communication and connection with our teens often falls flat: low energy. There are some simple and strategic ways...

  44. PARENTS: Let's DEMONSTRATE Courage!

    If you're a high-performing parent trying to raise a high-performing teen, you know this already—it takes courage. Not always the “run-into-the-fire” kind, but the quiet, everyday kind: letting go of control, staying consistent, and having the hard conversations. In our milestone 100th episode…

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  45. EP 99: PARENTS: Are You Willing to Go First?!

    Going first can be scary! But, your teen is watching. If you’ve ever wished your teen would just change their attitude, their habits, or their mindset—this episode flips that desire on its head. We unpack the powerful metaphor of the "first penguin" and challenge you to step up and model the...

  46. PARENTS: Are You Clear or Confused?

    Parents, what is the #1 High Performance Habit? Where does it all start? it’s time to swap confusion for clarity. Ah, clarity! In this powerful episode, we unpack the King of the High Performance Habits: CLARITY. This isn’t just a concept—it’s a parenting and coaching superpower and one you've...

  47. Leadership Lessons with Legendary COACH JIM JOHNSON

    Discover how leadership, love, and trust transformed an autistic teen’s life, and how it can change yours and your most important relationships! Parents, this episode is a Can't Miss, Don't Miss opportunity! Coach Jim Johnson doesn’t just talk about winning, he talks about leading with heart and…

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  48. EP 96: Parents: Cancel This Contract Now!

    Silent contracts filled with expectations usually lead to disappointment and communication breakdowns. This is gonna lead to some "A words!" You know, we could probably name this episode "The A Words!" What "A" words you ask? Agreements (oh yeah, much better!) and Awareness (ok, now we're...

  49. What Scoreboard is Your Teen Athlete Using?!

    Parents, what scoreboard are you using to measure your teen's success—and is it hurting more than helping? And, what scoreboard are they using to measure success—and is it creating momentum or stress in their lives? Do you ever wonder if your teen is chasing results just to keep you happy—or…

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  50. Is Your Teen Wiser Than You Think?

    Parenting teens isn’t about talking more — it’s about asking better. Discover the Question Only Tool today. Every parent wants their teen to succeed. But success doesn’t come from micromanaging — it comes from ownership. In this episode, we show you how to use The Question Only Conversation to...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Parenting is the hardest job and there's not a close second! And, parenting children and teens who are athletes and performers provides a unique set of challenges. It requires parents to approach their relationships and interactions from a new perspective. Join Certified High Performance Coaches™ Nate Crandall & Steve Galley, who with their nearly 60 years of coaching, teaching, and parenting experience, guide you on a fun and enlightening journey in the challenging and exciting world of parenting uh, coaching your teen athlete or performer! The Stop Parenting & Start Coaching Podcast will provide you with impactful insights and practical tips to help you to transform your parenting. Thank you for watching and/or listening on YouTube (The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast), Apple Podcasts,

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Nate Crandall and Steve Galley

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