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Sugar Pussy
by Ellie Rae
What does it take to be a sugar baby? How do we let society shape our opinions and the way we view and talk about sex and what can we do about it? The Sugar Pussy Podcast normalizes taboos and gives you first-hand perspectives from a modern-day sugar baby.
Episodes
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Ep 54: Sugar dating terms and language
What is the bowl? Freestyling? What is a Salt Daddy? Find out in this episode! As Sugar Dating becomes more popular and the community grows, these terms begin to show up and solidify, while it can seem like a lot at first, it is helpful to become familiar with them to interact with others and ask...
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Ep 53: What is somatic coaching? Sexual healing after religious trauma with Rachel Overvoll
What is somatic coaching? What does it involve? Rachel Overvoll uses a holistic, somatic approach to sexual healing and explains the benefits of involving your body rather than strictly your mind. In this episode Ellie and Rachel talk about religious trauma and how difficult and long the process...
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Ep 51: Most common sexual fantasies
Everyone knows what a happy ending massage is, why did I (Ellie) ALWAYS automatically picture and assume it is for cocks and penis owners? Massage is an awesome way to get things to turn sexual, sure, but how about treating yourself, as a vulva owner, to a full massage and orgasm with no other...
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Ep 50: Stories from the vault: first times edition with Andrew
Holy bonkers, how did we get to episode FIFTY? Ellie and Andrew have an enlightening conversation all about first times and crazy experiences becoming sexual beings from religious and conservative upbringings. Sneaky woods sex, accidental anal, buying condoms, YouTube channels, and more! Follow…
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Ep 49: Aftercare: what it is, looks like, and why it is important
Ellie is back from...the dead? Not quite, but almost. This episode is spent discussing the beautiful act of aftercare with Andrew! What is aftercare? How do you do aftercare? Who SHOULD be doing it? All these things and more are talked about and discussed in episode 49 of Sugar Pussy. Follow the...
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Ep 48: How to pleasure a vulva by Ellie and Andrew
How do you finger? How do you eat a girl out? Should you use the alphabet method? So many questions. A woman's pleasure is a mystery, right? No! Ellie and Andrew both tell you tips and what you need to know about giving a woman pleasure in this episode of Sugar Pussy. Step by step, important...
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Ep 47: What to know before fingering
Vulva, clitoris, vagina: basically a wonderland of pleasure and treasure right? But what about for non vulva owners and people who haven't explored a woman's body before? Or, maybe you have but you just kinda yolo'd it? How to touch a woman can be intimidating! This episode covers all of the...
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Ep 46: Sugar baby stories from the vault
Ghosted. Getting yelled at. Chlamydia. Cocaine. Blood...so much blood. And more. The stories Ellie hasn't told yet are here and I hope you're ready because you can't sugar date for 7 years and not get a little messy. Should she be shouting these into the abyss that is the internet? Probably not....
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Ep 45: A Brief History of Pornography
Pizza Delivery for Ellie? What could possibly go wrong? Listen to the 45th episode of Sugar Pussy to find out and learn all about the history of pornography. Ellie talks a lot in this episode. She goes all the way back to 28,000 years ago and looks at the timeline of porn all the way up to what…
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Ep 44: Taking Control of Your Pleasure (Guest, Paloma/awaremoma)
Ellie and Paloma talk about the transition or influence that a lack of sex education and sexual openness growing up can have in creating sexuality professionals, discovering personal pleasure, what blocks many women from orgasming, and how Paloma balances working as a sex coach/sexologist and…
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Ep 43: A Brief History of Exotic Dancing
Another look into the past to arm yourself against haters, understand the sex industry better, learn cool facts, and more! This week the history is all about seductive ways people have moved their bodies in dance throughout history. Ellie also tells about catching up with a Sugar Daddy she never...
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Ep 42: Discovering your bodies pleasure map
Ellie describes exactly what she means by "pleasure body map" and why it is helpful to us humans. She also digresses with the worlds longest penis, erotic museums, and sugar daddy sponsored travel...but back to the important stuff: listen to her map her OWN body for the first time in this episode...
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Ep 41: A Brief History of Sex Work
Ellie goes back in time, all the way back to 3000BC to be specific and goes through the timeline of Prostitution and all its ups and downs. From cutting women's noses off to sex boxes, things get interesting! Also, Ellie did what on their road trip? Find out all this in the first episode of…
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Ep 40: BOOTY MASSAGES AND BUTT PLUGS; ANAL 101-102 (WITH @SEXEDWITHTIM)
Wow, what a season! It is so exciting to reach another milestone and celebrate with all things anal sex *gasp*. Tim comes through and not only gives amazing tips for pleasuring our butts but also shares a story that will make you a little less worried about any mishaps you could have exploring…
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Ep 39: "CHAOTICALLY GAY" - COMING OUT, DATING, SEX, AND SUGARING! (WITH TIM, FROM SEX ED WITH TIM!)
Ohhhhh HONEY. Ellie has a new bff and he is fabulous, for real. He was SO generous with his time not only did he talk for 60 minutes about coming out (his story, advice, and resources), entering the gay dating scene, sex and sexual expectations, AND his experience as an escort and sugar baby but…
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Ep 38: SHIBARI ROPE BONDAGE/WESTERN ROPE BONDAGE? YES PLEASE!
Ropes turn me on; tie me up Daddy! Shibari, Western Rope Bondage, Cuckolding, and Ellie's sugaring life all make an appearance in this weeks episode of Sugar Pussy. What is Shibari and where did it come from? Can I be tied up and not have to have sex? Is bondage good for you? What are the…
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Ep 37: PLEASING YOUR PARTNER (WITH JEFF ABRAHAM, PROMESCENT)
Older and wiser advice for the podcast? Ellie gets stories and advice and a great conversation from Jeff Abraham, the CEO of Promescent. Why did they expand and create women's pleasure gels and products? Is male delay spray for men or women's pleasure? Has he ever been a Sugar Daddy (yep, she...
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Ep 36: HOW TO GIVE A BLOWJOB BY ELLIE RAE
As promised, the obvious part 2 after episode 33! This one doesn't just explain how to work a cock, however, it also talks about how to survive having a gag reflex, something even Ellie deals with (so of course, it's personal). What is facefucking and how do you survive it? There are two ways to...
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Ep 35: HOW TO GO ON YOUR FIRST EVER SUGAR DATE
Only Fans is doing WHAT?! Wow, what dumbasses. Ellie theorizes where all the Only Fans creators are going to go with the announcement that no porn is allowed and sex workers and content creators are undercut so unfairly AGAIN. Also, what are some personality traits needed as a sugar baby? What…
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Ep 34: KINK DEEPDIVE: HEALTHY AND SAFE SADISM AND MASOCHISM IN BED
Ellie and Andrew discuss sadism and masochism; what they are, how they are practiced, how to enjoy these desires safely, what to look out for in a BDSM partner, and tips to a fun and safe scene. Why do people like watching their partner experience pain? Is it wrong to be a sadist? Is it wrong to…
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Ep 33: HOW TO GIVE A HANDJOB BY ELLIE RAE
Okay, Blossoms, this is probably the most explicit episode yet cause how else do you explain how to give a handjob? Can you count how many times Ellie says "cock" in this one or do you get lost too? But this had to happen because Ellie wishes she had this guide a few years ago so why not create...
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Ep 32: HOW TO PROPERLY CARE FOR YOUR SEX TOYS (WITH DINA FROM THE BIGGER O)
Oh YES YES YES! Dina, the founder of The Bigger O comes on to talk about her favorite sex toys, how to properly care for and store your sex toys (all sorts of advice!), and answers the question: do kegel balls actually work? Oh and...Ellie talks more butt stuff. Go check out the shop!...
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Ep 31: HOW TO TALK TO SUGAR DADDIES
She is alive and back with episode 31! How do you start conversations? Take those first steps? Deciding to be a Sugar Baby is hard and the first time around is intimidating as hell. Ellie reads off a real conversation and gives insight into how to manage those early conversations as well as what...
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Ep 30: STARTING A BDSM DYNAMIC IN A RELATIONSHIP (WITH, ANGIE/BUBBLEGUM EARS)
Ellie gets all the details about Angie's amazing Ear making business, Bubblegum Ears! These referenced, legendary ears have quickly become a staple in Ellie's life and in this episode hear about the business as well as how to add BDSM into a relationship, is 50 Shades of Grey a healthy...
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Ep 29: HOW TO TALK ABOUT SEX WORK EXPERIENCE WITH OTHERS AND BAD HOOKUPS (WITH BRIANNA) PT 2
How do you tell someone you like that you're a sex worker? When is it appropriate to tell them? What if they reject you afterward? Brianna tackles these concerns and discusses with Ellie how to approach and have these conversations with a new flame, or anyone, really. Finally, Brianna and Ellie...
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Ep 28: TOO OLD TO GET A SUGAR DADDY? BUTT STUFF, SAFE SUBMISSION, AND MONOGAMY (WITH, BRIANNA) PT 1
Wait...what did Ellie do last weekend?! Ellie talks butt stuff, sugar dating, healthy relationships, monogamy, and safe submission this week with Brianna Endrina, a Love, Sex, and Relationship Coach. Here this part one of the interview and tune in next week for part two, where Ellie and Brianna...
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Ep 27: HAVING A HEALTHY POLY RELATIONSHIP (WITH, LEX)
Ellie committed a Sugar Dating Felony...but who knows what could happen still. Lex, who runs the IG page @sexisnotadirtyword is on to talk about sex education, working in a sex shop, sex work, and her poly relationship. Because every poly situation is different, hear how hers works, why it works,...
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Ep 26: BDSM PET PLAY: WHAT IS IT AND WHY DO PEOPLE LIKE IT?
Ellie has some life updates for you! Where is she at, does she have a sugar daddy right now, and what is to come on the podcast? Then she deep-dives into pet play. What is it? How do people engage in it? What is Ellie's personal experience with it? Why do people like it? Pet play comes with a...
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Ep 25: MIXING IT UP: MASTURBATION MAY
Ellie goes through all her tips for masturbating since it should be celebrated in excess this month. With vibes, without vibes, with partner(s), or without. Oh my May, what a month for some serious self-love! Follow Ellie on IG: @elliesugarrae Follow the podcast on IG: @sugarpuspod Follow the...
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Ep 24: SUGAR DATING, EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENTS, AND KINK DEEPDIVE: CHOKING
Ellie talks about different approaches to Sugar Dating: staying unattached or treating it like a traditional relationship. Emotional attachments can happen and are something to be prepared for no matter your approach to Sugar Dating. Through the years as a Sugar Baby Ellie has heard stories and...
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Ep 23: OUR DEAR LITTLE CLIT: DISCUSSIONS WITH THE SWEETNESS OF VENUS AUTHOR, SARAH CHADWICK
Ellie chats with the beautiful and amazing Sarah Chadwick, author of The Sweetness of Venus about everything from how understanding history gives people the power to change today's narrative, how sex work and feminism might merge, the influence of porn upon our sex lives, and more. This episode...
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Ep 22: SEX AND SEXUALITY AFTER GASTRIC SLEEVE SURGERY (WITH GUEST, LORRAINE)
Ellie has Lorraine BACK (Ep 4!) and this time we hear from her post-surgery. How has sex and her sexuality changed through her journey, is she happy with her decision, what is self-love, did the gastric sleeve surgery impact sex drive and so much more. Ellie talks about sex with her NEW vibrator...
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Ep 21: SUGAR BABY FINANCES AND NEGOTIATING ALLOWANCE
Ellie finally dives into the important topic of money as a sugar baby. From knowing how much is the right allowance to ask for to the worry about what to do with so much cash, Ellie covers questions any new sugar baby might have.
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Ep 20: OH NO, I'VE F*CKED TOO MANY TO COUNT
Do you keep a physical list of all the people you sleep with? Ellie has never cared to keep track, and now, she is past the point of no return and finds it impossible to remember everyone no matter how hard she tries. But it's okay because no number would be the "right" number, anyway. See how…
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Ep 19: OBEDIENCE APP, CLIMBING...ON SOME D*CK, AND THAT TIME A SUGAR DADDY TOOK ME ON A CRUISE
Long title, a short episode...but, so many fun topics. Ellie gets kinky this week-- who knew a hookup could serve so many purposes? Pleasure, satisfying a daddy dom, and content for an Only Fans. Ellie and Andrew have started using that Obedience app she mentioned last week, she found a new hard...
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Ep 18: LONG-DISTANCE BDSM, HAVING THE SAFE-SEX TALK WITH SUGAR DADDIES, AND PLATONIC SUGAR DADDIES
Ellie gets personal in this episode updating on her ddlg relationship with Andrew, how finding a new Sugar Daddy has gone these past two weeks, not-so-fun stories about sex, how to address safe-sex with Sugar Daddies, and finally if it is possible to have a platonic sugar arrangement.
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Ep 17: LEARNING HOW TO ORGASM AND HOW MUCH MONEY TO ASK FOR AS A SUGAR BABY (WITH, JENNEE)
Ellie is joined by Jennee, a former cam girl, and current sugar baby. They chat about learning how to orgasm, becoming a sugar baby, getting into camming, the reality of sending nudes, and how uncomfy pants are. For real tho! Listen and hear about all this and more!
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Ep 16: SUGAR DADDIES AS MENTORS
Ellie, the collard submissive, attempts to be a switch. How does it go? Well, the timing could have been better. Also, get her experiences with Sugar Daddies and the knowledge they have to offer.
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Ep 15: WAS MY ABSTINENCE BASED SEX ED EFFECTIVE?
It's sex talk week!!! Ellie finally reveals her "adventure weekend" with her mom to learn how god teaches us to view and have sex. Ten years later, Ellie still has a passionate response to this stuff...so buckle up for a rant of an episode. But seriously, you don't want to miss out because the...
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Ep 14: STRIPPING AND RUNNING AN ONLY FANS (MEET, AUBREY STARK)
She is a mom, an Only Fans badass, and a stripper. Hear about what her life is like and how she got here. Follow Aubrey on Instagram: @temptressaubrey4.0
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Ep 13: HOW TO LAND YOUR FIRST SUGAR DADDY
So Ellie tried to do what with Andrew's dick? Oh, and she gives you the rundown as far as getting your first sugar daddy plus she answers the all-time most elusive question: is female-ejaculate pee? Listen to find out and become comfier with yourself at Ellie's expense. You guys, if you want to...
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Ep 12: SHOULD I TELL MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY THAT I AM A SUGAR BABY?!
Should I tell my friends I'm a sugar baby? Should I tell my family I'm a sugar baby? Ellie talks about these questions as they might have come up over the holiday season. Also, get tips on how to be a supportive person in the life of someone else who sugar dates and learn how positive the…
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Ep 11: KINK, FANTASY, HOW TO BE A GOOD DOM, AND HEALTHY BDSM DYNAMICS (WITH GUEST, ANDREW)
Threesomes get awkward, Ellie's boyfriend did porn (WAIT, WHAT? YEAH, MY REACTION TOO), how porn can impact men's self-image, how to be a good dom, and what healthy BDSM dynamics require. Also, get some great tips like how to master seduction and have better sex. Part two with Ellie's boyfriend...
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Ep 10: WAIT...MY BOYFRIEND WAS A SUGAR DADDY?! SUGAR AND ETHICAL NON-MONOGAMY (WITH GUEST, ANDREW)
Ellie has her boyfriend, Andrew, on to discuss their non-monogamous relationship and sugar dating; how it is within their relationship, and his (surprising) past experience with it. Find out what the future of Sugar Pussy has to offer and what next week's episode will be all about!
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Ep 09: DATING A SUGAR BABY AND A BDSM SECRET SOCIETY?! (WITH GUEST, JT)
Happy Thanksgiving Sugar Blossoms! This episode skips an intro getting straight to a conversation Ellie had with her friend's fascinating boyfriend, JT. She asks him about going from growing up in a conservative small town to dating a sugar baby and getting involved with a secret BDSM society. He...
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Ep 08: WHY DO PEOPLE SUGAR DATE?
Find out what truly life-changing thing was introduced to Ellie recently. This episode is all about considering the less obvious elements of sugar dating and why people like it beyond expensive trips and money for fancy clothes. Are sugar relationships real relationships or is that just a way to...
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Ep 07: ONLINE DATING: TINDER AND SEEKING ARRANGEMENTS
Wait, you can use "psychology" and "Tinder" in the same sentence? Yep, Ellie talks about Tinder and online dating in this episode as well as quenching that curiosity about what Seeking Arrangements looks like for users. How to sign up for Seeking Arrangements, create your profile, what to expect...
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Ep 06: SUGAR RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS AND CONSENT
Ellie finally tells about her sexcapades with Bunny, some of the psychology behind why we like being called nasty things in bed (erotic humiliation), what the sexual side of sugar relationships is like, and consent in an arrangement.
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Ep 05: THE WORST OF SUGAR DATING AND MY BAD EXPERIENCES ***TRIGGER WARNING***
Ellie talks about sexual assault both inside of sugar dating and sexual trauma from past relationships. She discusses ways to avoid bad experiences and how she has coped with what has happened to her. This episode talks about details of sexual assault and could be triggering for some people…
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Ep 04: BODY IMAGE AND WIERD ORGASMS??? (WITH GUEST, LORRAINE)
Masturbation. Body image. Most insane sex location. Wierd orgasms. Ellie has her friend, Lorraine on the show to talk about how sex plays a role in how we view ourselves and where those opinions come from.
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What does it take to be a sugar baby? How do we let society shape our opinions and the way we view and talk about sex and what can we do about it? The Sugar Pussy Podcast normalizes taboos and gives you first-hand perspectives from a modern-day sugar baby.
HOSTED BY
Ellie Rae
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What does it take to be a sugar baby? How do we let society shape our opinions and the way we view and talk about sex and what can we do about it? The Sugar Pussy Podcast normalizes taboos and gives you first-hand perspectives from a modern-day sugar baby.
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