SW & LOVE

Even in relationships where SW itself isn't a source of tension, any demanding job can affect a couple's relationship. From mismatched schedules to burnout to low libido, therapist Liz Afton returns to help unpack some common obstacles that even the healthiest couples can face.Mentioned in the episode: My article for Rewire: SWers Remember Victims of Gilgo Beach Killer: ‘Our Sisters’ | My e-book about media bias against SWers | My film | My Substack | Email Liz Afton: [email protected] events: 5/31: SWer Sunday service & dinner at Judson Memorial Church (Manhattan) | 6/14: SWer Open Mic (Brooklyn), June 17: SWer caravan heading to Long Island to witness Rex Heuermann's sentencing in solidarity with the eight women he confessed to killing. Contact me for more. Get full access to Outlaw Media at outlawmediacompany.substack.com/subscribe

Trixxie Morella is a multimedia artist, spicy worker, and community advocate. In this episode, they reflect on a traumatic relationship where their spicy work was a factor. What happened to Trixxie is terrible. And also, in hearing them tell their story, we have the opportunity to bear witness to a person with a tremendous spirit.This episode contains discussions of pregnancy, abortion, sexual assault, and anti-trans hate.Click here for info about this week's SWer Open Mic in Brooklyn, featuring Trixxie Morella (4/8/26)Click here to stream Trixxie's musicSubscribe to my newsletter here Get full access to Outlaw Media at outlawmediacompany.substack.com/subscribe

Jessie is a circus performer and aerial artist. Her story is a reminder that no woman or femme is ever safe from the dangers of being labeled "whore" (derogatory). This episode is dedicated to anyone who's experienced whore-shaming abuse, especially if you're an actual sex worker. No one deserves that.My new documentary about the love lives of sex workers will screen in Brooklyn on March 29. Click here to RSVP.Click here to subscribe to my Substack (free). Get full access to Outlaw Media at outlawmediacompany.substack.com/subscribe

NYC-based SWer, Celeste, talks about love, moms, and the time they dated a cop. Click here for all Celeste's links.Through 3/15/26, Beloved, my documentary about the love lives of SWers is available to stream, as part of the Lift-Off Film Festival! Tickets are $12, and your purchase gives you access to all the films in Beloved's category. You’ll also be able to vote for your favorite film--enough votes could help Beloved earn a live screening in England :)CLICK HERE TO ACCESS BELOVEDCLICK HERE TO WATCH THE TRAILER Get full access to Outlaw Media at outlawmediacompany.substack.com/subscribe

In Part 1, therapist Liz Afton walks us through some relationship "red flags" that SWers can be on the lookout for. And if you're not a SWer, you can still be on the lookout for these warning signs that someone's not treating you well. Part 2 will focus more on green flags (yay).**Big news! My new film, Beloved, has been accepted into the Berlin Lift Off Festival and is available for streaming (and audience voting!) until March 15, 2026. Click here to watch! Mentioned in this episode:- Liz Afton: [email protected] Manhattan Alternative- Kintsugi Therapist CollectiveFind me on Substack, Instagram, or YouTube Get full access to Outlaw Media at outlawmediacompany.substack.com/subscribe

New season starts on Valentine's Day!- Beloved, my new film about the love lives of SWers- Podcast theme music: Penelope, written and performed by yours truly Get full access to Outlaw Media at outlawmediacompany.substack.com/subscribe