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Swapping Secrets
by Our Secret Spot
Swapping Secrets invites you behind closed doors—into a world of open-minded love, queer glances, and unapologetic connection. Hosted by Jess and Lawrence, this podcast unveils juicy real-life stories, fierce-first tips, and playful provocations from inside the Our Secret Spot community. Whether you’re lifestyle-curious or full-time kinky, expect sharp insights, consent-driven conversations, and the kind of laughter that lasts long after the microphone turns off. Released biweekly. Tune in, subscribe, and never miss a secret.
Episodes
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Two Truths & a Lie Gets Messy with Anna, Conny & Ilona
Get your Halloween tickets 🎃 (Want both nights? Have 20% off!) Night 1: https://ap1.hubs.ly/H01rw9z0 Night 2: https://ap1.hubs.ly/H01rwc_0 Jess and Lawrence play Two Truths and a Lie with OSS staff Anna, Conny and Ilona. Everyone’s brought a few stories, someone’s lying, and there are water guns...
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Sexiest Moments of the Year - Part 2 of Red Flags and Wild Stories
See all the show notes: https://oursecretspot.com.au/sexiest-moments-of-the-year-part-2/ The Sexiest Moments of the Year aren't done yet. Part 2 digs back into another year of Swapping Secrets with Jess, Lawrence and some familiar guests for the conversations, stories and complete derailments…
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1 Year of Swapping Secrets: Our Best, Wildest & Funniest Moments (PART 1)
Swapping Secrets is officially one year old, and apparently the best way to celebrate is to drag some of our funniest, filthiest, smartest and most chaotic moments back into the light. Jess and Lawrence revisit the clips they still can’t forget, alongside some brilliant moments from the guests…
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Behind the Fantasy of OnlyFans with Kim Cums
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Lawrence sits down with adult entertainer and content creator Kim Cums to find out what life behind OnlyFans and the adult entertainment industry actually looks like. Kim’s path into the industry wasn’t exactly conventional. After studying archaeology and...
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Reddit’s Wildest Bisexual Dilemmas (with By the Bi)
Reddit has questions about bisexuality… and some of them are MESSY. With Jess away on maternity leave, Lawrence is joined by returning guests Bradford and Angela from By the Bi to tackle Reddit’s wildest bisexual dilemmas. From women refusing to date bisexual men and the double standards...
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Body Hacks for Better Sex with Miranda Cheng
What if better intimacy had less to do with technique and more to do with understanding your body? In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Miranda Cheng, founder of We The Femme and a practitioner in pelvic care and holistic sexuality. Together, they explore how the...
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Movies & TV Shows That Were Queer Before Their Time
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess, Lawrence and producer Gabe revisit the movies, television shows and characters that quietly shaped how they understood queerness, gender, relationships and acceptance. They discuss the difference between meaningful representation and tokenism, why some…
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Queer Relationships Beyond the Stereotypes w/ Daniel Cooley
For Pride Month, we’re diving into the realities of modern queer relationships with elite gay matchmaker and relationship expert Daniel Cooley. From dating app burnout and modern matchmaking to monogamy, non-monogamy, communication, and the biggest misconceptions people have about LGBTQIA+...
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Why Your Sex Life Isn’t Working (And How To Fix It) with Alice Child
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with renowned sexologist and relationship counsellor Alice Child to answer one of the biggest questions facing modern couples: Why does intimacy break down, even in loving relationships? From mismatched libidos and emotional labour…
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Erotic Power, Shame & Kink w/ Eva Oh
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with internationally recognised dominatrix, sex educator, and somatic practitioner Eva Oh for one of the deepest and most psychologically fascinating conversations the podcast has explored yet. From power dynamics and long-term...
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Reddit’s Wildest Open Relationship Stories
Jess and Lawrence are diving into Reddit’s wildest open relationship stories — and things get messy fast. From ethical non-monogamy dating struggles and first-time anxiety to sex club boundaries, changing rules mid-play, safer sex debates and questionable couple behaviour, this episode unpacks…
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People, Policy and Pleasure: Deputy Lord Mayor Jess Miller explains how Sydney built safer adult spaces
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, we explore people, policy and pleasure podcast conversations with Deputy Lord Mayor Jess Miller, unpacking the hidden history of sex-on-premises venues in Sydney and how thoughtful legislation has shaped safer adult communities. From the legacy of the…
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Sex Stigma and Smart Choices with Dr. Leigh Barlow
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Dr. Leigh Barlow for a candid conversation about sex stigma, sexual health, STI testing, condoms, herpes, BV, and the choices that help people stay safe without shame. Together, they unpack why stigma around sex still exists,...
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Red Flags We Ignore Because We’re Horny
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence unpack one of the most relatable (and chaotic) parts of modern relationships — red flags in dating and why we ignore them when attraction takes over. We’ve all been there… The red flags are obvious, but the chemistry is too strong to walk…
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Dungeon Anal, Orgy Showers and Schoolgirl Chaos | Wild Swingers Club Stories
🔥 Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! In this exclusive, sneak-peek clip from our new segment, Raunchy Recaps, Jess and Lawrence share some of the wildest swingers club stories from inside Our Secret Spot. From dungeon encounters and orgy room chaos to hilarious...
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What Happens at a Women-Only Sex Party? (w/ Genevieve LeJeune)
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with Genevieve LeJeune, founder of Skirt Club — the world’s largest women-only community for bisexual and bi-curious women. With over 27,000 members worldwide, Skirt Club has created a safe, empowering environment where women can...
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Did Swinging Ruin Our Relationship?
In Part 2 of this deep-dive episode, Jess and Lawrence answer real questions from the OSS community about boundaries, consent, rule-breaking, and what really happens when things shift mid-play. Plus, voice messages and video questions from our extended community — including familiar faces from…
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Did Our Sexual Desires Mess Us Up?
What happens when curiosity turns into lived experience — and desire reshapes your identity, relationships, and sense of self? In Part 1 of this raw and reflective episode, Jess and Lawrence unpack how sexual desire can both liberate and destabilise. From early curiosity and boundary-blurring...
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The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance – Why Sex Gets Better With Age w/ Susan Bratton (BetterLover)
Midlife used to be framed as the beginning of the sexual slow-down. Less desire. Less energy. Less spark. But what if that story is completely wrong? In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by globally renowned intimacy expert Susan Bratton to unpack what she calls The…
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The Sexiest thing YOU can do is Set a Boundary
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Bradford and Angela from the By The By Podcast to unpack the emotional mechanics of jealousy, envy, fear of missing out, and the boundaries that keep open relationships healthy, sexy, and sustainable. Together, they explore why...
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Naughty Christmas Special: Listener Gifts, Wild Stories and OSS Holiday Chaos
Naughty Christmas swinger stories are the unofficial love language of the holidays — and OSS has plenty to unwrap. In this extra-spicy Christmas special, Jess and Lawrence dive headfirst into naughty Christmas swinger stories sent in by the community, opening listener gifts, reading filthy...
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Pleasure Without Permission with Rosie Rees
Self-pleasure has quietly shifted from a whispered taboo to a full-blown cultural reclamation — and few people have championed that transformation more powerfully than Rosie Rees. In this episode, Jess and Lawrence dive deep into the world of empowered intimacy, slow pleasure, mindful…
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Reading the Signals — When Consent Isn’t Clear-Cut
Consent is easy when it’s a bright, enthusiastic “yes.” But what about the murky moments — the mixed signals, the non-verbal cues, the awkward pauses, or the moments you only realise after the fact that something felt… off? In this episode, Lawrence, and our guest Prue, dive into the real-world...
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Swinging Parents: Tackling Stigma and Scheduling Sex
Jess and Lawrence pull back the curtain on one of the most real, raw challenges in the lifestyle: how to balance parenting with swinging, non-monogamy, and staying sexy. From babysitters to bedtime, stigma to scheduling — this episode is a candid look at the juggling act of raising toddlers while...
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6 Health and Safety Secrets for Non-Monogamy
Get your 👉 Safer Sex Checklist Jess and Lawrence are diving into the practical side of love, lust, and lifestyle — how to stay safe, healthy, and confident in open and non-monogamous relationships. From STI checks to mental health, condoms to communication, this episode busts myths and flips...
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No Rules, Just Love: Redefining Relationships with Lucy Banks (Part 2)
No Rules, Just Love: Redefining Relationships with Lucy Banks (Part 2) Jess and Lawrence are back with Part 2 of the New Relationship Revolution, joined by special guest Lucy Banks — PR powerhouse, CEO of the Australian Adult Industry Choice Awards, and marketing lead for Sxhibition. This episode...
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No Rules, Just Love: The New Relationship Revolution (Part 1)
Jess and Lawrence return with Part 1 of a two-part special exploring the new relationship revolution. In this episode, they dive into how younger generations are rethinking love, intimacy, and commitment — moving beyond traditional models and embracing non-traditional paths like swinging,...
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First-Time Stories, Sexy Starters and Club Newbie Tips
Welcome to the brand-new Swapping Secrets podcast — the revamped show from inside Our Secret Spot. Jess and Lawrence are back with cameras, lights, and plenty of cheeky stories to kick off the new era. In this episode, we dive into first time swingers club stories — the funny, the awkward, and…
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OSS Presents: Our Wildest Secrets and Stories (so far)
It’s not Episode 101 just yet, but we couldn’t resist bringing you a mid-season treat — the juiciest, funniest, and most outrageous moments from the pod so far. 🔥 In this special “Best Of” edition, Jess and Lawrence revisit the stories that had us laughing, blushing, and fanning ourselves, plus…
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OSS Presents: Seductive Stories & Erotic Novels — With Natasha Rose
It’s not Episode 101 (yet), but we’re keeping your earbuds warm with a juicy mid-season treat. 💦 In this special in-between-isode, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Our Secret Spot’s own literary temptress — Natasha Rose — to talk all things erotica, imagination, and the powerful role of...
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100. 100th Episode Celebration!
We’ve officially hit the big 1-0-0! The OSS 100th episode is a celebration of you – our amazing community of listeners, guests, and sexy supporters. To mark the occasion, we asked you to send in your most memorable podcast moments, listener stories, voicemails, DMs, and love notes from the past…
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99.5 Some Exciting News!
We’re coming up on 100 episodes—and we want you to be part of the celebration! In this episode, Jess and Lawrence share some exciting news about what’s next for the podcast. We’re calling on our listeners to send in their favourite podcast moments—whether it’s a wild story, a laugh-out-loud…
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99. Fingered at the F***ing Bar (Juiciest June Unleashed)
Juiciest June swingers club stories don’t get much wilder than this. In this episode, Jess and Lawrence share everything that went down at Our Secret Spot in June—starting with a woman being fingered at the bar, right in front of everyone, before dragging her lucky companion upstairs to finish…
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98: Threesomes, Orgies & First-Timer Feels (feat. Ben & Paige)
In episode 98: Threesomes, Orgies & First-Timer Feels (feat. Ben & Paige), Jess and Lawrence chat with OSS newbies Ben and Paige, a couple who’ve jumped headfirst into the swinging lifestyle. With just two visits to the club under their belts, they’ve already experienced a lot – from spontaneous...
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97: Open Legs, Open Invitation: A Newbie Night Tale (Moaning May 2025),
In Episode 97: Open Legs, Open Invitation: A Newbie Night Tale (Moaning May 2025), Jess and Lawrence return to share one of the most jaw-dropping OSS stories yet—a newbie night sex story about a cock-hungry guest who arrived with one goal: to say yes to everything. No hesitation, no boundaries,...
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96. From Curious to Climax: John & Jane Get Dirty
In From Curious to Climax: John & Jane Get Dirty, we read a listener-submitted story from a couple’s very first visit to Our Secret Spot — and wow, they didn’t waste any time getting into the action. Prue narrates their smutty tale featuring one lucky lady, two men, and a whole lot of first-time...
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95. Do You Love Threesomes (March Madness & A** Licking April 2025)
In this episode, Jess and Lawrence dive headfirst into the deliciously chaotic world of threesomes. From spontaneous trios to planned ménage-a-trois mayhem, they recount some of the wildest stories from March and April—because apparently, things come in threes this season. Tune in for laughs,...
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94. Lessons on Love and Life from a Non-Monagamist (feat. Lauren Hayes)
In this episode of Our Secret Spot – The Podcast, Lawrence catches up with Lauren Hayes, author of the fantastic new book ‘For Better or Even Better: 7 Lessons on Love and Life from a Non-Monogamist’. Lauren opens up about her personal experiences and shares the powerful lessons she’s learned…
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93. Get Your Ass to Detention (Frisky February 2025)
Jess and Lawrence are back to chat about all the fun of Frisky February! They share the highlights from the school-themed event, the good vibes at Mingle and Drinks, and a wild story from the 3Cs gangbang. Pour yourself a drink and tune in for some laughs, juicy details, and behind-the-scenes…
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92. Hot Nerds – Something a little different.
This week, Lawrence and Jess are featured guests on a new and upcoming podcast called Hot Nerds. Tune in while we pull apart sexual dynamics within ourselves and with others, the patriarchal pressures of sexuality, and putting sex on a puritanical pedestal – plus much much more. If you have any...
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91. Prepare To Be Doubled Stuff (Juicy January 2025)
In this sizzling episode of Our Secret Spot – The Podcast, Jess and Lawrence dive into the juiciest moments from January 2025, spilling all the tea from the hottest club events. From the wild boat party where someone got double stuffed to the naughty antics at the Class of 2025 event, where...
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90. Debauchery – Sydney’s Newest Kink Event (feat. Mistress Anastasia & The Kink Carpenter)
Welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. Episode 90: Debauchery – Sydney’s Newest Kink Event (feat. Mistress Anastasia & The Kink Carpenter) Get ready to dive into a provocative and thrilling conversation on this week’s podcast episode! Hosts Jess and Lawrence are joined by two…
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89. Thank You for an Amazing 2024 & Delicious December
Welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. Episode 89: ‘Thank You for an Amazing 2024 & Delicious December’ Jess and Lawrence reminisce about the delicious month of December and the amazing year that was 2024. Thank you for all your support over the past year. We cannot wait for more fun and...
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88. Conversations to Have Before the Club
Welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. Episode 88: ‘Conversation to Have Before the Club’ Join Jess and Lawrence as they dive into the essential conversations to have before stepping into the club. From exploring fantasies and setting boundaries to addressing ‘no-nos’ and building mutual...
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87. You Will Please Me! Naughty November 2024
Welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. Episode 87: ‘You Will Please Me! Naughty November 2024’ Hello everyone, and welcome back to the latest episode, ‘You Will Please Me! Naughty November 2024’. Jess and Lawrence share some of the highlights from the club’s events over November. One of…
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86. Let’s Talk About Toys (feat. Linda from Flirt Adult Stores)
Welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. Episode 86. Let’s Talk About Toys (feat. Linda from Flirt Adult Stores) Hello everyone and welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. In today’s episode, Lawrence and Jess talk about toys: sex toys, to be precise. Linda, who works for Flirt Adult...
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85. Ariel & Simba Walk Into A Swingers Club (Orgasmic October 2024)
Welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. Episode 85. Ariel & Simba Walk Into A Swingers Club (Orgasmic October 2024) Jess and Lawrence share some delightful stories from the Orgasmic October 2024 at Our Secret Spot. Halloween was fantastic, and some dirty Disney from Ariel & Simba shagging...
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84. Relationship Agreements for Swinging (feat. Eri Kardos)
Welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. Episode 84 – Relationship Agreements for Swinging (feat. Eri Kardos) During this episode, Lawrence talks with Eri Kardos about having relationship agreements for swinging relationships. Eri is the author of the best-selling book Relationship...
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83. A Very Naughty Story in Salacious September 2024
Welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. Episode 83 – A Very Naughty Story in Salacious September 2024 Jess and Lawrence sit down to reminisce about Salacious September 2024 and the very naughty story that came with it. We are incredibly grateful to Ophelia, who wrote into the podcast and...
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82. What to Wear – Ladies Edition
Welcome back to Our Secret Spot – The Podcast. Episode 82 – What to Wear – Ladies Edition Do you want to know what to wear to the club? Jess, Prue and Cizzy sit down to give you some ideas and insight about what to wear and what people wear to the club. Bribery is […] The post 82. What to Wear –...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Swapping Secrets invites you behind closed doors—into a world of open-minded love, queer glances, and unapologetic connection. Hosted by Jess and Lawrence, this podcast unveils juicy real-life stories, fierce-first tips, and playful provocations from inside the Our Secret Spot community. Whether you’re lifestyle-curious or full-time kinky, expect sharp insights, consent-driven conversations, and the kind of laughter that lasts long after the microphone turns off. Released biweekly. Tune in, subscribe, and never miss a secret.
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Swapping Secrets invites you behind closed doors—into a world of open-minded love, queer glances, and unapologetic connection. Hosted by Jess and Lawrence, this podcast unveils juicy real-life stories, fierce-first tips, and playful provocations from inside the Our Secret Spot community. Whether...
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