Tea Bags & JoystiXXX
by Tea Bags and JoystiXXX
Two British Boyfriends discuss Video Games, Kinky Sex, Polyamoury and everything in between. From why Darth Vader might be a leather daddy, to which video game is making us scream nothing is off limits. So why not pour yourself a cup of tea and come see what's on our JoystiXXX this time.Intended for Mature Audiences containing discussions about sex and other mature themes.
Episodes
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Ep. 63: TB&J Dungeon Master Draft
This week Chris and Si are playing the TB&J Dungeon Master Draft – Video Game Characters Edition. A game inspired by drafts in American sports, Chris and Si pick video game characters to complete their fantasy dungeon. Who would be the perfect urinal? Which character is the ultimate pain pig? And...
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Ep. 62: Tea BACK and Joystixxx [New Season/Catch-up]
TB&J Podcast is back with a new format and Schedule! We're now running shorter but more frequent episodes alternating between “Tea episodes” (where we talk about what’s been happening in the world) and “Bag episodes” (where we talk about the kink scene or play kink-related games). Each week the...
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Ep. 61: If Video Games Brands Made Adult Toys
This week were delving into the realms of what if and asking, what if our favourite (mostly) video game brands made adult toys or other such equipment? We work out what style of toys different borderlands brands might make, what each console platform might be related to and even some game studios...
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Ep. 60: Corporal Punishment
a.k.a. Fun Hurty Stuff This week Si and Chris talk about corporal punishment, or maybe it's canes and paddles. But there's definitely nothing corporate about it (listen to the episode to find out what on earth I'm talking about here). So what's so fun about pain? In tea, Chris has a gripe about…
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Ep. 59: Porn v Reality
This week Chris and Si are talking about some ... Movies. Videos. Ok we're definitely not turning into a movie podcast. But we are talking about the consumption of porn and maybe some unrealistic aspects of it. What do we think could be the best way out? Some disagreements? Maybe! For tea, Si...
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Ep. 58: More Animals of The Scene (Part 2)
This week Chris has got his voice back so we're able to continue with the animals of the scene where we look at if The Advocates definitions of the types of people you might encounter on the LGBTQ+ scene are still accurate For the 5 minute Marvel this week we're discussing Echo the latest Marvel…
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Ep. 57: Media Round Up
No kink this week, Chris and Si catch up on the Marvel stuff they've missed talking about in the last half a year and also on the Doctor Who specials. It's geekery all around! For tea, Si wants you to have a look at his side-project "For Whom It May Concern". And for joysticks, Chris is on his…
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Ep. 56: The Animals of the Scene (Part 1)
This week Chris and Si take a look at the "Origin of Bears" (as claimed by The Advocate) and some of the other so-called "animals" found within the LGBT scene. Are they really a thing? How outdated are they? There's still no Five Minute Marvel this week because at time of recording Marvel titles...
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Ep. 55: Post-Locktober Run Down
a.k.a. What About No Nut November? This week Si and Chris are chatting about the past month, which they spent locked up in chastity. The highs and lows, the benefits and disadvantages, some things they have observed, and what they discovered about themselves. For tea, Chris celebrates Cyril…
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Ep. 54: Of Locks and Keyholders (TB&J List: Chastity Special)
This week Si and Chris are joined by Craig for The TB&J List: Chastity Special! Where we generate two random* pop culture characters and decide between them who is going to be locked for Locktober and who gets to keep the key! *(random-ish) For tea this week, Chris wonders why the British media…
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Ep. 53: Kink Protocols
This week Si and Chris sit down and talk about protocols within kink, why they find them important, what they get out of them, some examples of how they can be used both in private and in subtle ways day to day for a kinky couple. In Tea this week Si talks about FOMO around the women's world cup...
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Ep. 52: Watersports
a.k.a. Britain's Number 9 Favourite Fetish This week Si and Chris talk about piss, golden showers, watersports, whatever you want to call it (or urolagnia if you want to be really medical). We talk about the degredation and objectivication aspects of it, the health risks, the gear and set up and...
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Ep. 51: Pride Culture & Counter-cultures
a.k.a. The History of Pride, Part II This week Chris and Si do another whistle stop tour in honour of LGBTQ+ Pride Month (and we came late). We look at the umbrella acronym itself; various forms of self-expression including clothing, norms and codes, as well as more explicit forms like badges and...
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Ep. 50: Disability and Neurodiversity Inclusive Kink
Si sits down with Craig from Kinky Boys Podcast share stories and anecdotes from their own experiences being Autistic, ADHD and more to explore how it is possible to take advantage of the curb cut effect to make Kink and BDSM scenes inclusive of people with Neurodiversity and Disabilities. Before...
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Ep. 49: Community Spotlight: Switched App
This week we sit down with the 2 man team behind the new "Switched" app that the kink community has been talking about to see who they are, what their plans are and what they're bringing to the table that's different to other offerings out there. We discuss everything from how they got started,...
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Ep. 48: Dating Apps (Feat. Louise)
a.k.a. APP-solutely Fabulous This week we have Louise to talk with us about dating apps. The three of us tend to use these apps looking for different things (surprisingly) and we talk about our experiences with these apps. Some of out histories with different platforms over the years and some...
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Ep. 47: Penis Size Fetish
a.k.a. Can't Take My Size Off You This week Chris and Si are talking about cocks. When do they not talk about cocks, I hear you ask. Nah it’s a bit more specific than that. Penis size fetishes are all over the scene. Small, big, long, short, thick, thin, you name it, someone has made a fetish of...
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Ep. 46: Transformation Kink ft Mutt Banjo
a.k.a. Banjo the Bluie? Si finally moved house and we're back! and man do we have a lot to catch up on. This week friend of the show Mutt Banjo talks to us about Transformation as a kink concept and how that is played out both in the real world and online. Before that we spill Tea on hypocrisy...
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Ep. 45: Checking on the Naughty List
This week we're joining Santa in checking our Nighty List, otherwise known as the TBnJ List and seeing which Pop Culture Character/Kink combinations we prefer. In Tea we talk the how England crashed out of the FIFA World Cup in Qatar and how some teams tried to make their objections to Censorship...
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Ep. 44.5: The Catch-Up Episode
a.k.a. Tag, You're It Since we had been off air for a while, Si and Chris decided it was time to play a game of tiggy so we can catch up with our listeners about what has been happening. So it was mostly just tea this week. Chris starts off with a sportsball corner piece about Pride flags at the...
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Ep. 44: Rubber / Latex (Gear 102)
a.k.a. Shiny Shiny Latex We're starting Season 3 of Tea Bags & Joystixxx with a bang, no sorry, squeak! The topic today is latex, the most popular (no official data) kind of rubber play. Si and Chris talk about their experiences with rubber / latex, the various outfits we and other people have…
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Ep. 43: The Sex We Don't Talk About
a.k.a. What Else We Do in the Shadows It's our last show of the season as we take our (delayed) summer break of about a month, but that doesn't mean we don't have plenty to talk about before we go... This week we're talking all about the bits of Sex that don't usually get discussed. We touch on a...
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Ep. 42: Mr Superhero Europe 2022 Gareth
a.k.a. Spider: It's Coming Home This week Si and Chris chat with Mr Superhero Europe 2022 Gareth (Instagram)! We talk about his challenges (plural) to the title, his plans of being a title holder, his very special Spider suit and the growth of the superhero fetish. We also discuss incorporating...
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Ep. 41: The List Strikes Back
a.k.a. We Are Getting Our Star Wars References Back to Front (Since We Have Already Done Return of the List) This week Chris and Si are doing another game with the TB&J List. Take a random pop / geek culture character, add three kinky activities, and choose which one is the most fun (or just most...
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Ep. 40: Events, A Survival Guide
a.k.a. How to Go to Events and not Die This episode is dedicated to Tim Davidson, a friend of ours and a former member of Manchester Rubbermen team, who passed away suddenly recently. This week Si and Chris talk about all the mistakes they have made going to kinky/pride events, and some friendly...
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Ep. 39: Handler EU '22 Quincy
a.k.a. The Bumper Show with Leads This week's show features Handler EU Quincy (they/them)! We talk about their journey through to being a title holder and their next steps, what it is about being a handler, various different forms of pet play, and every kinkster's favourite topic during pride...
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Ep. 38: Pride Washing
a.k.a. When Pride Become Hubris a.k.a. A Sense of Pride (and Accomplishment?) It's Pride Month 2022 and with pride month comes the rainbow tidal wave. With that in mind we dive in and look at some of the ridiculous pride washed merchandise they try and trick us into buying. For Tea this week, we...
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Ep. 37: Militaria / Military Fetish
a.k.a. Sir, Yes Sir This week we broadcast a long overdue conversation with Adam about the military fetish. We talk about the origins of such a fetish, the dos and don'ts when exploring, what to be aware of when acquiring more specialist militaria gear and the ethical considerations when playing...
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Ep. 36: Community Spotlight: South West Fetish Men
a.k.a. Tangent Queen This episode we are joined by Jonathan from South West Fetish Men, where we had a hilarious conversation about the social side of kink and gear, organising events and the upcoming South West Fetish Weekend 2022 in Bristol, England. Contains lots of tangents. Tea this week...
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Ep. 35: Cuckolding
a.k.a. A Cuck in His Hand, Two in the Bed Content warning: At the start of this episode we are discussing the UK Governments U-Turn on Trans Conversion Therapy Ban. Listeners who are sensitive to this may wish to skip the episode to the 17:30 mark. This week we talk about cuckolding, how we…
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Ep. 34 Pt. 2: Puppy Play! Ft Pup Titan & Pup Trakken
a.k.a. Ruff ruff ruff awoooo! We continue our conversation with Pups Titan and Trakken about pups! We talk about how to not get yourself injured when pupping out, and some seriously bad faith arguments against pup play. We also talk about expectations about the Moon Knight series. Joysticks this...
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Ep. 34 Pt. 1: Puppy Play! Ft Pup Titan & Pup Trakken
a.k.a. Ruff ruff ruff awoooo! We're joined by Pup Titan and Trakken this week as we let the pups off their leashes to talk about Puppy Play. Unusually were splitting this episode into two parts because we talked for a VERY long time. In this part you'll find Discussion on; What is it, why our...
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Ep. 33: Kinksters talk Self Expression
a.k.a. Self-Express Yourself! This week we tackle the subject of how kink and self expression can overlap. Discussing "kinksters" as a subculture akin to bears or twinks within the LGBTQ+ spaces. How we personally approach our self expression with our kinkster culture in mind, and some of the...
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Ep. 32: Lost in Translation
a.k.a. Google Translate Does Kink Warning: This episode contains brief discussions around the conflict in Ukraine and breathing difficulties due to a host’s ongoing health issues, listener discretion is advised. This week we throw out the show we had planned for something to lighten the mood and...
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Ep. 31: Kinky Bucket Lists
a.k.a. Kinking the Bucket Warning: This epsiodes contains discussions of acts in a fantasy setting that should not be attempted. Do not try these things at home. This episode we discuss some of our more out there fantasies and items on our Kinky Bucket Lists and set our kinky new year…
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Ep. 30: Game of the Rear Awards 2021
TBnJ is back for 2022 and, as per tradition, we bring back the TBnJ Game of the Rear awards for 2022. This week were joined by Mr Ian and Dio A.K. as we determine the winner of this years awards finding what we feel the best and worst of gaming in 2021 was for us. (Note: This is a video game…
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More-than-Five Minute Marvel: Spider-Man: No Way Home
Because we can't wait till the new year to talk about Spider-Man: No Way Home. Obvious spoilers. Involves us completely ignoring the five minute countdown clock.
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Ep. 29: Full of Christmas Queer
Ho ho ho! It's Christmas and Si and Chris engage in a silly game involving the infamous "TB&J List", where we try to argue why a randomly selected kink with a randomly selected character should be considered Christmassy. None of this makes any sense, and that's the fun! Tea this week we...
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Ep 28. Leather is Forever (Gear 102: Leather & Bootblacking/Leather Care)
This week we're joined by Criag from Kinkyboys Podcast as we delve into the wonderfull world of leather. We talk about why we like it, the customisation available in leather, how to care for your leather and more. Tea this week includes Inclusivity on the set of Hawkeye and how Crusing is causing...
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Ep.27: Earning A Collar
Weather it's for a session or more permenant feature collars are a staple of the kink scene is the collar and this week we discuss our relationship with collars in our relationship and more broadly. What does it mean for a sub to earn their collar? What are the different types of collars? Why…
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Ep. 26: The Legend of Quora
*TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains the sound of fireworks throughout due to UK Bonfire Night Celebrations we apologise in advance for any distress this may cause* This episode marks the 1 year anniversary of TBnJ and so we thought we would have a bit of fun by diving into the internets...
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Ep. 25: The Lion, the SWITCH and the Wardrobe
This show we are in for a spooktacular chat about witches. Oh, no! Switches? Not light switches, not Nintendo Switches, but BDSM switches. Both Si and Chris identify as switches to some degree, and some people on the scene find it weird. Why? How do we make a role-reversal scene work? And is...
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Ep. 24: Feeling the Heat in Saunas (Bathhouses)
Si and Chris engage in a HEATed debate (not really) about bathhouses, or saunas as we call them in Blighty. We talk about what attract Si to saunas, what the basic etiquettes are and what sort of kinky fun you can get involved with. Tea this week is the UK Conservative Party conference and Chris...
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Ep. 23: Locktober? I hard-ley know 'er!
This week Si and Chris discuss the growing annual festival that is Locktober. We talk about how we got into it, and what it entails for kinksters with different levels of experience in chastity play. Tea this week is about Si's cameo over at Kinkyboys Podcast and about over-doing yourself at the...
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Ep. 22: Return of the List
This week sees the first return of the TBnJ List as we generate a few rounds of a kink mix and match as your favourite pop culture characters and kinks come together to find which we think would be involved with each. Tea this week involves being Gay on Time and that unusual ways podcasting…
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Ep. 21: Best Lain Only Fans
This week were all about the TEA as we're joined by Only Fans content creator W.A.S.P Hunter to talk about the Only Fans Porn Ban 180, what affect it had on content creators and how content creators feel about the platform going forward. We also Spill Tea on an Si's recent health scare and Chris...
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Episode 20: All Bois Are Degraded Equally (Degradation/Humiliation 101)
Tea Bags and Joystixxx is back for Season 2! This week we delve into the topic of degradation and humiliation. What does it involve? Why are people into them? How do we not get hurt while engaging with these kinks? For tea this week we talk about Manchester Pride's ongoing controversy. While for...
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Episode 19: The one where we explain whats going on...
Si and Chris sit down this week and explain what happened that took us off air for a short while and mark the official "end" of season 1 of Tea Bags and Joystixx. Theres no Kink topic this week but we do have breif Tea about tech woes, The Olympics and local allyship, we also talk about Mini...
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PSA: Technical Difficulties
Just a PSA from Chris this week. Si is having technical difficulties that means we can't record this week. Hopefully we will be back on track and have an episode out next week!
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Episode 18 - What If... Kink Were a Video Game?
This week Chris and Si "create" a role playing video game based on kink! From fighting the Vanilla Witch Karen, bondage skill trees, and dominant/submissive level ups, we let our imaginations run wild and write a pitch for our "game"! For tea this episode we talk about Pride flags-inspired sofas...
About this show
Two British Boyfriends discuss Video Games, Kinky Sex, Polyamoury and everything in between. From why Darth Vader might be a leather daddy, to which video game is making us scream nothing is off limits. So why not pour yourself a cup of tea and come see what's on our JoystiXXX this time.Intended for Mature Audiences containing discussions about sex and other mature themes.
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