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That's Not the Point

by Gio & Jay

That's Not the Point Podcast follows the journey of two women of Caribbean descent, born in North America, who now find themselves navigating life in Germany. Join the ladies as they share their stories, anecdotes, and experiences while adjusting to life in Deutschland. With humor, heart, and a touch of chaos, they dive into the ups and downs of family, marriage and expat life, often inviting other expats to share their own adventures. Tune in for the laughs, the real talk, and the unexpected moments that happen when these two meet up on each episode.

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Episodes

  1. Flakes, Friends, and Life Edits

    Podcast Description: This week on the podcast, the girls are getting real about friendship! They dive into Louise Thompson’s article on the fine art of life editing and tackle the burning question: Are you a bad friend if you’re flaking? With plenty of laughs and honest reflections, they explore...

  2. Chance Encounters

    In this week’s episode of That’s Not the Point Podcast, we welcome Jay, the new co-host! We dive into their Chance Encounter and share the story of how Gio and Jay first met. From a hilarious and unexpected connection to the twists of fate that brought them together, it’s a tale of serendipity…

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  3. Was I Ma'amed?

    On this episode, the girls dive into some everyday frustrations and nostalgic moments! First, they discuss the curious experience of being addressed as "ma'am"—is it a compliment or a social faux pas? They also bring you the latest updates on Ozempic (because, yes, they’re still tracking it!).…

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  4. Cultural Cues

    This week, the girls are diving deep into how different cultures are actually viewed in America—because, let’s be real, it’s not always what we expect. Is it history shaping our views, or is Hollywood calling the shots? Tune in as they unpack how movies influence stereotypes and perceptions, and...

  5. Monoculture Meltdown

    This episode, the girls dive into America's all-consuming obsession with Hollywood and celebrity culture, and how it stacks up against Europe's much more chill take on fame. We’re talking the crazy ways we’ve elevated stars to near-godlike status. Plus, we throw it back to a time when we were all...

  6. From SAD to Glad

    On this week’s episode, the girls get into the topic of Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) – that dreaded winter slump that many of us face. The girls explore ways to combat the winter blues, whether it’s getting outside, staying active, or finding moments of light during the darker days. Tune in...

  7. Our talk with Chris from 🇩🇲 Dominica

    This week on That’s Not the Point, the girls chat with Chris from the island of Dominica 🇩🇲, a young expat living in Germany. He shares his journey of adapting to a new culture, the challenges of expat life, and the dreams he’s pursuing abroad. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about expat...

  8. Sipping Glühwein

    The girls dive into the cozy, communal vibes of European holiday traditions—think glühwein, violet smocks, and twinkling festive lights. Why don’t Americans embrace more of these heartwarming rituals? They also tackle the inevitable holiday indulgences: sweet treats, festive drinks, and the…

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  9. Raclette Night

    On this episode of Not The Point, the girls dive into the delicious world of Raclette, exploring what this melted cheese dish is all about and how Europeans embrace this culinary tradition during the holidays. They also tackle theater etiquette, laying out the do's and don'ts for a respectful...

  10. Karen Culture, Food Safety, and SNL's Golden Year

    On this week’s Not The Point, we dive into Karen behaviors and why food regulations between the US and Europe matter. Are chemicals in our food changing our behavior? Plus, the difference between a prosthetic and a prosthesis, and celebrating 50 years of SNL!

  11. Fading Drawls

    On today’s episode of That’s Not the Point Podcast, the girls dive into the power of intervention. What would you do if you witnessed someone being harassed? Do you step in, or stay back? And are newer generations more likely to get involved? The conversation then shifts to accents, as they…

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  12. Burnt Toast

    On this episode of That’s Not the Point Podcast, the girls dive into female empowerment initiatives happening in local communities. One of the ladies shares her experience visiting an inspiring English-speaking women’s empowerment group. Plus, is Poland shaping up to be the next summer travel...

  13. Growing Pains

    On this episode of That’s Not the Point Podcast, the girls dive into the latest plastic surgery trends and the world of body modifications. From regrettable tattoos to the art of self-expression, they explore it all. Plus, they take a nostalgic turn, dishing on the drama behind '80s sitcom beefs...

  14. Eye on the Bonsai

    On this episode, the girls dive into house-sitting—whether it's a neighborly favor or a major ask. Are you close enough for that responsibility? They also break down some summer vibes with a beach etiquette chat—because, yes, there are rules! And ever been invited to a destination wedding? The...

  15. Nomophobia

    In this episode, the girls tackle menu anxiety—you know, that panic when it’s your turn to order at a restaurant and you’re still clueless? Do you freeze up when faced with too many choices? Plus, they dive into the modern-day phenomenon of nomophobia—the fear of being without your phone—and…

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  16. Sturdy Guts

    On today’s episode, the girls are indulging in their love for British comedies—from cheeky humor to iconic characters, they’re diving deep into what makes these shows so irresistible. But that’s not all! They’re chatting about greedy guts, sugary cocktails, and all the snacks that fuel their...

  17. Manosphere Madness

    In today’s episode, the girls are diving deep into the Manosphere—what exactly is it, and where did this wild phenomenon come from? Are we delusional for thinking mail-order brides weren’t always a thing? Is this movement just a passing fad, or is it here to stay? And what about the rise of...

  18. Hip-Hop and Hall Passes

    On today's episode of That's Not the Point, the girls dive into all things Hip-Hop & Hall Passes. They break down their top 5 hip-hop artists, question why female rappers often get left out, and reveal their ultimate hall pass picks. Plus, they take a nostalgic trip, wondering where roller…

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  19. Nepotism

    In today’s episode, the girls dive into the future of nepotism, dish on celebrity riders, and take a nostalgic look back at Will & Grace. Plus, they unpack some of the juiciest sitcom beefs. Tune in for a mix of hot takes and deep dives.

  20. Rotisserie Chicken

    In this episode, the girls talk about plastic surgery. Is the trend slowing down, or is it at an all-time high? Are European countries also seeing an uptick in plastic surgeries? And is aging gracefully a myth? The girls also talk about Costco, rotisserie chickens, and city transplants.

  21. Rhythm Is Gonna Get You

    In this episode, the girls talk about diet fads and how difficult they are to maintain. Also, the girls find themselves reaffirming their love for Trevor Noah. The girls discuss their dream interview. Lastly, what are "girl crushes," really?

  22. Phil Collins v. Rod Stewart

    On today's episode, the girls discuss 80s music and its nostalgia. They talk about how some couples can morph into each other. Are you guilty of morphing into your mate or adapting their style? And in the world of dating, is it fair to expect a man to pay for the first date? Even for all dates?...

  23. What is 'settling'?

    On today's episode, are the girls really talking about coronation? And if you had a falling out with a relative, would you still show up to a family function? The ladies continue to discuss the dating pool. Are women choosing to settle? And yeah, what is 'settling'?

  24. Party of 5

    On today's episode, the girls are trying to figure out the right way to pronounce the word "plantain." What is good cocktail party etiquette? They discuss flaking on plans with your friends. Are you guilty? If you were to have a party of celebrities, who would you invite to your Table of 5? Are...

  25. Bravo Baby

    In this episode we're catching up on 90s nostalgia, reality television & pies(?)

  26. Pilot: Reunited and it feels so... normal

    Welcome to our Pilot Episode!

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

That's Not the Point Podcast follows the journey of two women of Caribbean descent, born in North America, who now find themselves navigating life in Germany. Join the ladies as they share their stories, anecdotes, and experiences while adjusting to life in Deutschland. With humor, heart, and a touch of chaos, they dive into the ups and downs of family, marriage and expat life, often inviting other expats to share their own adventures. Tune in for the laughs, the real talk, and the unexpected moments that happen when these two meet up on each episode.

HOSTED BY

Gio & Jay

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That's Not the Point Podcast follows the journey of two women of Caribbean descent, born in North America, who now find themselves navigating life in Germany. Join the ladies as they share their stories, anecdotes, and experiences while adjusting to life in Deutschland. With humor, heart, and a...

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