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The 90-10 Rule
by Anthony Miller
He said, SHE said. Relationship talk show from the experts--REAL MEN & WOMEN. Women will get the inside scoop on how and why MEN think and do what they do. Men will try in vain to learn how WOMEN think and do what they do--Good Luck With That! Quick barbs fly fast and loose between the sexes. But in the end, it always result in laughter and good times on The 90-10 Rule.
Episodes
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Never Been In A Relationship
Anthony uses the fact that he's the host of a relationship podcast to watch all the crazy relationship shows on TV. One trend he's been noticing is that several of the young participants of these reality shows have NEVER been in serious relationships. Being in reality TV relationships doesn't…
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ULTIMATUM
This episode starts out with Anthony reciting some old school poetry from Mr. Wiggles, the song from Parliament. Queen Nina is getting ready to make a trip around the world and when she returns she'll be filled with new experiences and observations to share on the podcast. Everyone knows Tom…
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VIRGINS & SEX
Virgins, virginity and celibacy. In this episode the topic deviates from the usual experience of sex to instead focus on the experience of not yet having it yet. Why do people abstain for having sex, and is such a thing biologically possible? Is sex a need or a want, and could masturbation be...
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You Gotta Crush
Queen Nina has a crush! In this episode she blurts out the details of the entire process of how she got to have a crush on a guy who's chasing her romantically, while Anthony dishes out similarities between her current situation and how he came to be married to his wife. Who is this mystery man...
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F. Buddies
Anthony and Queen Nina discuss and analyze the nuances of being a "F. Buddy" and how it compares and differs from being friends with benefits or being in a committed relationship. They each share stories from their past on how they experienced a F. Buddy situation. Plus, how complicated does it…
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21 By Two
Rulers, are you ready? In this episode you will learn the top 21 things to woo your woman (according to an old Instagram reel). The interesting part, however, is that to woo men, only two are needed: show up naked and bring food! Anthony discusses this interesting piece of internet advice and why...
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You Got A Good Man STOP Complaining
Anthony is outnumbered when he welcomes Queen Nina and Queen Tones Motivates back to discuss the acceptable levels of complaint in a relationship that seems perfect. Does having a good man who provides and is attentive to the family enough to invalidate any complaint a woman might have about the...
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Are You Just A Liar?
Uh Oh! Everybody’s honesty and integrity are questioned when Anthony asks, "Are you Really Just a Liar?" What makes someone a liar? Can a bunch of little white lies, spinning, twisting details and exaggerations be dismissed as something innocent and harmless or is that enough for the person in...
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What You Won't Do For Love
After finally plugging social media handles in the episode Anthony and Queen Nina discuss "What You Won't Do For Love" based on the famous song, and what are the things that people in a relationship wouldn't compromise in order to maintain the relationships. From moving and relocating to choosing...
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What's My Damn Label?
Anthony and Queen Nina start out this episode with a little bit of movie trivia and some interesting facts and opinions about The Color Purple, and the fact that many people think it was made by a black director instead of Steven Spielberg. On to the real discussion: is it important for women to...
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I Digress - I Found the One
A lot of digression in this one, Rulers. Before getting to the main topic, Anthony and Nina talk about lotteries, gambling, TV shows, and even discuss separating the art from the artist when the artist is involved in a scandal, from Kevin Spacey, R. Kelly and Michael Jackson, and why people still...
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Money Is Never Just Money
Anthony tells Queen Nina about a quote he heard in a movie, "Money Is Never Just Money" and they both ponder how that applies to real life relationships. Anthony shares the tale of his female friend who has interest from online, (swipe right suiters), with two different men, one of which is doing...
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Ghosting--WHY??
Ghosting... What is it and why do people do it? Anthony and Nina share tales of ghosting and discuss the reasons that lead people to just disappear to someone else without notice or explanation. How rude is it to just decide to not see or talk to someone ever again without even telling them why?…
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Who Are the Gatekeepers?
In this episode Anthony and Queen Nina discuss the question of why is it that men rule the relationship, but women rule the marriage? And is there a difference between marriage and the relationship? Is it that men control the relationship before the marriage, but after the "I do" then the woman…
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Are You Through with Love?
Are You Through with Love or is Love Through with You? Join this scintillating and insightful conversation between Anthony, Queen Nina and Jay. In this episode the team share details from previous relationships in different times of their lives, and how those relationships affected their mindset,...
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The Men Monologues Pt. 1
This week Anthony welcomes his long-time friend Craig to the studio to share some funny and interesting stories about their wives. Anthony revisits the hilarious tale of when his wife almost got them both arrested for drug smuggling when they went on a cruise, and Craig talks about the time when...
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Please Pray for Tom He Was in a Bad Wreck
Do women ask too many questions? Queen Nina thinks it's just a matter of men not saying enough, but maybe it's just that there just isn't that much information available to begin with and there's just no point insisting. Anthony takes Nina on a few examples of some cases where there just ISN'T…
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Can You Make My Plate - The Black Nuclear Family
Anthony and Queen Nina are joined by new audio engineer Mr. Jay to revisit some of the concepts of gender roles in the household and in the relationship. Anthony states that men want a strong and independent woman, but not one with an attitude, and claims that a supportive woman isn't necessarily...
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Can the MAN Lead in the Relationship?
Can today's modern woman let a man lead the relationship? Anthony thinks that black women can't let their man lead in the relationship, and for once Nina agrees! They discuss the peculiarities of relationships and what it means for each gender to take charge. If the woman lets the man lead, does...
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The Age of Love
How age matters so much to women and how some women will not date anyone who is even 5 seconds younger than them. Queen Nina thinks this has to do with how fast women mature compared to men, and shares her recent experience with being slightly infatuated with a man only to discover he's slightly...
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Is Love Blind?
In this episode Anthony and Queen Nina welcome first-time guest Talaya, who is in the first steps of creating her own relationships podcast. Anthony tells the story where he got to know a girl over the phone for 8 months and developed emotions, only to finally meet her in person and discover that...
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Cheatin' in the Next Room
Anthony brings his lifelong buddy to help him recall an incident where his buddy got caught cheating, and Chris Sasso joins in to listen to the buffoonery among friends. Codenames will be used in order to protect the innocent (or the guilty, in this case). Anthony will be called “Speed” and his...
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Are you a F A K E?
How authentic are you… inside AND the outside? Is there anything about you that is "FAKE"? There is a difference between plastic surgery and insanity, and the threshold is how intense the body modifications are. Over the top and extreme implants are something that can throw most people off... but...
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KISS IT -- What Color Does the No 7 Smell Like?
Oh No! Anthony is talking Q-R-azy. He must be having a stroke based on that episode title! Turns out it's just an attempt to describe a question about how women behave in relationships...? Or something like that! Perhaps things would be much easier if Anthony would just wash the dishes....
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Sex-Crazy Seniors and The Age of Consent for Cougars
The times have changed, but these games are still the same. Watch out, Rulers! This episode is all about that mature booty and how awkward it is for them to hit on people who are much younger. It seems older people like to get nasty as well, but how come they're acting like 18 year olds when...
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It's Love Mr Telephone Man
Watch out, Rulers! This episode is a masterclass in the old school way of spitting game. Wind the clock back to 1988 when Anthony was a young playa’ and listen in as the sparks fly while Nina and Anthony re-enact one of his phone conversations which leads to a VERY ENTICING exchange of words...
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Ain't $hit Man or Woman
An A.S.M. means “Ain’t $hit Man.” The term also applies to women: ASW. They’re someone toxic and selfish who can completely wreck the mental health of who they’re with. How do you recognize an ASM/W? There are a few key traits and red flags to look out for: they’re disrespectful, lazy…
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What's in Your Relationship Box?
On this episode Anthony and Nina discuss "The Relationship Box" and What's in It: a checklist of items your mate must meet in order for the relationship to continue. Nina thinks women have their boxes on the back-end: aimed at making compromises and adapting in order to make the relationship…
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Infidelity and Drunk Science
Anthony and Queen Nina discuss the "I" word, (INFIDELITY). According to an article Anthony found online, there are 5 types of infidelity: Opportunistic, Obligatory, Romantic, Conflicted Romantic, and Commemorative. They discuss and reflect on the different types and share their opinion on each…
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How Bout That?
Anthony and Queen Nina have a crazy discussion about an episode of Dr. Phil where a married couple go through counseling and test the limits and boundaries of house chore roles in a relationship. Is Dr. Phil really a qualified doctor who helps people, or do people just go on his show to be paid...
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Emotionally Yours Again
Relationship talk from the experts -- REAL MEN & WOMEN. Now that we’ve established that women are better cheaters than men… yes you know you are! How are women more than men likely to have an emotional affair? In this episode, Anthony and Jackie J discuss emotional cheating from both a man’s and…
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Pt. 4 - Love, Friendship, and Indiscretion
In the final part of the Friendship, Love and Indiscretion special series, Raven returns to discuss a myriad of topics from falling in love too fast, meeting her husband when she was 15 and being pregnant at 16, which begs the question: Is it Love or is it Lust? Plus, we REVISIT the subject of…
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Pt. 3 - Love, Friendship, and Indiscretion
In this intensely emotional and tear-jerking part three of the Love, Friendship and Indiscretion series, Tones pours her heart out as we dive deep into the topics of sexuality and relationships. She reveals she is hypersexual and explains how that influenced her relationships in always wanting…
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Pt. 2 - Love, Friendship, and Indiscretion
In the second part of the Love, Friendship and Indiscretion series, Raven returns to tell the Rulers about her destination wedding in Vegas. Hear about her experience as the bride and all the crazy things that happened throughout, including losing her poker-aficionado brother for two days…
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Pt. 1 - Love, Friendship, and Indiscretion
On part one of the Love, Friendship and Indiscretion special series, Tone Motivates joins the Rule once again to share the experience of her best friend Raven's destination wedding in Las Vegas. She spills the details on all the fun, troubles and mishaps that took place on the amazing Vegas...
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18 Wheeler Lovin'
Always on the road - that is the life of a trucker. Anthony’s new brother from another mother J.C. shares some stories and wisdom from the decades spent being a truck driver, as well as how that imposed certain limitations on relationships. Imagine leaving the state only to return home 8 months...
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His / Her Vacation
Anthony tells Nina about his experience on a brand new cruise that he recently went on with his wife and about how everything was over the top due to the ship being new. His tales include a cool adventure with a mini-hurricane/tornado and a very funny story about when he and his wife both forgot...
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Caregiver: Get Out My Pockets
Anthony and Queen Nina talk about their family history and about being caregivers to their parents. Nina shares the story about how her parents had a toxic relationship which included drug issues, alcoholism and domestic abuse. The hosts discuss the awkwardness of having to help a parent with...
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When Did You Know?
How do you know that the person you’re with is “the one”? On this episode we welcome J.C, Anthony's new "brother from another mother" to bring a masculine perspective on relationships to the show. J.C tells the story about how he met his wife, the exact moment he knew she was the one for him and...
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Baby Mama Drama Again
In this episode Queen Nina shares the shocking revelation that despite ALL the drama, she is NOT a baby mama. Do you have “That Good Stuff” with your beau or even know what that means? Anthony believes that women are more in control of whether they get pregnant or not than men while Nina says…
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Seven Things
Nina joins Anthony in discussing seven of the things that men and women (at least the classy ones) should never do in public. They talk about how they feel about each one and even admit to doing a few. Plus, are rich people more rude than non-rich people? In what different ways do men and women...
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Ugly Needs Love Too - Part 1
Attractiveness is subjective, but some people are just BUTT UGLY. But what is beauty? Is it physical fitness or just how attractive someone’s face is? Or perhaps it’s as Queen Nina says, "Booty is in the eye of the beholder." On this episode Anthony and Nina discuss whether Idris Elba really is…
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BEST OF EPISODE: Mr. Fix it!
THIS IS A BEST OF EPISODE!--He said, SHE said. Relationship talk from the experts -- REAL MEN & WOMEN.Are you a Mr. FIX It? Always trying to fix your woman’s problems when she tells them to you? What if you just sit back, listen, and do nothing about it? It might seem cruel, but maybe that’s what...
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Don't Forget The Anniversary (It's Gonna Be a Party)
In this episode Queen Nina gets a quick lesson on how James Brown created funk. Anthony hates the holidays, but we discover it may be due to some childhood trauma. Despite their anniversary being tomorrow, Anthony still hasn’t bought his wife a gift, but he's cocksure about his gift buying…
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Jane and Joe
Good news! - The Rule is in the top 5% of all podcasts! The Rulers still have a little homework to do, though: recruit three of your friends to subscribe and listen to our podcast! And ask your friends to tell THEIR friends - If we can do that through the next three months we can reach the “big...
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Me Too Confusion
Can guys even compliment women anymore? The woman can accept it as much as she wants to, up until the point she doesn’t accept it anymore, but she needs to let the man know if she’s uncomfortable. The tricky thing is that the line is different for each person. There's a myriad of reasons for the…
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Millennials and Marriage
Are millennials really moving in together at the highest rate in history without getting married? If so, does that mean that they probably won't get married, but if they do, will they get divorced quicker? Nina, MJ and Anthony discuss how relationship culture has changed for the different...
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Love vs Acceptance
Can you love someone without fully accepting them? Be it sexuality, political views, religion or stance on gun control, are we able to fully accept a friendship or family member if we disagree with them on key issues or are against certain conditions? Nina and Anthony talk about their opinions on...
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money Money MONEY
On this episode Ms. Motivates and Raven join in to discuss the question: Could money be a factor in the demise of a relationship? The hosts talk about how they deal with money in their relationship and if their significant other is a spender or a saver as well as their special techniques for…
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Potpourri (The Worst Episode)
Watch out, Rulers! This is the worst one. Anthony babble and rant with no clear subject across a wide range of topics, being quite a bummer for everyone along the way. A few honorable mentions of the Soul Train, Don Cornelius and how the old days were better make this episode worthwhile, though....
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
He said, SHE said. Relationship talk show from the experts--REAL MEN & WOMEN. Women will get the inside scoop on how and why MEN think and do what they do. Men will try in vain to learn how WOMEN think and do what they do--Good Luck With That! Quick barbs fly fast and loose between the sexes. But in the end, it always result in laughter and good times on The 90-10 Rule.
HOSTED BY
Anthony Miller
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He said, SHE said. Relationship talk show from the experts--REAL MEN & WOMEN. Women will get the inside scoop on how and why MEN think and do what they do. Men will try in vain to learn how WOMEN think and do what they do--Good Luck With That! Quick barbs fly fast and loose between the sexes. But...
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