The ABC's Of Preschool ; Inspiration for Moms, Teachers & Childcare Providers

In this episode, Ms. Amber dives into the world of parenting styles, with a special focus on gentle parenting. She shares her personal experiences, reflecting on the evolution of parenting through the generations and exploring how the early years play a pivotal role in shaping a child's future. Ms. Amber discusses the pros and cons of gentle parenting, how it compares to other parenting styles, and the importance of balancing empathy with clear boundaries. Key Highlights: [00:01 - 05:03] Parenting Styles: A Personal Exploration How parenting styles have evolved over generations. The pressure of parenting in the early years and how it shapes the rest of a child's life. The role of self-reflection in determining the kind of parent you want to be. [05:04 - 10:21] Gentle Parenting: A Closer Look The foundation of gentle parenting: empathy, respect, and clear boundaries. Why understanding your child's emotions and triggers is crucial for parenting success. The balance between being gentle and firm when it comes to discipline. [10:22 - 15:12] The Importance of Teaching Consequences Gentle parenting's approach to setting boundaries without relying on punishment. How real-world consequences (like stepping on a rock) can be teaching moments. The importance of guiding your children, not just being their friend. [15:13 - 20:21] Parenting in the Real World: When Gentle Parenting Isn't Enough When gentleness doesn't work, and how to step up as the authoritative figure. The critical need for parents to model empathy and respect. The ultimate goal of raising independent, confident, and responsible children.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: " How your child behaves in acts in public and around other people is a reflection on your parenting style." -Ms. Amber " whether those are good consequences or negative ones, there are always are consequences." -Ms. Amber " gentleness will only get you so far, and then you have to bring in the consequences." -Ms. Amber " Guidance instead of punishment, teaching rather than enforcing strict discipline." -Ms. Amber " Let them have the natural consequences because that's how our kids learn." -Ms. Amber " We should not be friends with our kids. We are not friends." -Ms. Amber " Kids need freedom,  kids need rules and boundaries and clear expectations. " -Ms. Amber " It's really important that our kids see us failing too, because we are not perfect." - Ms. Amber " Humans, we fail, but in our failures is our growth. And we want our kids to experience that too." -Ms. Amber "Our job as parents is to be a teacher and to teach our kids. -Ms. Amber  

In this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, Ms. Amber tackles a topic that hits close to home for many parents and educators: Screen Time, ADHD, and Kids' Attention Spans – What Every Parent Should Know. Drawing on nearly 30 years of experience in early childhood education and parenting five children, she shares her heartfelt concerns and observations about how technology is influencing our children's development, behavior, and relationships. Whether you're a parent, educator, or caregiver, this episode offers thoughtful insights, practical strategies, and a call to action to step back, set boundaries, and protect our kids' childhood experiences. Key Highlights: [00:01 - 04:36] Introducing the Topic Ms. Amber reflects on the evolution of technology from her childhood to raising her kids during the iPhone era. Personal insights into how parenting decisions around screen time have lasting impacts. A shift observed in children's attention spans and social interactions over the years. [04:37 - 08:59] The Rise of Screen Time and Its Effects Average screen time for children under 8 has surpassed two hours per day. How fast-paced technology overstimulates young minds and affects focus. Stories from Ms. Amber's experience as a mom and educator navigating these changes. [09:00 - 15:00] ADHD, Attention Spans, and Technology's Influence ADHD in simple terms: challenges with focus, self-control, and sitting still. Observations of an increase in children diagnosed with ADHD or on the spectrum. The possible link between overstimulation from screens and a decline in attention spans. [15:01 - 20:59] The Need for Connection and Play The importance of real-life, meaningful relationships for children and adults. How screen time impacts kids' ability to engage in creative play and form deep connections. Personal anecdotes on the value of outdoor play, reading, and imaginative activities. [21:00 - 24:00] Practical Strategies for Healthy Screen Time Balance screen time with active play and slow-paced activities like puzzles, blocks, and books. Tips for modeling healthy habits as parents: turn off devices during key moments to engage with children. Earned screen time as a tool for teaching patience and discipline. [24:01 - 25:00] Closing Thoughts "Small changes today can lead to big improvements for our kids tomorrow." Ms. Amber's call to action: Set boundaries, step back, and prioritize meaningful moments over screens.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: " There is harm that it's causing the relationship between screen time, social media and kids attention spans.  Like we have to pause and think like, what is it doing to our children, to our next generation and what kind of messaging is. Being sent to our kid." -Ms. Amber " Our kids are growing up into adults. Do they have meaningful relationships with other humans?" -Ms. Amber " Technology is influencing all of us as humans."-Ms. Amber " We have to parent our kids." -Ms. Amber " Yes. Technology is amazing. Yes. Technology is great. Yes. We have to embrace technology because it's not going anywhere, but I think we need boundaries. We have to set them within ourselves as well."-Ms. Amber " Remember, the small changes today can lead to big improvements for our kids tomorrow."-Ms. Amber  

In this episode of The ABC's of Preschool, Ms. Amber reflects on the challenges of parenting during tough times and how to navigate life's unexpected curveballs. Whether you're starting 2025 on a high note or feeling the weight of the new year, this heartfelt conversation will inspire and equip you to tackle the beautifully messy journey of parenting. Ms. Amber shares personal stories, practical advice, and actionable tips on how to show up for your little ones even when life feels overwhelming. From finding your tribe to taking intentional time for self-care, this episode is packed with encouragement for parents navigating the hard. Key Highlights: [00:01 - 02:00] Welcome Back! Ms. Amber returns after a break, sharing how unexpected life changes often require us to pivot and adapt. Acknowledging the ups and downs of 2025 and how parents can prepare for the challenges ahead. [02:01 - 08:00] Starting a New Year with Heaviness The reality of entering a new year with burdens rather than fresh starts. How to balance parenting with the emotional toll of life's challenges, from personal struggles to global events. [08:01 - 12:00] Protecting Your Children from Adult Burdens Why it's crucial to shield young children from adult stress. How to handle hard emotions quietly without transferring anxiety to children. [12:01 - 15:00] Steps to Navigate the Hard Acknowledge: Admit you're overwhelmed to avoid emotional buildup. Seek Help: Therapy, coaching, or trusted friends can provide vital support. Carve Out Time: Prioritize quiet moments to reflect, journal, or pray. [15:01 - 20:00] The Power of Movement and Gratitude Why moving your body daily is essential for mental and emotional health. Cultivating gratitude even during the storm can provide perspective and hope. [20:01 - 22:00] Celebrating the Messy Journey Life is beautifully messy, with highs and lows that make us stronger. A reminder that hard times teach resilience and gratitude for brighter days. If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: " Our anxiety, our stress can be so easily transferable to our children and we want to guard them and protect our children from our adult burdens." - Ms. Amber " Be strong, encourage you, feed. Like positivity so then you can wake up again in the morning and show up for your kids." -Ms. Amber " As parents, as adults, we are dealing with very hard things that our children do not know. -Ms. Amber " Bad things happen to good people all the time."-Ms. Amber " Life is Beautiful, but it is also messy."-Ms. Amber " I've been there. I've done that, and I will continue to be there and work through it because that's what life is about."-Ms. Amber " If we don't take the breaks. If we do not take care of ourselves, it will trickle into our family." -Ms. Amber " So if you're going through the heart, protect their kids, but seek help from others so you can have. Adults in your life show up for you and that you can be encouraged by others."-Ms. Amber " We have to take care of our soul. We have to take care of ourself to show up well for others." -Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber reflects on the significance of traditions in her life, from childhood memories instilled by her mom to the traditions she's created at her childcare center. She emphasizes the magic of traditions, both in family units and the workplace, and encourages listeners to cherish and continue their own cherished traditions.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 02:25] Introduction and Dedication to Traditions  Ms. Amber dedicates the episode to her late mother and reflects on her presence during surgeries. Expresses the importance of traditions in her family and at Loving Start Learning Centers. [02:26 - 07:33] Family Traditions  Ms. Amber shares her childhood Christmas tradition involving bells on bedroom doors.  Discusses the anticipation and magic created by her mom's Christmas traditions. Talks about carrying on similar traditions with her own children, including Santa's visit and Christmas breakfast. [07:34 - 13:45] Traditions in Business Describes how she started a Thanksgiving feast tradition at her preschool. Mentions the "gratitude circle" tradition, where people express gratitude. Highlights the significance of such traditions for children and families. Ms. Amber recalls starting the Christmas Extravaganza tradition in 2001 at her preschool, emphasizing the lasting impact of traditions on children and families. [13:46 - 17:43] Other Celebrations and Workplace Traditions Discusses the Valentine's Day tradition her mom started, including a special dinner. Talks about Easter traditions, such as Easter Bunny visits and egg hunts. Mentions various traditions at her childcare center, such as Easter egg hunts, Mother's Day teas, Father's Day celebrations, and more. Emphasizes the importance of creating traditions in the workplace for a sense of home and community. [17:44 - 21:36] Closing Segment  Reflects on the enduring value of traditions and their impact on her family.  Encourages listeners to think about starting or continuing traditions. Expresses gratitude for her mom's traditions and the joy they bring.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: "I think when we, as entrepreneurs, as founders, as owners, it is up to us to bring in the culture, the work life culture, and to bring in traditions and to, it starts with us to have that feeling of family extended to our team." - Ms. Amber "Bringing in traditions into the workplace, I think is an amazing thing and builds friendships, bonds, memories, joy, happiness, acceptance." - Ms. Amber "Keep it on with those traditions because your kids are really going to appreciate it. And thank you mom for those traditions."  - Ms. Amber  

In this episode, Ms. Amber dives into the heartwarming topic of "Gift Giving for Your Child's Teacher" during the holiday season. Whether you're a parent, educator, or someone who wants to show appreciation to those shaping young minds, this episode offers thoughtful and budget-friendly gift ideas that go beyond the material and make a lasting impact.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 04:00] The Joy of Giving and Receiving Why gifts for educators matter and the joy they bring. Insights into how teachers often go above and beyond, even spending their own time and money on classroom needs. Heartfelt encouragement to say "thank you" this holiday season. [04:01 - 07:00] Budget-Friendly and Memorable Gift Ideas Homemade gifts like baked goods, framed photos, and crafts. The impact of simple, heartfelt gestures like a handwritten note or card. Affordable yet thoughtful ideas, from Pinterest-inspired crafts to gift cards for coffee shops. [07:01 - 09:00] Celebrating Teachers During a Busy Season Acknowledging the whirlwind nature of the holiday season for teachers and schools. The significance of showing gratitude during the hectic December months. Personal reflections on the holiday rush and managing big events like school Christmas programs. [09:01 - 10:00] Closing Thoughts A reminder to focus on memories over perfection during the holidays. Encouragement to pause and appreciate the educators who invest in our children daily.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: "It's always really fun to get a present because the older we get, the less presents we get." -  Ms. Amber "The best presents are not the expensive presents." - Ms. Amber "You give what you want to give." - Ms. Amber "Little is best. Memories are best." - Ms. Amber  

In this episode, Miss Amber shares her tried-and-true strategies for making the holiday season magical and memorable for little ones. From managing holiday chaos to traveling with toddlers, this episode is packed with practical advice, heartwarming stories, and tips to help you thrive during this busy time of year. Whether you're a parent, educator, or caregiver, these insights will inspire you to embrace the beauty of the season through the eyes of children.   Key Highlights: [00:00 - 03:59] The Holiday Rush Amber reflects on the beautifully messy journey of raising little ones during the holidays. Why the holiday season can feel overwhelming for both parents and kids. Amber shares her favorite family traditions, from sleeping in one room on Christmas Eve to morning excitement. A funny story about teaching her child the magic of believing in Santa. [04:00 - 06:59] Magic Through a Child's Eyes The wonder of Christmas from a child's perspective. Managing expectations: focusing on creating memories over achieving perfection. Encouraging parents to step back and see the holidays through their little one's lens. [07:00 - 08:59] Managing Sensory Overload How new environments, lights, and schedules can overwhelm young children. Tips for respecting individual personalities—why some kids love Santa, while others may fear him. [09:00 - 11:59] Travel Tips for Parents The importance of maintaining routines during the holiday season. Amber's personal strategies for handling family events with young children, including knowing when to leave to avoid meltdowns. Packing essentials for airplane travel: snacks, comfort items, and new toys to keep kids entertained. [12:00 - 13:30] Final Thoughts A reminder to prioritize joy and connection during the holidays. Embracing the chaos as part of the magic and cherishing the memories you're creating. If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: "Christmas is just so special and magical. And as parents, we want everything to be perfect, but it's not going to be perfect." - Ms. Amber "It's memories over perfection." - Ms. Amber "Every child just handles holidays different. Just like we all handle holidays different." - Ms. Amber "The memories, the traditions over perfectionism." -Ms. Amber  

In this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, Ms. Amber dives deep into the heart of early childhood education with a powerful message about Engaging Young Minds: The Power of Hands-On Learning. Drawing from her recent experience speaking at an international conference in London, Ms. Amber shares personal insights, stories, and 24 years of expertise in running a successful preschool program that thrives on hands-on, engaging curriculum. Whether you're a parent, educator, or passionate about childhood development, this episode will inspire you to rethink how we nurture our youngest learners.   Key Highlights: [00:00- 03:00] Behind the Scenes of Speaking Internationally Ms. Amber reflects on her recent journey to speak at a London conference. The challenges of putting yourself out there and pursuing new ventures in education. Personal reflections on imposter syndrome and staying motivated despite setbacks. [03:01 - 07:00] The Case for Hands-On Learning Why hands-on, multi-modal curricula are essential for early childhood education. The importance of creating learning environments that meet the needs of every child. Why sticking to one teaching philosophy, like Montessori or Waldorf, might limit some learners. [07:01 - 10:00] Breaking Out of the Box How engaging, diverse activities—like sensory bins, cooking projects, music, and art—enhance learning. Encouraging curiosity and individuality through open-ended play and exploration. The role of outdoor classrooms in making learning magical. [10:01 - 12:00] Preparing Preschoolers for Kindergarten and Beyond Balancing academic readiness with social, emotional, and motor skills development. Why fostering a love of learning is more important than rigid academic goals. Creating memories and experiences that make children excited to attend school. [12:01 - 13:00] A Challenge for Educators Reflection questions for educators: Is your classroom balanced between play and academics? Tips to avoid burnout and keep young learners engaged and happy. A reminder to embrace the messy, magical moments that make early childhood education so rewarding. If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: "One way is the only way in early childhood education." - Ms. Amber "Let kids pick their own jobs. Let them work on their own pace." - Ms. Amber "We want our kids to thrive and be successful and have a love of learning that will last them a lifetime." - Ms. Amber "A successful day for our early learners is them coming home with paint all over them and dirt from the garden and outside." - Ms. Amber  

In this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, Miss Amber shares her journey from "daycare provider" to "early childhood educator" and why she believes it's time for childcare providers everywhere to elevate their work by rebranding daycare as preschool. Amber, a mother of five and early childhood expert with over 25 years in the industry, emphasizes that early childhood care is more than just "watching kids"—it's a profession with a powerful impact on young lives. She gives insights on how using the term "preschool" can increase credibility, professional respect, and demand for your program. If you're a daycare owner or home provider, tune in to learn why and how you can make the shift to being a recognized preschool educator. Key Highlights: [00:00 - 02:00] Introduction to the Podcast Amber shares her experience in early childhood education and her passion for helping childcare providers thrive. A friendly reminder: memories matter more than material gifts; encourage experiences and memories over "stuff." [02:01 - 04:00] Family Memories Matter Amber discusses her recent family vacation and the value of shared memories. Highlights the importance of building memories with children at any age. [04:01 - 06:00] Why Transition from "Daycare" to "Preschool"? Shifting terminology from daycare to preschool enhances professionalism and credibility. "Preschool" implies structured learning, positioning you as an educator rather than just a caregiver. [06:01 - 09:00] Establishing Your Space as a Preschool Tips on setting up a classroom environment, even in a home setting, with centers, schedules, and visuals. How Amber successfully branded her home-based childcare as a preschool from day one. [09:01 - 11:00] Increased Demand and Appeal for Preschool Programs Many parents look for preschool programs specifically for structure and early learning. Using "preschool" in your marketing can attract families who value education in early childhood. [11:01 - 13:00] Benefits of Professionalism and Setting Boundaries How setting boundaries and maintaining professionalism leads to respect from clients. Why clearly defining your program as a preschool can lead to better adherence to policies and boundaries. [13:01 - 15:00] Meeting Parental Expectations for Learning Environments Parents are willing to invest in a nurturing and educational environment, not just "babysitting." Tips on creating a learning-focused space, including organizing play areas, displaying schedules, and having daily activities. [15:01 - 18:00] Amber's Vision for Early Childhood Providers Amber's passion for elevating early childhood education through professionalism. Encouragement to shift to a preschool mindset and brand, setting your business apart from the daycare crowd.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: "Your home life is valuable." - Ms. Amber "Your time with your family is just as important as their time with their children, but if you do not set those boundaries and set that standard, then people aren't going to follow the rules."  - Ms. Amber "We always have to be growing and learning in any field in our journey as a person itself."  - Ms. Amber "To be the best educators. We also need that break." - Ms. Amber  

In this Episode of The ABCs of Preschool, Ms. Amber Explores Faith and Personal Growth. Join Ms. Amber as she takes listeners on a heartfelt journey through her life and faith. This special episode of The ABCs of Preschool is a deeply personal reflection on the lessons, challenges, and transformations that shaped her perspective. From growing up in a devout Christian environment to navigating her own spiritual path as an adult, Amber opens up about the role of faith, gratitude, and personal intention in her life. Whether you're a parent, teacher, or simply curious, this episode offers insights on how personal beliefs and experiences can impact both parenting and personal growth. Key Highlights: [00:00 - 01:00] Introduction Amber shares her journey as a mom of five and early childhood expert with over 25 years in the industry. An exploration of her goals to inspire and empower parents, educators, and listeners through real-life experiences and expert insights. [01:01 - 03:00] A Personal Look into Faith and Gratitude Amber reveals her journey to gratitude and living with intention, and how she has reframed her life story after health challenges. Discovery of the Blue Zones and the importance of community, spirituality, and purpose in longevity. [03:01 - 07:00] Childhood Faith and Early Church Experiences Amber recounts her strict Pentecostal upbringing, discussing the weight of perfectionism and fear of sin that shaped her early years. Reflections on navigating a highly disciplined lifestyle centered around church activities and values. [07:01 - 10:00] Adolescence and Early Adulthood Highlights of Amber's teenage years, where she followed strict religious beliefs, often feeling disconnected from mainstream culture. Her path to marriage at a young age and journey as a "good girl" adhering to traditional Christian values. [10:01 - 12:00] Life Challenges and Spiritual Evolution Amber opens up about her struggles in marriage and leaving the church. The journey through major life events, including a challenging divorce and cancer diagnosis, which shaped her spiritual perspective. [12:01 - 15:00] Returning to Faith with a New Perspective A pivotal morning in 2018 when Amber felt a strong pull to reconnect with worship music and embrace faith again. She discusses the healing and comfort that faith brought her during tough times and her journey toward a more balanced and personal relationship with spirituality.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: "Through all the heart in my life, I felt God with me." - Ms. Amber "I never disbelieved in God." - Ms. Amber "Just because we believe in God or if we have faith doesn't mean we're not going to have the hard times because we are." - Ms. Amber "Going through the hard times with that higher power and that faith and that belief, it can carry us through." - Ms. Amber "Whether you believe or not, I feel like God is a God of love and grace and forgiveness and passion." - Ms. Amber "I am thankful for the journey and I'm thankful for God's faithfulness." - Ms. Amber "God is a God of love, not a God that wants perfection." - Ms. Amber

In this episode of the ABCs of Preschool, Ms. Amber makes a big announcement! After years of planning, she's officially franchising Loving Start Learning Center! Whether you're an aspiring educator, a stay-at-home mom, or a community leader interested in early childhood education, Ms. Amber shares her journey and vision for expanding high-quality, loving childcare across communities. With over 24 years of expertise, she explains how this new chapter allows others to create impactful early learning environments with the support of her proven methods. Key Highlights: [00:01:00 - 02:00] Loving Start Becomes a Franchise Ms. Amber announces her official franchise status and shares her excitement. Discusses the unique franchise model that offers flexibility and personalization for educators and caregivers. [02:01 - 05:00] The Road to Franchising Insights into the two-year journey of developing Loving Start as a franchise. Overcoming challenges, self-doubt, and the importance of believing in her vision. [05:01 - 07:00] The Inspiration Behind Loving Start Origin story: transitioning from a stay-at-home mom to a school owner, starting with only four students. How her kitchen table turned into an early childhood learning space and the rapid growth of her school. [07:01 - 09:00] Financial Independence and Community Impact How her business empowered her to leave a challenging marriage and achieve financial security. The value of creating a positive, lasting impact in her community through quality childcare. [09:01 - 11:00] Accessible Models for Everyone Introducing three franchise models: Home, Small, and Large—each tailored for different community needs. Ms. Amber's commitment to making childcare accessible for both new moms and community organizations. [11:01 - 13:00] Collaboration with Churches and Community Centers Opportunity for churches to host Loving Start schools and benefit both financially and socially. Shared goals of love, kindness, and grace in nurturing young children. [13:01 - 15:00] A Family-First Franchise Culture Ms. Amber's vision of a supportive franchise "family" where members can rely on each other. Detailed training, onsite support, and proven curriculum to ensure success. Whether you're ready to start a career in childcare, looking to create a flexible income, or seeking a way to give back to your community, this episode is packed with inspiration and practical insights. Listen in to learn how Ms. Amber's journey could be the start of yours!   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: "This early childhood career is so magical because every day is so different." - Ms. Amber "I believe in making positive impact for the communities because everybody needs high quality childcare that's loving and kind uplifting with our kids." - Ms. Amber "I've always run my businesses like a family." - Ms. Amber

In this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, Ms. Amber dives into the transformative power of gratitude and introduces listeners to a "November Gratitude Challenge." This episode encourages everyone to cultivate thankfulness not just during the holiday season but every day of the year. Ms. Amber shares personal insights, practical tips, and the benefits of practicing gratitude daily—no matter the challenges we face. Key Highlights: [00:00 - 01:00] Introduction Ms. Amber introduces herself as a mom of five and early childhood expert. Overview of the podcast's goal: to empower parents and educators navigating the early years. [01:00 - 04:00] Embracing November with Gratitude Ms. Amber shares her love for fall and the inspiration for a November Gratitude Challenge. Encourages listeners to start each day with gratitude, even in tough moments. Personal stories on how gratitude shapes her mindset, especially during challenging days. [04:00 - 06:00] Why Gratitude Matters The physical, mental, and emotional benefits of a daily gratitude practice. Reflections on clean water, electricity, and everyday conveniences often taken for granted. Stories from travels that reinforce the importance of appreciating life's basic comforts. [06:00 - 09:00] Creating a 12-Month Gratitude Habit Transforming November's gratitude practice into a daily, year-round habit. Examples of how gratitude positively affects physical health, emotional balance, and overall outlook. Discussing her previous 30-day challenge and the value of reflecting on memories. [09:00 - 12:00] Practicing Gratitude in Daily Life Practical ways to incorporate gratitude: journaling, listing gratitudes with family, and daily mindfulness. Shares a personal morning routine with her husband focused on gratitude. Insights on how speaking gratitude enhances joy and optimism. [12:00 - 13:30] Gratitude for Health and Well-being Reflecting on overcoming health challenges and the role gratitude plays in her healing. The mental shift that gratitude brings, reducing stress and improving overall wellness. [13:30 - 15:00] Creating a Family Ritual Around Gratitude Tips for teaching children about gratitude, such as sharing daily thankfulness at dinnertime. Emphasizing that gratitude is a lifelong practice for better mental, physical, and emotional health.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: "Thanksgiving is a time where we get together with family and we get together with friends." - Ms. Amber "Having a gratitude journal is a powerful thing." - Ms. Amber "Gratitude brings another element of resilience to the human spirit." - Ms. Amber  

In this Episode, She takes on a question many families face: Should we have another child? Whether you're contemplating adding to your tribe or still on the fence, this episode dives into the heart of this personal and complex decision. She shares her personal insights, from the chaos of early parenting to the love that multiplies with each new child. If you've ever wondered if you're ready to expand your family, this episode will help you reflect on the emotional, practical, and financial factors involved.   Key Highlights: [00:00 - 02:00] Intro: Acknowledging Parenthood Choices Amber opens the discussion by emphasizing the deeply personal nature of deciding whether to have kids or add more to the family. She touches on how society is slowly accepting that not everyone chooses to become a parent, and that's perfectly okay. [02:01 - 04:00] The Emotions Behind Expanding Your Family Amber shares the mixed emotions that come with deciding to have another child—excitement, doubt, and anticipation of more chaos. She recounts her own journey as a mom of five and reflects on how her family dynamic evolved with each new child. [04:01 - 06:00] Navigating Pregnancy and Labor Fears Amber discusses how fears of another difficult pregnancy or labor can hold parents back. She opens up about her own traumatic labor experience and how it shaped her thoughts on expanding her family. [06:01 - 08:00] The Impact of Adding Another Child How adding another baby can shift the balance within the family, affecting both the parents and older siblings. Amber highlights the inevitable life changes and the increase in practical responsibilities, like budgeting for diapers and food. [08:01 - 10:00] Age Gaps and Energy Levels Amber talks about the importance of considering age gaps between children and how they can influence family dynamics. She shares her personal preference for having her children close in age, though she acknowledges that every family's situation is unique. [10:01 - 12:00] Budgeting for More Kids Amber discusses the financial implications of having more children and why it's crucial to budget for diapers, daycare, and other essentials. She emphasizes that while kids can be expensive, families don't need to break the bank to raise happy children. [12:01 - 14:00] More Love, More Fun, But Also More Stress Amber reflects on the balance of having more children: more love, fun, and joy, but also more stress, noise, and mess. She shares that despite the challenges, the love multiplies with each child, and the relationships between siblings bring a special kind of joy.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: "We hope to lay a really strong foundation in learning and creating an excitement and a love of learning that will last a lifetime." - Ms. Amber "Educators and parents, we have to work closely together because we both want what's best for your child." - Ms. Amber "I always say the faster the drop off the better because when you prolong it, it's confusing." - Ms. Amber  

In this Episode, She takes on a question many families face: Should we have another child? Whether you're contemplating adding to your tribe or still on the fence, this episode dives into the heart of this personal and complex decision. She shares her personal insights, from the chaos of early parenting to the love that multiplies with each new child. If you've ever wondered if you're ready to expand your family, this episode will help you reflect on the emotional, practical, and financial factors involved.   Key Highlights: [00:00 - 02:00] Intro: Acknowledging Parenthood Choices Amber opens the discussion by emphasizing the deeply personal nature of deciding whether to have kids or add more to the family. She touches on how society is slowly accepting that not everyone chooses to become a parent, and that's perfectly okay. [02:01 - 04:00] The Emotions Behind Expanding Your Family Amber shares the mixed emotions that come with deciding to have another child—excitement, doubt, and anticipation of more chaos. She recounts her own journey as a mom of five and reflects on how her family dynamic evolved with each new child. [04:01 - 06:00] Navigating Pregnancy and Labor Fears Amber discusses how fears of another difficult pregnancy or labor can hold parents back. She opens up about her own traumatic labor experience and how it shaped her thoughts on expanding her family. [06:01 - 08:00] The Impact of Adding Another Child How adding another baby can shift the balance within the family, affecting both the parents and older siblings. Amber highlights the inevitable life changes and the increase in practical responsibilities, like budgeting for diapers and food. [08:01 - 10:00] Age Gaps and Energy Levels Amber talks about the importance of considering age gaps between children and how they can influence family dynamics. She shares her personal preference for having her children close in age, though she acknowledges that every family's situation is unique. [10:01 - 12:00] Budgeting for More Kids Amber discusses the financial implications of having more children and why it's crucial to budget for diapers, daycare, and other essentials. She emphasizes that while kids can be expensive, families don't need to break the bank to raise happy children. [12:01 - 14:00] More Love, More Fun, But Also More Stress Amber reflects on the balance of having more children: more love, fun, and joy, but also more stress, noise, and mess. She shares that despite the challenges, the love multiplies with each child, and the relationships between siblings bring a special kind of joy.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: "Nobody should ever feel pressure into having another child, period." - Ms. Amber "Every child, every little human soul that comes into this world is completely different on their own path." - Ms. Amber "The more kids you have, the more love that starts brewing in your heart and soul and you love them all so deeply." - Ms. Amber

In this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, Join she dives into the age-old discussion of "working moms vs stay-at-home moms"—but with a refreshing twist! Rather than fueling the divide, Ms. Amber highlights the importance of unity among all moms, whether they carry a briefcase or a diaper bag. She also shares personal stories from her own journey as both a stay-at-home mom and a working mom-turned-entrepreneur. Key Highlights: [00:00 - 01:00] Welcome to The ABCs of Preschool Introduction to the podcast and Ms. Amber's mission to cover everything from parenting to child care, offering real, raw advice on how to thrive in the early years. Insights from Ms. Amber's 25+ years of experience, as a mom and childhood expert. [01:00 - 02:00] The Divide: Working Moms vs. Stay-at-Home Moms Amber reflects on her own experience as a new mom in the early 2000s and how the debate between working and stay-at-home moms affected her personally. She acknowledges the unspoken tension between these two "camps," emphasizing that regardless of career or home responsibilities, everyone is just trying to survive and do their best. [02:00 - 04:00] Expectations vs. Reality Growing up, Amber imagined she'd be a stay-at-home mom, following her own mother's footsteps. She envisioned the "perfect" stay-at-home life of cooking, cleaning, and managing everything. Reality struck when Amber became a stay-at-home mom for only four months before realizing it wasn't fulfilling for her. She transitioned to a part-time job, which eventually led to entrepreneurship. [04:00 - 06:00] Why the Stereotypes Need to Stop Whether a working mom or stay-at-home mom, Amber emphasizes that no one has it easy. She shares how both groups are overwhelmed by unrealistic stereotypes—working moms seen as superhuman jugglers and stay-at-home moms viewed as lounging around, neither of which reflect reality. [06:00 - 08:00] The Challenges of Both Roles Amber discusses the guilt working moms face for missing out on moments with their children and the guilt stay-at-home moms experience for not contributing financially. Both roles come with significant sacrifices and challenges, and Amber urges listeners to stop the judgment and embrace their chosen paths. [08:00 - 09:00] It's Okay to Change Your Mind Life doesn't always follow the script we plan, and Amber encourages moms to honor whatever path fulfills them, whether it's working, staying at home, or a mix of both. A reminder that it's okay to evolve and make decisions based on what's best for you and your family, even if it wasn't what you originally envisioned. [09:00 - 12:00] The Importance of Self-Care Amber stresses the importance of self-care for both stay-at-home and working moms, recounting her own struggles with burnout and exhaustion. She shares practical tips on carving out personal time, whether it's finding a few hours for yourself during the week or asking for help with childcare. [12:00 - End] A Call for Unity Regardless of whether you're a working mom or stay-at-home mom, Amber reminds listeners that all moms experience moments of frustration, guilt, and exhaustion. A heartfelt message that we're all just one meltdown away from locking ourselves in the bathroom for a good cry—and that's okay. We're all in this together.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: "Whether you're a working mom or a stay at home mom, no one has it easy." - Ms. Amber "If we're not filling our own cup, how can we be the best versions to our kids?" - Ms. Amber "More of us women need to lift each other up and not go behind each other's back and talk, talk, talk..." - Ms. Amber "We need to acknowledge, if it's not working for you, it's okay to change your mind and do the opposite." - Ms. Amber

In this Episode Join she delves into the fascinating topic of child growth and development. As an early childhood expert and mom of five, Miss Amber shares her personal and professional insights on how each child develops at their own unique pace—emotionally, physically, and mentally. This episode serves as a gentle reminder for parents and educators alike to embrace the differences in children's growth patterns and provide the grace and patience each child needs.   Key Highlights:   [00:00 - 01:00] Introduction Miss Amber introduces herself, shares her background, and sets the stage for today's episode on child growth. A glimpse into how the early years are both magical and messy, with personal stories and expert insights to guide listeners.   [01:00 - 02:00] The Inspiration Behind Today's Episode Amber reflects on a beautiful day in Northern California, while her shirt slogan, "We All Grow at Different Rates," inspires the day's topic. Open discussion on meeting with her team and the importance of understanding individual growth in the classroom and beyond.   [02:00 - 03:00] Kids Grow at Different Rates—What Does It Mean? Real-life examples of children developing physically, emotionally, and socially at their own pace. The importance of avoiding unrealistic expectations based solely on appearance.   [03:00 - 04:00] Parenting Multiple Children Amber shares personal experiences with her own kids, who all hit developmental milestones at different ages. The importance of giving grace and understanding each child's individual journey.   [04:00 - 06:00] The Magic of Ages 0-5 Amber dives into the wonder of physical growth during the early years, from gaining height to developing muscles. The joy of hand-me-downs and matching outfits for her kids.   [06:00 - 07:00] Mental Growth is Just as Important Discussion on children's mental growth—learning to talk, walk, and play with others. Amber shares personal stories of her children developing language skills at different rates, from early talkers to kids needing speech interventions.   [07:00 - 09:00] Understanding Emotional Growth Recognizing and nurturing children's emotional development. Amber stresses the importance of giving children the tools to handle their feelings, like using sign language to help toddlers communicate before they can speak.   [09:00 - 11:00] Why Do Kids Grow at Different Rates? Exploring the various reasons behind different growth rates, including genetics and environment. Amber compares how children learn and grow at different speeds, just like adults mastering new skills.   [11:00 - 12:00] Genetics and Environment How genetics determine traits like height and body shape, and how environment, nutrition, and movement influence children's growth. Amber emphasizes the role of caregivers in providing nutritious food and encouraging physical activity to promote healthy growth.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: "The more words that kids have, the more they can communicate, the more they won't be as frustrated." – Ms. Amber "Kids don't have a choice. Kids are little, they have no choices. It's up to the adults in their world, in their life to take care of them fully." – Ms. Amber "There's no two kids that are the same. It's just like flowers bloom earlier than others and kids grow at their own pace." – Ms. Amber "Every child grows at their own pace and it's so important to support them with love, good food, play time and rest." – Ms. Amber  

In this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, Miss Amber delves into the heartfelt journey of parenting—balancing responsibilities, nurturing independence, and embracing the inevitable imperfections along the way. Whether you're a new parent, an experienced one, or preparing to start a family, this episode offers invaluable insights into raising confident, capable children. Key Highlights: [00:00 - 02:00] Introduction and Personal Reflection Miss Amber opens up about her journey in early childhood education and parenting five kids. The overwhelming information overload today versus relying on books in the past. [02:01 - 03:00] The Weight of Parenting Discussing the normality of feeling overwhelmed as a new parent. The pressure of raising well-rounded human beings and making inevitable mistakes. [03:01 - 05:00] Teaching Independence Early Miss Amber's personal experience of teaching her kids to cook from a young age. How small responsibilities, like meal planning and cooking, helped her children become more self-sufficient. [05:01 - 06:30] Embracing the Chaos of a Full House Sharing a heartwarming moment with her adult children cooking and interacting, reflecting on their growth. The joy of watching them thrive as independent adults. [06:31 - 07:30] Parenting is Lifelong Learning How each phase of parenting—from early childhood to adulthood—is a continuous learning experience. Recognizing that every child is different and requires unique approaches. [07:31 - 08:30] Giving Grace to Yourself and Your Kids A reminder to extend grace to yourself and your children when mistakes happen. Emphasizing growth, learning, and doing better without striving for perfection. [08:31 - 10:00] Fostering Confidence and Responsibility Encouraging children to take ownership of their needs, from ordering food at a restaurant to taking on age-appropriate chores. Promoting independence from a young age, helping children build confidence and life skills. [10:01 - 11:30] Avoiding Labels and Letting Kids Find Their Own Way The importance of not boxing children into specific labels like "smart" or "athletic." Praising effort and character, allowing children to grow into their unique identities. [11:31 - 13:00] Open Communication and Setting Realistic Expectations Encouraging parents to check if their dreams align with their children's passions. Keeping communication open to help children express their needs and desires freely.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!               Tweetable Quotes: "Accept that you want to do better." – Ms. Amber "Always learn and always want to do better." – Ms. Amber "Part of being a parent is being a teacher, a leader, through grace and kindness for our kids, but leading by example." – Ms. Amber "One day it's gonna so fast. They're going to fly and it's my job to teach my kids how to fly." - Ms. Amber "Boundaries, love, kindness, respect, nurturing and expectations are really good things for our kids." – Ms. Amber

In this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, Ms. Amber talks about the importance of taking vacations and the power of travel for both personal and family growth. Whether you're a parent, educator, or curious about early childhood education, this episode is a thoughtful dive into why we shouldn't wait for retirement to explore the world. Ms. Amber shares her personal experiences, insights on travel's impact, and the mental and emotional benefits it brings. From her adventures in Alaska to personal stories of balancing work, family, and travel, this episode encourages listeners to embrace experiences over material gifts.   Key Highlights:   [00:01:00] Embracing Vacations and Why We Shouldn't Wait ·        Amber reflects on her recent Alaska cruise and why travel now, not later, is crucial. ·        Observing the struggles of older travelers inspires a message: don't wait until retirement to enjoy life. ·        Her early travels to Mexico and Africa shaped her passion for exploring new cultures.   [00:04:00] Experiences Over Material Gifts ·        Why Amber prioritizes travel and experiences over gifts for her children. ·        She shares how traveling as a family builds lasting memories and strengthens family bonds. ·        The shift from giving numerous gifts to gifting one big family vacation.   [00:06:00] The Power of Travel for Clarity and Creativity ·        How stepping away from work and embracing new environments brings clarity to big life decisions. ·        As a business owner, Amber finds travel essential for fostering creativity and avoiding burnout.   [00:08:00] The Tattoo That Symbolizes Adventure and Freedom ·        Amber's personal story about the tattoo she got during a pivotal moment in her life. ·        The importance of embracing adventure and making choices that align with personal freedom.   [00:10:00] Why Tomorrow Isn't Promised ·        Amber opens up about her battle with breast cancer and how it shaped her view on seizing life's moments. ·        Encourages listeners not to put off travel and to embrace opportunities when they arise.   [00:12:00] Planning Family Trips and Prioritizing Travel ·        Amber shares her excitement for an upcoming family cruise to Spain, France, and Italy. ·        She explains how travel resets the family dynamic and creates unforgettable memories. ·        The value of quality time spent together while exploring new cities.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!               Tweetable Quotes: "We all may look different, but we are human." – Ms. Amber "Taking trips with just your partner is just as important…especially when you're raising little ones." – Ms. Amber "Mommy and daddy need breaks too, and you'll be better parents if you take that break." – Ms. Amber "Travel now, make it more of a priority in your life." – Ms. Amber

In this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, Ms. Amber dives into the essential strategies for "Standing Out in the Crowd: Tips for Early Childcare Centers." Whether you're a preschool owner, director, or educator, this episode is packed with practical insights to help your center thrive in a competitive market. Ms. Amber, an early childhood expert with over 25 years of experience, shares her proven methods for creating a distinctive educational philosophy, engaging your community, and investing in a high-quality staff to make your center the go-to choice for parents.   Key Highlights: [00:00 - 01:00] Welcome to The ABCs of Preschool Introduction to the podcast and Ms. Amber's background in early childhood education. The focus of the episode: Tips for early childcare centers to stand out in a crowded market. [01:01 - 03:00] Standing Out in Early Childhood Education Ms. Amber reflects on her long career and the importance of owning her expertise. The challenge of making your childcare center unique when there are so many options for parents. [03:01 - 05:00] Tip #1: Create a Unique Educational Philosophy or Curriculum The importance of having a clear and distinctive educational philosophy. Examples of various philosophies: Montessori, Waldorf, play-based, and more. How to incorporate multiple philosophies to cater to different learning styles. [05:01 - 07:00] Tip #2: Tailoring to Community Needs The value of understanding and responding to your community's specific needs. Adjusting schedules and programs based on the demographic trends in your area. Ms. Amber's experience with tailoring her centers' offerings to meet community demands. [07:01 - 09:00] Tip #3: Communicating Your Unique Approach The critical role of communication in differentiating your center. Ensuring your staff fully understands and can articulate your center's philosophy and curriculum. The importance of having a strong, aligned team that can effectively represent your brand. [09:01 - 10:00] Tip #4: Enhancing Parent and Community Engagement The significance of creating a community within your school through events and activities. Examples of successful events: Ice cream socials, Thanksgiving feasts, and holiday programs. Building a positive reputation by fostering connections among families. [10:01 - 11:00] Tip #5: Gathering Testimonials and Word of Mouth The power of positive testimonials and word of mouth in attracting new families. Strategies for encouraging families to leave reviews, such as review drives and raffles. Importance of maintaining a positive online presence with reviews on Google, Facebook, etc. [11:01 - 12:00] Tip #6: Investing in High-Quality Staff The necessity of having a dedicated, high-quality team to ensure your center's success. Ms. Amber's advice on hiring, training, and, when necessary, letting go of staff who do not align with your center's values.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!  Tweetable Quotes: "To stand out in a crowd, you have to know exactly what you stand for." – Ms. Amber "It's a sad thing because so many people are easy to complain, right? but it's so much harder for people to actually tell you the good." – Ms. Amber "Part of the magic of preschool is friendships." – Ms. Amber "For a school to work the best way and to be the best and to stand out, you've got to have the best team." – Ms. Amber "Your staff should come first and then everything else." – Ms. Amber

In this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, Ms. Amber acknowledges and appreciates the tireless work of home daycare providers while offering valuable tips to make the job a little easier. Whether you're an experienced provider or just starting, this episode is packed with practical advice on streamlining operations, delegating tasks, and managing your time effectively. Learn how to create a structured yet flexible routine that keeps the kids engaged and makes your day run smoothly. Discover the importance of self-care, setting boundaries, and building a supportive network to avoid burnout and ensure long-term success in your childcare business. Key Highlights: [00:00 - 01:00] Welcome and Introduction Ms. Amber introduces the show and its mission to support parents, educators, and those curious about early childhood education. A special shoutout to home daycare providers for their dedication and hard work. [01:01 - 02:00] Acknowledging Home Daycare Providers Recognition of the challenging role home daycare providers play in children's lives. Emphasis on the impact they have on both the children and the families they serve. [02:01 - 05:00] Streamlining Operations Simplifying daily routines to reduce stress and improve the flow of the day. The importance of having a structured schedule that includes drop-off, circle time, outdoor play, and more. Tips on creating a routine that engages children and makes transitions smoother. [05:01 - 07:00] The Power of Delegation Encouragement to delegate tasks to reduce workload and prevent burnout. Ideas for hiring assistants or interns to help with day-to-day operations. Setting boundaries and treating your daycare as a business for greater respect and success. [07:01 - 10:00] Effective Time Management and Self-Care The significance of self-care for home daycare providers and how to carve out time for it. Task batching and planning to optimize your schedule and make your workload more manageable. Encouragement to outsource tasks that drain your energy, using platforms like Fiverr and Canva. [10:01 - 12:00] Building a Supportive Network and Parent Involvement The benefits of connecting with other daycare providers and joining supportive communities. Ideas for involving parents in your daycare, such as having them read stories or participate in activities with the children. Outsourcing and utilizing tools to lighten your workload and improve your daycare services.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe! You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy. Thank you for tuning in!  Tweetable Quotes: "You are not just providing amazing care. You are an entrepreneur." – Ms. Amber "You are a business owner. Own it, accept it, celebrate it." – Ms. Amber "Boundaries are really important, especially for early childhood educators and especially for you home daycare providers." – Ms. Amber "Set boundaries with your parents and set your daycare up as a business." – Ms. Amber

In this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, Ms. Amber shares a personal journey of transformation and offers valuable insights into how changing your story can change your life. With over 25 years of experience in early childhood education, Amber opens up about her own struggles and how she overcame them by rewriting the narrative that held her back. If you're ready to let go of old patterns and step into a healthier, more empowered version of yourself, this episode is a must-listen. Key Highlights: [00:00 - 02:00] Introduction & Setting the Scene Welcome to the ABCs of Preschool, hosted by Ms. Amber, a mom of five and early childhood expert. Reflecting on the beauty of fall in Northern California and setting the tone for a fresh start in the new school year. [02:01 - 03:00] The Power of a New Beginning Discussing the excitement and opportunities that come with the start of a new school year. Personal reflection on how the new year signifies a time for fresh ideas and transformation. [03:01 - 07:00] Change Your Story, Change Your Life Amber shares her personal story of feeling stuck in a negative narrative about her health. The realization that she needed to change her story to break free from the fear and illness that had defined her life. [07:01 - 09:00] The Process of Transformation How Amber took control of her health by removing gluten from her diet and starting a daily walking routine. The importance of daily affirmations and positive self-talk in changing her mindset. [09:01 - 11:00] Identifying and Confronting Your Story Loop The first step in transformation is identifying the negative story loop that plays in your head. Amber encourages listeners to reflect on their own limiting beliefs and decide to let go of the narratives that no longer serve them. [11:01 - 13:00] Reflecting on Why We Hold Onto Negative Narratives Exploring why people hold onto negative stories, often rooted in past trauma or experiences. Amber shares her journey of overcoming a narrative of illness and how she shifted her mindset towards health and strength. [13:01 - 16:00] Practical Steps to Rewrite Your Narrative Practical tips for changing your story: Identify the negative loop, reflect on its origins, and replace it with a positive affirmation. The impact of consistent daily practices, such as walking and positive affirmations, in creating lasting change. [16:01 - 18:00] Wrapping Up & Encouragement Amber encourages listeners to take the first step towards rewriting their narrative and to believe in their ability to transform their lives. Closing thoughts on the power of mindset and the importance of being intentional about the stories we tell ourselves. If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!    Tweetable Quotes: "We need to think it, believe it, and feel it, and then change will start happening." – Ms. Amber "We can only change us. We can only change our story and our story loop in our lives." – Ms. Amber "Say it 10 times a day, I am strong. I am financially free. I am enough. I am love." – Ms. Amber

In this episode of the ABCs of Preschool, host Ms. Amber, an experienced mom and early childhood expert, opens up about her personal journey with postpartum depression. She discusses the importance of addressing this often-stigmatized topic and encourages women to seek help without shame. Ms. Amber explains what postpartum depression is, how it differs from the baby blues, and shares her own experiences with panic attacks and treatment. The episode calls for a more open dialogue about mental health in motherhood, aiming to empower and support mothers experiencing postpartum depression.   Key Highlights: Postpartum Depression - Personal Journey (1:14 - 3:05) ·        Ms. Amber shares personal experience with postpartum depression. Importance of Mental Health Conversation (3:05 - 4:11) ·        The need for open conversations, urging women not to carry shame and to seek help. Understanding Postpartum Depression (4:32 - 7:03) ·        Postpartum depression and it symptoms ·        How it differs from the typical "baby blues" Statistics and Normalization (10:50 - 11:14) ·        Startling statistic that 1 in 7 mothers experience postpartum depression ·        He need to normalize the conversation and support affected women. Hormonal Changes and Their Impact (11:14 - 12:00) ·        How hormonal changes after childbirth contribute to postpartum depression ·        The significant impact these changes can have on a mother's mental health.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.     Thank you for tuning in!               Tweetable Quotes: "We are not a bad person because we are suffering and we feel like we have darkness in us." -Ms. Amber "As women were supposed to be nurturers and caretakers and we're supposed to be super women all the freaking time."  -Ms. Amber "It's so fascinating. 1 out of 7 moms, 14% experience PPD.  That is crazy." – Ms. Amber  

In this episode of The ABC's A Preschool Podcast, Miss Amber delves into the complexities of having tough conversations with staff, particularly when it involves demotions. She shares her insights on the unique challenges women face in leadership roles and the importance of addressing underperformance to enhance team dynamics and business success. Drawing from her 24 years of experience, Amber provides practical advice on preparing for and conducting these conversations, while maintaining kindness and professionalism.   Key Highlights: Introduction to Navigating Tough Conversations: [00:00] Overview of the episode's focus on managing tough conversations, especially demotions. Challenges Women Face in Leadership: [00:16] Discussing the specific obstacles women encounter in leadership roles. Identifying Performance Issues: [01:26] Recognizing signs of underperformance and its impact on the team. Addressing Team Dynamics: [02:32] The importance of understanding and managing team dynamics in difficult conversations. Preparing for Difficult Conversations: [06:45] Steps for gathering evidence, assessing personal biases, and planning the conversation. Conducting the Conversation: [09:52] Best practices for holding the conversation, including setting a private setting and maintaining clarity. Post-Conversation Steps: [14:34] How to follow up, set clear expectations, and communicate changes to the team. Encouraging Open Communication: [16:45] Fostering a culture of open communication and feedback within the team. Conclusion and Final Thoughts: [17:08] Recap and final thoughts on managing tough conversations and ensuring team cohesion.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!   Tweetable Quotes: "Navigating tough conversations in childcare is never easy, but it's necessary for the success of your team." – Ms. Amber "As women, we often shy away from tough conversations, but honesty delivered with kindness can lead to powerful outcomes." – Ms. Amber "Transparency, respect, and kindness are key when having tough conversations with your team." – Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber dives into the complex and evolving topic of sharing our children's lives on social media. With over 25 years of experience in early childhood education and as a mom of five, Amber brings a thoughtful perspective on the ethical implications and impacts of documenting and broadcasting our kids' lives online. Whether you're a parent, educator, or simply curious about this issue, this episode offers valuable insights into the pros and cons of social media exposure for children.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 03:12] Personal Reflections on Social Media Amber reflects on her journey with social media, from early days on Facebook to modern vlogging. The evolution of documenting children's lives and how past practices compare with today's digital landscape.   [03:13 - 08:45] Ethical Considerations The ethical dilemma of filming and sharing every aspect of a child's life. Insights from the Ruby Frank case, exploring the consequences of extreme public exposure and the impact on children's privacy and safety.   [08:46 - 12:54] Impact on Mental Health Discussion on the potential mental health effects of being constantly on display and the pressure to be "camera-ready." The psychological implications of having a digital record of every moment of childhood.   [12:55 - 16:20] Exposure to Public Scrutiny How public scrutiny and online trolls can affect children. The risks of negative comments, exploitation, and the potential for future scrutiny.   [16:21 - 18:30] Parental Responsibility and Boundaries The importance of setting boundaries to protect children's privacy. Amber's perspective on balancing the desire to document family life with respecting children's autonomy and ensuring their well-being.   If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe! You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber:   Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy. Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: "We need to set healthy boundaries with our kids and social media in the sense of what we put online." - Ms. Amber  "A lot of social media out there is rainbows and butterflies. And that's not life. Life is hard." - Ms. Amber "Life is freaking hard. It's like the yin and yang." - Ms. Amber

In this episode of "The ABCs of Preschool," Ms. Amber brings the excitement of the back-to-school season, focusing on the joy and rejuvenation that comes with a new academic year. With over 25 years of experience in early childhood education, Ms. Amber shares her insights and encouragement to help educators start the year with enthusiasm and positivity. Whether you're a preschool teacher, an elementary educator, or involved in any level of education, this episode is a motivational boost to kick off the new school year. Key Highlights: [00:00 - 01:00] Introduction Welcome to the ABCs of Preschool, the podcast for parents, educators, and anyone curious about early childhood education. Ms. Amber, a mom of five and early childhood expert, introduces the episode focused on back-to-school joy for educators. [01:01 - 02:00] The Excitement of a New School Year The unique excitement of back-to-school time for educators. The joy of welcoming new students and meeting new colleagues. [02:01 - 03:00] Preparing for the New Year The anticipation and preparation that come with setting up classrooms and buying new supplies. The magic of the first day of school with students and their little backpacks. [03:01 - 04:00] Reflecting and Setting Goals Encouragement to set personal and professional goals for the new school year. The importance of focusing on personal health and well-being alongside career goals. [04:01 - 05:00] Ms. Amber's Personal Health Journey Ms. Amber shares her own health journey, overcoming challenges and setting health goals. The impact of changing her story and focusing on personal wellness. [05:01 - 06:00] Encouraging Self-Care for Educators The importance of nurturing oneself to be a better educator. Encouragement to find joy, love, peace, and excitement within oneself. [06:01 - 07:00] Classroom Setup Tips Tips for setting up and organizing classrooms to create a welcoming environment. The significance of a well-organized, visually appealing, and pleasant-smelling classroom. [07:01 - 08:00] Structuring the School Day The importance of evolving teaching methods and classroom structures to meet students' needs. Ideas for incorporating new activities like music, sensory projects, and more to enhance learning. [08:01 - 09:00] Personal Growth and Development Encouragement to look inward and set personal growth goals for the new school year. The benefits of making small changes to improve overall well-being. [09:01 - 10:00] Final Thoughts and Encouragement A heartfelt thank you to educators for their dedication and passion. Ms. Amber's hope for educators to have a joyful, loving, peaceful, and harmonious school year.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!  You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber:   Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy. Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: "When we're more joyful within, we can become a better person and then you'll be a better educator." - Ms. Amber "As educators, we give so much of everything to everybody else." - Ms. Amber "You deserve your best life. You deserve a life that you love." -  Ms. Amber

In this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, Ms. Amber delves into the critical topic of "Setting Goals" for preschool and childcare settings. Whether you're a preschool owner, daycare provider, director, or even an entrepreneur in another field, this episode is packed with valuable insights on setting and achieving goals to help you thrive in your business. Drawing from her 25+ years of experience, Ms. Amber shares practical advice on how to turn your vision into reality and maintain a clear direction for your business. Key Highlights: [00:01 - 04:00] Introduction and Background Ms. Amber introduces the topic of the episode. Sharing her journey of writing the book "The ABCs of Preschool." The importance of setting goals in any business. [04:01 - 08:00] The Significance of Setting Goals Quote by Tony Robbins: "Setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into the visible." The role of goals in preventing overwhelm and providing direction. Ms. Amber's personal experience with goal setting in her preschool business. [08:01 - 12:30] Overcoming Challenges as a Business Owner Acknowledging and taking ownership of business problems. Real-life examples of navigating challenges and failures. The importance of continuous goal setting and evaluation. [12:31 - 16:30] Creating a Culture of Goal Setting Encouraging team members to set goals. The impact of goal-oriented culture on employee motivation and business success. Examples of short-term and long-term goals for business growth. [16:31 - 20:30] Personal Goals and Work-Life Balance The importance of setting personal goals for mental well-being. Strategies for achieving work-life balance. Examples of integrating personal goals with business objectives. [20:31 - 24:00] Practical Steps for Goal Setting Tips for writing and tracking goals. The significance of revisiting and adjusting goals regularly. Encouraging listeners to take immediate action by setting their own goals. If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe! You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy. Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: "Create a culture that people come to work and they wake up in the morning loving to go to work." - Ms. Amber "We have to choose the direction of our life. We have to lead our team to the direction that we're heading with our business." - Ms. Amber "Set goals in your business and your personal life and then bring those goals back up to the surface every few weeks to keep you on track." - Ms. Amber  

In this episode, Ms. Amber explores the essentials of planning a hands-on curriculum for preschool and homeschool settings. She discusses the importance of engaging, age-appropriate activities that cater to different learning styles. Learn how to set clear learning objectives, choose suitable materials, and create effective lesson plans. Discover the benefits of the Curriculum Community, a resource designed to simplify planning with ready-made materials and monthly themes.    Key Highlights: [00:01 - 05:51] Understanding Hands-On Learning Definition and importance of hands-on learning in early childhood education. Each child is unique and learns differently. Set clear learning objectives to guide curriculum planning and theme-based learning. [05:52 - 09:35] Planning and Designing a Comprehensive Curriculum Set learning objectives for theme-based projects. Incorporate diverse subjects to meet student needs. Choose age-appropriate activities and materials. Design detailed lesson plans with clear objectives. [09:36 - 16:36] The Curriculum Community Curriculum Community offers ready-made resources to ease planning. Subscription: $8.99/month, free for the first month. Encourage a love for learning with diverse activities like music and outdoor time. Create magical learning experiences and support educators' efforts.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!       Tweetable Quotes: "My personal philosophy is that every child is different and every child is unique."  - Ms. Amber "Lesson plans is huge because if you're just flying into your classroom with nothing planned, then I'm sorry, you're a babysitter."  - Ms. Amber "It's so important to provide our kids with a well-rounded curriculum that they can shine in because you are acknowledging and learning the way they learn." - Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber shares her experiences and insights on keeping the love alive while raising young kids. She discusses the importance of prioritizing your relationship, scheduling quality time, and being present with your partner. Ms. Amber also offers practical tips for maintaining intimacy, getting support, and teaching your children the value of a healthy, loving relationship. Tune in to discover how to nurture your partnership amidst the chaos of parenting.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 11:23] Prioritizing Time Together Recognizing the need to prioritize time with your partner. Scheduling weekly date nights and intentional quality time. Avoiding distractions like social media to focus on each other. Rekindle your relationship by focusing on activities you both enjoy. [11:24 - 12:57] Quality Time Ideas Go for walks and play the gratitude game. Cook dinner together or make a charcuterie board. Exercising together, such as trying CrossFit. Find creative ways to connect and spend time together. [12:59 - 15:52] Getting Support Hiring a babysitter or asking family to watch kids for date nights. Alternate planning dates to keep things exciting. Utilizing teachers or trusted adults for childcare. Realize the benefits for children when parents take time together. [15:53 - 22:49] Being Present and Active Listening Discover and understand each other's love languages. Put away phones and minimize distractions. Make the relationship a priority for a happy, healthy partnership. Emphasize the importance of intimacy and connection in the relationship.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!       Tweetable Quotes: "If you do not spend time with your partner, if you do not have that quality time, you will become strangers and you will have resentment." - Ms. Amber "You have to be intentional in your marriage and you have to make it a priority." - Ms. Amber "It's so easy to look at someone else's life and think the grass is greener over there. But let me tell you it's not, the grass is greener where you water it and you have to make it a priority." - Ms. Amber "You may think, well, I'm taking your time away from my kids, that time away that you're giving to your partner is going to benefit your children a hundred times over." - Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber dives into the crucial topic of "Finding Your Dream Team" for preschool and childcare settings. Whether you're a preschool owner, daycare provider, director, or parent exploring homeschooling options, this episode is packed with valuable insights on attracting and retaining amazing educators. From prioritizing your team to leveraging referrals, Ms. Amber shares practical tips from her 24 years of experience to help you build a dedicated and passionate team that will make your childcare center thrive.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 04:36] Prioritizing Your Team Emphasize the importance of putting your staff first before clients. The analogy of "Happy wife, happy life" applied to teachers and school success. Real-life examples of team-first philosophy leading to long-term thriving childcare centers. The impact of a unified and dedicated team on the program's overall success. [04:37 - 07:35] Leveraging Referrals Asking parents for referrals to find passionate educators. Offer tuition discounts as incentives for successful referrals. Success stories of clients turning into amazing teachers. The value of tapping into nannies, babysitters, and other childcare professionals. [07:36 - 12:21] Competitive Pay and Benefits The challenge of salary caps in early childhood education.  Offer substantial vacation time as a compensation strategy. Adapt school schedules to match local district calendars for additional paid time off. The significance of flexible work arrangements to accommodate staff needs. [12:22 - 13:11] Creating a Positive Work Environment The role of social events and team-building activities in enhancing team cohesion. The importance of staff meetings and dinners for building a strong team culture.  Treat staff as the top priority to ensure long-term success.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber:   Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!   Tweetable Quotes: "I believe the reality is, you do not have an amazing program, right? Until  you have your amazing teachers." - Ms. Amber "Finding your dream team is realizing that your priority should be staff first, then clients."  - Ms. Amber "So when you pay your team, you want to make sure you're paying competitively." - Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber dives into the benefits of fostering independence in young children. Drawing from her extensive experience in early childhood education and personal anecdotes, she shares three key advantages of encouraging independence. Listen in to discover how simple tasks can significantly boost your child's confidence, school skills, and problem-solving abilities. Get ready to learn practical tips on nurturing self-sufficient, confident, and curious children.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 07:11] Introduction to Independence Ms. Amber's observations on different parenting styles. The contrast between overly dependent children and naturally independent ones. The importance of raising confident and self-sufficient individuals.   [07:12 - 10:30] Ms. Amber's Personal Parenting Experience Ms. Amber reflects on her parenting journey and the independence of her children. The role of chores and tasks in building independence. Personal anecdotes about her children's early responsibilities. The impact of independence on her adult children's success.   [10:31 - 14:25] Benefits of Independence Benefit 1: Improving school skills through household tasks. How chores translate to better performance in school settings. Benefit 2: Boosting self-esteem and confidence. Celebrating accomplishments and the role of parental encouragement.   [14:26 - 16:32] Encouraging Curiosity and Problem-Solving Benefit 3: Developing curiosity and problem-solving skills. Teaching children to embrace failure as a learning opportunity. Examples of tasks that promote creativity and exploration. Research findings on the long-term benefits of early independence.   [16:33 - 18:45] Personal Reflections and Encouragement Ms. Amber's pride in her children's independence. The role of parents as cheerleaders for their kids. The long-term benefits of fostering independence.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!   Tweetable Quotes: "We want our kids to not be scared to fail." - Ms. Amber "Our job is to raise wonderful human beings that are go confidently into the world."  - Ms. Amber "Giving our kids chores or tasks, knowing that they're not gonna be done good, they're not gonna be done great, but it makes them, our children feel good."  - Ms. Amber "We want to raise our kids that they, too, can be their own cheerleader."  - Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber shares essential tips on how to get your little one ready for preschool. As we gear up for the new school year, many of you are preparing to send your little ones off to preschool for the first time. This episode is about making that transition smooth and exciting for you and your child. Join me as Ms. Amber discusses fostering excitement, offering practical shopping advice, and emphasizing the importance of practice drop-offs. Tune in for a treasure trove of insights to ensure a confident and happy start to your child's preschool journey!   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 07:28] Building Excitement and Positivity Importance of showing excitement and positivity about preschool. How children's emotions mirror their parents'. Encouraging independence and confidence in your child. The impact of positive talk on your child's mindset about preschool. [07:29 - 09:36] The Power of Involvement Through Shopping Involving your child in shopping for preschool supplies. Tips on budget-friendly shopping for preschool clothes. Encouraging ownership by letting your child choose their backpack and lunchbox. Building excitement through the shopping experience. [09:37 - 10:31]  Using Books to Prepare The benefits of reading books about preschool. How books help children understand what to expect. Recommendations for preschool-themed books. The role of visual aids in easing the transition. [10:32 - 15:00] Practicing Drop-offs The importance of practice drop-offs before preschool starts. Suggestions for practicing with family and friends. Gradually increasing the time spent away to build trust. How practice can lead to a smoother transition on the first day.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!   Tweetable Quotes: "If you are nervous, if you're scared, and if you have anxiety about sending your little one to preschool, they're going to have anxiety as well." - Ms. Amber "We want our children to be confident. We want them to go into a classroom feeling good, feeling excited, feeling like they forget that you even have to go because We're instilling them an independence and a confidence." - Ms. Amber "The quicker the drop-off, the better." - Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber shares her top three tips for preschool, childcare center, and home daycare owners on how to conduct successful tours and close the deal with potential families. Drawing from her 24 years of experience, she emphasizes the importance of connecting on a personal level, adding thoughtful touches, and effective follow-ups. Whether you're new to running tours or looking to improve your current approach, these practical tips will help you build genuine relationships with families and create a welcoming atmosphere that makes them excited to join your preschool community.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 08:26] Creating a Welcoming Atmosphere Connect on a Personal Level. Greet parents and children warmly. Ask open-ended questions, share stories, and find common ground to build a connection. Make your childcare center feel like home. Ensure the environment is welcoming and friendly. Use essential oils or scented candles to create a pleasant and inviting atmosphere. [08:27 - 13:21] Adding Personal Touches Prepare small goodie bags with snacks, bubbles, and stickers to thank visiting families. Present information neatly using branded folders and professional documents. Include an intake form to gather essential family details. Keep your office clean and organized for a positive first impression. [13:22 - 14:47]  Following Up Effectively Send a follow-up email the next day to thank the family and keep the connection alive. Use the follow-up email to address any additional questions they might have. Express gratitude for considering your childcare center with a heartfelt message. Let families know they can reach out anytime with further questions. [14:47 - 17:37] Building Relationships Focus on building relationships by showing genuine care and interest. Make the tour enjoyable for the child to ensure their comfort and happiness. Establish trust by being transparent, attentive, and responsive to the family's needs. Show your dedication to early childhood education to make families feel confident in your center.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway    Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!    Tweetable Quotes: "You want to connect with them right away on a personal level. You never want to come across salesy, ever. You want to create a relationship, a trust, quickly."  - Ms. Amber "A tour is not just for the parents, it is for the child that's there too. You want to connect, you want to greet them, you want to get on their level."   - Ms. Amber "We want to ask open-ended questions so we can get, not a lot of yes or no, but like we want to get them engaged and we want to get them talking." - Ms. Amber "It's all about first impressions. As soon as they walk through your doors, their judgments are all shooting off. And it's how about how you carry yourself?" - Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber dives into the crucial topic of burnout, especially for those in leadership roles such as center owners, directors, and busy parents. She shares her journey through burnout and the steps she has taken to reclaim her health and happiness. If you're feeling exhausted and overwhelmed, this episode is for you. Ms. Amber discusses practical strategies to identify and address burnout, take ownership of your life, and make meaningful changes. Tune in for an honest conversation and actionable advice to help you break free from burnout.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 09:37] Understanding Burnout Defining burnout and its impact on leaders and parents. Personal stories of burnout and how it manifests physically. The importance of recognizing burnout and its root causes. How external validation contributes to burnout. [09:38 - 16:44] Taking Ownership and Identifying Weaknesses The first step is acknowledging that we are the drivers of our lives. Identifying why we overextend ourselves and the need for external validation. Recognizing our weaknesses and tasks that don't bring us joy. The importance of delegating and passing tasks to others. [16:45 - 18:13] Hiring and Delegating The benefits of hiring help to reduce burnout. Working on your business rather than in it. My personal experience with taking a sabbatical and its positive effects. How delegating tasks has improved my business and personal life. [18:14 - 22:56] Prioritizing Self-Care and Scheduling The importance of self-care and its impact on health. Strategies for scheduling time for yourself and your loved ones. The role of sleep and rest in preventing burnout. Creating a morning routine to start the day right.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber:  Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!    Tweetable Quotes:  "We have to admit that we, we are the ones that are driving our life." - Ms. Amber  "As drivers of our life, we have to be intentional how we want our lives to look." - Ms. Amber  "Identifying your weaknesses, the things that do not bring you joy so you can pass those off, give them to someone else that loves to do those things. Take them off your plate." - Ms. Amber  "Work on your business, not in it. Get out of the rat race truly, because once you do, it's life-changing." - Ms. Amber  "If your life is not the way you want it, change it up." - Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber reflects on the swift passage of time and the importance of prioritizing moments with our children. She shares her personal experiences and offers practical advice for young parents on making time with their kids a priority in our busy, technology-driven lives.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 05:42] The Fast Passage of Time Reflecting on the fast passage of time with the kids. Challenges of staying present in a tech-driven world. Importance of cherishing moments with young children. [05:43 - 09:47] Shifting Roles in Parenting Parenting involves guiding children to independence. Parenting role shifts as children grow older. Time with children is fleeting and precious. Phones and distractions hinder being present. [09:48 - 15:27] Practical Tips 1 & 2: Prioritize Family Time Make conscious efforts to prioritize family moments. Speak out loud about prioritizing time with your children. Calendar important events and activities to ensure you don't miss them. [15:27 - 19:21] Practical Tips 3: Being Present And Creating Lasting Memories Put down your phone and give your full attention to your children. Designate family days with minimal phone use. Spend individual quality time with each child. Lead by example to show the importance of being present.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com  Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!    Tweetable Quotes: "Our ultimate job as parents are to train up beautiful, responsible, independent human beings." - Ms. Amber "Time is like an ice cube." - Ms. Amber "You're not going to regret making time a priority because we never know what comes tomorrow. We never know what's coming around the corner. So calendar it, calendar the important things and work around that schedule." - Ms. Amber "The older we get, the things that are going to bother us, we're going to have guilt is all the things that we didn't do right with our kids. So if we can just be intentional, intentional with prioritizing our time with our kids, we will not regret it. And let me tell you, it goes incredibly fast." - Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber shares her thoughts on the power of gratitude and its impact on daily life. She encourages listeners to embrace a spirit of thankfulness, practice positive affirmations, and include children in gratitude rituals to build resilience and perspective.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 05:27] Gratitude and Daily Life Starting the day with gratitude eases the hardships. Gratitude helps combat self-doubt and negative thoughts. Implementing a morning routine with gratitude can improve overall well-being. Practicing gratitude helps manage overwhelming daily responsibilities. [05:28 - 10:33] Implementing Gratitude and Journaling Start the day with gratitude to improve your well-being. Journaling helps put life into perspective and reduce anxiety. Teach children gratitude to provide them with coping skills. Reflecting on progress reminds us of our achievements and growth. [10:34 - 14:41] The Power of Gratitude and Positive Thinking Struggling with self-doubt and slow progress is normal. Returning to a morning routine of gratitude helps center the mind. Speaking positively and believing in your path can manifest change. Seeking help and acknowledging the power of words is essential. [14:42 - 18:12] Closing Segment Speak about what you want to happen in your life. Include children in gratitude practices to teach them coping skills. Start and end the day with gratitude to gain perspective. Make an intentional decision to change negative thought patterns.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber:   Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!   Tweetable Quotes: "We can do great things if gratitude is at our core." - Ms. Amber "If we constantly speak the negative, it's in the universe and I am a firm believer, what we speak is what happens." - Ms. Amber "Life is beautifully freaking messy. But if we can start our day with gratitude and maybe even end our day in gratitude, even in the dark. I think it could help us all."  - Ms. Amber "If we just start our day with gratitude, first thing, if we can go into a spirit of thankfulness, gratitude, I think it eases, lessens the hard."  - Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber shares her reflections as she transitions from hands-on parenting to supporting her nearly adult children. She discusses strategies for managing the summer with young children, emphasizing the balance between structured activities and free time. Listen as she offers practical tips for creating a memorable and manageable summer, including establishing routines, engaging in thematic activities at her preschool, and setting up creative spaces at home. Ms. Amber provides insights on making summer both fun for kids and relaxing for parents, ensuring everyone enjoys the season to the fullest.   Key Highlights:   [00:01 - 05:12] Embracing the Transition and Preparing for Summer Reflects on a memorable Mother's Day and the bittersweet feelings as her youngest child approaches adulthood. She shifts from active parenting to a supportive role for her young adult children. Challenges in maintaining engaging, structured activities during the less routine summer months. Expresses her emotional journey towards the end of her intensive parenting phase.   [05:013 - 11:31] Tips for a Fun and Manageable Summer Establish a Routine: Suggest setting up a simple summer routine that includes daily activities to keep children engaged. Social and Self-care: Encourages playdate swaps and leveraging family support to balance child care with personal time. Create a Creative Space: Advocates for setting up a dedicated space at home where kids can safely engage in creative play independently.   [11:31 - 13:14] Closing Segment The importance of summer preparation with a blend of activities, childcare solutions, and household involvement for kids. Shares a personal message of encouragement for parents to enjoy the summer while managing expectations and stress.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber:   Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!   Tweetable Quotes: "It's really important to also have a routine. And the routine could be really simple. Maybe you just create a summer calendar and it's not back to back to back activities, but I would suggest that every day, at least one thing you have an activity one time a day." - Ms. Amber "It's really important when you are running like just full time with your kiddos to get a little bit of a break and a rest for you so then you can be the best version of a parent that you want to be." - Ms. Amber "Come up with some sort of routine. Kids love repetition. They like to know what's coming next." - Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber shares her personal and professional insights on the crucial role of parents as advocates in their children's educational journey. Drawing from her own experiences as a mother and a preschool owner, she discusses the challenges and rewards of choosing the right educational settings for individual learning needs. This discussion encourages parents to critically evaluate traditional and alternative schooling options to ensure their children thrive.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 05:11] Parental Advocacy in Education The critical role of parental advocacy in choosing the right educational setting for each child. Ms. Amber shares her challenges with her children in traditional schools, underscoring the need for active parental involvement. Urges parents to evaluate if a school truly meets their child's needs, beyond its popularity. The significance of advocating for preschool is to prevent long-term educational struggles. [05:12 - 12:11] Advocating Beyond the "Box" Reflects on personal experiences with the restrictive nature of traditional "box" education systems. Ms. Amber explains efforts to integrate various educational philosophies in her learning centers to support diverse learning needs. The emotional distress faced by children who do not fit into conventional educational frameworks. She shares the emotional challenges of watching her children struggle, advocating for education that adapts to individual needs. [12:12 - 15:14] Embracing Educational Flexibility Encourages parents to seek out the best educational fit for their children. Highlights the importance of adapting educational environments to suit individual needs. Proposes alternative educational arrangements such as smaller class sizes or homeschooling. Stresses addressing educational challenges early to prevent more serious issues. Underscores the critical role of parents as primary advocates for their children's education. [15:15 - 19:24] Closing Segment The necessity of moving away from traditional educational systems that fail to serve all students. The importance of tailoring education to fit individual learning styles and social preferences. Encourages parents to actively seek the best educational environments for their children, despite potential challenges.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber:  Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in! 

In this episode, Ms. Amber explores the complexities of classroom management. She tackles the dynamic challenges and strategies essential for fostering a nurturing and effective learning environment, from transitioning teaching styles and maintaining a joyful classroom to emphasizing the importance of outdoor activities and positive reinforcement. Discover how flexibility, team collaboration, and a focus on positive interactions can transform your educational approach and help every student thrive.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 06:50] Classroom Management Foundations The complexity and importance of managing a classroom effectively. The educator's mood and preparedness significantly affect the students' learning environment. Need to update teaching techniques for modern challenges Some foundational strategies are always essential. [06:51 - 13:52] Transitioning Teaching Methods Transitioning from a strict Montessori method to a more dynamic, joyful educational approach. The importance of setting and maintaining a structured daily schedule to provide stability for students. Challenges faced with team consistency and staff commitment. The need for diverse, age-appropriate activities to sustain children's involvement and prevent disruptions. [13:53 - 22:00] Positive Classroom Environment Strategies Avoid being overly concerned with minor issues; understand that children are learning and will make mistakes. Encourage trust and excitement in the classroom through kindness and a loving approach. Ensure varied and engaging activities to keep children interested and prevent disruptive behaviors. The importance of outdoor activities to combat short attention spans and promote imaginative play. [22:01 - 25:07] Closing Segment Role of the educator as a leader and aligning the team with the educational vision. Work with supportive team members for effective educational plan implementation. Scheduled activities should include a variety of engaging options like music and dance. The crucial role of positive feedback in fostering student engagement and behavior.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy. Thank you for tuning in!  Tweetable Quotes: "For anyone to thrive in an environment, there must be love, kindness, and acceptance, and encouragement." - Ms. Amber "Setting up and defining a clear daily schedule for classroom management to work, you've got to come up with a schedule and you've got to stick with it." - Ms. Amber "We've got to have a daily routine. Kids need routine. They need boundaries. They need to know where they're supposed to go next that makes them feel safe." - Ms. Amber If you're a teacher that, at the end of the day goes to the parents all the time with something negative, you're sweating the small stuff. Giving grace, and love and kindness to each of your students is going to allow them to trust you, to lean into you, and to be excited for what you're offering in the classroom - Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber tackles the challenging topic of technology's impact on our youngest generation. With personal anecdotes and heartfelt advice, she delves into how pervasive technology and social media are shaping our children's lives and mental health. Ms. Amber shares her experiences and concerns as a mother navigating the digital age, offering insights on setting boundaries and promoting more natural, interactive activities for children.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 06:54] Early Technology Exposure High school and young adults facing anxiety and depression linked to technology use. Establish clear family guidelines for technology and device usage. Note the shift from no internet to instant information. Recognize technology's broad exposure to children. [06:55 - 14:48] Advice for Parents and Educators Children are being introduced to technology, necessitating early parental intervention. Parents are encouraged to establish strict rules around technology usage to protect young minds. Social media platforms can affect young children's perception of relationships and self-worth. The importance of real-world interactions over digital engagement. [14:49 - 24:34] Closing Segment Actively reduce the amount of time children spend on devices. Encourage children to engage in outdoor and nature activities. Adults should be role models, reduce technology use, and engage in family time. Recognize and address the potential harms of early and excessive technology exposure.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber:   Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!   Tweetable Quotes: "The amount of likes we get on a post should not be a mirror of who we are because that is fake."  - Ms. Amber "As you move through parenting, and we're all on our journey, I just ask you to be mindful of technology and the consequences—all of us. Social media is fake." - Ms. Amber "People are going on social media to other people's pages and just saying rude comments because they feel like they can say anything to anybody. I don't think it's good for our society." - Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber shares her insights on the crucial skill of delegating, which is vital for entrepreneurs, parents, and preschool owners. She discusses how effective delegation can reduce stress, increase productivity, and lead to significant personal and professional growth.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 05:04] Understanding Delegation The challenges of delegation who prefer personal handling of tasks to ensure perfection. Delegation can alleviate stress and chaos, especially in personal and professional settings. Ms. Amber reflects on starting a preschool in 2001, handling every aspect single-handedly, emphasizing the toll it takes physically and emotionally. The necessity of delegating to maintain control and quality in both family life and business management. [05:05 - 13:35] The Shift to Delegating Explains the visionary's tendency to over-manage without delegation. Identifies how striving for perfection can limit business and personal growth. Shares the shift from hands-on management to strategic delegation. Outlines her transition to delegating, enhancing business success and health. [13:36 - 18:30] Delegation Strategies Acknowledging Ms. Amber's areas of strength and delegating tasks that require attention to detail Importance of aligning team members with the business vision. Trusting team members to excel in their roles without interference. Continual adjustment of strategies to enhance team performance and business efficiency. [18:30 - 00:00] Closing Segment Significant personal health benefits from reducing stress through delegation. How Ms. Amber's preschools and childcare centers have thrived under a delegated system, achieving levels of success she had never imagined. Economic sacrifices offset by long-term team and operational gains. Encouraging listeners to evaluate and implement delegation strategies for improvement.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy. Thank you for tuning in!    Tweetable Quotes: "Delegating is a very powerful tool." -Ms. Amber "I don't believe in micromanaging. I believe if you put someone in a role to do that role, let them shine." -Ms. Amber "Recognize what your weaknesses are, and bring someone in that can carry those weaknesses and become; they're amazing at it and so your business is going to thrive."  -Ms. Amber "You have to have the right people with your vision,  with your philosophies on life, and with the skill-set that you need for your business to thrive. -Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber as she shares her journey through the highs and lows of motherhood, tackling the universal experience of mom guilt. From breastfeeding struggles to the challenges of work-life- balance, she offers heartfelt insights and practical advice for navigating the complexities of parenting. Tune in for a candid discussion on embracing imperfections, prioritizing self-care, and finding joy amidst the challenges of raising children.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 07:05] Reflecting on Mom Guilt: A Personal Journey Reflects on the inevitable onset of mom guilt upon becoming a mother. Shares personal experiences of guilt, including difficulties with breastfeeding and career decisions. Acknowledges the unrealistic expectations mothers often place on themselves. Encourages mothers to embrace imperfections and prioritize self-care to navigate motherhood with resilience. [07:06 - 11:14] Coping with Mom Guilt Mom guilt is common and arises from different aspects of motherhood. It's important to accept and understand that mom guilt is a natural part of being a mom. Adaptability is key; moms should be open to changing their parenting approach based on their child's needs. Prioritize personal happiness and choose the parenting path that brings the most joy and fulfillment. [11:15 - 15:40] Overcoming Mom Guilt Personal struggles with guilt related to parenting decisions and personal choices. Reflects on guilt associated with divorce and the journey towards self-forgiveness. Comparing motherhood journeys is unproductive; each mom's path is unique and valid. Moms must prioritize their mental well-being and learn to let go of guilt. [15:41 - 19:08] Embracing Self-Care and Letting Go of Guilt Taking breaks as a mom is not just okay, it's essential for your well-being. Prioritize your relationship with your partner; neglecting it can lead to feeling disconnected. Setting an example for your children includes showing them the importance of self-care and boundaries. Letting go of guilt is a process; seek support and therapy if needed to work through challenging emotions. [19:09 - 22:53] Closing Segment A message of encouragement for mothers to embrace self-love and acceptance. Reminds mothers to let go of unrealistic expectations and prioritize their happiness. Expresses gratitude for the journey of motherhood and the resilience it fosters. Encourages mothers to navigate challenges with grace and cherish every moment. Inspires mothers to celebrate their role and find fulfillment in nurturing themselves and their children.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe! You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy. Thank you for tuning in!    Tweetable Quotes: "You have to decide what brings you the best joy and what brings you the best way of doing things so you can be the best mom." - Ms. Amber "I think we all have to step back and realize it is absolutely normal and natural at one part of your motherhood journey, you are going to have mom guilt. I think when it becomes a real problem is when that is hyper-focused on and it is all-consuming." - Ms. Amber "If we sit in the guilt and if we let us let the guilt eat us up, we are not serving our kids well." - Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber shares her journey and insights on starting a home preschool, highlighting the low-cost initiation, navigating regulations, and setting up an engaging learning space. She emphasizes the importance of professionalism and curriculum development to distinguish your preschool. Ms. Amber reflects on her personal fulfillment and community impact of this venture, offering encouragement and resources for aspiring educators.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 07:06] First Steps to Opening Your Home Preschool Starting a home preschool is achievable without massive capital investment. Importance of positioning as a preschool rather than daycare for better perception and value. Considerations for setting up in your current living space, with tips for renters and homeowners. Navigating state and local licensing and regulations to ensure compliance and legitimacy.   [07:07 - 10:57] Setting Up Your Preschool Environment Transforming your space into a learning environment with appropriate decor and separate entrances. The significance of a structured curriculum, schedule, and professional presentation through marketing.   [10:58 - 18:13] Thriving as a Home Preschool Owner Strategies for marketing your preschool and establishing a professional image online and in the community. Offering high-quality care to stand out and maintain a waiting list for enrollment. Reflections on financial independence, personal fulfillment, and the impact of running a home preschool.   [18:14 - 19:50] Closing Segment Consider starting a home preschool, with support available through Ms. Aamber's book and website. The transformative joy and satisfaction of balancing motherhood with entrepreneurship in the early childhood education field.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber:   Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!     Tweetable Quotes: "You're going to call yourself a preschool and do not use the word daycare." - Ms. Amber "The more you give your client, the more high-quality care you give your students, the higher the demand will be for your services and the longer, higher waitlist you will have."  - Ms. Amber "You don't have to have hundreds and hundreds of thousands of dollars to open up a preschool or a childcare center."  - Ms. Amber "It's a real business. It's a game changer of a business, especially if you love kids so much, you're sharing your passions and your love, and you're making such a huge impact." - Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber shares her heartfelt journey of adoption, highlighting the joys, challenges, and emotional moments of welcoming her daughter into the family. From the decision to adopt to the emotional reunion with her daughter's birth mother in Guatemala, Ms. Amber reflects on the beauty of adoption and the profound impact it has had on their lives. Join Ms. Amber as she shares the amazing journey of building a family through love and determination. Key Highlights: [00:01 - 03:00] The Heart of Adoption Ms. Amber's personal journey and motivation behind adopting. Addressing infertility struggles and advocating for adoption. Explaining adoption and encouraging people to consider it.  [03:01 - 14:42] The Adoption Process Ms. Amber's dream to adopt sparked by a TV show about Romanian orphanages. Having three sons but feeling the desire to adopt a daughter. The complexities and challenges of the paperwork for the adoption process. Opting for international adoption from Guatemala due to its foster care system.  [14:43 - 20:51] Bringing Gabriella Home Ms. Amber describes the emotional impact of meeting her daughter for the first time in Guatemala. The anticipation and process of finalizing Gabriella's adoption. Reflects on the joys and adjustments of welcoming Gabriella into their family. [20:52 - 28:09] Closing Segment Meeting Gabby's birth mom in Guatemala sparks emotional revelations. Reconnecting Gabriella with her biological family in Guatemala and the significance of those connections. The profound effect adoption has had on her life encourages others to consider it as an option. If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe! You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy. Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: "I think adoption is so beautiful, so amazing. I am so blessed to be an adoptive mom." - Ms. Amber "She's my daughter, like, through and through. And I cannot imagine my life without her." - Ms. Amber "Don't be scared of it. I think adoption is beautiful." - Ms. Amber

  In this episode, Ms. Amber talks about the power of "Leading By Example." She shares lessons from parenting, teaching, and running a business, stressing the value of being kind, patient, and self-aware as a leader. Ms. Amber shows how leading with love can help others grow and succeed, whether at work or in personal life. Join her as she encourages listeners to lead with kindness and make a positive impact.   Key Highlights:   [00:01 - 07:26] The Essence of Lead By Example Relevance of leading by example across various roles, including parenting, teaching, and entrepreneurship. The necessity of mindfulness and positive action for effective leadership daily. The significant impact of leaders' attitudes and behaviors on those they guide, especially in teaching and parenting. A leadership approach centered on love, encouragement, and patience, avoiding negativity and stress.   [07:27 - 13:57] Mindful Parenting Emphasizes leading by example as a continuous, daily practice for parents. Urges parents to reflect on their upbringing and consciously choose positive parenting behaviors. The impact of parents' stress, phone use, and emotional states on their children. Encourages a focus on presence, love, and patience, advising against sweating the small stuff.   [13:58 - 21:09] Goals of Leadership and Parenthood Educators strive for students' success in school, aiming for happiness and enthusiasm. Parents desire their children's growth into well-rounded individuals with kindness and grace. Urges introspection on leadership and parenting approaches, advocating for positive example-setting. Recognizes the need for self-care amidst leadership and parenting challenges.   [21:10 - 25:03] Closing Segment Advocates for leading by positive example, emphasizing the importance of kindness and grace. Encourages choosing battles wisely, focusing on nurturing rather than discipline. Highlights the transformative impact of positive leadership on teams, classrooms, and families. Stresses the significance of self-reflection and self-care to maintain effective leadership.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber:   Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!   Tweetable Quotes: "Leading by example means leading by love." - Ms. Amber   "I truly believe it is our choice to change the past of how we are raised."  - Ms. Amber   "It's a cycle. What we pour into our kids, what we pour into our staff, what we pour into our students will trickle on to others."  - Ms. Amber   "The best leaders are those that are leading by example, positively excitedly with joy. That's allowing your students or your employees to be creative and letting them shine to show up every day with their best versions and accepting them at their best and their worst." - Ms. Amber   "If you're showing up leading with love, kindness, grace, patience, you are instilling that in your little ones. They're going to grow up with that at their core and they're going to feel so secure because they felt your love as a leader."  - Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber welcomes Autumn McKay to discuss the intersection of parenting, education, and personal fulfillment. Autumn shares her journey from educator to author, revealing how becoming a stay-at-home mom led her to innovate early childhood learning at home. They delve into the importance of intentional parenting, celebrating small milestones, and finding balance in life's various roles. Autumn's insights provide a fresh perspective on harnessing everyday moments for educational opportunities and the significance of support in pursuing personal goals.   Autumn McKay is an educator, author, and mother with a deep passion for early childhood education. She has translated her expertise and parenting experiences into valuable resources, including The Ultimate Toddler Activity Guide and The Ultimate 1-Year-Old Activity Book. With a Bachelor of Science in Early Childhood Education and certifications in multiple states, she's dedicated to enriching children's learning at home. Autumn also authored The Full Life Gratitude Journal for Moms, aiming to support maternal well-being. Her passions extend to outdoor family adventures, travel planning, and reading.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 07:31] From Educator to Empowered Parent and Author Autumn shares her transition from educator to author and stay-at-home mom, creating a home-based curriculum. Writes about simple, engaging activities for kids, emphasizing learning with everyday items The concept of "Inchstones" for celebrating personal child achievements. Emphasizing encouragement and interactive learning in early education.   [07:32 - 14:13] The Why Behind the Work: Parenthood and Entrepreneurship Children as the driving force behind Autumn's endeavors. Creating resources for overwhelmed parents. The importance of boundaries for work-life balance. Promoting quality time and individual attention for children.   [14:14 - 20:40] Gratitude as a Gateway to Joy and Healing Overcoming mom burnout with a gratitude practice. The positive impact of gratitude on mindset and well-being. Features of Autumn's gratitude journal for moms. Incorporating gratitude practices within the family setting.   [20:41 - 26:14] Closing Segment Underscoring parents' role in child literacy. Connection to National Literacy Month and its significance. Practical advice for fostering reading habits at home. Introduction of free educational resources for parents.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe! You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   FREE offer for our listeners: The Ultimate Mom-saver Activity Bundle Connect with guest Autumn McKay at BestMomIdeas.com.   Thank you for tuning in!   Tweetable Quotes: "Be intentional with your time. Quality time over quantity time is better."  - Autumn McKay "It is so important for parents to like step up and teach their kids to read at home. It's a huge milestone that they will carry for them throughout their life." - Autumn McKay "We try to start our kids young so that they don't have to learn this lesson like after they've struggled later in life like we did."   - Autumn McKay

In this episode, Ms. Amber marks her 15-year cancer anniversary, sharing her journey from diagnosis to living her dream life. She discusses overcoming emotional stress, leaving an unfulfilling marriage, and embracing intentional living. Highlighting the importance of health, self-care, and finding joy, Ms. Amber's story is a powerful reminder of resilience and the potential for transformative change.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 07:17] The Impact of a Cancer Diagnosis Ms. Amber shares her journey of being diagnosed with cancer 15 years ago. She discusses the emotional stress and the unhealthy coping mechanisms she had before her diagnosis. Ms. Amber reflects on the growth and change she experienced over the years. Emphasizes the importance of living a life you love without needing a significant event like a cancer diagnosis to inspire change.   [07:18 - 15:03] Realizations and Decisions Post-Diagnosis Marks the five-year cancer anniversary as a pivotal moment for personal honesty and decision-making. Discusses the struggle of pretending to be in a happy marriage and the decision to eventually leave. Highlights the importance of not carrying stress to maintain health and prevent cancer recurrence. Shares the process of finding herself and the courage to walk away from her marriage.   [15:04 - 23:09] Transformation and Living Intentionally Ms. Amber speaks about the power of speaking and believing in what you want for your life. Describes how she started living intentionally, setting goals, and pursuing dreams. Shares her journey towards financial freedom, finding love, and the importance of travel in her life. Discusses the significance of cutting out people who do not bring joy and establishing boundaries.   [23:10 - 30:00] Closing Segment Reflects on the 15th anniversary of being cancer-free and how her life has surpassed her dreams. Emphasizes the importance of health, self-care, and prioritizing oneself to avoid burnout and illness. Shares the joy of having found true love and the importance of showing her children examples of healthy relationships. Encourages listeners to live intentionally, celebrate life, and be an example for their children in health and happiness.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with me:   www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!   Tweetable Quotes: "You don't need to ever hear the words you have cancer to live the life you love and love the life you live."  - Ms. Amber   "Start putting your health first. It's not being selfish. If we are not healthy, we cannot be there for our children. We cannot be there for our families." - Ms. Amber   "Our health is our key to longevity, and we have to be the examples for our children."  - Ms. Amber

  In this episode, Ms. Amber delves into the complexities of fear, sharing how it influences every aspect of our lives. Through her own experiences, she highlights the importance of facing and overcoming fears to achieve growth and success. Whether it's parenting, launching a new business, or chasing personal dreams, Ms. Amber offers insights on how embracing challenges can transform our lives. Join her for an inspiring discussion on rewriting our narratives by confronting fear and seizing growth opportunities.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 04:07] Navigating Fear in Life's Journey Explores the universality of fear in various aspects of life, including parenting and business. Highlights fear's dual role: a protective instinct and a potential barrier to growth. Shares a personal encounter to illustrate fear's protective aspect and the importance of intuition.   [04:07 - 13:08] Transforming Fear into Growth Reflecting on past achievements to overcome current fears. The importance of ignoring fear to pursue dreams and goals. Ms. Amber shares her struggles and victories to highlight the journey of overcoming fear.   [13:09 - 15:28] Embracing New Challenges and Goals The transition from teaching children to coaching adults in the preschool business. The challenges and learning experiences of venturing into new projects like podcasting and organizing a virtual conference. Encourages listeners to change their narrative, fight through fear, and take action towards their dreams.   [15:28 - 23:30] Closing Segment The importance of health and wellness in achieving personal goals. Challenges and adjustments in personal health practices, including diet changes and physical activity.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with me:   www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!   Tweetable Quotes: "Fear is not necessarily a bad thing. It could help us. Keep us safe that could keep our kids safe." - Ms. Amber   "We all have a story that we have to fight."  - Ms. Amber   "Sometimes we fail and that's okay because sometimes with the failures, we get to learn and then become out even better."   - Ms. Amber

In this episode, Ms. Amber shares her philosophy of creating a welcoming atmosphere in early childhood education through the Four Senses Rule. Targeted toward educators and daycare providers, she emphasizes the importance of sight, smell, sound, and touch in creating optimal learning environments. From visual appeal to maintaining pleasant scents, incorporating music, and prioritizing cleanliness, Ms. Amber provides practical insights and tips for elevating preschool management.   Key Highlights:   [00:01 - 08:14] Ms. Amber's Philosophy in Preschool Management Philosophy of creating a welcoming atmosphere in early childhood education. Targeted towards educators, directors, owners, and home daycare providers. Importance of visual appeal in creating a positive first impression. Aim to elevate the standard of early childhood education through nurturing and joyful practices.   [08:15 - 14:38] Creating Sensory Joy in Early Childhood Education The significance of sensory experiences in educational environments. Maintaining pleasant scents in classrooms and centers to create welcoming atmospheres. Incorporating music into daily routines to foster a joyful learning environment. Visual aesthetics of classrooms, promoting organization and inviting decor.   [14:39  - 21:56] The Importance of Cleanliness The significance of cleanliness and tidiness in educational environments. Advocates for daily cleaning routines to ensure a hygienic and welcoming space. The Four Senses Rule, as a foundational principle for successful preschool management. Encourages educators to assess their classrooms based on sight, smell, sound, and touch to create optimal learning environments.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with me:   www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!   Tweetable Quotes: "I think we should go the extra mile. We should make our classrooms look really cute, really beautiful, and bring in nature, bring in elements from outside."   - Ms. Amber   "Our classrooms, our schools are an extension of us."  - Ms. Amber   "Cleanliness is so important and that's what elevates you to become the best of the best." - Ms. Amber

  In this episode, Ms. Amber explores the profound impact of the five love languages on relationships and parenting. From prioritizing strong bonds amidst parenting chaos to understanding the power of physical touch, she delves into practical advice and personal reflections. Join her as she emphasizes the importance of regular check-ins, investing in relationships, and aligning with the love languages of others. Love is the answer, and it's time to nurture our connections.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 07:28]  Importance of Love Languages in Relationships and Parenting         Importance of strong relationships amid parenting chaos.         Gratitude for parent role models prioritizing relationships.         Recognizing swift child growth, emphasizing continual love.         Introduction of love languages to identify emotional needs. [07:29 - 15:40] Power of Physical Touch in Relationships         Recognizing the power of physical touch to nurture connections.         Prioritizing relationships based on parental role models.         Encouraging reflection on relationship needs for lasting bonds.         Introducing the five love languages as tools for emotional fulfillment. [15:41 - 21:18] Expressing Affection Through Words and Quality Time         Significance of verbal compliments, particularly in children.         Entrepreneurial perspective on understanding diverse love languages.         Emphasis on quality time, with examples of children seeking closeness.         Advocacy for prioritizing relationships through scheduled time.         Recognition of simple tokens and acts of service in expressing love. [21:19 - 30:35] Practical Advice and Personal Reflection Regular check-ins with the partner about love tank status. Importance of investing in relationships for long-term success. Recognizing and aligning with the love languages of others. Overall message: Love is the answer, invest in relationships.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with me:   www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.   Thank you for tuning in!   Tweetable Quotes: "Your partner hopefully is with you till death do us part. That's the goal." - Ms. Amber   "If we don't pour into ourselves and take care of ourselves, we won't have the energy to give back to others." - Ms. Amber   "Love is not always about receiving, right? Like, true love, at its greatest form is about giving, giving, giving." - Ms. Amber 

In this episode, Ms. Amber shares powerful insights on guilt-free self-love. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, she highlights the importance of prioritizing self-care amidst life's demands.  The discussion touches on the impact of stress on personal well-being and relationships, advocating for intentional moments of self-reflection and gratitude. Ms. Amber provides practical tips for daily self-care routines and building a supportive community.   Key Highlights: [00:01 - 12:32]  Importance of Self-Care Importance of self-care for mothers and educators. Acknowledgment of the need for recharge and rest. The certainty of stress and its effects on behavior and health. Emphasis on the importance of filling one's core with love and care. [12:33 - 22:01] Challenges and Realizations Recognition of the struggle to prioritize self-care. Acknowledgment of societal pressure to always be productive. Acceptance of the need for rest and guilt-free downtime. Exploration of the physical and emotional manifestations of stress. [22:02 - 27:14] Overcoming Health Challenges Shares a personal health journey with various challenges and illnesses. Exploration of the journey towards self-love and self-care. Emphasis on being an advocate for one's health and well-being. Discovery of dietary changes contributing to improved health. [27:15 - 38:54] Simple Daily Self-Care Practices Recommends establishing a daily routine for self-reflection and gratitude. Stresses the power of journaling in goal-setting and tracking progress. Advocates for moving the body daily through activities like walking. Encourages community involvement and finding a supportive tribe.  [38:55 - 42:59] Closing Segment Expresses the transformative power of regular self-care routines. Reiterates the importance of acknowledging and expressing gratitude. Encourages envisioning and affirming positive goals and dreams.   If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with me:   www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.     Thank you for tuning in!     Tweetable Quotes: "Stress manifests in so many areas of our life." - Ms. Amber   "What I was doing is giving so much over and over and over. It's like a gas tank. But when our gas tank is empty, our car cannot move forward. It just can't. So if your gas tank is empty all the time, how exhausted do you feel?"  - Ms. Amber   "Part of self-care is being an advocate. If you are not feeling good, if you have not been feeling good for a long time, if you feel like something is wrong, love yourself, be your advocate."  - Ms. Amber   "Bringing gratitude into your life is self-care. It's love. It's filling yourself up, it is. it's a great moment to just be present and to say thank you for my life."  - Ms. Amber   "I think part of self-care and self-love is finding a tribe, finding a community of like-minded friends who lift you up."   - Ms. Amber

  In this episode, Ms. Amber recounts her battle with breast cancer diagnosed at 31, amidst her hectic life as a mother of four and managing preschool. She delves into ignoring initial symptoms and the crucial role of intuition in seeking a diagnosis. Amber's story is one of resilience, emphasizing the importance of community support, self-care, and listening to one's body. "You Have Cancer" offers a message of hope and a reminder of life's value through Amber's journey.   Key Highlights:   [00:01 - 12:28] Cancer Diagnosis and Early Struggles Diagnosed with breast cancer at 31 while managing a busy life with four young children and running preschools. Began writing a manuscript about a mother with a terminal illness before her own diagnosis. Noticed her first symptoms on her 30th birthday, but initial concerns were dismissed by doctors. Persisted for a proper diagnosis, leading to a biopsy confirming cancer.   [13:29 - 21:00] Treatment and Community Support Underwent a lumpectomy, which did not remove all the cancer, leading to a decision for a bilateral mastectomy. Received overwhelming support from the community, including meal deliveries and help with her children. Shared the emotional and physical challenges of surgery and recovery. Celebrated cancer-free milestones, acknowledging the importance of support and gratitude.   [21:01 - 33:05] Reflections on Health and Intuition Stressed the importance of listening to one's intuition and not ignoring health concerns. Discussed the challenges of accepting help and the shift from being a giver to a receiver. Underlined the value of community support during her cancer journey and recovery. Emphasized the life-altering impact of cancer, leading to a greater appreciation for life and health.   [33:06 -  37:01] Closing Segment Advocates for self-care and listening to one's intuition, especially for parents juggling multiple responsibilities. Reflects on the changes in her life post-cancer, focusing on health, well-being, and the importance of being present. Encourages others to take stock of their lives, stressing the potential role of stress and lifestyle in health. Closes with a message of hope and empowerment, encouraging listeners to pursue their dreams and listen to their inner voice.     If you liked this episode of The ABC's Of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe!   You can CONNECT with me:   www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway   Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.     Thank you for tuning in!   Tweetable Quotes:   "As parents, as women, we tend to put ourselves on the back burner and we put everybody else ahead of us."  - Ms. Amber   "I started really thinking about like, well, I better kind of handle this because also my intuition was telling me that something was not right."  - Ms. Amber   "The amount of support was tremendous because the script was flipped. I was on the receiving end and it's really hard to accept help when you're always the one giving it, but it was a humbling experience."  - Ms. Amber   "There's always this piece of maybe survivor's guilt, like why, why did I make it? And they did not. And that's the thing about life. Like, it's not because one's a better person or more good or more bad. It's just life happens." - Ms. Amber   "Life is a gift, it truly is, even in the really hard and mess, it's a gift." - Ms. Amber