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The Aligned Leadher

"Success without fulfillment is the greatest failure"- Tony Robbins.Listen in weekly to hear success strategies and mindset elevation!

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  1. 207

    How to Build a Peaceful, Profitable Money Mindset

    In this episode, Michele Kostos shares a powerful conversation about money mindset, wealth, and what it really means to step into your CEO identity. She opens up about her own experience with debt, financial fear, and the mindset shifts that helped her go from panic around money to feeling calm, confident, and capable of stewarding wealth well. Michele explains why money is neutral, why many business owners unintentionally block wealth by not trusting themselves to keep it, and how creating a peaceful and profitable business starts with your relationship with money. She also talks about the subconscious beliefs that can keep people stuck in scarcity, the importance of investing in yourself, and why coaching can dramatically accelerate growth. You’ll also hear about: Why money should be treated as a tool, not your identity The subconscious beliefs that can sabotage financial growth How to build confidence in your ability to create and steward wealth Why investing in yourself is not selfish The connection between CEO mindset, peace, and profitability Michele’s Peaceful and Profitable Collective and Driven Mastermind If you’re ready to shift your money mindset and build a business that feels both profitable and peaceful, this episode is for you. money mindset, CEO mindset, peaceful profit, business wealth, financial confidence, women in business, abundance mindset, coaching for entrepreneurs, money beliefs, profitable business, business growth, Christian money mindset Click here to connect with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  2. 206

    Entrepreneurship Is a Marathon: How to Stay the Course Through Tough Seasons

    Entrepreneurship isn’t a sprint — it’s a marathon. In this episode, Michele Kostos shares an honest and encouraging perspective on what it really takes to build a business through the ups and downs. If you’ve been feeling discouraged by slow sales, a challenging season, or unexpected dips in your numbers, this conversation will help you reframe what’s happening and stay focused on the bigger picture. Michele talks about the hidden cost of freedom in business, why short-term results don’t define your future, and how building your capacity for discomfort can help you create consistency and momentum. She also shares lessons from motherhood, coaching, and her own business journey to remind listeners that hard seasons are part of the process — and they don’t mean it’s time to quit. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why entrepreneurship requires resilience and emotional capacity How to stop making temporary results mean something permanent The difference between judging your business and getting curious about it Why consistency matters more than perfection How to keep showing up when business feels heavy Why staying committed to your vision is key to long-term success Michele also invites you to her free Peaceful Profit event on the 23rd — a 90-minute training designed to help you build a more peaceful, profitable business with less stress and more confidence. If you’re in a tough season right now, this episode will help you feel supported, focused, and ready to keep going. Click here to connect with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  3. 205

    The 3 Things That Create a Peaceful and Profitable Business

    In this episode, Michele Kostos breaks down what it really takes to build a business that is both peaceful and profitable — without burning out or sacrificing fulfillment along the way. She shares why success without peace often leads to unhappiness, and why peace without profit can leave your business unsustainable. Michele explains the three core components she sees as essential for long-term success: belief, skills, and systems. You’ll learn: Why mindset and identity impact results more than most people realize The sales, leadership, and coaching skills that help you do more with less effort How simple systems create consistency, confidence, and scalability Why peace has to come before profit if you want sustainable success Michele also shares details about her free workshop on September 23rd, where she’ll teach practical tools to help you increase both peace and profit now. She’ll also be opening the doors to her Peaceful and Profitable Collective. If you’re a woman in direct sales, a coach, or a small business owner who wants more results without more chaos, this episode is for you. Register for the free workshop here: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  4. 204

    Why Failure Is the Fastest Path to Success in Business and Leadership

    In this episode of the Aligned Leadher Podcast, Michele Kostos explains why failure is not the end — it’s part of the path to success. Drawing from personal experience in business and life, Michele reframes failure as feedback, growth, and a necessary step for anyone in entrepreneurship, leadership, or direct sales. You’ll hear why: Failure builds capacity for bigger goals Failing fast and failing often can accelerate success Your identity should not be defined by your setbacks Risk, resilience, and consistency are essential for growth The “cocoon season” of struggle can lead to transformation If you’ve been feeling stuck, afraid of making mistakes, or discouraged by recent setbacks, this episode will help you see failure through a new lens and move forward with more confidence. Topics covered: failure mindset, business growth, leadership development, entrepreneurship, overcoming fear of failure, resilience, risk tolerance, personal growth, direct sales leadership, mindset coaching Click here to connect with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  5. 203

    How Believing in Your People Drives Sales, Leadership, and Growth

    In this episode of the Align Leader Podcast, Michele Kostos shares why belief is one of the most important leadership skills—and how it can directly impact your sales, confidence, team growth, and results. Michele breaks down the five pillars of belief: Belief in your product or offer Belief in your customer Belief in your company or opportunity Belief in your team member or client Belief in yourself She explains why people often don’t need more strategy—they need stronger belief. Through a personal story about her son learning to stand and walk, Michele shows how belief can unlock action, momentum, and growth. You’ll also learn the five benefits of believing in your people: They borrow your belief Your beliefs change how you lead People rise to your belief Belief creates vision Belief creates safety If you lead a team, coach clients, manage a business, or want to grow other people more effectively, this episode will help you lead with more confidence, encouragement, and intention. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why belief is often the real issue behind stalled growth How belief impacts leadership and sales How to create empowering leadership Why high belief helps people rise and take action How to build safety and trust with the people you lead Mentioned in this episode: Peaceful and Profitable Collective Driven Mastermind One-on-one consults with Michele Kostos https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  6. 202

    Identity Work for Entrepreneurs: How to Rewire Your Mindset, Stop Self-Sabotage, and Create Lasting Business Growth

    In this episode, Michele Kostos breaks down why identity work is one of the most important foundations for business growth. She explains how the stories you tell yourself shape your results, your leadership, and your ability to sustain success without constant hustle. You’ll learn: Why mindset and identity matter more than tactics alone How self-sabotage shows up when your success outpaces your sense of safety Why your nervous system may resist growth, even when growth is good How the identity you hold affects the people you attract Why coaching can help you create more income, impact, and freedom Michele also shares a client example of how shifting from “I have to do things step by step” to “I can decide and take bold action now” created a major unlock in business. If you want to build a business that feels aligned, abundant, and sustainable, this episode will help you rethink what’s possible. Mentioned in this episode: Peaceful & Profitable Collective Driven Mastermind One-on-one coaching with Michele Kostos If you want support with your sales mindset, leadership mindset, or identity work, join the waitlist for the Peaceful & Profitable Collective or book a free consult call for one-on-one coaching: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  7. 201

    Success Intolerance: Why We Self-Sabotage After a Win

    Have you ever had a great month, a big breakthrough, or a major win in your business — only to suddenly feel more anxious, second-guess everything, or change what was working? In this episode, Michele Kostos explores the concept of success intolerance and how your nervous system can interpret growth as danger. Michele breaks down why leaders and entrepreneurs often stop doing the very things that created their success, and how that pattern can lead to self-sabotage, stress, and inconsistency. She shares how to recognize when you’re making decisions from fear versus from your future self, and why learning to override your brain is one of the most valuable coaching skills you can develop. In this episode, you’ll learn: What success intolerance is and why it happens Why your nervous system can react to success like it’s a threat How self-sabotage shows up after a win The difference between acting from fear vs. acting from purpose Why duplicating results is the key to consistency How to make decisions your future self will thank you for Key takeaways: Big wins can trigger fear, even when everything is going well Your brain may try to protect you by creating doubt and catastrophizing Peaceful, profitable growth comes from knowing how to recreate results Coaching helps you build awareness, identity, and long-term confidence The best decisions are made from expansion, not avoidance Reflection question: Are you choosing your next move because you want to win — or because you’re trying to avoid losing? If you’re ready to create more predictable, peaceful results in your business and life, join Michele’s programs or book a consult call by clicking here: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  8. 200

    Lead by Example: Why Your Team Mirrors Your Leadership

    In this episode, Michele Kostos unpacks one of the most important truths of leadership: people learn more from what you do than what you say. Using relatable stories about parenting, she explains how “what’s caught, not what’s taught” applies directly to leadership, coaching, and team building. Michele shares why your results, confidence, systems, and identity shape the success of everyone you lead. She also talks about the power of coaching and mentorship, the role of identity work in creating consistency and momentum, and why investing in personal growth can pay dividends in both peace and profit. Michele invites listeners into her Driven Mastermind, an advanced program for women in direct sales who are ready to build stronger systems, become more confident leaders, and create bigger results in 90 days. Click here to get on the waitlist: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos Key themes: leadership, identity, coaching, team building, direct sales, mindset, mentorship, growth, and creating results through consistent action.

  9. 199

    The Mindset of a Top Recruiter: How to Lead, Inspire, and Build a Winning Team

    In this episode, I’m celebrating Episode 200 and sharing what it really takes to develop the mindset of a top recruiter. Whether you’re in direct sales, coaching, or any business where growth depends on people, these principles will help you lead with confidence and recruit with clarity. I break down the key traits I consistently see in top recruiters, including: Leading first, often, and with purpose Taking messy action instead of waiting for perfect Sharing stories instead of trying to convince people Detaching from outcomes and inviting instead of pushing Being a visionary who paints a clear picture of what’s possible Staying committed and certain, even when things feel uncertain Using discernment to work only with people you truly believe in Building big belief in your product, your people, your opportunity, and yourself I also share a glimpse of what’s coming inside my Peaceful and Profitable Collective, where we’ll be diving deeper into the how behind recruiting, leadership, and duplication. If you’ve been wanting to grow your team, strengthen your confidence, and recruit with more peace and purpose, this episode is for you. In this episode, you’ll learn: What top recruiters do differently Why recruiting is about invitation, not convincing How to become more visionary and story-driven Why certainty and belief are essential for growth What to focus on if you want to build a strong, sustainable team Mentioned in this episode: Peaceful and Profitable Collective Doors open July 27–30 Membership is $97/month Includes the Peaceful and Profitable Course with 18 videos and business downloads If you’re ready to take your recruiting mindset to the next level, be sure to join the waitlist and stay tuned for what’s coming next. https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  10. 198

    The Top 5 Reasons Leaders Don’t Develope Leaders — and How to Fix It

    If you’re recruiting, selling, or coaching but your people aren’t multiplying into leaders, this episode is for you. Michele Kostos breaks down the five biggest reasons leaders fail to develop leaders—and what to do instead. You’ll learn: Why low belief quietly hurts recruiting and sales The difference between managing and coaching Why you need a simple, duplicatable system How energy and boundary management affects your results Why selling small repels big thinkers and leaders Michele also shares how to: Build confidence that attracts stronger leaders Create a vision people actually want to follow Develop leaders without burning yourself out Stop carrying responsibility for everyone else’s results Plus, she shares updates on the upcoming openings for the Peaceful and Profitable Collective and the Driven Mastermind. Perfect for network marketers, coaches, direct sales leaders, and entrepreneurs who want to build a team of self-led, motivated, high-performing people. Listen if you want to: Recruit better Coach more effectively Develop leaders faster Protect your energy Grow a stronger, more duplicatable business Resources mentioned: Peaceful and Profitable Collective Driven Mastermind Connect with Michele on Instagram: @MicheleKostos https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  11. 197

    Duplicate Yourself: How to Build a Peaceful, Profitable Business

    In this episode, Michele Kostos shares why “duplicating yourself” is one of the most important concepts for coaches and direct sales leaders who want consistent growth. She explains how recruiting, client results, vision-casting, and leadership all work together to create momentum, income, and impact. You’ll learn: Why building alone leads to feast-or-famine cycles How serving people well creates referrals, loyalty, and growth The difference between being income-focused vs. people-focused Why vision and leadership are essential for duplication How to attract high-level people by leveling up your identity first Michele also shares how her Peaceful and Profitable Collective and Driven Mastermind support women in direct sales and service-based businesses who want more confidence, consistency, and leadership. If you’re ready to stop starting over every month and build something sustainable, this episode will give you a fresh perspective on growth, impact, and fulfillment. Mentioned in this episode: Peaceful and Profitable Collective Driven Mastermind One-on-one coaching with Michele Join the waitlist for Michele’s programs or book a free call:

  12. 196

    How to Stay Motivated- Find Your Right Now Why and Deep Why

    In this episode, Michele Kostos breaks down why motivation and willpower are not enough to create lasting consistency in business, health, or life. She shares the power of identifying two kinds of “why”: Your right now why — the short-term reason driving you over the next 60–90 days Your deep why — the bigger, long-term purpose that pulls you through hard seasons Michele also shares personal examples from her weight loss journey, motherhood, and business goals to show how clarity around your why creates self-trust, momentum, and follow-through. She talks about why many people lose motivation, how to avoid relying on white-knuckling your way through goals, and why visualizing the outcome matters. If you’re setting goals for the new year, growing a direct sales business, or simply wanting more consistency, this episode will help you reconnect to the purpose behind your actions. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why motivation fades and what to focus on instead The difference between a right now why and a deep why How to stay consistent when life gets hard Why your goals should be tied to feelings, not just money or numbers How Michele uses her own why to stay committed to business and personal growth Mentioned in this episode: Peaceful and Profitable Collective Driven Mastermind Call to action: Take time to write out your own right now why and deep why, and share it with Michele on Instagram or Facebook. Click here to to connect with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  13. 195

    Shift Your Identity to Shift Your Results

    In this episode, Michele Kostos dives into one of the most important pillars of personal and business growth: identity. If you’ve been taking a lot of action but not seeing the results you want — or you’ve created success before and struggled to maintain it — this conversation will help you understand why. Michele explains how your thoughts, self-talk, and beliefs about who you are can either keep you stuck or help you create lasting change. She shares how misalignment between your identity and your goals can lead to burnout, inconsistency, and self-sabotage — and how shifting your identity can create breakthrough results in your business, finances, and life. She also shares real examples from her own journey and from clients she coaches, including: how identity affects your ability to create and maintain income why “hustling” can sometimes be a sign of misalignment how to shift from a scarcity mindset into a debt-free lifestyle what it looks like to step into the identity of a peaceful and profitable leader how to use your future self as a guide for your current decisions If you’re ready to stop playing small and start creating results with more ease, this episode will show you how to begin. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why identity is a key factor in creating consistent results How your brain reinforces the stories you tell yourself Why action alone isn’t enough without aligned thinking How to shift self-talk to support your goals What it means to live from the identity of your future self How to get into alignment with the woman you’re becoming Click here to connect with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  14. 194

    Letting go of shame around debt to be Peaceful and Profitable

    This week Michele shares how our mindset around business debt can cause us to work to lose versus work to win. This can affect our peace and our profit. Click here to connect with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  15. 193

    Lead With Relationships, Not Just Sales

    What if the key to growing your business wasn’t better sales tactics—but deeper relationships? In this episode, Michele Kostos shares why the most successful women in business don’t lead with pressure, scripts, or “perfect” strategy. They lead with service, trust, and impact. Michele explains the difference between entrepreneur brain and leader brain, and why focusing on who you help and how you help them creates more peace, more profit, and more sustainable growth. You’ll learn: Why relationships are the real foundation of long-term business success The difference between “turn and burn” selling and aligned leadership Why cold leads can become warm quickly when you add value How to shift from chasing sales to creating transformation Why your business grows more organically when you lead with service If you’re a direct seller, coach, or entrepreneurial woman who wants to grow without burnout, this episode will help you re-center on what truly matters. Listen now to learn how to build a peaceful and profitable business by putting people first. Click here to join the waitlist: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  16. 192

    Feeling Safe to Win: Why Self-Trust Creates Peace and Profit

    In this episode, Michele Kostos explores the idea of feeling safe to win—and why so many ambitious people unconsciously hold themselves back from bigger goals. She explains how success isn’t just about strategy or action, but about creating emotional safety, processing fear, and building self-trust. You’ll learn: Why your subconscious may resist success How fear of failure can create hidden sabotage The two key parts of self-trust: track record and self-talk Why beating yourself up drains motivation and blocks growth How peace with yourself leads to more grounded action, alignment, and profitability Michele also shares why becoming peaceful and profitable starts with how you relate to yourself, not just what you achieve. Click to book a call with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  17. 191

    Why Support Changes Everything in Business Growth

    In this episode, Michele shares the story behind her new Peaceful and Profitable Collective and why support has been the missing piece in so many entrepreneurial journeys. From real estate to direct sales, she breaks down how mentorship, coaching, and mindset work helped her move past self-sabotage, build consistency, and grow a six-figure business. Michele also explains who the membership is for, what members will learn, and how it’s different from her Driven Mastermind. If you’re in direct sales and want more confidence in selling, recruiting, and creating a business that feels peaceful and profitable, this episode is for you. In this episode, you’ll hear about: Why support is essential for business growth Michele’s journey through entrepreneurship The difference between the Peaceful and Profitable Collective and the Driven Mastermind How mindset and skill-building work together What members get inside the new community Learn more and join: michelekostos.com

  18. 190

    Create 10K Today: The Daily Mindset Shift That Transforms Your Direct Sales Business

    Michele reveals the game-changing mindset shift that separates top earners from struggling sellers in direct sales. Instead of setting monthly goals and hoping results appear, learn how to create predictable revenue by focusing on what you can control today. Discover why treating every day like month-end transforms your business and income. Key Takeaways: Results are created in the day, not the month How to shift from scarcity hustling to intentional abundance Why monthly goal-setting fails (and what works instead) The "10K today" framework for predictable income How top direct sellers think about daily actions vs. monthly targets Topics Covered: Direct sales mindset coaching Revenue creation strategies Sales goal-setting techniques Team building and recruitment Avoiding burnout in network marketing Creating duplicatable business systems Resources Mentioned: The Peaceful and Profitable Collective membership (launching June 1st) $57/month for first 20 members, then $97/month Monthly live training calls on sales, recruiting, and lead generation Private Facebook community for members Perfect For: Direct sales professionals, network marketers, entrepreneurs, women in MLM, sales coaches, business builders Connect with Michele here: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  19. 189

    Letting Go of Hustle: Focus on Your Essentials to Hit Your Goals Faster

    Michele discusses why entrepreneurs—especially female entrepreneurs in direct sales—fall into the trap of over-actioning when pursuing big goals. She reveals that the problem isn't doing enough, but doing the right actions. Learn how to identify your essentials, create simple systems, and maximize results without burnout. Key Takeaways Over-actioning trap: Your brain wants you to do everything at once, but this leads to burnout and inconsistent results The real solution: Get intentional with actions you're already taking, not adding more Define your essentials: Identify the 3 things that created your last 3 sales/recruits Simple systems work: Duplicatable processes beat complicated shortcuts Quality over quantity: You may need to work less, not more, to hit your goals Topics Covered Why entrepreneurs over-action when setting big goals How to identify your business essentials Creating simple, duplicatable processes Maximizing sales and recruiting averages Building confidence and control in your business Work-life balance while hitting income goals Resources Mentioned Peaceful and Profitable Collective (membership launching end of month) Website: michelekostos.com Join the waitlist for upcoming offers Follow on Instagram for announcements Perfect For Direct sales professionals, entrepreneurs, coaches, business owners, women in sales, network marketers The Over-Actioning Trap @ 6:35 Get Intentional With Current Actions @ 7:48 Identify Your Business Essentials @ 14:21

  20. 188

    From Convincing to Connecting: The Secret to Recruiting Naturally

    Episode 189 | The Align Leader Podcast with Michele Kostos Learn how to recruit naturally and grow your direct sales team without feeling pushy. Michele shares the mindset shifts that transform recruiting from stalled to unstoppable. Topics Covered: Why direct sales leaders get stuck in sales-only mode How to shift from convincing to connecting with prospects The role of belief in authentic selling and recruiting Leading emotionally vs. transactionally Why "why now" matters in closing recruits Selling from service: the secret to organic growth Vision-casting and storytelling over facts and figures Key Insight: People can feel your belief. When you focus on serving others and getting them what they want, you inevitably get what you want. Keywords: direct sales recruiting, team building, sales mindset, network marketing, coaching business growth, authentic selling, sales strategy Ready to grow? Book a consult call with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  21. 187

    Your Emotions Are Contagious: Why Personal Growth Precedes Professional Success

    Your emotions directly impact your business results. Michele explores why "faking it till you make it" doesn't work, how emotional contagion affects your team, and why processing feelings is the foundation for sustainable growth. Key Takeaways: Emotions are contagious—your energy influences your team, clients, and family Only 6% of communication is words Unprocessed emotions create invisible barriers to action and sales Personal development always precedes professional growth Clean brain work beats external fixes (systems, automation, appearance) Topics Covered: Emotional mirroring in leadership Why your nervous system sabotages your business goals The "spot it, you got it" principle in team dynamics Building a grounded, peaceful leadership approach The value of coaching, therapy, and masterminds for sustainable success Click here to connect with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  22. 186

    Leading vs. Managing – The Key to Building Sustainable Teams

    The critical difference between leadership and management, and why leadership is essential for building scalable, profitable businesses. Key Takeaways: Management (Outdated Approach): Focused on tasks, control, and short-term results Constantly giving ideas and strategies Belief that you're the only one who can do it Telling people what to do; "next-stepping" new recruits Creates dependent teams that need constant direction Caps growth—limited by your time and energy Leadership (Modern Approach): Focused on people and long-term growth Casting vision and developing others Patient, grounded, not attached to immediate results Empowering people to be resourceful Driven by belief in others' potential Creates multiplication through duplicating leaders The Simple Shift: Ask yourself: Am I trying to control? If yes, you're managing. Leadership requires slowing down, seeing the big picture, and asking better questions instead of providing all the answers. Why This Matters: Managing spreads you thin; leadership creates sustainable, peaceful, profitable businesses Leadership compounds over time through multiplication You can only lead people where you believe they can go—mindset work is essential Upcoming Events: Masterclass: April 30th, 11 a.m. PST – "Confident Leadership" (register in show notes) Driven Mastermind: May 4-6 (3-month program, limited to 10 people) Connect with Michele: Instagram | Coaching Consults | Masterclass Replays: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  23. 185

    Why Your Team Isn't Growing (And the Shifts That Will Change Everything)

    If you feel like you're doing all the things but your team still isn't growing consistently, this episode is for you. In Episode 186 of the Aligned Leadher Podcast, Michele celebrates a huge milestone — 10,000 downloads! — and dives into the real reasons your team may be stalling and exactly what to do about it. Michelle breaks down the three core shifts she works on with clients inside her Driven Mastermind: 1. Lead at a New Level (Stop Managing, Start Coaching) Learn the difference between next-stepping new team members and actually coaching them — because coaching IS leading, and leading IS selling. 2. Simplify Your Process Most leaders are throwing spaghetti at the wall. Michele teaches you how to identify what's actually making you money, strip away what isn't, and build a simple, duplicatable system your team can replicate. 3. Prioritize Connection Over Convincing If you want retention, raving fans, and long-term clients, you can't convince your way there — you have to connect your way there. Michele explains exactly how to build relationships that create lasting results. Whether you're in direct sales, coaching, or small business ownership, this episode will help you get clear on your vision, increase recruiting through deeper connection, and finally build a team that grows — with or without you doing all the heavy lifting. Doors are opening to the Driven Mastermind May 4th–6th! Sign up by May 4th to receive a bonus call on May 7th. Click the link in the show notes to join the waitlist now. https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  24. 184

    What actually causes entrepreneurs to get stuck

    Are you solving the smoke instead of the fire? In this episode, Michelle breaks down the real reason why entrepreneurs and their teams stay stuck — and it's almost never what they think it is. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why the reasons people give for being stuck (no leads, no time, no system) are almost always the smoke, not the fire How to identify the true underlying beliefs and thoughts that are actually blocking progress Why 90% of change is awareness — and how to develop that skill as a leader The difference between coaching for symptoms vs. coaching for root causes Real coaching examples: the team member who "had no leads," the leader whose team had low commitment, and the seasoned entrepreneur who stopped booking appointments after a system change How to listen for the fire through the smoke — a skill that separates good leaders from great ones Why one-on-one coaching vs. group programs serve different needs (and how to know which is right for you) Key Takeaway: Thoughts are the fire. Strategy and skills are only 10–20% of the picture. When you get clear on the real thoughts driving your results, breakthroughs can happen fast. Book a free call with Michelle to identify your fire: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  25. 183

    The Power of Follow-Up: Unlocking Your Business's Potential

    In this episode, Michele delves into the critical importance of follow-up in business. She cites compelling statistics that highlight how essential follow-up is for sales and client retention, noting that only 2% of sales happen on the first contact, while 80% of sales require 5 to 12 follow-ups. Michele emphasizes that follow-up is not about being pushy or a burden, but rather an act of service and relationship-building. She encourages listeners to reframe their mindset around follow-up, viewing it as an expression of care and integrity rather than a chore. Michele shares valuable insights on how consistency in follow-up demonstrates confidence and professionalism, building trust and long-term loyalty with clients and team members. She stresses that silence from a prospect does not necessarily mean a "no" – a person's circumstances can change dramatically every 60-90 days, and persistent follow-up can make all the difference. Click here to connect with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  26. 182

    Embracing the Messy Middle: Authenticity as a Path to Breakthrough

    In this episode, Michele Kostos shares a powerful message about the importance of embracing the "messy middle" and being authentic in our leadership and personal growth. Some key highlights: Michele discusses her own journey with postpartum anxiety and perfectionism, and how it has impacted her business and desire to show up authentically. She emphasizes that the world is craving authenticity, and that people will only follow leaders who are willing to be vulnerable and transparent about their own challenges and growth process. Michele encourages listeners to resist the urge to present a perfect image, and instead focus on sharing the tools and mindset shifts that are helping them navigate the messy middle. She explains that this level of vulnerability and transparency is essential for truly connecting with and leading others to their next level of success. Michele offers an invitation for listeners to connect with her further, whether through her Instagram, one-on-one coaching, or an upcoming client graduation opportunity. The key takeaway is that embracing the messy middle and showcasing your authentic journey is not only liberating, but also a powerful way to inspire and guide others towards their own breakthroughs. https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  27. 181

    Don't Stop Until the Miracle Happens

    In this episode, Michele shares a personal story about dyeing her hair and the importance of perseverance. She emphasizes that the difference between success and failure often comes down to that "one more try." Michele encourages listeners to have faith without evidence, to work as if the results need to happen today, and to never give up on their goals, even when it gets tough. She shares insights from her coaching practice, highlighting how the top entrepreneurs she works with are the ones who keep going until the miracle happens. If you're feeling discouraged about reaching your business goals, this episode will inspire you to push through and achieve the breakthroughs you desire. https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  28. 180

    Mastering the Bounce Back: Overcoming Business Setbacks

    In this episode, Michele Kostos shares powerful insights on the importance of "bounce back ability" - the skill of quickly recovering from setbacks and maintaining momentum in your business. She emphasizes the need to avoid getting stuck in "low-value cycles" and instead approach challenges with compassion, curiosity, and a problem-solving mindset. Michele draws from her own experiences, including bouncing back after taking time off for maternity leave, to illustrate how successful entrepreneurs don't let a single "bad month" derail their progress. She encourages listeners to avoid beating themselves up over ebbs and flows, and instead focus on taking action, adjusting their mindset, and continuing to add value. Whether you're a coach, direct sales professional, or any type of business owner, this episode will equip you with the strategies to quickly bounce back from challenges and maintain consistent, organic growth in your venture. Don't miss Michele's invitation to join her Winner's Circle program, where you can get the support and accountability to turn setbacks into opportunities. Click here to connect with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  29. 179

    Serving with Purpose: The Key to Fulfilling and Impactful Business

    In this episode, Michele Kostos shares a powerful message about the importance of operating your business from a place of service and impact, rather than just focusing on profits. She emphasizes that true success and fulfillment come when you are deeply committed to helping your ideal clients and making a meaningful difference in their lives. Michele dives deep into what it means to truly serve others, going beyond just making them feel good in the moment. She shares her own passion for empowering women to step into their full potential, break free from limiting beliefs, and use their platforms to create positive change. Whether you're in direct sales, coaching, or running a small business, this episode will inspire you to re-evaluate your "why" and ensure that service to others is at the core of everything you do. Michele provides practical tips and a special invitation to a masterclass on finding your next 5 impactful clients this month. Don't miss this opportunity to ignite a renewed sense of purpose and passion in your business! Click here to connect with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  30. 178

    The Essential Systems Every Entrepreneur Needs

    In this episode, Michele Kostos shares the systems every entrepreneur needs to build a successful and profitable business: A simple, duplicatable sales process A consistent communication calendar Support systems for your home and business Effective time management strategies Developing self-leadership Michele explains how these systems, combined with working on your self-concept and identity, can create permanent, aligned systems that give you more time, energy, and profitability in your business. Click here to connect with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  31. 177

    Reignite Your Business: Strategies to Regain Your Momentum After a Slump

    In this episode, Michele Kostos shares insights on why business numbers can decline after a period of growth, and provides practical solutions to get back on track. She covers key factors like loss of belief, vision, and effective systems, as well as addressing self-sabotage. Michele offers guidance on evaluating what's working, making necessary changes, and regaining the momentum you once had - or even exceeding it. Whether you're a direct sales professional, coach, or small business owner, this episode is filled with actionable advice to reignite your business and achieve sustainable success. Michele invites listeners to explore her Driven Mastermind program or schedule a one-on-one consultation to get personalized support. Tune in to learn how to overcome setbacks and reclaim your business growth. Click here to work with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  32. 176

    Your feelings matter- Emotional Mastery for Sustainable Business Growth

    In this episode, Michele Kostos shares her insights on the importance of emotional processing and self-care for business owners, especially female entrepreneurs. She discusses how buffering behaviors, like shopping, eating, or overworking, can provide temporary relief but ultimately hinder long-term growth and success. Michele emphasizes the need for leaders to have the capacity to handle their own emotions and those of the people they lead, as this creates a safe and supportive environment that fosters retention and sustainable growth. She shares her personal rituals and practices that help her stay grounded, regulated, and present, enabling her to show up fully for her coaching clients. This episode is a must-listen for any business owner who has experienced the highs and lows of entrepreneurship and is seeking practical strategies to achieve emotional and financial independence. Michele's approach to permanent change through emotional processing and self-trust will inspire you to prioritize your well-being and unlock your true potential. Click here to work with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  33. 175

    The Power of Decisiveness: Unlocking Peace, Profit, and Clarity

    In this episode, Michele Kostos shares a powerful lesson on the importance of being a decision-maker as a leader. She recounts her personal journey of struggling to make a critical decision about her son's tongue and lip tie, and how her indecision caused her unnecessary pain and challenges. Michele emphasizes that being a decisive leader is crucial for building trust and creating safety for your team, clients, and business. She encourages listeners to identify any areas in their life or business where they may be "fence-sitting" and challenges them to make a decision, whether it's about coaching, decluttering their home, or committing to their business vision. Click here to connect with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  34. 174

    Elevating Your Standards: The Key to Unlocking Your Dream Life

    In this episode, Michele Kostos shares her personal journey of raising her standards in all areas of life - from health and business to home and personal appearance. Michele emphasizes that raising your standards is not about judgment or shame, but rather about getting curious about the future version of yourself and aligning your current actions and habits with that vision. She discusses how motherhood has helped her become a more focused, decisive leader, and how that clarity has positively impacted her coaching and business. Michele encourages listeners to take time to reflect on who they're becoming and to make decisions that are in alignment with that future self, rather than settling for the status quo. Click here to connect with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  35. 173

    Creating Certainty

    In this episode, Michele shares how she's been navigating feelings of overwhelm and the need for control in her business and personal life. She discusses the power of therapy, coaching, and brain dumps to create more certainty and safety for yourself. If you're feeling uncertain about hitting your business goals or managing the demands of work and life, this episode is for you. Michele shares practical tips to help you create more certainty and peace of mind. Click here to connect with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  36. 172

    The Power of Over-Delivering: Consistent Growth Through Transparency

    In this episode, Michele shares her insights on how to create a consistently growing business by focusing on over-delivering and being transparent with your clients. She discusses the importance of selling what you can truly deliver, building trust through honesty, and creating raving fans through exceptional customer experiences. Michele also shares her own journey of achieving consistent growth, even while taking time off, and how this mindset has been a game-changer for her and her clients. If you're looking to build a sustainable, organic business, this episode is a must-listen. Book a clarity call now: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  37. 171

    Reaching Your Potential: 4 Key Components for Entrepreneurs

    In this episode, Michele Kostos shares her insights on the four key components entrepreneurs need to reach their full potential. She discusses the importance of having a clear vision, an aligned path, mastering mind management, and securing the right support system. Michele emphasizes that reaching your potential is an ongoing journey, not a destination. She provides practical advice on how to design a business and life that feels sustainable and fulfilling, rather than forcing growth. Click here to apply for the mastermind: www.michelekostos.com

  38. 170

    Overcoming Belief Burnout: Achieving Your Goals with Intentional Gap Goals

    In this episode, Michele Kostos, your host, discusses the concept of "belief burnout" - the tendency for entrepreneurs and high-achievers to lose faith in their ability to reach their goals over time. She emphasizes the importance of setting "gap goals" - short-term, achievable milestones that keep you motivated and on track towards your bigger, long-term vision. Michele shares her own experience of setting and achieving goals with her husband, and how this intentional approach has led to their greatest financial success yet. She encourages listeners to create a plan for 2026 that includes annual, 3-year, and even 5-10 year goals, along with the corresponding 30/60/90 day gap goals to stay aligned and motivated. The episode also highlights Michele's upcoming Driven Mastermind program - a 6-month group coaching opportunity designed to help entrepreneurs design a business they love, increase their income and impact, and overcome belief burnout through accountability, support, and strategic planning. If you're a high-achiever feeling discouraged by the time it's taking to reach your goals, this episode will provide you with a practical framework and community to reignite your beliefs and make 2026 your best year yet. Click here to join the Driven Mastermind waitlist: www.michelekostos.com

  39. 169

    Building a team of Champions

    In this episode, Michele shares a powerful mindset shift that can transform your business - selling to your ideal client, "the one," instead of trying to appeal to everyone. Michele explains how trying to sell to the masses often results in lukewarm marketing that fails to connect with your true champions. Instead, she encourages focusing your messaging and outreach on the specific type of client or team member who is the best fit for your offer. Click here to join the waitlist: www.michelekostos.com

  40. 168

    Reframing Failure- Shifting from Transactional to Transformational Thinking

    In this episode, Michele Kostos, mindset and business coach, discusses the importance of shifting from a transactional, entrepreneur-driven mindset to a transformational, service-oriented leadership mindset. She highlights how the entrepreneur brain can lead to frustration and attachment to results, ultimately hindering business growth. Click here to join the waitlist: www.michelekostos.com

  41. 167

    The Importance of Communication

    In this episode, Michele discusses the importance of effective communication in business and personal relationships. She shares her own experience as a new mom learning to understand her baby's different cries and cues. Michele emphasizes that as an entrepreneur, your communication skills are essential - they create connection and drive results. She encourages listeners to increase the frequency and value of their communications, whether through text, email, social media or one-on-one interactions. Michele challenges listeners to set a goal of 32 "touches" per year to deepen relationships and better serve their audience. She offers support through her one-on-one coaching program and upcoming mastermind for those who need help crafting impactful communication strategies. Click here to join the waitlist: www.michelekostos.com

  42. 166

    Feeling Behind with your Goals

    In this episode, Michele Kostos discusses the common entrepreneurial struggle of feeling "behind" in your business. She explains how this feeling is often just a story we tell ourselves, not reality. Michele shares strategies to reframe your mindset, accept where you are, and focus on moving forward with excitement rather than shame. She encourages listeners to let go of "should" mentalities, connect with their numbers, and work to "win" instead of just avoiding "losing." The key is embracing the present moment and celebrating your progress, no matter where you are on your entrepreneurial journey. Click here to connect with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  43. 165

    Creating Consistency

    In this episode, your host Michele Kostos discusses the keys to creating consistency in your business and life. She shares 3 powerful strategies: Design a business process you genuinely love - when you enjoy the day-to-day work, consistency becomes effortless. Plan to "not feel like it" - discipline is built through small, consistent actions, not just big changes. Get into service - focus on how your work helps others, not just yourself. This intrinsic motivation powers long-term consistency. Michele also opens up about her own journey with postpartum challenges and how coaching and therapy have helped her maintain consistency through life's ups and downs. If you're struggling to stay consistent in your business, this episode is a must-listen! Click here to join the mastermind waitlist: www.michelekostos.com

  44. 164

    Hard emotions and Success

    In this episode, Michele opens up about her personal experience with postpartum depression and how it taught her the importance of having the capacity to hold tough emotions. She shares how accepting and moving through the difficult feelings, rather than resisting them, was key to her recovery. Michele emphasizes that the ability to handle challenging emotions is directly tied to your potential for growth and success in business and life. She encourages listeners to develop the strength to sit with negative feelings, as this will prepare you for your next level of achievement. Whether you're an entrepreneur or a new parent, this episode offers valuable insights on building the emotional resilience needed to reach your goals. Click here to join the waitlist: www.michelekostos.com

  45. 163

    Chasing Vision vs. Chasing Dopamine

    In this episode, business coach Michele Kostos discusses the importance of chasing your vision rather than just chasing dopamine. She shares tips for evaluating your activities and business offerings to ensure they're aligned with your long-term goals. Visit michelekostos.com to learn more.

  46. 162

    The Schedule Domino

    In this episode, Michele discusses how your schedule can be the "domino" that creates a ripple effect of success in your business. She shares how having a schedule you actually want to follow can provide freedom, predictability, and the ability to consistently book sales appointments. Michele also talks about her own experience realigning her schedule after having a baby, and how that has unlocked new possibilities. The key takeaway is that crafting a schedule that prioritizes what you truly want can be a game-changer for your productivity and results. Click here to connect with Michele: https://linktr.ee/michelekostos

  47. 161

    The importance of a clean brain

    In this episode, Michele discusses the importance of having a 'clean brain' as an entrepreneur. She explains how our subconscious thoughts can significantly impact our actions and results, and how coaching can help us identify and shift those thoughts to create more success. Michele emphasizes the value of consistently 'cleaning' your brain through practices like journaling, and how this simple habit can lead to dramatic changes in your business and life. She shares personal examples and client stories to illustrate the power of this concept. If you're looking to boost your productivity, confidence, and outcomes, this is an insightful episode you won't want to miss. Click here to join the waitlist: www.michelekostos.com

  48. 160

    When your company changes

    In this episode, Michele discusses the importance of maintaining a positive mindset when dealing with changes in your direct sales or entrepreneurial business. She emphasizes that your personal brand and the value you provide to customers is what truly matters, not the fluctuations of the company you're associated with. Michele encourages listeners to focus on what they can control - their own consistent effort and beliefs - rather than worrying about an uncertain future. She shares her own experiences transitioning between different business ventures, and how her personal brand and relationships have carried over. The key takeaway is that you are the foundation of your business, not the company, so continue serving your customers well regardless of external changes. If you're feeling anxious about shifts in your organization, this episode will help you regain a sense of empowerment and direction. Connect with Michele at michelekostos.com to get more support.

  49. 159

    The power of focusing on the positive

    In this episode, Michele discusses the importance of focus and how to shift your mindset to look for what's working rather than what's wrong. She shares practical tips like starting each day listing 3 things going well in your business, celebrating weekly wins, and curating your social media feed to be uplifting. Michele emphasizes that focusing on the positive doesn't change your circumstances overnight, but it changes you - and that's what leads to lasting results. She encourages listeners to prioritize personal growth through coaching, as that drives professional growth as well. This is a must-listen episode for any entrepreneur or leader looking to cultivate a more empowered, solutions-focused mindset. Click here to join the waitlist: www.michelekostos.com

  50. 158

    Why we get "stuck"

    In this episode, host Michele Kostos shares powerful insights on how to get unstuck in your business and life. She explains the 3 key areas to focus on: Thoughts about yourself - Shift limiting self-beliefs to empower your self-trust and confidence. Thoughts about others - Adopt a more optimistic, service-oriented mindset in your relationships and sales. Thoughts about your offering - Cultivate unwavering belief in the value you provide to clients/customers. Michele also emphasizes the importance of developing connection and communication skills to fully unlock your potential as a leader. If you find yourself repeatedly hitting roadblocks, this episode will give you the mindset tools to break free and achieve your next level of success. Join the waitlist: www.michelekostos.com

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"Success without fulfillment is the greatest failure"- Tony Robbins.Listen in weekly to hear success strategies and mindset elevation!

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