PODCAST · society
The Ardent Pursuit
by The Ardent Pursuit
A podcast aimed at equipping single men to initiate romantic relationships that lead towards flourishing marriages. Hosted by Josh McGrath & Andrew Haas
Episodes
-
Ep. 72 - Where Have We Been??
After a a four-month hiatus, Josh and Andrew return to The Ardent Pursuit to share what has kept them away. In this completely unscripted episode, they discuss why changing locations does not solve the challenges of modern dating and explore the continued need for men to pursue with clarity,...
-
Ep. 71 - Getting From “First Date” to “We’re Dating”
Why do most relationships fail before they even start? Because men are winging it. In this episode, we break down a better way to pursue a woman—without confusion, mixed signals, or unnecessary drama. From how to ask, to what to say, to where to meet, this is your blueprint for leading with...
-
Ep. 70 - From Single to 7 Kids (Pt. 2)
In Part 2, Ben and Keila share the unforgettable story of their relationship built on intentionality, faith, and a fearless pursuit. From living-room conversations and pastoral counsel to international travel, family gatekeepers, and immigration hurdles, their journey redefines modern dating. No...
-
Ep. 69 - From Single to 7 Kids (Pt. 1)
In this episode of the Art and Pursuit podcast, we sit down with Ben and Keila, a couple married for 22 years, to hear their incredible story of finding a spouse through faith. They share the raw and honest details of their lives before they met, offering practical dating advice for both men and...
-
Ep. 68 - Go Out and Get Her
Drawing from Scripture, real-life wisdom, and hard truth, we challenge men to stop waiting and start pursuing. The Bible calls men to pursue—yet too many stay comfortable and passive while years slip by. In this episode, we expose the cost of inaction and lay out bold, practical ways to expand…
more -
Ep. 67 - Weak Men Go It Alone
Many men will hire a coach for fitness, money, or leadership, but when it comes to dating, men are expected to “just figure it out.” In this episode, we unpack why dating experience doesn’t equal wisdom (“practice makes permanent”), why hormones destroy objectivity, and why independence often...
-
Ep. 66 - Do Something!
Too many men wait for certainty before they make a move. This often leads them to be stuck, frustrated, and stagnant year after year. Today we're looking at indecision and the cost of standing still. We unpack why momentum matters more than perfect plans, why clarity often comes after movement…
more -
Ep. 65 - Vision Matters
Most men don’t destroy their lives—they slowly waste them. Another year starts, intentions are made, and nothing really changes. Why? Because motivation fades, but direction determines everything. In this episode, we expose the silent drift keeping men stuck and explain why vision—not hustle, not...
-
Ep. 64 - Chemistry vs. Compatibility. Know the Difference.
Dating doesn’t fall apart because you didn’t feel enough—it falls apart because you didn’t think far enough ahead. In this episode, we go straight after one of the most ignored ideas in modern dating: compatibility. Not chemistry. Not attraction. Compatibility. We break down eight critical areas...
-
Ep. 63 - Move Out of Your Parents’ House
Why are so many men still living at home and what is it costing them? In this episode, we’re looking at the cultural, financial, and relational reasons behind delayed independence, from rising housing costs and comfort culture to well-meaning but overprotective parenting. We explore why moving…
more -
Ep. 62 - Age Gaps: When Are They A Concern?
We’re diving into one of dating’s most controversial topics—age gaps. Do they matter? Should older men pursue younger women? We unpack when it’s wise, when it’s weird, and how maturity—not age—is what really counts. We break down why people get uncomfortable when older men pursue younger women,...
-
Ep. 61 - Should Men & Women Be Friends?
Should men and women be friends? Here’s the truth: most guys who are “just friends” with a girl are either secretly hoping for more or too scared to walk away. We explore the myth of platonic guy-girl friendships, and the emotional intimacy that usually leads to one-sided feelings, drama…
more -
Ep. 60 - Money Before Marriage?
What do men and women really want and where do marriage, money, and family rank on that list? Today we'll unpack eye-opening research that reveals the differences between modern men and women when it comes to defining success. From financial independence to family life, we explore how priorities...
-
Ep. 59 - How Is Everyone a Dating Expert?
Dating advice is everywhere—and little of it agrees. One "expert" says “shoot your shot,” another says “focus on yourself.” In this episode, we break down why dating advice feels so chaotic and frustrating and what to do about it. From algorithm-driven content to the myth of one-size-fits-all...
-
Ep. 58 - Doomed to Singleness Pt. 2
You can do everything right and still be single and today we're unpacking what to do next. From misused Bible verses to hard realities (like entitlement, unrealistic standards, or fear), we challenge ideas that have snuck into people's thinking and belief systems. God doesn’t owe you a spouse.…
more -
Ep. 57 - Doomed to Singleness Pt. 1
Today we’re challenging the subtle assumptions baked into Christian culture—that if you’re faithful and pure, you will get married. From well-meaning comments to church structures that sideline singles, the message has unintentionally become: marriage = maturity = opportunity. But is that what...
-
Ep. 56 - Five Lessons from Charlie Kirk
Charlie Kirk lived a life full of conviction, courage, intentionality, and faith—qualities that every Christian man should exemplify in his life. NOTE: Recorded Friday, September 12, 2025. Posted Sunday, September 14, 2025.
-
Ep. 55 - Never Compromise
Think you’d never compromise your values in a relationship? Today we’re discussing how even strong Christians end up dating the wrong person, crossing boundaries they swore they wouldn’t, and slowly drifting from their convictions—all without realizing it. This happens when emotions take over and...
-
Ep. 54 - Low-Trust Culture
Is she worth the risk? In this episode, we break down the bold risks every man should take in dating—and the dangerous ones that could wreck your life. From heartbreak and rejection to false accusations and manipulation, we’ll help you tell the difference between courageous pursuit and reckless...
-
Ep. 53 - Why Are Men Remaining Single? (Part 3)
Why are so many men choosing singleness today? In Part 3 of our series, we explore how a low-trust, hyper-individualized culture has reshaped modern dating. From transactional relationships and political polarization to risk-aversion and emotional fatigue, men are navigating a relational…
more -
Ep. 52 - Why Are Men Remaining Single? (Part 2)
Why are so many men choosing to stay single? In Part 2 of our series, we dive into the fears, emotional fatigue, cultural shifts, and personal struggles that are keeping men from pursuing relationships. From broken role models to modern dating confusion and the pursuit of happiness gone wrong, we...
-
Ep. 51 - Why Are Men Remaining Single? (Part 1)
Over 60% of men under 30 are single—many are stuck, frustrated, or checked out. In this episode, we explore the deeper reasons behind the trend: from counterfeit substitutes like porn and hookup culture to the emotional impact of screens and tech. We unpack how modern life numbs ambition, erodes...
-
Ep. 50 - Long Distance Dating
These days, many couples meet online—which often means starting out a relationship long-distance. In this episode, we unpack how to meet someone online with wisdom, verify the real person behind the profile, and build a friendship first. From avoiding emotional traps to planning your first...
-
Ep. 49 - Friendzone
Most guys know when they’ve landed in the friendzone—but few know what to do about it. If she calls you her “best friend,” “like a brother,” or wonders “why can’t other guys be like you?”… you’re probably already there. In this episode, we break down why men get stuck in the friendzone and what…
more -
Ep. 48 - Pick-up Culture is Failing You
Today’s episode dives deep into why pick-up culture is failing you. While entertainment often makes dating a competitive game of conquest and risk avoidance, it ultimately leaves men frustrated and women uncomfortable. The truth is: our dating culture is broken precisely because it promotes...
-
Ep. 47 - Men & Women: They're Different
Today we’re diving deep into what it means to be attracted to the right stuff—not just in theory, but in practice. Historically, relationships were built on duty, sacrifice, and clarity. Men were providers and protectors; women were nurturers and builders of family legacy. It wasn’t about vibes…
more -
Ep. 46 - How to Talk to Women
In this episode, we’re tackling a topic that many guys overthink: how to talk to women. Whether you’re trying to make a new friend, engage in meaningful conversation, or just not come across as a weirdo at a social event, this one’s for you. We discuss how real confidence doesn’t come from…
more -
Ep. 45 - Hygiene Matters
Attraction isn’t just about looks—it’s about the effort you put into presenting yourself. In this episode, we’re breaking down six areas where men can take action that will help them be more attractive. From upgrading your wardrobe to mastering hygiene essentials (because 70% of women say bad...
-
Ep. 44 - Wife Hunting
Many men desire marriage, but finding a wife often feels like an impossible task. Are you waiting for God to simply drop the right woman into your life? Do you believe there are no good women left? In this episode, we debunk common myths that keep men stuck and explore why so many struggle to…
more -
Ep. 43 - Stop Talking. Start Doing
All the planning, dreaming, and goal-setting in the world mean nothing if you never take action. Too many guys waste years stuck in a cycle of procrastination—endless excuses and the “I’ll start tomorrow” mentality. But here’s the truth: life isn’t waiting for you to figure it out. If you don’t...
-
Ep. 42 - Masculinity Is Creative
When setting a vision for your life, creativity might not be the first thing that comes to mind. In this episode, we explore why creativity is essential for men and how it extends far beyond the arts. Whether through problem-solving, business, relationships, or artistic expression, creativity is…
more -
Ep. 41 - The Curious Man
In this episode, we tackle the sixth area of vision for men: intellectual growth. Let’s be honest—most men rarely think about developing their minds (ironically, right?). It's so easy for them to engage in mentally lazy activities like video games, movies, TV shows, social media, or endless…
more -
Ep. 40 - Real Rizz: Men Who Budget
Money isn’t just about what you earn—it’s about how you manage, save, invest, and give. In this episode, we break down essential financial principles for single men who want to build a solid foundation for the future. We’ll unpack ideas like how to grow your income, avoid the get-rich-quick...
-
Ep. 39 - The War for Your Mind
Men don't tend to think about mental wellness or the impact it can have on them. And in a world of endless content and opportunity, something is always fighting for our attention, focus, and time. In this episode, we challenge men to take a hard look at their mental state and evaluate how their...
-
Ep. 38 - Fat and Lazy? Be Better
Testosterone thrives under pressure, and physical strain is essential for men. Regular physical activity isn’t just about looking good—it’s about health, sharpening your mental clarity, and fueling a more purpose-driven life. In this episode, we discuss how men can build stronger, healthier lives...
-
Ep. 37 - All Men Need a Brotherhood
Brotherhood is a vital aspect of a man’s life—built on loyalty, shared experiences, and accountability. Men thrive in friendships where they can lean on one another, grow stronger, and carry each other’s burdens—whether emotional, mental, physical, or spiritual. Yet, in today’s culture, many men...
-
Ep. 36 - A Spiritually Anchored Life
This episode kicks off an eight-part series designed to help men craft a vision for their lives in 2025. In this episode, we explore why a thriving relationship with Jesus is the foundation for everything else-and how to cultivate it in practical ways. From finding quiet moments to engage with...
-
Ep. 35 - Don't Waste Another Year
As 2025 approaches, it’s time to ask yourself: will I waste another year? In today’s episode, we tackle setting a vision for the new year—what it is, why it matters, and how to use it to transform your life. Most men are naturally goal-oriented but struggle with sustained progress. Whether it’s...
-
Ep. 34 - Dating Is Fun but Marriage Is Better
In this episode, we sit down with Luke and Kat Boyle to hear their story of how they met, started dating, and navigated their relationship with intentionality and purpose. Join us as Luke and Kat share the key principles that guided them, not only in their path to a flourishing marriage, but as...
-
Ep. 33 - Stop Making Excuses
Why do so many men today respond to challenges with excuses? From “nobody’s perfect” to “life isn’t that simple,” we’ve seen it throughout life and in the comments. This defensive, excuse-making mindset isn’t just unattractive—it’s unbiblical. In this episode we confront a lingering issue…
more -
Ep. 32 - Boss Girl or Trad Wife?
In this episode, we confront an uncomfortable yet incontrovertible truth: men and women are different. And their differences, rather than being ignored or erased, should be valued and embraced. Join us as we ask the crucial question, has society set up for failure those women who aspire to marry,...
-
Ep. 31 - Baggage and When to Get Out
In today's episode, we take a deep dive into emotional baggage and its impact on relationships. From breakups and loss to mental health struggles and family dynamics, we'll explore how unaddressed personal baggage can weigh us down and shape our behaviors, beliefs, and relationships. Whether…
more -
Ep. 30 - Don't Do Marriage Things
In this episode, we unpack the dangers of couples "playing house," acting like a married couple while in the dating phase. While today's society has made it easier than ever to enjoy the benefits of commitment without the actual responsibilities, doing so comes with some risks—particularly for...
-
Ep. 29 - Red Flags
From the "soulmate" myth to the hypercritical “red flag” culture, in this episode we dive deep into the powerful dating “meta-narrative” that’s likely setting you up for failure. We’ll unpack how social conditioning and viral dating advice have made us more judgmental, often interpreting harmless...
-
Ep. 28 - Dating is Rigged Against You
In today's episode, we dive into the pitfalls of the modern dating landscape and how it often perpetuates dysfunction in relationships. We explore the shift in dating approaches over the last half-century and the impact on young generations—taking a look at the influence of media, the rise in...
-
Ep. 27 - Low-cost Dating
Is money a measure of the seriousness of a relationship? Today we dive into the topic of finances in dating relationships. Every man must learn how to balance romance and responsibility without breaking the bank and we explore the pressure many men feel to showcase their financial worth. We…
more -
Ep. 26 - Who's in Charge: You or Your Emotions?
Emotions are important—but no one should be ruled by them. In this episode, we dive into the pitfalls of being emotionally driven, such as impulsive decision-making and overreacting to minor problems or conflicts. We explore some characteristics of emotional health in relationships, such as...
-
Ep. 25 - Don't Date for Years
In this episode, we tackle a critical problem that cripples many dating relationships: complacency. From fear of commitment to external pressures like finances and family expectations, there are many factors that can often cause men to avoid making necessary decisions. We'll unpack how this...
-
Ep. 24 - The Isolation Trap
Today, we unpack the "Isolation Trap" in relationships, where couples withdraw from community and focus entirely on each other. We guarantee you've either seen or experienced this kind of tunnel vision! It's possible to avoid falling into the trap, and we provide a practical framework to stay...
-
Ep. 23 - Dating Shouldn't Change Everything
We believe that dating shouldn't dramatically alter a person's life. In this episode, we challenge common misconceptions about romantic relationships, emphasizing the importance of being self-disciplined and remembering that dating isn't marriage. Join us as we address the pitfalls of becoming...
We're indexing this podcast's transcripts for the first time — this can take a minute or two. We'll show results as soon as they're ready.
No matches for "" in this podcast's transcripts.
No topics indexed yet for this podcast.
Loading reviews...
ABOUT THIS SHOW
A podcast aimed at equipping single men to initiate romantic relationships that lead towards flourishing marriages. Hosted by Josh McGrath & Andrew Haas
HOSTED BY
The Ardent Pursuit
CATEGORIES
Loading similar podcasts...
Frequently Asked Questions
How many episodes does The Ardent Pursuit have?
The Ardent Pursuit currently has 72 episodes available on PodParley. New episodes are automatically indexed when they're published to the podcast feed.
What is The Ardent Pursuit about?
A podcast aimed at equipping single men to initiate romantic relationships that lead towards flourishing marriages. Hosted by Josh McGrath & Andrew Haas
How often does The Ardent Pursuit release new episodes?
The Ardent Pursuit has 72 episodes. Check the episode list to see recent publication dates and frequency.
Where can I listen to The Ardent Pursuit?
You can listen to The Ardent Pursuit on PodParley by clicking any episode. We provide an embedded audio player for direct listening, and you can also subscribe via your preferred podcast app using the RSS feed.
Who hosts The Ardent Pursuit?
The Ardent Pursuit is created and hosted by The Ardent Pursuit.
URL copied to clipboard!