The Art of Love With Lucia

If your avoidant ex seemed completely done, but you're wondering whether they could change their mind, this video will help you understand what's happening beneath the surface.I explain the psychology behind why avoidant exes come back, after they seemed so certain the relationship was over.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#avoidantex #getexback #exback #getavoidantback

If you're in no contact with an avoidant ex, you may think they want distance and don't care what you're doing, But what an avoidant says they want and what they may secretly want can be very different. In this episode, I explain what may be happening beneath the silence, and why giving them space can change the dynamic.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#nocontact #nocontactrule #avoidant #avoidantattachment

Your ex may seem completely certain they want to stay broken up - but what they feel today isn’t necessarily what they’ll feel forever.In this episode, I explain why an ex may defend the breakup even when feelings are still there, how relief can be mistaken for certainty, and why giving them space allows time, absence, and new information to change the way they see their decision.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#getexback #exback #nocontact #nocontactrule

How do you make an avoidant feel so safe that they finally let you in and don't pull away?In this episode, I reveal the 3 phrases that create the emotional safety an avoidant needs to stay connected and move a relationship forward.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#avoidantex #avoidantattachment #getexback

If your avoidant ex says they want to be friends after the break up, what does that mean? Do they still have feelings for you or are they trying to make the break up easier?In this video I explain why avoidants offer friendship, what’s happening emotionally beneath the surface and the question you need to ask yourself before you say yes.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#avoidantex #getavoidantback #getavoidantexback #friendshipwithex #avoidantattachment

If you're wondering whether your avoidant ex ever thinks about you and if they'll reach out, this episode is for you.I explain why some people stay on an avoidant's mind long after the relationship ends, and why it has absolutely nothing to do with chasing.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#getexback #avoidantex #avoidantattachment #nocontact

One of my subscribers finally received a text from her avoidant ex. Was it a breadcrumb? Did she respond?In this episode, I analyze her journey from heartbreak to healing, and break down what happened after reached out.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#avoidant #avoidantex #getexback #exback #nocontact #getavoidantexback

One of the biggest mistakes people make after no contact is assuming that because their ex reached out, they want to get back together. Not necessarily!In this episode, I'll walk you through a real coaching email from someone who did an excellent job with no contact, but then almost fell into a situationship because she skipped one crucial step.Get ⁠coaching!⁠Download Silenzio App: ⁠ iPhone ⁠OR ⁠Android⁠Read No Contact Secrets ⁠Book⁠Instagram#nocontact #nocontactrule #getexback #exback

What does it mean when your avoidant ex reaches out after months of silence, asks to see you, and tells you they missed you?In this episode, I discuss whether it means they want to get back together or if something else is going on. Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#avoidantex #avoidantattachment #getexback #avoidantcameback

Are you accidentally helping your avoidant ex move on? In this episode, I analyze a real viewer’s heartbreaking story and show exactly how breaking No Contact at the wrong time changed the outcome of her relationship.Her avoidant ex admitted he always runs from relationships. He regretted the breakup, questioned his decision, and even begged her not to leave. But when she reached out and started making him feel emotionally safe again, everything changed.If you’re in No Contact with an avoidant ex, this video will help you recognize the subtle mistakes that can unintentionally make it easier for them to move on - and what to do instead.Get ⁠coaching!⁠Download Silenzio App: ⁠ iPhone ⁠OR ⁠Android⁠Read No Contact Secrets ⁠Book⁠⁠Instagram⁠#avoidantattachment #avoidantex #nocontact #getexback

Have you convinced yourself that you'll never get your avoidant ex back? In this episode, I explain why silence doesn't always mean it's over, how people with avoidant attachment process breakups differently, and why your ex's breakup words aren't always their final words.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#avoidantattachment #avoidantex #nocontact #getexback #getavoidantexback

Just because an avoidant ex hasn't reached out, doesn't mean they don't care or that they've moved on. Sometimes, they're waiting for you to reach out.In this episode, I share 5 signs your avoidant ex may be hoping you'll make the first move, even if they haven't contacted you. You'll also learn how avoidants often signal interest indirectly.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#avoidantattachment #getexback #exback #nocontact #nocontactrule #avoidantex

Does your ex seem cold, distant or like they don't care anymore? What if their behavior isn't telling the whole story?In this episode, I explain the psychology behind why some exes act cold after a breakup and what it may actually mean.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#getexback #exback #nocontact #nocontactrule #avoidantex

Your ex starts watching your stories, liking your posts or quietly orbiting your social media. Does it mean they miss you and want to come back?In this episode, I break down a real-life case study and explain why reacting to your ex's breadcrumbs can be one of the biggest mistakes you make after a breakup.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#getexback #exback #nocontact #nocontactrule #avoidant #avoidantattachment

Are you giving someone all the benefits of a relationship while they still refuse to commit?In this episode, I explain why overgiving to an avoidant or emotionally unavailable person can keep you stuck in a situationship instead of moving toward a real relationship.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#situationship #avoidant #avoidantattachment #situationships

Do you want your avoidant to be afraid to lose you, chase you and put in the effort they used to avoid giving?In this episode I explain the psychological shift that makes avoidants stop pulling away and start leaning back in instead.Get coachingDownload Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#avoidantattachment #makeavoidantobsessed #getexback#getavoidantback #exback

Attention is not the same thing as intention. Social media breadcrumbs can keep you emotionally stuck if you confuse attention with real investment.In this episode, I explain why an ex may keep watching, liking or reacting to your social media after a breakup - while still not reaching out or following through.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#getexback #nocontact #nocontactrule #exback

If you've ever called out an avoidant for pulling away, being distant or sending mixed signals, you may have accidentally pushed them further away.In this episode I explain why calling out an avoidant usually backfires and what to do instead if you want to stop the push-pull cycle.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#avoidant #avoidantattachment #getexback #getavoidantback #attachmentstyle

Your ex may look fine after the breakup, but that doesn't mean they're actually okay.In this episode, I explain why many dumpers experience a delayed emotional reaction after a breakup and why the early version of your ex may not be the full story.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#getexback #exback #nocontact #nocontactrule

If you're wondering what actually hurts an avoidant ex after a breakup, it 's usually not what most people think.In this episode, I break down what really gets through to an avoidant ex, what keeps them emotionally shut down and why trying to "fix" things often backfires.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#avoidantex #avoidantattachment #getexback #nocontact

Why is your ex so distant, cold and shut down?In this episode, I break down what that behavior means after a breakup and why trying to force connection will backfire.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#exback #getexback #nocontact #nocontactrule #avoidantex

When an avoidant pulls away, it's easy to assume they're relieved, unbothered and already moving on. But that's not always what's happening.In this video, I break down what your silence does to an avoidant after a breakup or pullback and why no contact can shift the dynamic.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#avoidantattachment #nocontact #radiosilence #getexback #getavoidantback

My client got his fearful avoidant ex back after 9 long months of no contact.In this episode I break down why she broke up with him, what happened during no contact and why she eventually came back on her own.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#exbacksuccessstory #gotexback #avoidantattachment #fearfulavoidant

Have you finally stopped chasing an avoidant and now you're wondering what happens next? In this episode, I break down the stages an avoidant goes through when they realize you've given up - from internal panic, to loss of control, to testing whether they still have access to you.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#avoidantattachment #exback #getexback #nocontact #avoidantex

If an avoidant dumped you, ghosted you or pulled away, this episode is for you. I'm going to break down the 7 triggers that make an avoidant break their silence and reach out. You'll learn what really makes them feel the loss, why they often come back after distance, and what causes them to finally confront their feelings.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram!#avoidantattachment #getexback #exback #getavoidantexback

A lot of breakup advice about no contact is either oversimplified or flat-out wrong.In this episode, I talk about why no contact is not right for every situation, why "respond so you don't look angry" is terrible advice, and the exceptions to no contact that most people don't know about.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram#nocontact #nocontactrule #getexback #exback

If they were consistent and then pulled away, don't assume it means you ruined it or they don't care.In this video, I break down the "Silence Loop" (the emotions that keep people from reaching out) and what to do so you don't make things worse.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#exback #nocontact #getexback #nocontactrule #avoidantattachment

When an avoidant goes silent, after they've ghosted or dumped you, sometimes they're waiting to see if you'll reach out first.In this video, ex back expert Lucia breaks down the subtle signs that an avoidant is watching from a distance and leaving the door slightly open - without ever saying it directly.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#avoidantattachment #exback #nocontact

If your ex hasn't reached out, it doesn't always mean what you think. Most people misread the silence - and make things worse.In this episode, ex back coach Lucia breaks down what it actually signals and how to handle it without sabotaging your position.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram!#nocontact #exback #nocontactrule #getexback

Every avoidant has one person they can never fully let go of emotionally, no matter how much time has passed. Are you that person?In this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the specific traits and circumstances that make you unforgettable to someone with an avoidant attachment style.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#avoidantattachment #exback #nocontact

Most people think that dealing with an avoidant means explaining, checking in or trying to say things the "right way". That usually pushes them further away.In this episode, ex back coach Lucia walks you through taboo ways people unintentionally make avoidants miss them - by doing less instead of more.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram#exback #avoidant #avoidantattachment #nocontact #nocontactrule

Blocking an avoidant ex feels powerful - but it often does the opposite of what you want.Ex back strategist Lucia explains why blocking can quietly backfire with avoidant attachment, what it does to their nervous system and the new rule you need to understand before you decide whether to block or not.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidNo Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram#avoidantattachment #getexback #blockinganex

When getting back with an ex, people usually say they're going to "take it slow", but rarely do. Dating expert Lucia explains why pace is the deciding factor, especially with an avoidant ex and why talking doesn't actually move things forward.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#exback #getexback

Being patient with an avoidant doesn't save the connection - it often kills attraction.Dating expert Lucia explains why attraction fades when you're waiting, being understanding, and "not putting pressure on it". If you've been trying to stay calm and do the right thing while nothing changes, this episode is for you.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#avoidantattachment #breakups #exback #nocontact #nocontactrule

When you've been dumped, the urge to chase can feel overwhelming, especially if you still want your ex back.Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what actually changes when you stop chasing your ex, and why pulling back often shifts the dynamic in ways chasing never can.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#nocontact #breakuppodcast #gettingyourexback #getexback

You've been in no contact and after weeks - or even months - of silence, your ex suddenly texts you. What does it actually mean, and should you respond right away or wait?Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why exes reach out during no contact, what they're really looking for, and how responding the wrong way can sabotage your chances.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#nocontact #exback #getexback #nocontactrule

If your avoidant ex's actions are confusing, there's usually a very good reason.Dating/relationship expert Lucia exposes the subtle behaviors avoidants show when they're starting to change their minds about the breakup.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#getexback #nocontact #nocontactrule #avoidantex #avoidantattachment

If you're convinced your ex will never reach out, you're probably wrong. Silence after a breakup triggers fear-based thinking, and your brain fills in the blanks with the worst-case scenarios.Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the psychology behind why people assume they'll never hear from their ex, and why that belief is usually not based on reality.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#getexback #exback #nocontact #nocontactrule

If you're in no contact with an avoidant and wondering what they're thinking and feeling, this video will give you clarity.Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares what happens psychologically when you and your avoidant ex both stop contacting each other.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#nocontact #nocontactrule #avoidantex #getexback #getavoidantexback

Have you been feeling stuck, confused or unable to move forward after a breakup?In this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia asks one powerful question that instantly brings clarity about your real feelings for your ex. Most people are shocked by their own answer!Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#breakups #detachfromex #howtodetachfromex#howtomoveon #howtomoveonfromex

There's a predictable window of time during the night when an avoidant is most likely to break their silence and reach out.Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what happens within this particular window that forces them to reach out, and what their text actually means.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram#avoidantattachment #avoidantex #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #dismissiveavoidant #getexback #nocontact #nocontactrule

Are you wondering if no contact even works on someone who's stubborn, prideful and/or has a big ego?Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the internal battle that happens inside a stubborn ex during silence.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#stubbornex #getexback #nocontact #nocontactrule #exback

Your ex isn't reaching out because they "miss you" and it's probably not because they suddenly want to get back together.Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the real reason your ex is contacting you and pouring out emotional confessions.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#getexback #nocontact #nocontactrule #howtogetmyexback #howtogetanexback

Everyone thinks the hardest part of no contact is the silence. Nope! The real danger begins when you finally hear from your ex.In this episode dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why many people mess up at this point and what to do instead, so you actually get your ex back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#nocontact #nocontactrule #getexback

Your ex doesn't just suddenly decide to come back one day. There's a specific chain of events that have to happen first.In this episode, dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how your silence works in your favor, even when it feels like nothing's happening.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#exback #getexback #nocontact #nocontactrule

If you've gone no contact with your avoidant ex and they still haven't said a word, this episode will tell you exactly what's going on in their mind.Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down each stage of what happens internally - from denial to realization - so you can understand why silence works better than chasing.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#nocontact #nocontactrule #avoidantex #avoidantattachment #fearfulavoidant #anxiousavoidant #dismissiveavoidant

Why is almost everyone so angry with people who have an avoidant attachment style? Are they evil or is something else going on?Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what's really behind all the hate and what to do if you're dealing with an avoidant yourself.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#avoidantattachment #fearfulavoidant #dismissiveavoidant #nocontact #avoidantex

When an avoidant wants to come back, they'll first test you - quietly, strategically and emotionally.Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the 3 tests they'll give you and how to pass every one with flying colors.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#getexback #attachmentstyle #avoidant #avoidantattachment #nocontact #nocontactrule

You can't force an avoidant to apologize for hurting you, but you can understand what makes them feel safe enough to do it.Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains exactly what you need to do to get your avoidant to apologize.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram#avoidantex #getavoidantexback #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidant #anxiousavoidant

Dismissive avoidants & fearful avoidants don't have the same reaction to no contact. Understanding the difference will make radio silence less scary.Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how the 2 attachment styles behave during no contact.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#avoidantattachment #getexback #nocontact #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidant