The DadCo Podcast

Most dads were taught to be strong. But what if real strength looks different than we think?This week on The DadCo Podcast, we sit down with licensed therapist, husband, and father James Davis for one of our most honest and vulnerable conversations yet.From navigating grief, anxiety, and burnout to balancing marriage, fatherhood, and the pressure of always feeling like you have to "hold it all together," James gives practical wisdom that every dad needs to hear.We dive into questions like:Why do so many men struggle to talk about what they're really feeling?What do kids actually need most from their fathers?Are dads unintentionally passing their own baggage on to their children?How do you lead your family when you're scared, exhausted, or feel like you're falling apart?Along the way, Dustin opens up about one of the hardest seasons he's faced after a truck wreck, family emergencies, and the pressure of providing, leading to some of the most personal moments we've ever shared on the podcast.This episode is packed with laughter, hard truths, practical advice, and reminders that being a great dad isn't about pretending you're okay—it's about being honest enough to grow.Whether you're a new dad, a seasoned father, or simply trying to become a better husband and man, this conversation will challenge the way you think about strength, leadership, and vulnerability.👇 What was your biggest takeaway from this episode? Let us know in the comments!👍 Like the video if it encouraged you.🔔 Subscribe so you never miss an episode.🎙️ New episodes of The DadCo Podcast drop every week.⏱️ Chapters00:00 – Welcome Back to DadCo!02:45 – Dustin's Crazy Six Weeks (Truck Wreck, Fire & Life Update)05:15 – Meet James Davis08:20 – James' Story: Loss, Depression & Finding Purpose15:05 – Why James Became a Therapist18:45 – Biggest Misconceptions About Therapy24:10 – Lessons Learned from Helping Others28:15 – Becoming a Dad for the First Time35:40 – The Hardest Part of Fatherhood40:55 – What Every Child Really Needs from Their Father44:20 – Are Dads Passing Their Baggage to Their Kids?51:30 – Why Men Don't Talk About Their Feelings57:10 – Balancing Work, Family & the Pressure to Provide1:03:50 – The Healthiest Way Men Can Handle Stress1:09:30 – Fear, Vulnerability & Learning to Ask for Help1:17:40 – "Who Protects Dad?"1:24:30 – What It Really Means to Be a Man1:30:15 – Final Thoughts & Encouragement for Every Dad#DadCoPodcast #Fatherhood #DadLife #Parenting #MentalHealth #Marriage #Therapy #ChristianDad #Family #LeadershipSupport the show

What if being a great dad isn't about doing more... but giving yourself more grace?This week, the guys sit down with Brian Feltmann—pastor, husband, father of six, and a man who's spent years helping families navigate the highs and lows of parenting. With kids ranging from newborn to teenager, Brian brings a perspective that only years of fatherhood can provide.From hilarious stories about life with six kids to deep conversations about patience, guilt, spiritual leadership, and the pressure dads put on themselves, this episode is packed with practical wisdom and encouragement. Brian shares why your kids probably remember you differently than you remember yourself, how fatherhood has taught him more about the heart of God, and why learning to lose yourself may be the greatest lesson a dad can learn.Whether you're expecting your first child or raising teenagers, this conversation is a reminder that your kids don't need a perfect father—they need one who's present.⏱️ Timestamps0:00 – DadCo chaos returns 😂2:30 – Meet Brian Feltmann8:00 – Six kids, ministry, and surviving the chaos18:00 – What every new dad gets wrong31:00 – Why dads are harder on themselves than their kids are46:00 – The moments your children will actually remember1:02:00 – The pressure of raising kids in today's world1:18:00 – Fatherhood and what it reveals about God1:20:00 – Patience, grace, and leading your family well1:22:00 – Advice Brian wishes every new dad could hear1:24:00 – What six kids have taught him about parenting1:25:00 – If your kids remembered one thing about you1:26:00 – What truly makes someone a dad?Support the show

This episode starts off exactly how you’d expect from DadCo—laughs, stories, interruptions, and absolute chaos—but underneath the humor is a conversation every dad can relate to.The guys dive into the realities of fatherhood that nobody talks about enough: pressure, sacrifice, identity shifts, marriage challenges, exhaustion, and learning how to lead your family when you still feel like you’re figuring life out yourself.From hilarious parenting moments to serious conversations about discipline, emotional growth, and becoming the kind of man your kids actually need, this episode is packed with honesty and perspective.Whether you’re a new dad, future dad, or just trying to become a better man, this conversation hits deep.⏱️ Timestamps0:00 – Classic DadCo chaos 😂2:00 – Catching up + recent dad moments6:00 – The hardest adjustment after becoming a father10:00 – Why nobody talks about the mental load dads carry15:00 – Marriage changes after kids19:00 – Feeling exhausted but still needing to show up23:00 – Funny parenting fails & survival mode stories28:00 – Learning patience the hard way33:00 – Discipline vs relationship with your kids38:00 – How your childhood affects your parenting43:00 – The pressure men feel to provide48:00 – Becoming emotionally available as a dad52:00 – What kind of example are we setting?56:00 – Advice for younger or future fathers1:00:00 – Final thoughts + encouragement for dadsSupport the show

This episode starts with laughs, random dad chaos, and stories that spiral completely off the rails—but quickly turns into one of the deepest conversations the podcast has had so far.The guys sit down with Conrad Craft for an honest discussion about mental health, identity, pressure, purpose, and the hidden weight so many men carry in silence. From funny childhood stories to vulnerable conversations about burnout, depression, anxiety, and feeling lost, this episode dives into what happens when life doesn’t look the way you thought it would.More importantly, it’s about hope. About showing up anyway. About learning that asking for help doesn’t make you weak—and that being a dad, husband, or man isn’t about pretending you’re okay all the time.This one is real.⏱️ Timestamps0:00 – DadCo chaos begins 😂2:00 – Embarrassing childhood stories6:00 – Why men joke instead of opening up10:00 – Feeling pressure to “have it all together”14:00 – Mental health struggles nobody talks about18:00 – Anxiety, burnout & emotional exhaustion23:00 – What social media is doing to men28:00 – The danger of isolation32:00 – When life doesn’t go the way you planned37:00 – Learning how to ask for help42:00 – Fatherhood changing your perspective46:00 – The fear of failing your family50:00 – Finding purpose again54:00 – Encouragement for men struggling silently58:00 – Final thoughts + encouragement for dadsSupport the show

This week the dads bring in a special guest—Keegan. He’s not a father yet, but he wants to be one day, and that perspective created one of the most interesting conversations yet.From hilarious family stories and childhood memories to serious talk about masculinity, dating culture, purity, identity, and what young men are facing today—this episode bridges two generations of thought.The guys unpack what it means to become a man in today’s world, why fatherhood matters more than ever, and how serving your family may be the greatest definition of strength.This one is funny, honest, thoughtful, and full of wisdom for dads, future dads, and anyone trying to figure life out.⏱️ Timestamps0:00 – Chaotic intro + Keegan enters the pod 😂2:00 – Meet Keegan: aspiring dad, sports card entrepreneur6:00 – The kidney stone elevator story (unreal)10:00 – Building hustle from a young age13:00 – Fear of judgment, haters & doing your own thing18:00 – Why identity matters more than opinions21:00 – First dad question: funniest thing Keegan’s dad ever did24:00 – Candle sniffing at Target 💀25:00 – What makes Keegan’s dad special27:00 – What he wants to carry into fatherhood one day29:00 – How this generation views fatherhood differently33:00 – Dating apps, commitment & modern relationships38:00 – Biggest challenge for young men before marriage40:00 – Purity, instant gratification & pornography culture43:00 – Is masculinity making a comeback?46:00 – Why discipling your children matters49:00 – Becoming a father: does it change you or reveal you?52:00 – What being a good man really looks like55:00 – Serving your wife and leading your family well58:00 – Final words to future kidsSupport the show

In this episode, the guys kick things off with laughs, chaos, and classic DadCo energy—but quickly transition into one of the most real and powerful conversations yet.Jeremy joins the pod to share his story—one filled with struggle, honesty, failure, and ultimately redemption. From early marriage mistakes to the brink of divorce, this episode dives deep into what it really looks like to confront your past, take ownership, and fight for your family.Along the way, the guys also unpack everyday dad struggles, the pressures of fatherhood, and the importance of being present—even when you feel like you have no idea what you’re doing.This one is raw, unfiltered, and necessary.⏱️ Timestamps0:00 – The most chaotic intro yet 😂1:00 – Meet Jeremy (new dad, 10 years married)5:00 – Weekly check-ins + new job talk9:30 – “What dad skills do you suck at?”11:00 – Learning emotional awareness with your kids14:00 – The struggle of being present as a dad16:00 – Feeling like you have no idea what you’re doing20:00 – Using your kids as an excuse (we’ve all been there)26:00 – If you could outsource one part of fatherhood…30:00 – Why the hard seasons of parenting matter most34:00 – Transitioning from one kid to two38:00 – Jeremy’s story begins: marriage at a breaking point42:00 – Hidden struggles, addiction, and the affair46:00 – Divorce papers… and a moment that changed everything50:00 – Hitting rock bottom and being forced to face reality55:00 – Confession, grace, and choosing to fight for marriage1:00:00 – The long road to healing and rebuilding trustSupport the show

Episode 3 of DadCo is straight chaos… and somehow turns into something powerful 🔥We kick things off with pure dad energy — bad singing, random jokes, and the kind of conversations that only happen when the guys get together 😅But then it shifts…This episode goes from hilarious to REAL.We get into: 💥 The pressure of being a man and provider 💥 Why excuses keep you stuck 💥 Mental overload and how dads deal with it 💥 Real fears men carry but never say out loudThere’s wild moments. There’s unfiltered opinions. And there’s some honest, heavy truth.If you’re a dad, future dad, or just trying to grow as a man — this one’s for you 💪Welcome to DadCo.⏱️ TIMESTAMPS00:00 —  Intro chaos & DadCo vibes Bad singing, jokes, and kicking things off with energy02:00 —  Dad life updates Work, family walks, and trying to stay in shape03:00 —  “Dad activities” & everyday moments Wrestling with kids and real-life dad routines05:00 —  Off-the-rails humor Random jokes, stories, and classic DadCo chaos06:00 —  Sing your favorite song… badly Things get loud, awkward, and hilarious10:30 —  Group chats & meme culture The stuff guys laugh at (that we probably shouldn’t 😅)14:00 —  60-second rant segment Hot takes, strong opinions, and unfiltered energy17:30 —  Real talk begins Excuses vs ownership and stepping up as a man20:30 —  Faith, money & hard conversations Unfiltered thoughts on culture and leadership23:00 —  Dad purchases & hobbies Kayaks, projects, and questionable spending 😂29:30 — Bluey & parenting moments Why kids’ shows hit deeper than expected32:00 —  Wild conversations & big topics Things take a turn… real fast53:30 —  Listener Q&A Dating advice, random questions, and dad wisdom57:00 —  Favorite parts of fatherhood The moments that actually matter59:00 —  Real fears dads carry Mental health, pressure, and honest vulnerability01:05:00 —  Staying strong when overwhelmed Perspective for handling life as a dad01:07:00 —  Wrap up & DadCo energy Closing thoughts, laughs, and signing offSupport the show

Episode 2 of DadCo gets real… fast.What starts as chaotic dad banter (teething babies, sleepless nights, and getting bit by your own kid 😅) quickly turns into a powerful conversation about responsibility, excuses, and what it actually takes to grow as a man.Too many guys are stuck blaming their past — their parents, their upbringing, their circumstances.But at some point… you have to take ownership.In this episode, we talk about:The reality of life with newborns (and the wild moments no one talks about)Marriage dynamics and the classic “I’m fine” conversation 😅Why men fall into unhealthy patternsThe danger of blaming your past for your presentHow making a decision can completely change your life trajectoryThis episode is funny, unfiltered, and unexpectedly challenging.If you’re a dad, future dad, or just a man trying to level up — this one’s for you.Welcome to DadCo.⏱️ TIMESTAMPS00:00 — Chaos, intros & dad energy Kicking things off with jokes, accents, and classic DadCo banter.01:00 — Life with babies (teething struggles) Sleepless nights, teething pain, and getting bit by your own kid.03:00 — Dad life comparisons & funny stories Baby milestones, fingernails, and hilarious parenting moments.04:30 — Internet culture & church content reactions Talking about viral content, church culture, and online reactions.07:00 — Quick life updates & merch talk Busy schedules, short episode, and future DadCo plans.11:30 — Marriage talk: “I’m fine” 😅 Breaking down what it really means when your wife says she’s fine.16:00 — The real conversation begins What would you say to a man blaming his upbringing?17:30 — Excuses vs decisions Why blaming your past keeps you stuck.18:30 — Taking ownership of your life The power of making a decision to change your trajectory.19:30 — Hard truths (no excuses) Calling out unhealthy patterns and avoiding responsibility.21:00 — Wrapping up & DadCo energy Closing thoughts, laughs, and signing off.Support the show

DadCo Episode 1 is officially here.In this episode, we dive into the real conversation around modern fatherhood — the pressure, the isolation, the expectations, and the responsibility that comes with leading a family.Too many dads feel like they’re supposed to “just handle it.”No support. No outlet. No community.We’re changing that.In this episode, we talk about:- Why so many dads feel alone- The silent pressure men carry- Faith, responsibility, and leading your family well- The importance of brotherhood- Why vulnerability is strength — not weaknessThis isn’t a highlight reel version of fatherhood.This is the real version.If you're a dad, future dad, husband, or just a man trying to grow — this conversation is for you.Welcome to DadCo.⏱️ TIMESTAMPS ⬇️00:00 – Intro03:45 – The hidden pressure on dads08:20 – Why men don’t talk about what they’re carrying14:10 – Fatherhood expectations vs reality19:30 – Faith and leadership inside the home24:15 – The power of brotherhood29:40 – Why community changes everything34:00 – What DadCo is buildingSupport the show

Welcome to the very first episode of the DadCo Podcast — where the laughs are loud, the stories are real, and the mission is simple: build a community where dads feel seen, heard, and encouraged.In this pilot episode, Dustin and Thomas introduce the heart behind DadCo, share how their friendship began, and explain why they believe dads need a stronger voice and community. From hilarious banter to deeply personal testimony, this episode sets the tone for everything to come.Pull up a chair — the DadCo community starts now.Episode Timestamps00:00 — Cold open & chaotic introductionsThe guys kick things off with jokes, football talk, and classic first-episode energy.05:45 — Why DadCo existsThe mission behind the podcast and why dads need encouragement, connection, and representation.07:00 — Building a dad communityHow listeners can be involved, future guest plans, and the vision for real conversations with real people.10:30 — From couch to garageWhy the show moved to the garage and how the DadCo vibe was born.17:45 — Dustin’s story beginsAdoption, early childhood challenges, and growing up in a complex environment.20:30 — Struggles, addiction, and transformationA powerful turning point that reshaped Dustin’s life and faith journey.22:30 — Moving to Texas & meeting ThomasHow the hosts met and the friendship that sparked the podcast idea.25:00 — The heart for dads (and future dads)Encouraging fathers, hearing different perspectives, and creating space for real conversations.32:00 — DadCo merch & big plansMerch, community vision, and the future of the podcast.33:30 — Closing laughs & what’s nextFinal thoughts and a preview of what’s coming.Real stories. Real friendship. Real dad community.Welcome to DadCo.Support the show