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The Dance

by Gabriel and Bethany Hudelson

Once upon a time, two homeschool sweethearts shared their first kiss on their wedding day, and launched into the lifelong dance of marriage. Join Gabriel and Bethany Hudelson as they discuss love, marriage, patriarchy, submission, abuse, purity culture, deconstruction, parenting, sex, forgiveness, and so much more. Through it all, you will see that the only music that can keep this dance flowing is the faithfulness of Jesus Christ.http://gabrielhudelson.com

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Episodes

  1. Ep. 16: The Marriage Bed, Pt. 4

    Gabriel and Bethany continue to explore the Christian view of sex as a joyous gift of God for the married couple. Join us for the livestream every other Tuesday at 5 PM AZ: https://x.com/gabrielhudelson https://youtube.com/@gabriel_hudelson http://gabrielhudelson.com

  2. Ep. 15: The Marriage Bed, Pt. 3

    Gabriel and Bethany begin the construction of a Biblical view of sex, discussing how God designed sex to be contained within marriage, to get better with time, and to derive satisfaction from knowledge- not novelty. Join us for the livestream every Tuesday at 5 PM AZ…

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  3. Ep. 14: The Marriage Bed, Pt. 2

    Is marriage just a recipe for a tired and boring sex life? Some people sure seem to think so. And if sex within marriage is really only happening twice a month, they have a reason to think so! But is this the way it has to be? Join us for the livestream every other Tuesday at 5 PM AZ:...

  4. Ep. 13: The Marriage Bed, Pt. 1

    Gabriel and Bethany finally get around to talking about sex. There are a lot of lies being propagated in modern culture, where sex is treated as little more than a legal drug addiction. But what if it is something more? What if it is supposed to be a dance? Join us for the livestream every…

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  5. Ep. 12: Keeping Your First Love

    Gabriel and Bethany discuss personal piety, keeping Jesus first, and preserving a strong foundation in your marriage. Join us for the livestream every other Tuesday at 5 PM AZ: https://x.com/gabrielhudelson https://youtube.com/@gabriel_hudelson http://gabrielhudelson.com

  6. Ep. 11: REACTION: Marriage Tropes Edition

    In this lighthearted reaction episode, Gabriel and Bethany react to common catchphrases and stereotypes like "she's the boss," "happy wife, happy life," "woman, make me a sandwich," and more. Join us for the livestream every Tuesday at 5 PM AZ: https://x.com/gabrielhudelson...

  7. Ep. 10: More About the Benjamins

    Gabriel and Bethany take this podcast to the bank, with more discussions about the financial side of the marriage life. We discuss husbands providing clear leadership, what wives are supposed to do when they don’t like their husband’s decision, how Christians should rest in the provision of God,...

  8. Ep. 9: All About the Benjamins

    Gabriel and Bethany get down to the dollars and cents of family finances. Debt, renting vs. having a mortgage, Dave Ramsey, and provident patriarchy all make an appearance. Join us for the livestream every Tuesday at 5 PM AZ: https://x.com/gabrielhudelson https://youtube.com/@gabriel_hudelson...

  9. Ep. 8: Modest is… Hottest?

    Gabriel and Bethany discuss the controversial topic of modesty. Is it really just a heart issue? What about legalism? Everyone has a fiery opinion on this one, so bring your rotten vegetables! Join us for the livestream every Tuesday at 5 PM AZ: https://x.com/gabrielhudelson...

  10. Ep. 7: Communication

    Gabriel and Bethany discuss communication- one of the primary sources both of conflict and of harmony within a marriage. Join us for the livestream every Tuesday at 5 PM AZ: https://x.com/gabrielhudelson https://youtube.com/@gabriel_hudelson http://gabrielhudelson.com

  11. Ep. 6: Purity Culture

    Gabriel and Bethany discuss Biblical principles of courtship and dating, the pros and cons of “purity culture,” and how to manage expectations when looking for a spouse. Join us for the livestream every Tuesday at 5 PM AZ: https://x.com/gabrielhudelson https://youtube.com/@gabriel_hudelson...

  12. Ep. 5: The Mating Dance

    Gabriel and Bethany discuss courtship/dating, singleness, finding a spouse, and more. Join us for the livestream every Tuesday at 5 PM AZ: https://x.com/gabrielhudelson https://youtube.com/@gabriel_hudelson http://gabrielhudelson.com

  13. Ep. 4: A House Divided

    Gabriel and Bethany walk through the next few years of their marriage, recounting the journey from hyper-patriarchy to a kind of egalitarian safe distance, and the lessons that they learned along the way. Join us for the livestream every Tuesday at 5 PM AZ: https://x.com/gabrielhudelson...

  14. Ep. 3: My Years as a Tyrant

    In this episode we give a very raw recounting of my failures as an over-zealous patriarch in the first years of our marriage, and the painful fallout that resulted. Join us for the livestream every Saturday: https://x.com/gabrielhudelson https://youtube.com/@gabriel_hudelson...

  15. Ep. 2: Our Love Story, Pt. 2

    We continue walking through our love story, telling stories and discussing lessons learned through our courtship, engagement, and the early years of our marriage. Join us for the livestream every Saturday: https://x.com/gabrielhudelson https://youtube.com/@gabriel_hudelson http://gabrielhudelson.com

  16. Ep. 1: Our Love Story, Pt. 1

    Gabriel Hudelson and his wife Bethany discuss being homeschool sweethearts and going through the courtship process, exploring memories, trials, lessons learned, and joys shared. Join us for the livestream every Saturday: https://x.com/gabrielhudelson https://youtube.com/@gabriel_hudelson...

  17. Welcome to The Dance

    Hi there! Welcome to The Dance. We’re glad you’re here. Here’s a brief introduction to the podcast- and we’ll see you in the following episodes! http://gabrielhudelson.com

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Once upon a time, two homeschool sweethearts shared their first kiss on their wedding day, and launched into the lifelong dance of marriage. Join Gabriel and Bethany Hudelson as they discuss love, marriage, patriarchy, submission, abuse, purity culture, deconstruction, parenting, sex, forgiveness, and so much more. Through it all, you will see that the only music that can keep this dance flowing is the faithfulness of Jesus Christ.http://gabrielhudelson.com

HOSTED BY

Gabriel and Bethany Hudelson

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How many episodes does The Dance have?

The Dance currently has 17 episodes available on PodParley. New episodes are automatically indexed when they're published to the podcast feed.

What is The Dance about?

Once upon a time, two homeschool sweethearts shared their first kiss on their wedding day, and launched into the lifelong dance of marriage. Join Gabriel and Bethany Hudelson as they discuss love, marriage, patriarchy, submission, abuse, purity culture, deconstruction, parenting, sex, forgiveness,...

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The Dance has 17 episodes. Check the episode list to see recent publication dates and frequency.

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The Dance is created and hosted by Gabriel and Bethany Hudelson.
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